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@Kay_nashia333
@Kay_nashia333 14 минут бұрын
24:00 Gemini 🎀💕♊️
@123cillitbang
@123cillitbang 6 сағат бұрын
13:38 mins onwards. Yes! 20:30. 2741- OH. Good point. 28:26 Yes! Y
@bryanneal5402
@bryanneal5402 6 сағат бұрын
Nice Podcast im a guy i like it the podcast 💪🏿keep it up the good work
@dannymurray5715
@dannymurray5715 13 сағат бұрын
It is in a womans genes to exploit men so stop trying to be controversial. It is only the nice guys who have to experience it, the simps, the well meaning, and the white knights of this world. A man with confidence or arrogance will not see this behavior.
@johnnymonge8987
@johnnymonge8987 14 сағат бұрын
kzbin.infovideos
@pmirv6884
@pmirv6884 15 сағат бұрын
Had a female friends for years and even ended up friends with one of her boyfriends and still am, even though they are not together anymore. There is no physical attraction to her though. The only problem has been jealousy from girlfriends who basically believe she is hoping for more, which after 12 years has not been the case.
@dannymurray5715
@dannymurray5715 16 сағат бұрын
The problem with simps is that it drives their love interests in the opposite direction. Who would want females as friends anyway? What is there to talk about when there's always emotional baggage involved? Many will rant about how bad their ex's treated them, then go off and have another one night encounter with them. Remember a male friend is there for their purpose of being used for a free life and to be mugged off. Females are conditioned to be self centred. It is what it is. And then relationship wise, at the end of the day most females are a hindrance for the man who wants to better himself. They want to spend all the money but complain that you are never there when you are out making it. There will always be more questions than answers.
@ball-rf6zf
@ball-rf6zf 14 сағат бұрын
They are not here for that ⬆️ They are here to vent over their past fkups. It’s not in line with their narrative. They won’t want to know!
@tjay5178
@tjay5178 22 сағат бұрын
It’s never too late for that glass bottle💥
@bryanneal5402
@bryanneal5402 Күн бұрын
Im a guy and i understand you
@bryanneal5402
@bryanneal5402 Күн бұрын
Whats ur paypal
@bryanneal5402
@bryanneal5402 Күн бұрын
Nice content💪🏿im a guy
@dannymurray5715
@dannymurray5715 Күн бұрын
I always pay for everything on dates just to see if they offer to buy a drink back or not, or ask whether to split the restaurant bill or not. What has an entitled female got to bring to the table? Probably nothing at all, except baggage.
@asmrearthchild3315
@asmrearthchild3315 Күн бұрын
As a gay woman, I can confirm this applies to women with toxic masculinity
@Lilac_Pearl
@Lilac_Pearl Күн бұрын
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@deboraah7173
@deboraah7173 Күн бұрын
Thank you for talking about this topic, I’ve had to cut a lot of male friends off due to their false intentions. As soon as I broke up with my now ex they showed their true colours. In regards to SA it’s really upsetting how common it is for your close friends to be your abuser 💔
@dannymurray5715
@dannymurray5715 Күн бұрын
I find it hard to understand why a guy would waste time playing the friends game. All I can think is that he's enjoying the challenge maybe or the other way round is that he is socially awkward and just can't find any. I have never had to play these silly games of patience and the advice I would give to those stuck in the friend zone is stop being a simp. While the simp is busy being her unpaid uber driver and putting her shelves up, someone else is getting it.
@JaDawn-w7q
@JaDawn-w7q Күн бұрын
Avaricious material and vulgar
@tragimelody
@tragimelody Күн бұрын
If anyone wants more insight on this topic, I recommend manifestelle's video titled "I don't have male friends and you shouldn't either".
@tragimelody
@tragimelody Күн бұрын
I'm so glad you've finally talked about this! It's a grim reminder that most men don't really categorize us distinctly as "friends" and "romantic interests", like we do; instead we're all just various types of p*ssy in their eyes... Which is why we should not feel bad at all for exploiting what they can do for us and then giving them nothing in return. ❤
@anaicorado2663
@anaicorado2663 Күн бұрын
I’m soooo grateful for you girl !!!!!!!
@dannymurray5715
@dannymurray5715 Күн бұрын
I have had "I am not looking for a relationship, just a good time" said to me many times off female friends but once you give them a good time, that is when the jealousy and drama can start. They come for a good time and then they start to feel used if I don't text back right away. That is when the Eggerue syndrome can start. Most women either don't know what they really want, or think they do until they get it.
@Ngozi-q8e
@Ngozi-q8e Күн бұрын
She is not good and serves only herself
@Jrsdigest
@Jrsdigest Күн бұрын
So timely, thank you
@msma653
@msma653 2 күн бұрын
we all sighed with you😂😂
@andredavis5126
@andredavis5126 2 күн бұрын
He's not attracted to you sis. He doesn't have a burning desire to sleep with you.. it's not a dis. It's him being mature.
@SA-su7kq
@SA-su7kq Күн бұрын
Single Straight Men don't hang around women they find unattractive. He's just waiting & they will wait YEARS!..trust.
@tragimelody
@tragimelody Күн бұрын
Men who hang around a woman always (!!) have a reason for it. It's never out of the kindness of their hearts.
@marianav9655
@marianav9655 2 күн бұрын
i LOOOOVE that message mentioning how even FATHERS benefit from being around their beautiful daughters. negligent fathers don't deserve their daughters pouring into them if they didn't do and aren't doing their share.
@globalinsight7938
@globalinsight7938 2 күн бұрын
The volume on your videos is always too low. I have my macbook and YT volume at max, and your sound is still lower than average YT video. Just some feedback on sound production. Love your videos and insights.
@SA-su7kq
@SA-su7kq Күн бұрын
@@globalinsight7938 out of curiosity, what ethnic group do you fall under? I'm just trying to see something.
@ChiddyAnn
@ChiddyAnn 2 күн бұрын
28:45 screams, the way this has happened to me 😂
@dannymurray5715
@dannymurray5715 2 күн бұрын
Fortunately for me I have quite a few friends with benefits. They do not charge (no way I would ever pay) and I also have my quick getaway. Some are quite regular and others are every so often.
@ChiddyAnn
@ChiddyAnn 2 күн бұрын
Okay, let's all clap hands for Mr Danny 👏🏽
@Ella3175
@Ella3175 Күн бұрын
You said so much and yet nothing at all
@saulsaul6492
@saulsaul6492 2 күн бұрын
THE DAMAGED GOODS CRY ALONE IN YOUR WINE PODCAST.
@ChiddyAnn
@ChiddyAnn 2 күн бұрын
This topic! I don't have male friends.. I've tried to be open to having them but they always prove the point why i don't have them...once they see they aren't going to hit or can't get with you romantically then you'll see their true nature.
@laskaaksala1712
@laskaaksala1712 Күн бұрын
Gurlll, If that was all. I recently Had the horrible realisation that all them Male Friends I felt so Happy around, cause they never gave me the eyes, Just gladly exported all their emotional labour onto me. The First heavy conflict and interpersonal disagreement within the group: Turns Out they never copyied, internalised, practiced, or even realised that i was offering all These Tools of Support in conversations, when confronted they either gagged or were activily harmful in their conversational contributions😱💧 ignorance+entitlement+fragility: weaponized incompetence at its finest. The poudingggg when Being confronted! Endless Loop of conversation, best Outcome: 'as a man i never learned''my avoidance got the best of me'. Gurlll please- i examplefied for years, they we're Just too comfy, never expecting to ever having to Return the favour of Being of emotional Support or Being confronted with Being mysogenoir/istic and Not Always 'one of the good ones'. Turns Out that sensitive men often believe they are the end all be all to Feminist ideas and that Being capable of barely naming a Feeling Makes them our untouchable Whiteknightheros of Feminist liberation that never shall be questioned. and by that they are getting to reimpose themselves as the Main subject in the Center of the story of feminism- reintroducing patriachy through the Back door of the mind. I think their subconscious inner Monolog must Sound Like this: 'How Dare you questioning my Personal Agenda via the actions I Display and want to hold me personally accountable to my great words about feminism- im a-sensing- men, I-- feel -----attacked- after all how could a Woman get to Tell me whats Feminist and whats sexist, where would that terrible idea get me, foolish foe, me sad now,...so fix it.:'( Uhhhh, im resentful and disgusted, how Being the emotional mule was a narrative i for so long unknowingly got to adopt and conditioned to romantisise to survive in patriarchy and to try to get my emotional needs met with amab, or cis Male identifying/raised people 😔. Ufff the lessons, to all my Younger Femmes: expect More, More, More. Check how they move. Dare to question them personally, situational, Not about their great ideological scheme. Look what Happens when you say 'no' and 'i Challenge you to do more' 'i want more' as a conversational casualty- No Matter of platonic or romantic or whatever.-Patriachy Likes to make us believe WE are overstepping and selfish and greedy- when having a Word in Our Body autonomy and Basic humanity. Shiish
@katharinekali9127
@katharinekali9127 2 күн бұрын
Still blows my mind that so many misogynistic people gaslight women into thinking they are crazy for having standards and rules of engagement that require fair play. Which means EQUITY. So affirming as always - i feel so much less alone and crazy as a beautiful woman who now expects waaaay more from men than ever (yayyy) Everything that you say Chidera is straight up 📠 but sometimes l’m like woah. How was all this never not obvious?! You know? Current me is so different to past me because of you!! 💖 so wild. Thank goddess for you 💞 up n up 🧚🏼femdom4ever
@123cillitbang
@123cillitbang 2 күн бұрын
I had a guy friend that would make himself look good in front of other men and women by being seen out with me for coffee or movies...then tried to fuck me on a night out when he thought I was drunk enough. I haven't spoke to the cunt since. The betrayal. It's all fake with them. They're an actor as soon as they step out of their house
@orfordwolf5409
@orfordwolf5409 2 күн бұрын
Self righteous drivel !!!
@TheVoidwithChristina
@TheVoidwithChristina 2 күн бұрын
Some of my dearest friends are men. They are kind, compassionate, empathetic and supportive and want me to win. There is no sexual aspect to it. Just mutual love and respect. Everyone has their own journey but that’s my lived experience.
@JaDawn-w7q
@JaDawn-w7q 2 күн бұрын
Fiyah bun
@yasminwalker4966
@yasminwalker4966 Күн бұрын
indeed 😅
@GrungeGalactica
@GrungeGalactica 2 күн бұрын
Thanks, I like the part about being unforgiving & stern.
@JaDawn-w7q
@JaDawn-w7q 2 күн бұрын
Ginal
@baepy
@baepy 2 күн бұрын
I cut off a male friend because of his views on consent and he called me petty. Yes very petty. The police should investigate you sir
@michabee2823
@michabee2823 2 күн бұрын
My only male friends left are queer. I had to cut off all of my other male friends they weren’t authentic! They were only around to have sx one day
@Michaeleism
@Michaeleism Күн бұрын
None of them are to be trusted, no matter what. I do hope, you've found guy friends that truly care about you.
@Handle18880
@Handle18880 2 күн бұрын
I’ve been waiting for this.
@angela.6273
@angela.6273 2 күн бұрын
♉️ Taurus here! I feel you when you said you’re Sagittarius and are not afraid to talk to you shit especially to men because in no way shape or form will someone with a penis(by the way, I’m a new Mom and my child was a son and the process really opened my eyes as to how much women let men get away with because our experiences are totally unequal in life) we literally make them so you are beneath us.. and you think you gonna talk to me any type of way
@ball-rf6zf
@ball-rf6zf 2 күн бұрын
Just where does she get her 💩 from? And her army of sycophants who like to feed her rage 😂
@baepy
@baepy 2 күн бұрын
Chidera! I know women who did not only loan men money, they also helped them pay bride price! And I hate it for them
@EmpressBri5440
@EmpressBri5440 2 күн бұрын
You definitely clocked my tea this episode. I am committed to being more careful in future. I refuse to go through this again.
@EmpressBri5440
@EmpressBri5440 2 күн бұрын
This has blessed me so good ❤😂😂
@saulsaul6492
@saulsaul6492 2 күн бұрын
NEVER HEARD SO MUCH BULL CRAP.
@baepy
@baepy 2 күн бұрын
One thing about you, you are always tussling in her comments chile
@ChiddyAnn
@ChiddyAnn 2 күн бұрын
​@@baepygirl they are obsessed😂, they have their notifications turned on for when she drops a post.
@yasminwalker4966
@yasminwalker4966 Күн бұрын
😅​@@ChiddyAnn
@yasminwalker4966
@yasminwalker4966 Күн бұрын
​@@baepy 😂 isn't it so cute
@ClaraSchnitzel
@ClaraSchnitzel 2 күн бұрын
Thanks for my daily dose of reality 🙏🏻
@wirralh770
@wirralh770 2 күн бұрын
Feminists who are obsessed with men 😆
@jeahluna2385
@jeahluna2385 2 күн бұрын
you got guy friends and you know you should have boundaries set in place...they like hanging out w women im telling u