DICKMATIZED? | The Slumflower Hour podcast

[@tragimelody]

Realizing that a woman being absistent / controlling her sexuality is not fundamentally rooted in shame, but in power and self-preservation changed me so much. Sex is not something to be taken lightly, not because it's reserved for your husband or whatever religious BS men made up, but because the biochemistry of it can cloud your vision of a man to your own detriment!

[@lucerorodriguez6842]

💯 💯 💯!!!!!

[@olikah4667]

well said‼️❤

[@xoeyeam]

yessssssssssssssss

[@123cillitbang]

It's too sacred, too emotional. No way would I do it with some randomer or some eejit clearly laying it on thick to get it. I respect my body, mind m, heart and soul too much

[@missmohamed6944]

I think that when women give their body up so freely, it gives the men the effrontery to come at girls who don’t want to with the same energy. It gingers them to have the same nonsense expectations with other women.

[@MuahGetLost]

if a man loves you he’s going to make you have a easier life he found you in !!! I felt that 😎

[@dannymurray5715]

That is true. A "good man" will want the best in life for a "good woman"

[@ChiddyAnn]

The way you're rolling your eyes is killing me 😂😂

[@bryanneal5402]

Its hot isnt it 😂

[@zarinaxhazedd]

this gave me the clarity i needed and i needed this perspective because men are actually really selfish

[@justiceforthe3972]

And the ones who aren't selfish got left in the friend zone so suck it up

[@zarinaxhazedd]

@@justiceforthe3972i don’t think you understand my point but okay

[@MxrkJJ]

​@@zarinaxhazeddno one with a sane mind will understand ya point, no one wants to give time of day to discuss a radicalised point of view. I ain't gonna understand a point that some red pill knobhead has so why would I try understand yours?

[@ChiddyAnn]

@@justiceforthe3972 being the guy in the friend zone doesn't mean he's selfless/a good romantic partner either.

[@justiceforthe3972]

@@ChiddyAnn i don’t think you understand my point but okay

[@Kay_nashia333]

I love this! 😂💖 I, too have a financial fetish 🙈 A man can’t do anything for me right now but give me some money, we can figure the rest out later! I’m definitely subscribing 🙂‍↔️

[@ball-rf6zf]

Brokie

[@Kay_nashia333]

@ yup

[@ball-rf6zf]

By the hour or negotiable?

[@JB4C89]

The robot acting bit is cracking me up 😂😂

[@vanessak7069]

Haha it has! For 3 days then I regained my mind 😂 Sis you are the only person on the internet that I resonate with ❤

[@MxrkJJ]

Yep because there's only a certain amount of unstable people with this mindset that's why, it's why the red pill idiots only have a few people that can resonate with, because the mentally unstable are a minority compared to everyday people that realise half of this is complete bullshit to divide us all. You indulge yourself in radicalised content, there's nothing positive about that other than continuing the gender divide

[@urfavfaegoddess]

Girl, first off you’re hilarious 😂 & the way you collected me in this episode 😅 thank you I needed it

[@ChiddyAnn]

20:29 I want my bank account to 💦

[@ofc2024-zz6bt]

Be real it aint gonna happen for u

[@ball-rf6zf]

So does everyone but what you get isn’t always what you want.

[@ChiddyAnn]

@ball-rf6zf speak for yourself

[@GrungeGalactica]

Every week Chiddy reads me to filth & I love it 😂

[@KatieLeyden]

Me listening to Chidera for the past 2 years:💃🏼💃🏼👹👹🤭🤭 Me listening to Chidera now I’m about to be 25: 😳😟🤨🙃💀🫣

[@catchabbie]

I'll be turning 26 in 5 months and I wish I found chidera even earlier in my life🤭.. I wish there were women like this to listen to when I was 11/12.

[@KatieLeyden]

@@catchabbie soo true but you know what we can be those women for our baby sisters 🫶

[@christinewanjiru467]

The facial expressions get me every time 😅

[@baepy]

Your cheeky little laugh has me giggling back

[@orfordwolf5409]

It's not a laugh its an affectation

[@MelanatedMindsUK]

Thank you! You lit my queen!!

[@riss3927]

A lot of what you're saying isn't just opinion but backed by neuroscience. Check out scientist and biology professor Dawn Maslar's book about this.

[@shadesofkayb4886]

This came RIGHT ON TIME SIS! I’ll speak for myself but I have also seen as a collective, the divine feminine have been going through it in regards to sex in the air 😭

[@dnaaa99]

definitely enjoyed ❤

[@lucerorodriguez6842]

I grew up Christian and then at 18 left the church. I got into this mentality in my 20s that I was free to do what I want as long as I was safe sexually. But now, I'm like intention and abstinence or even having a sugar daddy is my thing. 😂

[@MxrkJJ]

So you've gone from religious to sinning to now being radicalised, well done, I'm not even religious but you need to repent as soon as possible 😂

[@gracefullyrachel6573]

Girl you fell you need to repent these streets aren’t for the weak

[@olikah4667]

3:57 😂 Who remembers “Total Recall?”

[@magdalenagreswell5216]

You are so right...😢

[@wonderfulwigswomen]

29:15 same with some men attracted to black women and feeling shame

[@saulsaul6492]

THE DAMAGED GOODS PODCAST😜

[@bryanneal5402]

Nice content💪🏿im a guy

[@shadesofkayb4886]

We are a much alike sis & I really wish we were friends in real life cause I promise we would have a TIME! I’m a Virgo sun, Gemini moon & Libra Rising as well & I had to come to this level of standards & self love alone. It took me awhile but once it hit, it hit & you help me to keep this standard with your podcasts. You’re overly appreciated!

[@ofc2024-zz6bt]

Here for my weekly dose of cringe

[@earthairandselfcare]

🌀🔥💫✨

[@ball-rf6zf]

This is the result of getting dumped and not being quite over it 🇹🇹😢💧😭

[@natashawilliams7928]

Somebody is triggered as fxxx😂😅😂

[@ball-rf6zf]

@@natashawilliams7928 you sure are😆 now get back to the kitchen😂

[@wonderfulwigswomen]

Trini to de bone 🦴

[@wirralh770]

@@natashawilliams7928 Well spot the irony 😀 You're all triggered as f# and that's why you're all here. Nothing will ever change, you will be here next year. Dumped on by every man and still pointing the blame😭

[@saulsaul6492]

ANDREW TATE IS BANG ON

[@wonderfulwigswomen]

Do you always talk in ALL CAPS?! 🥸

[@orfordwolf5409]

Scripted bs

[@wonderfulwigswomen]

Then why are you here?

[@JaDawn-w7q]

Trickster

[@JaDawn-w7q]

Ginal