spilling the tea on the fashion industry: my worst experience as a model

I hope you never feel as though you have to struggle in silence. Individually, we might just be one voice, but together we can form a chorus of change. And, in any career field, always remember your worth. If you’re a model who has also struggled, model alliance is a great resource to reach out to (this can be done anonymously):
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modelalliance.org/sexual-hara...
Thank you to everyone in the industry who has spoken out, and made this easier for me to come forward with.
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[@AbrilAguilar]

"If your heart is broken, make art with the pieces." That's what you're doing right now - Your emotions ARE VALID. Always.

[@lanaconstanti-nova6379]

It reminds me of a wonderful Japanese tradition when they glue the broken porcelain with golden paint on top. It becomes a wonderful piece of Art in the end.

[@katherinewild1599]

U r missing the whole point. This was an unsafe situation. Has nothing to do with broken heart

[@sophiarechsteiner2342]

why can’t things like this go viral instead of KZbinr drama? i’d rather watch this and bring awareness to this instead of people being upset over a lipstick.

[@allstr8peopledeservetodie10]

Sophia Rechsteiner 100% agree

[@Ohdanielaa]

Sophia Rechsteiner our society prioritizes the wrong things

[@444ytb]

It doesn't easily become viral because a lot of wealthy people are into it. Like Alexandria said, many models cant speak about it cus their career will be ruined. "Conspiracy theories" as media calls them about powerful people in modeling/movie industry preying on people and underage girls, isn't that far fetched Anyone that was or is in a good position either in the movie/modelling industry knows about this, too many coincidences to not be true. We wont go public cus the same reason Alexandria didnt

[@mikhail7863]

Because she didn't say something new. Everyone knows, that the fashion industry is that way or even worse, as long as you're not a very famous supermodel. And the movie industry too as well as television. Many attractive girls (an boys too) are forced to sleep with someone to get promoted or at least to keep their jobs. That's terrible, but many people still think, there is easy money and fame there, so they go there anyway.

[@whiteradish1539]

Sophia Rechsteiner If it's about lipsticks that can literally harm hundreds of thousands of consumers' healths, then it is something to be worried about

[@lilliannoble6105]

"You know in that way when you’re a woman you speak to a man who’s making you uncomfortable but you’re too afraid to say flat out ‘no’"... The fact that women know exactly what you mean is such a problem... Thank you for being such a brave soul and speaking so openly.

[@ENZOxDV9]

What are men supposed to do? Not speak to women? You have the right to speak up and say no

[@ENZOxDV9]

@CATHY B my advice is to be firm with your answer and don't change it. Don't hesitate because then they think there's a chance to continue. If you make it clear there will be no chance then they will back off

[@LovefortheZeppelin]

ENZOxDV1 no it doesn’t always go like that. Women die from saying no.

[@indiakees9687]

this

[@indiaxlovee]

ENZOxDV1 yea then they try to kill us

[@huhnahmai934]

l love that you made the distinction between SUPERMODEL and NEPOTISM MODEL. some of these "models" don't realize that being the daughter of somebody famous is not actually a career/job qualification

[@FrancescaHalse]

Omg same. I always say 'socialite model' or 'nepotism model' if I'm referring to certain people. It's just the truth.

[@xoliyah6553]

Seoulfie *cough* kendall jenner *cough*

[@huhnahmai934]

Liyaa Seals *cough cough* Lily Rose Depp/ hailey Baldwin/ Sofia Richie *cough cough*

[@xoliyah6553]

Seoulfie LMAO yes

[@kiarar.1219]

Seoulfie and the Hadids

[@anynamebutmyrealone]

Reminds me of a TEDtalk from an ex-officer: 'NEVER go to the second location'. You did the right thing.

[@courtney8471]

anynamebutmyrealone which ted talk is it? :)

[@LesWilis]

Oprah said that too!

[@alexpagec]

When I think of getting stolen into sex trafficking I think of getting kidnapped in a dark alley into a sketchy white van.. never thought to mind wealthy "powerful" men honestly. My own ignorance. Thank you for speaking out and bringing awareness.

[@illiniheel67]

Watch "Taken"...action show, but not a sketchy white van in that one either.

[@andreavelez4968]

Wealth and corruption go hand in hand

[@umairayasir3247]

so many girls and women get pushed into sex trafficking by wealthy trustworthy lovers or people who promise jobs and careers

[@Hello11235]

watch Whistleblower, it is a true story that will scare you. Sex trafficking goes all the way to the top, to the very people that are supposed to be protecting human rights. Trust no one, if your gut is telling you this is wrong, LEAVE.

[@krislard]

alex It happens so often in large venues where you’d never think of it... like the Super Bowl, concerts, tourist destinations with ‘easy out’ roads/airports nearby, it’s so scary but so important to be educated to know what to look out for

[@itschelseakay]

I can’t speak for others, but for me and many other viewers, we never judge you negatively on the way you speak. In fact, for many of us, we love how you speak, we love your humble and authentic personality, we love your 70s vibe and love for Stevie. We love Cooper and bathroom chats. Speak about what you want, when you want, and however you want because the majority of us will 💯 support you. Update: now that I’ve watched the entire video, I just want to say you are an incredible woman!! I also want to say that just because others may have had “worse” experiences doesn’t take away from how traumatic, scary, dangerous, heartbreaking, and frustrating yours was. Sharing your experience doesn’t make this a “pity party” or a “privileged problem” it’s sharing how toxic mindsets can be to people in the modeling career, to society, and to anyone in a workplace with bigoted views. You are such a good kind person and that’s why we adore this channel. Stay you, stay strong, and I can’t wait to see how far you go. The sky is the limit when you are proud of who you are and have people on your side who appreciate you and your values.

[@mirnasenjak7498]

Nothing more to add. 💙

[@karolinakowalik9720]

Walk less? WALK LESS? Who gave him the right to undermine you? I would never use tampons either! They are real bullies! You are beautiful and clever. Stay strong. Despite all the bullshit.

[@bethany8446]

yes yes yes yes very well said!

[@hava8610]

Yes! Well said

[@charlieal12]

Honestly you should maybe start some kind of organization to educate models on the signs of trafficking/knowing their rights. You are extremely intelligent and it could really make an impact on women's lives. Maybe even run for Miss USA or something of the likes to get your message on a more national platform.

[@dorothycelly]

YES THISSS 👍👍

[@fkatwigsisthequeenofenglan4748]

my guy shut the fuck up

[@Claresqn]

UP

[@stickynorth]

Also a sign that models need a UNION! This would be a hell of a lot less likely to happen if contract terms are signed in advance before any gig. Believe me, anyone who is a creative needs to be in a union. Being a writer, I know what happens otherwise. You spend $30K getting a bachelors in Journalism and end up working in a casino getting your ass grabbed for minimum + tips! Welcome to the new economy, y'all!

[@NikiMcNally]

I agree. She is fantastic.

[@thaisnadai]

As a brazilian girl, I know what you're talking about. It's terrible how bad women are treated here sometimes, especially when it comes to powerfull men, and we're fighting to change this. I'm so sorry that you have been through such a bad experience

[@sahtification]

I'm Brazilian as well and I stand 100% of what u are saying

[@soulofchrist5031]

What do you think would have happend? I think human traffic

[@shania9528]

Can you expand on this? I find it really interesting

[@JayJay-ue3xy]

@@shania9528 its called patriarchy you dumb ass

[@yourdaddy3837]

Jo Smith shut up feminist

[@sarahblack2850]

I’m a Comm professor and I’ve never judged you negatively for your speech. You’re quite intelligent and eloquent!

[@elizabeth1703]

agreed

[@Tirziee]

Thank you for NOT getting on that private plane, and thank you for trusting your intuition and God. Bless you.

[@mjh7236]

It was beyond irresponsible for your agency to put you in that position. I'm so glad you got out of it safely.

[@hellotheresunshine]

You were human trafficked by the modeling agency. They rented you out to these men.

[@bellelagirl]

Yes, this is the only logical explanation.

[@kt114]

Ugh. Disgusting.

[@hmstru8y827]

Yes, that is how its run, your favorite models all have to sleep with men to get to the top.

[@lisaellis2593]

Omg! she should sue! The modeling agency put her danger! Damn!

[@charlenewilliams9472]

All these years I’ve dreamed of living a life as a model just like yours , but now my mind has completely changed ; I would never want to be caught up in this disgusting industry that’s deteriorating and endangering women

[@nelaasavic2030]

Just because someone have bad experience, doesn't mean you will have. If being a model is your dream go and try it. I know fashion world is cruel, but if look like model go and try it. My sister want to be model so bad and she somehow go in USA. And for us coming from very small country in Europe that's a huge succes. But you know she was just another model for them and she give up very quickly, but she met her husband. My point is go and try, evan if you deoesn't make some succes, maybe some good things happen to you.

[@charlenewilliams9472]

Nela Savic you are totally right Nela ! I should atleast give it a chanve

[@allstr8peopledeservetodie10]

Charlene Williams maybe you should give acting a try.

[@sashalessa2023]

you have such a beautiful name!

[@ambercotrone]

Charlene Williams Yes! Exactly. I’ve always seen modeling put down because it’s supposed to be for women who are brainless and this infuriates me because it ruins women’s self esteem even more and the real problem is the industry.

[@AlexandriaMorgan]

Thank you all for your kind words ❤️ just want to add, I was at a top agency when this happened. It had/has a reputable name. People assume that an agency name equates success, or safety. But that isn’t the truth, unfortunately.

[@maneskinnnnn7190]

women360? have you signed to a new agency yet?

[@lazeran]

Alexandria thank you for your heartfelt video. I am not in the fashion business but your videos have been the inspiration for a heroine who is a high fashion super model in a series of novels I am writing, for over a year. You are an amazing person. I have learned a lot about the fashion industry and the life of models which I never dreamed of. All because of you. I just hope I can give the character the same warmth and humanity that you bring to the world. Some things I will do my best to portray; the disenfranchisement of models by agencies, the emotion of empowerment or lack thereof in situations, dealings with the emotional dilemma and terror of career versus safety and morals, Influence pedaling and professional clicks that enable bullying, plus all the wonderful nuances in language and detail around shoots. Hopefully, I will get right. Anyway, I say all this because just by doing what you are doing on You Tube, you have reached people in positive and powerful ways. You are confident and strong. You will succeed at whatever you want to do. I learned from courses on ‘who a person is being in life’ that the universe aligns with behaviors and actions you put into being with direct intention. So stand your ground, be the person you want to be, and paths will open for you.

[@DarkKittycat]

why dont you expose their name then, dont you think it would help others get out?

[@maneskinnnnn7190]

@@DarkKittycat it was women360.. the agency she has been with the past few years. it was in her instagram bio.

[@BrunetteGiant]

Dragon Fly THANK YOU

[@SaraSara-wl8hb]

The driver probably saw they were uncomfortable and purposely took them to the ‘wrong’ airport- to indirectly save them. Everything happens for a reason

[@Sassy28311]

Maybe he knew what the men were planning to do with them. This probably happened with other models previously..

[@dmlkcs8620]

Yes, I totally agree.... how does a driver mess up which airport to take someone too....I think you had guardian angels watching over you, and perhaps the driver was a guardian angel too... you never know. So happy nothing happened to you.

[@SnowwhiteArticfox]

This theory makes me so happy. Just the fact that there are still people around who care about the safety of strangers while risking their own job

[@jennybalane4681]

I super feel the same way

[@LoveAudraLove]

How visibly shaken you are by this should be a huge sign to your agency that the situation you were put in was a legitimate concern. Intuition is REAL.

[@melissaheidecker3262]

She would have been trafficked or assaulted by those men, and I'm sure she knows that. The agency set it up, they are despicable.

[@janellelyn]

Just saying but it sounds like you almost became a human trafficking victim. Very scary... Glad you are safe. Read Not for Sale by David Batstone.

[@illiniheel67]

EXACTLY...she could have been gone for EVER and her agency's WILLFUL NEGLIGENCE would have been the reason!

[@illiniheel67]

@oat raa I think that because she got so emotional and still wanted to send her message, she spliced together a lot of segments and the audio converter didn't work correctly.

[@vee-oy2nq]

I tried to be a model when I was younger and all I ever got was perverts preying on my naivity and hopes. I threw the towel in when they kept saying I wasn't small enough and my doctor was ready to admit me to hospital until I gain weight. It's rough! I'm so proud she spoke out xox

[@hirrorstories]

Vanessa Vee No wonder that "super" models like gigi or other nepotists hide their true weight because its underweight. When Alessandra was 112 that is 2 points below normal weight and that is considered not fit??

[@decayedcake1245]

@funfetti i dont think vs models have such low bmi s? they have so much muscle, their bmi must be around 18

[@jamesr.g.2320]

@@decayedcake1245 they don’t have muscle

[@decayedcake1245]

@@jamesr.g.2320 not compared to a guy, they have at least 10kg worth of built muscle, I exercise and know how body changes

[@hbozzone]

It’s one thing to be proud of you as your manager but it’s another thing to be proud of you woman to woman. We need more examples of strength in this industry. You are such a huge role model and I’m so inspired by the fact that you grew even more through this experience. I pray that no other model has to go through what you went through. All I have to say is karma… love you always babes x

[@amyhamshere383]

I really want to be a model Heather!! x what shall i do haven't had work yet with models direct

[@fayHoran]

@@amyhamshere383 you go to castings anywhere near your area. They usually update when they have one and where on Facebook or you Google it according to the place you live closer to. I'm a lawyer who does her first practice lol so I can't speak for myself but a girl from my school went to one of those and now she works part time model.

[@amyhamshere383]

@@fayHoran aw thanks:) will look out for castings :) x

[@perrfect13]

You being taken to the "wrong" airport was not a coincidence!

[@jennifercontreras9048]

Evelyn Marie seriously that guy was probably trying to help them out

[@illiniheel67]

GOD was helping her...HIS plan didn't include these men exploiting her.🙂

[@maxeliza8707]

@@illiniheel67 are you saying that for some girls, it is "gods" plan for then to be human trafficked?

[@forevermissbeautyxo]

God protected them, wow!

[@MasterOfNone13]

@@maxeliza8707 I swear, those god comments sometimes...

[@jl4260]

I haven't finished watching but this sounds eerily similar to human trafficking. They lure models in through agencies for false photoshoots and end up taking them. This is so dodgy. Thank god you didn't get on that private plane. Us women need to trust our instincts. It can save our life.

[@lynnjudd9036]

It does seem like human trafficking in the sense that models can come to feel that they are being used as objects to show the clothes.

[@Amersboo]

Being a model seems like the worst and most demeaning job ever.

[@rlabarbera]

It's a degrading cesspool of the most disgusting people you will ever encounter.

[@Amersboo]

@@rlabarbera Ugh, so sorry you experienced what you did.

[@veganari4736]

Think about it, you’re being paid for looks.

[@Amersboo]

@@veganari4736 more like made to look like someone you're not.

[@nadine7327]

In everyone job there are bad apples.

[@yigalordbanette8044]

The industry is so abusive to females. I worked as a Clinique counter salesgirl. Nothing like a model of course. BUT Clinique does hire a certain look. Anyway I was great at selling skincare. I had that flawless skin much desired. Blonde but my skin had a pink undertone and also tan deeply. I am putting so much discription on my appearance because its neccesary to understand. I got awards for my high sales and even won company vacations i was doing very well. Until i was involved in a car accident. I returned to work after 6 weeks and was told that i no longer had the look that represents Clinque. I had a scar now on my forehead that i did try to hide behind bangs and i stll hide it from insecurity. I also had a tiny scar the size of a tic tac on my chin. I was devastated. This was a job i was good at. I was earning a living and was independent at 20 years old. This was in the early 1990s. They did not even offer me another job doing something behind the scenes in the company. They just fired me. I walked out of there with my head low in tears. Idk if Clinique would still do something like this today. I pass by the counters of Clinque today and I see they still hire that same type of girl. A girl i used to be. It took me years to recover emotionally from the accident. What Clinique did to my self esteem was beyond damaging. This is how far the industry branches out with the abuse even a cosmetic sales girl is treated just for appearance not by my ability .

[@jfaustin1742]

Yiga Lord Banette wow I'm so sorry that this happened to you. I won't look at Clinique the same again

[@chainsawkitten3766]

Why are people who go into an industry that is all about looks surprised when they are treated this way? Not saying Clinique is right, but this is just the way it is in sales. Any sales job....how you look is important. I’m sitting here listening to this young girl whining about all the horrible things in modeling....why? Blah blah blah.

[@91loveismyreligion]

What you've been through is so sad and scary. I'm sorry this happened to you my dear. I'm beyond sure you're so beautiful with those scars. Hope things are better for you now 💓 much love and light to you

[@AstroMartine]

that is horrible..hugs.

[@kellz6266]

@@chainsawkitten3766 why did you watch the video?

[@natalieh8023]

Whenever I hear a teenager say they want to model because they think it’s all glamorous I just cringe cause they have no idea.

[@PutonaChicFace]

I was feeling so anxious hearing you talk about the Brazil story. I'm SO sorry you had to go through something like that. Regarding the "healthy" comment, I have to say that you are actually really brave acknowledging that. I was once at a fashion show and a very prestigious casting director called me fat (even though I wasn't there as a model and my weight was no one's business). A model that I was talking to, who probably thought I felt bad about being called fat like that, said that she loved my body and thought I looked great. The casting director laughed and said: well, if you ever look as healthy as she does, don't call me again. And please, do not apologize for not speaking a certain way. If you actually tried to sound "smarter" (whoever says you are not smart because you speak a certain way should shut up), it wouldn't feel as genuine as this video did. Again, you are really brave doing this, because the nepotism models and the supermodels are not going to speak up at all. I wish you the best in your career =)

[@Rosebud0801]

Ana Lopez what’s terrifying is that using “healthy” in this context implies that models should be so thin that they look unhealthy

[@mrs.v6394]

Partly I think the girls are often treated as too stupid to absorb that as being an insult... or if they do get it, that they should learn to accept abuse. Catty. 😩

[@AlexandriaMorgan]

PS... so sorry about the awful audio, my phone’s been dropped one too many times and she’s on her last leg 😅

[@mette1983]

Don´t apologize hun. The message you´re conveying is what matters. THANK YOU for doing that

[@Jaws69]

You are fantastic honey and the tampon vagina comment was so dead on.Imagine what was probably a middle age person (just a age guess it’s how I see it all going down) tell a teenager or anyone for that matter how to manage her private areas! In my time I have had a few friends in the industry and they learnt the hard way. Only when they actually ( hate to say it this way)aged out and sobered up did they feel the damage done to them. You thank goodness had the smarts at a young age realizing the champagne cigarette diet plus Ritalin lifestyle is only masking pain..I hope this post did not hurt your career because you are adorable.

[@lark6spur]

Young lady, you presented your story with detail, raw emotion and honesty. You should be the poster model of awareness for the industry! Stay strong, stay vocal and know that you have been given a platform to help others wanting to live out their dream!

[@rebeccahorne4465]

It's disgusting that agency was so careless to send you to that gig to be arm candy and potentially be human trafficked.

[@sydneysmith1854]

I can't believe your booker didn't care enough to get you out of there. If you feel unsafe, it is THEIR JOB to make you feel safe.

[@sarahstroud6021]

I’m struggling with extreme anxiety right now because I left a toxic workplace and I was discriminated against for telling them I have anxiety and depression! They fired me for telling them! I spoke out and filed a lawsuit with the EEOC so they can’t do this to someone else! Thankyou for this video!😀😀

[@hazeleyeartist]

Good luck. Same thing happened to me. They made up a lie for reasons to fire me. I filed a claim with tons of written proof of my discrimination for confessing my mental illness and the EEOC tossed it out after sitting on it for 2 years. I hope you have better luck.

[@aniyabrewer310]

Sorry you guys went thru that smh

[@itschelseakay]

Wishing you the best of luck with your lawsuit and sending love and strength as someone who also suffers with anxiety and depression 💗

[@charlottea0157]

Sarah Stroud wow that is crazy... I am so sorry this cruelty exists and happened to you... it’s outrageously disgusting

[@stephlyndsey3932]

Good for you!!!

[@nenepch]

It's sad to know that so many famous/supermodels out there know all the nasty stories but never told them even though they have all the power to help other models

[@tumblergal]

Being a model sounds like its low key indentured servitude

[@Panther888]

Nina it’s glorified human trafficking( you sell yourself and people either buys you or not)

[@DarkKittycat]

you have seen ANTM, looked like a worse job than a waitress

[@anys2793]

Yep. It’s always been

[@jasintz9245]

It is

[@indiaxlovee]

Nina modelling with an agency is TRASH, modelling on instagram & making your own deals & keeping %100 of the profit is the best

[@doglover7805]

I am kinda surprised they didn't say "well, you shouldn't be having periods..."

[@zuckerkane]

Smart girl. You got yourself out of a seedy situation smoothly. Most girls wouldn't know what to say or how to leave. We are so conditioned to go with the flow for fear of offending men.

[@AVASINNx]

I’m 6ft, when I was modeling I weighed 125. My hip bones are wide and instead of saying my hips are wide, I was always told how fat I was and that I needed to lose weight. My agency knew that was never going to fix anything. The modeling industry has gotten better since then, but I had a lot of healing to do before feeling confident about myself.

[@yigalordbanette8044]

Wow. Im 5ft 10 and was hospitalized at 125 for eating disorder and malnutrition. I look back at photos at that time and I was so unhealthy. I remember my thick curly Italian hair started falling out from the lack of nutrition.....god what we do to ourselves.

[@AVASINNx]

Yiga Lord Banette it hurts my heart. None of that was ever worth it

[@bellelloy9642]

Just because someone might of had it worse doesn't mean your worst doesn't matter. I'm so proud of u for speaking up about this subject especially because a lot of details that u mentioned are sooo important and I'm happy u're helping us understand what u went through. U look divine as always and I'm so excited to hear more from u, stay safe girlie 💕

[@miyounova]

*might have

[@warclassics]

@@miyounova 🙄

[@christinefossaceca831]

"Maybe you should walk less" omg!!! What the heck!!!! I have been watching you for so long and it is so amazing that you are brave enough to share this ❤️

[@mskimberly7777]

As a woman you always have to be thinking one step ahead. You made the right decision to walk. Many woman go missing every day. This was not right. You should not have to tolerate abuse for a job.

[@yigalordbanette8044]

Not to mention date rape. I can tell you i had sex 3 x witj different men because I was afraid not turned on. One was a guy i grew up with.

[@carrotap3001]

The top models should see this. I'd like to see their support.

[@AngelEllena]

Top models? These are high-ranking whores / prostitutes being actively trafficked themselves.. You won't find any support from them. Kind regards Angel

[@taytayqueen7024]

What the... this is despicable. This could've so easily turned into a trafficking situation. The lack of concern for the safety of their models by this agency is appalling.

[@amstergal]

The situation they put you and your friend in is inexcusable . Thank god you were smart and you listened to your intuition and the uncanny, almost miraculous mistake the driver made by taking you to the wrong (right) airport and you finally and safely got out of there!

[@amypennebacker4941]

You can be happy to know that your KZbin followers are here not because of how beautiful you are, but because of your glowing personality. I'm excited to see what's next for you and I hope you'll share some of your music! Thank you for sharing these stories. It's a shame the industry is the way it is.

[@winne9209]

I'm brazilian and i'm so sorry for your terrible experience 😫 you did the right chose! you deserve best things in your life and career. You're amazing 😘

[@FutureFendiFsnista]

OMG Girl! That's horrible... I am so sorry... I work in the fashion industry myself and it makes me sick to my stomach with some of the things I have seen/heard. A lot of these men working in the industry act so inappropriate and creepy with these girls. It's especially scary when they are underage and don't know any better and get taken advantage of. It's so disgusting. Please, don't doubt the validity of your feelings. God gave us a gut instinct for a reason and its always good to listen to it. It's very brave of you to talk about this and I am glad that I came across this video.

[@shasha9790]

You're amazing and brave. Please don't take this down.

[@betherin5122]

you be you... I wish someone had told me that when I was your age... (43 now) I wish someone had told me... you have your own path... you do you... always.. trust your intuition.. everyone has their own path... follow yours. love and light and remember in the end it doesn't matter... none of it matters... love your dogs ❤❤❤they are the purest souls...

[@katiiieeeking]

girl, i'm so fucking happy that you & the other model got the heck out of there safe!!! god, what a nightmare situation :( you're an extremely special person & you were brought here to bring awareness and authenticity to society. i'm so happy for the upcoming jobs that WILL make you feel safe and WILL make you feel comfortable! :)

[@yazb4083]

I'm not a model, i study architecture in college. And this kind of stuff happens here too. I use words like "like" and i like fashion and makeup and other girly things, and because of this, everyone assumes i'm an idiot (i'm in college, if i'm dumb then how did i get in?) like even when i tell people my good grades they're like "really? You?" My "friends" tell me that i should switch to a less challenging course. My teachers always look at me like a "dumb blonde", they're all male so you can imagine how sexist the whole system is. I've also heard stories of professors getting dirty with girls in exchange for good grades. Just thought i'd mention this story to show that these kind of hurtful comments exist in all industries

[@caitlinmontgomery917]

This is such a real thing! I used to study game design, which is very male-oriented, and back when I had long blonde hair I was frequently spoken to as if I were a child, just because of the way I looked. It was so damn frustrating.

[@zuzu9190]

I know this was 4 years ago but i just want to say that you are incredibly intelligent and you've worked hard

[@Ali-xj8lf]

This is why I quit. This right here.

[@chloe7428]

Your hair looks so beautiful!❤️

[@madelinegould2690]

Acknowledging your privilege and power is a very brave thing to do by itself. So is speaking up about this huge issue. Thank you for speaking up!!

[@inmemoryofsydbarrett]

I feel like a local driver cant accidentally go to the wrong airport he most certainly meant to help

[@seraphina7848]

maybe you need a redirection. Maybe this is a sign to create ur own agency so no one goes thru da same

[@AlexandriaMorgan]

I promise that I will the second I can afford to. I believe in making this industry better for all involved

[@souhaalghashi7691]

@@AlexandriaMorgan yes yes and yes💚..much love to u and there r lessons to be learnt about assertivness and self value my dear but i the fact u followed ur instincts and u fight 4 ur value just shows what kind of a woman u r underneath all the shit happening 🏅thanks for speaking out! This is for all of us ,even the non models😇

[@HausOfAdonis]

God bless you girl. And stop being so hard on urself. You def learned that from that industry. Nobody is perfect. So what if you say “ummm” and “uhhh”. I’m sure those same ppl criticizing you do the same thing. Also they might be jealous of you because you’re beautiful and expect unreasonable perfection from you in anything you do. What I see is a very articulate, empathetic, loving, brave, and highly intelligent woman. Be careful out there with ppl taking advantage of you because you’re an empath. Keep that chin up, always love yourself, stay positive, and stay being you. You are lovely 😘 ❤️🙌🏿

[@hazeleyeartist]

As you were telling that story, I kept thinking the whole time, "DON'T GO ALEXANDRA!!" "You are smarter than this!!!" "GET THE F$CK OUT OF THERE!" I was so glad you guys got out safely! I hope you carry some kind of protection with you at all times. I always carry a pocket knife and a flashlight. Plus a back up knife that folds down like a credit card in my wallet, just in case. I might not win, but I'm going down fighting. I'm so glad you're safe.

[@allstr8peopledeservetodie10]

Hazeleyeartist same I always carry some sort of weapon on me. Whether is mace, pepper spray, a pocket knife, a tazer. Anything I don't feel safe without it so sad we have to resort to this.

[@Deuronius]

For sure the agency knew tho...very spooky. I just hope ur well. Its crucial many know what happens in the industry. I think your way of telling stories is also eloquent. Be awesome as you are. Keep up the great work.

[@secmile5344]

You did the right thing. Him berating you in the airport is confirmation that your senses about the situation are valid. If he would do that to you in a public place, what would they do to you in private? The Super Bowl and The Olympics are the most human trafficking events in the world. Thank you for sharing, hopefully, more young women come forward.

[@zoeeeeee13]

Hey Alexandria! it has been some time since watching any of your videos, but this one caught my attention and I have one thing to say. I'm from Brazil, and what they did to you was definetely NOT normal. the business men most likely thought of you guys as escorts, and your agency totally knew what was happening... as you said yourself, Brazil isn't inferior to America in this industry, and we do shoots just as professionally as the US does them (in Sao Paulo and Rio at least), so what they did to you was totally unprofessional and a strange situation overall.. glad everything worked out in your favor at the end, as that situation would've totally gone the wrong way.. truly. i wish you nothing but the best xx

[@crystalclear6661]

Jeffree EPSTIEN is all I need to say it seems that a lot of men in power that have a sexual preference for young girls / boys is a huge problem I. Sorry this happened and to be honest your agency probably know them and have sent other models it’s disgusting you should be safe and secure when you are with a agency 💖

[@N0N4M30]

Guess who was best friend with Jeffree ? The owner of VS ..

[@edumonn]

It's true I've seen it as a makeup artist, models need to be protected from these monsters. thanks for sharing you are so inspiring and strong!!!

[@stevienicks9210]

Can you share some of your experiences?

[@michaelrichardt]

super scary situation, as a man, I would have been scared too

[@jeannettemann96]

Bravo for speaking up. I watched the whole video. I ran two international modeling agencies in Tokyo. I was extra mindful of my models safety. Most of them were underage and it was their first time away from home and of course away from home and in a far, far away country. Thank you for making this video. It will help a lot of young models. Shame on your previous agency.

[@anjaraj]

To feel a little more like Buffy the vampire slayer 😂 Hope you always feel that way🖤

[@MelleyMichelle]

I had a serious oppertubity to become a model when I was 14 years old. I decided to not do that exactly for this reason. I am only a shell of their idea of “beauty” but inside is what matters the most. Because I live with me. Because I live with my head. I knew to be put into an industry like that would not allow me to flourish and blossom at that age. Now as an adult I think I would like to model but I totally hear your pain girl. I’m glad things are turning out better for you and that you’ve found a new team. ❤️

[@Beyzanurck]

Don't make yourself sad for anything, you're perfect. I love you :)

[@jackrussell2380]

She articulated herself well! I can relate to the pressures of matching my written speech to my verbal speech.

[@strawbunnylol]

you are well educated, beautiful and kind hearted. thank yoiu so much for sharing this. This was terrifying hearing what happened to you, I'm so glad you made it out safely.

[@DanielleLaBarbera]

this is sick. Your agency should PROTECT you. I'm glad you are safe.

[@DanielleLaBarbera]

also, I watched to the end. You have a kind heart. Keep doing the right thing and the opportunities will follow. You are an excellent role model.

[@jeanjennings5712]

An important and intelligent video, Alexandria. For ALL women. Models, and all women who are in a man's world. You trusted your instincts, did all the right things, and escaped with your lives! Who knows? Thank you for this post. All women of the world should watch it. God Bless you.

[@MaxineBlack]

Kudos to you for being SO brave to share your experiences! You said you don't speak well, but in fact you spoke beautifully on this subject matter. I mainly subscribed to you because the good in you radiates through the screen. I wasn't wrong. God bless you! May you go from strength to strength ❤

[@JadeLively]

This is so powerful. Her story and the situation she have been in is truly horrifying. Her words and opinions truly resonates with me so much as a woman. I'm so happy that you were able to get out before anything worse could have happened. I wish you the best in your career path! I'm cheering for you! Thank you for sharing such an intimate experience.

[@luizabrito3366]

I’m brazilian and I feel SO sorry for your experience 😭

[@moraes_taina]

Luh Brito me too! 💔

[@ThingsILikke]

I'm thinking these guys were well-known in Brazil and that's why they went with Americans that would not know them. Perhaps the American model agencies make going through customs easier.

[@AlexandriaMorgan]

Brazil is still on my top travel list so I can replace bad memories with good ones! What are your recommendations for places/cities/interesting things to do?

[@SuperDogWannabe]

Hey! I don't know a thing about modeling, but the industry I'm trying to break into also highly discourages you talking about issues in the workplace. I get how scary that can be, and I absolutely applaud you for finding the strength and courage to speak on your experiences. Never feel bad about doing the best for you, or protecting yourself when others won't. Much love your way.

[@noheliapacheco4094]

You are such a beautiful person, on the inside, that it comes through the camera. I don’t follow the fashion industry anymore, but I still follow you because your light shines bright. The fact that other people suffer “more” doesn’t mean you are not allowed to suffer too, although I hope you’re happier now. ♥️

[@Bee-dg5sk]

I hope this is a wake up call to the industry. That agency is disgusting not treating you well and then legally trying to keep you, causing you distress. Simply unbelievable. And "healthy" = "well-fed/not thin enough".....no wonder many models have eating and image disorders - "healthy" is basically an insult. I'm disgusted. And you had a right to be terrified and anxious in Brazil, and you did the right thing leaving. And that photographer getting nasty with you? Get out of here. I'm so happy you and your friend ended up fine and I hope this gets lots of exposure.

[@taylornpickle]

thank you so much for sharing this. this is scary, and fucked up on your agency's part. you did the right thing. i cant imagine how scared i would be.

[@SuzetteTavera]

Your experience sounds terrifying, so glad you survived and sharing your story. You are helping others and are very brave, thank you for your video. Hugs

[@shreklopez662]

Super random but omg! How did you get to take a picture with snoop dogg?

[@SuzetteTavera]

Shrek Lopez Hi! Thanks! I met him thru work, it was so fun, Snoop is really funny and sweet!

[@shreklopez662]

Suzette Tavera woah! ur so lucky

[@katleensmets54]

A lot of courage is needed to be so honest about this difficult industry. Thanks for this! You’re an inspiration.

[@Trestamae]

I was a fashion designer in NYC for over 10 years and saw many models be sexually harassed by various men in the industry. I reported things every time I witnessed anything inappropriate but not much would be done. I’m so sorry you had to experience this!

[@ambrielannamarie4105]

You are so strong and I am deeply sorry this happened to you. Do not every apologize for speaking up about how you're feeling or feel as if you are complaining because "your problems are as big as someone elses problems". Just because someone is in a full body cast doesnt mean your broken arm doesnt hurt.

[@beautifyurself]

Expose the agency! They sound like they are terrible 😵

[@psychoslayer6808]

I remember I saw a ted talk where a model said something along the lines of “sure if you’re pretty and you hit the genetic jackpot you can try and be a model. But why would you? Do something else with your life.” Modeling sounds like a terrible way to try and make something of yourself. I hear more dark stories about the industry than good. Changed my entire outlook on modeling. Waste of time. You’re selling yourself. Idk it seems weird. You don’t like the things you’re told about how you could be replaced, but it’s true. You have 0 unique value to them. Good looks isn’t unique and doesn’t set you apart. A cute face and small waste is a dime a dozen. You’re not a person to those people in the industry. If you want to be respected and valued and seen as a person you’re in the wrong place. A model is an object to represent someone else’s image. You’re a thing. So ofc you’re going to be treated like one. There’s other ways to better the world on than using this kind of platform to speak out.

[@leahlotti_999]

Omg what a horrible experience! I would have been soooooo upset and scared and that would change my outlook on bookings in the future. I'm sorry that you had to go through that love....

[@Johanna-hz8hh]

It's so scary what you've been through. Better things are coming sweetie. Thanks for this advice, love u.

[@dominiquehayduk9692]

Alexandria, I feel so deeply for what you went through. You shared your story in such a genuine way and I think this is so important to raise awareness for other girls/women in the fashion industry- and any other career, as a matter of fact. Thank you for sharing your rawness with us, truly.

[@berrigalore23]

Don’t apologize girly 👏🏽👏🏽 This is your story. It’s true because I’m a freelance model with no manager, no agency or no assistant.My size and shape isn’t “model standard” but I have faith and strength for My career. Thank you speaking your peace. This really helps🙏🏽 God bless

[@wowyathink5982]

Just started the video and am only a few minutes in, but it's very clear to me that you're very intelligent. Your vocabulary is very diverse and you present yourself in a very confident way. Please, do not ever let anyone make you feel differently or doubt yourself in that regard.

[@bbloodyangel1]

💙💙💙💙I really needed to hear this today, omg, the timing. Thank you for this. I'm crying rn watching this.

[@potatologs1340]

It s very good that you are talking about it and making people aware. When people think about fashion and models they think about glamorous lifes. That s not the whole story.

[@loana9548]

girl I seriously love you so much. I love how you stick up for girls and women and you’ve actually made me become obsessed with stevie nicks!

[@anaisrocha5900]

Thank you for speaking up. I feel like the only way to be a model these days is to already come from a family who has millions and is already famous. All these supermodels of 2019 are from rich families.

[@user-zv9no2my6j]

it's so important to know. you're so intelligent and cool for speaking about this. they push young women around, exploit, manipulate them and deny it at the same time! that young women are most often the target of such is why young women deserve every opportunity to get even more independent, ie. get an IT degree. so we can work from everywhere and rely on safer, more empowering business structures. you're such a strong rolemodel and that you are so thoughtful about the immorality of the olympics as well. you're beautiful inside and out

[@MsNtoni]

From one model to another: I am so so proud of you for being brave in making this and in getting through what you have. Also, I'm glad you followed your gut. ALWAYS follow you gut. Also also, cool how you acknowledge some privilege you may have. Some people just don't get it and you do. Good on you. Anyway, you've gained a new fan and I'm rooting for you x

[@mamananas7662]

always trust your gut EVEN if you have anxiety ... don't downplay it. You matter more than anything else

[@Bratzmaniac29]

Thank you for sharing this! Luckily my miracle that got me out of modelling was my son. I was deep into an eating disorder and ended up in many sketchy situations. So glad I had a reason to get out and be on the path of self love and helping others love themselves. This video needs to go viral so someone can make a change on this topic.

[@noemiesteiner286]

I work in the industry and I heard so many crazy stories. The models need to speak up. If you are a model, speak, raise your voice, say NO, leave a toxic agency! Thanks for this video. You deserve all the best💖

[@merri7922]

You’re so beautiful inside and out, and I love how you’re using this platform. You are always someone I’ve had a lot of respect for and looked up to as a role model. Bent but never broken !! Stay strong and keep doing what you’re doing 💙

[@ic2513]

Is it just me or is the audio a little weird?

[@maneskinnnnn7190]

she films all her videos on her phone

[@amandadasilva675]

She did say she dropped her phone a couple times

[@vikkihamilton3389]

Izzy She said she needs a new phone but she’s not working right now and can’t afford it

[@flora8135]

Alexandria, I can see the fright and sadness in your eyes when you talk about these horrible incidents and I am so sorry you had to go through that. You are a very strong woman and I am so proud of you 💛

[@virginiav.1172]

I am amazed by the intelligent way you handled the situation, doing everything right and following your gut instinct to prevent a possibly disastrous situation from unfolding. You were also so right to pursue the difficult road of getting out of your contract with a bad agency. You have a special way about you, Alexandria, and I have no doubt that bigger and better things are in store for you, but also that you have grown from this and truly know your worth in the world so that those who set out to make you feel small will fail to do so. Bravo, Girl!