Spilling Your Secrets (couple swaps, torrid affairs, and fake degrees?)

Get ready for another episode full of piping hot tea. This week, we’re spilling your secrets about illicit affairs, forbidden crushes, fake degrees, and share a few of our own embarrassing stories. This episode is sponsored by Rocket Money, Miracle Brand, and Factor!
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Chapters:
4:00 - The double affair
7:00 - The torrid affair
10:00 - The in-house ex
14:00 - A couple swap
18:00 - The forbidden gym crush
21:00 - Instagram thirst traps
25:00 - The fake degree
28:00 - A family affair
32:00 - The retired marriage
39:00 - The one-way street
41:00 - The hike of shame
52:00 - The secret affair
1:00:00 - The escort
Podcast Production By: Paige Cuthbert & Colin Steingard

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

We are loving doing these episodes once a month, I cannot believe how off the rails we went with this one…we even shared some of our own juicy tea 😅…buffet, anyone? 🤣

[@dawnevans157]

Can't wait to watch this later xx

[@junehodsdon8037]

These are always the best! You guys make me laugh always !

[@IvonneDeLeon-xq6dr]

So much fun guys!!

[@jennifermcdonald5432]

Hi guys, I’ve been watching you two for years now and I just wanted to say, All of us gets just one life, no matter how good or bad, there’s no do overs. So very many of us NEVER find real love and live our lives in hope, but alone. No matter what may happen re the land, the house whatever, you two are unbelievably lucky to have found each other, although I know there is a lot of work involved, your contentment, happiness and real joy in your relationship just shines off the screen every time I see you. I wish with all my heart I could have found the other half of my soul, as you two have. Always be grateful for,and careful of the precious thing you two have. Sending huge love from Australia, ( where it’s HOT )

[@TheGenflute]

Love it...going back to watch the beginning because I just happened to catch the premiere part way through. Such a great start to my day! Love you two!

[@geofflilley7465]

I'm an 80 year old man and I don't have a necklace nor an 'escort'. You two are hilarious! You have me in stitches sometimes. You're gorgeous lads. Keep at it!

[@megangardner2766]

I’m a 60 yr old female…love that we all identify with their humor and chat- across all ages. Fun, fun 😂

[@helengesell2668]

Loving this!!!😂😂😂

[@kateelliot1308]

Inspite of all the kidding around..”I would burn the house down” etc…I don’t know if you realise it but you guys are very wise, have good instincts about people - and good values without being preachy and judgemental.💕. Keep the tea pouring!

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

Thanks Kate! 🥰

[@kemlynb]

I came out at 47. My folks pretty much disowned me. It was hard, but you're right it's worth it.

[@seetraceysew9946]

I absolutely love how Todd comes up with names and an entire backstory for all the tea.

[@pattylecompte9846]

*And* immediately. He doesn’t have to think for a second!! The names - I love that! 😂😂

[@ktkrogstad]

It's a talent, really! I'm more here for his extension of the story than the story itself!

[@ronnetteokc4772]

Omg...thank you for cracking me up again 😅 The poop stories have me almost scream laughing, laughing out so loud by myself in my apartment. My 2 cat babies, are giving me that look...like what the heck?! 😮 Love you bunches 💓

[@tiamia7139]

My 2 cats do the same thing! 😅😅

[@AnteaterRae]

Omg! "Taking care of someone with a man cold" I'm dying 😂 ❤

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

It's no joke 😂

[@Robert-xy4gi]

After my grandmother passed in 2007, I played her answering machine. A “cowboy,” had left an explicit message. I laughed hysterically every time of the 17 times replying it. Granny was getting her freak on! Good for her, I thought. Sadly, my Uncle was not amused.

[@sophieb8666]

Lol

[@helengesell2668]

😂

[@jennifferhurlburt642]

Being a middle age woman, I wish telling "Larry" to get off the couch and load the kayak on the Subaru would work. It doesn't matter the approach, I feel like I'm a nag so I just do my own thing. It's very lonely being in a relationship like this. I feel her pain.

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

You’re very right about that! You shouldn’t have to be a nag, he should WANT to spend time doing things that interest you

[@kymkevern1359]

The adjustment to retirement for men is probably the hardest thing they have to do. This happened to my husband. Too late for him though, he passed away. My advice to those heading to retirement make sure you have your couple life in order. It’s a smoother transition. If he refuses. And thinks his life is over, move on. You still have life to live. Live it. I wish I would have instead of being frustrated for those last years.

[@JanitBianic]

100% each gives 100% not 73 or 37 but 100%

[@randyholloway920]

Why only men? If a woman is in this situation today, then she is partly to blame.

[@jennifferhurlburt642]

@@randyholloway920 not blaming, relating. That was the point.

[@DavidHall-ge6nn]

I had this playing on my tablet as I cleaned the kitchen and was belly laughing during the poop portion of the podcast when hubby walked in for another cup of coffee. He rolled his eyes and said, "You are so weird. It's a good thing you're cute." I would have preferred being called a demon in the sheets, but I'll take it. Love these podcasts, guys, and anybody who is just listening is missing your priceless expressions and half the content. More fun than the law allows!

[@janetmayer877]

What I love most is when you look at each other and quietly crack up. What I love most is when you name the characters within the TEA stories. What I love most is how insightful you are. What I love most if YOU. Bravo to both of you and thank you.

[@ronsmith2241]

I've been enjoying your videos for a few years. I am 76 and gay, medically proven during electronic shock therapy. I was married to my accepting wife for 51 years and I cared for her with MS for almost all of the 26 years she had it. I was a Baptist minister years ago, but I've been told I am welcome to even attend church because I am gay. She has recently passed and I am now free to live an authentic life as a gay man. I am keeping well and walk about 10,000 steps a day. Even though I am free to be gay and I really enjoy seeing lovely guys at the beach and at the shopping centre. I've come from the years when it was illegal to be gay and could have been sent to jail for up to 21 years, to the luxury of being openly gay. My adults kids are very accepting which is great.

[@robing9278]

Enjoy every moment of life. We never know where it will take us. You can also be proud of caring for your wife.

[@marysharvey]

Tyler and Todd I find it sad that anyone would ask you if you had been asked to swap or be with other couples sexually. I find that disrespectful to you guys, you are married. I’ve been married for 53 years and never been asked that, I feel the person who wrote that, has a different conception of gay marriage. You both are obviously so in love with each other. The way you look at each other, and you are so respectful to one another, that is a loving relationship; love is love.

[@robing9278]

As they said, it is sadly common.

[@AB-ol5uz]

For the man that retired and didn't have any hobbies....my father worked crazy hours for over 30 years. Any free time he had he support his kids activities, church, etc. So, when he retired, he literally had no hobbies other then reading. He had peers that played golf, joined volunteer groups, etc. and he refused to "learn golf" because he had 0 expereince whereas everyone else had decades (or so he thinks), and he did not want to be locked into obligations every week after feeling like he had no control over his time for so long. Very frustrating for my mother - who is an active, engaged in community person but but my father is an introvert with hearing loss (associated with his work) that impacts his enjoyment of group activities (too many people talking over each other, etc.) so it's ongoing challenge.

[@lil.miscellaneous]

My Grandfather took up golf after retirement, golfed a lot on his own and my uncle cursed every time they played together, my grandfather beat him every time😅. I also have an in-law who worked long long hours for years with no time for hobbies also. Now well into retirement he grows the best tomatoes I’ve ever eaten. Maybe something will spark him.

[@joycew3086]

“Just because they’re blood doesn’t mean they’re family” SO TRUE

[@christimorgan1995]

I absolutely love the dynamic between you two! ❤️ And the way Todd’s brain works is amazing and hilarious!!! 😂 And Tyler’s reactions to his responses are so spot on!!! I could watch @tangentswithtylerandtodd every day!!! 🙌🏻

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

Thanks Christi, so appreciated!!

[@buffalure3198]

You two are so witty. Eddie is just taking it all in for his own future podcast!😮

[@maryphillips-mb4ob]

Hi guys, This is regarding the older woman hiring an escort. I teach my friends about putting a safety in place when you’re having a “date”. You tell a friend where and who you’re going to be with. You put a time frame in place. The plan is that you will call your safety at a certain time ( after the date). If you don’t call, your safety will call the police and give them the address. This puts the responsibility on the person dating and not the friend. It works great .

[@nannerfly345]

I love your notion of making New Year's INTENTIONS instead of Resolutions because to me Resolution has always brought up thoughts of failure, try harder and setting yourself up to fail while INTENTIONS is softer and sounds like hope, promises made to yourself, by yourself for one but yourself. Thanks for the inspiration. Another interesting and eye-opening episode.

[@jenmurphy7777]

"....So who found the poop phone?" Man I love you guys!

[@tiamia7139]

The "poop" phone. 🤣🤣

[@skammer2007]

Gotta love watching the boys............I appreciate your comments on snow removal .....and it's like that here in Colorado. We've had tons of snow...........I'm tired of shoveling........waaaaaaaaaaaay too much...and lots of salt on the driveway :) Keep up the good work!!!!!!!!

[@patgrant3741]

This is so funny!!! I'm laughing so hard that I am crying. Love it.

[@gregstewart6126]

Another excellent episode guys! I need an update on Charlie. I hope he’s doing better.🐾

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

Thank you! He's back to his old self 😊

[@rootbox]

Absofrickenlutely love this Tangents and Tea Time series! Tears of laughter!!!🤣😂🤣

[@shawnlauretic9470]

A couple of years ago, I had a hook up with some guy. After the evening's festivities, we chatted for a bit and he told me he was a Catholic Priest! My jaw never hit the floor harder! He was quite candid about it and told me he "blessed" me with his holy water 😳🤣 and invited me to his sunday services. Needless to say, I didn't attend Sunday Mass, but I did do a little internet search... and he wasn't joking. He really was/still is the priest of that church.

[@cheriindriks3224]

I love how you both carry on amping up the stories, adding the names to make it personal. Lol😂

[@angelinajalbert3420]

I’m dying laughing!! My husband is exactly like Tyler!! If I plan anything I always have to be sure there is a washroom. We live in Northern Ontario about an hour from the city… my husband can tell you all the good spots to stop on the side of the road to go for an emergency poop!! This cracked me up!! Keep up the tangents boys!!

[@jiminNewEngland]

Someone commented that they'd like two 30 minute Tangents twice a week instead. I simple watched half one night and just finished today. Gave me two times to relax and LOL. I love each show you do, but this new Tangents idea really hits the spot. It is just so much fun and actually really good honest advice.

[@mctcurious]

It really is like hanging out will a couple of your silly but wise friends❤

[@Lelffy]

LOL😂 Tyler took us on some tragic tangents! 😜

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

Spilled some personal tea today 😂

[@phoebe2584]

I think Eddie realizes that for the next hour you guys are going to just hang out on the couch and so he knows that it is prime cuddle time!! My cat immediately cuddles up with anyone who sits down on the couch, assuming that they will be there for an extended period and therefore will pet her and she can suck up as much body heat as possible!! 😸

[@KevinCovington5453]

TWO T's In a Pod! LUV U GUYS! ❤

[@Dragonmoon8526]

Another Tea Time Wednesday with Tyler and Todd awaits!!! 😊

[@user-ub6dn4ph5h]

You boys are a scandalous delight! Keep it coming!

[@pattucker5272]

Love your tea times and just a comment from your last video about you saying people had unsubscribed for various reasons the way I see it is that they aren't true followers shouldn't make any difference what your content is love watching you no matter. Carry on boys❤❤❤

[@tiamia7139]

OMG... I completely lost it when Todd said, "Jesus take the wheel". I laughed so loud that my 17 year old dozing cat flew off my lap! 🤣🤣🤣

[@lovebertierose]

I cannot stop laughing. Thanks for the Tea. I just can't stop laughing and my cheeks hurt from smiling.

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

lol love to hear it!

[@Hollybank5]

You two are just tooo cute ❤. I love how you make up back stories for people you don’t even know 🤣. !! 😘

[@leilanihimmelmann9190]

There are a few influencers who have tried the podcast route and just didn’t cut it. But you two nail it every time. Great show. Well done guys, and thank you.

[@GarynPhillips23]

Such an underrated podcast! You two are hilarious 😂😂

[@RT3319]

Just the best: The gay version of "Dear Abby"... Gotta' love it..!!!!!

[@kingglizzer]

So I found this old photo scrapbook in a snow-filled ditch that had tons of Polaroids in it of fun times. Two of the hottest guys I've ever seen--not sure how they even got those things in frame. It's the best when I need some material, if you know what I mean. Definitely swipe right on the blonde one's torso. I recently discovered the absolute studs in the pictures have a podcast. Should I contact them to return the album, or secretly enjoy my good fortune forever? 🤣

[@susanmark2000]

😇

[@Paula_Limberg]

I’m so glad you guys put these out on Wednesdays! Wednesdays are my hardest day of the week, so some positivity is sorely needed!

[@kaitlynvandermeulen]

That was some spicy tea! Another great podcast, and Tyler, your poop stories were bravely told! 😂 Thanks for another great Wednesday morning!

[@moshemordechaivanzuiden]

I looked so forward to it but was very tired. So, I slept on and off during the hour. No problem! I'm (re)viewing it now and successfully because I'm not so tired anymore because I had good naps. Loving it. Like a second chance at life. Thank you!

[@jeffgumer3784]

Tea time is just the best! I'm on the floor.

[@user-wm5tp6vi9l]

Love tea time, it makes my whole week. Thank you so much.

[@lous3772]

“Tangents with Tyler, Todd and Eddy”😅

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

He's part basically part of the show now 😂

[@kenvanderveer623]

When I am approached, I always say, "I have finally met someone special who fulfills all my needs. " "Thank you, but no."

[@kathleenhudson8429]

I understand how you feel about aggressive propositions. One time in the 60s, I (a female) was walking down the sidewalk of a busy area. This man came up to me and asked me on a date. I didn’t date strangers, so I told him no, but he wouldn’t take no for an answer and kept following me, trying to convince me. It was very uncomfortable!

[@djohnson2362]

Love tea time it’s the best xx

[@sherylparker5896]

You guys make my day! You are hilarious 🤣

[@leeannegray1890]

I have just finished watching Tangents, it’s now almost 2.30am here in Australia, just as well I have a day off tomorrow (today actually 🤭) Tyler, your 💩ing in the woods absolutely cracked me up 😂 Absolutely love you two, I could watch Tangents on a daily basis ❤ I hope you guys are staying warm, I’m battling to stay cool 🥵 it’s summer here, it’s currently 67.1 F (19.9 C) at 2:34am

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

Thanks Leeanne! Stay cool ☀️

[@Amani1611]

Yes, another episode is full of tea time. I can't wait ❤❤❤

[@krisday2982]

I laughed out loud about Betty, thanks for loading me up with that vision!

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

Power to Betty! 😂

[@lwalker2627]

love you guys so much. only discovered you a few days ago through a friends recommendation and have been binge watching everything. loving the rv trip but this podcast is my fav because you really show us who you are. i am a mid 40s, married female with 3 kids (live in the country) and i just find i agree with so much of what you say and how you see the world. wish more people were like you both and i just have to say Todd, you are my spirit animal. thank you for sharing yourselves and your lives with us!!!!! oh and i have to add the photos on instagram are GORGEOUS!!!! like wow thats some beautiful photography and subject matter ; ) love you and please keep sharing. just wanted to mention that i have a trans child (who also has autism and adhd) and i will never understand parents who dont accept their kids. i may not have understood exactly how to help her navigate this at first but i told her i would learn to and i would support her no matter what. its my job to love her no matter what and also its up to me to tell her who she is but to teach her to be a good and kind person. to me that starts with acceptance. acceptance of oneself and of others.

[@brookecampilongo3962]

That hubby confessed about the hitting on the sister because he wanted to burden the spouse just to upset her. Very selfish on his part. He wanted to tarnish something for some reason.

[@AB-ol5uz]

it seems like he wanted to give the wife a reason to leave the marriage instead of HIM initiating the divorce.

[@davidperez58]

“Ride on queue”. Eddie is the best!!!

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

The best boy 🐶

[@mandmgirl7227]

This one was fun. All I did was laugh. Todd is hilarious and Tyler works as a good sounding board which makes the situations laughable. Some situations I agree are serious but when things were funny laughter erupted. Keep up the great work you two, most enjoyable 😻😻👏👏

[@danw1952]

The second conversationalist of TANGENTS is another triumph. I especially enjoy your creativity wrt the backstories for each of the correspondents and naming the additiona characters in their stories. You are really gifted conversationalists. Ty's stories were killers. It's a horrific feeling to HAVE to go when it's inconvenient or worse. Wish I had a story to contribute but so glad there are so many who do!

[@terristenacious2279]

I hate the snow and winter too! Shoveling snow entails me shoveling from my scooter! Lol

[@soilofk]

OMG!!!! This is getting better and better every time!! Todd is on fire here!!! hahahahaha dying of laughter! "dick on a stick," LOL " You are just the hole," LOL, so many more!!!

[@conniem7341]

Hi guys! I laughed so hard l almost peed my pants listening to the poop stories. Thanks for the fun every week!

[@MonaCreel]

Patiently waiting! 😊

[@Silkytoaster]

the driving Miss Daisy story was so hilarious .

[@dianacohen3498]

tea times are hilarious!!!! Thanks for making my day.

[@lorettacrooms4398]

You guys are sooooo wholesome! I luv u guys! Real life Heartstoppers!

[@mariamysoul]

Your tea and tangents is the wholesome "with a twist of naughty" podcast I didn't know I needed. You are adorable and unicorns.I didn't even know such a supportive , caring longterm relationship existed. Thank you for sharing a little light in these challenging times.

[@everythingcomputer]

Omg I can’t stop laughing 😂. Picking berries was hilarious.

[@brendymegs]

As a woman in her fifties who went through a divorce in late 40’s and had to start all over I totally understand why the retired lady might not want to leave “Larry”. Financially I lost a lot, and this could be a key concern for her as well. I’m in Australia and one of the highest growing demographics for homelessness is women over 55. This scares the hell out of me because after my divorce I couldn’t afford to buy another house, I’m stuck in a rental market with ever increasing rents and landlords that wont hesitate to evict if they think they can get more rent. I had to move three times in three years ,twice during the pandemic, and none was my choice. Maybe staying with “Larry” is more a financially viable for her and she has a stable home. I agree with you that she needs to work out the state of her relationship with “Larry” before perusing the other relationship.

[@user-cy7bw9lj7b]

Love you guy sooooo much! Laughing out loud in Wisconsin!

[@MrKentfitz]

Love love this podcast!❤❤

[@marlenemacfarlane6199]

Love tea time your answers are just hilarious

[@pattylecompte9846]

The woman whose boyfriend confessed to once making a pass at her sister: Run! Once a cheater always a cheater. That was incredibly selfish to tell her, and get rid of *his* guilt, but it is totally at the expense of the current relationship. Incredibly selfish and incredibly hurtful.

[@susanharrison9147]

I absolutely love you two💕

[@christinalaidlaw7253]

Love, love, love your podcast. Thank you for sharing yourselves.

[@karenludwig2254]

You two are hilarious! Thank you for the tangents! ❤

[@sharonK71]

This was great! I love these episodes! ❤❤

[@willnoiles2001]

The 50-year-old man who hasn’t come out to his family had me thinking: I’m a couple years older than him and I don’t know of anyone in my age group who hasn’t been able to come out to their families. I can think of at least 6 guys I went to high school with who have come out since graduation. So I just don’t get his rationale that he’s of the last generation who looked down upon coming out. I’ve got no doubt he’d find being truthful to his family tough, especially after being in the closet this long, but he should. If he loves his family, he owes it to them to be honest about himself with them. Besides, I’m sure it’s crossed more than one family member’s mind that he may be gay, especially since he’s 50 and has never had a significant other. He may even find coming out easier than he thought. But I give him all the credit in the world for being involved with someone who is physically disabled and unable to do a lot of things other men can do. He deserves credit for being able to look past the disability to the real individual!

[@jefflawrentz1624]

Once again - I’m at work- but listening to your podcast and laughing so hard my coworkers are wondering what’s going on in my office 🤣. This was hilarious !

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

haha glad to bring some laughs, Jeff!

[@AK-dn8sp]

I love you guys, so real and down to earth.

[@user-xp4ig3vc2x]

BEST episode ever! 🤣I have laughed so hard! Thank you

[@thelmab.1516]

This is your best talk ever! The insight that you both have about love and communicating as a couple is amazingly mature and refreshing. Most people who are decades older than you (and have already experienced love, relationships, and marriages), still haven't got it figured out as well as you two. I also envy your ability to be totally open and honest with each other. That is 90% of the secret to a long and happy life together. I wish you both much love and a future filled with everything you both desire. ❤

[@carolinatapia7215]

Loved all the T 👍

[@cynthiaperry1140]

Can't wait for this tea!!!🤭🤭🤭

[@janet-leecomeau8035]

I am so excited every Wednesday and Sunday. You guys Crack me up!

[@barbaradecker1745]

Best podcast on the internet!

[@jenburns6265]

Omg, I love you guys! So, happy you started the pod cast. ❤

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

Means so much to hear that! Thanks Jen 🥰

[@tamaraatkinson940]

I love this channel. And, of course, both of you. Keep it coming!

[@Ohiotruckerkat]

❤❤❤yet another great show!

[@heathersantoro286]

So excited!!!! ❤️🧡💛💚🩵💜

[@elissalaurin1955]

This episode is the funniest, I'm shrieking out loud laughing! You're doing so great❣️

[@andrewjackson8421]

Omg! Love you guys so much! And I respect that you are both so committed to each other. It’s a beautiful thing! Please just keep being you. Y’all are like the best friends we all wish we could have. Your friends and family are very fortunate to have you in their lives!

[@donnalaughlinhogan3819]

What a fun pod cast ….you two are so good at this ,the time slips by so quickly …love it ♥️🇨🇦

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

aw thanks Donna ❤️

[@gloriajeanshaeffer1549]

love the podcast thanks for sharing Take care

[@phyllisbrostrom7348]

Really love the tea podcasts! Another good one ❤❤

[@posnrg2u327]

Love you guys ❤ a few tangents and a major ‘gut buster’ one 😂 on tea time today. Thanks for being real.

[@tangentswithtylerandtodd]

This episode was a riot 😂 Thank you!

[@alecdeull8487]

You're the absolute best! Your humor, compassion, and love and respect for each other shine through. Love from the wrong side of the border!

[@tlcguy1998]

Thanks for the chuckle boys !

[@keepbeesalive7174]

I am at work listening to this and I caught out loud and have tears rolling down my face over the Instagram and Todd's response!