Spoiled Sister Goes Ballistic After I Refuse $8k Designer Wedding Dress - Ignores Me for Months...

Spoiled Sister Goes Ballistic After I Refuse $8k Designer Wedding Dress - Ignores Me for Months Until Learning I Planned Surprise Europe Honeymoon, Then Begs Me to Come.
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[@DarkEinherjar]

OP doesn't realize that, in the end, she got the best revenge: a life well lived.

[@monalishabehera4456]

*Bots~*

[@maarshiexcryxx]

Op can just post this story on her social media and destroy sis reputation outside of her circle. And later save up and go for another tour to piss the sis mkre

[@experienceofchris1108]

you dont realize that, most of these are fake stories somebody wrote on reddit in order to farm karma and sell the accounts for money.......

[@thegrimgripper8416]

​@@experienceofchris1108how can you tell if there fake?

[@StreetWarrior24]

It was really by her choice, OP wouldn't have been offended by her sister pointing out her being single and childless.

[@zayanmehdi1747]

“Cry me a river.” OP’s dad got humbled real quick 😎👌🏽

[@Meowzi_General]

Lol

[@milevmastervladimir9831]

That is pretty much the "womp womp" insult for adults

[@Greyraes]

I hope op marries her new boyfriend. And wears an $8k designer dress to the wedding, whilst simultaneously not inviting them. Disinheriting over something like this??? Seriously, these parents will reap what they sow when they turn to their broke daughter to fund their elderly care. I just hope op stays strong and stay petty when they come knocking.

[@hendrikworung1967]

I have a feeling that will be the next update. Parwnts and sister demands to be incloded in the wedding, because of "faaaaamily..." And people will pressure OP to be the "better person", "take the high road", maybe even "ask for forgiveness". (barf)

[@low-keydrama1260]

Sister burned her bridges with OP and she shouldn’t be surprised she can’t go back and cross them. Funny how sister only considered making amends when she realized she pissed off the person who was gonna pay for her dream honeymoon

[@memeking7273]

I know right

[@user-us9wu1xk1z]

You were your sister's ATM and doormat. I'd go no contact with all of them. Your parents allowed this. Block them all.

[@sophiaisabelle0227]

Sister should've known that she can't use your money for way too long. If she couldn't afford it, she shouldn't try forcing it. Opt for something that looks regal and elegant for a wedding but with a lesser expensive price tag.

[@Hr1s7i]

One must always put boundaries. If you say you'll sponsor something, put an upper limit to the sum. That way, you won't get blindsided. Sadly her sister was an absolute snot about it. Also no self awareness what so ever.

[@madisondean1074]

Out of curiosity one day when I was only 15, I asked my parents how much money they would allow me to spend on a wedding dress. They told me $5,000 and I was stunned. I've seen less expensive dresses that would look just as nice without going overboard. I almost asked them why they would allot me so much money for a dress I'd only wear once. If I end up wanting something more expensive than what my parents are willing to spend, I'd just pay off the remaining cost of the dress myself to prevent further issues. But to be wise with money, don't spend more than what you can afford.

[@yeyosilver7067]

This is what happens when you spoil someone too much

[@mannydcbianco]

Yup. Unfortunately OP was partially responsible for creating the person her sister became. She spoiled her and showered her with money and gifts and always supported her and fought for her even when she didn't deserve it. OP along with the parents created that nasty brat of a sister. OP is obviously in the right here, but she also created the mess for herself.

[@matheusrios3186]

@@mannydcbianco tbh, OP is the main reason her sister became this spoil, even more than her parents.

[@thefiretailedweasel6206]

Watch the parents come crawling back when they're old and the little sister refuses to take care of them lmfaoooo

[@Ohiofelonstate]

Ohhh most definitely they'll weasel their way in using the catchphrase " were family" or the funny " be the bigger person and forgive and forget" etc etc....

[@TheWiggl3ztube]

They took her for granted. She was doing her best for her sister just for her to act like a child and being disrespectful toward op. I’m glad her family decided to take her sister side because it just show no matter how depressed op was, they will take her sister side no matter what. Now op know the type of people her family were and she can focus on her life. At the end, op was able to get a relationship from this and can focus on her health.

[@Whitneypyant]

OP allowed it to happen. She spoiled her she is has at fault

[@areszeudion5153]

​@@Whitneypyantwhile that's true, in the end the sister being petty and ungrateful, along with the family favoritism and gaslighting the op for her own decision in declining her sister's offer made it clear that they're impossible from that point on.

[@krisCrashTV]

I don't really think parents or siblings comprehend the extent of what spoiling can do to a person. They should read reddit more obviously.

[@Meowz3r]

The ending honestly mad me happy. I hope they have a fruitful and happy life together 🥰

[@snaileriepimpson]

Me too! She ultimately is better off for the whole situation. No more toxic family to take her for granted, and she has added an amazing partner to her life with an 8 year friendship as foundation. I can’t think of a better ending!

[@SgtStevePH]

The difference between OP and her parents is that, while recognizing the fact that she did pamper her younger sister (which, frankly is expected to someone older, given the age gap), at the very least she knows where the boundary is. She can tell right or wrong, and not continually support her sister when she knew she's in the wrong. I have a sibling who's 8 years older than me, so I know how it feels treating a younger sibling. But when I can tell that it's not the right thing to do, I'd do both him and myself a favour and say no.

[@jellypopeye7971]

No the OP knows the boundary only when it comes to her. Otherwise in her eyes her sister is an angel

[@HeavensEqualGreatSage]

OP and the guy are so going to get together lol. Edit: LMAO I CALLED IT.

[@jaquelinegarcia119]

💀💀

[@nicoleajobo3415]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Hr1s7i]

The moment I heard it's a guy, I knew she had an angle.

[@noobyman333]

If the relationship OP has with her boyfriend gets more intense OP's parents will try to definitely weasel their way back in, I hope OP has the spine to tell them to get bent, stay f'd off, and that she'll throw restraining orders out like candy on Halloween to any extended "Family" who wants to throw their two cents in.

[@Ohiofelonstate]

Ohhh most definitely they'll weasel their way in using the catchphrase " were family" or the funny " be the bigger person and forgive and forget" etc etc.....

[@avencree]

Hope the parents know that when they are old and grey, the little sister will stick them in a home and wait for them to rot so she can get her inheritance. Bet, dollars to doughnuts the sister screws her parents over and they come crawling back to OP with “bUt wE’er FAaaAamILy!!!!”

[@TheGosgosh]

Retirement home? They’ll be lucky if they make it that far. 😬 If she needs money, and they don’t cough up any…inheritance will be looking juicy

[@murdock94]

5 years from now, either the parents or sis will get a hold of her because everything has gone to heck. Or, better, they'll get a hold of her after finding out she got married and is having a kid. Mad that "she cut them off".

[@memeking7273]

That's what's going to happen

[@Reddie36]

She mentioned she's in her 40s. Having a child mid 40s is pretty dangerous so I don't think that will be a factor. But that sis is definitely going to backstab the parents and maybe ruin her marriage. But if her husband made that call during their wedding, perhaps they're just made for each other and it'll work out

[@murdock94]

@@Reddie36 I didn't even catch that. Thank you.

[@BunnyTheOverlord]

@@Reddie36 You also gotta remember that OP said she doesn't do anything that doesn't benefit her and her husbands well off so she probably married for money.

[@dilypopp]

@@Reddie36Having a kid in your fourties’ is only dangerous for some people, for the vast majority of people, it just becomes more difficult because of waning fertility

[@jackchop1576]

If I was OP, I'd be obnoxious just like this on vacation too and rub it in.

[@Rj-ij6ko]

Oooh, of course Op MUST be TA here for enjoying the vacation that SHE paid for, after her spoiled brat of a sister uninvited her from her wedding and got all her friends to cuss at her for not dropping 8K on a dress… What universe do these people live in where what Op did was worse than what the sister did…?

[@memeking7273]

The one where being a racist is acceptable?

[@juliawacker]

Ops sister didn't invite her until 6 in the morning on her wedding day. I would have gone on vacation or said I already had plans for the day.

[@Hr1s7i]

Stupid kid probably has no idea how the real world works. How can she be so frivolous? Didn't their parents hammer some common sense and pragmatism in her? Damn.

[@abbylewis8356]

you spoil them young and you get spoil adults. Can't expect anything different.

[@yeyosilver7067]

Huh? Bro what lol

[@TheGosgosh]

My bros are better vids

[@PsychoMachado]

Imagine the parents reaction when OP gets married and doesn't invite them. "But we're family! It doesn't matter we disinherited you!"

[@xoxo_rat_xoxo]

That sister pissed me off so much

[@Bluevou]

"we're together now." Oh wow. totally didnt see it coming. totally. Definitely. Who would have guessed

[@Hr1s7i]

**whispers** Just act surprised. Keep the mood going.

[@winniesundust5709]

Sounds like you and your Funds are Better off without them. Live your Life for YOU Blessings to you on your journey ❤

[@BigWhite1996]

Imagine having someone blocked and people still finding a way to leap to the fact that you are “rubbing it in that persons face” what a joke

[@jemase7931]

OP, you helped to create a monster & now you are surprised.

[@boatthere867]

this

[@TheDCAUgothic]

Technically not "rubbing" it in her face.

[@joddo81]

Why are people shocked when spoiled kids become rotten adults?

[@micahmoffett4712]

Good point

[@shuichisaiharasimp]

14:01 WOMP WOMP 😂

[@_juju_jojo_]

“Ignored hoping she’d grow out of it” That’s shitty parenting and being a shitty older sibling

[@mikeyunovapix7181]

No better revenge than success.

[@merykhan97]

The parents are the biggest AHs of this story.

[@marybethbowen7541]

Dude! My wedding dress was no where near that expensive!!! Even if it hadn't been on sale, it would have been $1100 USD. 8k is insane for a dress you'll wear once. I've watched Say Yes to the Dress and such and I am fully aware that there are way more expensive dresses out there, but I feel bad when someone buys me food, let alone would have paid for my dress. I can't fathom spoiled people's thought processes.

[@Hr1s7i]

I dunno anything about wedding dresses, but I assume one can be rented?

[@marybethbowen7541]

@Hr1s7i Yes you can. And you can get them secondhand as well

[@blueflameSM]

OP went on a journey, found herself and her soulmate. W.

[@SilveryBlue1010]

First thing first. I'm laughing at OP when she get the reality check of how she 'raised' a spoiled B. And congratulations for enjoying her life.

[@lyra6695]

You raise a spoiled brat and now it backfire at you, but you still can’t see it

[@readerdragon7783]

Guaranteed they favor the little sister because she is likely going to give the parents grandkids. That's always how it is, the one planning to have children is the favored child because oh, the parents want to be grandparents soooo bad.

[@ryanbashor7371]

You have no idea how absolutely angry I got when their parents had the nerve to say that they're not going to talk to her because it'll upset little wittle itty bitty baby sister and that they were also going to fund her trip to Bali which is just showing her and reinforcing that all she needs to do is cry and be "devastated" And Mommy and daddy will come right up and wipe her little golden tears and dust her off and then give her everything her little golden heart desires because that is Mommy and daddy's golden baby. I get so angry when I hear stories like this. The only thing that OP did was not want to pay $8,000 for a designer tag. Which honestly just go to a bridal shop rip the tag off and take it to your own person to make your bridal gown and then just put the tag on it. Oh I'm so disgusted with these people.

[@gauravkini2506]

I wish there would be more updates on this story.

[@jeannemariethompson424]

I kept screaming to go on the trip and carry a friend and I am glad you did. Your sister is a brat.

[@beaut-ful-d-saster]

I really hope that OP married their friend. It sounds like he came to OP exactly when he was needed the most.

[@gideonroos1188]

And this is why you don't just give kids whatever they want. You make them earn it. It doesn't have to be anything big, something age appropriate like doing chores for a while, helping out with something, getting certain grades, etc. But if you want people to appreciate what they have, it can't come for free.

[@NourAmsterdam]

OP created that monster herself, and learned her parents how to enable 1. It seems the parents had boundaries before but because of OP, they let that slide bit by bit.

[@boredpersonstory553]

So they the spoiled Baby Sis who turned into a whiny brat know OP and Family have Surprise Pikachu Faces? OP isn't wrong for nt wanting to pay for an 8k dress she needs to understand that she the cause of her Baby Sis behavior

[@glow2500]

She literally admitted that she knew its cause of how she treated her sister. She didn't deny that at all. Tf

[@BrightElk]

Idk who these people are who are shaming folks for not getting married and not having kids. I’ve been getting the opposite. I live in an area where people are very strangely anti marriage and anti kids. I got shamed for getting married “too young and too fast” at 26. We were together for nearly 8 years. No idea what universe that’s too young too fast. I get the usual annoying comments like “oh humans aren’t meant to be monogamous! Marriage is a scam anyways! Just give it a few years you’ll be divorced in no time and realize what a huge waste of time and energy it is!” Then I got shamed for becoming pregnant and then constantly reminded what an annoying pest babies are. Being told that there are only “selfish” reasons for having children and child rearing is all sacrifice and no reward. My kids will take everything and never thank me. That everyone dies alone and don’t expect them to take care of me when I’m old. Sheesh. Honestly I’ve gained the eternal wisdom that it doesn’t matter the choices that you make. People just like to find reasons to criticize you and if there’s no reason to criticize you they will just make something up!

[@JustMeDidii]

Am I the only one mad that the parents are finding a trip to Bali?

[@EventH0riz0n]

Disinheriting over being disrespectful to both mom and dad once and being petty over your sister hating you for not gifting her 8k is certainly something. If this is one of the rare true stories from reddit then this is completly insane.

[@Potatobowmaster9]

LETSGOOOOOO FINALLY A HAPPY ENDING

[@smoccenffg4281]

“ ima confront them “ then barely say anything 💀 why do ppl do that

[@Ohiofelonstate]

Soooo op had a hand in creating the monster and now the monster turned on her she's here whining.. seems like the whole family stinks of rotten 10 week old tuna..

[@meowser1905]

The love and affection wasn't the problem, the problem OP and their family have is they never taught the sister about boundaries, and they also never taught her that actions have consequences.

[@IgorGoncallves]

OP had her part in creating this mess of a sister, and got lucky it exploded the way it did, could’ve been much worse.

[@carebear91]

If it was me, I would have explained without giving away the surprise about the refusal. "I know you want that, but trust me as your sister that I have something else big planned that you'll want a lot more. Please be patient and understanding, and you'll get everything you want."

[@deftoneslover]

15:11 I KNEW ITTTT 😭😭❤️

[@Queenofthatank]

This made me think of my dad telling my daughter "You're crazy cuz your mom raised you" n when she asked "why is my aunt crazy then" he said "Your mom raised her too" I laughed n said "at least you finally admitted i raised your kids for you" n he got mad at me 😂

[@iamsongforsomeone994]

This should be a movie. Ultimate bridezilla

[@user-is5kt8qo2x]

I love how kind the OP is frfr

[@susanrand512]

Such a sad story....

[@Offutticus]

My parents were emotionally and physically abusive. There's just 2 yrs between me and my older brother but 6 between me and my younger brother. We really tried to protect him, to keep him from experiencing what we had. It worked. He grew up thinking life on the farm was great fun, not the hard work and beatings. Did we spoil him, you bet. Because we never were. Did he grow up to be a shithead? Nope. He grew up to be a wonderful man with two wonderful kids. Because we separated him from that violence and emotional crap, the generational cycle of that stopped with him. (My older brother, however, is just like dad. I've not spoken to him in decades and I'm fine with that.)

[@shouryasharma5961]

Just say womp womp and move on 😂

[@oneuup2490]

I wouldn't have waited until I didn't receive a wedding invitation after she talked to me like that I would have canceled her honeymoon. You folks need to stop acting like a bunch of doormats and start having some balls and some respect for yourself!!

[@NeversurrenderMM66]

I don't see anyone commenting on how OP was fine with the horrible way her spoiled sister treated others, until she, herself, was treated the same. You reap what you sow. Everyone's an AH.

[@Yan-loves]

The comments aint flooded yet

[@DwayneTheSquidJohnson]

Dawg you opened the floodgates

[@Razzberry_dollz]

Kinda hard to feel bad for OP when they helped spoil and make the monster

[@aceaem08]

“We are together now.” You didn’t had to say, we can guess it from the introduction itself.

[@peshivirginflower7]

Parents will b knocking on ops door in a couple of years asking for help bc fav sis spent all their money.

[@toniirion5225]

I am so happy for you. May you have a wonderful life.😊

[@dmr4450]

Very sad this happened to OP. I know what it feels like to love your family deeply and sacrificially but they don't return the feeling. She did the right thing. Hope she will be very happy hereafter.

[@StreetWarrior24]

It was really by her choice, OP wouldn't have been offended by her sister pointing out her being single and childless.

[@lilogonzales6625]

Yes you have a decade more than her. It's normal that you teach her! 🎉 I hope the travel was great!

[@Arhimith]

Parents disinherited her? What's there to inherit after they stop working and spend everything on their old failing bodies? They will crawl back to their oldest daughter to beg she change their Depends and pay for their meds.

[@supermama]

Yaaayy! Omg! Love wins!

[@Raph_27]

All that pampering must have turned op's sister's brain into mush if she acts like that as a full grown woman

[@GereldJohnson]

Little sister played herself

[@cevionmarsh5535]

Super mega, happy ending.

[@Demonoicgamer666]

Well we now know why he fell in love with her. They are both narcissists and the same person so they naturally fell in love. They deserve each other.

[@TIMB1044]

Yay 1.more guy was able to escape the friend zone

[@s0ular9765]

Sister should have realized that she couldn't have both her cake and eat it at the same time. She pissed off the one person that was going to give her the best gift she could have asked for and well she burned those bridges with OP. With how OP's family has been favoring the younger sister they should have known that when OP decided to cut them off and go on that trip that was hoing to be the beat since that was her choice to do so. Her sister made her bed and now she has to lay in it. Her now lover is right for OP to cut them off and just not bother with the problem child and her little followers not her fault that her sister and her husband are now being petty over a gift that wasn't promised. Yeah OP made the mistake of spoiling the brat, but at the same time the brat had plenty of time to correct the error of her ways now this brat has to deal with whatever karma that will hit her, her parents, her husband, and her friends.

[@vexxama]

The parents really aren’t putting the pieces together. She didn’t want to reconcile, she wanted a free holiday. I’ll give it a few months of having to put up with her in the place of the OP and they’ll be seeing how selfish she is

[@rogueshark23]

Yeah they broke their promise of not telling and I don't think that the little will grow out of that behavior any time soon.

[@inesvera3449]

I love good endings! I hope you guys get married some day! 😊❤

[@solidussnake5153]

Get married and get the dress wanted and go on another trip, petty shit right there. Also well deserved trip screw them

[@magicscoolbus3834]

Parents cut off just for this!? What the heck! How can you abandon 1 of your children for wedding dress? Thd heck is wrong with those parents? And here I thought We finally had a story where parents were intelligent and mature. Guess not 😅

[@user-qz7rf4qt6g]

OP is as much at fault for his sister as his parents.

[@PancakeNation]

LETS GO! HAPPY ENDING!

[@RutwikGulakala]

Thats not love and affection. That's spoiling.

[@smurtest2001]

you snooze you loose 💀💀💀💀

[@boatthere867]

op you and your famiely rased her like that and are now shocked she's still like that when she's an adult lol.

[@imuthis2011]

OP, after reading so many stories like yours, I have to say that your family is one toxic bunch. There're so many red flags here: favoritism, taking advantage, gaslighting and guilt tripping.

[@Queerventurers]

OMG I was kinda shipping OP and their travel friend!!! So happy they ended up together!

[@Gabreya]

The only thing OP was wrong with was spoiling her sister. That along with the parents also spoiling her and making her their golden child turned the sister into such a narcissistic, entitled brat. Not to mention, this situation has also shown the parents to be HORRIBLE. Glad that OP has cut them all out of her life and is in a new relationship with her longtime friend. Hopefully, if she decides to do this, if or when OP decides to get married, she should not invite her TOXIC relatives. Living well and success is the best revenge.

[@lyra6695]

A jerk for what? Spending her own money? All of them are aaa

[@huyenly7603]

I was kind of hoping that she would get together with her 'friend' 🤭 Though the story continued in my head and that they made a 'vacation baby'...I have been listening to too many stories. ANYWAY, good on you OP. Spoiling younger siblings can be quite fun but only if they also give you something in return...like being adorable. This younger sib was definitely not though, and the parents weren't all that better. Wishing OP a bright and happy future...maybe with a cat or dog maybe a fish, or maybe a plant if that is her thing. Build a new little family. ❤

[@notting2640]

BRATTY SISTER NEEDS CORRECTION!!!! 💢💢😭😭

[@jemase7931]

Relax. The biggest revenge for you is that those two will have to live with each other. Why is it anyone else's business if you take a vacation and post pics on an account that your sister is not supposed to be on?

[@ec6443]

You did nothing wrong. Your sister is a spoiled pos. I'm glad you ar3 enjoying your trip!!

[@Aizen-ip6cl]

The things I would've said if this was me

[@machopi]

single/no family by choice actually means 'nobody wants to touch me with a 50ft pole so i'm huffing that copium'

[@sayastyx]

no, it does not mean that 💀 you CAN be single by choice if you want to, and that doesn't make you frustrated just because you cant get a relationship, maybe if people like you minded their own business and wouldn't bitch around you'd get a relationship too

[@machopi]

@@sayastyx project harder, maybe you'll break a record eventually

[@alexanderkelsey-gi4qn]

I hate to break it to OP, but she most definitely had a hand in creating this monster. I’d even go so far as to say it’s mostly on her, because the parents at least tried to talk some sense into the sister about the career choices she was making. She only had the ignorance to pursue an acting career with no back-up plan because OP enabled it. I think OP suffers from severe self-esteem issues. That tends to be the case when you always put someone who’s not your child before yourself in the way that she does. I’m not saying she has to have a family, but does her stance come from a place of fear? And even if she chooses to be child-free, she could always find a partner who is also child-free. Her life is hers of course, but I feel like there’s something deeper to this.

[@HeavensEqualGreatSage]

Honestly the career choices are ok but the other things were horrible.

[@katherineelmer3648]

Part 2 op gets married, and only family not invited are her x parents and x sister . That would be cool

[@Justyn_Lim]

Didnt OP said she chose the solitude life 🤭? Glad that she's found someone

[@brianaschmidt910]

Just wait for mom and dad to go into debt for their golden child and her to ignore their demands because (its not fair on my hubby) so they come begging for money from op

[@charminglady2011]

Yep I get the whole thing about family nit parents spoiling a child.

[@shini2007]

OP should have gone to the wedding then bought her a gift from target