Ex-Wife Dumped Our Kids for Her Date, Lied About Being Broke While Blowing My Child Support Money...

Ex-Wife Dumped Our Kids for Her Date, Lied About Being Broke While Blowing My Child Support Money With BF - I Got Full Custody and Sued, Now She's Losing It All.
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[@i_xkarma8298]

Ex thought she was cooking but burnt the entire neighbourhood and lost everything 💀

[@bloxeyrblx2462]

Amazing comment🤣

[@amoththatthinks]

I love new gen humour

[@NagoBust]

@@amoththatthinks fr fr ong

[@Haxridmann]

@@amoththatthinkssame

[@The_Comix_Maker]

No cap

[@yeyosilver7067]

Leaving children outside in the cold is truly inhumane, what a horrible woman

[@fivelittlemonkees]

My mother would lock us out and leave us sitting on the front porch. No matter the weather.

[@TD4K_WIS]

@@fivelittlemonkeesare you g-good… bro?

[@danacarter9147]

​@@fivelittlemonkees That's totally messed up.😔

[@boredboi6279]

She's lucky that they were able to call her ex they could've died and she'd be hit with way more

[@WTFISAKILOMETERE69]

​@@fivelittlemonkeesmy father did a simalar thing, he was out when we came to his house after a weekend with our mum because of split custordy and he refused to open the door for us so we had to wait and hour and a half just to get in. Now rhat im older he tried to reach out so i blocked him and stopped talking to him.

[@DarkEinherjar]

Don't be disappointed. She was probably cheating on you long before the divorce.

[@jscnag]

Yeah she was celebrating 8 months not 6 months and op divorced her 6 months ago

[@gallicia4613]

​​@@jscnag, not true. What started the whole situation was her dropping off the kids to celebrate 8 months. They had been divorced for a year at that point (I guess a year and 2 months) because OP said she found her BF 6 months after.

[@istoppedcaring6209]

i don't actually think so, i think she just reverted back to "single behaviour" right after the marriage ended, a married life she had come to hate deeply, hence why she evidently partied like a college student, drank like one, and dated one. her kids became a tool to maintain that life as well, she no doubt blamed them existing for much of her troubles and therefore she elected to do the bare minimum for them to live (without obvious signs of malnutrition) then telling them not to tell "dad" about any of it or there'd offcourse be hell to pay in her mind she didn't get the chance to experience fun college hot girl summer type living and now as a nearly 40 year old she decided to revert back to that.

[@jesschen5513]

​@@istoppedcaring6209 She may not have been cheating but something tells me she was trying to I've this "singles" life since way before the divorce.

[@vengefulwarrior5852]

Yeah, she was giving "red flags" near the end of the marriage and then when she was "free" she just so happened to hook up.

[@low-keydrama1260]

Ex: basically admits she cares for her boy toy more than her kids and gives OP evidence that she abandoned them to freeze because “I’m having my 8 month anniversary! They’re YOUR problem now!” Gets caught spending child support on herself and hand gifts OP the evidence of her abusive and selfish butt **gets arrested and charged by CPS, loses custody of her kids, and loses everything.** Ex: *surprised Pikachu face*

[@vaporean_boylove.0w083]

Some ppl are so selfish and only thinking, "I and me," that they tell on themselves in many ways!

[@aftersexhighfives]

She believed her own lies.

[@DezAmmySel]

"You should have a little compassion at least!" Sorry, spent all my compassion on my KIDS, who you NEGLECTED.

[@NonchalantSims]

she’s a bad mother and a liar and is upset that she got caught ???

[@memeking7273]

Most of these trash people are like that. They care only for themselves and everyone else can quite literally screw themselves

[@ThePawerStation]

Oh yeah... I'm going tell him that I'm struggling with 2 jobs but post a luxurious life on social media. GREAT IDEA, 10/10 The boyfriend... I'm going to come clean about the luxurious life and that she is paying for my master. ANOTHER GREAT IDEA, 10/10

[@TripnotizeVM]

A match made in heaven

[@MythicalDreams4244]

they have been divorced for 6 months, but she said 'celebrate 8 months' ..... hmmmmm... the math aint mathing.

[@dollsite]

probably cheated on OP.

[@darknessindawn]

She started dating after 6 months of divorce,and i guess leaving the children at op home incident happened,ofc few months later... I don't think op is dumb enough to not think about it , he didn't say anything about cheating in the story tho... Either it is Ai written

[@readaholicgirl_5]

I think it takes a few months to finalize the divorce and she had already started seeing a new guy in the meantime. Or cheating and finally made it official 8 months ago

[@Nezumi_Yasu]

he said a year at the beginning of the vid

[@Eye_Of_Odin978]

Oh it maths, alright. It only "maths" when you consider that most vv0men are hypergampus sociopaths who just see men as walking ATMs and d1ld05

[@johnnyhall9154]

Payers of child support should be able to audit the child support, within reason and given evidence shows misuse of funds, so shit like this doesn't happen

[@carolcarol9982]

Was that horrible woman restricting herself to the same "Sick" food she was feeding her children? I'll bet not.

[@ZedBeiFeng]

Oh no she ate like a king for the gram I'm sure

[@Rj-ij6ko]

LOOOOL at the bf “you don’t understand, she’s actually broke from supporting me and constantly taking us on vacation” What a moron

[@Chuckakhan]

Honestly surprised that she only got a misdemeanour for abandoning her kids outside in sub zero temperatures

[@sophieamandaleitontoomey9343]

The scariest thing about the kids being out there alone is that someone could have easily taken them.

[@sophiaisabelle01]

You deserve to be single for a while. Take breaks as much as you can.

[@neil999ish]

Child support needs to AUDITED to make sure it is being spent on the CHILD/REN!

[@thorcadail5812]

Everyone does their own thing but if you see your friend's children getting mistreated, even if you haven't talked to the friend in a while, you should tell them. If you see something, say something. Silence is complicancy. Especially when you're still mutals with an abuser, of your free will. They probably heard about those kids freezing in the snow too. If they knew that and still said nothing, they eventually contributed could have contributed to the kids' death. Those aren't really friends to have around

[@RoseTiger-Roblox]

I agree! I was very much surprised at the friends.

[@Mia-dt3gl]

“How DARE you hold me accountable for my behavior!”

[@ButchPleaseImFabulous]

If they tell you not to tell anyone (especially your other parent) they KNOW that they’re abusing you

[@daniellematheny2072]

This woman sounds pure evil tbh.

[@danacarter9147]

Well said. If someone saw what she did, they would contact social services to arrest her for child abuse/neglect, remove the kids from her, place them in foster care, and then, with adoptive families.⚠️

[@boatthere867]

thats one thing i hate getting money for the kids from dad and useing it to go out and never spending it on the poor kids.

[@BrightElk]

I mean i’ve heard dads complain about the moms getting their nails done but I usually roll my eyes because in most of those cases the kids are well fed, get lots of gifts and big parties for their birthdays and christmas and they’re wearing nice clothing. Some dads think that the mother should just dress like cinderella and never do anything nice for herself ever. But in this situation the mom is definitely in the wrong.

[@jonasg.bisgaard1086]

@@BrightElkbecause child support isn’t meant for the mother, it’s meant for the kids. Her own items and accessories should be paid with her own money, or alimony if it is given.

[@kalifaa.d]

that's why being dishonest is stupid and 99% of the time backfires and lemme tell you when it backfire it HURTS

[@Reggy2000]

Sounds like she had a woman or women in her ear telling her “she can do better”. It amazes me how women can detect BS from men but they are completely at the mercy of other women!!! Seems like she was trying to make up for lost time. I have seen, when ever a woman leaves a great guy for a dude she has to support, that loser was approved of by her friends!!! The fact she was posting all of this to social media proves she did all of this to impress her friends…

[@BrightElk]

I mean I’m not saying it doesn’t happen but this entire comment is hypothetical and it is just really cringe because it sounds like you’re projecting some kind of personal trauma or fear of yours.

[@HeyThatsMe3]

@@BrightElkit is a huge assumption but I agree 😂 as a female I’ve seen it too many times. Which is why I prefer to have older married female friends vs females my own age. It’s definitely a projection of personal experience and an assumption no one said it was fact though lol

[@BrightElk]

@@HeyThatsMe3Perhaps you are right. I never really thought of it that way before. But you might be onto something. I’ve always gravitated to married women as friends. But I guess I could never quite put my finger on why. 😅

[@notting2640]

Women love making other women miserable 😂 what else is new?

[@gianinamorales8597]

Oof high school bullshit

[@angelicakaufman7183]

It's usually kind of daunting to try to prove that you should get all your child support back but this seems like a slam dunk case

[@kaitotatsuya]

What a CHAD

[@HADDADOU208]

Bro got the best revenge

[@sanddagger36]

if she was coaching the kids to lie then even she knew she was in the wrong. "Please drop the case that I know i will lose." a judge a lawyer, two kids, your ex husband, your current boyfriend and you yourself all knew you were going to lose, which means you deserve it and you know it. Also, he laughed at her audacity when she said he was just doing it out of spite, but without context, laughing at someone who calls you spiteful can be construed as an admission.

[@devhxh1558]

Imagine OP reaction when all the child support and alimony he is giving her, she was spending all it on her bf and even paying for bf tuition... Keeping OP kids basically hungry.

[@kennycai8695]

Gosh, this is exactly why I say any money from alimony or child support have to be heavily scrutinized to ensure things like these never happen. Unfortunately, there is no law to dictate how money from those sources have to be spent, so truly awful people like the ex-wife exploit this loophole to their benefit. Heck, a similar story that made my blood boil when I first heard it had a line that sums it nicely. "This is mommy's paycheck", said by a narcissistic mother to a child after receiving the child support payment from the child's father (needless to say, this awful mother also blew the money on herself). Unless this loophole is firmly closed, narcissistic parents will forever see their children as ATMs from their exes, nothing more.

[@jonasg.bisgaard1086]

I think a good way to ensure child support money is being used correctly would be have the money on a separate account, that only allows transfers for necessity’s like clothes, food, and so on. Or make it an amount that people can live off, but enough to cover basic expenses.

[@aaryaraina1971]

when you realise she couldve kept it all hidden keep on spending all that free money if she didn't make the stupid mistake of leaving her kids in the cold. thank goodness she did

[@Battalionchief_lynn]

Random comment nothing to see here Bros ex is an asshole

[@neurodivergentautie]

And has the Boyfriend ever heard of FASFA? You can pay for your tuition that way.

[@Purple_Polly_]

I just read the title (not the second part of it)💀💀💀

[@CardioCaffeineQueen]

You are an amazing dad. You should have no guilt on this messy situation. You have done everything humanly possible to make sure they were safe as soon as you were aware of the entire situation.

[@moderntelugammayi2295]

I think there is physical ab** is also involved if the kids are slowly open up to you then there is a Physical and emotional ab** is involved either they are SCARED of their Wits or they think you would have the same reaction as their mother children cannot distinguish these things clearly Please spend some more time with them and slowly tell them that what her mother scared them of will not happen Childhood traumas are hard to recover I Hope you and your children recover and move on from this 😔

[@tabbycat2154]

Definition of “you made your bed, now you get to lie in it.”

[@FlorianHWave]

This "AITA" thing is getting really annoying. Is there even one video here where they don't use that term?

[@scpfoundation8376]

Nope, and that’s got me thinking these are more and more fake or AI generated cause a lot of these stories are very obvious that they’re not the asshole, yet somehow there’s a tiny shrapnel of bs that makes them ask it.

[@FlorianHWave]

@@scpfoundation8376 I've never thought about that, but that's a good point. One more reason why I don't like AI. It's even harder to know how whether something it real or fake.

[@TripnotizeVM]

@@FlorianHWave Best way to go about it is just enjoy it for the story that it is, if it's fun for you to believe it's true then do so. There isn't going to be any proof provided either way so you do you

[@crazyazura7564]

I think, the original old stories are rewritten to make them more "interesting" for audience and make op more clueless when ask questions like "am i aita for...", "should i get a divorce" expecting for an advice from strangers.

[@scpfoundation8376]

⁠@@crazyazura7564that’s probably true. I’ve been on Reddit and I can tell when someone actually typed this out as them actually asking because it reads like they’re actually talking. When it reads like they’re trying to write an essay it tends to make me lean towards fake.

[@chung2055]

Ex mis used the child support and should lose custody of Ops biological kids.

[@RealLifeThread]

Great story! It's so inspiring how you stood up for your children and took the necessary steps to protect them. How are your kids adjusting to the changes? Are there any other challenges you're facing now?

[@SubStorySnoo555]

She didn’t move on quickly, she was already cheating.

[@slinkysatear]

Why is he paying child support if they share half and half? That makes no sense

[@jonasg.bisgaard1086]

That’s how the court system works. It’s Stupid but I guess the reason is that the mom makes significantly less than the dad and therefore is allowed child support for some reason.

[@jackmehr7740]

Not fair you’re suing her? She got lucky you didn’t bury her. If this is real, she needs jail time for what she did to those kids.

[@georgewashington4866]

I bet the Ex was cheating on OP but had it hidden to where she didn't leave any evidence

[@Xrk-krx]

If u have children and they are in trouble and its serious you need to put ur morals and value to the aside

[@miguelarias5193]

"Was it totally unfair when YOU left our kids in the FN cold so you could celebrate 8 months with your lover"

[@someotheralias]

The audacity of the boyfriend 🤣🤣

[@dogguy8603]

Good thing OP did this when he did, or else this could have turned into a casey anthony thing

[@lynx9311]

He better take that money and put it into a trust for the kids.

[@Heiura]

She definitely was already cheating during the marriage

[@karasiutakasiu8298]

That was not her boyfriend, that was her sugar baby😂😂😂

[@Mery3.6]

So basically the ex-wife uses her kids like atms because of the child support

[@fivelittlemonkees]

This is made up. The judge would have automatically filed restraining order against her to stay away from the kids. Grandma would have only needed to call the cops and have that enforced

[@MeyaRoseGirl]

I'm a bit confused that OP had decided to "give her privacy" and stop following her social media and stop keeping up on what was happening in her life, post-divorce. I wouldn't do that with an ex, even if there WEREN'T children involved because I'm nosy. But he was supposed to be co-parenting with this woman, AND he was paying her massive amounts of child support and alimony. She was still very much a part of his life. I'm not saying he needed to stalk her, but he should have been keeping an eye on her. It's just common sense to keep an eye on someone that you are financially supporting to make sure they are using your money for necessities and not luxuries and frivolities. If he had been paying closer attention, he probably would have put the pieces together sooner that she was neglecting the kids, and it wouldn't have come to them being in serious danger stuck in the cold. On the other hand, that incident really made his case for custody, and they weren't permanently harmed, so maybe it's for the best.

[@jonasg.bisgaard1086]

Many people don’t want to do that, for a multitude of reasons, and trust others enough to be sane, and responsible, especially with kids. And considering that she apparently acted normal around him, he figured that she was a decent mother, and that that there was no reason to half stalk her online activities.

[@jonasg.bisgaard1086]

It’s just you who can’t mind your own business, and need to be nosy about other people, and partners.

[@princessmarlena1359]

Why does OP feel bad for suing the ex after she abused their children? He needs to grow a pair, stop being so weak. Double down.

[@darthplagueisthewish5446]

W dad

[@EeveeTheKid]

Was this a repost? Or story updated?

[@Jptalktoomuch]

I was thinking the same thing

[@jonasg.bisgaard1086]

It’s basically because these stories aren’t the channels own content, but from forums like Reddit. Where many people like to share their life experiences, and update on how things are going, either for the better or worse.

[@ZedBeiFeng]

Feminism teaching woman to be total narcissist.

[@uknownclient6105]

Whats the diffrene betwen alimony and child support

[@MeyaRoseGirl]

Alimony is payment for a former spouse who either didn't work or doesn't make as much money. Child support is payment for the upkeep of a child.

[@danialdirty5656]

child support and alimony is nothing more than a welfare check for the mother, the state could give to fucks about the kids, when the say its in the best interest of the child, they mean the wife not the kids.

[@ButchPleaseImFabulous]

Considering they can stop child support parents or take your kids away if you’re caught misusing it, that’s definitely not true where I live. Alimony is fully for her though

[@Shapeshifter-of-Names]

AITA

[@keithpang2211]

NTA

[@RebootedCloud]

Hi

[@ToritheCat123]

Nta

[@tracycade3088]

modern woman for sure lol

[@thehousespouse]

I’ll never understand the mentality of a man to divorce a woman and then be disappointed that they don’t go after you and try to get you back. And then they get disappointed that their ex-wife moved on a whole 6 months later. I just want to say to those men “You ended the relationship. That was your choice. Don’t throw around the word divorce if you are hoping for a reconciliation.” It’s wild to me that men use divorce to try to manipulate the situation and get their wives to romance them. That’s the exact opposite of what the word divorce means. Divorce is the end. The final end. It’s not to be used impulsively after a fight as some sort of wake up call.

[@Subt0nix]

The woman initiated this divorce?

[@amvjin6760]

I'll never understand the ability of a woman to twist a situation to deflect any bit of accountability as if it was their kryptonite. Or why women treat divorce as a get rich quick scheme or cheat during marriage?

[@amvjin6760]

Why would men initiate divorce if they have to give up half of their assets for no reason on no fault states and then pay child support/alimony because the children are held hostage?

[@amvjin6760]

Also the mother literally abandoned the children she had with her ex in freezing weather without giving OP any sort of notice; she also gave her children the bare minimum while spoiling her boyfriend!

[@mycrushisapotato2741]

Women ☕

[@longschlongsilver7628]

"Moved on so quickly" yeah she was cheating

[@aftersexhighfives]

She's definitely doing a lot of drugs. That is barely touched on. Yet it is the crux of why her behavior has changed. Looks like maybe she always had a problem with substances. Or it started shortly after the birth of her youngest child. But o p completely glosses over the fact that she definitely is following down a substance spiral. It's kind of sad that in a way the best thing she could do is stop breathing. Then the kids would get social security support. Otherwise she's completely useless while literally being a crack 304.

[@nwoehdj]

NTA