Boxcar bathroom breaks? (wind whizzin') Spoon Lady

[@cherylalikhani5957]

You are braver than I was! I was scared of going anywhere near the open door so urinated in the opposite corner of where we were sleeping then poured some water over it. Defecated on some kind of paper and (carefully) kicked it near the door for my partner to dispose of with a final kick out the door. It was a lot harder peeing from hoppers and you couldn't pay me to hop one again even if I was in prime condition and had top notch gear. You could go down the middle and hope you don't slip between the two cars or over the side and pee onto the wheels. Only good thing I can say about hoppers is there was a lot of places to hold onto but if the wind blew the wrong way the pee it was a disaster. On a hopper the space is barely wide enough for two lovers to cosy up, that means it gets all over the bedding and gear as well as you and your partner.

[@SpoonLady]

The struggle is real.

[@cherylalikhani5957]

Hugs - you know it!

[@imstillhere3753]

Your a very intelligent and kind woman. Thank you. ❤️

[@ritasmith1127]

❤️🙏🙏Abby❣️❣️☕️☕️

[@wendelreed-jd5ir]

😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😚😚😚😚😚😚😚woow dogy

[@grizzly22485]

Why am I looking at Abby but hearing the wisdom and knowledge of a college professor? Great talk and such positive messages. Thanks!

[@rugrat1235]

Because rich experiences in life is an education in & of itself. And I believe Abby is an innately "good" person. Great combination for creating precocious wisdom✌💕

[@lfbeam]

(College professors aren’t always that wise- knowledge isn’t necessarily wisdom)

[@catlange]

A real lesson in life

[@charlesharper7292]

I know professors that hold doctorates that don't shine like Abby. Be safe lady.❤️🌹

[@Hawkeye-ef4xf]

When I was a kid, we hopped a train to go to the city pool. I lived in rural KY and it was way too far to walk. At the crossing in my little town the train slowed down pretty slow. But when we got to the bigger town, it didn't slow down near as much, because it just was on the edge of town and had a higher speed limit. Well we were to afraid to jump off. When we finally were able to jump off 45 miles from home, my dad almost killed me. Never jumped a train again.

[@jimthornberry6774]

Miss.Abby that sure is a pretty sweater you have on there. I love anything crocheted or knitted. I just taught myself how to crochet. I take those crappy plastic shopping bags and make plarn. From there I crochet them into sleeping mats for animal shelters and the homeless. The people seem to like them. They don't hold odors or bedbugs and are lightweight. I enjoy your videos they inspire me to be a better person and take away my depression.😚 Thank you

[@icaruswithovaries]

Amanda Morgan yes sister! Thank you for blessing others. That’s how we rise by doing things that lift others. Blessings to you and yours.

[@virginiamesko6369]

Abby, I have such respect for you and the fact that you speak honestly with the voice of experience. You may well save others much of the negative side of ill conceived adventures. You are one of my favorite people.

[@dmlail]

Love the way you're able to describe delicate matters in a humorous but yet dignified manner. well done dear lady.

[@juliacamp6790]

I love your videos. My dad is a train buff. I grew up exploring railroad yards, stopping at every old rail car so dad could sketch up the details. Then he’d go home and build an exact replica at 1” scale. I enjoy hearing your stories. I love listening to your music. I delight in traveling around the country and meeting interesting people. I’m hoping someday I’ll get to run into you! Keep playing.

[@bethbrown8997]

Where do you find your positiveness? I struggle everyday and I wish I could be as upbeat and positive as you! Keep on rockin' Ms. Abby

[@silverwolf2666]

I love your message, not just in this video, but in general. As a survivor of domestic violence, I'm still trying to find out who I am. I spent decades being who I was told to be. Thank you for your encouraging words. 🥰

[@SpoonLady]

This comment means the world to me ❤️

[@silverwolf2666]

@@SpoonLady thank you! I just found your channel a few months ago. You have brightened my spirits and given me the courage to follow my dreams. I saw the video of you talking about having to give up your kids. I know that was the hardest thing you ever had to do. But I know you did it out of pure love, and not selfishness. Bless you for doing what you knew was the best thing for them. We do the best we can with what we have at a given time. And like you said, everything happens for a reason.

[@Kitty-pb8fj]

You are truely a wise and eloquent woman. I love all your videos. I think anyone who truely listens to your messages can find an answer to many of life's puzzles. Sometimes you have to go through something to save someone else the heartache. Thank you Spoon Lady!

[@110mushuga4]

Awesome message wonderful lady. You are so very blessed. Thank you for sharing your light in this otherwise dark world. Shine on.

[@seanmolloy9422]

I was born with a train yard as my back yard . we started hopping trains at about 7-8 yrs old. this was mid 70s. I love trains and the stories they helped us live. thanks for pushing that button.

[@donnastarnes3104]

What a seasoned and wise woman you are! And thank you for some much needed sage advice this evening! At 55, I am in the midst of re-inventing myself! Thank you M' Lady!

[@beach153]

My brother rode freight trains when he wasn't hitchhiking. It is very dangerous! He walked away in 94 and we haven't seen him since. I have a candle in the window every Christmas for him. His name was Jonathan

[@bernvlogs7391]

I hope he is well and one day you find eachother! 🙏🏻

[@SpoonLady]

This is why I keep talking about the reality of it.

[@Mamagr5l66]

@beach153randi have you tried any sites for missing people? 😞 So true, Abby about those chains ❤ ✌ Pee in a bottle & dump it. Train hopping very dangerous. I'm too old now. Kids need to realize they can lose limbs and their life, one wrong step.

[@beach153]

@@SpoonLady thank you for the response Abby

[@beach153]

@@bernvlogs7391 thank you. Very kind of you

[@SovereignEllen]

Valuable message for anyone and everyone.

[@joycelind4623]

I love how you make me feel as if you are real in caring about us. I have taught my kids to only be in competition with your own best self . That applies here. Thank you Abbey stay safe. We love you

[@Savannahb514]

Loved this video so much...I think I was supposed to hear this today as you opened my eyes & spoke straight to my situation (not peeing off trains but finding freedom within, haha) Thanks so much for your great music & wonderful wisdom!

[@NeilsonSmielson]

Lotta wisdom in what she says folks. I 💓 Abby.

[@Blonde4Beach]

I hear you! Thank you for always being so candid! You are totally right in making yourself unatrative because big clothes can save a homeless woman's life. Truly and a baseball cap! ❤

[@sherryab3964]

I love trains but would rather stay at home and listen to your stories and hear your music. That makes me feel free 😁 Happy Holidays!

[@kalvinflowers6178]

You are the inspiration behind the saying “Don’t be too quick to judge.” At first glance I thought that you were just an awesome “Spoon Lady”… And then I heard you speak. Thank you!

[@susana-minkalis777]

The World is a better place because we have Abby in it! True, authentic, kind , and a Beautiful soul!

[@pattyjojo9668]

You are so special. Merry Christmas and may God pour out lots of blessing’s on you.

[@TheCopperbaron]

Amen

[@rft3983]

thank you, you are so wise, haven't subscribed but will when done. I really enjoy your videos. please keep making them. you are so down to earth and such a sincere caring person. wish we had more ppl like you.

[@kimmurphy6621]

Wow... you hit me right in the feels. I needed to hear this, thank you! Happy Holidays.

[@PrairieB]

So wise & so much loving authenticity. Love you, Miss Abby!

[@75Nikkinik]

I just love your videos Abby! You inspire me in so many ways! You are a beautiful wise soul and not to mention your voice is soothing. I could listen to you talk all day and not get tired of it! Love you so much friend!

[@jenniferwood881]

Thank you for this video. You are amazing! Thank you for your wisdom and encouragement for all that need to hear this message.You should be a motivational speaker. Do a TEDx talk. Your life story is so inspiring.

[@ilubzpinkbeyotch]

I'm native American & when I was a child, I attended the Indian Community School so at that time most of my friends were Native. Anywho when I was a kid we would take quarter barrels down underneath this bridge next to the railroad tracks with my 1st boyfriend who I married. We hid under the bridge because we lived in the inner city so the cops couldn't find us & we wouldn't get arrested. We use to have to hide behind the pillars as the trains went by because the people on the trains had salt guns & they'd shoot at us. We'd come up from underneath the bridge by the train tracks after we were done drinking & the Black People in the neighborhood would say thems Indians is crazy stay away from them lol! I never jumped the trains because my husband wouldn't let me, but him & his buddies did. I love you Abby & I think your amazing. You inspire me & make me laugh & cry at the same time. May the Creator continue to bless you & Merry Christmas!!!

[@marystar6021]

Being shot by salt guns, and the neighbourhood people called the kids crazy?! You were all just having your own private fun, what harm was that to anyone? This must have been before my time, first I've heard about salt guns used like that.

[@theeT.I.F]

I had punk rock friends who used to train-hop back in the late 90's and had scary stories to tell. I thought about it for about a second but...NO WAY! MUCH TOO DANGEROUS!!! I like you very much Abby and I'd rather live vicariously through YOU!😆

[@letterstocleo72]

Love that, “YOU COULD BE FREE RIGHT WHERE YOU”RE AT”. That’s powerful stuff right there. Now to incorporate that and work on being me,just me❤️

[@LandandHomesHawaii]

Same here..time to remember that ..❤️👍🏼

[@letterstocleo72]

Lisa Edwards yes, I’m working on that everyday. I will love myself and be my own cheerleader 📣

[@mogain9258]

Yes, that is the best thing I have in a while!

[@CarterMc3]

Hello, I live in North Korea.

[@marihill4943]

Abby we all love you, you are so free and truthful about everything...have a Merry Christmas girl.

[@floydc3664]

Hey Abby, thanks for taking the time to do these videos... Love from Harrison AR

[@henegar4]

You are one great Lady...love you and God Bless.

[@WormensLikeThat]

Absolutely love this message!! I admire and adore you girl, you truly are an inspiration and a "guru" to a lot of us. Thank you for reminding us what freedom really is, it can sometimes be easy to forget.

[@lizvasquez6489]

Abby, thank you for sharing your wisdom and experiences with us. I really enjoy your videos. You sound like a wise and genuine lady.

[@rouxtheday1235]

Thank you for those words of wisdom, Miss Abby. My sister was so lost, no matter where or how far she ran. She couldn't run anymore, chose her own freedom, and is finally at rest.

[@pinky567]

You probably won’t see this but you are true inspiration and insightful person. May you be safe and blessed along your travels.

[@peggypayson6256]

Merry Christmas Miss Abby. I enjoy all your videos. Thanks for sharing your life!!

[@ginayarber4482]

Abby, I have just recently come across your channel. I’ve only seen a few videos so far....but what a wonderful, beautiful person you are. Your messages are inspiring and you are so talented. Thank you for sharing your stories and songs with the world. You and Melinda Herman make me smile. I appreciate your wisdom so much.

[@mjc1456]

Very inspirational....love your stories!!! All the best in 2020!!

[@Dj-ws9rj]

You are so interesting to listen to, i love the wisdom in your stories, i love your love of life, & your right freedom is being true to who you are..we love you dear lady & may you have a Blessed & Merry Christmas!!

[@retiredpd]

Your wisdom, insight, and advice transcends all social divisions. There is no doubt your words touch many many souls. 👍👍 Have a great New Year.

[@denisescull4227]

Thanks for sharing the realities of this life! Merry Christmas Abby!

[@roseypeach8363]

Excellent message Ms Abby! May I add that a home and job secures our freedom to be free. Happy holidays and Happy New Year everybody! And to anybody feeling down or alone please know you're important, you're loved, and the world needs you.

[@lorenarevoredo7081]

You are a blessing to many by the way you encourage them or show hope. Thank you for being such a beautiful humble human being. God bless you!

[@hauntedmoodylady]

She got it right immediately, do not ride freight trains...

[@Moonwing72]

Took me till I was 40 to just be strong enough to be the real authentic me. Priceless... no matter where I am, I am free ♥️

[@mizzwallace1016]

Love your honesty. I appreciate that you had these experiences and that you are safe now sharing what you've done. Merry Christmas!

[@jamesburkettburkett6232]

I do not know why I like watching and listening to you on KZbin. We have nothing in common but your voice is so soothing and your attitude on life is super cool lady. If you can reach out and get my attention you can get in by tension keep it up chick

[@MistressAliceD]

This really helped me . You are so real and tell it like it is . Train hopping is extremely dangerous for both . I’ve lost a few friends to it .

[@deebeaulieu6595]

Happy Holidays Abby🎄Great advice for anyone. Be true to self!

[@janetalten8011]

Abby you are precious beyond words! Thank you for sharing.

[@Breezy10]

Have a very Merry Christmas, Abby! Thank you for being such a Blessing.

[@LandandHomesHawaii]

I still struggle with that too...that desire to just run away....i gotta focus on your message ❤️👍🏼 that was certainly a powerful message

[@katrinad4843]

Omg Abby!! Thank you for the laugh! That was a hilarious mental image from the farmers perspective. Great message and thanks for your amazing openness, wisdom and honesty. Much love. 😄✌❤️

[@Nenezilla]

Great moral of the story. Thank you Ms. Abby for this video. I hope you have a Merry Christmas and a safe new year.

[@michaelbrick9730]

Wow! Abby, that was a very nice video...Thank you very much for the words and self wisdom...

[@Virtualglue]

The way of explaining how freedom works, that was perfect, state of mind. So true ;)

[@debibarrington8348]

Youre such a smart lady ..thank you for such wisdom..you have a great platform ..wisdom and experience

[@belindaedenfield883]

Merry Christmas Abby. May God continue to bless and keep you and yours. So glad to have made your acquaintance.

[@douglasarnold5310]

Love this lady’s outlook

[@MrScotsticks64]

This video really hits home for me. You always have Sage advise. I absolutely love your philosophies and wisdom. You are a wise woman who really knows how to speak. Love your video's. As a percussionist I'm glad I found your work

[@emeraldgypsyheart]

I enjoy your outlook on life. Thx for sharing your stories and insight with the Spoonerverse!

[@cecewonderwoman4617]

You explaining freedom was so well needed and heartfelt. A great reminder when in the thick of life's bumps and twists. ❤️

[@mariannekemp4738]

Love this video. Great insight. Thank you!!!!

[@ma.erlindaenciso9874]

I’ve listen to lots of your story telling, experiences, oh boy! You are such a good story teller, i could also sense you are truly a kind lady.

[@donsorrells2552]

Abbey your a inspiration to many , Happiness and freedom come from within,

[@joannsomers8178]

I would like to make a cloth covered journal to show my appreciation of your sharing your very wise words and music with me. I found your channel thru your music and stay because of the truth and wisdom that you share with your subs. The fabric was made in the 1940s (I have collected fabric for many years) and depicts an Aesop's Fable about the wisdom of a crow who is very thirsty. The crow sees a pitcher that contains water, but the level of the water is so low that he can not reach it. If he turned over the pitcher some if not all of the water would be lost. The crow thinks about the situation and decides to gathers rocks and drop them into the pitcher until the level of water is high enough for him to reach it for a drink. I think that you are much like that crow because you have solved so many of life's challenges by thinking it thru and not walking away. I am on a search for truth, just truth and I find that in what you share with us. Thank you. What size journal do you want, do you want it without lines or wide lines, and lastly where could I mail it? I would mail it about a week to 2weeks after I hear back from you. So, I could mail it ahead of where you are going. Sincerely, Jo Ann from Mississippi

[@CatherineCRooney719]

Completely well said Abby, I had my own escapades up until 28 years ago and since then I found out who and what I'm all about. I do know that no one has to take the road I had to take to find freedom within myself but I now have amazing wisdom based on the facts of my life that probably could apply to most people 😃 thank you again for being you ❤️

[@marystar6021]

3:29 - "learning to be true to yourself. That way you are not chained by everybody's idea of what you should or shouldn't be..." similar words of wisdom my mom would often say during my teen years. So glad I heard and listened.

[@LandandHomesHawaii]

Ms Abby....thank you SO much for sharing that message today..i ...for one, needed to hear that😊...Happy Holidays to you ms Abby❤️🎄

[@MyFaithsaysitall]

Abby God has had you in His hands all of your life keeping you safe. I'm glad that He has or I would have not been able to get to know you. Thank you for being you and being 💯

[@riverluvr1947]

You words are filled with wisdom! You should write about what you’ve learned. You’re very impressive. Also want to wish you a very Merry Christmas and and new year filled with blessings. 💟

[@benengle7353]

I just discovered your videos, and just wanted to say how much that I really appreciated your perspective on life. You've really touched my heart. Thanks for sharing your life experiences with us. God bless

[@suzannehedderly1331]

I always enjoy your videos. And I love your sign off music. It's perfect!

[@dianaconnick3003]

Right on, Sister! You continue to amaze and thrill me with your life journey. If your dog is happy, I am happy for you! I love your realism. God bless.

[@eastexas9793]

Youre a good woman. Talking about whats real is hard for alot. You open doors for people to think deeper about a relationship with your self. Hope you have a blessed day!

[@KathysTube]

Love your candid words of wisdom.... Merry and Blessed Christmas!

[@edieking5767]

“Freedom just another word for nothing left to lose” Janis Joplin

[@debibarrington8348]

Not good wisdom and look where it got junki joplin

[@castinlead3997]

Kris Kristofferson wrote that song not Joplin and Roger Miller sang it first. She didn't do a bad job singing it though

[@itsallgood4093]

@@debibarrington8348 since she didn't wright there words, then leave Janis out of it.

[@Anjanya1948]

Ah yes one if my favorite rock stars for sure. .

[@angelawhite7140]

Holy Crap! Thank you for mentioning this song! So fricken Profound!!!! And bless all of the haters 🙏

[@kmaddux9]

You know Abby I just love your vids. Thank you for being you! I live in Michigan and when I was young I thought this would he fun!!!! Glad I didn't...lol. I found you awhile ago and enjoy you and your spoons!! Keep on livin' and sharing. God bless.

[@ImSPOTon]

Youre a kind and gentle soul.

[@dxcman1]

I like the positive message you help spread... Ty.. and God Bless. I also love the spoon playing.. GL my Dear.

[@Foundinthewoodsbushcraft]

You speak with truth and love at the same time. You are truly beautiful inside out. Merry Christmas 🤶🎅🎄🌲🎁

[@bevwolverton2266]

Abby, you are so real. I love your messages. You speak from the heart and experience. You are awesome.

[@marisellopez6022]

From the bottom of my heart...I love you so much. You are a wonderful soul ! Thank you for making videos.

[@chrispy104k]

Hahahahaha, that's a funny story 2:35. Wise words about being yourself. Merry Christmas Abby and a Happy New Year.

[@silvergrizzly316]

MERRY CHRISTMAS Miss Abby, hoping you and yours have a blessed and lucrative New Year!!! Godspeed darlin.

[@keosh777]

You are amazing! Thanks for sharing.

[@aletaschulz1108]

Wisdome well spoken. Thank you. 🤗

[@hogrotten6897]

My Grandfather's story of riding the rails got me to hitchhiking across America for 3 years , FREEDOM is being true to yourself ! No I can't take that drink but I am one good father and Gramps from what I'm told. Love your spoons, my daughter bought a set at a yard sale when she was little, I'd play guitar and she the spoons, I still have them. God Bless you !

[@kimkartrashianstopmakingst9060]

Hi Abby. I always enjoy your uploads 💜 wishing you happy holidays and a wonderful new year.

[@raylarkin5004]

Thank you Abby.⚘

[@larryr.johnson3048]

God bless and merry Christmas. Wish I could hear more of your story . It sounds fascinating.

[@brightpurpleviking]

AMEN! So well said as always. Merry Christmas

[@VonFowler-fw3yh]

Ive had enough! Abby dear, you need to run for President!!!

[@srichmond32111]

I can't tell you how happy you make me. You remind me of my very loved aunt ❤

[@mistyrhodes1033]

Hi Abby, I love your Music & stories. I think you are an Amazing Soul and human! You have so much to offer this world and I truly enjoy watching your vids. Keep up the great work girl!!

[@mxlx1595]

I absolutely love your stories and philosophy on life. I bet you could right an amazing book!

[@michelleaus]

Thank you for sharing your stories and what true freedom really is. Merry Christmas Abby 🎄💕