The Wives Tell All: Hannah and Charisma

[@jllyjill]

I’m so glad you have one another. I appreciate both couples. And seeing you together as friends is the icing on the cake.

[@kimwood3874]

So glad you ladies found each other. What a great bond!

[@TheGLOSSette]

Cole and Shane should do a Husbands Tell All :)

[@w-v2lvvv]

i like to see

[@carly10347]

Have you ever discussed the discrepancy between male vs. female caregivers or how men are much more likely to leave their partner if they require care? Would be really interesting to hear you discuss!

[@mar-cl2gg]

1000% agree

[@developmentpost7390]

​ @mar-cl2gg Women evolved to be caregivers/nurtures. Nursing and caring for a child is taxing. While men have evolved to be providers; for example, getting resources for the woman and offspring. Basically, men are less happy caregiving for evolutionary reasons because their brain is wired to be less likely to tolerate or like it.

[@carly10347]

@developmentpost7390 very simplistic explanation, and a very obvious take from a specific biologist point of view!

[@developmentpost7390]

@@carly10347 Sometimes the simplest explanation is the best. Occam's razor. Some guys don't mind or enjoy caregiving with little or no pay if they have more of a "female brain" so to speak.

[@Happybunny891992]

​@@developmentpost7390 Yea but caregiving of your wife IS actually PART OF PROVIDING

[@lindalaw8368]

I’m 75 and nothing unage related wrong with me, but enjoy these videos because I have renewed faith in younger generations because of you guys! Phenomenal awareness and caring, both for your husbands and others. Kudos to all of you!❤❤🎉

[@jno5]

Never ever underestimate how bad Pressure Sores can be or how easily and unexpectedly they can appear. I’m in my mid 50’s was born with Spina Bifida and have been in a wheelchair most of my life, I’ve had a few sores on my foot because I was careless but last year got my first genuine Pressure Sore on my butt 15 months later it’s healed but the skin is thin. It put me in hospital and has stopped my life…….keep checking Cole. My best friend had MD (sadly died just after his 50th birthday) his wife was / is amazing met her when we were at school and got together later in life but had 20+yrs together. You two are amazing and the only good reason for cloning, because the world would be a far nicer and better place with more people like you guys in it…..❤

[@sandeepettit696]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@suann9790]

I'm really sorry for your loss. I hope you can comfort each other (you and his wife I mean).

[@LivingForJesusMennoniteMom]

Supermodel Caregivers - The Wives Tell All I love it. ❤🎉

[@danamama6766]

They are both beautiful amazing women yes :)

[@mkatal8329]

Wow. Timely video for me. I spent 8 hours yesterday at the ER with my elderly mother and have been struggling with caregiver burnout in general but today felt new level hard. When I went to take medications I take daily today, I realized I hadn't taken them yesterday. No wonder I feel so icky. Taking care of yourself is paramount.

[@ChristineC.-bd2qr]

So true, you must take care of yourself. I took care of my Dad for 18 years while putting my own health on the backburner. When he passed in 2019 I found myself in the hospital.

[@irenedavo3768]

❤

[@priscilae.6513]

Sending you hugs 🫂

[@ReneeLewis-sv6xp]

That was fun and informative. I agree with you girls. There needs to be more vlogs like this. ❤

[@sallycole1853]

You two are kindred spirits. It’s great to know you’re not alone.

[@zoeyevebuck]

Chloe relentlessly begging to be pet the entire time is taking me out

[@claireisacamel]

She had to be sure they didn’t forget that she was available for pets 🤣

[@shameronschofield868]

She’s a doodle of course she wants attention 🥰🤣

[@lisadillman1697]

She’s just one of the girls ❤

[@sharondowling8896]

Wondering how much help Hanna's mom provided, especially at the beginning. Having someone else to provide support during overwhelming times of stress is important, whether caring for a disabled partner or your own children or even yourself. We all need help sometimes. Good friends are treasures!❤

[@berthagreen1620]

You two are amazing ladies . I’m so glad you four found each other, great friends.

[@bradbrowatzke7236]

This was a great idea! I know you both get more than enough questions and suggestions all of the time, and Hannah has had to put up with some rather unkind comments. I am trying to catch up with Charisma and Cole on their channel, but it is taking time. I am just glad that you are both in your husband's lives and support them while giving them their own space as well, and taking your own time off. Interabled couples are awesome when things work between partners. Thank you for letting us see your day-to-day lives, and I look forward to seeing more from both couples.

[@marcydrake9159]

Chloe: yes yes, you’re great at caregiving, care to practice on ME?!?! ❤

[@abbsterlicious]

Knowing how introverted Hannah is, it makes me really happy to see her bond with charisma n Cole. As a fellow introvert, making connections can be hard n scary !!!!! So proud of you Hannah

[@sdsdsdsdsddssdsd4040]

Hi, do you mind to have an amputee husband?

[@veronicamedrano2470]

Love plays a big rooll in helping your spouse. I became paralyzed from my chest down due to a spinal cord tumor. from thoracic 5-8. in our 31 year wedding anniversary. my husband just jump in to help without thinking about it. we will be married 39 years in a few days. Great job girls!💗💗

[@AccessAbilityOfficer]

Thanks for sharing your stories. Family and support of loved ones for people with disabilities is priceless. The world is a less lonely place because of kindhearted people like both of you. Thanks again for shining your light! 💙

[@ctwhaley]

You guys are special people. Love the videos on both channels. Keep doing what you do...the world needs more of it.

[@thompsoncindy42]

Your friendship is super sweet - love it!

[@TheNoonie50]

I like "SUPERMODEL CAREGIVERS" :) So true! Beautiful inside and out.

[@abilevitt3334]

You two are really fun to watch together! We can see how great your friendship is and how much you get each other. What a blessing to have! This was interesting, I'd love to hear more from "the wives". Although I feel like I'm waiting for Shane's sarcasm or silly comments lol. ❤

[@ToeKneekneetoe]

I’m a care giver. I work with seniors! I have yrs of experience! I’ve also worked with younger people, but honestly I love my Elders!

[@avarismimi]

Same❤❤❤

[@briggsbriggs7954]

Great Job! Beautiful sisters here beautiful souls beautiful heart! 2 beauty’s with awesome spouses! God bless you all!

[@2malsahm59]

The care and attention you give to your husbands is admirable, they are very blessed to have you both,and of course they in turn are a blessing to you.

[@LivingForJesusMennoniteMom]

This is awesome!!! I've not been here for a long long time.. I didn't realize you lived so close together!! That's great. I've watched both of y'all, and this is awesome. Thanks for sharing.

[@sophtheloaf28]

Thank you so much for sharing so openly and beautifully! I’m the wife of a wonderful man with cerebral palsy, who uses a wheelchair. I really really relate to all of this ❤️

[@abilevitt3334]

The part about vulnerability was especially interesting. It's helpful to think that going into a relationship with a disability might actually give my future partner something extra and create a stronger relationship.

[@emp556]

A true friendship here. I'm glad you both have each other. It's nice you two were laughing a lot.

[@marilynpiggott3392]

THIS WAS GREAT! Fun and I learned a lot, and I RECEIVED YOUR BOOK A FEW DAYS AGO, I ordered early so it was a nice surprise to receive it! Thanks, can’t wait to start the read! Love, Marilyn Piggott. Pinellas Park, FL

[@turtley8883]

You are both so gorgeous. I watched both channels before, and it's been so nice to watch your friendship blossom🌸

[@kenquilici8193]

It’s great to see the friendship that U2 have together. You can truly see the Bond . The man in your life are very lucky

[@tinahauser8864]

That was awesome!! Please do more videos like this, or take us on some of those shopping escapades 😅

[@JimRichmond44]

Both so beautiful and such incredible people

[@zurastewart6375]

Thank you so much for sharing your lives. This was a great Q& A.

[@terrihanson3907]

I’m so glad you are such good friends. I was my husband’s caregiver for several years and it was so difficult for my friends to understand that commitment. It was tough finding someone to talk to until I found a support group.

[@xiomanaxoxoxo3212]

I know all the guys are thinking how about a Hannah/ Charisma Sandwich! you guys are a dream team. gorgeous inside and out. stunning. -love you guys together.

[@Kikifriedmann]

You to are such a gem in every way! The two guys are sooooo lucky to have you! You are supermodel caregivers(100%)!!!!

[@olivialandry3358]

Thank you for this! So vulnerable and educational. ❤

[@CallMeMaykes]

I love that you two have each other! Are you guys thinking of posting these kinds of videos on both channels??

[@NicoleLaurenEsq]

Aww, Chloe loves Charisma! ❤

[@leahvatson6379]

I would love to know how you guys met! You seem like you have been besties for ever 🥰 You should definitely do another one of these! This was great!

[@leehoffman3604]

What a great video! You guys are too much fun. On a serious note, you are wise beyond your years. As a parent with a child with SMA, I know what you are dealing with, you angels, and I know it comes from love. Have a great day.

[@libbywiskowski9618]

One of my favorite sayings is... if the help isn't helpful, it isn't helpful. Ie: when you aren't asking for it or are asking for something completely different/unrelated.

[@Pewo7140]

Chloe is so adorable! You’re both great caregivers and too funny!

[@hildiwilliams9992]

You two are a blessing to each other and to your husbands. Your videos are alternately hilarious and heartwarming and I appreciate learning about your lives and following your adventures.

[@zoeyevebuck]

"What if I fell in the shower and died? Would Shane be okay?" Says everything

[@DavesRange]

Yeah, it says that she's a great caregiver. Has nothing to do with being a romantic lover... not that you mentioned it, but just so no one gets the wrong idea y'know

[@MrBluedogbookkeeping]

Like caring for a parent child friend spouse if possible there is a plan b.

[@JoshRazauskas]

I’m so glad you two made this video. It was so informative. As someone who is also a Wheelchair user, I greatly appreciate the honesty and the knowledge that you tried to impart.

[@brandinicollegatcomb6146]

I really admire the two of you, as well as your husbands. I enjoy your videos and can't wait for new one's ❤

[@bebejohnson6929]

Really enjoyed you two answering questions; yalls interaction shows such care and respect. Keep doing this type of q and a !

[@mikimayberry4092]

You girls ROCK. I loved this video so much. You both have such cute hair dos. Squirmy and Grubs is one of my fav vlogs. Don’t ever go away and it’s awesome your friends are now hangin with you and in the videos.

[@lorettemainville688]

Hello from Ontario, Canada. I loved this video. You two are so relaxed and friendly and pleasant to listen to. Congratulations. I hope you continue with 😂this format. ❤

[@jehovahskid]

Had to come to this channel too and give a thumbs up! Thanks for sharing!!

[@danamama6766]

It is wonderful when people are in love and intuned. Love you both. Thank you for this and yes please do more. hugs

[@susanlong8978]

WOW the guys are super lucky to have you both... stunning and brilliant..

[@MelindaHalbert]

you guys are too cute.. love your friendship

[@DeetsluvsGOD]

Great vlog! Wives tell all, yay! Now the Husbands tell all would be great too!

[@TheDementiaDarling]

Thank you for sharing! You both are amazing caregivers and partners!!!

[@pinot911]

Such good vibes ✨️ ❤ this is how we should all strive to be

[@anne-mariescoones3239]

What a lovely video and what beautiful souls you two girls are. Gives me hope for the human race. And that strawberry cushion is gorgeous!

[@janiebrossmann1178]

Oh girls this was so wonderful…you are super sweet and truly amazing 😊❤️🙏

[@lilpopcandy]

I asked the first question 😅. I have muscular dystrophy and require care for my daily activities. I want to enter the dating scene so I just wanted some input on balancing the caretaker role and being a romantic partner. I just don’t want my future partner to experience caregiver burnout. Thank you for answering my question 😌

[@Rckid28]

What type?

[@lilpopcandy]

@ limb girdle

[@Rckid28]

@@lilpopcandy same…

[@Devina210]

That was great - super fun - and funny! I love "Supermodel Caregivers". Watch - somebody else is going to use that title, and it should be yours. Here's a thought: how 'bout you have Cole and Shane do the guys' version of this interview. That would be a hoot!

[@Plurrbabehannah]

Ok I just found you guys again and I’m so excited to binge all of the videos and catch back up!!!! I LOVE the title Supermodel Caregivers so much!!! I’m not a wife, but I am a caregiver and I would love to join your troop if you’re looking for another Hannah!! 😂😭🫶🏼

[@hotfootDDD]

You guys are so cute together. You are like people who have known each other for a decade.

[@lilihall8589]

Please do more of these I absolutely love both of you !

[@zoeedmonson1396]

This is the duo I live for

[@kathrynhall7021]

Fabulous episode 👍🏻 Thanks for sharing ❤️ Enjoy your Christmas 🎄

[@sallycole1853]

Thank you for your honesty about caregiving.

[@katflav2243]

Thank you for sharing! ahhh husbands! They are different, yet the same! LOL. Looking forward to the book. Happy Saturday from Atlanta, GEORGIA!

[@abbsterlicious]

1:28 charisma’s lil shimmy is so cute 🤣

[@MScrista24]

I love this friendship so much

[@rzdrms]

People care for their spouses in a wide variety of ways each day. “Caring” for your spouse is intimate across the board, whether to the level that these women do for their husbands, or even just an able-bodied couple who help each other with various intimate (not always sexual) things throughout any given day. You’re loving on and caring for them; sometimes it’s sexual, but always it’s intimate.

[@Jazzy.girl.Sarah2023]

Excellent stream! Love it.

[@danashick1732]

Such a good video! Love when the two of you are together ❤

[@moniquebrown18]

My husband is completely able bodied but I seem to have a lot of similarities to the both of you with respect to caregiving….joking aside, I actually mean that. My husband needs help with eating healthy, exercising, reminding him to see doctors…etc. I think all wives balance caregiving and partner roles to some extent. Respect to the both of you!

[@karengibson1693]

I love that you two are friends

[@Shannon_710]

Love this video!

[@kingsize1182]

This was so LIT.

[@mariselnegron9817]

I just totally love this video. You guys are super wives.

[@ellencabana8047]

I'm 55 years old and admired you both godblessed and more power.

[@tinabright]

Hi Hannah and Charisma! Love you all! ❤❤

[@SuperiorRobyn]

You two are like sisters from different misters!

[@timelordvictorious]

I’m disabled and you guys give me hope

[@veronicatomlin1996]

Super model care givers love it!

[@AndreaBebee-i3r]

Love watching you both!

[@ChrisPage68]

💩 is the Great Leveller as regards caregiving/receiving and family and friends. It's good that you two and the boys can have "Us Time", where you can just be yourselves.

[@annieccc13]

I feel like even couples where both partners are able bodied can understand caregiving and relationship moments happening simultaneously because my partner will bring me a snack, make me coffee, scratch my back etc and vice versa while we're just hanging out

[@jennyhammond9261]

Chloe loves Charisma!

[@fleetwoodm5292]

These are two exceptional people whom we can all learn from. Unfortunately, being so exceptional also makes them unappreciative of their own exceptionalness. Please, Hannah and Charisma (a most appropriate name), make sure to give yourselves some self love for being examples of a type of Grace we can all aspire to. ❤❤

[@lynnmckenna9934]

Best interview ever!

[@davidgiancoli2106]

Great! Always a good day when you upload a video!

[@Mahmah476]

Great show, ladies!

[@palomitapalomita7866]

Sad, I thought your video and Charisma's were part one and part two 😔 but I liked it a lot

[@vicarpaul7005]

Two very special women. Inside and out

[@cindydewitt2159]

Glad you have a great friendship.

[@kathleenreed7367]

I love it I am a caregiver for my husband but i feel for most of my relationships in life I ama caregiver, I naturally enjoy taking care of others and always wanting what best for others. My husband is disabled too but when i had Sepsis he took on the role of caregiver as best he could it was amazing to watch the roles reverse.

[@kaiavictorino9373]

You two are so awesome and fun 🥰🥳

[@acornburt]

Thank you for sharing this! As a side, that strawberry pillow....where did you get it? My daughter would flip!

[@marthainsalaco9266]

What a great Q&A ❤