You say it's your personal experience, but I'm glad that when you talk about your ideal husband like Taro-san, it seems to raise the profile of Japanese men like me who are not as good as Taro-san. I have to improve my cooking skills while I can.
@SquishyTalk2 жыл бұрын
Thank you as always ☺️✨ Everyone has strengths and weaknesses, it seems cooking is a weakness for both of us 😅
I'm a Japanese guy who married to a non Japanese wife for decades long but, I've never had any surprising experience which is based on cultural difference in our life. Being honest , even Japanese - Japanese couples often surprise to each other. It depends on how they were raised when they were kids I think...not because of nationality. Only my opinion btw. Anyway, I always enjoy to watch your videos because you are always on the neutral position for any theme. Please keep finding interesting topics and, thank you for positive vibes . Excess: I'm sorry if my English skill isn't good enough (^^)
@fukuiti19402 жыл бұрын
仲良しでよかった。
@SquishyTalk2 жыл бұрын
ありがとうございます!😊
@三毛猫-r9x2 жыл бұрын
日本で幸せにお過ごしください。健康に気を付けてください。
@tomkuromi12942 жыл бұрын
I love your videos having just discovered you on KZbin, love your accent, your genuine caring personality, you would be very easy to like and I’ve learned a lot about cultural differences from the few videos I have seen. I’m a Japanese Canadian man in a relationship with a woman from Poland and even though we are similar in many ways, culturally because she grew up in Poland and I in Canada we definitely have differing viewpoints and opinions on many things because of our upbringing, also being a little older changing and accepting each other’s cultural differences has been a little more challenging, just from the few videos of yours I’ve seen, I’ve learned that respect, caring and acceptance of each other’s differences is of paramount importance. Thanks for sharing your viewpoint, you’re never too old to learn.
@chotto_2 Жыл бұрын
You look so cute and so happy. I feel happy to have found your video. If possible, I'd like to see a video about your favorite Japanese food.
I married a Japanese man. I'm American, never lived in Japan. We live in the US. International marriage is very challenging. When you are young and infatuated, nothing matters. But as time passed and we had kids. Expectations changed, and we began to see cultural differences. Sadly, many of my friends who married Japanese men got divorced after xx years. From what I hear, Japanese women who married an American men lasted longer. As we get older, I see him behave in more traditional Japanese behavior. There's nothing wrong with that, but that's not how he was when we were young. It also affects which home county you live in. Realization kicked in after many years passed. My husband and I agree that you should not have a marriage with 50% of his culture and 50% of my culture. It would be best to be committed to being 90% to 10%. Some international marriages last all their life happily. Japan is a beautiful country, and I respect many cultural values they have. I am not criticizing Japanese men or transnational marriage. Fortunately, we are lasting over 30 years. Good luck to you.
@Truthseeker3712 жыл бұрын
Regardless of nationalities, men are normally more conservative than women. They go back to the old familiar ways. Women are flexible and assimilate better. Naturally, it differs depending on the personality. Marriage itself is hard. You have to treat the partner just as you treat yourself. Is marriage worth for anyone??? Again personal choice not only in our time but in the past, too.
@Official-OpenAI Жыл бұрын
But you are generalizing "Japanese men" when you say you are not. I personally don't know you or your husband so I can only believe what you say is true about him, and I am sorry; but you going off about then how all Japanese men behave as such is such oblivious and embarrassing.
@佐藤新一-z1r2 жыл бұрын
本当に素晴らしい旦那さんですね。幸せ😆🍀ですね✨
@三毛にゃんジェロ2 жыл бұрын
うん、今回の動画のテーマは「日本人と結婚して驚いたこと」だけど、全編を通じてTaroとの結婚生活が幸せであること🥰を全世界に公開して、のろけてるんだよね。🤣 そんなスカイが可愛いよ。😻 今度機会があれば、Taroと一緒に料理を作ってみては? 日本料理が得意なイギリス女性になれれば、いろんなチャンスが訪れるかもしれないよ。まあ、step by stepでね。
I am learning English. This video helps me a lot to improve my listening comprehension and also givens me some knowledge about a difference between English life style and Japanese life style.
Hey, do you guys live in London? I used to live in an area near the Gloucester Road station. Nice!
@lethalweapontom2 жыл бұрын
Nice to meet you, I will comment for the first time. I think your impression before coming to Japan was the postwar period of high economic miracle in Japan in the 1960s and 1970s. That was my mother. When I was a kid (1970s) her mother did the housework and her father worked hard at work. Sunday's father seemed to have a hard time. He took us children here and there. But I liked that kind of relationship. Even if my mother got angry, my father kindly comforted me. If my father and mother get angry, my child will have a hard time. There will be no place to stay. I liked such a kind father. Of course my mother sometimes gets angry, but I liked it because she was good at cooking and kind.
i enjoy your talks,really. i was living in London for 2 years. i miss tubes which i used when commuting .your talks and british english let me recall my old days.you are not scotish, right?
4:12 "Japanese food is more often than not made from scratch"はなぜこのような訳になるのでしょうか more often than は何にかかっているんですか?
@YK-mw6iv2 жыл бұрын
ご結婚おめでとう御座います💐🎉🎊 末永くお幸せに㊗️
@森本恭博2 жыл бұрын
TARO… he is perfect. you are lucky lady, indeed.
@SquishyTalk2 жыл бұрын
I agree 🙈 Thank you for your comment ✨🙂
@DNK_KND Жыл бұрын
From my perspective as a millennial Japanese man, all your points on this video are quite common among my gen. I’m sure that younger gens have it as well.
@hara21852 жыл бұрын
Breakfast not being treated as one of the more important meals of the day in the UK took me a surprise. I find the full breakfast a crowning achievement in the British culinary culture.
@--9607 Жыл бұрын
極めて抜群な旦那さんに巡り合ったんですねブラボー
@VR-lw5nd2 жыл бұрын
こんな素敵な奥様がいるtaroさんうらやましすぎる…
@korchin762 жыл бұрын
I have studied English for TOEIC now. I can't hear your country 's female speaker in TOEIC . Her speaking speed is very fast. I was looking some good practice methods. I decide to studying on your channel. Thank you.
Pleased to meet you. I'm a Japanese man. I've heard all about your surprising experiences. I found it quite unexpected because I've always thought British men were more gentlemanly than Japanese men. In Japan, not many are familiar with the 'ladies first' concept when entering or exiting lifts, and many Japanese women don't expect it either. I first encountered the 'ladies first' concept when I travelled to Europe with my university supervisor. He explained that it had become customary because women held a socially inferior position to men, so this gesture in lifts compensated for that disparity. I wasn't convinced. I questioned him, arguing that instead of prioritising women in lifts, elevating their social position to equal that of men would make them happier. Moreover, I doubted that women genuinely felt pleased by such gestures in lifts. My professor seemed quite displeased with my perspective.😅
あなたの旦那様はきっと、あなたの話から推測するに、平均的な日本人男性よりも魅力的で紳士的だろうと思います。everyone is deferent. ですが、日本員男性の私から見ても、ほんとよくできた男性だと思います。それだけ出来た男性だから、あなたは好きになったのだろうと思います。 私も今更ながらに精進します。。。。