Stalking Women Has Gotten Out Of Control...

[@amethystbruise]

i swear 9/10 times when you say no a dude takes that as a maybe bc they think they can change your mind

[@drd6893]

And they expect us to be nice about it!!

[@whims6278]

Seriously 💀 You can tell some of these boys never got told no by their mommies 😤 entitled little pricks

[@heathermcscusemebish1981]

That is exactly what I was gonna say!! It's rediculous and they will keep yelling stuff down the street while you are walking away still trying 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️ that's if we are lucky enough they don't follow us!

[@Frostizcx69]

That’s exactly what I do to joke my mom when she’s angry

[@assgremlin]

That's because they're taught by their fathers and men around them (sometimes even their own mothers who were groomed into being a birth giving object by their family) that women can't be decisive in anything and "no" never really means "no" and you have to try harder and push them into saying "yes". Disgusting.

[@jisungwon2915]

As a girl, I learned to quit these convos. These other women politely reply to these creepers' questions and inevitably keep the conversation going - exactly what these weirdos want. "Not interested," and any other unsolicited interactions will warrant police. These people don't deserve politeness. Thanks for making me laugh, man 🤣

[@blazingstar9638]

Right And right 😂

[@AshChiCupcak]

For real, I'm old enough to be past the playing nice point in my life. I WILL call you out and I WILL make a scene. I will let everyone around me know what a creep your being because they lose courage real fast once they got eyes on them. And if that fails, I have a knife 😁

[@isabel5066]

I hope I never have to encounter men like this. The only time I’ve encountered something so gross was when two guys who were younger than me, I was like 15 and they touched my butt while riding away from their bike.. I always fantasize about how I wanted to push them off that bike 👿

[@VampyType0]

@@isabel5066 Same I hope I never encounter someone like this either. The only time I encountered something like this was when I was 14 walking around with my friends when a truck of older men like around 30 honked at us and yelled "nice boobs" to us. Yuck. After that we called my mom, and she picked us up.

[@isabel5066]

@@VampyType0 its crazy at how early of an age girls are being sexualized... we were literal CHILDREN!

[@crazymetalgranny5236]

That's so disgusting....yesterday, a 50 year old man told my daughter, that he is in love with her, she's 23!!! What's wrong with men these days?? My daughter is a friendly person, that doesn't mean, that she's searching for an old creep....my hubby went f.....crazy, and he's right!!!!

[@Robohead-z6z]

Ew. She is an adult, but he is too old for her. Probably one of those men who only want 18-25 year old women. Like go after women closer to your age. Might as well because most 18-25 women go after men a few years older.

[@Truebluehair8]

That's disgusting, but please don't be one of those women that stereotype all men. Because women like that are disgusting too.

[@5Rice5Cake5]

I’m glad your husband did something to protect your daughter I hope you’re all safe ❤

[@Nikkisenpai-bh6oy]

​@@Robohead-z6z Leonardo Dicaprio

[@lisarodriguez6966]

I wish I could tell you it stops, but it doesn't. I'm now in my mid forties and a 73 yo Co worker of a couple years confessed his love for me, knowing I've been with my partner over 17 years (we all worked the same place). He persisted even after multiple 'conversations' of me telling him, "no".

[@SaturnPhase]

From my own experience, DON'T answer their questions. Every question you answer will lead to ten more. They're stalling for time to either get you to engage with them or to do whatever they were intending to do if you let your guard down.

[@cameleonfleuri]

Very true 👍

[@SillyAxel0]

IM THE 1K LIKE 🤠🤠🤠🤠🤠🤠🤠🤠🤠

[@SaturnPhase]

@@SillyAxel0 Well, thank you! 😀

[@HeyItsIDK]

Yeah act possessed

[@msspynoodle6505]

Idk why. But some men pretend like they never seen a woman before.

[@baalounette]

You'd be surprised at how creepy old men are... I was in physical therapy for years and being in the pool with everyone was hell. They would stare non stop, and the old ladies would tell everyone I'm a whore behind my back...... I had a one piece bathsuit! One year I was 19 yo and I'm friendly with everyone so a man (≈50) who was married with children wanted me as his mistress. He would make many allusions and his friends would guiltrip me into it. They wouldn't take no for an answer and I tried my best to avoid them but it's not a big place so I was always stressed. I have many examples like that....

[@theelizardqueen]

This world is a sick, sick place. I'm not having bio children but adopting because it's that dark.

[@baalounette]

@@theelizardqueen I totally understand ! I don't want children, I will also adopt I ever change my mind. There is too many children in need already, best give them a chance at real life.

[@Its-Star762]

@@baalounette ya'll are so sweet 😊😊😊

[@missrebel634]

Misogyny in women needs to be talked about

[@T4t3L4ngd0n]

Damn I hope ur fine now!

[@Aleemunchkin]

Something my grandfather taught my mom was honestly at first to me strange but now I understand which is ‘guys go after sweet looking girls that wouldn’t cause them issues, be a bitch’

[@Its.shrimple]

Fr if you get in a situation and it becomes phisical rip out their hair, scream, do as much damage as possible, step on their feet, FUCKIN SHIT ON THEM IF YOU HAVE TO frfr sometimes puking or urinating on an attacker will get them to leave you alone for long enough to run away a lot of the time they'll be so fed up they'll quit because you're no longer "worth it" gross people out here frfr

[@pollywey6425]

sometimes thats more dangerous. especially n the hood

[@poopyshitfart]

@@Its.shrimpleyea and go for the eyes, nostrils , ears, n bend the fingers backwards .go feral

[@pollywey6425]

thats.. not true, there are hoods everywhere @FreePigeon

[@mithinie]

I've started Krav Maga

[@k1mlsie]

when i was 14 i went out to buy some stuff and there was this creepy middle aged dude that wouldnt stop talking to me. he asked me about my name where i live what school do i go to, if i have female friends, whats my phone number and so on. i never felt this uncomfortable before in my life. the worst part about all of this is there was an adult man that stopped by and watched me and kept on laughing cuz he knew what was going on, i never felt more uneasy in my life. i decided that i cant handle talking to him any longer and just walked away and he was following me so i ran and hoped he wasnt following me, luckily he wasnt. for all the girls out there, no matter what your age is, please stay safe ❤ and for any guys, please dont approach a woman like this, a no is a no. especially if shes a minor and you're a grown ass man.

[@Aesthetic_Edits]

Omg that’s horrible I’m glad he didn’t follow you Stay safe ❤

[@ChuckleHoneybear]

Went to London for lunch and got followed by THREE different men in the span of an hour. Telling me creepy sh*t like "I like your figure" and asking if I have a boyfriend. I RAN to the train station I'm not kidding.

[@randomlyswatching9481]

London unfortunately us filled with creepy old dudes

[@CharMinsky]

Picturing the suspected creeps following you in London. Is it hard to say? Who they are.

[@baron420]

big cities in europe are fucked

[@LuLulu-jw3zw]

@@randomlyswatching9481 Big cities in general are filled with creeps.There is no way.

[@jennylovegood6282]

My best advice for cat callers is to ignore them as much as possible and try not to respond. Make yourself look as confident as possible and if that doesn't work then tell the person to leave you alone in a loud and confident voice. Don't make it look like you're scared or nervous and act like the cat caller is the weirdest and freakish person in the world

[@sushmitaraodesaraju6330]

My response is usually to just give them a dead stare and tell them to go f*ck themselves, while I keep walking. Thankfully has worked so far.

[@user-fv4gs2ts3c]

“Does that ever work for you hun or is it just a power play because your peepee doesn’t work?” They love that 😉

[@comradeleppi2000]

No one hit you, it's suprise​@@sushmitaraodesaraju6330

[@cameleonfleuri]

Ya, good tricks. It's sad though that we have to go to that extreme to be left alone when we are obviously not interested. In Canada though, it's the opposite problem : we don't have to do that cause men are so afraid of women ... that we don't get courted anymore.

[@eatsp1t]

​@@cameleonfleuriI love being in Canada lol

[@doreal]

This has been every woman's life at some point.

[@Em-tj6rh]

True and what’s even worse is that even little girls go through this

[@Nodeal757]

Sad fact 😢❤

[@Nodeal757]

​@@Em-tj6rh sadly most girls by the time they reach 13 have been approached, followed, cat called etc... at least once 😢 how disturbing and gross is that?? I saw a statistic on this when I was in college learning social sciences, didnt shock me though because the amount of time I was cat called or creeped on when i was a minor was unreal, in school uniform and everything just gross. Actually it is quite creepy how sexualised school uniforms are in general 😬 says a lot about society that one

[@lovely2wice]

i havent had to deal with creeps at all during my life, and im really grateful for that. the idea of a guy like this approaching me when im alone terrifies me though, i really have no idea what id do

[@m.ccheddarbox874]

Some guys get personally offended when they find out a women is a lesbian. If they aren't offended, they take it as a challenge.

[@princesskileyrae]

I'm a Millenial that unfortunately "passes" as Gen Z more often than not because I survived heavy metal poisoning that me left with a prepubescent looking body. In my mind, healthy adult men shouldn't be attracted to me physically, as it is. That's already weird. I shop in the kids' section of stores. That specificity is usually older weirdos. The younger ones seem to have a new set of their own scary behaviors. The younger weirdos genuinely do not understand the word "No." "No," is a complete sentence. It's like they think you're declining them to play hard to get & make them try harder. They don't read the social cues. None of these women in the videos you featured were being coy, playful, indirect - they were all *very clear* - yet it didn't matter to the males. There is very much a palpable tide of, "I should get what I want, so f*** you for preventing me from having what I want!" And what they want *is* the female. At some point when it occurs to the males you *really, seriously want to be left alone,* many like this immediately jump to blaming, harassing more, threatening, etc., to "punish" the girl. When I was actually the age of these girls, not just sick enough to be mistaken as their age like now, guys were more intimdated by us. Society would also jump in & say, "She's not interested man, back off," or what have you. My last little tangent is that I appreciate you addressed this top because it's tricky. Is there a specific term for it? Weirdos like this have find ways to behave inappropriately but oftentimes not "illegally" in society. Even if, by definition at the time of the instances, they *were* violating a law, once the behavior is over, police are extremely rare to take a report. This leaves young women in a position of realizing asserting their boundaries does not amount to them being respected, & that there is realistically no one they can call for help. The cops almost always treat this like a "hysterical woman" situation or simply acknowledge weird stuff happened but nothing they can cite. Every bizarre act the weirdos carry out & get away with emboldens their next maneuvers. The longer & more dramatic the inappropriate behavior they get away with is, in my mind, the more likely they are the to stalk ongoingly & cause physical harm. They all share the trait of gaslighting the women that their (overtly obnoxious) behavior is normal & that her reaction is what's insane. This is psychological abuse.

[@princesskileyrae]

@XxCocoa_BeanxX that breaks my heart. It's amazing you're so young & seeking out intelligent sources. I think Megyn is a fine lady to look up to. You've got a good head on your shoulders & will eventually be able to find others like you. Do you get along okay with your parents & stuff? If not, an aunt maybe? Every kid needs at least one safe adult to be able to talk to & it sounds like you might need that. Edited to add - I'm in my 30's & actually quite close with my counselor from high school. While I had a mother, I never had a mom, & that counselor got me through a lot of dark times in my teenage years. It's always good to have mentors to help guide you. ♡

[@MalleableMetal1]

That’s really shitty that you’ve had to go through that your whole life ever since that show came on with the Shauna Rae girl ironically you both have a similar name but I can only imagine what it’s like having to date as an adult and being chronically put in a situation with creepy old men and trying to date normally oh my God I feel for you. It’s terrible that women have to go through this stuff I was saying just the other day to my roommate that I’m only walking to the store with them after dark because they’re a man. But that I would never do that alone because too many creeps and I get stalked and followed every time I go just to the store after dark and I’m 33!

[@princesskileyrae]

@@MalleableMetal1 thank you for the sentiment, it's very much appreciated. Even more confusingly, I was actually a statuesque, curvy model before my poisoning. Puberty gave me boobs & hips at 11 years old (that I no longer have). I don't know how to say, "I was considered universally attractive most of my life," without sounding like a d-bag, but that too presented interesting societal challenges. When I was a teenager & 20-something, my Munch mother compulsively showed off modeling pictures of me she'd display at work. Many times she'd ask for replacement photos because mine were stolen from her multiple hospital job sites. I didn't understood the implication of that at the time or why my dad was so upset (at her continuing to enable freaks to steal her teenage daughter's pics for their personanol spank banks). I modeled as a child, too. (So what that really means is my mother vicariously modeled through me as a child, no kid chooses that on their own.) I don't think there is an age I've been in my 30+ years that didn't entail unwanted fetishization. Childhood years, I was pedo bait. My family still talks to the pedo's ex-wife who knowingly married a pedo after being outed as *my* pedo. Then I grew into a very, very feminine & "ideal" body & became an object in a different way. Now my body essentially aged about 60 years in the span of the one poisoning year & I look like an aging, crippled child. I still forget that I look like I do now sometimes because it's so different & need to consciously remember I'm not a "pretty girl" anymore. People behave very differently to a change in status. I am no longer desirable by anyone without a pedo or anorexia fetish. There is still hope for you, despite the suck. I hope that an acceptable, qualified partner who can protect you from the creeps comes into your life soon. 🖤🖤

[@katrinahetherington3425]

😢

[@KornyTTT]

Nah you wrote a paragraph…

[@rhonni1624]

This shit happens ALL THE TIME!!!! I get so sick of it. I've had to pull my tazer more than once but I still don't feel safe sometimes

[@LifeInPink999]

If it makes you feel better think that at least you are legally allowed to use one as self-defense in Europe is illegal. Independently where I am, or how late it is even knowing that where I live is quite secure I’m always anxious if I walk alone.

[@hippyhair1920]

People need to teach their sons some manners

[@Hypn0tic_d4ta]

Omg finally someone with common sense

[@Hypn0tic_d4ta]

No offense to anyone else

[@pollywey6425]

you act like they gon listen

[@hippyhair1920]

@@pollywey6425 true true

[@Baby_cutie-pink]

@@pollywey6425they got the belt

[@shelbydunn3031]

I used to manage a Planet Fitness and your skit on gym creeps is disappointingly accurate 😆

[@Aren_Kobuyasu]

One guy confessed his feelings to me I said I'm lesbian to just get away of that situation and he said "I can change you" 💀

[@Envious24-7]

THAT'S CRAZY 😭

[@memory.3015]

I remember a meme of someone making the respond of “no I CAN change you, I literally have guy friends who would fuck you into the mattress.”

[@saranagy-gyor1445]

Im 14 and hungarian. The only reason i've got out of situations like this quickly is that i can speak portuguese. If a man comes close i just start speaking portuguese like im a tourist or something. Girls, if you need some advice; learn a language that is not so usual in your country. Or just a few words and repeat those. I always use this way to get rid of creeps quickly. Stay safe babes❤

[@AurielFord-lz8ku]

Thank you and stay safe as well

[@aussiefox2000]

Wow what a clever way out. Wish I knew that one when I was younger. I hope all the young women stay safe ❤

[@saranagy-gyor1445]

@@aussiefox2000 I'm so sorry if you had to go trough that, especially is you were younger. Stay safe❤

[@StoleYourToeshehe]

Damn the fact that you're literally giving women tips to stay safe shows how bad this really is, and how many times you yourself went through this. God this world is disgusting

[@Braindeadfrogg]

Smart

[@rachelpadilla9368]

Unfortunately women know when you turn about 12. The creeps come out from everywhere. The worst part is they always ask “why???”

[@pollywey6425]

9

[@rachelpadilla9368]

@@pollywey6425 Awwh that’s terrible.

[@LadyCoyKoi]

Try 6 years old. And it never ends.

[@Moongirlgacha_roblox6643]

@@LadyCoyKoi there even one where IT A BABY

[@xM4YAx]

11, I was happily walking down the street when a 60-70yr old man pinned me against a wall :(

[@crimsongold6980]

As Meg once said "You know how men are. They think no means yes and 'get lost' means 'take me, I'm yours'"

[@BloomingMeadowsCo.]

This is really what it's like..... Being a female is scary I've had this happen before.

[@Crysalis-bd9so]

I was followed home from school at the age of 12 and had to call the police to escort me home. I still played with barbies, didn't even think about sex, and this incident destroyed my peace of mind. I became paranoid, didn't go anywhere by myself, and that incident led to panic attacks and depression later in my teens. This stuff really harms... I wish things were different.

[@Aspen0np4wz]

I feel you I was (R-ed) at age 6 I’m now depressed don’t trust anyone anymore and I am usually completely mute

[@food_coma.]

@@Sally_crazygirl78 your hella lucky you've never been harassed, assaulted or raped. thats a fucking blessing.

[@PJO_fan321]

@@Aspen0np4wz I’m so sorry that happened to you men are disgusting

[@mainly_delirious4267]

@@Sally_crazygirl78that should not be your first thought. It is good that none of those things haven’t happened to you, but your first thought shouldn’t be I haven’t gotten raped or assaulted that must mean Im probably ugly.

[@mainly_delirious4267]

I’m so sorry about that.

[@fionagertrude-rr7zd]

ok but being a woman i’m always terrified of this shit happeneing to me…ik one time i was in the mall with my dad and these two guys were in a store that we were in and we left that store and they left…i kept lookijg behind me because i was a little freaked out. we went into a shoe store and they went into the store next to us. me and my dad went in there and we left immediately because we hadn’t realized that they had gone in there. they followed us into Tj max and they went down the escalator and then when we left they came up the escalator and by then i was absolutely terrified and i wanted nothing to do with those guys so i started speeding up. they followed us out to the car and one of them grabbed me. my dad punched the guy in the face and i ran into the truck as the other guy try’s to get in with me and my dad knocks out the guy that grabbed me eventually going for the person trying to get in the car. my dad got into the car with me and we drove away eventually calling 911. it scared me shitless and i was 13 at the time and it’s a very sensitive topic to talk about but i just had to put it out there.

[@Hypn0tic_d4ta]

🫢

[@claire4212]

bruh I’ll be scared shitless too if this happened to me at 13

[@fionagertrude-rr7zd]

@claire4212 that’s so real of you

[@anemptyspace]

Omg, the fact that they didn't stop, or care, that your dad was there is really terrifying...

[@Asuri754]

I can't forget the one time i was walking with my mom around our new neighbourhood in afternoon, i wasn't even wearing anything like shorts, skirt or etc. I was with my casual sport clothes. While we were passing near a park, there was a group of kids around my age and maybe some of them were older than me, one of them kept staring at me until we went back to our house. Thankfully i never saw them near my house but i didn't go outside for a long day and never walked around that park alone again. Stay safe, girls and boys!

[@Ilied.666]

One time, in a middle of a day (13 AM or sth) on the most crowded bus stop in my city, a high old weirdo came to me and my friend and literally cornered us. He was saying disgusting things to my friend and tried to touch her. Remind you, there were people around us EVERYWHERE. Even sitting right next to this scene. NO ONE did anything. Absolutely no one. I stood infront of my friend and cover her with my body and told the guy to fuck off or I'll call the police. Dude straight up laughed at my face and said that police won't do shit to him. Then another bus arrived, and I screamed to the people "Please help, this random creep is assoulting me and my friend". And ONLY after I did that, the weirdo walked away. The fact that people like these are doing things like that anytime they want to and no one reacts? This is fucking scary. No man ever experienced something like that before, try telling me otherwise.

[@Aesthetic_Edits]

Omg that’s horrible I hope you and your friend are okay now

[@proud_moonwalker]

How can people see such things and do nothing? I feel bad for you I hope you are ok

[@Wall.Wall_Wall]

Ik this is irrelevant but thats 1 pm. Or 13:00

[@Robohead-z6z]

@@Wall.Wall_Wall I think they meant 1 am

[@chokemewithmydiamonds9456]

@@Robohead-z6z they said middle of the day. 1 am is middle of the night

[@Balladearest]

I HATE PEOPLE WHO DO THIS SHIT. LIKE BRUH LEAVE WOMEN ALONE THEY DONT WANT YOU TF

[@gigagamerfloppa3398]

This man should of had over millions of subs by now

[@Tigger434]

Also as a girl who has been hurt by a male cousin of mine and 2 weeks later hurt at work by a guy who was extremely toxic and then attempted to hurt me and I was also in an abusive relationship during all of this I have had a really bad fear I can't walk anywhere without my brother or parents because they are also afraid something bad will happen again but I am in therapy and have been able to separate from all of the guys but I still am a little afraid around guys I never met before and this kind of stuff reaffirms the small fear I have and I know it's not all guys but it's a good percentage also I was 18 when this stuff happened I'm 22 now and I nearly took my life a week after the stuff happened.

[@ktostam35]

I hope you're doing better now

[@MyDuckSaysFucc]

I’m sorry to hear that. If it’s helpful, get self defense tools like pepper spray, tazer, a hammer, or whatever is legal where you live.

[@allegracole96]

I hope ur recovering alright

[@Tigger434]

I'm doing okay I have pretty bad PTSD along with seizures I had tried to take my life right after it happened because I felt ashamed and that it was my fault I'm trying to talk to a counselor but I still feel like I must've done something to deserve it I was thinking about using Mace what do y'all think to carry with me sorry I don't know if I spelt it right

[@Tigger434]

@@ktostam35 I'm trying my best to take it 1 day at a time my nightmares have gotten a lot worse and my body is always in fight or flight no matter how much I try to control that I've been told I deserved to be r worded to death before by people who I thought were friends but now I don't know who I can trust anymore

[@Zena_gachatube]

5:34 the way you can hear her voice cracks and genuine fear makes me feel horrible for everyone who has to go through this

[@andyt7295]

One would think that if basic human decency can't stop these guys, at least some self-consciousness could, but nope...

[@marylopez2844]

“I don’t wanna seem like I’m taking advantage of her” 😂😂😂😂😂👏

[@MoOnYoOnGiShInEsBrIgHt]

As a teenage girl this has thankfully never happened to me but my biggest fear is getting followed or SAed by some creep

[@randomfan4966]

Same. I shouldn't even be scared but I am.

[@SpicyMacaroniDevil]

I'm a trans guy and same. . .

[@Shaylene2779]

I hate to say this, but the odds of being stalked & harassed are all too likely. When it happens, don’t be afraid to be a bitch or act like a psycho. And if you can, find an older woman & act like that’s your mom or aunt or whatever. I can pretty much guarantee you they will very quickly figure out what’s going on & go along with it.

[@Itssimplyjewels]

Ty to all the good boys and men out there who are respectful just like layze we need more of you guys!

[@snooganslestat2030]

Ah yes the guy who follows you when you are just walking somewhere. When you say I dont want to talk etc you get accused of being uptight & rude. I hate walking through town at night time esp on a fri or sat. It happened recently with a random woman(I'm not implying anything sexual with anyone who approaches me) I had headphones on she asked to shake my hand I said no. Then she asked of I wanted to talk to her I said no she asked why i said i don't want to talk to anyone I dont like people. She huffed

[@sushmitaraodesaraju6330]

Yeah, when a creep accuses me of being uptight and rude for not entertaining their bullsh*t, I respond with "yes I'm a horrid b*tch, f*ck off". That usually puts them off of the conversation

[@art-byfayleif3938]

I take the train and literally on 4 20 some dude sat beside me and started mumbling to me and started trying to talk to me, saying creepy shit like my skin is so smooth, how beautiful I was and asking me if I'm talking to someone, and then tried to touch me literally trying to touch my face. at that point I immediately got up and called my boyfriend and found the station guards who stayed with me until I reached my stop boyfriend stayed on the phone too. I was so creeped out!

[@xandragaming5229]

I had an experience not too long ago that really creeped me out. So a man (Prob in his late 50's) started following me while I was on one of my daily walks calling "Hey girl" or "Hey kid" (I'm 14) when I was an unsafe distance from home. I had been walking back towards my house but didn't really want to lead him there so I just turned, stopped and watched him. He got a bit closer before stopping, to which I took a few steps back cause I felt very threatened. He asked me stuff like "Where you headed" "Do your parents know you're out here" "Where do you live" "Which of these houses are yours" To which I responded "Oh, I'm just heading home" "Yeah they know where I am" "I live around here" "My house is just up the road" And I'd point in random directions. By the time he ended the conversation (I was much too scarred to turn my back on him) I was shaking like crazy. I waited until he started walking away before I sprinted home. I immediatly told my parents about the interaction and I kid you not like 10 minutes later this dude walked past my house on the road while staring at me. (I was carving into a stick to make an arrow) It scarred me a lot and I would try to not leave the house without either my best friend (We hung out a lot) or my dog. There were a few instances when I would go to my friends house to hang out or pick her up and I'd be walking by myself, but I'd stay off the main roads because if I walked on the main roads he would follow me. There was one time that I had to walk home from my friends house (I stayed over really late and it was pitch black outside) and my phone was dead and I swear he almost grabbed me. I was walking when I got this.. Sense of dread and danger out of nowhere. I felt something touch my arm and I freaking booked it. Tripped multiple times and was bleeding like crazy by the time I got home because of how many times I fell and how hard I was falling, but other than that I was okay. Still spooks me to think about but I'm glad it didn't go as bad as it could have.

[@Lala_monzz]

there be men blaming women for these instances “you should’ve been nicer” “maybe u shouldn’t have worn that” instead of giving men accountability 😅

[@brit1945]

You’re right about middle aged Moms just raging we have a lot of pent up rage and perimenopause symptoms. If you’re a younger woman and feel uncomfortable around a man find an older woman go up to her and say” Mom this guy is making me feel unsafe “ I’m guessing she’s got you girl

[@-cMc-]

Oh no my worst nightmare..that creepy guy looking in her window while she sleeps 😳

[@Noodles_Dental]

Same omg I got so scared fr

[@VashyY]

@@Noodles_DentalAnd im watching that part at night-

[@emmaclark7425]

woooh! When he popped up by the window I jumped. @6:52 My thoughts exactly. Men like that make me glad I live where I can protect myself.

[@dibbsjones]

In my 20s I was staying with my parents and I thought they had a ghost. I woke up several times in my bedroom and felt like someone was watching me and never saw anyone the front door was locked. One night I woke up to my dad yelling apparently there was a man in the house standing at my bedroom door watching me sleeping. Dad dialed 911 and the police showed. I felt so stupid. They discovered the back door to the garage was opened and that's where he'd been coming in thru. We never found out who it was. All dad knew was it was a man in a hoodie.

[@sarahh2072]

It's so true, guys are always complaining that girls "are bitches" or whatever and to just say no, but when we flat out say no they don't leave us alone

[@leenuhh_]

Seriously, what "no means no" do these people not get? If somebody is not interested, move on. Is it pride? It'll just embarrassed them more.

[@LolCow.Complilations]

Ladies. Ask. Tell. Make. Ask him to leave you alone, if he doesn’t. Tell him. If he still doesn’t. Make him. Pps bug spray hurts the same as pepper spray and isn’t illegal to carry. Same with travel sized hair spray

[@Hypn0tic_d4ta]

I reward this person a like cause you deserve it

[@pollywey6425]

bear pray 2

[@pollywey6425]

n knives

[@samreen8697]

When I was 10 I was walking down a street with my dad and a random guy asked my dad "how much for the girl" then my dad ignored him and we were walking home and the guy kept following

[@WhiteOlivesGrey]

That guy probably think it's still 1800s..

[@ReeCrowsFray]

Damn that freak peering through the girls bedroom?! Wtf?! If ANY of your room windows are directly in the line for public viewing (whether at your door or not) those things need 2 or more layers to hide the inside! I leave windows open but also have checked every angle possible from the street to the front door etc to see if those windows can be seen in. I found my bedroom can be, from the mailbox at the right angle (and it’s far) so that window is now FOREVER LAYERED SHUT! My god. My mom and I experienced a man like that when I was 6 and we lived in a tiny apartment. It’s something that still terrifies me to think of.

[@maggimania8229]

This is why us girls have to carry self defence tools such as gazers and pepper sprays 😢 because this is what we deal with.

[@Psychokiller-zy4qx]

One time I was on the train by myself and this old middle aged crusty man walked in and sat opposite to me and we made eye contact. Then he gestured me to come and sit next to him which scared the shit out of me and made me so uncomfortable. Anyway I kept avoiding him and when he was leaving , I was sitting right next to the train doors he gestured me to come with him , which I obviously didn't. It was so creepy and sad that us girls and women have to go through this.

[@andyscisco3744]

3:50 he’s probably trying to relearn how to walk up the stairs at this point because he’s so old.

[@-cMc-]

Ew that man is looking at that young girl while sitting right next to his wife 😳

[@blackrockshooter3700]

Happens all the time. No wonder women are happier single and child free

[@L0st_D3vil]

Stormy's face omg she's so annoyed (1:10)

[@deIcorazon]

bye these were terrifying, that’s why i don’t ever go out anymore

[@bellelovesJesus22]

All of these videos are terrifying, I really hope no one else experiences the same thing, or something similar. I’m glad the girls are alright though.

[@pollywey6425]

we all do. more than once

[@leahhunt5287]

A few months ago i was at the gym with my team and a guy comes over and (keep in mind i was 17 and this dude was balding) he starts lowering the weight down to like 10 lbs and so i obviously am like wtf and he has the nerve to say “im just looking out for you young girls shouldn’t be lifting that much,” luckily my coach came over at that point and saved me but I was so scared of that guy even in a public gym

[@user-fv4gs2ts3c]

Bruised ego because you can do more than him. I see it myself literally on the daily!

[@Poipoipai]

Most say that if u just ignore they’ll go away but when I DID ignore a guy that was following me he got mad and started chasing me butttt if you answer them they might as well get more interested in you so idk really what to do…they just won’t stop

[@nopenottanoway]

Sometimes it doesn't matter what you say or do, they'll get hostile. Just depends on each individual creep. Keep some mace on you if it's legal where you are. Stay safe!

[@CancerianTarot]

That old man will have a heart attack if someone introduces him to Instagram. That being said: PLEASE EVERYONE INSTALL SECURITY CAMERAS THAT HAVE NIGHT VISION AND ENSURE YOUR PROPERTY IS SECURED.

[@Olina-_-]

6:35 yo my soul would just leave my body asap

[@denise-cv7nl]

I've had this all of my adult and teenage life. Some guys refuse to be refused. Men gawp at me and women hate me bc im naturally very busty. Uurgh I don't really like people anymore 😢

[@Spreadaware]

My sister as a little girl when we were very little. She was probably 13 and 14, and I was 7 or 8 but men would always try it or ask if I’m her daughter. She didn’t even look that old and my mom would always have to cuss these grown men out. They even tried kidnapping her a couple of times. My other sisters half sister almost got kidnapped not to long ago and three men got out of a black van started chasing her and her friend. The security guards had to protect her but the police said there still was “no” evidence of them trying to kidnap her.😢

[@DjDeedzD]

I literally don't go anywhere without my husband anymore as a 5'2" woman who looks a lot younger than my age. Sometimes I go out with other people too, but really never alone. It sucks, but I got so tired of being approached in the creepiest manner and even followed in stores at times when it did happened. It isn't every time, but it happened more than I am comfortable with. So having my husband who is over a foot taller than myself and has RBF is a great deterrent.

[@CuriousMe_JK]

Another tip,always carry Mace with you.Mace is pepper spray if you don't know,my sister carries it around and it lasts a few years.

[@NeonX913]

0:01 as a 12 yr old i realate💀

[@IvaMarjanovic-z6i]

Same💀

[@kingcarter1745]

💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

[@gisellerangel3585]

Same 💀😭

[@NeonX913]

Yea especially me who lives in a country that respect women💀

[@gisellerangel3585]

@@NeonX913 yikes that must be ruff💀

[@_Amarin]

When creeps try to approach me, I always play dumb and act like I don't speak the language😂

[@vengefulbitches]

Omg!! That is so smart

[@divinitycheek1910]

The video at 8:53 reminds me of this year when I was at my best friend's birthday dinner with her family and the whole time two old dudes kept watching me eat and talk to my friend. Also I have been followed and almost kidnapped by older men so much and its scary.

[@HannahTheory2]

3:28 Layze: "He's going so slow lmfao look at him." Me: *sweating profusely because that's the speed I go at*

[@bigboomer1013]

Hapend to me once when I was out grocery shopping. And I know that cloths do nothing and isn't an excuse to anything, but I look like a wreck wearing a 10 year old sonic t-shirt made for little boys and an old hat and frizy hair along with looking sweaty. He keeps flirting with me and he asks if it's because he's too ugly. I just told him that I can't tell and the way he dresses reminds me of my dad as he does a bit of construction on our rental houses. Don't remember how I got him to leave. Called my mom after that and she asked what his age is and that I need to get to know people and that's how it's done, not that I need to gobout with him. I then told my mom that the way he drove up to me with his truck and stoped to get out is the literal reason why I never interact with strangers to make friends or find a partner. Don't know how it's done in the 80s or 90s man.

[@solkatlovechildcentral]

4:29 The way he looked down while he said “so hard” 💀💀

[@Kittycat-M3]

Lol

[@M1LL1EXOXO]

5:50 u can hear the panic in her voice

[@vigilauntie8381]

On a tour in Cuba an old man ruined the day for my sister and I by constantly giving us unwanted attention and making comments about our appearance. He was with his wife. Our group was my sister, her husband me and our Dad. He’d only come up to us when we were alone. I really wish I’d gone up to his wife and told her that her husband was a creep but I was too nice to ruin her day. Now I would let her know exactly the man she was married to.

[@americanmade-1]

3:50 he's wearing jeans. He legit just goes there to creep. Tf is wrong with dudes these days. It's like 4 out of 5 are creeps.

[@ILOVEPLAYBOICARTIII]

out of all 6:26 is so creepy bro, it happened to me once too n i was like 13 rn im 14 HELP

[@imberrysandy]

Nope. No creepers are allowed in my gym! Please let your gym staff know! You are paying so much money a month to feel safe enough to workout in a public space. If gym staff do not handle the creeper situation, that gym is NOT worth your time and money!! (Do not worry about being a "Karen"! Gym staff already know there will be some creeps, but people gotta tell us who!) The faster we get notified, the faster we can make a note to ban them in whenever they come back, and the faster we can do to make your next experience safer and better.

[@user-fv4gs2ts3c]

I went to my gym about a creeper and they did absolutely nothing. After getting followed to the changing room and getting watched getting changed I switched. And ps it was a 60 year old woman (gym cleaner). The gym group liverpool btw.

[@Waeva777]

I normally answer the first question to gage the intent and see if it is a dangerous situation, anything after that is a "no" with no further detail

[@winterp2208]

"felt like doing some charity" lol 🤣🤣

[@mirrunnnxoxox]

i usually dont reply to men i pull out my phone and start to fake call someone and say something like "dad ru around the corner?, alright im right there now" men tend to stop following but if they dont i just walk faster and go into a shop.

[@ThePierogiQueen]

I had a guy follow me out of the grocery store to my house (I'm assuming he was sitting in his car while I was packing up mine to see where I was going). He got out when I was getting the groceries out of my car and kept offering to help me take them inside. Thank god my neighbor was out there and he came over acting like family started asking who he was he got nervous since he couldn't come up with answers and then he ended up just saying I'll get back to you later and got in his car and left. Thank god he was washing his car that day or else I don't know what would have happened especially since I had bags in my hand and really couldn't defend myself The neighbor was an ex chief of police of the city and that's why I trusted him. I've gotten mace and a tazer since then Stay safe out there!

[@Tamnjoe670]

Just found your channel and I can’t believe you aren’t blowing up like crazy. I scare my entire family every time I watch you using my AirPods haha I laugh so hard my neighbors can probably hear me 😂

[@Preppytips-c1n]

7:10 in the video is so creepy I feel horrible for her

[@izzyiscool9946]

I WAS SO HAPPY TO SEE YOU POSTED! I FREAKING LOVE YOUR VIDEOS, YOU REALLY INPIRE ME, THANK YOU FOR ALWAYS MAKING ME LAUGH, LOVE YOU 😭

[@Krysanya]

"Lunch is hard!" Lmfao!!!

[@brizzig]

I'm 14 and I went out with my friend who's 13, and her lil sister who is younger than us (don't wanna say her age) , and usually nothing ever happens, but this old guy stopped in front of me and said "hello young beautiful girl" and I just gave an awkward smile and he tried to grab my arm but I walked off super fast to avoid talking more and he still stared at me while I walked away. In the same day I got hit on by 4 different men in broad daylight, how disgusting.

[@thelinashow9611]

when stormy fell asleep I CANTT ❤❤ we love the kitty 🥰

[@mainly_delirious4267]

Nothing ever happened to me but there have been many close calls. One of which when I was 13 a man followed me all around a store thinking I didn’t notice him. Each time I’d stop to look at something he’d go around the other aisle and attempt to make it seem as if he was just walking around but he’d try to come up from behind and I’d walk away and go to my mom. Still that wouldn’t stop him, only slow him down, and eventually we left.

[@zofiali]

When I was 16, my parents got divorce and were living few streets from themselves. I was going to my dad every few days and always coming back around when it gets darker outside. I live in Poland, we don't worry about guns, or any american stuff, but still there are predators and others like everywhere. I was always careful, it was mostly 10 minutes walk home in the main road with all the building and houses around. Two times I was running away from the random 40 years old man who stopped his car in the middle of the street and wanted to grab me. First time I didn't say anything but got scared, second time when it was different man and nearly the same situation but few months later I told my parents, and I just stayed for the night at dad's if it was late xD the best is that those weren't the only situation in my life. Most of them happened when I was 8-13 years old. Neighbors asking if I want to came for a tea ( my friend dad, which wanted to invite me saying she is at home, when she wasn't) . Random old mans on the playground. I am so happy I don't have a daughter....

[@thegingerrunner9448]

This could also happen to a boy.

[@dawn-gk2tr]

That first clip shows a girl using the " gay " card to try to get rid of a creep.. She was obviously trying to placate him as she fears his violence.

[@Fishonsteroids.1]

What if she was gay though??? Why is it using a gay card? Lol?!

[@tracygrey8781]

You always make me laugh Layze 😂😂😂 & cheer me up when I need it & I've needed it a bit lately...

[@Ashlynn-ks4ti]

This is why I hate going to places alone and when i do i feel like someone is watching me and there was an old man who kept following me. There was this one time when i was at a mall and everywhere i went i always saw him there he looked like je was in his 50's or something.

[@hails.MoDEl.POokiE]

I caught an old man following me while I was walking to school, and he wouldn't stop following me until I reached my class.

[@witchypeoniflorallungs3044]

Also having a female cat is “taking care of a woman” nah mate, you’re caring for a deity that never forgot the ancient Egyptian times 😂 worship is a bare minimal for most cats, she owns you 😂 can’t even run 1 sec late on topping up that bowl 😂

[@lowqualityemo]

At my job (fast food burger place), an older man started flirting with me. He kept asking if I enjoyed working there and if I suggested he get a job so we could “hang out”, and then looked over to his friend that he was with and said “isn’t she the prettiest cashier you’ve ever seen?” I deanpanned him the whole time and he lost traction very fast. Don’t give these guys the response they want!

[@s.cecilia-1292]

6:26 OMG i got goosebumps. That is so scary. Watching him smile around the corner.......

[@cosmic_ghostbruh]

Men, please be respectful to women. Or if you know any boy that needs guidance, please teach them to respect everyone, including women. Boys and some men think it's cool nowadays to disrespect women and make sexist jokes. What happened to opening the door for women? Or pulling their chair out for them? Or not hitting them? Instead the "chads" think it's cool to say "haha gender equality i dont have to open the door if she doesn't open it for me 😇". I was legit walking past a middle school and a few students were waiting outside. A boy was legit holding his fist up to one of the girls just because she wouldn't share her cookie?? They looked about 12 years old. I instantly told the boy off. It's not cool to be disrespectful to anyone. It's not cool to steal and throw it around the classroom. It's not cool to knock someone's stuff down. Kids need to learn this or else our future generation will be filled with the men like in this video.

[@asherlogansmommy]

You mention being depressed so often that I just wanted to say I love you & appreciate you & your content so much. You make me laugh even in my darkest days. Thank you. 🙏💙🫂

[@keyzie91]

A security guard at University where I work was looking at me through cctv and called the emergency telecom where I was standing and claimed he was testing it and that he can see me right now. No one has tested those once in the night for 6 and a half years I've been working at.

[@Christina-yd6dx]

One of the reasons I don't want to ever live in an apartment that has windows at ground level is because of creepy men. Breaking the glas is way to easy for my comfort na ah

[@Whatswrongwithmybrain]

Yeah i never had things like this directly done to me but some suspicious stuff has happened. When i was i think 10 i was outside with one of my friends. We were walking and i noticed someone walking on the road freakishly close to us. And the worst part was he was staring st us and grinning the whole time. My friend noticed this and i had an idea. I told her that we should go down this alley type place that was in our neighborhood. It was a long line of grass that was kinda like a maze. There were many directions you could go in. So we did that and ran around until we got to a spot that we deemed was safe enough. Then i asked her if she had noticed him. She had. It was weird.

[@KitBarKat21]

Lmao, the transition into the Planet Fitness gym like it's straight up a sitcom

[@monicaconstantin5625]

Loved your imitation of the guy at the restaraunt Hahaha sadly it happens so much!! I just pretend I don't see them or when at work ignore the lame comments while there gf is out of sight.

[@Everymach]

This happened to me when I was around 10 years old, a group of guys whistled to me in a car, I was a tomboy and hated wearing dresses and being "girly" (ik ok I was a little girl leave me be) and was wearing a dress for the first time for years, it was a jean dress that covered my completely from neck to knee, there was nothing revealing or suggestive about the outfit and I got catcalled. This traumatized me and I still won't wear dresses till this day because of how uncomfortable the situation has made me feel

[@dsullivanation]

And I thought Skippy was creepy.