136. The Art of Disagreeing Without Conflict: Navigating the Nuance | Think Fast, Talk Smart:...

[@busemerinc]

Absolutely love this podcast episode! As a Career and Education Planning Consultant working with high school students, I can't stress enough the significance of diplomatic communication in shaping successful relationships, both personal and professional. Julia Minson and Matt Abrahams brilliantly dissect the art of disagreeing without conflict, shedding light on the paramount importance of tactful and strategic language in navigating nuanced conversations. In my experience, fostering diplomatic skills among students involves emphasizing cultural sensitivity, understanding diverse perspectives, and promoting active listening. I often find that the comprehension-oriented analysis fostered in high school literature classes lays a solid foundation for developing diplomatic language. Encouraging students to speak not only with their voices but also with their ears, by truly understanding and considering the impact of their words on others, is key. As the Turkish proverb aptly puts it, 'A sweet language will make even a snake crawl out of its hole.' Here's to cultivating a generation of effective communicators who can charm even the most challenging situations with their diplomatic prowess!

[@AbuAnisa]

Great podcast for english learners. I am listening from Indonesia.

[@huybui2413]

"I understand that this is a really complicated topic and i would love to understand your point of view. I believe... But i get that some people disagree and i would like to learn more about your perspective"

[@ronpirolo7768]

Appreciate the real-ness of both speakers.

[@margaretpypher4194]

I do feel and act curious but people who I am curious about take over the conversation, deny me my point of view and end the conversation without understanding my perspective. Usually, the conversation is overwhelmingly jumpy, that is, the initial discussion jumps to another and another without allowing me to voice my perspective. It's frustrating and leaves me feeling like I am not allowed to have a voice because I do not share their beliefs. The discussion usually ends with the other person not hearing me at all.

[@sarika2629]

will be you be my friend ?

[@shrikantpawar8269]

Thank you so much sir 🙏

[@yaroslavTimofeev-t1k]

Thank you very much for your work and knowledge provided. They clear up some difficulties and help me improve my trading skills.

[@laviniaelisabeth]

Highly recommend ❤

[@kentam5361]

Conflicts are the divergent of interests on different parties who try to advance. Disagreement is the divergent of opinions, perspectives, or point of views, no actual interest is involved. They are mutually inclusive or exclusive.

[@LOGICZOMBIE]

OBRA MAESTRA

[@kaliamunish]

While I agree with most , some of the things said here only fester a conflict longer, and don’t promote early decision making.

[@uliyaagafonova6439]

I liked it very much, I will follow your new posts.

[@CeciliaBaillie-oz4kt]

Great job, the author definitely knows his stuff.

[@huonghongdao3585]

Hope you do more episode like this 😊

[@ПанкратЯнцижин]

Your videos help me understand complex trading concepts. Thank you for making it so accessible!

[@sarika2629]

will be you my friend ?

[@Milqartu]

Great podcast. I love the timestamps. Watching from Thailand

[@buhlemushntanzi]

I loved this discussion ❤

[@chrisogonas]

That's incredibly helpful? Thanks folks

[@evelynn_teoh]

How do u apply this knowledge to ppl of different cultures...e.g. china or russia or iran?

[@hvmlovecomayforever]

good voice

[@deeps0228]

So simple and very useful

[@0099kunal1]

Are these podcasts in German language as well?

[@shrikantpawar8269]

Good morning sir

[@mmcatamm6668]

This is very unuseful where it’s a catch-response mimicking bracing for impact. It seems robotic and would shut out natural flow of conversation. Over-prepping on a comment could also prevent the responder to engage the non-verbal transfers that happen with people

[@haiffy]

Meanwhile me: Think slow Talk fast

[@fawwazaiman8123]

thank you matt abrahams for the podcast!

[@maeyrhonamissabea7772]

❤❤❤

[@pacifiquebusiness]

😊

[@amangeldimukayev]

👍✊🇰🇿

[@optimist_yashu]

1st commentn😊

[@ChrisPyle]

Only comment lol

[@Jeetuk24]

​@@ChrisPyleHey bro! Can you summarise this podcast in one line😅

[@ChrisPyle]

@@Jeetuk24 it's not what you say, it's how you say it.

[@ricardofonseca7810]

25 minutes wasted

[@chloelu4390]

😂😂😂

[@a.rajesh-zdynamics]

Thank u for saving 25 minutes

[@SirBBC]

I'll save this episode and take 25 minutes later to justify your conclusion, but thanks for the warning.

[@gooddramas5644]

hhhhhhh

[@KP-ky1sn]

These replies are gold. Tnx

[@ftmrivas3043]

Michael Obama?

[@neroda_]

It's Michelle Obama

[@wlopne]

She might have a lot of knowledge on this subject, but I think she needs to be better on explaining. She does have a lot of interesting points, but it looks and feels a way too theoretical.

[@sasu1211]

This video was targeting 3rd countries, cheap CPV!

[@samyvik2888]

21:35 Democrats' plug?!? of all the people in the world... :)

[@flyingdragoncar4975]

she's a wonderful speaker and communicator its perfect. So is her husband. And excellent example.

[@samyvik2888]

@@flyingdragoncar4975 her husband - yes! she? not so much ... maybe cited for DEI reasons and agenda politics. There are so many others in corporate world and in the social media world that are popular and even better.

[@flyingdragoncar4975]

@@samyvik2888 ah , the new buzz word. DEI. Yeah gonna step away here. Sorry I don't deal with racism. I hope you get better and change your views. Take care.

[@samyvik2888]

@@flyingdragoncar4975 please step away. what racism did you find in my comment? this is a standard hide out of wokes and psedo-liberals like you!

[@1683Jordan]

Was somewhat interesting till it got to Michelle Obama. That woman could barelly communicate a few years back. Now she's an expert communicator? Oh please spare me the bs. She's got a whole communication team behind her....