I’ve chosen to stay silent after disrespect and it’s quite amazing to watch people squirm.
@mikegarrens528616 күн бұрын
You don't have to be silent at first! just ask them to say it again. Trust me it hits him in a different way when they have to repeat it and then be silent.
@VenjoMein12 күн бұрын
True!
@ElleMolinaChannel12 күн бұрын
Yes sir
@johncamps133714 күн бұрын
Had alot of disrespect in work . I left after 4 months as those men never changed. I left quietly and vanished . The disrespect stopped. I moved on they remained the same never changing. Still in the same job with the same attitudes. Stagnation for them.
18 күн бұрын
Thank you
@Mike-j7o14 күн бұрын
Walk away .
@Manager-847210 күн бұрын
Take some time out and resist responding on the back of powerful emotions. Try and understand what happened and why. Find a calmer time to approach the individual to explore their concerns if that is appropriate and comfortable for you to do. If you rely on silence alone then the disrespectual behaviour may repeat.
@carolinehops15 күн бұрын
I used to know a man ,if u had a go at him,he be silent ,then fart or burb loud then not say nothing….that was his answer most offensive.
@ankavrcon23715 күн бұрын
Odgovarjati na reakcije ljudi,ki me ne spoštujejo z molkom-se da!
@nicolesawyer-jm6ir14 күн бұрын
🫶🏼
@wmhhealth201811 күн бұрын
This AI sounds nothing like Sir Anthony Hopkins
@KAtte-ep7ev18 күн бұрын
This video is just too 1 dimensional. Usually these sort of philosophies are cooked up- well- by 'philosophers' and influencers. They usually dont do much work and most of the time detached from society and therefore reality of the avg person. Its basically a watered down version of some Shaolin monk being locked up in some sanctuary giving advices to working people in society on how to live. Or the virgin priest with no experience giving out advice for married people. While theres some truth to it its so artificial lol I think you are the same. And I am not part of the society at all so its not that I have envy for the freedom or whatever people usually say in these topics when faced with opposite opinion. There are literally people who will test your boundaries. Lots of the times its not even individuals, but pack of ppl. The only time they not gonna escalate is when they face with strong conseqences. Lots of the time you stay quiet and it will cause lower ranked people in the social group to start attacking you because: no consequences. i think staying quiet and/or walking away from situation is the best method to deal when you can choose to never go back whenever you are pressured to fight of flight. You will have better and worse (and terrible) days so if the attack is regular -and sooner or later it is if you let them- you will have days when you wont be able to grey rock them. What you feel about their remark will be visible on you and will be enough for them to crack you more. I think it might work to stay quiet after disrespect when you see very high chances of the attack being a one time event out of frustration or something. But still even those times its usually better to bring it up in a calm manner (maybe later when emotions settled a bit) otherwise they have no idea they even hurt you. You stay quiet and they will keep doing it. Very rare situation when staying quiet is good: when you are the bottom of the group and fighting back in any way cause your situation to get worse. But in a modern society you can leave that situation. Of coure being snappy and fighting vs everyone is not a good strategy either. But this quiet BS may cause the people in the group to leave you alone but it doesnt mean you are part of that group or feared by them it means your new place is being ignored. And thats a carreer breaker lots of the time. (we assume that most adults people only forced social group is work and/or family) TLDR:being quiet is almost always inferior. Good strategy is wording it nicely for them to stop without losing your cool. when it doesnt help you need to cook up strategies to cause as much or more discomfort for them as they do for you. And that strategies are different and depends on the person and the group dynamics.
@billhunt453912 күн бұрын
Thanks for enlightening us.
@ankavrcon23715 күн бұрын
Ni lahko biti tiho,ko se kar tresem od enega besa! Kako bi mi bilo lažje,če bi zbruhnila in pokazala,kako hudo mi je.Kakor druge stvari,se tudi te-tihote-lahko naučim!
@andrewdutton-nx3dh15 күн бұрын
Just stay silent for 10 seconds and say anything else to add .are you having a problem in life
@zigilll14 күн бұрын
The problem with our society: right here! Barely 4K views.