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Thai Talk with Dan

Thai Talk with Dan

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@thaitalkwithdan
@thaitalkwithdan Жыл бұрын
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@gordonkistler916
@gordonkistler916 Жыл бұрын
Sounds like the Philippines love story with an old fart expat!
@southerneruk
@southerneruk Жыл бұрын
Wow they learned off western women fast
@Microphunktv-jb3kj
@Microphunktv-jb3kj Жыл бұрын
dowry.. taking simping to the next levle.. well if the culture is like that... i possiblkt have no problem with that.... the point is... in Estonia, centuries ago dowry was paid by the family of the daughter to the man... since the man will have to take care of the woman the rest of her life, wich is expense.... so you were basicly paid to marry their daughters, so they wouldnbt be leftover women rofl.... .. personally i wouldnt ever pay someone to get to marry their daughter... like wtf... they can fck off... if u think 10k is bad.... try china.. where dowry is easily 100-150k$ ... and dont forget.. u will be feeding entire family tree, not just that wife of urs.... sry... but the grass isnt greener on the other side rofl..... thai and european culture differences are so vast, that my friend couldnt handle the relationship for longer than 6months....
@glenncrane1651
@glenncrane1651 Жыл бұрын
A older man picked up a bar girl next morning she was gone and she left a note welcome to give club he got back home few mths later become positive health went down hill died at 58 take not where you go
@giannilyanicks1718
@giannilyanicks1718 Жыл бұрын
so everyone here is agree that thailmand is one of the worst countries for dating
@austinbarrett5295
@austinbarrett5295 Жыл бұрын
The moment her attitude changes, just tell her "pack your things and get the F out!" I lived with a thai girl in pattaya for 3 months and twice i had to tell her that,,and both times she begged me to let her stay and her attitude changes. You can't be afraid to throw her out if she acts up.
@nightravenonline
@nightravenonline Жыл бұрын
You are wright..and I do same if they done behave...to many expats are to kind..to weak and to naive..they will be paying...
@bobinthewest8559
@bobinthewest8559 Жыл бұрын
Exactly… You should consider this as a universal truth…. Anywhere in the world.
@SjaakSchulteis
@SjaakSchulteis Жыл бұрын
So eventually you threw her out? You said you lived with her for 3 months... that's such a short time. I'm with my wife now 11 years. She never had that attitude. But before I met my wife (many years before) I had several Thai "girlfriends" who started asking money just one week after I met them... they didn't last. My wife only asked money if she needed shopping and is very carefully with money...
@robertgrey6101
@robertgrey6101 Жыл бұрын
@@SjaakSchulteis Was your wife a bar girl ?? It seems most trouble comes from those girls especially younger one's. They haven't learnt there is a time and a place for every thing.
@SjaakSchulteis
@SjaakSchulteis Жыл бұрын
@@robertgrey6101 No, she was a grown up woman who (like many of that age) divorced from her Thai husband before. She happen to work in Home Pro.
@richardwhite8399
@richardwhite8399 Жыл бұрын
Hi Dan, I know an old Thai lady who lives here in the UK, she was married to an English man who died about 3 years ago and left her a lump sum and pension. I asked my Thai wife why she didn't want to return to Thailand and was told that her family would suck the last penny off her if she did. So it also happens to Thais too.
@trevorharvey105
@trevorharvey105 Жыл бұрын
Exactly the same in the Philippines. Once gone abroad they can never go back to their home town or they will be taken for everything by their family
@bobinthewest8559
@bobinthewest8559 Жыл бұрын
@@trevorharvey105… Only if they say “yes” to every request. If she has learned the value of ensuring your own interests, before “helping” family…. Different story. If the woman understands the concept of “saving for the future”, or “saving up to achieve a goal”…. And can identify the absurdity of some of those requests…. You may have found a rare one.
@robertjackson2700
@robertjackson2700 Жыл бұрын
Of course.
@markrcca5329
@markrcca5329 Жыл бұрын
​​@@trevorharvey105what does it mean "taken for everything"? They will demand lavish gifts?
@trevorharvey105
@trevorharvey105 Жыл бұрын
@@markrcca5329 more than that in some cases they manipulate you to buy a house which cannot be in your name. You think they love you but they just need money. It is difficult to understand as we have never been that poor. The filipinas family sometimes have meetings to work out how to suck you dry. Maybe she does not want a part of it but family loyalty runs deep. She will choose her family over you or she will be cut off from them all. Many filipinas who marry foreigners have to estrange from their family it is so sad.
@HeatherDales-tc7er
@HeatherDales-tc7er Жыл бұрын
Why any man would pay a sin sod (dowry) for a “working girl “ to put it politely is beyond me
@bigal2417
@bigal2417 Жыл бұрын
And one with a kid also😅
@senianns9522
@senianns9522 Жыл бұрын
@@bigal2417 Sod or pronounced 'Sot' in Thai means 'Fresh'--unused , untouched --virginal? Only an idiot Farang would buy into this BS!!
@RomanVarl
@RomanVarl Жыл бұрын
Really it has to be the other way around 😆
@mirage888
@mirage888 Жыл бұрын
Common senses evaporates in the heat of the thai sunshine and the company of a beautiful thai girl. Easy to see the situation on the outside looking in, but love ( real or orchestrated ) is blind. Sadly ….. so many dreams turn to nightmares.
@taalofaa
@taalofaa Жыл бұрын
After my latest tryst with udon thani lesbian farm girls,trust this: Make them at least pay for your hotel room. You are just a rusty knife in her mind.
@beestonbump1106
@beestonbump1106 Жыл бұрын
The point starting at "Women on the Payroll" is the pivoting point in your relationship with a Thai woman. If she starts to get moody or sulking and says money will fix whatever the problem is, then that is the moment you tell her to pack her bags and leave. It isn't negotiable. If you equivocate, she wins and you will never be happy again without paying for her affection. Out she must go. If she bucks up her ideas and drop the money demands then you have proved yourself to be the man in the relationship and you can proceed (with care). Do not back down. Thai women do not respect weak men.
@gscranage4594
@gscranage4594 Жыл бұрын
Easier said than done but also well said.
@hereandnow990
@hereandnow990 Жыл бұрын
That's how I tamed my one. As soon as she started those money for family requests, I showed her to the door. When she realized it didn't care to lose her at all, she immediately stopped and complied, being a good wifie-gf as it gets. Apparently, she calculated that it was still better to stick to me than going back to her former life. So what is the secret? Simple one: do not fall into emotional dependency on any single one of those women. These one thing makes you winner at all times and circumstances.
@darassylmoniakam
@darassylmoniakam Жыл бұрын
like japanese they're money driven
@larryjones2507
@larryjones2507 Жыл бұрын
@@gscranage4594 it is easy to do all you gotta be is not weak will be a man no woman respect a weak man
@SIXPACFISH
@SIXPACFISH Жыл бұрын
No woman, of any Nationality, will ever respect a weak man! So Man up, pull on your Man pants, and renew your Man card! Or you will be every 304's doormat for as long as you live!
@theodethomasa6358
@theodethomasa6358 8 ай бұрын
This man may be talking only about Thailand, but in my 79 years of life, I find this fits almost every woman in this world to one degree or another.
@vancouverlife1040
@vancouverlife1040 3 ай бұрын
79 yr old virgin?
@theodethomasa6358
@theodethomasa6358 3 ай бұрын
@@vancouverlife1040 Making comments about things you know nothing about just shows your ignorance!
@theodethomasa6358
@theodethomasa6358 3 ай бұрын
@daenackdranils5624 Learn to spell correctly before commenting on what someone knows!
@theodethomasa6358
@theodethomasa6358 3 ай бұрын
@daenackdranils5624 Bawahaha! It is funny when someone gets triggered when anyone gives their own personal opinion. I would not BS you, because are my favorite turd. Bawahaha!
@theodethomasa6358
@theodethomasa6358 3 ай бұрын
@daenackdranils5624 No respect needed! And who is that "we" you talked about? Do you have a mouse in your pocket? BAWAHAHA!
@dessaint5341
@dessaint5341 Жыл бұрын
I think Philippinas are much better. Most of them just want a better life with you and they will appreciate it. I've been to Thailand and the Philippines and know the score. I'll tell you a story about a friend of mine who met a Thai girl in the States. She and her mom were staying at her aunties, who owned a Thai restaurant. She was here on a student visa. She was 21 and gorgeous. My friend was 50, but fit. Still, big age gap. They started dating and she moved in with him because she didn't want to be around her mother any more ( and of course, her goal was to get a visa status change and get a green card by marrying my friend, who was clueless about it). After living with him for 6 months, they got married. My friend worked a fireman's shift ( 2 and 1/2 days away from home ) so he had plenty of time to spend with her. This was about 10 years ago, and he was making decent money ( about $80,000 a year ) and he had plenty of accumulated vacation time, so he took her all over the place: cruises, other countries, other cities in US etc. He paid for everything, including her clothes and cosmetics. She was a great cook , besides being beautiful, and he thought that he was in heaven. After about 6 years, she got antsy staying at home and decided that she wanted to work. My dummy friend paid for her acting school (of all things that will ruin a relationship ) Any way, one day he went on a business trip and when he came back, she was gone and so was everything in his house, including his car. She left a note saying not to try to find her and that her lawyer will get in touch with him. He never knew what hit him. She was with him for 6 years and really thought that she loved him. Must have been a hell of an actress and a patient one at that. Moral of the story: When there is a significant age gap, there is no real love on the part of the much younger person. Both Thai and Philippina women are known for marrying much older men but for the most part, the Thai women almost always do it with a plan to take advantage of the guy and leave him, whereas Philippina women, for the most part, are just happy to have someone that treats them good. For them , it's a trade off but they remain loyal. If you want to have a lot of good aerobics with different partners, Thailand is the place. If you are looking for a woman to settle with who doesn't mind the age gap, marry a Philippina.
@torkeltorkelsson5704
@torkeltorkelsson5704 Жыл бұрын
Great info! 💯👌🏻
@fkscopes
@fkscopes Жыл бұрын
Not doubting it but why do you think there is such a difference between Philippine and thai woman? The language barrier could be a small part of it I suppose
@puppetmasterblaster
@puppetmasterblaster Жыл бұрын
lol no. I and one of my friends married filipinas. Mine abandoned me 2 months after she got her green card. My friends filipina wife left after he paid for her college education Marry them fine, NEVER bring them to the US, live there in PH only.
@marks2807
@marks2807 Жыл бұрын
@@puppetmasterblaster Yeah. I have heard a Filipino wife can make you very happy for the rest of your life, but you better plan to live in the Philippines. If you bring them to the US they quickly adapt to the culture here, and pick up many of the feminist views that are not promoted at their home.
@lonniebeal6032
@lonniebeal6032 Жыл бұрын
@@puppetmasterblaster Been married to my Filipina wife for 42 years now...US women do the same thing.
@mlrussell1
@mlrussell1 Жыл бұрын
Spot on! Your videos should be played on every incoming flight to Thailand.
@freedomformen2548
@freedomformen2548 11 ай бұрын
Hahaha yes with red warning lights 😂😂
@IndigoStarrAz
@IndigoStarrAz 11 ай бұрын
LOL
@nigelhumphreysfsuk2833
@nigelhumphreysfsuk2833 Жыл бұрын
Love to hear these stories I’ve been going to Thailand since 2008 and i can definitely say staying single is the key to happiness Rent accommodation Rent female company No commitments Be free don’t be her ATM 😅😂 pay a divorcé settlement every morning 😅
@Mishmash63
@Mishmash63 Жыл бұрын
Correct I do exactly the same sign 2010 I didn't fall not even in 10 baht , let the losers to it ,
@Fredthedog
@Fredthedog Жыл бұрын
Spot on, that really is the only way to go!
@Mishmash63
@Mishmash63 Жыл бұрын
@joneil0022 exactly English people Acting like a shark they're Fake . be well and stay safe 🙏
@graguitar6493
@graguitar6493 Жыл бұрын
Or settlement in the evening. I only long time 1 girl. The other 4 short time only
@graguitar6493
@graguitar6493 Жыл бұрын
​@@Mishmash63I'm the same as yourself but don't call these guys losers. Sure they lose sight of reality but I bet most of these guys have succeeded in other ways in life and likely nice human beings
@blackknight3496
@blackknight3496 Жыл бұрын
We gave my ex wifes parents a hundred thousand baht on our wedding day and her mother gave it back to us the day after! Her parents were two of the most pure people i ever met ...may God take care of both of them in heaven because im sure they are there
@gscranage4594
@gscranage4594 Жыл бұрын
Don’t even believe they did……
@blackknight3496
@blackknight3496 Жыл бұрын
@@gscranage4594 yeah im lying...dickhead
@simoneg1786
@simoneg1786 Жыл бұрын
​@@gscranage4594typical response
@nilles3000
@nilles3000 11 ай бұрын
that´s old school working people with old school pride my parents were like that never took nothing from nobody and never ever appologuised for nothing n o t h i n g and there were reasons for them to say sorry for being so stuborn and own-wise and being wrong time to time but no no they didn´t give a fokk and never did and i know there´s something to be said for that but i mean that´s hardcore mentality for ya ....... yeh hehehh i´m totally different on that and work ethics from getgp pffft just to get respect and a white foot from the family noh thank you and live in that whole spectrum fokk that ....... but they they kept it like that till the end hehehehh
@Lhawk2107
@Lhawk2107 Жыл бұрын
When you give someone you love everything, sooner or later everything WON`T be enough!
@evelyna_paula1747
@evelyna_paula1747 11 ай бұрын
True. And if you have that much love, why not help starving widows in much poorer countries. It is lust.
@bratzdol
@bratzdol 11 ай бұрын
@@evelyna_paula1747 Well, they are helping starving young women and their families in a poor country instead! Even if they did not understand that is what they are signing up for.
@marksallai2289
@marksallai2289 10 ай бұрын
women have too many options and the bloke down the road will not hesitate to sleep with your wife girlfriend
@Iwo26
@Iwo26 5 ай бұрын
Once an old native Indian told me: “Women, no matter where they are from, they all speak the same language” My lesson was to learn to gradually give a millimeter of fingernail before you even consider giving a finger. If you give a full hand from the beginning, you will loose a whole arm really quickly.
@CodyWright-pq3eq
@CodyWright-pq3eq 5 ай бұрын
Not with God. You give Him everything and you will be a peculiar treasure to Him. He is God and never needed anything you had to give in the first place.
@xavierkoolat6926
@xavierkoolat6926 Жыл бұрын
Your "story" is about a Thai woman and a guy in Thailand. But it could also be the same story in any western culture country, like the US, the UK, Canada, Australia, NZ, Europe, or maybe any country in the world. It's a very old story that has been happening more and more frequently. Men of the world, heed Dan's advice and story.
@steverobertson6393
@steverobertson6393 Жыл бұрын
Very good point, sir. True indeed.
@Richard__Prins
@Richard__Prins Жыл бұрын
That’s right
@alansmith2203
@alansmith2203 Жыл бұрын
Xavier, I agree. But in western worlds you never see a 30 year old bomb shell dragging a 60+ grandpa around shopping....that is ....unless he is uber rich. That is where the huge difference lies.
@xerxeso1
@xerxeso1 Жыл бұрын
True...Getting Roll in Your own Country Too By Western Women AND Asian Women...Reason Must be a Women Pussy Thing Overrated...
@marktwan4237
@marktwan4237 Жыл бұрын
Exactly winde up with a bar fly drug addict or gambler they're all over the world, maybe see what she has to offer to bring to the relationship.
@jonklause5130
@jonklause5130 Жыл бұрын
I watch your videos every time you post just to keep the reality of Thai women games fresh in my mind. After 3 decades coming to Thailand I still get tempted so I understand that men fall into these traps. You are providing a great service to men. We need to face reality even when it seems as if its different this this time.Thank you for your content.
@mattyghost3409
@mattyghost3409 Жыл бұрын
One thing is don't meet them in bars unless it's a jumpoff....Seems like guys want to meet them in bars or on the side of the road near Pattaya beach.... 11:52
@bobinthewest8559
@bobinthewest8559 Жыл бұрын
The number one rule of “dating”, (just about anywhere in the world) is… Always maintain willingness to walk away from her… Unless/until she proves that she won’t create the need to.
@lonniebeal6032
@lonniebeal6032 Жыл бұрын
Only problem is, local women will do the same thing. I had a millionaire uncle, until his non-working US born wife wanted a divorce, took 85% of his wealth, now he's struggling...
@zrs1
@zrs1 Жыл бұрын
Say no to marriage
@davidwalden2887
@davidwalden2887 Жыл бұрын
85% of his assets hmmm, I find that hard to believe. Perhaps 50%. It can really be not more than that in Australia , maybe higher if dependant children are involved. And then it is only 50% of the assets aquired during the marriage, not before, those assets aquired are shared. If a man has $1 miilion at marriage and 1 million at devorce like a house he owns for a long time she will get very little or none. She will get 50% of the incresed value of his house. Any increased value of the mans house is treated a common property and must be shared. That how it usually works. But of course in Thailand nearly always when you buy or build a house the land has to be in your Thai wifes name and then you lease it from her through a complicated system of leaseing. She usually gets the final properety ownership if you devorce. Farangs cannot own land in Thailand like they can and receive title in their names in most Western countries. Big, big trap for old farangs.
@hereandnow990
@hereandnow990 Жыл бұрын
This proves again that being rich doesn't mean being smart. One famous Japanese entrepreneur once said: "any fool can make money. Intelligence is in not spending and losing them".
@MysticPhenomena
@MysticPhenomena Жыл бұрын
USA...$900,000 home, American Man and Woman, married w/ kids. The moment he paid off the house it all went bad. Divorce she filed and won. Sold the house for a cool Million and he still is on the hook for child support, payments to her, and other expenses. It Matters not that this was an American-African couple. What does matter is the mindset of motivation modern women embrace. If you see a Cosmopolitan Magazine or similar content in your home, protect your assets first and then plan your exit strategy.
@artfuldoj4005
@artfuldoj4005 Жыл бұрын
Not true in Australia re assets owned before marriage being safe - as per the Family Law Act, divorce financial settlements must take into account the financial contributions of each party to the marriage, which includes assets brought into the marriage by each party. All good so far. However, there are 2 aspects to the law - there's the written legislation and there is what's called case law - which is the Court's interpretation of how the written law applies. In relation to pre-marital assets, the Family Court looked at this issue in a particular case in the 70's and issued a ruling that after a reasonable time , assets brought into the marriage become IRRELEVANT - and that a reasonable time is 10 years. Hence ever since then it's been a general rule based on that case law that after 10 years of cohabitation she gets at least 50% of everything (including e.g. 50% of the house you owned before the marriage). Less than 10 years and she still gets a proportion - I tell people that a good rule of thumb is expect to lose entitlement to 5% of your assets each year during the first 10 years of cohabitation. Don't be mislead into believing that assets you owned before marriage are yours - they are not!!@@davidwalden2887
@ThailandDantotherescue
@ThailandDantotherescue Жыл бұрын
I casually dated a Thai woman with 2 kids that mentioned a dowery to me... I laughed right in her face. I have a friend who was quite smitten with a ladyboy ( I dont judge ) She said the same thing to him... LOL! I agree with you... There are woman in Thailand that were raised better than that and under no circumstances will ever be working girls. I have met a few and dated one before covid. I am finally moving to Pattaya in September and plan on being 100% single and staying out of the bars ( not much of a drinker ) I have lady friends there that will come hang out by the pool when they have a day off and not expect anything besides fun and maybe lunch... Paying for a GF is the most insane thing I have ever heard!
@hereandnow990
@hereandnow990 Жыл бұрын
Paying for girl is insane? Depends what you mean by paying. Of course, not for stupid demands like dowry or fees for their sick buffaloes, but if she lives with you, you will pay something in any case. Heck, you gonna need to spend even if you keep a dog or cat at home, to feed and take care of them, let alone human who fks you and cooks for you. So it's all about healthy balance.
@howiescott5865
@howiescott5865 Жыл бұрын
I don't judge... ladyboys look better than the real thing. 🤣
@internationalfranchisealli5547
@internationalfranchisealli5547 Жыл бұрын
Spot on Dan. You summed it up perfectly. But if people still don't get it....well, let them get on with it. This is probably your best video ever. This is exactly what it's like......if you fall for a Hooker. Let it be known.....Not all Thai Ladies are like that at all.
@bigal2417
@bigal2417 Жыл бұрын
Great Post agree 100% 👍
@Eclectic_RN
@Eclectic_RN Жыл бұрын
But, there are wonderful women who will ultimately be used by the family to do what is discussed. She'll hate doing it but ask her: "If there's an issue do you do what the husband tells you to do, or will you always do what the family (often papa, but not always) do. And the answer may be: "I must do what the family says." If so, run. Never, never under-estimate the family.
@rg-pq1kb
@rg-pq1kb 11 ай бұрын
This is pretty much women's nature... this video is so well said it should be mandatory for every young man
@chandie5298
@chandie5298 Жыл бұрын
Easy solutions: Mostly stick to one day rule, and cut them loose. If you want to take a one week vacation with company...fine, one week rule and cut them loose. If you want to keep your dream alive....remember this. Its cheaper to rent than it is to own.
@theguynextdoor4978
@theguynextdoor4978 Жыл бұрын
These women operate from the same text book. Of course, not all of them are like that. But based on the stories, it sounds like if you know one girl you know all of them in terms of behaviour. Remove the wallet, and the so-called "relationship" is on life support.
@lifeasithappens
@lifeasithappens Жыл бұрын
They are 90% the same !!!
@wilsDav3
@wilsDav3 Жыл бұрын
You want to keep Thai women you need do like Thai men be a boss because Thai women love men in charge and do all the plans
@lifeasithappens
@lifeasithappens Жыл бұрын
@@wilsDav3 I agree 1000%
@stevekostakis2983
@stevekostakis2983 Жыл бұрын
Excellent comment and so true. Well done.
@ForeverTributesNL
@ForeverTributesNL Жыл бұрын
@@wilsDav3 Kinda goes for all women in my experience. No wallet, no boss then she gets bored real fast.
@Zen36977
@Zen36977 Жыл бұрын
Whatever you do…..don’t get her pregnant. Next level drama
@dickyhoey
@dickyhoey Жыл бұрын
Omg. That’s very bad. It’s the end .
@RomanVarl
@RomanVarl Жыл бұрын
If you do, next stop - Philippines 😆
@antonmontero1083
@antonmontero1083 Жыл бұрын
​What do you the END ? I once had bedroom activities with a bargirl (unprotected). I didn't get her pregnant , did i dodge a bullet?
@bakismash
@bakismash Жыл бұрын
@@RomanVarl😂😂😂
@mackcarlo
@mackcarlo Жыл бұрын
@@RomanVarlexactly. Just run.
@davidramsy3048
@davidramsy3048 Жыл бұрын
Dan your 100% spot on. This is reality with a thai village marriage and paying a dowry and when you are no longer an ATM that very second it finished with her and her family. Guys listen to Dan Its true.
@-whackd
@-whackd 5 ай бұрын
Sin sod is in exchange for their daughters virginity.
@Nordic_Sky
@Nordic_Sky Жыл бұрын
Your most powerful video yet, by far. It all rings 1,000% true. Great job. My experience is that you can have a successful relationship with a Thai woman, as long as she's never been near the bar scene. But speed is your enemy. Take it slow. If she has ulterior motives, they will begin to shine through.
@JarinXeno
@JarinXeno Жыл бұрын
When you are dealing with women, especially foreign women, you have to remember that you are the prize. If she isn't treating you well or making you happy you don't try to placate her, you replace her. Especially if you are in Thailand or the Philippines it should be very easy to do if you are a foreign man, especially one with money.
@rogermarine1443
@rogermarine1443 4 ай бұрын
💯 Bruh 😂
@BadmotorScoooter
@BadmotorScoooter 3 ай бұрын
Facts!!
@tvbridge
@tvbridge 11 ай бұрын
I used to hear Thai women say "No money, no honey." It's a hard lesson I took on board young & have found women the world over are hard wired like this the same way we men want to be a "white knight". Always remember that pretty much all human relationships are transactional.
@Roberto-xc5xy
@Roberto-xc5xy Жыл бұрын
"... enjoy Thailand ... For what it is ..." Great advice Dan!!
@user-tz6xf9mz4w
@user-tz6xf9mz4w Жыл бұрын
Spot on Danny! Alway's take what u say with all due respect. Yea I fell in that trap. Was with her 12 yrs. Even have a 10 yr old son together but as soon as I lost my job she told me I have no plan for her and our son and dropped me like a hot potatoe. She blocked me then won't me even talk to our son. Well I never seen that coming. Anyway stay cool, kind and generous!
@graguitar6493
@graguitar6493 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunate man and a sad fact of life
@nickmcnellis3937
@nickmcnellis3937 Жыл бұрын
Really don't sound that much different then here in America. Pay now or pay even more later.
@gscranage4594
@gscranage4594 Жыл бұрын
That’s harsh pal.
@user-ds9ro5vw9s
@user-ds9ro5vw9s 8 ай бұрын
Hope you bounce back bro
@kennetharntson5912
@kennetharntson5912 11 ай бұрын
First I am amazed at the foreigners that come to Thailand and fall in love with a Thai girl. The one thing that really stands out for me is the guys will do things for Thai women that the would not even do for their own mothers. And they seem to be really proud of themselves for doing it. Ask yourself would you dating a girl in your own country would you be giving her cash money? How about knowing that she is still sleeping with other men while you are not there. In fact sleeping with many men? How about buying her a home knowing that you have no legal control over that home that you bought even if you have proof that you paid for it. And then when you have the home built the women you love so much moves her family in the house and still never can stop asking for more money. I have lived and worked in Thailand for over 55 years first coming here in 1968 and I have seen it all. And the one thing that I have noticed is that only at best maybe 2% died of old age and happy with his Thai wife. I know of Thai wives that had their husbands killed for ownership of businesses and even their live insurance these I have read about in Thai newspaper since the girls were caught who knows how many got away with it with out getting caught. This is not only in Thailand it is common all over Asia, many of the men I have worked for have left Asia stone broke while the love his wife waved goodbye fat and happy. A classic story was a man named Tiger Rydberg who owned the world famous Lucey's Tiger Den" I day famous since back in the 70's and 80's when I would walk into his bar there were New teams from America and Australia with cameras filming his bar and interviewing Tiger. When I was traveling between jobs and passing through Europe or American airports I often saw people with Lucey's Tiger Den T-shirts on walking through the airports. After his Thai wife was finished with him we people that knew Tiger had to take up a collection to get money fly him to the Philippines and money to live on for cheaper medial care and cost of living, Tiger died shortly after arriving in the Philippines. To be honest I never bothered with a Thai girlfriend. During the times I was working in Thailand I rented a house and hired a maid to run the house, cook, wash and iron. The never asked for money except for the money I agreed to pay for their services, I never tried to get them in bed either. When I wanted a woman I would go out and get the best looking woman I could find, take her to dinner, some times dancing and then take her to a hotel for the night and always paid up in front. the next morning I took her to the hotel restaurant and have breakfast with her while eating I would ask the waiter to get a cab for the lady, I gave the lady taxi fare and wished her good luck. Never going back for a second time but I am sure that sometimes I had been with the girl before but actually did not remember her. I did this for 30 year until I met my Thai wife who had just graduated from medical school. I never cheated on my wife and she for sure has never cheated on me. She had never had a boyfriend before and never ever been in a bar before. We have been married 25 years and have a 16 year old son. My wife is a department director of our local hospital and I am retired and fully enjoying my life at 77.
@lifeasithappens
@lifeasithappens Жыл бұрын
Wow we have them figured out Finally!!!! 🎉🎊 🎉🎉🎉
@BillOnBass
@BillOnBass Жыл бұрын
It’s not them that’s hard to figure out. These girls are hookers so …… scams so simple and obvious you can see them a mile away. It’s the guys who continue to fall for them despite info being everywhere to warn them. Can’t fix that kind of stupid.
@0Zebadee0
@0Zebadee0 Жыл бұрын
Thailand is one of a few East and Southeast Asian countries where girls can demand a monthly salary to be your girlfriend. It's just a cultural thing - fine if one is prepared to do that. However, as soon as the relationship ends, she's going to want either a financial settlement (like redundancy pay) or for someone else to take over her financial arrangements. I lived in China for many years where the culture is very similar and where many girls can demand an apartment, all bills paid, and a monthly allowance, but you always have to remember that she does not consider the arrangement permanent. As mentioned in the video, countries like Thailand are OK for sex tourism, so stick to that.
@josephj6521
@josephj6521 11 ай бұрын
I’m not too sure if it’s a cultural thing this salary or all made up due to their laziness? If you’re going to pay a woman money may as well just have regular hookers.
@davidressler4292
@davidressler4292 Жыл бұрын
Good piece and hugely accurate. We have a lot of Thai and American friends, have been hanging out for over 20 years between ASEAN and USA, and followed the saga of many American and European guys in Thailand. Dan, your story line is hugely accurate and it is sad to say a cliche, most of these things happen exactly as you describe, even to our good friend who married and brought his wife to the USA and now have grown up kids - and sleep in separate bedrooms. After this length of time, we see right through the innocent young ladies, but honestly with great respect, this is the only resource that a lot of Thai families have in life and they have learned to make it very profitable for the entire family. If they came to you up front for $100,000 and an honest promise of a great life, you would walk away.
@buckfitches2087
@buckfitches2087 Жыл бұрын
Dan, I like the Opera Beaver at 8:58. I have to rewind that over and over. LOL
@thaitalkwithdan
@thaitalkwithdan Жыл бұрын
Haha I love them mate especially the screaming goat 🐐😅
@markwalker8374
@markwalker8374 Жыл бұрын
Marmot
@buckfitches2087
@buckfitches2087 Жыл бұрын
@@markwalker8374 Thank you. 👍
@austinpowers1999
@austinpowers1999 Жыл бұрын
IMMA STAY SINGLE AND KEEP MY MONEY
@graguitar6493
@graguitar6493 Жыл бұрын
I'm staying single and spending it on long and short times
@commonsenseisntcommon1776
@commonsenseisntcommon1776 Жыл бұрын
me too!
@user-ds9ro5vw9s
@user-ds9ro5vw9s 8 ай бұрын
Same bro
@voltaireduterte8986
@voltaireduterte8986 Жыл бұрын
Call no man unhappy until he is married. A man may be a fool and not know it- but not if he is married
@L-Nino
@L-Nino Жыл бұрын
Question: have you ever met a happily married man? I mean truly happy. I HAVEN’T!!!
@voltaireduterte8986
@voltaireduterte8986 Жыл бұрын
@@L-Nino Marriage is like putting your hand into a bag of snakes in the hope of pulling out an eel.
@bighoss9705
@bighoss9705 Жыл бұрын
Here in Pattaya i see many foreign/Thai couples. None of them look happy, especially the man with a hottie 😅
@RomanVarl
@RomanVarl Жыл бұрын
If you stick to the rule "one time only", gives you immunity against the vampires )) No matter how good, fantastic this one time was, it's likely to be downhill from there.
@L-Nino
@L-Nino Жыл бұрын
It seems like you get it brother!! I don’t understand why most guys do not. I always say “NEVER BREAK THE 2 RULE” You say 1 rule, and that’s probably even smarter.
@RomanVarl
@RomanVarl Жыл бұрын
@@L-Nino 2nd time is not as good as 1st "conquest" of a woman, you have to admit. Being honest with yourself is a must-have skill
@L-Nino
@L-Nino Жыл бұрын
@@RomanVarlI Agee. But my motto is, try everything twice.
@RomanVarl
@RomanVarl Жыл бұрын
@@L-Nino re-heated yesterday's pizza is not so bad, agree ))
@journeylife7491
@journeylife7491 Жыл бұрын
@@RomanVarl You are all reheating twelve day pizzas. Nasty!
@JohnMitch
@JohnMitch Жыл бұрын
A wealthy British farmer was battered to death and then barbecued over charcoal by relatives of his former Thai wife. The body parts of Toby Charnaud, age 41, from Chippenham in Wiltshire, were then scattered in a Thai national park, one of the last areas in the country where tigers roam, a court has heard. He was killed on a trip to pick up the couple's five-year-old son, Daniel, whom he had gained custody of after the couple divorced, Petchaburi court in northern Thailand was told yesterday. The Marlborough-educated former land agent and farmer met and married Pannada Laoruang, known in the family as Som, in 1997 and they initially returned to Wiltshire. He gave up his farming business and the couple bought a bar in Hua Hin resort in Thailand. But when Ms Laoruang, now aged 38, ran up heavy gambling debts in 2004, the couple divorced. Ms Laoruang and five of her male relatives and friends stand trial for murder. Mr Charnaud's mother, Sarah, said she understood her son had gone to a property he rented for his former wife on 27 March last year, after receiving a call to pick up Daniel. But a group of men were there, some related to Ms Laoruang. They first tried to shoot him but the gun had backfired, Mrs Charnaud said. Her son was later battered to death and his body disposed of on the edge of a national park near the Burmese border, she added. Mrs Charnaud said she understood that three men had admitted murder while her son's ex-wife had admitted involvement in helping to dispose of the evidence. Ms Laoruang was "seriously in debt", Mrs Charnaud said. "He had to pay off a lot of her debts. We had money in this country for Daniel's education and that had to be transferred to pay off her debts." She said Ms Laoruang's "motive was clearly to use Daniel as a meal ticket". Describing her former daughter-in-law, Mrs Charnaud said: "We welcomed her to the family, as one does. It was fine, she appeared to fit in. She was involved in all family activities. But I became aware their marriage was getting into difficulty due to Pannada living her own life. She was using money from the bar without his knowledge." Mrs Charnaud, 70, and her husband Jeremy, 69, received a phonecall from Ms Laoruang on 29 March last year, two days after Mr Charnaud's death. The couple hired a private investigator. "After we were told he was missing, we were determined to pull out all the stops to find out what had happened. What else could we do?" Mrs Charnaud said. Yesterday, Hannah Allan, Mr Charnaud's sister, said: "This was a disgusting, pre-meditated murder which has ruined our family's lives forever. That includes the life of Toby's six-year-old son, who has been torn apart by what's happened to his daddy." Daniel is being cared for in Britain. Shortly before Mr Charnaud's death, he won a writing competition for a short story published in a Bangkok magazine. The story, named "Rainfall", is about a British tourist named Guy who falls in love with an unfaithful Thai woman who builds up gambling debts. The book ends with Guy being murdered by one of her lovers. Ms Allen, described the story as "eerie".
@malin5468
@malin5468 Жыл бұрын
Wow! That woman was evil. Never thought it would happen to an Old Marlburian.
@ThuyPham-lr5dc
@ThuyPham-lr5dc Жыл бұрын
There are many more cases comparable to this over the last 20 years I’ve been coming to Thailand 😢
@nickmcnellis3937
@nickmcnellis3937 Жыл бұрын
Bedding with the devil.
@nickjones8867
@nickjones8867 Жыл бұрын
Been visiting 24 yrs now love the place, stay single then your in paradise.
@thorien
@thorien Жыл бұрын
As a wise Thai lady once told me: She will be sweet in the start and all of a sudden her families buffalo dies and she needs your money to pay for it 555
@sacreddawn7778
@sacreddawn7778 Жыл бұрын
And this gentlemen is why the 3 days rule exist. Ignore it at your own peril.
@graguitar6493
@graguitar6493 Жыл бұрын
The 3 day rule isn't full proof either. Some guys can fall for a girl in that time too. Also what's the point in only 3 days when she fukks like a pornstar? I retired to Thailand just over 2 years ago. I currently see 3 girls that I've bonked 107, 32 and 30 times. I haven't fallen in love with any of them and all 3 give me top level sexual gratification. In my opinion it's not 3 days maximum it's 3 girls minimum and 1 week maximum between reruns. Sure I have a favourite of these 3 and if any of them was to move on I'll be sad for a day or two in which I'll get over it with one of the other 2 anyway.
@ahmadfarrall2097
@ahmadfarrall2097 Жыл бұрын
Can’t understand why others don’t get this, especially with the age gap
@evilchaperone
@evilchaperone Ай бұрын
Yes sir. Come Sunday, she's hitting the bricks.
@smuckenfart
@smuckenfart Жыл бұрын
I think this is more true for guys that are below average with a caliber of woman they could never get back home. When you have had choices your whole life you don't put up with immature or manipulative behavior because you can always get another girl. And the girl knows it. When a girl senses weakness, any girl really, there's going to be problems.
@TheConcertmaster
@TheConcertmaster 6 ай бұрын
Very good point. I would probably add that the overall risks grow exponentially if the guy is in retirement age.
@Lic51
@Lic51 Жыл бұрын
Common sense men, for any nationality: if you go to a poor country and find a girl 10-20 years younger, start by doubting. I'm not saying young women can't date older men, for sure these work if the men is looking and acting similar to her age range. But if you are a regular 50' something guy and you think that 25 year old is into you, think twice.
@brucekellam5203
@brucekellam5203 9 ай бұрын
I totally believe that your story and many like it are accurate, but, for the sake of a balanced perspective I wish to point out that I have been happily married to my Thai wife for 7 years now, living back and forth between Thailand and Canada, and have 3 other friends (not Thai), married to Thai wives for many years, all doing well and very happily settled in to Thailand. For those watching this video, I assure you there are many successful Falang/Thai marriages, if you choose carefully, and, as in all countries, have a combination of good judgement, common sense, patience, and the requisite dash of good fortune - and assuming you bring some desirable contributions to the relationship yourself.
@vgshwk
@vgshwk Жыл бұрын
Don’t go visit the family. If you do ditch her at the grocery store and leave.
@responding8185
@responding8185 Жыл бұрын
Bro laid it out the game step by step. Wow
@justgivemethetruth
@justgivemethetruth 11 ай бұрын
You guys sound so much nicer than I. I'd kick her out and find a new one when she stops smiling the first time. That's my vetting process. I want someone who is fair minded, but failing that, I want someone I can control should the worst happen. Asian families are very supportive and closed. I can see why that would be a huge problem - they don't care about you and they never will because you are from outside their world. It can happen though that there are nice women out there.
@dsorichetti154
@dsorichetti154 8 ай бұрын
"I want someone I can control" Yeah, you're real catch. 🙄
@ivanguban7143
@ivanguban7143 Жыл бұрын
I met a Thai girl through my Thai friend in the US. I stayed with her for three weeks on a beautiful Koh Chang island. She was nice and shy, not sure if it was part of acting. Sex was like a rape, she was glad it was over to take her phone and get on TikTok. All day long she was reviewing dumb TikTok videos with pajamas on. I didn’t notice anything about her being a good cook or clean the place we stayed at, she had nails longer than my fingers. Beauty wasn’t enough for me, I always look at other qualities. When I told her she isn’t the woman I am looking for, she started to cry, apologize and told me she is going to wait for me anyway. It scares me to death brining a woman from overseas and having divorce later. Fiancé visa is only 90 days, which gives you no time to vet her. Big risk.
@TheConcertmaster
@TheConcertmaster 6 ай бұрын
No, never bring such girls to the west, especially the US. At most, just do the fake village wedding IF she accepts to forgo the dowry. If not, there's the door.
@euromazing1
@euromazing1 Жыл бұрын
Word for word “EXACTLY” what has happened to a friend of mine in the last 3 years…..except she “Accidentally Deliberately” got pregnant and now she has even more power! Threatening to take their daughter back to Thailand all the time…to the 2 new houses and new Ranger she’s got out of him. I’ll send this story in soon, unfortunately the story keeps writing itself. But half of the story you’ve just done a video on! Crazy true stories!!!!
@steringp1434
@steringp1434 Жыл бұрын
Sorry to say it, but your friend deserves everything that he's getting for being an id-i-ot.
@forzajuve4845
@forzajuve4845 Жыл бұрын
my ex treated to take my 5 yr old daughter to her country, Venezuela, saying that I'll never see her again..when the judge got wind of that, she told both of us that my daughter is not allowed to go beyond Pennsylvania, Delaware or New Jersey until she turns 18
@ethicpereira5791
@ethicpereira5791 Жыл бұрын
I am impressed with your presentation. I decided to do all that you mentioned in your presentation of this clip. And lost $165,000. I did everything even got married. But luckily I was still in the states. So I am still ok. But I have been taking your advice and a few other expats from the western / developed world 🌎 . I may never get that money back. But it is a lesson , an expensive lesson. Thank you my friend.
@OneLeggedTarantula
@OneLeggedTarantula Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing! Men need to heed the warnings here!
@deltaworf
@deltaworf 11 ай бұрын
When you go to Disney world you enjoy your vacation. You don't marry Minnie mouse and bring her home and you definitely don't move into Disney world. 🤪🙄😳
@FunTravelLondon
@FunTravelLondon Жыл бұрын
I was in Thailand last month and honestly i really enjoyed Thai food. Thailand is a great place for fun and joy. ❤❤ Stephanie from London
@graguitar6493
@graguitar6493 Жыл бұрын
The food is amazing but when you live here it gets repetitive. I limit myself to 4 Thai meals a week these days so that I really enjoy it like I just arrived yesterday
@darassylmoniakam
@darassylmoniakam Жыл бұрын
yeah no asian countries are good for the dates except in philippines
@FunTravelLondon
@FunTravelLondon Жыл бұрын
oh why@@darassylmoniakam
@FunTravelLondon
@FunTravelLondon Жыл бұрын
aha@@graguitar6493
@darassylmoniakam
@darassylmoniakam Жыл бұрын
@@FunTravelLondon thais and many asians women are manipulative , but if you're introverted you're good
@enotred2636
@enotred2636 Жыл бұрын
LOL Married 13 years. Met through a friend who knew her mom. Mom is staying with us and cooks very well. She helped me remodel my first house and has been close to my side. My net worth has improved 8X, and hers 50X. But she was a bit chubby and sheltered. Sometimes the simple girl is better.
@MichaelMitchell-ks5it
@MichaelMitchell-ks5it Жыл бұрын
I wanted happy life with my Honduras wife but my embassy messed my life up and my Honduras wife life up breaking up my legal marriage so if me an malee hit it off that what I want happy life not messed up life
@davidwatkins8645
@davidwatkins8645 10 ай бұрын
Hiya Dan & all the Guys out there, I've been to Thailand around 10 times since 2007. It's simple 'Never break the 3 day rule'
@PloyandJayinThailand
@PloyandJayinThailand Жыл бұрын
You can put all under your name (motorbike, car, condo, and house) except the land if you decide to build. However, you can also get as an example lifetime land usufruct to protect your investment and rights, which means it's practically impossible that if you separate, the family take your property. Instead, make strong papers to let them know that selling is the only option. Be wise and not too kind, know your rights 👌 Also, don't trap yourself in paying any monthly salaries. Instead, help your girlfriend to start her own business. Hopefully, it's online-related so you can also enjoy travelling. Unless you want 9-5 gf? Lastly, give yourself better odds and forget the bar girls. There are many smart and goal-oriented Thai girls wanting to meet their foreign partners. Don't rush! Jay
@athitaya6898
@athitaya6898 Жыл бұрын
Why bother with all the paperwork, avoid isaan peasant types and you won’t have these problems.
@PloyandJayinThailand
@PloyandJayinThailand Жыл бұрын
@@athitaya6898 you should always do papers to protect your investment, but many foreigners don't do that, and in case of separation they lose their money. So it doesn't matter if your gf is from Isaan or not
@athitaya6898
@athitaya6898 Жыл бұрын
@@PloyandJayinThailandhere’s a better idea, get your girl to get a loan in her name that you pay, if it goes pear shaped you walk away.
@PloyandJayinThailand
@PloyandJayinThailand Жыл бұрын
@@athitaya6898 that's one good option if your gf gets a loan 👌
@L-Nino
@L-Nino Жыл бұрын
@@PloyandJayinThailand I think the better option would be never get involved with these hillbillies
@chrismiles6010
@chrismiles6010 Жыл бұрын
So spot on. It isn't different in the Philippines if you met her in the bar, on the street, or the internet.
@petermorgan7057
@petermorgan7057 Жыл бұрын
Great video. Used to date a girl from a poorer background in Philippines. Physically beautiful, sexy, etc. One way of another, I got to the place where I realised that there wasn't much there, so killed the relationship (have never lived there and only visited). Now, dating a professional lady from Manila, where the large family own their own home and she runs a business... Have heard that THEY are now asking about MY financial situation (I am on a salary of £50k+ a year, own my own home outright etc) and whether I am the gold-digger... lol... Beware if you date at a bar girl...
@josephj6521
@josephj6521 11 ай бұрын
I find Philippine people are highly materialistic and their culture or lack thereof doesn’t go well with mine. I don’t get heavily involved with them.
@towhook
@towhook Жыл бұрын
Holy shit where do I sign up? My ex wife took 12 years to drag out something that a Thai girl could accomplish in a much shorter time.
@OneLeggedTarantula
@OneLeggedTarantula Жыл бұрын
yup, No dowry in the US, Western women get paid at the backend through the Divorce.
@comediancojac299
@comediancojac299 11 ай бұрын
That is halarious 😂😂😂
@keepitrollin3977
@keepitrollin3977 Жыл бұрын
When the money runs out.u r done & dusted.they go on to the next sucker.wake up guys omg
@evilchaperone
@evilchaperone Ай бұрын
That's every country. Let's not fool ourselves.
@andycraven2911
@andycraven2911 11 ай бұрын
I do know that these horror stories happen, a lot, but not all Thai ladies are like this. Granted I never dated a bar girl or from a website. I am in a long term relationship (11 years) and when marriage was discussed and Sin Sod was mentioned, as a true Yorkshireman I just laughed out loud and stated that would never happen, so if needed she should leave me and go find someone else. She didn't and marriage was never mentioned again. I have helped her along the way but way less than any English woman would expect me to. She works hard to make her own money and takes care of me way better than any Western woman would ever do. So yes, there are a lot of bad Thai ladies, as there are Western but many are also genuine. I guess the rule of thumb is do not be led by your little trouser friend, if you come across a bad one and you get a red flag, move on and wait it out for a good one. Good luck all! BTW, I love living in Thailand and would never go back to the UK.
@bratzdol
@bratzdol 11 ай бұрын
I suspect the key to your good fortune is you keep your options open not dependent on one woman - by NEVER marrying.
@marksallai2289
@marksallai2289 10 ай бұрын
Marriage is always mostly a downfall for most us men
@upstatenoizepollution7342
@upstatenoizepollution7342 11 ай бұрын
Good morning sir- I was getting ready for work this morning and decided to drink some coffee and watch your video. You absolutely made my morning!! The way you broke down the ruse that these lovesick puppies experience is informative. Being a working class person from New York , I more than likely would never witness this interesting technique being done in Thailand (thank God) Your delivery is awesome and there were parts in your video that were outright hilarious ! GOOD SHOW AND keep up the good work!
@jamesg4347
@jamesg4347 Жыл бұрын
Never, ever try and make a woman happy. If she likes you, she will like you more if you treat her mean. If she doesn't like you, you're wasting your time and money: move on. Maintain frame, be dominant, set rules.
@avsail2002
@avsail2002 Жыл бұрын
You sound like an inexperienced teenager. This is stupid advice. No woman in her right mind will like you if you treat her mean. Unless you like the mentally unstable.
@dickyhoey
@dickyhoey Жыл бұрын
They’re schemers and primitive. Once she’s got you or doesn’t get what she wants, her primitive violent nature will come out.
@RickTheBoss98
@RickTheBoss98 Жыл бұрын
Do people get beat uo a lot by the family if they refuse to pay money then?
@eunicef1
@eunicef1 Жыл бұрын
Surely it would be better to pay the rent for a place for the family than to buy them a house. I bet that control would have the girl in check.
@dolphin069
@dolphin069 Жыл бұрын
Why the fuck would you pay anything? Invest the money in your own future. It’s just pussy.
@ianlaccohee7180
@ianlaccohee7180 Жыл бұрын
I’ve got a mate that shipped his Mrs over to England. She is so gorgeous, it’s unreal. When she arrived facebook was full of photos of them together. Fast forward 3 months, & I don’t see a single post from him.
@rickylee6129
@rickylee6129 Жыл бұрын
Good Video Dan 😊. Keep the videos coming 👍. Stay Safe 💕 💞 🙏 🙏
@redpilldenmark5741
@redpilldenmark5741 Жыл бұрын
But my girl is different
@L-Nino
@L-Nino Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@c.k.2
@c.k.2 Жыл бұрын
5555
@waitsang1878
@waitsang1878 Жыл бұрын
Such a true, real, in-your-face and blunt story…thanks for sharing
@bobjacobson858
@bobjacobson858 Жыл бұрын
I recall reading that a Thai woman will beg for a man to buy her jewelry. If he says 'I just bought you some!" she'll answer "That was yesterday; this is today!" The same article said she'll bring her friends into the house and play mahjong, and even if she doesn't smoke, some of her friends will so they stink up the house for hours.
@jimmyc2300
@jimmyc2300 9 ай бұрын
The same applies to regular (non-hooker) Thai ladies. I was married to a "decent" Thai lady for 13 happy years with two boys. She has her own business and she makes good money. When my business went downhill during Covid, and I could not provide for our family, things started to change. After a year. of struggles, she announced that she wanted a divorce! NO MONEY NO HONEY guys. I'm moving to the Philippines! Girls there are much more affectionate and appreciative of having a foreign husband!
@anniephan1044
@anniephan1044 8 ай бұрын
???
@riptide10x60
@riptide10x60 Жыл бұрын
“ Wise men say, only fools rush in, but I can’t help falling in love with you” - Elvis
@OutlawJoseyWales71
@OutlawJoseyWales71 Жыл бұрын
Love this guy's accent. Also a lot of real-time useful information.
@gorillapancake
@gorillapancake Жыл бұрын
I'm curious Dan, how do you see your future? A single father for the rest of your life in Thailand? I'd appreciate a video on your thoughts, with the benefit of hindsight.
@josephj6521
@josephj6521 11 ай бұрын
If I were Dan, I’d take his son and leave!
@corocataloa7935
@corocataloa7935 Жыл бұрын
Very usefull video it will save the life of thousands guys seeking to help and save a " princess" abroad
@dimwitsadvocate6264
@dimwitsadvocate6264 Жыл бұрын
Wisdom from a young man. Wise beyond his years.
@pauliepaulie6588
@pauliepaulie6588 Жыл бұрын
Your a classic Dan, I’m laughing so much at you only because it’s all true , just the way you express yourself you made me laugh. Your 100% right in what you said about sin sod , I love you MUK , Blah,Blah,Blah……. Hahahah Yes your spot on son, once they suck every last cent from you then the wife will find excuses to fight with you & leave you to find another farrang…. These women think we are millionaires, maybe in her country we look rich but in our own country we are average… Surely men can’t be that stupid ! ONE RULE ! Only give as much as your willing to lose ….. *** Thai law doesn’t support the farrang , contracts need to be written up or just say bye, bye …..
@frankg.3018
@frankg.3018 Жыл бұрын
One of your best videos, Dan.
@josephj6521
@josephj6521 11 ай бұрын
Gents, the dowry payment is a one-off payment to the bride’s parents. It’s NOT a monthly salary or a permanent contribution to anyone. Be careful!
@muhammadsteinberg
@muhammadsteinberg Жыл бұрын
Excellent post! Not just Thai ladies. Filipinas will bring game also. I married one that was not a bar girl. Her vice was the over religious thing. Soon as she got to the states she hooked up with a Filipino religious group and it's been hell ever since. It's a borderline cult imo. Finally after 25yrs, I reached my limit and decided to rid myself of her and her BS. My advice...Don't get caught up in how cute they are.
@mynameismynameis666
@mynameismynameis666 Жыл бұрын
the phillipines have been ruined by pedo adventist sects. it's all part of US foreign policy there. keeping them stupid under the marcos boot.
@muhammadsteinberg
@muhammadsteinberg Жыл бұрын
@rhh176 No. She was doing the religious think prior to getting married. It later became her excuse to be with her friends. As far as I'm concerned, she may very well have been cheating. It all adds up to disrespectful bs. I've never heard of a religion or church that encourages someone to not prioritize their family. Exception to that is a cult. 😆 She has a well paying job so she's never ripped me off...lol She substitutes that with trying to not pay her share of the bills.
@ricepaddyreasons
@ricepaddyreasons Жыл бұрын
I don't think it's a good idea to go into any relationship thirsty. You won't think clearly or rationally. Feelings are a horrible basis for decisions, especially with money! Stay safe, bros!
@jerichojohnson3219
@jerichojohnson3219 10 ай бұрын
DON'T EVER GROCERY SHOP WHEN HUNGRY; YOU'LL ALWAY OVER SPEND. IF THIRSTY, HORNY YOU'LL THINK MOSTLY WITH YOUR DICK.
@Hrangue
@Hrangue Жыл бұрын
You really laid it out.
@mikedawson2105
@mikedawson2105 Жыл бұрын
This is the best Thailand Video that I've seen. Good job. Thank you
@AlwaysBeingAlwaysBecoming
@AlwaysBeingAlwaysBecoming 10 ай бұрын
This is absolutely brilliant. The best video I've seen in a long while. It just summarizes everything. A must view. Everything that glitters is not gold. And what a slow boil.
@papatorr3669
@papatorr3669 11 ай бұрын
I used to interview patients and nurses from the Philippines and they followed a similar progression. I saw comments of Thai women being worse, but I can't tell the difference. Same advice regardless of where you live. As a man, secure your career or business, establish your house, vehicles and other assets all in your name only. Whether you get a wife or a live in: never put anything in both names, never pay a bill for her, don't let her use your credit card or debit card. Look into it, no document should have your name and her signature, or vice versa. I knew an acquaintance that shared these gems with me. But it was too late for me. When his wife left him, he offered to help her put her clothes in the trunk of an old Mercedes of his and give her the title. She got a lawyer, but nothing else. It works.
@athitaya6898
@athitaya6898 Жыл бұрын
I’m thinking about setting up a Sin Sot negotiation businesses, 10, 000 baht per visit, it will save you mugs a fortune, be aware your isaan princess and her family may not like the questions asked.
@stevehatten209
@stevehatten209 7 ай бұрын
Very well done. I feel much broker than when the video started.
@JoeSmith-hs4lo
@JoeSmith-hs4lo Жыл бұрын
This info this very true Dan, I've been going to Pattaya since 1993 and I always stay Single
@Honest-Book-Reviews
@Honest-Book-Reviews Жыл бұрын
Pessimistic but true on occasion. A longer version however, one that can be far more expensive in the long term, is when a Thai lady has a child from a former relationship ( horrible Thai man ) then without previously taking money in large sums from a foreign boyfriend has a child with him, from that moment on that foreign man is hooked even if their relationship breaks down because his love for his own child ensures his inability to move on at the risk of losing all contact with his own child. Then drip drip maintenance payments can last a lifetime. Sometimes with the lady living secretly with the father of her first child ( the horrible Thai man who might have been in on it all along )
@comediancojac299
@comediancojac299 11 ай бұрын
WOW !!!
@jay-lm4we
@jay-lm4we Жыл бұрын
I know exactly how that story goes, but i never heard it explained as well as that Dan👍. Only problem is you're doing such a good job helping people that I'm afraid we'll eventually run out of car crash stories about Thailand 🤷‍♂️😄🇮🇪
@thaitalkwithdan
@thaitalkwithdan Жыл бұрын
Thanks 👍 I didn't even rehearse it 😅 just had the idea and just created it and no matter how many people become aware they will still jump into the fire 🔥 but hopefully this channel will help wake them up when they are releasing something just isn't right 😬
@christophermoorhouse8828
@christophermoorhouse8828 2 ай бұрын
By speaking out so honestly, this man is literally saving men from all over the world thousands if not hundreds of thousands in their own currency, perhaps even saving their life. I remember being in a pub conversation in the uk and a guy who had just got back from Thailand from his first visit said what nice people the Thais were. One guy who had lived there just over twenty years replied, "Oh yes. The nicest people money can buy".
@joseph71345
@joseph71345 Жыл бұрын
Like my kid said " Dad why don't just get a girl friend with out marrying it's cheaper "
@bjrnmelsomnordhagen7208
@bjrnmelsomnordhagen7208 Жыл бұрын
Great video 👍🏼
@AphrooneRichardson
@AphrooneRichardson Жыл бұрын
WOW! Dan! Thank you for your highly informative and enlightening episode! Thanks! ASE'!
@certificateofvaccinationi.d.19
@certificateofvaccinationi.d.19 Жыл бұрын
RULE:1.Dont break the LAW in Thailand. RULE:2.Prostitution is ILLEGAL in The Kingdom Of Thailand. RULE:3. If In Doubt Refer To RULES:1&2.
@graguitar6493
@graguitar6493 Жыл бұрын
You pay them to leave not for the sex so I don't agree with these rules at all
@certificateofvaccinationi.d.19
@certificateofvaccinationi.d.19 Жыл бұрын
@@graguitar6493 tell that to the Judge mate cos I don't give a shit what you think
@jerichojohnson3219
@jerichojohnson3219 10 ай бұрын
THAT'S SITCOM - 2 1/2 MEN'S QUOTE ... @@graguitar6493 - CHARLIE SHEEN.
@tie_breaker
@tie_breaker 10 ай бұрын
That's not how it works in Thailand! You marry them each night, pay a bar fine, then divorce them in the morning. Pay a divorce settlement for them to leave. Get breakfast, then repeat the cycle.
@Whatisthisstupidfinghandle
@Whatisthisstupidfinghandle 3 ай бұрын
@@graguitar6493your agreement or disagreement is irrelevant
@Webernbg
@Webernbg Жыл бұрын
I have my experience with girls there since 20 years. Two times married and divorced. And i need to tell you, all stories and what you say is true really. It is like this. I had a normal from Chiang Mai, i paid 18 years for my son coz she lives here in germany with me. I had a super rich, daugther of Mr. Tiewtranon who has own clinic and hospital. Also had a medium rich from Tran with many rubber plantations in the family. I could tell you stories a lot. But no time to write all. Just want to say, what you report and public here i can give you a 100% like and confirm that it is true. Drama queen i also had that wanted to kill herself if i leave her. She still alive. hahhahhaha. You explain all very real and in the right way and like it is really. It depends on the woman you meet. And eveybody needs to decide for himself how far wants to go. My ex wanted land and house in Trang, i had the money, she did not know, but i denied. I lived before in Southamerica. Venezuela three years, argentina and peru. I had lot of experiences. Dont trust any girl................. only after some tests and time. At the end in countries like thailand you are lost, coz you cannot own the land that easy. And the house at the land will be lost also. Same if buy a car at her name or anything. Just want to say, i like your videos, coz they so real and they are also made to the point. Not speak only bad or only good. You explain and someone like me, knows.................. is real. Thank you for your content. I aprechiate it a lot. Uwe
@thaitalkwithdan
@thaitalkwithdan Жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your feedback thank you, it's nice to hear from people that have been here a long time and truly understand how things operate here 🤝
@chuey1313
@chuey1313 Жыл бұрын
Here come the "MINE is different" white knights' in shiny armor coming to protect all.
@ronaldburrows9689
@ronaldburrows9689 3 ай бұрын
Dan just told the story, word for word, of my life for the last eight years.
@rockylane876
@rockylane876 Жыл бұрын
Wow ! This is your best video yet. I had to laugh as you are absolutely right on the money. YES HOW MUCH NA !
@Goofydownrange
@Goofydownrange Жыл бұрын
Every female on this planet 🌍 😂😂😂😂
@dolphin069
@dolphin069 Жыл бұрын
They are all gold digging whores until proven otherwise.
@malin5468
@malin5468 Жыл бұрын
Brilliant and hilarious vlog and a warning to all us old codgers who fall in love with young Thai women.
@stevefernandes7941
@stevefernandes7941 11 ай бұрын
I have been watching many but I love the sound and pics you have put hem😂 everything you are saying is so true !! 100% stay happy and blessed always 😊
@majesticpuma8179
@majesticpuma8179 8 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 great video Dan! Very entertaining!
@paulhomer7882
@paulhomer7882 Жыл бұрын
hit the nail on the head mate hope everyone takes note how real this shit gets over in thailand ,bleed you dry and leave you high and dry and goodbye on to the next guy and repeat 👍👍
@ron-tr6ql
@ron-tr6ql Жыл бұрын
Dan your a prophet when it come to Thai girls and relationship. But love blind us all…. Even yourself in dealing with your baby moma.. Guess it’s love and human nature … keep up the good work… You was born for this…and fatherhood for your son William
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