The 14 SECRET Ways To Make Him Worry About LOSING You!

The 14 SECRET Ways To Make Him Worry About LOSING You!...In this dating advice for women video, I will breakdown how to make him worry about losing you. It can be during first dates, online dating, or somewhere in the dating process that you exude the value that makes a man fear losing you. Take heed to these dating tips for women, and be sure to watch the entire video.
I want you to experience being cherished, loved, and respected. Learning how to make him fear losing you isn't about tips and tricks that puts fear in his heart. This dating advice will help you tap into your true potential, allow him to see your amazing value, and create a healthy relationship.
As a certified life coach, relationship coach, and dating coach, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you. I pray you find this video helpful, and that you will receive the man who is truly best for you.
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[@katherinefischer8422]

1. Be his peace 2. Speak love and positivity into him 3. Find out his specific needs/desires & actually provide them 4. Start taking better care of yourself 5. Learn how to listen to him & use logic 6. Create your own world within the relationship 7. Learn how to balance the relationship 8. Give consequences and rewards 9. Be willing to walk away 10. Reward good behaviours as well

[@kristinaldridge1712]

My man actually told me last weekend that I bring him peace. Stephan's videos have helped me greatly in being ready for the last relationship of my life.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

That is really great to hear

[@wangarisworld8314]

Mine too 😊

[@VeraCrowDarkWitch378]

"Be your own DAMN peace!" 😅💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

lol 😂 😁

[@lucybyrd1810]

@@VeraCrowDarkWitch378 so true

[@cytavares]

It doesn't matter what you do, if a man is not emotionally available, he won't stay.

[@niyabeach3723]

That part

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

True but you still have to make sure you’re doing your part

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

Love is patient, love is kind... ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Amen 🙏

[@silviamtz8961]

I am peace. I live in a way to give myself a peace of mind so if a man finds peace with me is because it's pouring out of me and it's just part of me. Dat's it and because I am me that is magnetic and I don't feel resentful. If he doesn't bring me peace, then I can walk out. Because I know how valuable MY peace is and I know what it took and it takes to be in that space. It is work and it is a conscious CHOICE!!!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I’m glad to hear that

[@melbaholloway3412]

I literally was thinking this...this morning. Thank you for writing so well. Using your words to add to my affirmation list. Thank God. I am enjoying peace (47) that I did not have in my teens, 20s and 30s.

[@melbaholloway3412]

I don't know if you are a Christ follower. No big deal if not. But after I read your post and began to write my affirmation, I pulled my drawer open and found this scripture about perfect peace. Isaiah 26:3

[@silviamtz8961]

@@melbaholloway3412 I completely agree with you, I'm a couple of yrs younger and I completely hear you. I just read the verse online and it's very fitting. I'm glad that my expression of being helped, inspired and confirmed plus validated you sis. ❤️

[@JanetTuttle-cb3xx]

You give me hope Stephan, everyday is a learning curve and I am 68 yrs.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ I’m glad to hear that

[@MaggieChimbwanda]

Did all 14 still wasn't enough and got dumped, I guess I wasn't the one for him. May 2025 attract me the right man. Thanks Stephan🙏🏽

[@DorisCarter-x1v]

Love this my man told I was his peace a couple months ago.. I was like wow.

[@ilovekandii214]

Great video!! Don’t ever speed through. Those of us that want to take the time to listen to this gold, will! Thank you sir.

[@kerlinechery2591]

Stephan, the lack of peace men experience, they create it themselves. peace is the byproduct of emotional safety, clarity, reassurance

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Sometimes this is indeed the case, but there are other times where it’s not.

[@FundiswaMaqhula]

You are so amazing Stephan. All the things you teach us are real and true. Just find out that I was messing things a lot in my life and relationship because of lack of knowledge. You are an eye opener indeed my brother. You are continually making myself a better person every time I listen to you. I was referred to your channel by a friend. Thanks once again for your channel.

[@TishaSuper]

Been Following For Over 10yrs….I Found StephanSpeaks At A Breaking Point With The Man Of My Life….A Very Dark Time….Listening To Stephan Was A True Blessing….I No Longer Struggle Or Have To Deal With The BS That Can Come With Relationships …Ive Learn To Communicate Healthy Amongst Other Things …. I’m At Peace And Know How To Provide Peace….Thank You StephanSpeaks , Appreciate Your Craft ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

That is so awesome to hear 🙌 my pleasure

[@lucybyrd1810]

I just found out about this gentleman maybe a month ago. I'm usually not on social media much. He has a tremendous amount of TRUTH.

[@merryreaper4807]

I've only had one bf and sadly it didn't seem to matter if I was peaceful, trying to find a positive with him he was miserable about everything and he said I was using positive toxicity ( I wasn't dismissing the fact that there were hard things to deal with) when all I was doing was trying to help him find joy in at least one part of his life. It was a very imbalanced relationship and I was taking care of the majority of things and I felt like asking for respect and love were too much to ask from him after a while because he was using me and cheated on me. I finally left because it was clear I didn't matter to him like he mattered to me.

[@h8h215]

Your biggest mistake is trying to change people, they are who they are. That nice guy who is quietly sitting in the corner unhindered from the world and its troubles, he is the man you want not the loud mouth in the middle exciting a group of women hoping he is the one who picks you.

[@faeriesart9647]

I meditate and feel blessed with the richness of my soul.. After not being really intimate with a man for a decade, was married twice and always in love with love, but I met my DM who was not on my path and thus 10 yrs went by A new man is in my life he brings me peace as he is consistent, but recently he’s pulling away… I react by wanting to run, but I will try being his peace for a while🙏 He says I love you but not In love… we are seniors! What does that even mean? We have all the yummy ingredients..but scarred hearts Thank you Stephen for the work you do in the world🙏🙏🙏

[@roxymitchell4296]

I have the peace of God. 🕊

[@GodsObedientChild-Deuteron6262]

Yes indeed... He's the ONE and ONLY TRUE PEACE, that can't EVER be replicated!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙌❤️

[@nyasijahmilton6795]

What the definition of peace

[@h8h215]

In this context, where you both dont bring negative energy in the house, when i get home from work my girlfriend is at the door greeting me brings me a hot cup of coffee and a bath is run, she loves putting different scets in the bath which i find funny and cute, after that i go downstairs and i do the cooking we both talk about our positive day sit of the couch watching tv series/films till 9, then we go into the pool room for an hour then to bed, ill leave the rest of the details 😉 This is peace for me and what i would call a regular day.

[@Cindy_Love_2025]

Excellent video! Loads of fantastic information! I love it! 👏🏼💯💯❤️❤️

[@jennehsmith8170]

This is some good information, this is so true. I am a witness of this because I experienced it very recently…….

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you, I’m glad you found it helpful

[@hannahi9355]

I think part of the reason why some women balk at the idea of being this positive pillar of light to men is that it just makes them seem childish. Like men are these fragile individuals that literally cannot handle anything. It also makes a lot of women feel like what is the point of having a man if they are so delicate? Of course it's nice to be nice and kind to others but at the end of the day do you have a man or do you have an infant? Whereas women we are constantly told to just take the bare minimum from everyone. It's annoying.

[@live.life.secure.coaching]

This 💯

[@live.life.secure.coaching]

We have hard days and we need someone to lean on and know has got us when we don't have us. If that's not our partner, then who is it?

[@Bird1964]

Really good point 😊

[@Mich-L396]

"He likes the movies now"😂😂😂

[@h8h215]

So you want to stay masculine and expect men to have to deal with that? Nope, get in your lane if you want men to get in theirs.

[@gloriaibrahim2794]

Watching from 🇳🇬 ..Amazing video Stephanspeaks

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much for watching

[@ruhiyyakhaspoladli4332]

😂 love your videos not just lecturing but being really funny and understanding for both genders!! God bless you!

[@SheIsPotential]

Thank you for this advice.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Always my pleasure

[@lucybyrd1810]

Oh no we definitely don't want to make him feel insecure or as if he's walking on eggshells because he may lose us😢

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Absolutely

[@RoyalSweetness22]

Thank you for the lengthy video, Stephan. 😊❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙂 thank you for watching

[@RoyalSweetness22]

@MeetStephanSpeaks 🙏🏽

[@RealChillChina]

I compliment & do acts of service.. Ect and he tells me I do to much and he doesn’t like texting while he’s at work I just feel like I’m the only one trying.

[@melbaholloway3412]

Preach Stephan

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙌😁

[@CLAUDETTEBELFIELD]

I don't think it is necessarily an issue with a man being a mama's boy, but a woman or man should want to speak life into each other. Speaking life is much needed in a relationship. I agree with making your partner a priority, but it is a two-fold cord with this one. The man has to honor his woman, too. When a woman is led by a great, strong, Godly masculine man, then trust me, most women do not mind following that man. I would like to say that when the man leads with great intent, then women will follow. Let's get to the weight situation. I have no problem with weight loss. I would like for my man to be encouraging in this area. I would also like for us to do things together. I don't have an issue with getting the weight off, but I need him to work with me, too. I love to work on things together. This is my take.

[@SundaèinDCity]

@@CLAUDETTEBELFIELD his mama will go on your dates ( all of them). Whenever you discuss anything with him, he runs to his mama and she triangulates everything. Romantic get-aways, mama gets your gifts for All occasions and she goes on that trip as well. It's a deeper unhealthy issue going on. We're not talking about a healthy man that honors and loves his parents were speaking of a "man child" with no boundaries with his mother whose been manipulative possibly traumatized from his father's absence and a woman that had to lead her household out of her own willpower. He may not even know his father or his mama lied saying he was dead. It's like he's already married and you're the mistress. A mama never goes in front of a wife but the behavior is evident early on. It only takes a few interactions. A couple of mamas words," she ain't nobody" and even calling on dates and he leaves to give mama money. Wedding Anniversaries he spends more time on mama thanksgiving than with the Lord and you. It's Major issues with a man being a mamas boy as an adult because he can only view you through his interactions with her and it's somewhat Narssistic how the woman he chooses is the monster even after birthing her grand kids you may still never be called by your name. Your "that woman, she over there, whatever she is" and mama will even jump in and instigate and never respect you until you leave.

[@adeyinkadosumu92]

I think you need to do a video on how men can give women peace as well. Some men can be very difficult and not ready to commit. Why invest so much in giving him peace when he cares less about your feelings & happiness.

[@h8h215]

If they are not ready to commit they are not the man you should entertain, be up front about what it is you want at the start.

[@TreasureForeverOfficial]

I agree he should do some character building videos for men

[@nyasijahmilton6795]

True especially if he is a narcissist

[@silviamtz8961]

We gotta be love, peace, positive to US first, that's why it's important to heal US, me. I thought I was alright but now what's triggering me is: I have anxious attachment and that's throwing off my center. I need help with that Stephan, got any advice truth bomber ???? ❤❤ Thank you in advance

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Start with healing from everything in your past. Something you experienced created that attachment style.

[@silviamtz8961]

@MeetStephanSpeaks My infancy pretty much 🥹 Oh boy. Sigh.

[@rosettacarter7354]

You are right😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you

[@nevaleestone3237]

I don't think you could talk for too long. Your videos are amazing

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I really appreciate that, thank you

[@thobekamantshongo4458]

Thank you Stephan,thank you🇿🇦

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Always my pleasure 🙏

[@bigkim45]

I met my kingdom husband, and I am walking in peace. It took some time. We are good now.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙌❤️ that is awesome to hear

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

I call this the ultimate guidelines to a lovinhg successfull relationship but stick a pin ,only a good and Godly masculine man deserves this speical treatment, trust me

[@nyasijahmilton6795]

He doesn’t bring peace so how can I give him p😢

[@MsLilac88]

Hello Stephan, I always found your relationship advice useful, sometimes I find it difficult to understand men. 😊

[@h8h215]

Men have the same issue with women, crazy world.

[@shanellealaing7014]

I know that’s right ‼️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙌❤️

[@lindaavery6984]

This all sounds good, but all points to only what he wants matter

[@h8h215]

How do you mean? What you want matters, but if you want a certain type of man then what he wants matters too, this is why you should date men who want the same things you want. Do you agree with what a guy wants matters?

[@Blakkberryz]

Lol at number 2 on the list 😅

[@joyceprater4647]

I don't have this problem. Thanks

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Good to hear

[@SundaèinDCity]

Stephan are you working in the DC area for any singles ministries?

[@olayinkaosibodu]

Can someone please write out the 14 things please?????

[@blessedblessed5018]

EXACTLY what i was looking for... nope lmao

[@TanyaOden]

Great video! Thank you Stephan but I have some thoughts about your last point. ⚠Warning: Unpopular Opinion: I'm NOT judging. I'm just expressing my thoughts because sometimes the messaging confuses ME. Just being honest. As a Believer and I'm sure that most people KNOW whether they're a Believer or not that were not suppose to having sex outside of marriage but people do it anyways. Like you often say "That's YOUR choice as an adult" and I totally agree with you because God gives us free will/free choice. However, we do NOT get to choose the consequences for our poor choices. Why not EMPHASIZE and ENCOURAGE men and women about the many advantages of waiting until marriage? It's God's way. It's the ultimate committed relationship. It seals the covenant, less confusion, more mental clarity, less fear/comparing to past lovers, less soul ties, decreases chances of catching an STD, decreases the chances of unwanted pregnancies outside of marriage, etc. and most importantly it honors and pleases God and just leave it at that. We can't change the past (sexual encounters) but if we confess our mistakes to God and repent, He forgives us and we can start over again. In regards to intimacy in marriage (this is actually ironic because I was just journaling my thoughts about it last night) but here's my thoughts: 1.) God is very SPECIFIC in His instructions. God way demands masculine leadership. God created MAN first. MAN is the leader whether women like it or not. 2.) Thrice (3X) the Bibles states "Therefore shall a MAN leave his father and mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh." (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:2 Ephesians 5:31) Not the other way around "A WOMEN leave her mother and father, and shall cleave unto her husband and they shall be one flesh." 3.) MAN is to leave his father and mother. Man and wife are to depend on God and each other not their parents because they've already been raised. MAN and wife need that alone time. 4.) MAN is to cleave unto his wife. Men are suppose to take the lead in initiating intimacy and love making. MEN set the tone, mood, consistency etc. I think if men handled their business CORRECTLY women would have NO problem initiating intimacy and would probably wear their husbands slam out sexually! LOL. I mean literally can't keep their hands off of 'em because it's such a pleasurable and enjoyable experience! And let me say this, if men are stressing their wives out, not communicating, not showing love and affection, not making them a priority and giving them the sloppy seconds and scraps of their time...PROBLEM. Huge PROBLEM. The chances of a women initiating intimacy is like a snowball in hell...Not a chance. . 5. Last, MAN and wife are to become one flesh- YES!! There are now a family unit and are Representatives of God to fulfill an Eternal mission in the earth. We gotta get this Right! Okay, that's it! ME: Whewww...Exhaling!!

[@h8h215]

There isnt much to argue here only your entire argument would be based on quality men and women and like you said it should be stated that modern women are mostly 304s now and no prayer to god can make you a virgin again, you can make amends with god but not with men so yes while i agree men have a responsibility to uphold so do women, there is far too much feminism and female supremacy in the world today it will take a long while to get back to traditional standards, most women today do not want to be traditional.

[@Daddy2025HQ]

I was good man I lost her she said she had other options I told her I wish you the best so I walked away and disappeared 6 years later I pump into her in shopping mall hello sir do I know you?No you don’t I’m with my kids my kids said dad who’s that woman 🤷‍♂️

[@nyasijahmilton6795]

😢😢😢😢😢 34:38

[@wangarisworld8314]

I have fated men with kids and Stephan is right, it takes a lot of sacrifice to fit into their schedule. Decided it wasn't for me!

[@DoaaEmad-m9s]

What a fantastic video! The fact that my husband abandoned me after eighteen years still shocks me. He simply left and won't talk to me anymore. Despite my best efforts to win him back, I am unable to stop thinking about him. I can't envision my life with anyone else, which is really annoying. I've made every effort to ignore the thoughts of him, but it's impossible. I'm not sure why I'm posting this, but I can't stop thinking about him and I miss him a lot.

[@АндрейЛобанов-р2щ]

Hearing about what you're going through makes me really sad. When my partner and I broke up lately, I experienced something similar. I tried everything to make things better because I felt totally lost, but it didn't seem possible. I then contacted a remarkable spiritual counselor who provided me with unanticipated assistance. My husband returned after working with him, and we're happier than ever.

[@DoaaEmad-m9s]

Really? A spiritual counselor? That sounds intriguing. How did you get in touch with him, and how can I do the same?

[@АндрейЛобанов-р2щ]

He's a great spiritual counselor named owen abiola, and he can help you get your ex back.

[@DoaaEmad-m9s]

I'm feeling positive today and think I can get my hubby back. Thank you so much! I just looked him up and read some fantastic testimonials.

[@BerryDivine33]

I think i have to move on. He is disturbing my peace.

[@JoyleiaJo]

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[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Yes indeed!

[@l.eii88]

How can you bring him peace when he’s the one causing you stress?😢

[@h8h215]

What came first, the nagging/difficulty you brought to him first or his negative outcome? If its him who started it what caused it? If hes always been that way then i suggest you do what men advise other men and leave the relationship, you are simply in the position of a man who has to deal with a difficult woman and noone has to accept that behavior. Just remember to go through my list first and answer to yourself honestly, if you leave the relationship and the real problem was you you will take that energy into your next relationship and it will fail just the same.

[@vivianMarvin-z6k]

Hello to everyone reading this. Right now, l'm inconsolable. My ex-partner left a few weeks ago, ano I am heartbroken and saddened since this relationship is the best thing that has ever happened to me. Although I tried, I was unable to win him back. I don't know what to do, but I shouldn't be posting this here.

[@Mia1827]

Since my 12-year relationship ended, I know how hard it is to say goodbye to someone you love. But I couldn't just let him go, so l did everything ! could to win him back. I finally went to a spiritual counsellor for guidance, and he helped me win back his love.

[@vivianMarvin-z6k]

It's fascinating! How did you locate a spiritual counsellor and how can I get in touch with one most effectively?

[@Mia1827]

Father Obah Eze is a wonderful spiritual counselor who has the ability to bring back your ex.

[@Mia1827]

He can assist you; he is Father Obah Eze, and he possesses immense powers and he's the best spell caster to ever live

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Thank you for sharing this valuable insight. I just looked him up, and I'm genuinely impressed.

[@the-gr8ful-ones]

I think couples should keep their business to themselves, or agree on what they will and will and will not share with others. Also, protect their relationship from negative and unhealthy outside influences at all times, to protect their peace and harmony, and each other. Scripture says "leave and cleave" and "two are better than one" for a reason. NOT more than two, unless there is mutual agreement for a healthy reason(s). Examples - Wise counsel, positive support, individual and couple's therapy. Genesis 2:22-24 (NIV) Ecclesiastes 4:7-12 (NIV) Matthew 19:6 (NIV)

[@Littlemisshotmess2.0]

What if I was texting other people ?? Cause I know I’m wrong I’m so stressed help please ??

[@h8h215]

Formulate a structured paragraph to help people understand what you are talking about, so far im assuming your cheating on him by speaking to other men with intent to sleep with them, does he know?

[@nyasijahmilton6795]

He tell me I’m negative n nagging all the time

[@h8h215]

You will need to think long and hard about the relationship dynamics and how you both started, its possible you both are simply unpeaceful people or one is and one isnt, who is making the first move to stir the pot? Were you both like this at the start? In your other comment i gave you a run down of what my day looks like, was this at any point the same for you? If so when did it change?

[@zinaj0814]

What do it means when a men you like say he proud of you...

[@misscori]

You lost me at #1. I'm my own peace and I don't bring chaos. I'm not remotely interested in wasting time creating something for a man who hasn't made it a priority for himself. I stayed until #2, but I'm not here for it either. I'm positive, encouraging and optimistic, not I'm not coddling anyone. I better stick to what's worked so far. This isn't it for me. I'm too old for this

[@h8h215]

So what has workdd for you? We can even take your personal life out of it, what advice would you give to younger women? The same as what stephen said or different?

[@chalottacox5898]

Did all of this and more, and he is still ungrateful. He was not the right man for me.

[@h8h215]

Yes because he was ungrateful from the start, you are supposed to apply these things to men who share the same values as you, men who appear beasts will remain beasts regardless of what you do, no beast turns into a prince in reality, find a prince at the start.

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