STOP DOING THESE 4 Things If You Want To FIND LOVE! | Stephan Speaks

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@vashtikelly6837]

5TH THING.........DON'T LET ANYBODY TELL US TO STOP LISTENING TO STEPHAN'S VIDEOS TO FIND LOVE......

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@vashtikelly6837]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks STEPH THANK YOU....

[@CarolinHauser]

Thanks for making me laugh

[@vashtikelly6837]

@@CarolinHauser ANYTIME BABYGIRL MUAH.....LOL

[@vashtikelly6837]

STEPH THANK U....

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

The way to happiness: Keep your heart free from hate, your mind from worry. Live simply, expect little, give much. Scatter sunshine, forget self, think of others. Try this for a week, and you will be surprised.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@yx-z1038]

@stay happylittle mermaid That's also bullshit. Do you wanna be a victim for Fuckboys ,Narccicst, etc. ?!

[@leesamuels5897]

I loved this..and needed to hear read that

[@almetabowman990]

God bless you Precious Stephan it is truly a blessing when people are honest with each others in relationship. And The Anointing of God allows the great connection between the two that makes the relationship grow and be fruitful in many ways. I pray for all relationship to be blessed beyond measures in the providing name of Jesus. Always Love Queen Almeta😊♥️

[@ZombieBread4U]

I appreciate your obvious good heart but That’s terrible advice. You will just be the sacrificial lamb for all the broken, hurt, and predatory people of the world. You need to love and value yourself. And you should probably listen to more of Stephan’s stuff. I pray that you will quickly learn how misguided your comment actually is. I want to hug you though because I know you’re coming from a very loving spirit.

[@JamaicaLove876]

To find love you must become love. When you are radiating with love that attracts the love you are seeking.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@CJ-kq8je]

Gd 1👌🏾🖤

[@almetabowman990]

❤

[@almetabowman990]

Amen

[@starbeautysix3967]

Loving Almighty GOD through Loving Almighty JESUS CHRIST is Love. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾😇😇😇😇🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️❤️😇😇😇😇😇🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@phoebeochei2188]

I believe in real love and I not going to settle for nothing less

[@jojofilippa]

I personally think that the reason why we sometimes don't speak on our feelings is because we are not 100% in tune or honest with ourselves....everything has to start with self love and a deeper understanding of who you are, what you desire etc. in order to see clarity in different situations and people.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing 🙌 I appreciate that!

[@MelindaBerney-eg5tb]

I love when Stephan call things NONSENSE instead of BULLSHIT!!!! LOL, he's right. I love it.

[@TheQShow53]

Saw too many red flags ignored some addressed some. 3 years I was in the same boat with no change. God gave me to courage to end the relationship and never looked back!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal all that you have been through! 🙏

[@empress_7253]

You are so accurate! Left a relationship with a man just like this!! Lied about everything for no reason. Unnecessary lies!!! Lied about paying his car off, lied about having a college degree, which didn't matter to me, lied about his finances. You are amazing! Keep the videos coming.

[@demetriaphillips4110]

This is so true . We should be honest and not waste people time .

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@thisismystone9658]

Preach Stephan preach!! On the self love thing... Sometimes we think we love ourselves until we meet with that someone and suddenly we allow abuse..

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Yes, it definitely isn't an easy situation.

[@michelledouglas-8142]

You are stepping on my toes. Now I'm learning

[@michelledouglas-8142]

Thank you . Step

[@ZombieBread4U]

“They lie about the little things” I wish that I had heard Stephan years ago! Of course if they lie about the little things, they will lie about big stuff when it’s difficult to tell the truth. I knew my husband lies but I would always just let it go because it’s insignificant. When he admitted that he wasn’t inlove with me when he married me… I began to see that everything was a lie and I was emotionally catfished into marriage. I don’t want this experience to harden my heart because I have a lot of love in me. Stephan’s videos are so healing! Thank you Stephan ❤️

[@lisajones-franklin3574]

"Some people want to love you but they don't know how....they have to learn you." I posted something similar on my page earlier this morning. People are often dismissive without addressing the issue and allowing the other person to make the necessary correction. I love that quote Stephan. Thank you. 🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing I appreciate your feedback!

[@maryknox1085]

I Believe there are Great Men and Women still out there because I’m a great woman, even though I’ve been Single for years now, I Still Believe 😊and still Trusting that God will Send That Man For Me 🙌🏾🙌🏾LOVE LIVES IN ME UNCONDITIONAL ALWAYS 😇 Thank You Steven 🙏🏾🙏🏾I love me because God lives in Me

[@thisismystone9658]

They never allow themselves to be alone. They could be using you to heal. Do not allow yourself to become a victim of circumstance.

[@realisticron4025]

Yes, they take for their healing. Fill their cup. Not yours.

[@hawaiigirl8089]

Or not heal. Just be a distraction for them

[@CarolinHauser]

so true!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Indeed, it really helps when we embrace that. Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

[@j.i.l2167]

Transparency and honesty are important to build a good foundation in a relationship 💕.. It is important that you are properly healed ✨ and not bring negative emotions in the relationship which cause problems and lack of trust.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

[@jacquelinenoakes8673]

You are so right. It doesn’t take that long. Experience is a good learning mode. Two people have to decide, believe then work together to make things work. I still believe God’s plans are good.

[@rriveror27]

I agree with most things you say, but the whole it shouldn’t take 2 or 3 years to marry someone is wild.

[@sisi_zzz]

Walking through this cyber world and social media, trust is a major issue. It’s so easy to be duped by a false persona or profile.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Yes, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

[@trishsavage4224]

You is very awesome of explaining on relationship ! I. Thank GOD for You ! I'm 58 yrs old I. and I been single until NOW ! I'm waiting on GOD for answer to direct Me to My Soul mate ! I enjoy You always !

[@natnat0576]

Yesss you will know if they are playing games or serious...If they deflect dismiss you they playing....yessss

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

[@realnikki]

"You cannot expose a lier with lies" words!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Absolutely!

[@joshharp1128]

2 years too long to not know if you want to move forward regarding a relationship. In some cases, it doesn’t take more than 2 years to know if you wanna marry someone. Great encouragement 👍🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@ysmithriley]

@I Am Joshua Yep, if he DOESN'T KNOW THE ANSWER in 2 years, you must REMOVE YOURSELF from this relationship so as not to waste any more time finding your husband if this is your goal.

[@joshharp1128]

LOL ion want no husband I was just responding to bro message lol

[@travelnurseneenee]

@@joshharp1128 😂

[@Jlove85]

I'm starting to find that a lot of my "issues" are actually things I love about myself. And aren't issues at all but attributes of a good person. All people aren't the same, those are just the people you can reach, or choose to reach!

[@brianmahone4173]

IM JUST A STUDENT I THANK GOD FOR THIS MAN STEPHAN 🙏🏿

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@brianmahone4173]

I TAKE WHAT I LEARN FROM YOU I ALSO WATCH VIDEOS ON CODEPENDENCY AND NARCISSISM CAN YOU SPEAK ON THAT IN ONE OF YOUR VIDEOS

[@annekajordan6952]

How they treat other people 👌💯, so glad you put this on the list of red flags ❤️❤️🙏

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🙌

[@CarolinHauser]

so important

[@terrismith8378]

This is such a powerful video and I can't say it enough love yourself heal yourself and strive to be your best you and make sure you are staying away from all the toxic and negativity and embrace positive energy and wait for love love will come and never settle for anything less than you deserve when that right one comes along though will be prepared and accepting to all of the love that he has to give to you and you can reciprocate that love back you have to make time for one another it can never be a one sided relationship or even an effortless relationship and think it's okay and it's not especially when you have addressed these issues time and time again and the behavior has not been corrected it's time to move on and please never ignore the red flags and trust your intuition it will never lie to you you can't doubt or question your intuition it is what it is everyone deserves love peace happiness in their lives and don't have time for game players

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that and thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

[@terrismith8378]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you for keep bringing such powerful messages and they are definitely confirmations for me

[@jacquelinenoakes8673]

You are a hardworking person. You are really passionate about your beliefs. Your comments are heartfelt. You hit the target every time. Going through these situations is really nerve wrecking. Eventually a body and mind wears out!

[@julanre3160]

It is comforting to listen to you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback!

[@nicolemaxey5577]

Sometimes people see the red flags and hope that they go away.Most times they dont go away.Then you deal with them until you're basically forced to speak up for yourself.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Yes, it definitely isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

[@griseldawilliams3519]

I wish I could watch this video before I got married i wouldn't. Ake so many mistakes, but I also learned from them all praises to God!😉😊🥰

[@jenng5925]

Glad I listened to the end because that is the reminder I needed to hear. Stop entertaining the wrong person.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙌

[@jacquelinenoakes8673]

Giving up is easier but one’s needs have not been met and the person is still miserable. I have listened to others and tried to follow them: yet misery returns because there’s no happiness.

[@kourtney101]

It's the 'oh my gosh' segment for me. 🔥💯 Everyone should take seriously the healing req'd 2 enter into a HEALTHY relationship

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Yes, it definitely isn't an easy situation.

[@realisticron4025]

We may be scared, fearful, broken, beat up, come from years of dysfunctional upbringing. This does not give anyone the right to abuse, manipulate, lie or inflict harm onto an individual. Stop the cycle.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Indeed, we need to stop the cycle and healing is definitely the key!

[@CarolinHauser]

most of us have baggage ..where there is true love we can help each other

[@melissawiley3688]

I'm healing ❤❤🎉🎉 Discuss it and move on ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉

[@Mortikar]

For the first time in my life, I finally embraced a petite, just ordinary cute girl. She completely changed my life and every thing I realized I truly wanted. Do not focus on looks, especially if you are an attractive person.

[@leslieiris7093]

Are you married

[@desireallen96]

This is an important topic definitely in the generation now coming from a younger adult who starting off on understanding dating

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@alicewooley7097]

Stephan told us on how not to get with the Bad Ones. Address the situation and or know this is not for us. Move on this said very well Makes very Much sense , like that not to attach to unhealthy. The wrong people. ,. ,practice this if we meet with that bad feed with a long spoon and God really does help us .

[@Lidia_monique]

💕🙏🏼so true Thank you for the peace of mind that I’m on the right path having a deadline isn’t a bad thing. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@narviaflournoy3869]

Great communication to attention !!

[@mechimichelle6098]

Gratitude to you🙏🏽 this makes perfect sense!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you I appreciate your feedback!

[@hcassar]

This is gold. By far the best relationship coach. Powered by God

[@malariebaker1030]

Damn this man is so deep and accurate !! I’ve learned so much from your videos ... thank you !!

[@lisaj3639]

You are talking to me. I never been alone. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I needed to hear this.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!

[@livingwithlove...5766]

Holding on because of the investment.. I mean you hit the nail on the head

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you, I appreciate your feedback!

[@livingwithlove...5766]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks what is the real reason you aren't married do you have a fear of something?

[@miacarter5328]

I absolutely agree with everything You're saying. I knew the forecast said rain 🌧 but because He had just did a 10 year bid I knew an instant break up had the potential to send him way left.

[@candiegirl5074]

This video is gold. Everything hits.

[@blesschild2159]

I appreciate your advice so much. You are really good at what you do 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽

[@Cindy_Love_2025]

Powerful message! 💯 I’m loving this video! ❤️ Excellent job! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼❤️💯

[@Cheryn77]

Best ever you brought it home please encourage everyone to listen to this one.. I am the person who focuses on looks

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate that!

[@phoebeochei2188]

I believe good men and women are out here because I have been bad but I am becoming better

[@glowithfab8920]

Great Video & great tips that I use in my relationship & believe more people should just be more transparent in the relationship. It helps to avoid heartache, time being wasted & to see if you & your partner is on the same page

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Absolutely!!

[@travelnurseneenee]

thank you ❤️ i recently had a breakup. AMAZING man. but there was an issue with communication. we have never had any deep conversations because it made him uncomfortable and i can't live like that. I need to know how u feel, what's bothering you if i notice a change in behavior...tell me how you feel about ME! 2 entire years of being patient. I would bring up the issue and his response "oh you just want me to be vulnerable." WELL YEAH lol im still a little sad and down but I'm getting there. I just wish he could've been better in that department. Communication is tooooooo important to let slide especially for that long. maybe he is my right person and wrong time! only God knows. thank you for your videos!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Communication is definitely key!

[@CammyCamz-o8]

Thank you 🙏 so much for giving us great advice on how not to get played 💯 and address red flags 🚩 in a positive and calm manner. Have a great weekend and stay up . Bless up .

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you and have a great weekend as well, be blessed!

[@lenacynthia2151]

This is definitely a true way to have a proper and healthy relationship.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@palamirtammarimuthu1752]

Direct communication is the best 👍🏼💖🤓

[@marilynjonesjasper9864]

Good Morning Stephan! Great points. Will watch again later when I get home. I am starting a pattern of watching your videos early in the morning at work then after I get home to take notes and journal about your content. Thank you! Enjoy your day!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your support I appreciate that!

[@Hgfvnn]

You hit it nail on the head.. Thank you

[@sandraruggiero8746]

Really love your work Stephan 🙏 I even got your audio book "the man god has for you", you are as far as I know the best and realest coach I came across especially here in Germany. Hoping for your books to come out in German as well

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I appreciate your support!

[@UdyBee]

You can say that again@Sandra

[@lorilambert8970]

Empowering information! Love the internship analogy...makes perfect resonating sense!

[@brianne2004ify]

I can completely can relate to this . Still trying to heal .

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you heal all that you have been through!

[@sunilramsey5862]

First! Thanks for your continued support through these videos.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you I appreciate your support!

[@aliajohnson470]

Thank you for sharing these powerful words of wisdom. Blessings 😊

[@akrodriguez2720]

4 Excellent Videos for women and men. All of your advice is Spot On. These videos give everything we need to develop ourselves personally and to create healthy, successful relationships. Keep doin' what cha doin'!! Stephan, you are the BEST life/relationship coach out here. I've shared your videos and website with everyone I know.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I appreciate your support!

[@kjirovec]

Excellent explanation

[@franciscaexposito1627]

So true. This is awesome

[@michelletolliver2891]

Preach to the choir!! 😅 newbie here and I'm loving your channel already! 💜💜

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Welcome aboard and don't forget to hit the notification button so that you can be notified each time I release a new video.

[@franwilds145]

I love the internship comparison! It does not take years & years to know if you want a long term relationship (marriage) with someone. I've also encountered men who were always the "victim" in every past relationship. Definitely red flag b/c they usually have communication & accountability issues.

[@ineselogina8760]

Thanks for your advices and care💗🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@Veronicabac]

Thank you, Stephan!

[@deanj8870]

Great well said👏🏾👏🏾 I love the word of wisdom and knowledge. I'm learning more. All praises to the Most High, the Great Living Elohim👏🏾👏🏾👑📖🙏🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thanks for listening I appreciate your response!

[@deanj8870]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You're welcome👑📖🙏🏾

[@maidav1481]

Could you do a video elaborating on having a connection with someone?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@michelledouglas-8142]

Im praying for my healing

[@palamirtammarimuthu1752]

Honesty and trust 💖🤓

[@UdyBee]

Words of truth, words of wisdom! Well done @Stephenspeaks and thanks for sharing.

[@KenyaOSmith]

Thank you! I needed to hear that.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help

[@TheeBillionairess]

This video really got me wanting to 😭. Purge

[@felicitystevens6036]

Very well said you open my eyes thank you so much

[@hawaiigirl8089]

Yessss dragged along like Road kill under the car wheels!!!! Men WILL waste a woman’s best years & yawn 🥱 about it

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Kindly don’t say that, there are a lot of good men out there!

[@scosta87]

I’m learning a lot from your videos.Thank you🤗🙏

[@shawei5984]

thanks i learned a lot from your advice 🇵🇭❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!

[@mrzkikibabychannel282]

I agree with you on the hold video I been practicing celibate for 3yrs till one day this man approach me with all the good I want in a man. Turn out something u mentioned just latch on to me. Like all good in a woman hold but for him not ready like to be in relationship hold down responsibility a man should. What mean does bearly minimum. Like u said in ur book inconsistent action is consistent action. His words my say he love me but sometimes his actions telling me otherwise. I mean I could be wrong. I mean there is huge difference in our age. He lot older in me being older than me something u just should have as a man.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@MaishPosh]

One thing I noticed about the men I’ve dated if I’m doing something that’s considered a red flag they won’t address it to me they would actually ghost me so I’m torn between addressing their red flags or just doing the same thing they did to me, ghost me 😕

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I feel you, but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

[@MaishPosh]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks if he can’t communicate then it’s his lost not mine the goal is to find a partner who will communicate with me when I’m wrong and me to learn to communicate with him when he’s wrong

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right, communication is definitely key and I pray that you find the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you!

[@patriciadodo6951]

Factssssss all day!!!!!!!!

[@lisaj3639]

You are so inspiring. Thank you for these videos.♥

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@jacquelinenoakes8673]

Stephan, thank You 🙏 for sharing this review. This back to back style of information is so helpful. It brings continuity to your messages. Again, thank You 🙏. I also appreciate your passion in your methodology. You have helped me to see things differently.

[@kerlinechery2591]

Oh mine, this is so good.

[@sharhughes1086]

GM Stephan! I believe you need to see about self take care of self, any issues that you may have! Spiritual cleansing is the best way so you can see clearly those red flags your dismissing! I always say I'll give you a chance if I see a chracter disturbance which causes their behavior to not match their words that doesn't sit well with me, I'm dunno!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing healing is definitely key!

[@princessgt3334]

Thank you for your incite

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@flottdmarieforde5739]

exactly my point.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@axelstruelove]

Excellent video! ❤

[@thisismystone9658]

True. How they treat other people..

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Most definitely!

[@mariazapata5064]

Can you make a video on how to keep love once you find it?🙂

[@eugenemackay641]

Deal breaker the voice❤

[@thisismystone9658]

Thank you so much, this has been so telling.. i pray that I keep having these words resounding in my mind so that I can use them and not allow myself to make excuses for those not worthy of my love.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌

[@jenniferh210]

Thank you! 🧡🙏🏻

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@shecoop6633]

Omg I remember telling my ex why do you always feel like everybody is against you. He never took accountability for anything

[@boostmobile9249]

Friendship is much desired. Personal accountability. Apologize, Can they? Without blame.

[@hannahagambila7617]

My man said he don't want anything serious and what is between us is not going to work but I can see in his eyes that he still like me and he takes good care of me and I'm so confused now what should I do do I have to let him go?