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@lisakhawla10 ай бұрын
Totally agree with that❤ 100%
@matildashaw5022 Жыл бұрын
Looks like I found the man God sent me ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤ 👐
@adriennenails7107 Жыл бұрын
God is the main ingredient for anything to taste good❤
@dinayando2849 Жыл бұрын
When two people have a connection and both of them put God first, the love they will share is like no other! This is so pleasing to our Lord as we even see it in scripture. This is the man or woman that God has chosen for you! Too many of us rushed into the wrong relationship and never consulted God Always, always put God first and even in singlehood you will experience joy!
@ms.camillewarrenempress31 Жыл бұрын
Yep
@dove-ina5462 Жыл бұрын
You are literally the best relationship coach ever, grateful for your presence ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much. I appreciate that!
@marilynserrano-soto3100 Жыл бұрын
Yes...Amen ...
@Freeremediestoagapelove Жыл бұрын
He really is. This man is God sent! Praising God for Stephan!!
@nicolechelsea5328 Жыл бұрын
God bless him❤
@agray7474 Жыл бұрын
I concur!
@Marie-vz2qp Жыл бұрын
God should and must be the foundation of any relationship.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Most definitely!
@Marie-vz2qp Жыл бұрын
Thank you.❤️♥️
@docwhoshops Жыл бұрын
Honor God and seek Him first. Then all else will follow. I believe that whole heartedly, because God is faithful!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Most definitely!
@kai-leekenniz2289 ай бұрын
Speaking as the unhealed woman (who very much thought she was healed, and has done A LOT of work towards that) who has found the man God has for me, this is absolutely a whole new level of terror and triggering, and he's feeling it, too. We are meant to be on this healing journey together, and we are committed to growing together. 💖
@vaksehund23 ай бұрын
Bf I fell in love with him I told God I am done with finding a man, I will just stay on course - serving You. Then God put me on a man's path that has fallen in love with me - but there are so many obstacles. God wants me to love & pour into this man, tho. I still want to stay on course & love Jesus 1'st, but wow my mind is still going back & forth on how & why in the situation right now. Gonna share the Gospel with him this weekend & ask him if he believes in Jesus - & I will share my testimony. I've been putting it off, but I have to tell him I would love to take him (& all his co-workers & clients) with me to Heaven. This is what is & has to be my focus. Thank you Stephan for your guidance. ❤
@teresathreatts4266 Жыл бұрын
My Godfather is a retired Pastor and he always gives me "pearls of wisdom." He told me that, "Men fall in love with their eyes; and women fall in love with their ears." I believe this to be a true statement as I've gotten older. People have preferences, true...but we have to definitely be wise in our decisions especially in these days and times. Thanks, Stephan. God bless!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@sharonbraselton4302 Жыл бұрын
masterr cjegf need frind like him
@andyr.1243 Жыл бұрын
I have one guy that asked me out… just no chemistry. He’s not confident and I just can’t get into it. He can barely make conversation. He brings out my male side… and that’s too bad, because I love my feminine side.
@VirgosGroove3 Жыл бұрын
I went through this recently. I really wanted to give the beta male a chance but it was hard
@clarizendaya6274 Жыл бұрын
Dont do it. That's how my marriage failed. I married the wrong man. I refused to see the red flags.
@tammycovington3288 Жыл бұрын
I hear ya ladies I have had this problem as well.. where are the strong , good godly men…🤔❤️👊
@hallejudy Жыл бұрын
His not the one
@rulesfortheenotforme613Ай бұрын
Seems like a lot of men are soft and self centered.. porn addicted, isolated, and worried about being relied upon. Very sad 😞
@emilyschlotte5914 Жыл бұрын
I was not physically attracted to my guy for a really long time actually but that grew because of how he is as a person:)
@rulesfortheenotforme613Ай бұрын
I have a man that makes me feel so feminine bc of his size. I felt like this tiny petite thing next to him… he was just a big guy.. 6’2/3 and maybe 380 lbs but he is so active and involved with his surroundings.. I miss him terribly
@beccybec737210 ай бұрын
Sooo, I met a guy. I love how he looks, he’s hot AF! Felt drawn to him. BUT, he scares the sh*t out of me - every time we have talked, on message, or real life, I’m kind of clumsy… nervous.. And he makes me want to run for the hills… cause he’s just «too damn good»!!😅 Thanks to him tho, I started taking healing seriously, I’m watching Stephans videos every night before sleep❤️ I want to be the best woman for a man, and myself!! Also, the man brought me closer to God (never been into this).❤
@CrystalisMadrid Жыл бұрын
God is working through you right now 🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@2cherries Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@motivationsbymik5668 Жыл бұрын
That connection is definitely something.. I almost ran from him, we're still here over a year in.. That connection with someone is magical.
@Mrs3yre Жыл бұрын
I for a long time believed that everything happens for a reason, and that reason being cause and effect. I didn't believe in Fate, only coincidence. Then I met the man I'm with today, with how everything that happened that lead me to him, there's no way it can just be coincidence! I am setting out to look into Faith and religion because there is no way I just stumbled into this man. I believe there is a God or some higher power out there and they seem to care, which has been an alien thought to me my whole life. Thank you, Stephan, your channel and videos really helped me get on this path.
@irreplacable1988 Жыл бұрын
Your comment reminds me that GOD is sooo gracious…that he was able to draw you in using something that others are still praying for! Wishing you guys a long, strong healthy relationship
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm happy the videos have been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@sinceiwaslittle4715 Жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to me. I met this guy by coincidence. My friend invited me to a party at his house. The next day I saw him out we exchanged numbers . We barely dated for 2 months. Now we don’t talk. I rejected him bc of my insecurities of him bringing up his ex. Now tables turned he said “he doesn’t want to date me anymore because he mentally can’t deal with me , and thinks that I’m a nice girl “ he apologized and called a week later. My feelings hurt I barely responded. 😩
@thinker5116 Жыл бұрын
I literally prayed asking God to bless me with a man who is spiritual, respectful and just a good person. Approximately 2 weeks later I met this man in Vegas and everything that day led to me meeting him out of nowhere. Ever since we met he has not stopped calling or texting me. Yes those things you just mentioned I am going through. I started conversations to hear his thoughts on certain issues. I never did this before. Sometimes I do feel like it’s not real so you do know what you’re talking about. Thanks for your videos! I also have to say in ALL those moments I started having doubts, there he is calling or texting! It’s amazing 😊
@ashleysessoms4967 Жыл бұрын
I mean… I def prayed the same thing and I thought I met that man. Seems like as soon as I expressed the heat behind being intimately involved due to spiritual complications smh things def flamed out the window. I swear it was nice to finally actually feel so so close! We had all of the things listed smh! It’s weird but I’m over it
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@thinker5116 Жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks you’re welcome!
@estherbosbach377 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful! Just be sure he is not playing you like narcissists do. They shower you with attention, only to keep you hooked. After a while, they take advantage of you at the point at which you are not able to say no anymore. They first hear you out about how you tick, to get to know how to get under your skin. Just be aware of this possibility the first couple of months.
@amyitis Жыл бұрын
I had this with a guy that asked me out and we had all these qualities. After the 1st date he told me that i may not hear from him the next day because he was going on another date. I asked him how he would feel if i was dating around, shopping, constantly looking, he said he wouldnt like it. When someone cant take the same hurt they give, theyre not my kind of person. Unpopular opinion for many because it was just 1 date and nothing was exclusive, but I honestly believe that someone who keeps shopping around will keep doing that even during the relationship... the mentality of having options is why dating doesnt work these days, some of us are just more intentional
@teresacroft7409 Жыл бұрын
You're so right. You pretty much know on the first date if there is a spark. And if he admits that to you, you'll be wondering what he doesn't admit to. When they date you it should be to date you only and not other women.
@bigtreecombatacademy2927 Жыл бұрын
If he throws it in ur face like that it ain’t cool There is no need to tell u that in such a way He will hurt u much worse in the future Gods chosen man for u wouldn’t be leading with that 🙏💓
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@jaimealexander2505 Жыл бұрын
@@bigtreecombatacademy2927 I resonate with this so much- I don’t mind being made aware of something I am doing wrong or not doing- it should be brought to my attention with the goal of not being hurtful and to resolve the issue not attack someone’s character
@krisstiscott9257 Жыл бұрын
Wow! This explains my current situation. I such little time he has been so amazing. I was short on a bill and my day was just off and he felt it in our text Messages. He simply ask what was wrong I didn't want to but I told him and he sent me more than what I needed. He communicates on a daily. He also tells me daily how beautiful I am and never fails to mention how into me he is. I always pray ask for guidance. Thank you so much for your videos. I'm definitely taking heed to your advice. Blessings to you❤.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@blam9360 Жыл бұрын
Your videos helped me get my husband, and now I'm sharing your videos with my bestie so she find the right man God has for her! ♥️
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response ❤ 🙏
@dafnenoel9825 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful ❤
@tashamack8701 Жыл бұрын
Aww congratulations!!!!! Hopefully I will find the right man myself.
@blam9360 Жыл бұрын
@@tashamack8701 Thank you! You might find the book "Married in 12 months or less" helpful, if you need extra resources, in addition to Stephan's material. 😊
@ChanelKas4Ай бұрын
I asked Yahweh to prepare me for marriage and He led me to your page. Watching all your videos made healed my wounds thru Christ and your teachings are making me into a better partner
@Petra.80 Жыл бұрын
Is it attractive to see a man that loves God! That is wisdom and confidence.. Stephan, keep drawing closer to him.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤ 🙏
@jasha5847 Жыл бұрын
It is the most attractive strength a man can possess if it's genuine. Godly women recognize it immediately, it's a pleasure to be in their presence and to witness the praise of the Lord coming from the dept of their heart. (Eyes to see and ears to hear how they Love King Jesus) Amen
@STBR-yp7jo7 ай бұрын
This is SO true! There’s nothing more attractive to me than this and sadly, it’s rare to find.
@Candy-fr6jz Жыл бұрын
God has truly gifted you with spiritual insight and practical understanding in how women and men work and think in relationships and how to communicate that to others. Every video I watch speaks to me and helps me. Is what I need to hear to keep me grounded, on the right track when dealing with men, and in waiting for the right one God has for me. Even when it is hard, it can be a struggle with our desires...believe me. But like you said God knows who is best for us and truly that is what I want deep down to have a happy fulfilled God ordained relationship. I don't want to settle for less even if temptation arises. Pray for me! As I keep close to God and keep seeking Him. God Bless you Stephan.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well!
@Laloca0123 Жыл бұрын
Amén 🙏🏼 great video! I Married the right MAN! When I was 17. We’ve been married for 18 years now and 4 beautiful blessings! It’s a lot of work but it’s so worth it ❤ I don’t want to live this life with anyone else
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@chika_7111 Жыл бұрын
I'm 17 and I believe I've found the right one, we're 6 months in 🥹🥰
@sharonbraselton4302 Жыл бұрын
sex dungon tiokn
@CarmenPerez-kz6rw4 ай бұрын
Why do you need the advice of this channel?
@sarahchalmers1122 Жыл бұрын
I actually really adore your channel. There’s a lot of women like me who can be avoidant, scared in love. You’re really good at explaining the good men, and you’re really good at knowing how a cynical woman like myself thinks when she encounters one.
@unicorn73212 Жыл бұрын
Yeah there convenient targets though because we know there not actually good men they dress in such a way like there going golfing and they pretend like they care about women and God They also pretend like there not like the other guys but they actually are worse because you won't find out till the very end of the relationship that he was using you. The only women these guys can trick though are there mamas and women that barely became legal to drink. If they had skill and value they would stop picking on the amaters and the girls that don't know any better yet they would date on there level and look for someone that can help keep them successful. She can be younger then him I don't care but not so damn young that she doesn't know what your up to that's gross anyways it's like mixing expired meat with fresh it all goes bad pretty quickly when you put him next to something that has better quality..
@linettelow Жыл бұрын
What you need is always going to be better than what you want. Core desires of genuine love, communication, shared values, safety & security, peace, spirituality and family will be there. And the depth of connection will feel like a piece of God. That’s amazing, and so well articulated, Stephan. Comprehensive yet to the point, that’s why we appreciate you and this channel because you’re a force for good. Thank you.🫶😊
@kemzytdiva Жыл бұрын
This was actually truth am scared of me loosing my self in the relationship because I haven't meant someone that give me the peace of mind and I feel empty in my heart I have no worry or doubts over the relationship than in the past
@seekthegood5138 Жыл бұрын
#4 is hitting me like there is no tomorrow! I've NEVER felt so vulnerable in my life! I feel this man, I recently met is way to good for me! This is a very scary feeling because I feel like he is going to break my heart. 💔 I'm listening to a lot of your videos trying to figure out how to make this potential relationship successful. I believe when we finally meet sparks are going to fly and that connection will be there. We shall see. I'm going to keep educating myself on how to be a better partner. A whole video on feeling vulnerable is needed. 😌
@ashleysessoms4967 Жыл бұрын
I felt vulnerable and man I wish I wasn’t smh. Big mad lol
@nm2795 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I totally tried the no attraction thing. I thought he was a good a guy. Nope nope. I prayed and prayed and God definitely opened my eyes
@michellewhalen6943 Жыл бұрын
I think your quote about the “total package” is spot on…I believe some of us live in a delusional state missing what God has for us.
@PrincessOfLight008 Жыл бұрын
You’re getting me through some rough times here. Thank you, God is using you my friend. Thank you for speaking/spreading what God puts in your heart to share with us🙏💕
@tehonnamallet4353 Жыл бұрын
This is so facts. God has given me a man he knew I needed. And I have never in my life felt like this. And not even felt. The facts are so fine to me. I can have the hard conversations with him. And we stay good. We have shared values. Do we agree about everything no. But core issues are the same. He brings out the lady in me. And when I am with him it’s nothing better but god. I agree with this video
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@womensfinancialempowerment8039 Жыл бұрын
I almost cried watching this. It’s an amazing feeling to find that one!
@fosterjanine5112 Жыл бұрын
I deserve love and respect just for being alive and I was destined for greatness! Also, if anyone can't acknowledge my worth then they are not meant to be in my life. No one in this world can tell me who I am if they don't know who they are and i live my life on my terms not on the world's terms or society's terms! I am real person with real feelings with their own wishes, desires and needs abs I am nobody's slave, object or possession! I belong to myself and to the most high. A man doesn't love you if he hits you or forces you to compromise your relationship with God and tried to mold you into who he wants you to be rather than appreciating you for who you are! Never sell your dignity for a man.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@aw529109 Жыл бұрын
I MARRIED someone who I’m not attracted to and I’m paying for it now. Man you speak the truth 😢
@veganblueberry11119 ай бұрын
bruh😭🤣
@vaclinciapounds8859 Жыл бұрын
This video is right on the nail! It is very important to have that connection on an emotional, mental, and spiritual level! I always tell one of my homegirls that when you put God first, everything else falls into place. Communication has to be consistent and a close relationship with God in order the relationship to thrive and grow. I am gaining so much insight from watching your videos. God bless you! 🙌🏾 🙌🏾 👏🏽 ❤️ 🙏🏽
@callmestiix94 Жыл бұрын
I’ve felt all these things with a man and he was the one that wouldn’t be emotionally vulnerable and ran from the connection. And that there is annoying .
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@Jesuslover296 Жыл бұрын
Exactly Stephan! Yes! Im stronger now! Sick of 32 yrs of abuse. I wont put up w bullshit anymore from any man! I found myself in the process. Ive found my true self and people see my change and dont like it. I say tough shit! This is me loving myself! I truly know what i want and need.
@leslieiris70934 ай бұрын
Good for you keep going!!!❤😊
@BengisuAyse Жыл бұрын
as one of the lucky ladies who has actually found what God had for me, I approve all of these messages.
@starbetheljudah380522 сағат бұрын
I went through all this I felt something from jump, felt myself change and willing too but only for him. He listens to me and all that I love him and dont feel bad about it. I try to seek god more and even thanked him for this man from my heart. We only friends but everything you listed happened or is going on
@vorbis4860 Жыл бұрын
Point 4 DOES deserve its own video. I hope you make that video. Thank you for bringing it up at all! I see women run away from this all the time because they haven't healed. Too many spend too much time railing against how so many men are terrible and how the world needs better men...and then they have NO idea how to handle one when he shows up...and then they hurt him, thus disincentivizing that same goodness they screamed for.
@678tanesha Жыл бұрын
This is my favorite video you've ever done. Thank you for your consistency and genuine concern with helping us women who are lost when it comes to men.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Glad I could help 🙏
@sarahchalmers1122 Жыл бұрын
OMG yes I had masculine energy previously and now I’m all up in feminine energy and I’m scared
@Big_mulla001 Жыл бұрын
Its well. i am still waiting for the man god has me. and for everyone expecting theirs, thy lord will grant your heart desires. AMEN
@Christina_320 Жыл бұрын
Prepare me Lord please get me ready. 🙏🏼☺️💓
@michellelynch5186 Жыл бұрын
This is so true, I have found him- well he tells me that he found me after some years of searching. He ticks all the qualities you have mentioned. We have not known each other long, yet it feels like we have known each other for years. Most importantly he is a true man of god 🙏🏾 Thank you for your video which has been confirmation
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@sugerlipsxjamiewright4170 Жыл бұрын
I Don't feel you need to compromise I do know that Love doesn't Need to be worked on .when it should be as natural as taking a breath. I don't wish nor Need for Anyone to have to "try" to love Me Simple .
@tiffanysabrinag Жыл бұрын
Phew thank you. That take some pressure off. I attract these nice men that treat me pretty decent but I don’t find them attractive. I’m like I hope I’m not being vain but I ain’t good at pretending
@KellyMontgomery-z6m Жыл бұрын
As a Christian Stephen....I so appreciate this video the most amongst all of your other videos. This is what I'm seeking....all five....thank you.
@tabisu4905 Жыл бұрын
I can't be vulnerable. Or I'm too vulnerable. I can't tell. I have intrusive thoughts that it's right or wrong. Its two extremes and it's exhausting. I get it wrong lots of times. So I try to pray. But I think I might be getting that wrong too. The struggle is real
@ShamikaMarie Жыл бұрын
I pray that this man enters my life soon according to Gods will!🙏 ❤🫶😇🙌🥰✨️🍯✍️
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤ 🙏
@lazedracheatom5182 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this message I’m single and don’t have any male friends right now due to I’m waiting for my husband from the Lord 🙏🏽🙌🏽May God keep blessing you Stephan
@bigtreecombatacademy2927 Жыл бұрын
Good luck sister 🙏💓
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@annaisis7510 Жыл бұрын
The quality of the relationship doesn't suffer when he's more attracted to you than you are to him🎉
@mbaes02 Жыл бұрын
I think my boyfriend is the man I want to spend my life with, but because of my deep fears and not healing, I am losing him and I am so sad. I just want to be better. We love each other very much
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@alhassanfirrdous7292 Жыл бұрын
Gather confidence
@bigtreecombatacademy2927 Жыл бұрын
I think I may have found the woman god has for me We seem insanely aligned , only issue is she lives in another state I’m just being patient and working on myself till it’s gods time for us But I’m taking her out asap
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@lasherarandolph1301 Жыл бұрын
I recently started talking to a guy & from the 2nd-5th day we will stay hours otp talking about the serious topics. He fits all the points you listed. He’s also vulnerable. Once we met it felt natural bc there wasn’t any awkward moments due to us already knowing so much about e.o… I also pray & keep God first & I send him church links that he’s interested in watching. He’s the same sign as me ♒️ & it’s different for the both of us. I’m glad I came across this video bc I will share it with him. Keep up the great work ❤️❤️
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@ga_budgetinglifestyle8582 Жыл бұрын
God has definitely sent me the right man. I couldn’t agree more with these 5 signs as I’ve experienced them all with him :)
@carolinew996423 күн бұрын
This man would have to fight for me most walk away even if you ask them normal questions. Sometimes I can't be bothered anymore
@user-fh1tr9zp3l Жыл бұрын
My dear Steph you just gave me five more reasons to trust God He alone can locate and bring this fine gentleman to me Just have to whisper in my Lord s ear Let him be tall strong and muscular , hope am not asking to much 😂 God bless you Stephan Good afternoon all
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
@staceyburns3010 Жыл бұрын
I had a guy say he felt more comfortable talking to me than with anyone else but I never initiated the conversations. I always talk to him if he reaches out but i'm not attracted to him like that.
@princessj830 Жыл бұрын
Amen! Our desires should align with God's will . Daddy knows best!
@elemachrists7729 Жыл бұрын
Dear brother am listening your advices because you are anointed from God. Thank you I love you stay blessed as always!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that 🙏
@YBE.Industries Жыл бұрын
You ain't ever failed to call me out 💀😭💚 all love but dang, can you be wrong ONCE lol (jokes, you're doing God's work, thank you for allowing him to use your vessel to deliver these messages)
@Gabigalworld Жыл бұрын
You are spot on. Clear communication and valuable advice. You can witness several connections in different levels when you are awaken to the astral realms
@pilipinay3512 Жыл бұрын
Oh my! I’ve been hard on myself every time I meet a guy who seems to be nice, sweet, respectful… but not physically attractive to me. I’ve been asking myself why not give them a chance, one of them could be the right man for me. I feel bad whenever I tried to imagine myself kissing the man, it doesn’t feel right. I’ve been trying to convince myself that physical attraction isn’t important because that preference is just fleshly desire. I was wrong. I’m thankful for this video 💕🙏
@iam_Jaia Жыл бұрын
Thank you for constantly reinforcing the truths that we receive in our closets 🙌🙌
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@joeyjo7553 Жыл бұрын
I’m making a promise that the next man I’ll be with is gonna be my husband. I’m so tired of wasting my time with people who just push me away from my purpose. Just got out of toxic relationship with a narcissist man, he loved bomb me and I knew it from day one I should of listened to my gutt.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Always important to listen to your intuition. I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏
@joeyjo7553 Жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you 🙏🏻!!
@watchmeglow6095 Жыл бұрын
I had an experience like this and it was refreshing. There was definitely attraction and chemistry apparent.. it was just nice to feel comfortable and really connect with someone on a real level but ehh it ended up fizzling out. I guess he wasn’t for me🤷🏾♀️ I’m letting him go but I’m so grateful for the experience It definitely showed me some fears and insecurities that i needed to heal. I was still open to work through them and allow myself to be open to giving him a try but he started getting distant so we haven’t been able to explore the connection.. i guess that’s something i have to get used to with dating. Currently working on letting go of control and going with the flow but I’m not gonna lie I’m ready for my love lolol hoping i don’t have to kiss too many frogs to get to my prince!🙏🏾🙏🏾
@clarizendaya6274 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Stephan. I didnt see those red flags. I think that's why my marriage failed, i refused to see that we didnt have a real connection. All the time i kept my true self for fear of rejection. Now, i am dating someone that has more connection, better communication, and it's true, i feel more vulnerable with him but scared at the same time cause im afraid of losing him.
@Cindy_Love_20259 ай бұрын
Great quote!❤️💯 Great video 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@MeetStephanSpeaks9 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@Cindy_Love_20259 ай бұрын
You’re welcome 😉
@wen28704 ай бұрын
Great video. Thank you. I'm learning a lot from your videos. Such great information.
@gamze6713 Жыл бұрын
Oh my God everything in this video I've experienced with my fav ex😭😭 after our relationship is ended I've found myself in a healing journey for a couple of years, such a blessing ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@gamze6713 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Stephan. I am a fan of you and your podcast.
@robinchilds7492 Жыл бұрын
My last relationship was with a narcissist. They can fool you and get you hooked. I even bought him your book He Who Finds A Wife. He read it, took another woman to Florida with him and ended our 4 year relationship when he came home.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@em4634 Жыл бұрын
Please please please can you make a video about more on when you mentioned how you'll feel like you're losing yourself because you've identified for so long as being the person with the walls up, etc.? We love you! ❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!
@lorylovesmakeup2 Жыл бұрын
can you please do a video on why men ghost? more specifically, I was in a relationship with someone for about a year, and then we broke up (due to us not being healed from our past, nothing bad actually happened between us). we tried to reconnect/get back together recently (7 months after we broke up), and then he completely ghosted me out of nowhere. while we were reconnecting, he said he never got over me and realized how great of a relationship we had and he wanted to try to get back together but was super super scared of doing so (even though he broke up with me). its just so weird that he said all those things to me like how he regretted breaking up with me, and I was willing to give him a second chance, but the more we hung out and the more feelings that came back up, the more he pulled away and eventually just ghosted me out of nowhere. he has a fearful avoidant attachment style so im sure that has to do with it (and im an anxious attachment style but ive been working on healing). a video regarding this would be super helpful!
@ssmith766 Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@shawnee9381 Жыл бұрын
I like the shirt 😊. When u heal you will recognize him/her. I enjoy being in the field. Listening to your advice makes dating easier. Thanks for the content.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@kittenbrown248410 ай бұрын
I pray that you will be Godly yoked to your future wife, and nothing but blessings for you both,and your legacy. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾💯
@sanamuhammad97 Жыл бұрын
The first point is so important! I tried giving a chance to a guy who i wasn't attracted to at all, just because he was a nice guy! Let's just say it didn't go well! I had no interest in being around him or treat him like someone who'd be my husband one day! I really tried but i just couldn't.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@santinapierre7873 Жыл бұрын
True facts God comes first
@surfer3662 Жыл бұрын
I have been watching your videos recently but didn't realize that you were the same person who wrote"God where is my Boaz" which I bought in 2017 !! So I met this guy from online and we have been communicating intensely for more than one month. Everything seemed great and we were vulnerable to each other. The attraction was obviously there for both of us. He's not a believer and he said that he is inspired by my spirituality and starting search God. I watched one of your videos, so I asked God multiple times whether I should deal with this guy. Funny enough coz out of the blue he blocked me and we stopped communicating just like that. At that point I felt like I had an instant response from God and I take that as a lesson. Surprisingly I don't resent him at all yet I pray that he finds God so that God can enter his life. Yes I did cry for this to happen but I decided to put my faith in God and never stop hoping and believing in Him while keep trying to be a better me. I trust him that I will find my person, the best man God has for me. Since your name sounds french, so I would say ... Merci Stéphane for all your videos and your books. It truly helps me, sincerely ❤️❤️❤️
@shoots1210 Жыл бұрын
God bless you bro. So helpful. Love and light always brother
@yetthieydkuka Жыл бұрын
Really the best relationship coach
@TinaBeauty2000 Жыл бұрын
Yes Stephan, I'm needing help with healing from my past.I've been taken advantage of and abused . I'm working on finding me first ,not making that the next man responsibility to find who I am.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@OhioGalReads Жыл бұрын
From day 1, the communication has been amazing!😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@victoriashuuluka2508 Жыл бұрын
I am currently reading The Man God has for You and I couldn't be more grateful for stumbling over your page... I wish I had come across your content sooner, I could have avoided so much heartbreak
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
🙏
@Merky-Merk01 Жыл бұрын
We have all these, but he's holding back due to extremely bad experiences in the past with wrong women....I'm praying all the time.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
@Verdeoxid Жыл бұрын
Sometimes you speak so loud that is uncomfortable using headphones. Thank you for the video, good resume ✨
@makelifematter1896 Жыл бұрын
I Love how you try to be honest but also light hearted my therory its not the outside that counts its whom you are on the inside we all should be blind tyen we couldnt judge.
@ishamunu128311 күн бұрын
Focus on loving yourself, being disciplined, having a good relationship with God, and good people & knowing your value and not standing for anything less. having standards for yourself and others and knowing your worth, exuding that with the way you carry yourself and talk
@aaliyahpostell6985 Жыл бұрын
Watching This Confirms My Relationship & Our New Family Is Heaven Sent
@janicewitzke9529 Жыл бұрын
I feel this way.but he just wants to be friends.
@sheriehubert8242 Жыл бұрын
I have all this with an Amazing MAN!!! He blows my mind however, I am healed & he is not but I am giving him space to do so with letting him know that I am here for him. He is the one who is running away or it scares him. The connection is something I have never felt
@sheriehubert8242 Жыл бұрын
It is definitely deeply spiritual & I am attracted to him but it's definitely not lust!!! He asked me out & I wasn't looking but it's like he wasn't ready to experience a Woman like me. We have excellent conversations/communication & chemistry & attraction but he is healing. My question is why did he ask me out when he knew he was broken but he was honest when we went on our first & only date. His love for GOD is very attractive because GOD is my all & all & we both definitely share the same values
@simplypositiveme Жыл бұрын
Oh wow!!!!😮😊 I'm looking forward to him!!!!❤ So much love, beautiful soul and thank you!
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤️
@veronicadiaz1513 Жыл бұрын
Omg, I'm the dam unhealed person. My exact words was I feel like I'm losing myself, I literally wanted to run! I feel very much attacked. This justified I need to heal more. I got work to do.
@MrsEarth-pf4cr Жыл бұрын
Happy you put the attraction part for #1; honestly i thought i may not be attracted to him, also a Christian here
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@Justyouraverageguy172 Жыл бұрын
This so helpful as now I know for sure I was the man for my ex and she was the woman for me in college, but we both weren’t mature enough yet to enter into marriage without having the proper understanding, communication, and relationship with God.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@Gonehiking89 Жыл бұрын
The Lord knew that I needed this. ❤
@michelleportch6227 Жыл бұрын
I’m a witch. I see God in always. We can see everything.
@sharonbraselton4302 Жыл бұрын
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@MissMarceline-wp6oq Жыл бұрын
Havent found a man either and i am 53.
@teresacroft7409 Жыл бұрын
A lot of women who have men either found a real prince charming (odds about 1 in a million), or they settle for less and put with a lot of crap.
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you 🙏