When GOD Sends You THE ONE

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Stephan Speaks

Stephan Speaks

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@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
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@ceciliamurray4959
@ceciliamurray4959 2 жыл бұрын
Blessings to you brother
@AmahreTheRose
@AmahreTheRose 2 жыл бұрын
When I tell you, every word you spoke was prophetic and inspired by God! I’m in tears right now! Thank you! 💯🙏🏽
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you.
@chica2086
@chica2086 2 жыл бұрын
These were perfectly great and heavy points that came through!!!! Thankyou for putting these important things out!
@TrevorJM
@TrevorJM 2 жыл бұрын
What do you do when your mother tells you you must not continue a relationship, because her spirit does not agree with the spirit of your girlfriend?
@netterz3411
@netterz3411 2 жыл бұрын
I prayed to God one night asking him to send me "the one" and how I'm so tired of dealing with the wrong ones. No joke soon after I prayed I met my husband. He litterally answered my prayers it was crazy! Been together 15 years now and still going strong 🥰
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@stephanieo8933
@stephanieo8933 2 жыл бұрын
Congraltions sis I am still prayed for a boyfriend God bless you and your family.🙏❤
@EmeraldLuvsYouALL
@EmeraldLuvsYouALL 2 жыл бұрын
Aww ❤️ amazing luv it
@esperantabadette6932
@esperantabadette6932 2 жыл бұрын
Comgrats🎉🎉🎉🎉hope God will do it for me too when he wants😊❤i’m waiting to him ❤❤❤🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
@esperantabadette6932
@esperantabadette6932 2 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks ❤🙏🏾🫶🏾👏🏾amen amen amen🧎🏾‍♀️🧎🏾‍♀️🧎🏾‍♀️🙇🏾‍♀️🙇🏾‍♀️🙇🏾‍♀️
@user-vk7ex8xg1i
@user-vk7ex8xg1i 2 жыл бұрын
Remember, God doesn't always send us who we want, but he sends us who we need.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
💯 Yes! Thank you for sharing ❤
@christiansnaturestudio6599
@christiansnaturestudio6599 2 жыл бұрын
What if I am not happy of the woman He sent me? Depression intensifies. I hate college and labor
@christiansnaturestudio6599
@christiansnaturestudio6599 2 жыл бұрын
Damn dating sounds iring especially when I never had a gf that I want.
@Pinkcandy777
@Pinkcandy777 2 жыл бұрын
@@christiansnaturestudio6599 she's not good 4 u please be careful 🙏
@JesusCamejo2012
@JesusCamejo2012 2 жыл бұрын
i do not think so, God is Almighty he would never sent someone you do not clearly love brethren, God is genuire perfect, he knows what is good for you and for your lifetime
@RosaX305
@RosaX305 Жыл бұрын
When I met my husband, he said he had been praying for me. I responded by telling him I was preparing myself for him. We married a year to the day after meeting, and we have never been apart longer than 10 hours since the day we met.
@istandforfreedom1111
@istandforfreedom1111 Жыл бұрын
❤️ thats beautiful 😍
@Eve90
@Eve90 Жыл бұрын
God bless you
@gapeach7814
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
So beautiful
@juliarodrigues8085
@juliarodrigues8085 Жыл бұрын
This is beautiful indeed. I believe God is preparing me too. I wish you both a long fulfilling life together ❤
@rachaelramos
@rachaelramos Жыл бұрын
Damn if I ever got married I'm sure my hubby would drive me nuts to where I need to go away 😂
@foodforthought2374
@foodforthought2374 2 жыл бұрын
It’s important that people realize that when GOD sends “the one” - that does not mean there will not be troubles. There will be obstacles to overcome. With the right partner this can be done. I think some people tend to fall into the misconception that because God brought you together it’s going to be smooth and seamless. It can bring a time if needed testing and that brings bonding.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@Tankybuff
@Tankybuff 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, challenges can be revealing or bring bonding
@Ronnie_Darko00
@Ronnie_Darko00 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@carolinaangeles4223
@carolinaangeles4223 Жыл бұрын
💯
@ADShine2022
@ADShine2022 Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I’m experiencing now
@naltikun5784
@naltikun5784 Жыл бұрын
I believe sometimes God sends you someone you think is the one but is really a life lesson to prepare and get stronger for the true one at the right time 👍
@skst8675
@skst8675 Жыл бұрын
I am agree
@sanharrison7533
@sanharrison7533 Жыл бұрын
AMENNNN
@BB25_25
@BB25_25 Жыл бұрын
No, that’s a counterfeit. God isn’t the god of confusion, he wouldn’t do that.
@skst8675
@skst8675 Жыл бұрын
@BB25_25 yes he does sometimes to give a specific experience you need to go further in some purpose. To go higher you need to be stronger and have more capacity in your mentality :)
@BB25_25
@BB25_25 Жыл бұрын
@@skst8675 a specific experience maybe, but God wouldn't send you a guy to mess you around, sleep with you and abuse you. That's an excuse to stay in a toxic relationship and make sense of it. You've turned away from God to follow these routes. Learn from bad experiences of course, but don't believe they're from God. When you turn to God he'll never send you down that road, go to him when these people come into your life and pray for guidance.
@serenenana8821
@serenenana8821 6 ай бұрын
I read today, "when God is not giving you guidance, stay where you are". Love this.
@endswithme555
@endswithme555 4 ай бұрын
💯 There’s a purpose in the wait. Divine timing is a real thing
@nettastrawberry2709
@nettastrawberry2709 3 жыл бұрын
Trust the process. Everything is connected.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@believe1423
@believe1423 Жыл бұрын
Amen sister!!!!
@teneekaedmund5236
@teneekaedmund5236 2 жыл бұрын
Put God first in everything!!. There is really a God, I prayed asking God to show me if my ex was the one for me, God showed me the very next day that he was cheating. After a few months later I prayed to him asking him to send a God fearing man and the right man for me he sent him and I thank God everytime and give him the Glory and the praise 👏🏽 NEVER STOP PRAYING 🙏🏽
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@charlyblack763
@charlyblack763 Жыл бұрын
True pray never stop and trust him
@knowledgenerd2hinkle275
@knowledgenerd2hinkle275 Жыл бұрын
Be...au...ti...ful🎉❤🎉😊
@sophiaf.
@sophiaf. 2 жыл бұрын
When God sends you 👈🏾the one ☝🏾… “Be Thankful 🙌🏾” “Trust Him 🤞🏾” “Pray 🙏🏾” “Relax 🧘🏽‍♀️” & “Rest 😴”
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙏
@charlyblack763
@charlyblack763 Жыл бұрын
True trust him
@mikyl-fo8rh
@mikyl-fo8rh Жыл бұрын
Be alert of the devil and her jealous girlfriends who will work to sabotage the relationship
@ladybug644
@ladybug644 Жыл бұрын
The resting part... I've waited so long already
@sophiaf.
@sophiaf. Жыл бұрын
@@ladybug644 Isaiah 40:31
@kat1546
@kat1546 2 жыл бұрын
I pray that we meet the person that God prepare for us.❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙏
@SELAHCENDACAO
@SELAHCENDACAO 8 ай бұрын
Amen❤
@teejaybee9
@teejaybee9 7 ай бұрын
Amen, Amen, Amen 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 👏🏾
@chichibwali2033
@chichibwali2033 4 ай бұрын
Amen 🙏
@vallinthewild2802
@vallinthewild2802 2 ай бұрын
And the one He's preparing US for ❤
@DailyElevate
@DailyElevate 2 ай бұрын
7 months ago, I met the best man; however, I kept asking God to remove him from my life if he wasn't the one. Well, this morning, God showed me. My friend found him on the dating sites. I'm ending it today. It hurts so bad, but I am so happy God is clearing the path for me to meet the man for me.
@charlinecharlostin3188
@charlinecharlostin3188 Жыл бұрын
God will have you meet the right person, but not let the relationship work immediately because he has to develop you.
@Kay-jw8fv
@Kay-jw8fv 2 жыл бұрын
“When god bring you the original the devil brings you the impostor” wow. So true speaking from experience!!!!
@carolyncobb2745
@carolyncobb2745 Жыл бұрын
I couldn't believe that this happened in older relationships.
@kaaaatttttth
@kaaaatttttth Жыл бұрын
It just happened to me very recently
@cy8zf6ldae85
@cy8zf6ldae85 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to this when the devil send you the imposter, confusion will occur , but when God sends you the original...just one look you'll be in peace.
@sixteen.candles.4644
@sixteen.candles.4644 8 ай бұрын
Yes. Devil sent my persistent counterfeit BD and God sent me my amazing Godly Bf.
@carlagrado7201
@carlagrado7201 7 ай бұрын
Yes. I agree and I asked about it yesterday and He gave me scripture to back it up. I still don't know who is who...
@molinajoseph7315
@molinajoseph7315 2 жыл бұрын
Psalms 37:23- The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord, and he delighteth in his way.
@ReformedByChristAlone
@ReformedByChristAlone Жыл бұрын
Amen.
@calla859
@calla859 Жыл бұрын
Anen
@kathyford9930
@kathyford9930 Жыл бұрын
Amen
@graceballore7016
@graceballore7016 Жыл бұрын
I want to put my prayer here too..God pls send the right person for me Im so tired of loving the wrong person.🙏
@Play-jv3oi
@Play-jv3oi Жыл бұрын
Pray from your heart and he will answer
@anteantic986
@anteantic986 Жыл бұрын
stop choosing wrong men i understand you women choose guys based how much you get wet but i dont belive that's godly way
@elly-smileyndume6806
@elly-smileyndume6806 4 ай бұрын
It’s you and me 🙏🏾. In the name of Jesus.
@elly-smileyndume6806
@elly-smileyndume6806 4 ай бұрын
It’s you and me 🙏🏾. In the name of Jesus.
@shaylajenkins3475
@shaylajenkins3475 3 жыл бұрын
This is such a good topic. It helps me realize again that my fiancé is the man God has sent to me. We met 1 1/2 before we started dating, and we were definitely nowhere near ready for each other. Right place, wrong time. He was in the middle of a separation from his wife, and I was stuck in a relationship that I couldn’t get myself out of (my own personal battle). But after we were able to get out of the bad relationships we were in and I grew closer to God, we started dating and helped him grow closer to God. He’s still working on his faith, I’m still working on mine. But we work on it together and individually.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
@chiqui0816
@chiqui0816 3 жыл бұрын
Wow!! Your story is so relatable🙏 It's a struggle and a huge spiritual battle. I pray your relationship grows in the Lord.
@watchingyoutwo3800
@watchingyoutwo3800 3 жыл бұрын
If Angels put you together than your misappropriation by the Angels and your dna needs to be checked and that you might be to close for comfort and that you are considered“Incest” and are out of Gods’ hands and on your own! Never to be an actual Angels!!
@brendarodrigues3046
@brendarodrigues3046 3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful. Thanks for sharing. It’s rewarding to be able to share the most intimate parts of yourself with someone who has the desire to truly know you. Building together starts a little something like this. Kudos!!! Both of you built a connection through Christ not trauma. It’s already off to a healthy start. Blessings BIG BIG L💞VE - 🌺InspirationByB
@chabee3666
@chabee3666 3 жыл бұрын
Lol someone’s husband you entertained you believe he’s your soul mate and god sent him to you lol why would you think He’d send you to him and him to you. Neither of you have closed the door on the relations you were in. Good luck with that.
@mirandaokon
@mirandaokon 3 жыл бұрын
🗣The bigger the blessing, the greater the attack💯
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely!
@browneyes6795
@browneyes6795 2 жыл бұрын
Wow that's deep
@tabithabryan
@tabithabryan 2 жыл бұрын
Whew Chile...Now thats a word.💯
@jessicadavis1149
@jessicadavis1149 Жыл бұрын
Its true 😩
@gabriellove8488
@gabriellove8488 3 жыл бұрын
Who else appreciate this
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@gabriellove8488
@gabriellove8488 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks God bless
@ingrained2train
@ingrained2train Жыл бұрын
I remember I was working with my therapist and he asked me what I wanted in a wife So I wrote it down He said “good, now let it go, trust God, and start loving yourself” I did just that and not even a month later I reconnected with a woman who I met years earlier who wound being the exact woman I wrote down with my therapist! She literally checks all my boxes, my soulmate, the perfect woman for me and we’re getting married! So amazing what happens when you know what you want and love yourself in the process
@viennabella4591
@viennabella4591 Жыл бұрын
WOW! What a beautiful story!!!!
@ingrained2train
@ingrained2train Жыл бұрын
@@viennabella4591 thank you so much 🙌🙏
@giojuanchulo
@giojuanchulo Жыл бұрын
is it okay to leave my girlfriend because of her past? it makes me feel sick and besides that she often lied about it… i don’t like Liars and a bad past hurts me help…
@gapeach7814
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
Congrats
@gapeach7814
@gapeach7814 Жыл бұрын
@@giojuanchuloou need to find a therapist as well to work through that.
@crystalmccade7225
@crystalmccade7225 2 жыл бұрын
I like the part where he says that alot of people think that if you have a connection that means everything will go smoothly. Connections are very intense and people can feel vulnerable. If there is any lack of healing it will get exposed. Theres alot that can go wrong if we do not habdle it correctly. Slow down and pray some more. Ask God how to proceed regardless if you feel they are the one for you.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace prying and asking God how to proceed.
@olufunker.awosogba2654
@olufunker.awosogba2654 3 жыл бұрын
Main Points (and just a few of MANY gems) 1. Slow down and pray more. Verify with God if the person is the person for you and how to proceed. 2. Be prepared for chaos The devil does not want what God wants to join together to happen Beware of outside noise "When God is bringing you the original, be prepared for the devil to bring you the imposter" 3. Be open, honest, and transparent Especially about how you feel about the person 4. Don't have sex Can cloud judgement and focus on the wrong things Can hinder deeper emotional and spiritual connection 5. Lean on God's understanding ...when the relationship is going great as well as when it is not 6. Listen to your spirit and not just signs Be careful about asking for signs because the devil can throw signs The same sign can be interpreted in different ways. Always go back to God to confirm signs. 7. Trust His timing Romans 8:28 This was amazing, invaluable, and so needed. Many speak about preparing for the one but this is the first I've heard a speaker focus on what to do when we come across the one.
@markdenton2883
@markdenton2883 Жыл бұрын
I prayed for my wife and my wife prayed for me and through God we met. We saved ourselves for marriage I waited and saved myself for 7 years prior and we even now have a strong relationship and keeping building up on our faith is one of the most important thing you can do. Keep God first before you focus on anything else and God will lead you through to where you need to be.
@eloiseprays
@eloiseprays 3 ай бұрын
Thats beautiful ❤
@JNS0702
@JNS0702 Жыл бұрын
This hits my soul. I met my one at the wrong time. The connection from the first time we met and spoke was like no other. I have never felt a connection with anyone. This man brings such a feeling of sense and calm in his presence. He makes me want to be a better person. He draws me closer to god. Everything is perfect. My walls came down. I was so vulnerable with him in ways I’ve never been with anyone. The first 2 months was heaven. That was the calm before the storm. I was not prepared for what followed. In so many ways. All of our insecurities started rearing their ugly heads and has torn us apart. I prayed to god and was so mad. I asked why would he do this to me. My life was changing. He did that to show me of all by pain and hurt from my past that I had to heal from. It took this for me to see how all my past hurt and pain was playing a part in my life and relationships. I am now walking in my journey of healing and growing spiritually. And man healing from past hurt and pain hard. Very hard. I know that this is what god has planned for me. I am trusting in my god to guide me and heal me. I pray that my one will walk his journey to healing as well and we connect again. This connection is so strong. He is my soulmate. I feel it. I see it. I sense it. God tells me to not give up on him. God is leading me and I am following.
@carldouglas7777
@carldouglas7777 10 ай бұрын
Praying for you both,
@JNS0702
@JNS0702 10 ай бұрын
@@carldouglas7777 thank you.
@zayraroa
@zayraroa 7 ай бұрын
amen ❤
@teejaybee9
@teejaybee9 6 ай бұрын
I pray that you both heal from past hurt, lean on God, and walk the path that he has for you. What God has for you is for you.
@JNS0702
@JNS0702 6 ай бұрын
@@teejaybee9 thank you. I appreciate it
@Myret
@Myret 9 ай бұрын
I stopped praying for “the one” because I’ve prayed for many years. I’ve changed and grown so much, but apparently my other prayers are by far more important.
@essking2877
@essking2877 Жыл бұрын
You are really operating in your gift when you coach from God's perspective. Thank you!
@kimjones3262
@kimjones3262 3 жыл бұрын
Years ago God told me to start praying for my husband. After that I didn’t hear anything from God for years relationships came and went still nothing from God. Several years later after a breakup God spoke and said. ‘ praying for your husband doesn’t stop once I send him it’s a continuation’ my thought was that once he’s here my prayers can stop but what I had to realize is that 1. The time/years I spent in prayer wasn’t just for him it was also preparation for me as well. 2. Sometimes God will see how we handle waiting. Will we give up, throw a temper tantrum because it’s taking too long, will we get mad and turn from God? The best way to know a person’s character is how they behave when they don’t get what they want. 3. I have to be willing to obey God when/ if he says ‘ he’s not the one’ I’ve come to the place where I can say God if it’s not him you have my permission to move him ( not always easy to accept believe me). 4. I had to remember that all those years ago God said ‘ pray for YOUR husband not A husband big difference this says that he already knows the man he has for me and I have to trust his timing and will ( again, not always easy)
@patricebyam4361
@patricebyam4361 3 жыл бұрын
Amen Sis. I’m at this level of my spiritually that I have been talking and walking with God. It gets challenge and God knows as well and that’s when He wants us to lean in. I’m praying for everything. Reading the comments someone stated that “God told them to pray for their husband”. I received the same message from Him. This connection has helped me to pray about everything and it’s helping me to heal. Many blessings we are His beloved children.
@Rwissam1987
@Rwissam1987 3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry if I am rude, but how does God speak to you? I have always wondered if people who say this are either lying or delusional. Seems that only Christians seem to teach each other to say things like this. I'm really curious and open minded about hearing the answer.
@kimjones3262
@kimjones3262 3 жыл бұрын
@@patricebyam4361 Amen!! I will join you in continuously praying and doing the work in preparation for the gift of marriage 🙂
@kimjones3262
@kimjones3262 3 жыл бұрын
@@Rwissam1987 No problem thank you for asking. So I hear people say that God doesn’t speak but let me assure you that He does. years ago I was home from college my parents and I went to church and told my brother to lock the back door. We came home assuming the door was locked and went to bed. I was in a deep sleep when I heard God say ‘ wake up!’ the voice wasn’t loud or startling but there was a sense of urgency. I was tired and wanted to go back to sleep again God said ‘ wake up, do not go back to sleep! Look at the door’ when I looked at the door there was a man standing in the doorway. Again God said ‘ do not go back to sleep!’ When I looked again the man was at the foot of my bed and told me not to scream I of course yelled for my father and the man ran out of the house. When the police came and took my statement she said the person I described had raped a girl a few blocks from us. When God speaks it is with clarity sometimes it’s a small voice other times as I mentioned it’s with a sense of urgency. Regarding the story of God telling me to pray for my husband it was almost 15 years before I heard from God again. I’d been asking God why did I need to pray for this man and I don’t even know him? God responded ‘ because of the weight he carries as a father, husband and as a man’ now notice he didn’t say ‘ burden’ he said ‘ weight’ there’s a difference a burden is something we dread carrying but weight builds strength. So I began to pray that God would give him the strength to carry our family and I also prayed that I wouldn’t become like a burden you know the scripture about the nagging wife that causes her husband to go to the rooftop for some peacelol. I prayed God allow me to be the wife he can’t wait to come home to. When we lean in to God and seek answers from him and remain still he speaks in so many ways. Some times he says yes, others no or even not yet but our obedience to his voice is what really matters. I pray this helps. God bless!!
@MA-yc7pz
@MA-yc7pz 3 жыл бұрын
I needed this ❣️
@jenng5925
@jenng5925 3 жыл бұрын
Very timely video. The Devil definitely can send you an imposter. That’s why I silently offer my prayers to God because He reads hearts.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you. Thanks for sharing!
@tarshagreene4661
@tarshagreene4661 Жыл бұрын
I am 47 years old and been a widow for 12 years. I been praying for God to send me the one who will love me and except my 13 year old son. 😊❤
@careyf7859
@careyf7859 Жыл бұрын
Praying for you. I'm 50, been widowed for over 5 years with a 14 yr old daughter. I've also been praying for God to send someone that loves the Lord, would love me and my daughter. God bless!!
@tarshagreene4661
@tarshagreene4661 Жыл бұрын
I will be praying for you and your as well😇
@grayirishgalt
@grayirishgalt Жыл бұрын
Prayed for the one. Saw her shortly after, heard a quiet voice in my head that said ‘that one.’ It was not a love at first sight type of feeling. 25 years together.
@elissabell1213
@elissabell1213 Жыл бұрын
I can attest! When God showed me “the one” all I could do was pray because I could not see how it would happen….it was a very necessary six year process and as discouraged and impatient as I wanted to be, I still had to pray for God to be in control. I’m grateful because even though we “knew”, God knew we weren’t ready and we definitely would’ve messed up!
@naomidambe
@naomidambe 3 ай бұрын
Are you both together now?! 💗
@elizabethmarrerocreates
@elizabethmarrerocreates 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I'm in that process now, 4 years since our first date. How did you stay steady and patient?
@heidifisher8973
@heidifisher8973 3 жыл бұрын
Jealousy and envy is the devil and when outsiders see a soulmate connection between two people they want it for themselves. They usually deep down don't care about the person they are pursuing even though they shower them with attention, compliments even say I love you and will mimic the other person in order to create a false connection. They want the powerful connection, not the person. I absolutely agree with your point about timing. I feel a soul connection with someone atm but I think we both have our own issues to sort out before we proceed into a relationship. Real soulmate connections are intense and overwhelming, exposing our true selves to another person is scary as hell and is why it's so easy to be seduced by the devil.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
It definitely isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!
@chabee3666
@chabee3666 3 жыл бұрын
If you’re with the right person you won’t be afraid to unmask yourself he will let his pride down ans be vulnerable. Ans you will be in your Devine feminine self l, soft and submissive. Trusting. He will make you feel protected. You won’t have those fears. yourself. I’d you’re still making excuses as to why you can’t do this or it’s the wrong time. Than you haven’t met your mate or he hasnt met his.
@NuraDi99
@NuraDi99 3 жыл бұрын
I want to thank you for this message. About 22 years ago I met this beautiful man ( physically & spiritually) at our religious center. We became friends and I found out that I had actually met his family(wife, child, parents, etc.) at a celebration that he didn’t attend. A year later, I met my now ex-husband. After 20 years of marriage to a cold, sneaky man, the only major blessings I received was my 2 daughters. About a month ago, who do I meet again at a mutual gathering of friends but my “ spiritual-he’s-the-one” guy from the past. We were both staring at each other🤩. He called me a week after and we talked about our divorces, laugh a lot, and been dating since. We decided to take things slow. Life is strange and I laugh sometimes wondering if the Almighty, the Devine had a plan all alone. Peace & blessings ✨🌺
@guervensshneidershneideral2487
@guervensshneidershneideral2487 2 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness, we are at the same age
@elevate536
@elevate536 3 жыл бұрын
The outside world is a reflection of how you view yourself! If you love yourself and pour that energy into the universe, you will naturally attract a significant other who matches your energy🦋💭
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Most definitely!
@alliesdbg5092
@alliesdbg5092 3 жыл бұрын
Yaaaas! Thank you my thoughts exactly!!
@alejandragalvan9901
@alejandragalvan9901 3 жыл бұрын
Keep God FIRST and all things will be added unto you. ..
@marcilk7534
@marcilk7534 Жыл бұрын
I met the one 33 years ago. We lost touch about 30 years ago. We talked a few times 19 years ago, but he was married with a child. After some devastating events he went through, I spent 4 years trying to find him to offer help. When we finally reconnected, the time was finally right for us. We are both certain, and we are both ready.
@Solgotmotion33
@Solgotmotion33 3 жыл бұрын
You helped me find the love of my life
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help, I appreciate your feedback!
@feliciapryor855
@feliciapryor855 2 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Lol, you made me laugh when you laughed on the "don't have sex" one...your laugh and the way you hit your leg! 😂 Your laugh is contagious 😂😂
@chinazamefenarhua4257
@chinazamefenarhua4257 Жыл бұрын
Before I used to think that when you meet the one things will go smoothly. I am currently with the one and it has been very tough. I am seeing things in me that needs to be worked on and my relationship with God is also getting better. I pray God gives me the patience to wait on his timing for us to finally be together.
@lisadipasquale6121
@lisadipasquale6121 Жыл бұрын
Being in a relationship with Jesus...the devil will make noise. Being in a relationship with the one God brings to you...the devil will make noise. Anything good from God does not come easy it takes work just like the Christian life.
@wachirasuzy4412
@wachirasuzy4412 Жыл бұрын
It's a difficult situation to be in when you hear God confirming something but in reality is totally the opposite.
@maryyves8312
@maryyves8312 Жыл бұрын
Lord please send me the right one.🙏
@elizabethmarrerocreates
@elizabethmarrerocreates 3 ай бұрын
Definitely tests our trust in God
@lindsaybrown2346
@lindsaybrown2346 3 жыл бұрын
This touched my spirit in so many ways. I was just in the bathroom at work crying and reciting scripture Exodus 14:14 because last week the guy who I think is the one for me ended our relationship because his ex is still coming around and he was torn between the both of us since the ex has been around his daughter and I never met his daughter or family he felt that their circumstances looked better than mine since we've only dated for 3 months...but it has been the best 3 months I've had in so long! I am so confused and been praying everyday, every morning asking God why did He allow this man into my life only for him to leave and go back to an ex that doesn't even leave in our state! Ugh....I needed clarity and healing and this video Stephan definitely gave me that vessel I was looking for. I felt this is confirmation! I will Trust in God on this one! 🙏🏽 Thank youuuu ❤
@hilo5901
@hilo5901 2 жыл бұрын
The ex probably can’t accept him moving on. To run back to her & their problems, you don’t need that! Ask God to help you move on - to better!
@darawatkis7084
@darawatkis7084 2 жыл бұрын
Sounds like my story. I met a good man four years ago. He treated me well. Spent time with him , we had a connection. Then to later find out that he’s holding on to a girlfriend overseas. I did ask God “Why would you bring this man in my life”? I later realize zed why. It was to prepare Me for the right one. He was just a preview of what was to come.
@melissah7266
@melissah7266 2 жыл бұрын
Wow.. This story sounds so familiar. I met this man 16 years ago, but we were both in other relationships. He contacted me to confess how he felt about about me last year. Now we were both divorced.. We started spending time together and planning our future. I thanked God everyday for reconnecting us, because I had never experienced what this man had shown me. Last week after meeting his family, his ex decided she wanted him back. He made the decision to go back and sacrifice his own happiness for the sake of his young child. I’m trying to make sense of why God would send him after all these years, only to then snatch him away.
@SummerHawaii582
@SummerHawaii582 Жыл бұрын
@@melissah7266 your too good for him. Be grateful you weren't married and have kids to him .
@Beyond_nicolas
@Beyond_nicolas Жыл бұрын
Did you find the one yet
@nathaniaregina
@nathaniaregina 3 жыл бұрын
I've been seeing/ talking to this guy for 5 months... He has all the wonderful qualities I look for in a man, a genuine connection , checked my boxes and I prayed for God to show me signs if he's for me, like everynight I'd pray and be willing to surrender to God even if I truly like him, I was willing to let go. Last night...I confessed to him that I have feelings for him and he said that he only consider me as friends. He just got out from the divorce less than a year ago and his current goal is to explore the world, and romantic relationship is not his priority. I was embarassed but also relief at the same time. Somehow, deep inside, fast or slow, I have a faith that he's the one. I'm not gonna be waiting in agony, but deep inside, I wasn't sad that he's gone. I have a faith that he will come back once he's ready at the right time and relationship will take off. Idk.... now I'm confused if my intuition and sense of peace is a voice from God or am i fooling myself ...
@debbycostanich1696
@debbycostanich1696 3 жыл бұрын
I think that is a good sign. He told you the truth. Have patience. I have been in the same situation for over 2 years and we are bonding more and more every day. We are in the place between friends and ?
@lacoyawhitfield1547
@lacoyawhitfield1547 2 жыл бұрын
He don’t want you boo… if he not scared someone could snatch you up while he’s “traveling” then he don’t see you as the one… move on… save yourself the heartache
@annekajordan6952
@annekajordan6952 3 жыл бұрын
Yes anything God has has created the enemy tries to mimic & produce an imposter & it can cunningly ‘resemble the truth’ but is only there to cause harm. A counterfeit can NEVER be as good as the real thing - the blessing that God has for you 🙏
@christydixon5337
@christydixon5337 3 жыл бұрын
A popular life coach stated "if it was the wrong time, then it was the wrong person." I do not typically hear someone say that it's possible to meet the right person at the wrong time, and it is cool because some people may have found themselves with this type of situation of meeting who they've prayed for, before they we're ready for them...; thank you for sharing your unique viewpoint; it bares faith, hope and more realization.
@chabee3666
@chabee3666 3 жыл бұрын
Say that louder people’s just making excuses on here.
@marywirrick7097
@marywirrick7097 Жыл бұрын
Wow yes
@emilylives2051
@emilylives2051 2 жыл бұрын
I really like all the comments about how God worked in their relationships. Thank you God you care about all things concerning us and continue the good works you've begun in us.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@Lionqueenbe
@Lionqueenbe Жыл бұрын
This was oddly specific about exactly what I’m going through. God had to have sent me here. I didn’t even click this video. It played after another video I just finished. God is good all the time 💙 Thank you Jesus
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks Жыл бұрын
🙏
@Ghanaman93
@Ghanaman93 3 жыл бұрын
My mama sent me this, she’s the MVP 🖤 great video as always Stephen 🙏🏾 best life advice is to SLOW DOWN AND PRAY MORE. Learning to discern God’s voice effectively protects us from so much unnecessary stress and damage to and from others
@billvegas2072
@billvegas2072 3 жыл бұрын
Months ago I found god after I hit rock bottom from my divorce. I prayed every day and made time for God every single day. Blessings started showing up that I once never believed would happen. I was short on rent and I talked to God asking him what do I do. That night, I had the pleasure of serving Dana White who tipped me $1000 which put me in a position to pay my rent plus groceries. I then prayed that my ex wife comes back in my life despite her infidelity and deception I still loved her and wanted my family back. She came back. Then left in a week. Came back again, left two weeks later. Came back two weeks ago but asked me to wait for her while she has her fun. I agreed. She left again. I truly believe God is shaking me trying to wake me up, slapping me around, trying to get me to realize this is not my person.
@BabeRuthuk
@BabeRuthuk 3 жыл бұрын
Stephan - this video is prophetic. You’re describing kingdom marriage. God bless you abundantly. I pray your spouse is everything you need and more in Jesus name.
@naimam3976
@naimam3976 2 жыл бұрын
Im a muslim woman in her early 30s and I can so relate to this video. Last year I fell in love with a man, I just wanted him to be the one so much that I ignored a few reds flags. Its been almost 4 months and Im still not completely over him. I feel like this video was made for me. Thank you!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@Soouber
@Soouber 2 жыл бұрын
Ameen Sister, very true. Turning to our AllMighty Creator for everything is crucial. Everything is a test (fitna), don't let shaytan/satan deceive you. Good monologue Stephan, God bless you for being real.100%🙌🏼 Working on our own connection at all times with our Creator is crucial Inshallah...He knows best.Ameen Brother.🤲🏼🙏🏼📿
@linaazmiin7479
@linaazmiin7479 2 жыл бұрын
sister Always do istekhara prayer before meeting the guy , I Had crush on my neighbourd seen him often I did istekhara prayer and next day he move out . I did many. timess I love the anwser I get because I move on soon after
@Angelwr1luv
@Angelwr1luv 2 жыл бұрын
Yes, just be still, wait and listen. Put it in God's hands, he will steer you in the right direction, don't worry so much about finding the guy. Focus your energy on God. He will do it for you. This is the way to true peaceful love I think. Compromising, Communication, Respect, Faith in God, Boundaries. Having Tools for dealing with conflict the right way. Thanks Mr. Stephan again very good knowledge. I've learned a few things from your channel that I changed about me also, that I thought I was doing the right way but was so wrong.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
@mwhite805
@mwhite805 3 жыл бұрын
It's very rare to find a Man that speaks the truth about trusting in God for direction in a relationship And to hear you speak about fasting as well , I think you have good points and when you do put your trust in God he will lead You and Yes , His timing is not our own For He says Trust in the Lord with All your heart and lean not to your own understanding. Thank You!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@mindtobodyfit
@mindtobodyfit 2 жыл бұрын
Personally I think you are the best love coach out there! ☺️ Thank you! You clarify everything I feel to be true ❤️
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much I'm happy to hear that 🙌
@eteldias5176
@eteldias5176 Жыл бұрын
I agree
@Clauds71
@Clauds71 Жыл бұрын
Me too 😊
@micheboohawaii9430
@micheboohawaii9430 2 жыл бұрын
I prayed for so long to meet my Boaz. I finally met him. But we haven't officially meet up in person, yet. He has also been waiting a long time for his Ruth. This man is patient. I love it. No rush or pressure. I know God is not ready for us to meet in person yet. I trust and will wait for the Lord's guidance. But I know for sure he is my Boaz. One day, I got a phone call from a terrible man I dated 6 years ago. I was shocked and irritated. Why is he asking me to go out with him. I blocked him and rebuked the devil. He was definitely the imposter. Then one day, I met a man in the parking lot of Walmart. He was also an imposter. Both of these 2 imposters were sent by the devil. I have a very good relationship with God. So the enemy couldn't win. So now, I am just waiting patiently until God tells me it's time and gives me His spiritual guidance. I love God so much❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@diamondunicorn2421
@diamondunicorn2421 3 жыл бұрын
So true your video. I’m experiencing this now. I finally met my divine partner after many years of being single and not interested in being monogamous or committed. Until I did the inner healing and self improvement. Then he came along. And trust me. When it’s sent by source, it will be sent to you not always in the glitter package you expect it to come. Content and character becomes more important than the necessary outside packaging.
@missaliciaandfamily4833
@missaliciaandfamily4833 2 жыл бұрын
This so sad 😞 - Sometimes people leave their soul mate because it's easier to be with another person or start fresh versus, allowing the relationship to have a breakthrough
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
It isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@missaliciaandfamily4833
@missaliciaandfamily4833 2 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks absolutely 💯
@jacquelynhorton7563
@jacquelynhorton7563 3 жыл бұрын
This is an amazing monologue. When emotions are strong we slowly distance or release our hold. I have created a support system to walk this journey. Discernment is needed in this event, waiting, listening and praising God.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!
@tisaligon-roman6353
@tisaligon-roman6353 3 жыл бұрын
Best advice ever received. I’ve always gone to God for many things in my life but as I’ve gotten older God is the only one I turn to for everything. God isn’t gonna spill your business to anyone else and will always give you what you need. Only with God are you allowed to trade your burdens for blessings! Blessings to all here. ✨🙏🏼✨🌻
@candacesmith5572
@candacesmith5572 3 жыл бұрын
I would continue doing what I'm doing. Being at peace, walking in love, and observing him.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
@KandiaHaynesworth
@KandiaHaynesworth 2 жыл бұрын
God will never send someone's spouse to you. Even if they are separated. Separated but Married is still married.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right!
@pada5992
@pada5992 26 күн бұрын
Does experiencing sexuality mean being married? Because then what you are saying is there are currently very few people who can ever meet their person at all anymore.
@EmilyPocha
@EmilyPocha 6 күн бұрын
What about a situation where you are getting a divorce because the husband you had became physically and emotionally abusive to you?
@JamaicaLove876
@JamaicaLove876 2 жыл бұрын
When God sends you the one it is something that you know in your spirit & the love feels intense with genuine connection. Also you align in many ways such as values, beliefs, vision & purpose.Many great points! Excellent video. Blessings & light to you, Stephan.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you!
@JamaicaLove876
@JamaicaLove876 2 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks As always it's my pleasure ❤😘
@judittar8776
@judittar8776 3 жыл бұрын
Stephan, this message is so timely, may God keep you blessed so that you can convey these messages to all of us. I am forever grateful. You're truly precious. Thank you so much!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@abisoyeodunsi5883
@abisoyeodunsi5883 3 жыл бұрын
He is
@queenbee297
@queenbee297 3 жыл бұрын
Yes you have truly been a blessing. I've learned so much from you over the past year. Thank you!
@abdulraman9873
@abdulraman9873 3 жыл бұрын
That's incredible Mrs Judit tar
@johnettarodriguez4544
@johnettarodriguez4544 3 жыл бұрын
Gafternoon Stephan this is a great topic now the word says when a man find a wife he finds a good thing and has found favor with God… That being said I’ve learned over past hurt and not waiting on God so through my relationship with God and my faith in him I’ve learned how to put God first and keep him first also I’ve learned how to write what I’m wanting in the man God has for me u have to be very specific and please ladies/men wait for marriage before u engage in sex and learn Gods voice make sure it’s his voice and not u God has given us a tool to follow as to how he wants us to live we have to remember his commandments and the word says be ye Holy as I am Holy it’s not easy to walk in the way God has for us u have to put this flesh under subjection daily so we have to a that relationship with God trust in him in all they ways and fasting and praying 🙏🏿 plays a big part in our daily walk God will develop our Spirit of discernment this is how I’m trying to walk daily thank u 🙏🏿 Sir for this word that u have for us God bless
@tammycorder5515
@tammycorder5515 3 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate and needed this. I am currently talking to someone and everything you said is so beneficial in my situation. I respect what you say because you stress the importance of seeking God 1st when you are waiting on your mate. Thank you.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@kiyahardin95
@kiyahardin95 3 жыл бұрын
I love your encouraging advise, it’s very inspiring & very helpful in my situation..
@mariahconklin4150
@mariahconklin4150 3 жыл бұрын
Me to and it also has been a month. I wish you the best
@juliannalin19
@juliannalin19 2 жыл бұрын
All glory to God raising you up to preach the right way to have a relationship and marriage that honors Him. ✝️
@aprilshowers5820
@aprilshowers5820 2 жыл бұрын
I wish I had seen this video sooner! I have met a potential husband a little over a month ago. We fell for one another from day 1. There was a friend on my part still in the picture and a trip was planned prior to me meeting this guy. I was faced with making a decision to go on the trip with a guy I've known for years who I was comfortable with, had fun with, but knew it wasn't turning into something long term OR cancel the trip and see what happens with the new guy who I had been seeing for all of 2 weeks. The connection and chemistry was there, I felt he could have been my person, but due to the short time frame, not really knowing his true intentions, I decided to go on the trip. needless to say, I chose the imposter. I do regret it because it has totally ruined the potential although I have tried to reason with him and explain where my heart belongs. He has let me go because he felt it was a test for me from God and he answer to walk away. We are very hurt by it and I really prayed things could reconcile. I have no other choice but to let him go now. We did continue to talk a bit but he definitely shut down. This video came to me last night when I was trying to find answers, and it was definitely on point, so on point, it was as if the situations mentioned were about us. Thank you for your insight. I have learned alot! I will make sure I talk to God more before making decisions. I am now more prepared for next time. Whether it be with him or the next potential person.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help 🙏
@aprilshowers5820
@aprilshowers5820 2 жыл бұрын
​@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you! you are God sent.
@lisajones-franklin3574
@lisajones-franklin3574 3 жыл бұрын
Good morning Stephan. I love your analogy about the car. I believe that sometimes GOD will reveal the person to you in order for you to prepare to receive it. I also love what you said about the enemy using family members to cause chaos to keep people apart. I've been praying for my future husband's family (parent, siblings, aunts, uncles, cousins, nieces, nephews, GOD children, pets if he has any, etc) friends, employees, business associates, all the women that might want to marry him...lol and anyone that he may come in contact with. Prayer is so important. Thanks for this reminder. Have a blessed day. 🙏🏽🙌🏽❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, prayer is very important thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
@angelawalker3550
@angelawalker3550 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! This is so true.
@tabasimk9568
@tabasimk9568 3 жыл бұрын
On point dear brother Stephan. I’m in a long distance relationship, I’m in the U.K. and he is in the USA. We are engaged and waiting for his 🇺🇸 passport to arrive. The distance has allowed us both to prepare for one another and build our emotional, spiritual and mental connection. We both prayed about each other and have been given the full answer from God, “yes”. Covid travel restrictions is the chaos which we have used as a blessing.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback and I pray that you keep moving in faith ❤ 🙏
@watchingyoutwo3800
@watchingyoutwo3800 3 жыл бұрын
If Angels put you together than your misappropriation by the Angels and your dna needs to be checked and that you might be to close for comfort and that you are considered“Incest” and are out of Gods’ hands and on your own! Never to be an actual Angels!!
@daddywayne5258
@daddywayne5258 3 жыл бұрын
m e s s a g e h I m n o w
@daddywayne5258
@daddywayne5258 3 жыл бұрын
v i a W h a t s A p p
@2GBDGY
@2GBDGY 3 жыл бұрын
Needed this today as I’m always praying for this… I’m in a situation where I feel God put this man in my life for a reason. Now, I’m praying if he’s the one God wants for me. We are in a long distant relationship, so in a way that just works out better because we get to know each other better and so far, he’s seems really sincere, God-fearing, and just giving very good vibes. I have a good feeling, but still trying to heal and at the same time, I’m just worried moving forward …only because of my previous toxic relationship. Thanks for all you continue to do to help us SS. 🦋🙏🏻
@watchingyoutwo3800
@watchingyoutwo3800 3 жыл бұрын
If Angels put you together than your misappropriation by the Angels and your dna needs to be checked and that you might be to close for comfort and that you are considered“Incest” and are out of Gods’ hands and on your own! Never to be an actual Angels!! Keep to your innocence and god will provide your life with the best husband on earth and a long life of youth!
@rashawntaylor4316
@rashawntaylor4316 3 жыл бұрын
Goodevening real good man will sacrifice too make his woman happy n ask what ‘s you need help with, ask what’s your future goals ! A real good man will send you roses , put god first in his life n also make you first properity , keep gas in your car , help with bills , Communcations is the key n always luv you no matter what
@chocolatebaby313
@chocolatebaby313 3 жыл бұрын
This is the story of my life..Currently... I'm trusting God on this... 🦋🙏
@rashawntaylor4316
@rashawntaylor4316 3 жыл бұрын
I keep real n honest
@gwortman3515
@gwortman3515 2 жыл бұрын
Follow your gut.... use your womanly intuition .
@03-five-r.19
@03-five-r.19 Жыл бұрын
I wish and I pray to God that next person will come into my life is really the one.
@summits4ataxia
@summits4ataxia Жыл бұрын
When I prayed over what led me to my now wife. We were still just courting he showed me year after year giving her one white rose. This was my birthday 2 weeks before the new year awhile back. We were talking on new years eve and got brave enough to tell her. Little did I know until waking up on new years day to her message. That she who had been single for 38 years that she had been quietly waiting for God to send her the man with one white rose. The rest is history. We are both paired so well. Even each of our long term best friends can see it in our eyes. Each in their own way stating how we bring each other full of life and faith.
@barbarabrown2277
@barbarabrown2277 3 жыл бұрын
God rules in our hearts with Divine Peace. When He sent someone into our lives. Be Still and Know God, Be Calm, and Trust God's Good Timing for everything.
@sarahrayman620
@sarahrayman620 3 жыл бұрын
One of the best videos you've done! That was a Divine message that many people, including myself need to hear or be reminded of. I'm waiting for the right person that is willing to go through and do the work to have a deep and fulfilling relationship. I see it as having a missional relationship if it's God centered. Praying through individually and together in the tough times. Just love how Jesus brings to light the best way to approach relationships. It's a lifelong working at it. Thanks again Stephen!!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@watchingyoutwo3800
@watchingyoutwo3800 3 жыл бұрын
If Angels put you together than your misappropriation by the Angels and your dna needs to be checked and that you might be to close for comfort and that you are considered“Incest” and are out of Gods’ hands and on your own! Never to be an actual Angels!!
@purple630ca
@purple630ca 3 жыл бұрын
@@watchingyoutwo3800 Say that again... You say What?
@sarahrayman620
@sarahrayman620 3 жыл бұрын
@@watchingyoutwo3800 I have no idea where you get your philosophy, because it's certainly not of God. God, Yeshua, the one true God directs our steps alone. I do hope and pray that the eyes of your understanding be enlightened and that you will know the full hope of your calling in this life, willing to make Jesus Lord of your life and flee from Satan the great Deceiver!!
@steven9842
@steven9842 3 жыл бұрын
So true mistakes we all make in relationships and get hurt at the end of it…I pray everyday for the wisdom and patience to be able to have a good relationship with someone again
@felishapittman2778
@felishapittman2778 3 жыл бұрын
The realness of this message and on time as always... 🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
@Gwendolyn-k5n
@Gwendolyn-k5n Жыл бұрын
Hi Stephan! This is a great video! Regarding sex, let’s be honest and say as Christians, we shouldn’t be having it and instead waiting. We may slip up and many of us have. Thank God for His forgiveness, but in all honesty of the Word, the right thing to do is to abstain. How can we hear from God and walk in the flesh habitually. It’s not easy and we understand, but you have to include what the Word says too.
@lindamelindasefcic7517
@lindamelindasefcic7517 6 ай бұрын
I dont ever know if Im right or wrong for thinking that the person was the "one". But life brought someone else in their life, and now the 2 of them just got together. It def was an easier path looking from the outside. We did have an amazing connection (he said it too) alhought the roles in each other life was might have been different than what I hoped for. Time will tell, but Im moving on, as I have no time to waste, need to keep going.
@divinediva_
@divinediva_ 6 ай бұрын
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@rayveti
@rayveti 3 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 💯 I wish to add that us woman need to spend a healthy amount of time being single and stop being available for casual relationships, situationships and entanglements. A woman who is not afraid being single is super attractive and highly valued. The time during single hood is sacred and precious, It’s the best time to use that opportunity for us to connect with our intuition and God.
@Mekia-hr8qh
@Mekia-hr8qh 3 жыл бұрын
Stephan, Stephan, Stephan. Your video’s come right on time. Thank you for being a willing vessel for the Father. I pray and ask God to send my future husband in his season not mines and when he feel it time it will be.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response, and I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you the man God has for you 🙏
@Mekia-hr8qh
@Mekia-hr8qh 3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank You ❤️! Likewise for you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@rashawntaylor4316
@rashawntaylor4316 3 жыл бұрын
Good morning real good man will sacrifice too make you happy n also ask what ‘s you need help with n what ‘s your future goals ! A real man will send you roses , put God in his life n also put your first properity , help with bills , keep gas in your car, also take you work on your off days , also work too bones too you didn’t have too work that hard . A real man will luv you , honor , value you !
@Mekia-hr8qh
@Mekia-hr8qh 3 жыл бұрын
@@rashawntaylor4316 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 I agree
@rashawntaylor4316
@rashawntaylor4316 3 жыл бұрын
I take this very seriously
@lailahassan8364
@lailahassan8364 Жыл бұрын
When you think you have found the one it is important to: 1) pray to God to verify and to also seek guidance on how to proceed 2) be prepared for chaos and obstacles and let God guide your actions 3) have honesty, openeness and transparency-communicate your doubts with your partner 4)dont have sex😅 as it can cloud judgement 5) always lean on God’s understanding 6) Learn to listen to your spirits and not just signs 7)trust God’s timing
@yardiegyal86
@yardiegyal86 Жыл бұрын
I learned this week to be very specific and detailed in my prayers. I told God, if he's the man you choose for me, then you will make a way for him to contact me before the next morning. Got a call that night. And before you ask, I tend not to pray outloud when asking God for something. I know the devil is always listening
@valerielinares2068
@valerielinares2068 2 жыл бұрын
I need to say this in the hopes that others who are in my position will read it and be encouraged if they are feeling discouraged. God has told me who it is He wants me to marry. I _know_ this to be true. I've prayed about it, I've received the confirmation. All the signs check out as Scripture says to test the spirits (1 John 4:1). Everything in my bones tells me this man I'm talking about is the man God has for me. I know it more than I have ever known anything. And I can tell you that everything you're saying in this video resonates with me. Every. Single. Point resonates with me. That being said, I have these things to add: Concerning the signs - It is EXTREMELY important that our prayer life is strong and we have an open line of communication with God. We MUST have that. He is the one who is able to tell us who it is, what to do, what not to do, when to do what He wants us to do, when to hold back. He is our lifeline in this. He is our lifeline in general, but definitely in this. Please, please, do NOT neglect your prayer life in this season of waiting on God to bring this person to you. Secondly, concerning signs, not only is prayer itself important, but also being SURRENDERED and open to what God is saying to us. Like Stephan said, sometimes God is speaking to us, but we don't hear Him because we don't like what He's saying. We can't hear Him if we've already decided what we want Him to say. For example, in Jeremiah 41-42, Scripture says that there were some men who approached Jeremiah asking him to ask God on their behalf whether they should go to Egypt. God told Jeremiah basically that these men had already made up their mind that they want to go to Egypt and will go anyway, but tell them not to go because they will get killed in Egypt. When Jeremiah approached these men to give them God's answer, they didn't want to hear it. They called God a liar and went to Egypt. And what happened when they went to Egypt? Exactly what God said would happen. This illustrates the point that when we pray to God asking for an answer to something, or whatever it is, we are surrendered, open, receptive, and willing to accept His answer - even if its not what we want to hear. Or we will end up in our own "Egypt" where we end up getting "killed." We CANNOT take this lightly. It is IMPERATIVE that we stay in prayer and stay close to God, being surrendered to His will. He knows what is best for you. He knows you better than you know yourself. I know its tempting to want to do things your own way because it makes more sense to you. But trust what God said when He said that His ways and thoughts are higher and better than yours (Isaiah 55:8-9). He knows what He's doing. He's got this. Trust Him.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@ulyssia.dennis
@ulyssia.dennis 3 жыл бұрын
Stephan, I pray you are deeply encouraged and strengthened to stay focused on your mission. Comment after comment confirms that this message (and all of your videos) are right on time for some many of us (including me). You are doing God’s work and making a difference ❤️. P.S. Thanks again for the recently added captions 😊.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@marcelabeda6645
@marcelabeda6645 2 жыл бұрын
I met my person at 20 and listened to the outside noise that came from my biological mother who is a racist and prejudice. Met him again at 33 and I listened to the outside noise and at this time I have too much emotional baggage from my ex. I ran away from him due to intense feeling of vulnerability. I might have lost him forever but God has a plan. It hurts knowing that you hurt someone you love so deeply. Even scarier not knowing what the future holds. I hope everyone finds healing and do deliberate and continuous effort to better themselves. Trust God’s timing, always.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, you will find my video on the five reasons why God will send you the right man at the wrong time to be interesting. Check it out here 👉 kzbin.info/www/bejne/Z3LcknSIoaejp9k
@BrendaSolis_
@BrendaSolis_ 3 жыл бұрын
I always feel like you’re speaking directly to my spirit. Even when reading your books. My situation has been aligning so perfectly with this. I’ve constantly been so back and forth. But I know I have to put my trust in God not matter what the outcome is. He always works things out for our good. Thank you Stephan
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
@iiamtiyonna
@iiamtiyonna Жыл бұрын
“Be Prepared For Chaos” Lord Mercy!
@doreenthimangu8842
@doreenthimangu8842 Жыл бұрын
I met him.I know he is the one.After 2 weeks all chaos broke loose.Not sure we will ever see each other again
@carmelitasoto7587
@carmelitasoto7587 11 ай бұрын
😢. Me too
@ginagonzalez5763
@ginagonzalez5763 3 жыл бұрын
I love this video for many reasons: 1. Your spirituality comes to the surface and there is a meekness humbleness, transparency about you. 2. You talk heart to heart. Not that the other videos you don't, but this is more palpable. 3. There is a connection when one spiritual person speaks to another. I'm sure a lot of people can agree with that. Wow!!! All I can say is Wow!!! I praise God for you and this video. God Bless you. I can surely relate to this video and will refer to it over and over. Just because it's the best video ever. Not that you won't make others like this one or better, bit this is the best one by far. Thank you Stephan, thank you.
@Independent898
@Independent898 Жыл бұрын
I have gone through everything mentioned in this video. I prayed so hard with my soul and heart breaking after leaving an abusive marriage: - God showed me the one. - Instant amazing connection out of nowhere. He wasn’t connected to God as I was. But he wanted to. - No sex and he respected my wishes and stayed. - We both knew we were “the one” for each other. - We both needed to work on our flaws and baggage from previous marriages. We got separated. - I went to God and prayed again for guidance, direction, and healing. - He came back again. Committed. But he still didn’t develop a deeper connection with God. We started putting down roots for our future. - The devil came in, absolute chaos. - I surrendered it all to God and walked away so he can find his own path to God. - Separated again. - He is on his path to fully connect with God again, this time he’s serious about it. One of the best things and hardest things to do is walking away from The One because you know for this to be forever your partner has to find his path to God on his own. Faith, strength, prayers, patience, and self awareness. Your keys to a successful relationship, for a better future, for everything you want in life. Stay put, pray, put God in your life and watch how your dreams come true. Good luck everyone. Thank you Stephan ♥️
@honeyblu1586
@honeyblu1586 3 жыл бұрын
Stephan! You brought yo momma's cooking today ! God Bless this message and let all the people who need to hear it, I pray you all heal from this, and open your heart chakras to give that love to yourself. If you block out pain you block out pleasure as well. Thank you 💜
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed the video and don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing ❤
@lorraineellis777
@lorraineellis777 Жыл бұрын
Passing the tests u go through in your marriage creates bonding , no marriage is perfect because we aren’t perfect only one man is perfect and he’s our savior
@dorneldubuisson8334
@dorneldubuisson8334 10 ай бұрын
So true. Happened me. When the spirit was telling me to slow down n wait...I was like if he's the 1 why wait😅...big big...mistake 😢😮
@joy6742
@joy6742 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Confirmation at it’s finest! God is awesome!😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@crystaldesiree9186
@crystaldesiree9186 Жыл бұрын
I am freshly healing from a 15 year breakup. I thank GOD for you Stephan Speaks! Watching you helps in ways I never would have imagined. You are my church, my adviser, spiritual leader, my mentor and the list continues…. Man. Thank you! God bless you and keep them coming 🙌🏽
@feliciap.2297
@feliciap.2297 3 жыл бұрын
"Once we receive God's blessing, we don't need his guidance anymore." THIS RIGHT HERE!!!💯💯💯 One of the biggest mistakes we could ever make! I've been there and missed many blessings. Only if we just listen and follow God's guidance. Trust we will have an abundance of peace!🙏🏽🙏🏽😊 Right on point Stephan!
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
@cinduhughes3351
@cinduhughes3351 3 жыл бұрын
Dont listen to 👨 man. God is our only. H. O. P. E. Cant. Make. F. R. I. E. N. D. S anymore or meet any. G. O. O. D. Men. All our out for. M. O. N. E. Y. N. Selfish. 💏 lovers of. Themselves. No. Affection or. Concern. For. Their. Partners. Health or. Sufferings. Dont care. Fake. Dont want. Commitment just. Narcs. Like. Devil. Tools. To. Deceive n. Liars to yr face. No. Trusting. Anyone. These. Days. Were in the. Judgment. Last last. D. A. Y. S. Come. Kingdom. Come. 🙏 🙏 🙏 🙏 xox. Hugs. N. Faith. Hope. Peace. 💘 🐦🐺🐒🐸🐼🐑🐘🐴🐴🐴🐴🐴🐴🐴
@daughterofzion9017
@daughterofzion9017 Жыл бұрын
Stephen, you hit my soul with this one! Going through a painful process of divorce after 10 years of marriage and a custody battle involving 3 children. Never knew I would be here but here I am. I want to be open, fully heal and be ready when God brings me the right person.
@garnetsossi8381
@garnetsossi8381 4 ай бұрын
Bible sais not to remarry unfortunately
@veronawillis610
@veronawillis610 2 жыл бұрын
Right person wrong season, everything must be totally aligned
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
💯 Yes!
@bonitagarner3982
@bonitagarner3982 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, I've always thought if it was meant to be it would just flow so to speak. Clearly, I need to talk to God more. 😁 Great teaching Stephan...very enlightening. 👏🏾👏🏾
@karijaye52
@karijaye52 2 жыл бұрын
Oh so true... The outside noise was louder than an offbeat 🎺 and thankful to God for our combined strength. We almost didn't make it! #PrayersarePowerful💪🏽🙏🏼
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Indeed, it really helps when we embrace praying and allowing God to lead. Thank you for sharing 🙏
@nefertiticosmetics9098
@nefertiticosmetics9098 3 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this this morning. I believe the "one" has been presented to me but I was told that I have to wait. It is heart breaking when you and that person have a connection but the timing is wrong. I know that I have a purpose to fulfill before I can be united with this person. But just like the kid waiting on the car the waiting is hard. Continued success King 👑, and thank you for your continued words of wisdom and encouragement. I look so forward to all of your videos.
@chabee3666
@chabee3666 3 жыл бұрын
Stop confusing yourself. The timing may feel wrong to you I’d it wa meant for you it was the right time. but if it’s not the right time it’s not the right person. Stop making excuses.
@tawanagriffin2743
@tawanagriffin2743 Жыл бұрын
FACTS. When you both know that this is a Kingdom marriage, the enemy comes to kill, steal and destroy. Stay before GOD. Intercede for that man. He needs your prayers more now than ever before. He should also be praying for you. Then come together and pray. When you are a Kingdom destiny marriage the enemy will come for you both.BUT GOD! SEEK GOD TO keep going for the KINGDOM!
@patricedean4977
@patricedean4977 2 жыл бұрын
Thank u this is a confirmation and a answer to my prayer.We are triggered by each others flaws and were working on it.when i met him i was force to make changes and happy to say that i am closer to God than ever before.
@MeetStephanSpeaks
@MeetStephanSpeaks 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@vernicelli
@vernicelli Жыл бұрын
I can relate to what you're going through with my partner. The challenges have escalated, particularly due to his mental health battles. However, I haven't given up, especially when he's in a battle against his own mind. It's simple to remain committed when everything is smooth sailing, but it's during the tough times that real commitment is tested. I also want to emphasize that while offering support is crucial, it's essential not to forget about your own well-being. In a healthy relationship, boundaries, open communication, mutual respect, and trust play vital roles.
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