If He's TRULY INTERESTED In You, He Will Do THESE 3 THINGS!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ Get your copy of the bestselling book "The Man God Has For You" here 👉 www.themangodhasforyou.com

[@moniqueaftertrucking]

Have mines reading it now

[@daphneking8072]

Gm m⁰

[@bellasworld8179]

What if he wants to be with me. For example I tell him goodnight and sweet dreamsand he says to me I want u here with me

[@sharonlajeuness6942]

@@bellasworld8179 That is SEXY AF!!!! 😈🥰

[@bellasworld8179]

@@sharonlajeuness6942 realy. Thanks

[@steflondon88]

I feel like you’re the big brother I never had 😢🌹

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@ToniWongCIM]

I feel the same girl! Appreciate you Stephan!

[@nataliepurnell6512]

I agree I never had anyone talk to me like this about men

[@lynzypooh80]

Def big brother every girl needs

[@mzalpine]

Me too ✋🏽

[@Musicshorts210]

I just finished crying and I’m okay now, I’ll just move on from here

[@blesseddeshawna89]

AWW...you, got this!!!!!! At least you're able to say:"i'll mve on"

[@Portia620]

I know the feeling. 😢🙏

[@cocoleluz]

Sometimes we are afraid to ask if we are included in their future because the answer can be hurtful but it’s best to ask.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Yes, it definitely isn't easy but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

[@kimjordan5078]

if you dating a man on phone and allway want sex on phone is he in to me or just want me for sex

[@cocoleluz]

@@kimjordan5078 you just answered your question. You said he always want sex. But, Stephan may have another answer.

[@lizzyrivera9360]

Sometimes they get upset for asking..smh

[@cocoleluz]

@@lizzyrivera9360 exactly and it’s probably because they don’t want a serious relationship or because they don’t have a plan. But there is no reason to get upset, that says a lot. I know a lady that asked that to her boyfriend and he said he wasn’t ready and she left him, two weeks later he came back and proposed to her. No one knows what they have until they lose it. 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@elizabethbabilonia7046]

ACTIONS AND WORDS SHOULD LINE UP.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯 Yes!

[@krystallee3611]

Totally agree 💯😊👍

[@micheleprice9771]

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JULY2021

[@bolicious7606]

Exactly. And it's ridiculous that we even have to say this. 🙄

[@theresarogerssimpson1280]

Yes ma'am

[@Amatullah.574]

This advice is for women of faith....let me save you some time and heartache. Let a man know from the jump that you want a HUSBAND and that you are not open to sex before marriage. There goes half the losers right there. AND YOU be patient and keep true to yourself until the right one comes along. Do NOT house him, gift him or do anything financial for him. Until he asks you to marry him, let him go it's a waste of time and just a temptation from God's path. Never worth it. #BEENTHEREDONETHAT

[@bridgetenglish3334]

I love this statement.

[@elisejackson1719]

Amen

[@JaniceTrades777]

❤ thats it! facts

[@undercovernewsnetwork]

Facts !! Dont be shy own it . Tell them you are looking for you Husband and will know when you find him, based upon how he treats you.

[@jojobk12able]

They’ll say I love your energy and your so easy to talk to, and then suck all your energy out of you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I feel you it definitely isn't an easy situation but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!

[@blissreframed1681]

I Never Again want to ve any man's "easy to talk" to. I find that this causes men to actually value you Less, not more

[@karenhinchliffe3957]

I’m not ready for a real relationship So is it ok if we both agree to sex and friendship for us for now. Plus he’s really gorgeous and out of my league xxxxxxxxxx

[@monagreen3550]

@@karenhinchliffe3957 Wow the fact that you would be so casual with your life , time, and body saddens me all in the "Name of what". You have to name it to claim it. And to say that you are even below his level. There are people who need you 😊. While you are helping someone else you just might meet the one for you. From a Wise older Woman. Stay Blessed

[@misselle1430]

@@blissreframed1681 exactly... he'll keep you as his safety zone and want everything from you without commitment. Give every man hell and sweetness in equal doses... more of either if he deserves it

[@Libran1717-us8qp]

Follow your own intuition. There's a lot of what if he or she does this or that. Be prudent, wise and prayerful regarding any relationship whether it's platonic or romantic.

[@micheleprice9771]

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JULY2021

[@kristytsang56]

Completely agree 100% follow your gut!!

[@user-zx5xw4yw2e]

@@kristytsang56💯 that's it!

[@twinsmom411]

Dating at 42 is awful. Your books really have helped me.

[@livefromtheground7274]

Gurl! At 60 its worse! I was married 23 yrs and he passed away and now the young boys 40-55 chase me to def with all their madness. Yes Gurl! its awful.

[@JaniceTrades777]

​You know I think though what's good at dating when you're older is you're dealing with a bunch of chicken men who are scared to die alone so at least they're not looking to use you for sex anymore , most of them can't use you for sex anymore now they want to use you as a wheelchair pusher ​@@livefromtheground7274 So they're all desperate from what I've seen, just begging to not die alone

[@twinsmom411]

I have been seeing an ex I dated years ago recently again. This video gave me clarity. He has time for his boys, and for golf and for work. But rarely ever has time for us. I am out.

[@e.watson6346]

W.O.W!

[@Portia620]

Is he entrepreneur or head of company? Be careful how you judge a situation and I agree if they do t put effort

[@deborahwilliams3207]

He enjoys your non-sexual company. I like that. There will be plenty of time for that once we've emotionally connected.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@sherry2250]

If he truly likes you and is genuinely into you, then he will actively show you far more than he tells you. Talking and walking are two different things. If he cannot match his own walk and talk, then he is definitely not your king...disconnect yourself from him immediately...there is no time to waste!!! 👋👉

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback!

[@lauryjerry1566]

This is so right ..you have explained the whole teaching of 15 mts in 1 sec!!!!

[@erikafox9651]

Heck yeah. My ex was more talk less walk

[@sherry2250]

@@erikafox9651 🤣🤭

[@dianator5284]

Show me don't tell me

[@CindyVilleneuve.expRealty]

Nothing worse than opening up to a guy you have been dating for awhile then he uses it against you make you feel low when you are having an argument. He broke the trust I had in him.

[@JamaicaLove876]

Really great video. I agree that when a man is emotionally vested he is trying to explore the depths of who you are at your core and the focus is less on the physical aspect. Emotional and spiritual intimacy in a relationship means that you are building a foundation where you both explore your inner thoughts becoming exposed to each other in a way that creates a deep level of trust and vulnerability. Agree, that when he is interested he will become emotionally present and enjoy your non-sexual company. Bringing you into his world is a great sign that he wants to integrate you into his life. Very important for the woman to empower him by showing that she is emotionally invested as well. Seamlessly talking to each other for hours is a sign that there is a level of compatibility, attraction, chemistry and connection all important elements to a great relationship. Thank you for the video. Always bringing your A game. Sending peace & blessings.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback peace and blessings unto you as well!

[@micheleprice9771]

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JULY2021

[@jacquelinebryson1115]

Us

[@rosemariecalumpangtapis6296]

if a man is dominated by or prone to emotion to a woman to furnish with power or authority to look into the relationship between social class and learning ability (explored) ways to see the differences deeply at your core that who are you in this life. focus not in imaginary or illusory but real and true aspects of life. In building a foundation of a relationship means you are emotional or you are appealing to or arousing emotion or excitement and spiritual or divine intimacy where you both explore or study or analyze your inner thoughts to divulge each of you in a way that creates a deep level of trust and vulnerability. When a man interested in you he is in agreeable or enjoyable to non- sexual company with you and there's a state of feeling of excitement present in him and he want to unite you into his world is a great sign that he wants you in his life. A woman is importantly showing the man to furnish with power or authority that she is emotionally invested as well. In having a conversation entirely for hours to each of you,there's a sign of a level of compatibility, personal charm,strong mutual attraction and connection or attachment and all elements important in a great relationship. So, that's it and I appreciate so much and thankful for some learning and growth in efforting in your coaching sir Stephan and the groups about the greatness in relationship.ok God bless us all in togetherness, more peaceful, and more understanding in this page. Keep strong always and be safe!

[@marieanne2669]

I. WAS. LEERY. ABOUT. OPENING. MYSELF. UP 2. A GUY. BECAUSE. WAS. PHYCICALLY. ABUSED. BY. MY. EX. HUSBAND

[@crystalssuch6818]

Single ladies, I hope God blesses you with your perfectly imperfect person. I’m jaded but y’all go for it

[@lala5061]

Me too 😒

[@tenishabolden5692]

Those of us who are jade with still have our person come. We all shall be happy love ya sis

[@kuiwanguistephanie]

I am loving the self awareness, you are definitely on your healing journey ❤️‍🩹

[@brittanysellscars5528]

My best friend and I are dating. It’s so much easier when you know each other 100%. Things have never been this easy with someone. ♥️♥️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@cocoahontas202]

Omg I’m dating my best friend to and I’m so comfortable and myself around him I really think I found my soulmate 🥰

[@brittanysellscars5528]

@@cocoahontas202 it’s a whole different vibe ♥️♥️

[@ramonahope04]

i can somewhat relate to this, me and my best friend aren’t together yet due to timing being off for the both of us but we’ll be getting together soon this year. plus we always been very close and liked each other since 8th grade were seniors in highschool now though. i hope things work out

[@asymone87]

How did this work out

[@cassandrajones9040]

Actions speaks louder than words

[@elizabethbabilonia7046]

WHEN THEY ASK HAVE YOU ATE ETC ... SOME MEN JUST DON'T ASK ANYTHING. ONLY SPEAKS ABOUT THEM AND WHAT THERE INTERESTED IN.

[@arcangel1390]

I'm on LDR I have one who always greets me morning and night... Reminds me of meal for whole day Have random talks throughout the day Shares his thoughts both shitty and nice Shares his activities for the day Considers me his gf and tells me, I can move at my own pace until I'm ready Tells at random our future (light manner) We have sexual relationship tho .. but he always ask if it's ok He seldom vid call, and I'm the one who can't last coz I'm still used to it... When I call him, he is the one who makes the convo long coz I'm not good at talking He says he loves all my flaws And when I don't reply on certain question of him about loyalty and faith and trust and something else, he repeats the question over and over... Yet we are still just 2 months... And some times he is too busy for the day (even if he does not fail to greet and remind me of meals) and it makes me feel ignored. Altho it's just 1 to 2 days a week I still am skeptical... I don't know if I shld make us official. Edit. Heck I ended it... Suddenly.. I dunno but feels right to end it.

[@bavumilesamkemhlongo4194]

Yes that true...Elizabeth

[@elizabethbabilonia7046]

@Wireless Conduct yes it is..

[@elizabethbabilonia7046]

@Wireless Conduct yes!

[@darlenegolden1057]

Fakes

[@ellana_music]

1. He compliments you on an emotional level, non physical traits 2. he can talk to you for HOURS on the phone, not dm's 3. he expresses that he's been thinking about you. 4. He values your opinion 5. he enjoys your non-sexual company 6. They're willing to be vulnerable with you. 7. he's willing to bring you into his world. I got most of these. He's said to me, "you have so many Godly qualities I'm looking for," "You're extremely intelligent," "you're wise," "You understand me through deeper layers than most people," "you have great faith" and many more... Then regarding the phone conversations, we have talked for 2 hours, 6 hours and then 3 hours. We just got each other's phone numbers and he's not a texter as much as he is a talker. We go deep in conversations regarding faith, emotions, life, advice, EVERYTHING, even cookies and travels lol just everything. The third one he hasn't quite said it directly like this but when he prays over me It shows he's thinking of me. Or when he sends me something thoughtful It shows he's thinking of me. Or when he likes ALL of my posts on FB he's thinking of me. Read other things other than just the direct words. for the fourth one, he directly has stated, "I trust you deeply and I value your opinion and thoughts." He listens intently when I speak and takes my advice because he respects me and values me. for the fifth one, we haven't met in person yet, but i have a feeling because we've already connected on an emotional, spiritual, mental level, that we will definitely enjoy each other's company on this level as well. 6: he's always vulnerable with me, opens up deeply, I ask him one question and he lays it out in detail, his feelings, emotions and his thoughts. 7. he's talked to me about his daughter, his family, his relationships close to him. I'm not sure if he's talked about me with anyone, we're not in the same city, but I have a feeling he would be eager to show me off since his love is direct and forward. Thank you!

[@BrooklynBaby100]

You’re going to have to meet in person and consistently date each other in real life for this to evolve into a real relationship, otherwise this all a fantasy… don’t let him woo you over the phone. It’s weird he hasn’t already asked to see you in real life, don’t get played sis.

[@ellana_music]

@@BrooklynBaby100 it's weird from an outside source looking in. But knowing his situation, it's not weird. He's in a completely different state lol. So, we're not pushing anything. We're enjoying the friendship. We're also Christians so we're praying in the middle of it all and letting god reign over all. I'm actually also cautious for my own reasons so no, it's not weird. Not right now. It's weird if it's 3 years in or even two years in and nothing, yes, that's weird. But we just started 5 weeks ago. You need to have some patience lol Let God take control of all of it, let HIM lead your steps.

[@amariematthews4888]

Seems I have all these in a guy I've been talking to since Jan. Long distance and we've seen Visited so far 2 times

[@barbarahubbard5623]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@Proverbs31Ministries222]

Yes this is how it is with the person I like. Men arent big on the time.

[@glow9592]

This guy got me through a really hard breakup,he pointed out so many things I was overlooking,what really woke me up was when he said 'if he doesn't add to your spiritual life,also if you wouldn't have broken up with him if he didn't do it himself even after seeing all the red flags,........ And now God gave me a man that ticks all that... Thank you Stephan,God bless you.

[@theresarogerssimpson1280]

Actions speak louder than words.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯 Yes!

[@jflo7013]

But still, words would be nice.

[@nunuyolan1771]

You’re the only relationship coach that resonates with me. Thank you for your wisdoms and insight. Dating is extremely hard for so many reasons. You will be my now go to person for advice lol because obviously you have ALL of the answers to my questions and doubts. Appreciate you King ✊🏾

[@elizabethbabilonia7046]

THE MAN GOD HAS FOR YOU. SINCE I READ IT, I TOTALLY CHANGED AND REMIND MYSELF NOT TO RUSH INTO ANY RELATIONSHIP. I HIGHLY RECOMMEND IT. ITS A MUST READ. I GAVE TO A FRIEND AS A GIFT..

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@elizabethbabilonia7046]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I ENJOY LEARNING AND SHARING KNOWLEDGE.

[@sylviawiggins4461]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks in

[@moniqueaftertrucking]

I ordered the book, but I have been single since 2014 and refuse to give shenanigans and foolery any energy

[@cloveyou1864]

All I did was close my legs and the guy told on himself. He was out of there in less than a month. Ain’t God good.

[@livefromtheground7274]

All day long!!!

[@cindyluma4497]

He is good ooh😂

[@dpaper7962]

😂 real stuff. Ladies lets all close our legs and cross them and let no man get the 🍪 🫙!

[@Portia620]

If you were sleeping with him and stopped that’s normal for anyone to leave if things don’t get settled or why you pulled back!? Was he cheating!? Was he lying?!

[@Portia620]

@@dpaper7962did that for 7 years and I love cookies and milk so it’s a risk I’m willing to take as I’m too old now! 😂

[@urainaheyward190]

I was head over heels over a guy and he did all these things that told me he WAS NOT interested in me lol. Wow looking at it now, he was such a miserable guy. I'm so glad I'm over him now.

[@pamelahartfield7575]

I get tired of meeting black men who love talking to me for an hour or two on the phone, but never say, "Let's meet up at a restaurant, shopping mall, carnival, festival, etc." I get tired of feeling like I am their damn therapist when having a phone conversation📱. They love for phone conversation to be focused on them, but don't ask me anything about me. They don't try to create a profile on me like I create a profile on them by asking questions. If I don't tell them that I have children, then they don't ask. If I don't tell them what I do for a living, then they don't ask. But, I will ask questions to no end and listen carefully to each response🗣

[@donnamartaofficial9903]

just withdraw! run run run!! they suck your energy they bring nothing to the table tell them you need money for some emergency then check their next move... to the exit!! you do not need them... they need you and it seems they know how and what to take from you without them investing a dime/penny!! (pls, realize they call you in very "strange" times of the day/night you may be that type of kind person that even drops what is doing to give them your full attention!!) take care of yourself!! you are enough: self respect, self love

[@pamelahartfield7575]

@@donnamartaofficial9903 Sister after one or two of these kinds of conversations with them on the phone I have nothing more to do with them. I will be turning 50yrs. old August 2021 and God Almighty has blessed me with knowledge, alot of life experience and wisdom. I love myself and I take good care of myself. I don't let these men run game on me. I am from Detroit all day long!(lol). I have been single for a number of years and celibate for 6 or 7 years now. But, thank you for your advice! Much love to you my sister💞

[@donnamartaofficial9903]

@@pamelahartfield7575 💎 love & blessings 💎

[@pamelahartfield7575]

@@donnamartaofficial9903 You too sister🌷🌷

[@sharonelliot-rabie1609]

So true very self absorbed, I’m so tired of that I cut it after awhile, I’m nobodies pen pal, if he thusnt want to hang out, I don’t entertain talking on the phone anymore…

[@crystalssuch6818]

Love should not hurt or make you question yourself

[@TheGr8-1]

I just expressed my feelings to the woman I’m seeing. It’s a cardinal rule that I never break because I’ve learned once I’ve done this, I usually open myself to be vulnerable and it’s never worked out for me.

[@prjdghyt]

The emoji about hearts is true. The last guy i liked, he'd send me kiss emoji without a heart. Apparently he's afraid of intimacy that even a kiss with heart is too much for him. It's this 😚 He's the only guy who does this though. I stopped talking to him because he couldn't give me a commitment. 😅 Ugh also i met a guy on the very day I let go of him. We're only friends and we don't flirt but he drops his guard down and talks about his problems with me, he schedules time for me, he calls me every week, texts me everyday, he asks for my opinion. We send hug gifs to each other. He stays up late to talk to me. He's also veryyy emotionally available. He always asks me how I am, how my day was. I told him about my past mistakes so he really knows I'm not perfect. The things I'm really ashamed to tell anyone. He said I push him out of his shell I didn't really see it that way though. When I'm sad he'd call me play his guitar and sing for me while also being nervous. 😂 He's so loving and caring to everyone. I admire that. Not only that, he's a Christian too. He is always ready to pray for people. He does that every single day. He's the most consistent person I've ever met and for that I really respect him. He's really a breath of fresh air. Since we don't really say anything explicitly flirty, I find it weird. But I'm happy and it's really ok even if we don't turn into a couple. I just enjoy meeting men rn and the last guy really hurt me a lot so I'm not in a hurry to fall in love again.

[@malasanaxo3590]

Thank you for constantly dropping gems. Especially for those of us that didn’t grow up with a fatherly figure to express to us our worth of who we are entirely rather than just physically ☺️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤

[@AmberSumerall]

That shit makes me mad as hell. I was susceptible to emotional distress in life. I didn’t grow up with a dad although I’ve seen and had conversations with him before, but he’s a loser and I told him that. Its his fault I did poorly in college. Fortunately, I was surrounded by positive friends for emotional support and reassurance.

[@alexandradelafe2497]

@@AmberSumerall my childhood was a little different however my mother divorced my dad when I was 3yrs. Old I was raised to not like my father however blaming is not healthy ♡Love and light

[@Deanna974]

Aw. You worded this so well. Some of us dont have that healthy male attention from a father and really want/need it, and that can make dating/men confusing and scary.

[@britty-britsopenhouse7792]

No plans. Let it flow. Expression of he thinking about you. U know if he is lying or not. Two way process. Emotional presence is felt. Embrace ladies but still study the game. Stay focus.

[@Maeve312]

My boyfriend won't talk to me at all. He never has. He says it's just the way he is and that he's not good at it. Year and a half later and I'm pretty sure theres no point in sticking around cause we've never built an emotional foundation. He won't even talk about his day, let alone our relationship

[@lubnan08]

Wow....not good. I talk to my boyfriend everyday even if we're busy.

[@zaragray6199]

He need to see a counselors....Run

[@JaniceTrades777]

I talk a lot so I wouldn't be able to take that communication is key, I'd check to see if he's not married somewhere else

[@erinhappy-go-lucky5040]

Thank you for your encouraging and confirming words Stephan 🤗! Since my last relationship ended, I have been on a journey of self-healing, spirituality, and learning how to love on myself more. I have always been a huge fan of writing letters for more reasons than releasing past hurts. It gives me processing time to say what I mean and mean what I say, in the utmost kind, compassionate, and empathetic way. A person never knows what kinds of hurt or trauma someone else has been through. When a person gets curious, instead of taking another person’s behavior personally or judging them, they seek to understand what is behind the behavior, bringing more emotional intimacy and connection. It’s like God is telling me what I need to do through you and my intuition is on the right track. For most of my life, I have been shy. This is another obstacle that I am working on overcoming since I have become single. Again, thank you 😊! You came into my life in perfect timing. Keep up the amazing work, by uplifting others. It is noble and the perfect purpose for you 🤩!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@RealLadi228]

I have learned the hard way.."Slow is control"

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@RealLadi228]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you🙏..Stephan Awakened. Self love, and boundaries has been a game changer.

[@zazenglow349]

Hmm explain

[@RealLadi228]

@@zazenglow349 Getting to know someone by taking things slower masks cant last past 3-6 months and using boundaries most toxic individuals don't respect boundaries or will try to talk you out of them....hope this helps.

[@zazenglow349]

@@RealLadi228 ok, thank you

[@jeanwynter2574]

I think expressing too much can be overbearing and scary to a man, as expressing too little can be misinterpreted as uncaring. That balance must be carefully managed in an intentional way.

[@cynthiapierre2336]

Not to a man that truly and genuily loves you or is into you

[@AureliaBessard]

A guy I was seeing became silent after a few years of constant, daily conversations. We would talk for hours several times a week. This went on for 5 years off and on. But the minute we started having sex, the communication dwindled down to nothing. His mouth said he loved me, but his actions said he didn't consider me much at all.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@AureliaBessard]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you so much!! I had a stroke in 2019 and he got ghost as the kids say.

[@AureliaBessard]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks I'm better off without him.

[@webuysellhousesaptscashoff9453]

That’s why women end up dating Prison Men. They don’t have to worry about the sex part I guess.

[@AureliaBessard]

@@webuysellhousesaptscashoff9453 there's nothing appealing about dating a man in prison. Where did that even come from?

[@melindaratliff2490]

I really love Stephen's insight and wisdom. I can listen to him for hours. Keep sharing the wisdom.

[@sarahjane1750]

Please Pray that God can get through to my husband and restore our marriage and family for he is lost and really needs to choose God.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best

[@melaniesimpson6322]

New subscriber…bingeing all your videos on dating. Never thought I would be dating again, but lost the love of my life from a severe brain injury after a motorcycle accident. We had been together 20 years in a very good relationship. I’d love another relationship at 67 years old. I’m sure I’m not your typical subscriber, but loving the info you’re providing. Thanks for all your time spent putting this info out there :-)❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that, I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 Welcome aboard, and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release a new video ❤

[@melaniesimpson6322]

Yes, I definitely hit the notification bell. :-)@@MeetStephanSpeaks and thanks for the kind words!!

[@gloriathompson4010]

Well said. I lost a nice young man by not showing him how I felt about him. I pretend I didn't like him when I did, expecting him to pursue me. He didn't

[@raeofsunshine144]

Stephan, I love your videos and they’ve helped me a lot. Can you do a video for women who want to wait until marriage for sex?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@racilleashley9506]

Amen.

[@mahaliabartholomew5492]

I like this guy an I think he likes me to but all he does is text me an it hurts me

[@lifewithsuzzyq2039]

@@mahaliabartholomew5492 I would suggest that you don’t answer his text..

[@katrinajackson7994]

I agree texts and DM can be misconstrued at times but if you've reached out and asked for a call or video with no response that leaves alot to wonder about such as wrong timing, something going on, lack of interest,shyness,or the fact that they may still be healing themselves. I must say for one who understands connection ,can and will be more patient to wait for that individual to come around , but may fall back slightly so it doesn't feel pushy or over bearing. A real conversation non the less would bring clarity in the matter.💯💃

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@springtime7493]

I am presently talking to a man who is divorced. He will talk but he does not like you to say anything while he is talking. You are expected to sit and listen to everything he has to say before you comment. This sometime is not necessary and can be a real turnoff.

[@sharaemuhammad2436]

Sounds like he's has an unaddressed wound of not being heard by women in his life... likely his ex-wife... I'd be inquisitive and ask why he feels the need to uphold this requirement and see how he responds...

[@JaniceTrades777]

honestly i was abused and that would trigger my ptsd.. if u can stomach that more power to ya. hut also i think if this is how it starts, what could the ending look like.

[@LibraLife47]

He is controlling. He may not be ready. When they show you who they are BELIEVE IT. Don’t collect red flags. You’re too valuable for that. Best wishes🧡

[@unityforbetterlifeordainme341]

It's important to communicate verbally & face to face.🙂

[@jodecimcdowney2023]

I honestly feel as if you’re an Angel and this is your purpose for sure. This is the importance of everyone pursuing purpose, to literally make a difference in the world 🙏🏽 God bless you.

[@positiveenergyonlyasmr2943]

Texting have dummied down the art of dating and relationships, I chose to not text within a conversation or a miscommunication. Now days some people cannot communicate face to face due to hiding behind texting. Sad!!! I enjoy a great conversation!!!💕 Stay Positive!!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts I appreciate your feedback!

[@positiveenergyonlyasmr2943]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks You are Very welcome

[@michellewalker4671]

I’m so happy I tuned in…It’s always stuck in my head get a man who loves you more than you love him…I hate this concept because I’m personally a lovable expressive woman, so it was nice for you to speak on that❤️

[@hateisforlosers6116]

This man🥰🥰 dropping this knowledge. I wish when I was coming up we would have had these kind of coaches!!! It may not have kept us from making the mistakes mentioned but at least we would have had the information. Self esteem issues create desperate situations that make us choose bad choices and make bad decisions.

[@samiranekoo2973]

I found you a couple of months ago and I’ve been hooked ever since. It all makes so much sense when I listen to you and the gems you drop. By far the best coach around. ✨❤️ Much appriciated!

[@britty-britsopenhouse7792]

Compliment keeps coming, your beautiful etc. Talk for long hours and the conversation automatically converse into anything. Life, church, sex, family, growth etc. Bless u Stephan. Emotional investment. Verbal communication is extremely important and you feel and better able to know where you stand.

[@lauraannfields3790]

We are able to just sit hold hands, laugh about things and just enjoy each other's company. It's sometimes dealing with the small problems to avoid them becoming big problems. He has brought up faith, God and how we believe. We are integrating into each other's world. Negative thoughts can ruin a relationship. We are both vulnerable and it's a growing process. Wow you are a real blessing. I was not so sure so I was hesitant. I'm so glad I took a second look at this video.

[@lauraannfields3790]

Thank you. We have hit all of these. I didn't know that it meant he was actually into our relationship. He is constantly willing to invest his time, complimentary about my knowledge of computers and solving problems. He actually calls and is quick to ask about my health, feelings, my children, and always ask for my opinion. We actually talk to each other and more importantly we actually listen to each other.

[@nashonharris7805]

I have to put some respect on your name!You define a life coach properly and correctly in my opinion.And your books are phenomenon, making my second purchase in three days.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much I appreciate your feedback and support.

[@jacquelinelenarz3267]

Nvsa

[@queenchar43]

I just got out of a situation with a guy who did open up and we talked for hours in the beginning but he was lying the whole time about his past 2 failed marriages and what he wanted with me. So him opening up is not always a good thing and he’s on the up and up

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing I appreciate that!

[@Dana-rk2hc]

Wow! Jst had a very similar situation. I had 2 end it.

[@queenchar43]

@@Dana-rk2hc After giving him multiple chances, I had to finally let it go for good. He’s a narcissistic manipulative user who never did a thing but take while I was giving. They open up alright but sometimes like with him he was lying about everything to make himself look good

[@RealLadi228]

Hello! Manipulation is real!! Action speaks louder with or without words

[@nella116]

@@queenchar43 with through this myself. The worst always take never give.

[@sism3028]

Thank you for this! Great video as always! I needed to hear this.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@sandramoore1391]

May God continue to bestow his blessings upon you to educate myself and others

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you very much and may God bestow His blessings upon you as well!

[@micheleprice9771]

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JULY2021

[@Willowz1223]

Agreed. Blessings on you.

[@deannaardis8771]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks sir!! I am just finding out your page here, due to just scrolling through KZbin! & you popped up.. & I thought hhhmm.. let me check this out.. WWEELL!! Lo & behold!! I’ve stepped into a GOLD MIND OF GREAT WISDOM!! THIS IS WHAT I NEED!! YOU ARE SHARING SSOO MUCH VITAL INFORMATION!! That I was NOT AWARE OR SURE ABOUT… keep this coming!! 😊

[@a.howard6842]

I just love ❤️ the Clarity and Knowledge you’re spreading to me and the people !!!

[@barbarahubbard5623]

Hi 👋🏽 I am in my 60’s and I have been talking to a widower who is a minister, he’s also in his 60’s. A lot of things you are saying to us is hitting home, we have never spent time in person other than being in Church together and he has a lot of the attributes you’re speaking on. I am reluctant to go further with this attraction for reasons I’m not sure of right now. This helps me to navigate my emotions. I thank you for your advice 🙏🏽👑❤️‍🩹

[@patriciapiaskowski3899]

I have been a widow for over a year and you have shown me that we were very much in love so TBE loneliness I fee! Is tough to handle but it is a reason to remain true to his love.

[@yvelinelegagneur1071]

Your advice is pure wisdom. How can you be so incredibly accurate? 👊🏽🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I appreciate that ❤ 🙏

[@ZahraaPriorities]

Gosh u are so lovely… the way u explain everything and ur valuable advice… thanks so much for everything, and its so nice to listen to u… ur sense of humor as well… just lovely

[@elizabethbabilonia7046]

TIME IS HUGE, BECAUSE THE MONEY WOULD ONLY MAKE YOU HAPPY TEMPORARILY. TIME IS SO IMPORTANT AND LEARN HOW TO SHARE BOTH THE MONEY AND THE TIME TOGETHER.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Absolutely!

[@roshondarichard4049]

Had a guy who said all that but never met me and ghosted me. Liked my personality, beautiful and things but just stopped texting..

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@NicoleWinchelDubK]

Been watching your videos all night and just wanted to thank you from the bottom of my broken heart for all the slightly painful 😅, but much needed reality check ✔️! Just hoping the notes I took will protect me from future love bombing attacks and manipulation and sliding back into any trauma bonds! Also subscribed and saved your videos for a reality refresher when I'm having a moment of weakness or giving too much benefit of the doubt for the repeated bs excuses for faulty or suspicious patterns and behaviors 😅 I appreciate your honest male perspective big bro! 💖 😊 Much love from a new supporter from the DubK! 💐 🙏🏼 Keep sharing the raw truth, it's very powerful information alot of others won't address and its knowledge men and women could both use! Especially since men (not all of course) aren't typically emotional or well aware of how their actions or words or lack there of can negatively impact the relationships and the woman/women they deal with.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@blacksongbird100]

This is a great video compilation and topic. All of this hit close to home for me. More recently I have been making an effort to be vulnerable. I know that I have an issue with that. BUT I've started to open up and it's really made a difference for the better. Now that I'm opening up, I'm learning to pace myself and not rush bc I'm seeing that my wall to guard myself was more like a dam. There's all this love within that wants to flow. 🥰

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, you got this!

[@sixtyoutdatetwentydaye8642]

You

[@elizabethbabilonia7046]

ALSO, EVERYTHING YOU SAY IS NOT ONLY FOR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP, BUT ALL OTHER RELATIONSHIPS.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You're absolutely right!

[@lauryjerry1566]

Spoke to a man for two years on the phone and met him once !!!! and we live 1 hr distance from each other..i checked out !!!!

[@oceanblue7295]

Can you stop reading my mind and saying my exact excuses! Vulnerability is scary, but you're so right

[@fatimarumbines2250]

God bless u really helped me so much Keep up the good work ❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you very much glad I could help!

[@micheleprice9771]

AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! JULY2021

[@abigailgrimes7070]

Its so valuable the way you present both perspectives and acknowledging the exceptions to the rule, but also highlighting that that’s exactly what it is, an exception. You break it down so well, and because it comes from a male, many woman will take what you’re saying on board. Thank you. 🙏🏽

[@tammyclark1200]

Luv it.🙂

[@lilyij5]

Consideration should be mentioned as far as texting when the two partners are in different continents. Text can be delayed but that does not mean he is not into you.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Absolutely, thank you for sharing!

[@thesycoerbelle]

Very true, I date someone in another country, so sometimes things are late. Although he has never asked for my cashapp, lol.

[@stephanied.sanders7980]

Thank you very much for the confirmation yet again. Ready Lord for a wonderful genuine relationship

[@cynthiathompson5889]

I agree with what you said, I am experiencing some of these things you mentioned with my friend. I been liking him off the bat but now I really like him. He likes me too but we are starting off being friends first. We can talk on the phone for hours, he checks on me, he shows he cares about my mental health and well being. Just recently, he has asked for my opinion on having more children when I get married. I was shocked. I like him, I just hope nothing gets in the way because I'm still working on myself. Thank you Stephan by the way your videos has opened my eyes to a lot of things I didn't know. 💕

[@paigewiggins9936]

Everything Stephan says is true. Expressing how I feel gives me a chance to be open and if he doesnt feel the same his words and action will show it. I don't be in denial when I see and hear the truth given to me. I work on expressing myself in a positive manner. Stephan is a honest and reasonable man. I enjoy your video sessions.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@johannabarnard5353]

Agree, have to look at the whole package. I use this mental metaphor : When one piece of puzzle shows in the ability to connect with another piece..... As each piece connects freely, eventually it's a good sign that this puzzle is going to magnify the picture you hoped to see. But a puzzle that only has a few pieces that connect and yet others don't, because reality is most of those pieces don't belong with this puzzle at all...... Then it may take courage to face the truth where this connection is really going. I say courage because it took vulnerability for us to show ourselves and with the possibility we may not be what they want. BUT, I also try to remember, that man will never forget you. He gained respect for you. And that is a huge plus for we woman in a lot of ways. He now knows what a truthful and honest woman is really like. Who knows, maybe someday he will turn around an go back to you. But for now, except the moment for what it is at the end. Sorry for such a winded comment. Stephan, you are very well intuned how relationships work. Much of it is common sense. Lol. Thank you for your info. Big hugs to you from Connecticut.

[@halehomeschool9964]

I appreciate this video. I think many women have an anxious attachment style and any man that shows us interest if they meet the initial smell test, we put our all in.

[@shaamilli3934]

I so appreciate the balanced advice and perspective. Thanks so much ❤

[@tlc8925]

He's done all of this but has recently pulled away... We've been very transparent and communicative up until now... Not ghosting but like dropping a GM text here and there.. So I'm giving him space so I'm about to explore other relationships (we're not exclusive) while he's figuring it out... I feel like he tapped into his emotions and now running. He's still a great guy but not sure this will work for me.

[@z.poindexter7921]

TL C hi 👋 this happened to me recently I found out he didn’t “want” to be emotionally available because he loved his friend. Was that the issue with you?

[@elizabethbabilonia7046]

COMMUNICATION CONSTANCY IS HUGE!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Communication is definitely key!

[@sandragreen5146]

We need to listen to our intuition and feelings precisely and discern the difference between lukewarm and whole-hearted.the players will not meet our needs and keep us hooked with unfulfilled promises...and will try to get more for less". Thats another great video, Stephen thanks a lot.

[@zee2829]

Thank you Stephan for all you do, I love how clear, to the point, humorous yet real, and God centered your content is. Bless you!!

[@cindybarton8562]

Once drove through the mountains 50minutes each direction to visit a man. On the way to his place I discovered I had a break line leak. We put break fluid in the master cylinder before I started home that evening. He didn't say one word about caring if I made it home😞 You have such sage advise!!~*

[@livefromtheground7274]

Cause he was stupid

[@hawaiigirl8089]

You’re not hurtful Stephan! You are Honest. We appreciate YOUR CANDOR

[@Christina-yu3gu]

Texting is like an email, sometimes I txt by mistake in my purse! No effort. Texting creates a “False intimacy” 🤣

[@mariatovar-caruso3120]

I love listening to you all day! I really do… you have so much knowledge…. I can do it all day 😊

[@nahomifizzy8504]

I could listen to you speak for hours. You opened my eyes thank you so much 🙏🏽❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your feedback ❤ 🙏

[@lyndacreeley9536]

THIS was a life changer for me as I have Always been too naive and trusting but No More and Thank you, Stephan❣️😮‍💨🔥💥

[@karenhinchliffe3957]

I would love to meet someone like you. You are so switched on emotionally And most men don’t know that to keep a good relationship good you need to work at it. Nothing good comes easy xxxx

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@LeahStevenson-v8i]

Thankyou Stephan I respect your opinion, I will inbrace and take on board thankyou thankyou so very much ❤

[@culpepperly]

Listening to these ideas allows me to reflect on a recent relationship that he walked away from and allows me to be at peace with the decision to end it, even though it was not my choice.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad I could help thank you for sharing!

[@acdnmystic9929]

Ladies, please listen to this man. He helped me get a Beautiful man... Understanding how men think helped immensely. I concentrated on myself and his video on being the man's PEACe since I'm very peaceful lady... Wow! Left my toxic men behind me... Thank you...from my heart... In Love and Light...my man went on a trip, I encouraged and said I wouldn't contact him...he's contacting me, daily...I tell him to enjoy his trip...he worked very hard to be able to go on this trip...I want him to enjoy it.....I went from barely any contact to much contact...I was ready to walk away...and told him so...both of us were very nervous...working things out.... Putting effort in....

[@thisismystone9658]

Even giving you too much money especially on the first date could show that he just wants to use you. You be cautious to find out whether it is because he has seen you as someone who is to be paid off or because he genuinely wants to give you because he thinks that you are a high value woman.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@deborahwilliams3207]

Then there are those that want to put a ring on it time he meets you, and though you're certainly into marriage, you have to be careful because your question should be, why the rush. I've heard it said that, they want to lock you down quickly before you really get to know them because if not you may change your mind once you see who they really are. What do you think about that. I'm asking because I went there, as I said I'm really into marital relations; married him in 6 months and didn't stay together but 6 months. Sad but true.

[@lisajackson3743]

So you already know sis

[@sherryalbert4895]

THANKS FOR YOUR WORDS OF ENCOURAGMENT KING 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿

[@sassanthony00]

Stephan where were you 3 in a half years ago?When I met The One,the man that I prayed and believe the Lord for.He answered my prayer,however I sabotaged the relationship (as you so often speak on).He was going through a separation and so was I. We were both going through alot...We were both extremely tired and exhausted,the majority of the time.Most of the time I was so tired i couldn't speak,when i wanted too. He did most of the talking.Stephan when i tell you that he has all of those positive attributes that you speak of,i mean it he does..I love everything about him..i regret my actions towards him,because i didn't follow through on what i really wanted to say and do,because of fear and past issues.He was sexually attracted to me,however he did not want to engage in sex,he wanted to wait..I never met anyone like him before.He left me,within 3 months.There is so much more positive things i can say about him,but i will end here.Listening to your videos gives me chills,.Because i see us in all of them..Thank you..Listen up Ladies,Stephan Speaks Truth..

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.

[@CarmenPerez-kz6rw]

He wanted to wait. Did you?

[@Thatskatermetalgirl]

I always learn so much from your content! Thank you so very much. This just reassured me that i made the right choice letting someone go that I didn’t want to, but had to. This video took the pain in my heart away and filled it with the confidence i needed in my decision. ❤️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@flaviamuhluri]

me too. he's such a wise man

[@Thatskatermetalgirl]

@@flaviamuhluri very. And in the most respectful way.🙂

[@theresarogerssimpson1280]

@@Thatskatermetalgirl yes you are right he does it in a very respectful manner.

[@t.s.5206]

Always remember someone needs to go before the next one says HeLLO there ❤

[@lisaclayton-herbertaas-hca1374]

You have hands down the best communication skills I have seen thus far. You are fair and unjudgmental on every subject so far I have indulged upon

[@divyamercyjebakumar7319]

That is very sweet of you to give something to think about and think about the most relatable things we would or could do .thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@chanaephriam4455]

I want to say thank you for all the advice. It has been very helpful. I’m just confused on what to do when the guy starts out doing those things to say he wants to be in a relationship, then we hit some hurdles/hard time, and he starts to pull back. He slows down on the things mentioned in this video. Ok, let me put it like this. Our first date was in May 2021, we made it official in September 2021, November his car got broken into 3 times in a 3-4 week span. His bank account got scammed, a large amount was taken, and he suffered a deep family loss in December. During all of this he slowed down on talking and seeing each other. He told me he didn’t know how to handle all that he was going through and closed himself off. We get to a place where we are starting talk more, and another incident happens, and back to limited communication, but he tells me this time he needs some time to process what he’s going through. He starts to open up again after a couple of days, we start communicating more, but not really spending time together. He tells me he loves me and I make him happy. He doesn’t want to lose me, and that he is willing to try to be better. He’s in a bad place because he doesn’t know how to handle all that has happened, and feels he can’t be there for me like I deserve. I have been open and honest about my intentions from day one (looking for a companion with the potential to be long term relationship to possibly getting married), and when I’m going through things, I let him know. I don’t believe in kicking a person when they are down. I care a lot about him, but should I walk away? Any advice will be helpful. Thanks

[@reginarain8545]

Right on Stephen Giving the time for love to grow. Can become the garden that God was able to cultivate .Even that goes from pure intimacy, to compassionate romance Ordained 💘 love is worth the wait.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.