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@lorettatripodi44403 жыл бұрын
Yes. There is NOTHING worse than feeling your time wasted
@lauratimal52583 жыл бұрын
@@lorettatripodi4440 the same 88yiy
@preciousrobertson39853 жыл бұрын
What if you work with him?
@namibiael32673 жыл бұрын
I read this book, watched all of the videos, and each time I think I’m ok, something triggers me. I even met a nice guy and went on a couple dates, but I feel stuck. I blocked my ex on FB bc he kept telling me how much he loves me. Then I unblocked him. It’s been 5 months. How long will it take for me to heal And move on?
@cynthiasmith15833 жыл бұрын
I'm. Finding. Trusting. God. Helps my. Reality
@DQUEEN85-s6m2 жыл бұрын
“New beginnings are disguised as painful ending.”
@damarish.torres145 Жыл бұрын
❤
@beautifulforthee111 ай бұрын
Yes. So true
@GurlPlz43213 жыл бұрын
I broke into tears when you brought up that you invested so much time and energy into him. I made many sacrifices and was always there for him, and hurts when they do you wrong. Had nothing but genuine love for him
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but we need to focus on doing what is truly best!
@divyaramani99833 жыл бұрын
I went thru same thing last year and he came back he basically cheated and came back and still continues to hide his relationship till i exposed him to his gf he cheated me on ... well she is still with him. But what he put me thru has caused me to hate him so much
@prettyInPink6243 жыл бұрын
Girl it HAPPENS TO ALL GOOD WOMEN... LIVE AND LEARN.... I MARRIED A NARRSISTICS LEARNED IT OVER COVID 19 LOCK DOWN...... I KNEW I WAS CRAZY..... IT WAS A HARD PILL TO SWALLOW... BUT IM A NEW WOMAN AND ITS BEEN MONTHS NO CONTACT AND ITS STAYING LIKE THAT.... HE WEARS OLD SHOES FOR WHORES...IM WEARING New SHOES WITH CLASS AND I WAS BLIND AND STUPID IN LOVE WITH THE DEVIL.... BE STRONG AND GOOOOO BC YOUR WASTING TIME AND YEARS... KNOW UR WORTH AND PLACE.... NARRSISTICS READ ABOUT IT ON KZbin... YOUR NOT CRAZY..XXOO AMG
@shutit40243 жыл бұрын
@@divyaramani9983 same and this dude tried to record me when we had sex , it’s been 4 years and it still hurts
@kendatpg3 жыл бұрын
Completely understand. Going through the same thing. It hurts bad. It's been 4 months and it's still crushing. We were supposed to get married and left me cold...for somebody else. Shit is gut wrenching.
@oliviadart6122 жыл бұрын
I pray for everyone to break the soul ties and find love in yourselves
@oliviadimock8202 Жыл бұрын
Love in Jesus Christ is always the best foundation for a successful relationship! :)
@lizkim1546 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!! I really need the prayers
@ManuelaAyr Жыл бұрын
thank you@@oliviadimock8202
@ginamitc74623 жыл бұрын
The pain from letting go is a blessing, why the hell you want someone who doesn't give a damn about you or your feelings, dont let that person use you. STAY AWAY FROM USERS!
@georgannkingsland7673 жыл бұрын
I have not had many men in my life a handful I was married for many years
@nimfavargas573 жыл бұрын
Correct!!
@maudavercher64183 жыл бұрын
Yes Lord!! Especially, as an independent woman. They want women that need them. As a woman, if I’m in love with a man, I don’t mind helping him to meet his goals also. However, it 100% turns into the nxgga that just wants to USE ME UP! Since then, I’ve enjoyed celibacy and inner solace and peace that I don’t want to ever risk losing again. I’ll wait until God leads my HUSBAND to (ME). 🙏🏾
@joywilliams58613 жыл бұрын
That part!!
@dainiebunoluwa1352 жыл бұрын
It's not easy to identify a user when one is in love
@jenschue2 жыл бұрын
Notes: The 7 reasons you can’t get over him are: 1. You haven’t gotten over the fantasy to face your reality 2. You've invested so much time and energy into this man 3. You’re afraid to start all over 4. You’ve developed a sexual attachment 5. You don’t believe better exists 6. You are fighting how you feel and not resolving it 7. You do have a genuine connection
@teabiscuits1611 Жыл бұрын
Truth.
@KedKexKevin Жыл бұрын
Are these reasons also responsible for feeling jealous all the time? Even though it was not the best relationship and we both agreed on breaking up, I sometimes feel deeply jealous when thinking of her with someone else or moving on. Heck, even the thought about her body makes me jealous.
@maryamirfan919710 ай бұрын
is it any better now?@@KedKexKevin
@lmiller141310 ай бұрын
Believing better is out there is a real fear.
@kaztazable3 жыл бұрын
Ladies, always always ASK what a guy is looking for before you invest time, effort and feelings into him. If he is not on the same page as you, stop it immediately no matter how much you like him. There should be zero tolerance for ambivalence✌🏿
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems....
@Honeycombe882 жыл бұрын
Men will rarely admit in the beginning that they want an exclusive long term relationship. They don't want to give the woman hope, when he doesn't even know how he feels about her yet. Men also rarely start out wanting to get married or live with a partner. So you have to go out with them a while and try to tell what he wants through his behavior, offhand comments. Later you can ask and expect an answer, when he has an idea whether you'd be the sort of woman he'd want a long term relationship with. If he doesn't have an answer at that point, it's best not to waste more time on him.
@oliviadart6122 жыл бұрын
It’s the worst when they say they are looking for something serious and are saying they want to live with you in the future after 6 months of relationship and then they do not act accordingly. I’m done with missing anyone…
@Anna-fm7hh2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, like they will tell you the truth at the beginning or not change their mind during the relationship
@dollyjohnson58482 жыл бұрын
@@Anna-fm7hh and you changed it by walking away
@hadassahmohale91383 жыл бұрын
"The sex will be better, when you align yourself with the person that you should be with" 🧘🏽♀️ Repeat! 🤭
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
Whatsazzz him👇👇👇
@blovr333 Жыл бұрын
True 🥰
@KathrynPhx1 Жыл бұрын
Idk.. I think that when we find ourselves stuck in a committed relationship, especially with children, we can make it all about great sex. After numbing myself out to how bad it was and failed attempts to leave, I decided to make the best of sex…It’s called disassociation and even that gave way. Funny and not funny. In a relationship, the lack of a love/soul connection is a sad, empty existence and takes its toll. Get out sooner than later. Save your heart! Save your soul! Save yourself! The longer you stay the more beaten down your self-respect will become , making it more difficult. It takes a lot of Faith and Strength to put your life back together. Don’t let distractions cost you years of your life.
@Bee_licious923 жыл бұрын
How many times does a person start over though? How many heart breaks does a person go through to find the right one? I've prayed so many times asking God to bring the right person HE feels I deserve. When this guy came into my life, I honestly felt like he was the one. He did everything right( at least that's what I thought). Our issue was communication, which is why I chose to let go. If we couldn't communicate about our problems, how could our relationship grow? I was single 7 years before this recent relationship. I gave myself 7 years to heal, focus and pray for the right guy and the outcome was still bad. Sometimes I even questioned myself like " what did I do"? Dating and relationships are so bad this day in age and it's sad. One thing I do know is if GOD is not 1st, nothing in your relationship will succeed.
@yusufabubakr36083 жыл бұрын
If you want your lover to come back to you and stay forever💯💯
@yusufabubakr36083 жыл бұрын
Wh'stapp me💯💯
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow3 жыл бұрын
Stephan says we always know when something isn't right. We need to trust our intuition and end things before we get this attached. I wear my heart on my sleeve and get attached quickly, but we need to move on faster to prevent ourselves from getting so devastated when things don't work out.
@kudalavida34943 жыл бұрын
@brandi I feel you. I had 9.5 years and we met in church dated 11months of absolute bliss before he cheated on me with and left me for a woman old enough to be his grandmother whom he made official 2 weeks after we broke up. Broke up with me 2 days after we "celebrated" our 1 year anniversary. Been 4 months since the breakup. I feel like I am just done.
@JennHerz-HTX923 жыл бұрын
All what you said is how i feel too
@sandraliang90362 жыл бұрын
He wasn’t truly pouring into me, he wasn’t truly making me happy. This is not for me. This won’t truly work. It’s not sustainable. He is not the right guy for me. I will keep reminding myself until I get over him. Thank you so much Stephan Speaks.
@thaliya9339 Жыл бұрын
Its not the good times, its the loneliness, the fact that you lost your bestfriend and someone to talk to each day...
@vanessaallen9106 ай бұрын
Yes. I missed the conversation and it’s hard. 😢
@shatirahopkins2604Ай бұрын
Facts
@classychula35223 жыл бұрын
This hit home. I lowered my standards ,because I was hungry for love. But from the beginning , I should have left it at hello and good bye. Our lifestyles, upbringing, values were so opposite... smh but he did say all the beautiful things my heart was hungry for. Live and learn. At the end of it all the saddest thing, getting dumped after I lowered my standards. Go figure
@quin84632 жыл бұрын
This i can relate I have two kids with them own a home and he went back to his dads and mom house
@kristinwalker80902 жыл бұрын
Understand
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
Whatsazzz him👇👇👇
@affrobetty2 жыл бұрын
ouch!!... cold-blooded
@janiellemarahulme4735 Жыл бұрын
I hate all the ads. Literally balling my eyes out and a fricken insurance ad pops up.
@biruruth59563 жыл бұрын
One thing I love most is time, it heals everything. Take you time working on healing you self.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@biruruth59563 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks my pleasure brother
@gabriellove84883 жыл бұрын
Truth
@biruruth59563 жыл бұрын
@@gabriellove8488 yes dear
@Keonahawk243 жыл бұрын
@@biruruth5956 Well excuse me, how much time do I need? It’s been a year and a half. I’m sick of feeling this way!
@chiqui08163 жыл бұрын
The pain from letting go of someone who's toxic is the worst😔 There are days that are harder than others but The Lord is near to the broken-hearted🙏 Have a blessed weekend Stephan❤
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you I appreciate that!
@tanyatanya94923 жыл бұрын
Yes,it is hard cause brain got used to the uncertainty and unpredictability and it behaves like on addiction,but it WILL get better with time,just keep no contact,none whatsoever.God bless🙏
@JWW773 жыл бұрын
@@tanyatanya9492 so true
@landers127ify3 жыл бұрын
Wow...I love everything you said
@crystalnyla3 жыл бұрын
yep trained the good bye with 2 children and 10 yrs ... I had to end the chaos
@heathersmith97772 жыл бұрын
I felt THIS SO MUCH!!!!!! This is hitting me so hard.....I need to let go. I'm still attached but pretending to be ready to move on. I'm holding on to the fantasy....the situationship was great for him. I never got the commitment but he got all the wifey benefits. I feel foolish for giving my love.
@aazmeer10002 жыл бұрын
So how u got out please tell me
@aazmeer10002 жыл бұрын
How did u get over please tell
@heathersmith97772 жыл бұрын
Well, I'm still having some bad days. More good than bad, but what I did was NO CONTACT. It's horrible. It goes against everything my heart wanted to do, but if I were to contact him, he'd push further away.....and I'd look desperate, which is not what I am. I cried when I felt like crying. I entertained EVERY THOUGHT & MEMORY until I was numb to them. That way, if something popped up that reminded me of him, I felt a little less hurt. I talked to people about how I was feeling.....anyone who would listen. I made a journal/slam book about the situation. I accepted dates from other men....which helps with self-esteem and loneliness. None of it is easy, but eventually, acceptance comes around and you'll begin to feel more like yourself again. It took exactly a month after my 10 month situationship came to an end. Its gonna be okay. Hang in there.
@lindaholder2466 Жыл бұрын
I know what you going through
@AnA2o132 жыл бұрын
“Holding on to what you wanted to believe it was “ 😩💔 I’m going through this now , very painful 😓
@MeetStephanSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@shawanahickman69523 жыл бұрын
I'm over him I'm more pissed at myself for allowing myself to let it go on for so long. But no im not still inlove with him don't even want him. Wishing him the best for him. Im trying to fix me
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
You have to forgive yourself so that you can fully set yourself free 🙏❤️
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through!
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow3 жыл бұрын
I stayed too long too. I think by the end I was just looking for a return on my investment.
@landers127ify3 жыл бұрын
Yes me too. I am so mad and angry with myself for getting so prone to something I had no business doing from the get go.
@dimplesp40463 жыл бұрын
When you recognize he isn’t for you, you have to end it then. This hit me hard. I saw so many flags initially, glad I have moved on. Thank you
@MeetStephanSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@claudieC.2 жыл бұрын
Me too. I knew it and still tried to make it work. What a waste of time. I was discarded and it was the best thing that ever happened to me becuase I was fully invested in making it work so I would had not initiated a break up. So he did me a favor because I wouldn't have left him, I loved him and cared for him and gave so much into him in every way. Waste of time. He didn't realize what he had and he was an unhappy person with unresolved issues with women and had no friends.
@Christy-he6ry2 жыл бұрын
Ladies my heart goes out to you all May we all find peace & healing
@babygurll29233 жыл бұрын
Really good timing i needed to hear this! It’s been 3 months since I broke it with him and it seems like everyday gets even harder than the day before. I miss him soo much😔 we’ve had such an amazing connection💔 I’m hurting so bad I don’t know what to do. Sometimes i wish I didn’t meet him so I don’t have to go through this pain💔 I’ve never loved someone like this before and it hurts soo bad😭
@missworthy65543 жыл бұрын
We are going to be ok
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@mizstrickland3 жыл бұрын
You're not alone
@yessi41133 жыл бұрын
I feel you when you say that you wish you didn’t meet him..I be feeling the same..it’s hard getting over someone..I hope for healing hun ❤️🩹
@rhondarenee39543 жыл бұрын
Im going thru the same thing! Praying it gets better.
@velvedermskin23713 жыл бұрын
"Embrace the process of getting over him...ACCEPT how you feel but don't react to it....DON'T CALL HIM OR SHOW UP AT HIS JOB!!!"🤣🤣🤣🤣
@ArshennaHines3 жыл бұрын
Lol 😚😃🤣 so true because pain can cause you to lose yourself..sometimes...
@sdmims12 жыл бұрын
I might get him fired from his job
@shrinidhipatil3352 жыл бұрын
@@sdmims1 totally 😂
@shrinidhipatil3352 жыл бұрын
I d k but atleast for last two times i blown up the phone with worst words what else do u call mfs as? babyy? naah! bitch is a bitch and he better know that i k he's one
@ReneJerez-vx3id2 жыл бұрын
😂😂Don’t stalk him on social media
@shawanahickman69523 жыл бұрын
Nope he never loved me. And i can accept that now
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@shawanahickman69523 жыл бұрын
I just want to know what true love feels like
@beefaye183 жыл бұрын
It consistently feels good....it doesn't hurt 👍🌹
@latoyadavis85423 жыл бұрын
Fall in love with God give him your heart completely. You do that you definitely will know what true love is.
@rachelfinney17743 жыл бұрын
Me too
@GGGG-uj1no3 жыл бұрын
Start looking in the mirror
@LadyYella3 жыл бұрын
@@latoyadavis8542 amen
@t.west10573 жыл бұрын
I started crying while listening to this...you were truly speaking to me today. I've been having sex with a man that doesn't pour into me at all, on top of that the sex was just average at best. I recently let him go and this video is confirmation that I did the right thing. Thank you🙏🙏🙏
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal all you have been through 🙏
@t.west10573 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you so much!
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@Aquariuswonder863 жыл бұрын
I’m going through the same thing right now too. Attempted to break up with him last week and he roped me back in with false promises to change smh.
@shanicespencer81593 жыл бұрын
Omggg this is what I'm going through right now , I'm going to break it off
@countcrow2 жыл бұрын
It's not necessarily a fantasy but a feeling he created, you both created that is so hard to let go. That feeling remains even after the fantasy crumbles
@MeetStephanSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing I appreciate that ❤
@nella1163 жыл бұрын
This relationship has been so stressful. It’s draining me it’s time to let Go.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@beefaye183 жыл бұрын
Awwww....Im sorry....yes, don't let your mental health decline....there is something better....I was in a horrible marriage....it got so bad it was making me sick....I was breaking out in hives....I lost so much weight I didn't want to come outside.....get out early sis....its not worth it ....be blessed 🙏
@nella1163 жыл бұрын
@@beefaye18 thank you, yeah call myself dating a busy man. Always to busy for me. I just want better. Thank you, we got this sis❤️
@beefaye183 жыл бұрын
@@nella116 Yes.....you deserve better ❤
@ambiecats61893 жыл бұрын
Your body tells you when your mind doesn't want to believe it. I know mine did. When he would do things that he knew would bother me my insides would vibrate. That was something that never happened before.
@tonyahunt11263 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it's how they made you feel alive again, even if deep down you knew it wasn't real. It's difficult to sit with the pain of losing that.
@kellyparadis10392 жыл бұрын
Thank you for putting it like that. It makes sense now.
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
Whatsazzz him👇👇👇
@iamindiachanae8 ай бұрын
Thissss‼️‼️🙌🏾
@molove40292 жыл бұрын
6 years of being single. When I thought I found someone special I was feeling good finally. Then bull shyt happened and I’m back to square one. Dating sucks.
@nomessnostress8 ай бұрын
That's why now I do not even thing I need long breaks like that anymore because it doesn't change the outcome! I'm not going to jump around, but I won't take years off anymore.... I'm going to heal and move on this time.... its been almost 2 months and its getting better
@ConstantinaThakur2 ай бұрын
same i stayed single let someone who was everything i wanted recently but he’s still messing with his ex lowkey so im out 😞 sadness
@beefaye183 жыл бұрын
I DON'T CARE IF IT HURTS....WE NEED THE HARD TRUTH.... 😵😖
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@missieedwards54722 жыл бұрын
Man! This hit home for me! Not only did I "over invest" in a "masked man" I stayed because I didn't want to take the loss. Thats important. I should've left a long time ago. I kept giving what was already not being reciprocated. I won't trash my ex but I will say this, im glad to finally be free physically of him- now I'll emotionally detatch myself. Moving forward is exciting! I'm ready to treat me right! Im ready to move past the pain and heartbreak of the lies I accepted. Im ready to heal!
@aspyatkova6 ай бұрын
Girl, how are things for you now?
@fatimatubah152 жыл бұрын
The hardest reason amongst the 7 reasons you mention is when you have a genuine love for him. It's really hard to let go of a man you genuinely love.
@yesitsKat072 жыл бұрын
me crying knowing i did his resume lol, We’ve been together 5 yrs and your videos have helped me accept that you cant always get what you give. Sometimes its a blessing in disguise to leave. Time to invest in myself
@ghanaianqueen78913 жыл бұрын
I was with my ex for about 8 months. Our families loved us togeter . I ignored the red flags in the beginning . He was in his 30s, still lived in his childhood bedroom, had no car, only worked part time, yet went out everyweekend! I made him feel like the man of my house , let him use my car whenever he needed , paid for dates so he wouldnt use his money, paid for us to go to Universal studios . Did all of this all for him to break up with me ! Im like wait what’!? I got closer to God and honestly this had to happen because i wouldnt have walked away unfortunately. This relationship was an eye opener ! I was going broke being with him
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@yusufabubakr36083 жыл бұрын
If you want your lover to come back to you and stay forever💯💯
@yusufabubakr36083 жыл бұрын
Wh'stapp me💯💯
@yusufabubakr36083 жыл бұрын
+2348110501742⏯⏯💕💕💕💕⏯️⏯️
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow3 жыл бұрын
I carried the majority of my 8 year relationship and now I realize he wasn't pouring into me at all. I was just taking care of him. I didn't think the red flags were that big of a deal, but they never got better and ended up being the reason I ended things. My relationship was an eye opener too. I'm glad we both got out so that we can find better.
@phoebekachala34573 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this. Letting go of this one is killing me inside. Thank you Stephan.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@beefaye183 жыл бұрын
Oooh....been there....but I did it.👍
@candican98533 жыл бұрын
💐
@misskaykayRSA3 жыл бұрын
This kind of pain is one the hardest to get through. I feel like am worse today than I was yesterday. It’s such an uphill battle. One step forward, 15 backwards. So damn hard 💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
@chiadaphney34533 жыл бұрын
I can relate sis
@CammyCamz-o83 жыл бұрын
The best feeling is when you healed and you run into an ex . Free from that hurt , and you can keep it pushing . It’s beautiful . Thank you 🙏 for class and the video.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help!
@sarahn37943 жыл бұрын
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@sarahn37943 жыл бұрын
Contact father right* away Text him now through whatszpp
@sarahn37943 жыл бұрын
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@LadyYella3 жыл бұрын
💯💯 it happen before I ran into a ex I was fully healed praise God he wanted to get back together only thing I could tell him that I forgive him for everything that he did to me and we move on from there in life but not be back together just friends
@Sunsea-er4nf3 жыл бұрын
It's truly frustrating and heartbreaking. But this woman here, isn't going to fall again in the toxic cycle . We deserve better. I've learned that most of the time a relationship goes sour and you have to invest your energy is someone that only puts you down , the best thing you can do , is to walk away. Remember discernment never fails, if you feel something is not right, it ain't. Be grateful that you'll have the opportunity to find the right man and be happy. Sending positive energy, and remember that you are not alone. 💕
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
@joyjessica17743 жыл бұрын
hello friend, do you wish to manifest your ex back or someone you loved dearly??💕💕💕
@joyjessica17743 жыл бұрын
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@dare2bda1373 жыл бұрын
This is freeing. This message allows me to escape the confinement of my own thoughts. The feelings are real, the thoughts created were fantasies. Just fantasies.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@Thatgirl_Gee3 жыл бұрын
I think one of the biggest struggle is separating the emotion and the memory as one can trigger the other. Knowing how to extract the lesson learned from the previous relationship without getting attached to the person and always thinking about them can get difficult.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@micheleprice97713 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! YES INDEED! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SEPT 2021
@leslieweir70513 жыл бұрын
This to me is the hardest part is letting go of a toxic man, I have been in a situationship for the past 2 years, and I guess my "place" is this off and on, trying to break free, but wont let me go, but wants to see other people and me be their whens hes done playing, come back and me living in "hope" mode that things will get different and this man will change, but in reality it will never change and like you said, I struggle emotionally inside not moving on.... I know that I need to move on and look for better but my attachment inside me wont let me do so....I struggle with letting go and accepting things for what it is and not what I want it to be...... and threw listening to your messages over the past 3 years is that if a man truley wants to be with you and be committed to you, he would do so, you would not haft to wait for him to "come around," or " see your worth or value," because in reality hes already "categorized" you in a department in his mind and its not the department of being your man and being their for you..... accepting you are a form of "convenience," because he knows you have feelings for him and he uses that to his advantage...because in his mind , you have been here this long, putting u with his behaviors, why would you stop.....
@aprilyavon48863 жыл бұрын
I needed to hear this! My struggle is getting over him. It's so hard. He didn't see my value at all. I gave it a year and gave him somewhat of an option he choose to walk away. That spoke volumes. He never wanted me nor saw me in that light. I was his experiment making ready for his next relationship
@eekandem3 жыл бұрын
This makes me sad. I'm so sorry. It happened to me 20 years ago too but I realize that he wasn't best for me because he used me.
@aprilyavon48863 жыл бұрын
@@eekandem yes it hurts I'm working on me but I do see in my future that I won't be dating for a very long time or ever again.
@ikr23773 жыл бұрын
Spot on .for some men women are no more then an experience which means an experiment
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
@@aprilyavon4886 I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
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@shawanahickman69523 жыл бұрын
I can't wait to start over. Heck im a lover not a fighter
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
You got this ❤
@nomessnostress8 ай бұрын
This! I used to take years off out of fear... but with this relationship we did love each other, I knew he did.... we just wasn't good for one another... we trauma bonded.... I'm ready to move on! He showed me I can have love and move forward
@jackeyalvarado25062 жыл бұрын
Just gone through a break up, it’s been 4 months now and I swear I come back to this video each month
@millicentmotloung85053 жыл бұрын
I just let go and I feel so free and liberated. Self love is so important.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that!
@yusufabubakr36083 жыл бұрын
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@yusufabubakr36083 жыл бұрын
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@kellyparadis10392 жыл бұрын
Truth. Proud of you
@spiritualqueen3423 Жыл бұрын
When you feel that spiritual connection it’s real it’s like losing your other half and you can’t have them anymore. I don’t know I felt like I did everything I could to make him happy but we were both going through a difficult time there was just no open discussions in the house. I just want us both to heal from our traumas and maybe it is right person wrong timing. 😢💔
@aS-qu1vp3 жыл бұрын
I cant stop thinking about him bc at the end of the day we were friends. Talked every day but he projected his interturmoil onto me. He broke me emotionally. Letting go and walking away was necessary
@christinelynn25773 жыл бұрын
I was meant to see this because I’m struggling even though I’m really trying and taking the right steps.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
🙏
@outsidethebox84063 жыл бұрын
Praying things get easier for you...
@christinelynn25773 жыл бұрын
@@outsidethebox8406 thank you so much
@ambiecats61893 жыл бұрын
I feel ya Christine. Its been since April for me and I could cry at the drop of a hat. Not sure if its because of him or my hormones. Lol.. Think its the fact of everything I put in it. I didn't get it back not all anyway. Like Stephan said it wasn't even about the sex because it wasnt great I must say. All about him. 🙄
@christinelynn25773 жыл бұрын
@@ambiecats6189 yeah it’s honestly the most difficult breakup. We definitely had a spiritual connection and even tho it’s over I’ll always love him. I do wish him well with everything. I’m ready for my peace so I can find my true love.
@divinedigitalpro3 жыл бұрын
This message was meant for me. I'm having a harder time than most, because my ex and I work for the same employer; different departments. He comes to my department on his lunch break to workout. When I run into him...lord help me.🤦♀️
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I feel you it definitely isn't an easy situation but you need to focus on doing what is truly best!
@outsidethebox84063 жыл бұрын
I'm praying for you Sis. You'll get through it.
@ariondavis91443 жыл бұрын
Praying for you 🙏🏽🙏🏽 It’s going get better
@yaniquewanliss18013 жыл бұрын
I went through a similar situation. Trust me I have learned my lesson. It was so hard remaining professional and even when I just wanted to cry. I managed somehow with the help of God.
@divinedigitalpro3 жыл бұрын
@@outsidethebox8406 Thank you.
@joebobbitt73313 жыл бұрын
It's been a week from a 10 year relationship...moving on so I can get who is really for me is the best thing you said. You were on point about everything thank you!
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about your breakup and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you!
@joyjessica17743 жыл бұрын
hello friend, do you wish to manifest your ex back or someone you loved dearly??💕💕💕
@joyjessica17743 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to father EDIALE his spells and manifestations are the best 💯💯💯💯💕💕💕
@joyjessica17743 жыл бұрын
V I a W h a t s A p p💕💕
@joyjessica17743 жыл бұрын
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@annywalessa64333 жыл бұрын
Point 5 resonates so much with me. "He treated me so much better than the others...but the bar was set low! Ouch. Praying God for discernement to avoid misinterpreting Point 7. Thank you Stephan. Stay blessed 🙌
@RhondaR43 жыл бұрын
You are always on point! So many of us need this moving forward.💯
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help!
@tiatianaajournee3 жыл бұрын
Yesss so happy I’ve came across his social media platform.♥️ He reallyyyyy a blessing💯🖤
@tiatianaajournee3 жыл бұрын
Platforms**
@Blazedbarbie3333 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thanks so much for this Video I needed to watch this again and again! Cause man they are wolves in sheep's clothing it's insane
@RhondaR43 жыл бұрын
@@tiatianaajournee AMEN! BLESSINGS COMING YOUR WAY❣️
@LaTrav083 жыл бұрын
I really needed to hear this today. God does not want me to settle and who he sends may not be in the package I want but he will be everything I need🙏🏾
@MeetStephanSpeaks2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@Princessfrmalmighty2 жыл бұрын
Yes amen I have this same mind set
@samranabraham18432 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@samranabraham18432 жыл бұрын
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@samranabraham18432 жыл бұрын
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@tishasherman90302 жыл бұрын
I liked point 7, he has cross your path so you can see what out there waiting for you! He was everything I loved, hard working man, good morals, love family, loved his mother, love taking care of his home and I loved his funny looking face, true connection but it wasn't our time 😢 💔 thank you LORD for decerment
@yalvia3 жыл бұрын
I can't wait until i heal. Thank you for this message.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I pray that you heal from all that yo have been through 🙏
@yalvia3 жыл бұрын
@@MeetStephanSpeaks Thank you. I'm reading your heartbreak book. 😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
@UCRZ_o5ilqAK8oZs54GM%F0%9F%99%8FH24g I hope it will give you the clarity that you need and you will be able to heal from all that you have been through!
@landers127ify3 жыл бұрын
Same here. It's long over due for me
@jerzygrl8896 Жыл бұрын
21:42 🤯 "The bar was set low". My God. What a moment of bittersweet revelation. Thank you.
@virgiltheodore42063 жыл бұрын
My God Stephan! What are you? Psychic? This hits different. How are you able to tell my truth? God bless you 🙏 I always knew why but having someone else explain it and be so spot-on, is everything! Thank you 😊
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure ❤
@lisaj36393 жыл бұрын
So true!
@Carleen023 жыл бұрын
Very true
@melr12803 жыл бұрын
I really needed this 🙏 i run his business that i helped him start up. Having to be the one thats in constant communication with him kills me. Watching him move on so easily while im still struggling. But i agree that what hurts the most is the attachment to him and everything i put into the relationship (and the business, with hopes of it being "ours" in the future), not really about him cause in all honesty i knew he wouldn't be the one for a while but kept holding on. When i tell you this man hit every single point on im going through, this man seriously hit every single point of what im going through.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through!
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow3 жыл бұрын
You are stronger than you realize! I couldn't imagine not being about to cut an ex off to help get over them. Stephan nailed this list. It was hard to hear but it was needed.
@melr12803 жыл бұрын
@@thisvetwantsyoutoknow Thank you so much! It definitely sucks but I agree, needed to hear it. Gotta REPLAY to it sticks 😂🤭
@Younggal13 жыл бұрын
Just a question why would you help him continue running it
@melr12803 жыл бұрын
@@Younggal1 maybe cause im weak 😂 ...but for real no one out there will pay me what im currently making with him. And im investing most of my income on something til the end of the year. So ywah im trying to set myself up so i can leave. Its been so many times that i will judt break down cause i cant just up and leave.
@feddyotieno34313 жыл бұрын
You're such a blessing Stephen
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
thank you, I appreciate that
@RhondaR43 жыл бұрын
I AGREE!💯❤️
@outsidethebox84063 жыл бұрын
You truly are. Thank God for giving you this gift to help others.
@HD-xb9mj3 жыл бұрын
Its harder when your older from being used, rejected, devalued. Especially by someone I've known since we were teens
@taneciadavis69703 жыл бұрын
He May Not Have Everythang You Wanted..... But He Has Everythang You Need.... This video was 100% straight Facts and 100% on point !!
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching I appreciate your feedback and be sure to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@teresadiaz4542 Жыл бұрын
So thankful for this video. I’m not even finished but it’s spoken so much truth to me already. Literally would cook every day in hopes he sees I’m good for him but like I never thought about it he was good for me. I thought he liked me a lot and valued me but he didn’t. I let the bare minimum reel me in. We live and we learn I guess.
@cajunscorpion3 жыл бұрын
Keep busy. Meditate. Get a daily routine going. Self care. Manifest your healing.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@micheleprice97713 жыл бұрын
AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! VERY INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS AND EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS!
@wandresaboss70843 жыл бұрын
I love that. That's what I do. I get into a daily routine. Walking, studying, go be the water, go to an outside restaurant. Just to regain peace
@amab18533 жыл бұрын
This video was much needed and came right on time. You are right, Stephan. For me, the challenge with moving forward was that I kept holding onto hope. Because I kept believing that he would change and value me and rebuild things to be more positive. But I realized the reality was that he did not treat me the way I deserve. As a result, I have to remember the bad, and remember why I have to walk away
@dr.yvettehall3 жыл бұрын
You expressed my sentiments. Coming from a woman who was married 26 years.
@jahnaesjourney47523 жыл бұрын
Yes i feel the same way 😩
@llainascurls33812 жыл бұрын
I was there too. I kept trying to forgive all the while hoping he would return to the man I fell in love with. The truth is I fell in love with his representative and after a while the waters became so muddy, I could not find me anymore. After years of investing I finally walked away. It was not an easy decision, but I had to finally start loving me more than him.
@teabiscuits1611 Жыл бұрын
This gave me a moment of clarity. 🙏 The investment, the fantasy, the desire, the hope. Jeez. I give so much. Because that’s how I feel a relationship should be. All in, love, commitment, support, showing up. It’s how my 15 year relationship was before him. Our attachment styles are repelling each other.
@arundhatibanerji83173 жыл бұрын
Greetings from India 🇮🇳 I'm so glad I found your channel. I broke up recently with my boyfriend of almost three years and he was my best friend for three years before the relationship. Need less to say I'm heartbroken however your videos are a God send. Thank you for talking facts in such a detailed manner. You have been a great source of comfort and wisdom for me at this unhappy time of my life. I can't get enough of your videos.
@MsBeautiful-i2v Жыл бұрын
"In your Spirit you know you don't belong there." I DON'T WANT A "SPIRITUAL" Connection with anyone again. My "Spiritual" Connection is for me. Anything that my Spiritual "eyes" come in to play lets me know something is wrong.
@ketiamiller89203 жыл бұрын
You nailed it 🤦🏽♀️sad part I ignore all the red flags & my gut feelings 🤨every time he hurt me giving his ex’ so much attention when she was using their kid’s for a excuse why she always needed to talk… I got toxic & use to be cussing 🤬 him out bad & very disrespectful stressing ..how much respect & loyalty love i give him trying to make him recognize I’m truly a team player I’m cooking working cleaning house whole shopping ect….doing everything right we both supported each other but he didn’t respect my feelings 💔
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
Whatsazzz him👇👇👇
@marchellegodsangel96013 жыл бұрын
Freedom… I’ve honestly been through enough hurt with my past that I just wanted him to change. I wanted him to be this fairytale guy that never happen. I wanted a prefect guy but he was never perfect and I do know there’s no such thing as a perfect person. We are all flawed but can be fixed. I had to let go and I’m loving me at this point. I am content being single and living life.
@tiffanyjoseph9887 Жыл бұрын
Its been 4 days😢 ive prayed journaled and been watching you
@radio17582 жыл бұрын
He hurt me deeply and yet he gave me nothing. I keep thinking about what might have been. I have been holding myself back. I don't want to cry. But, I don't want to be strong either. I am really trying to hold it together. I am really trying. I know that i can't hold on to any fantasy. I choose move on. I have love myself first. That's my closure, loving me more
@veedimples13 жыл бұрын
The timing!!! This message was literally for me. Thank you, Stephan. Just yesterday, I was talking to my therapist, trying to figure out why I can't seem to let men go, even after I find out they are not what I want for me. I'll tell them I don't want this but will think about them every day, crave their attention, etc. We could not come up with an answer, but some of what you mentioned here makes sooo much sense. You are a blessing
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@thisvetwantsyoutoknow3 жыл бұрын
I watched this twice so that it wouldn't sting so much to hear it the second time. I needed to hear this today and it addressed all of the reasons I have ever struggled to get over someone and why I'm currently struggling. It also helped me understand why unhealthy attachments develop and why situationships are bad ideas. Thank you ❤ You were made for this. Thanks for helping me so much over the past year. I know he's out there, I just need to pour into myself first and prepare.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you don't forget to share so that others can receive love and healing!
@nadinemelameka26843 жыл бұрын
Love me too, I actually took a piece of paper 📝 to write word down so I can remember
@ashleyjackson29643 жыл бұрын
In my office agreeing out loud and shoutin’ like I’m in church. C’mon sir, give us the truth!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@yusufabubakr36083 жыл бұрын
If you want your lover to come back to you and stay forever💯💯
@yusufabubakr36083 жыл бұрын
Wh'stapp me💯💯
@yusufabubakr36083 жыл бұрын
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@helenvero88932 жыл бұрын
You have nailed it. After 31 years I have asked for a divorce and I was replaced in two weeks. No engery left, invested way to much with no return emotionally or in any other way. Hurts but I will be fine as long as I stay real about the life we had together. I have great kids, my blessings. Thank you so much.
@missieedwards54722 жыл бұрын
You weren't replaced- he moved to a new supply- if he moved on that quick, the reality is he moved on a long time ago. Good news is now you can move on too!
@keeyahnacaver64112 жыл бұрын
This literally planted my feet on the path to be free! Thank you Stephan. Thank you God for using him as a vessel. I feel so much lighter when I understand the root cause of life’s situations… Thanks again 🙏🏽❤️
@qwkslvr5863 жыл бұрын
It's been six years since my ex, never have I ever heard of anything like what you've said in this video. Your words are profoundly impactful and bathed in wisdom. Thank you for helping to provide insight as to why this past situation has been so difficult to move on from.
@fateemahsaniminkaila24792 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems....
@fateemahsaniminkaila24792 жыл бұрын
十13609219711♻️♻️🎦🚻识你...
@sassygal4727 Жыл бұрын
I absolutely have mad respect for your candor and sincerity. I came across this and I really needed to hear this today. 😢 It does hurt. Thank you for all you do
@Cora_is_Thriving2 жыл бұрын
I just can’t let go of my ex🥺, I have never love that deep before. I have never had an issue to get over an ex, it’s been months. I don’t want to accept the fact that it’s over even if I was the one who initiated the break up. He played so many mind games, he put me into depression. I had to walk away for my own sake. I’m so glad that I have found this video.
@anaj7214 Жыл бұрын
Hi have you got over him? 😔🥺 I really need hope rn
@deealison10702 жыл бұрын
It's painful to hear but so true, I blindly invested so much time into this dude but got absolutely nothing in return, the sex was sporadic and very few and far between with no intimacy or affection but I stupidly carried on for many years in the hope that a change was going to come but it never did, the red flags were there but I ignored them, we have a child together and he was not really there for her either, I can't comment on the whole story because it would probably take months to complete, just recently I walked away from the toxicity and the disrespect, I am watching your videos as part of my healing process, and when I'm listening it's almost as if you are talking to me and you know you story, I'm nodding my head as you speak, it's heartbreaking but I'm ploughing through all the emotions and trying to move forward with my life.
@RhondaR43 жыл бұрын
WOW WOW WOW!! CONFIRMATION! I know GOD is using you to teach me! Just yesterday I said in conversation with THE LORD I do deserve better and I will receive better if it’s from GOD. I instantly became nervous and overwhelmed! All I ever wanted and still want is to feel loved. I DON’T care about material things.💯
@Mekia-hr8qh3 жыл бұрын
I had a conversation with God yesterday also . When I saw this video I was like Wow Thank you God
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@ambiecats61893 жыл бұрын
I think thats what most of us want. I could care less about stuff either. Just want the feeling of being loved and safe. Not too much to ask I don't think. 💐
@micheleprice97713 жыл бұрын
@@ambiecats6189 AMEN! SO TRULY RIGHT! GREAT INSPIRING AMAZING ENLIGHTENING WORDS OF WISDOM! GOD BLESS US ALL! GOD LOVES US ALL! SELF LOVE! BELOVED! LET YR LIGHT 4EVER SHINE BRIGHT! GOD IS WORKIN IT OUT! ON HIS GOD GIVEN RIGHT TIME! HOLD ON TO GOD ALWAYS! PRAY OFTEN AND DAILY TO GOD ALWAYS! GOD IS OUR EVERYTHING! GOD CAN HANDLE ANYTHING! GOD HAS US COVERED! GOD IS ALWAYS WITH US! GOD WILL NEVER LEAVE U NOR FORSAKE U! GLORY TO GOD ALMIGHTY! GOD WILL SEE US THRU ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR THIS BLESSED TODAY! TELL THE LORD THANK U FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! BE GRATEFUL AND THANKFUL FOR ALL THINGS IN YR LIFE AND FOR EVERYONE IN YR LIFE RIGHT NOW AND ALWAYS! SMILE ALWAYS!( EVEN IN STORMS THAT U GO THRU!) PEACE AND HARMONY TO EVERYONE IN THE WORLD RIGHT NOW! YES INDEED! ENOUGH SAID! THATS IT! SEPT 2021
@michellesimpson40933 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much this has truly helped me gain clarity! You are such a wonderful blessing
@atention333 жыл бұрын
Brotha.... Your 🎁 is a blessing.. The big Brotha I know I need. I pray as much as you pour out, you are being poured into. #4 is my true battle.. The struggle is real.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
I hope this has been helpful to you and I pray you are able to keep moving in faith 🙏
@tubadurantdoda2 жыл бұрын
Wow! I feel so heard! I felt like you read my thoughts throughout the whole video. You just touched every single detail that's been going on on my mind with great advice. My husband recently left me out of the blue, despite me sacrificing a lot and giving lots of time and energy, so both in shock and despair, i still try to get over the trauma and this video is really helpful!
@ليطمئنقلبي-م6ن2 жыл бұрын
I hope you will heal soon
@colleendaniels68842 жыл бұрын
I really needed this! God led me to your channel and all your videos have blessed me but this one came at a time when I really needed this. Please keep letting the Lord use you 🙏🏽
@AnnikaPitts-gi6gy Жыл бұрын
I’m heart broken… I miss him so much and love him! I love myself more that’s why I had to walk away
@zoobadee3 жыл бұрын
Thank you SO much for this absolute truth bomb. Did it hurt ? Yes. BUT , this is the tough love I needed to hear . I've been holding onto the bare minimum from someone, actually LESS than that..getting nothing but sadness in return. But not anymore, there is zero point in holding onto someone who doesn't want to hold onto you 💜
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help!
@joyjessica17743 жыл бұрын
hello friend, do you wish to manifest your ex back or someone you loved dearly??💕💕💕
@joyjessica17743 жыл бұрын
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@joyjessica17743 жыл бұрын
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@gorgeous1832 жыл бұрын
You took me with the last one. Because I need to let go, I’m struggling with recognizing if it really was a genuine connection. On another note, I felt when you said that I may not have what I want, but I may have what I need. Made me reanalyze myself!
@cameron85003 жыл бұрын
I am a man and this video popped up because I respect this brotha so much I watched the video. I did exactly what he said I invested a lot in a young woman over 7 years and the lack of return had me stuck. As he said there was good times but she never gave whatvi gave. We live and learn not bitter only wiser.
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to (Mr Ose )who was able to bring back my ex husband and it works, I believe he can solve your relationship problems.......
@maryamadamu26362 жыл бұрын
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@sctc7102 Жыл бұрын
Wow, this hit home for me. The moment you said, You’ve invested all these years it’s hard to let go, it’s not the love for him it’s the time invested. For me is the idea of him. The memories of those few good memories but looking back I evaded them red flags. A 15 year marriage. 17 years invested. Thank you so much for these words. Also the sex talk wow, spot on in everything you said. Sexual attachment not because of the act but the intimacy/ sacrifice. Praise God for coming across your channel.
@therealtrinsetter2 жыл бұрын
When you said, “ You don’t think it’s going to get any better” I felt that in my spirit 🥺🤦🏾♀️
@ecaldwell92 жыл бұрын
I’ve been watching u for about 2 yrs Stephan. Didn’t know that u were divinely guided until now. It explains why the advice is so good. I’m glad that you’re a believer & using your gift to help heal the world. Thx U.
@brownshugakale24103 жыл бұрын
Some may question how do you know that you've healed from the past and/or past hurt ? ....how does that look and feel??? ...I would say that you're no longer triggered by the person, their actions, their words... You don't continue to talk about them or how they hurt you... You've fallen back in love with you - doing things that align with your purpose, passion, and goals. God bless all who are experiencing the pain of a breakup. May He bind the broken 💔 & grant a peace that surpasses understanding 🙏🏾
@velvedermskin23713 жыл бұрын
"REBUKE any ex that tells you you cannot find anyone better than him"👍🏾👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@rosefunk15122 жыл бұрын
I was with a man for a year. I struggled getting over him. No other guy was an issue…but this guy…I just struggled! I prayed! I kept him out of my life! All the things you are to do! It took a week of situations where I was in need…need of help, need of support in a fun important event, etc! I finally saw his true colors! I saw how deep his trauma and brokenness really was! And in that week of events, the hook my heart had for him…unhooked, dropped and I was done! Finally☺️ By no means am I saying he is a bad man! I am saying he has 25 years of unresolved brokenness and hurt that he lives life through! Every time I tried to get close to his heart, this broken edges in his heart shredded my heart! But when I did a spiritual cleansing…washing off all the stuff I’d worked through in the last 4 years…and he (as a Christian man) could not see the value in what God had and was doing in my life…I was 100% done! No romantic feelings left! No desires left! No unfinished business left! Just done! Finished! ☺️
@astridhanl4861 Жыл бұрын
You can't imagine how much your clips, also this one, about break ups and getting over break ups resonates and helps me. It's such a huge support to have something like this on my side, when during a break up or after sometimes you're so overwhelmed and really unsure and insecure if you're doing the right thing for being happy in the long run. Being healthy in all aspects. I am struggling to step back from a real connection, but the timing ain't right. There is so much commitment and live bit we both need to work on aspects of our life's on our own. And still I am attached and grieving for the break up... Trying to find the right balance to stay connected and also healing. It's a trial and error thing.. It's hard and there's a lot of hope that I will find the right way. And your clips help me a lot with That. Thank you so much
@saramarcy92223 жыл бұрын
This guy is the best one out there with advice 👏. He is so genuine and honest he delivers it you in a way that says I am here for you and want you to heal. His not interested in money he really wants to help you out. Thank you and may Hashem bless you xxxx
@lyrisgreenidge-adams59413 жыл бұрын
This was so good. Sex does make the connection stronger. A woman making up her mind to aly down with a man most time is an intimate symbol of giving her all to him.
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Sex makes the attachment stronger, thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate your feedback!
@joyjessica17743 жыл бұрын
hello friend, do you wish to manifest your ex back or someone you loved dearly??💕💕💕
@joyjessica17743 жыл бұрын
I can recommend you to father EDIALE his spells and manifestations are the best 💯💯💯💯💕💕💕
@joyjessica17743 жыл бұрын
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@cynthia596653 жыл бұрын
Pray and focus on other things it can be very hard to let go but if I’m getting less then more and hurting behind it this makes it a bit easier you only get one heart I want to be around a long time 🙏♥️
@MeetStephanSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback.
@carolmatthews1625 Жыл бұрын
wow, what a wake up call i spent 20 years with MR Wrong!! and he left! i put up with so much and did so much for him wow i feel really dumb i need to have this on a continous loop! He has been gone for 3 months and i am just coming out of SHOCK
@chynabarges31262 жыл бұрын
You spoke to me! I just recently got of a 3 year relationship with my daughters dad. I felt like the man/woman in the relationship being that he didn’t really have much to offer. I helped him beyond measure and got minimum back💔he wasn’t really carrying his weight with his our daughter and I got tired of the slack. So much he put me through. He cheated, lied, disrespected me etc but I always took him back. I left him mid October and 2 weeks later, he got another gf