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[@oliwia1140]

sometimes I just feel sad for absolutely no reason and it's like??? excuse me for what

[@anastasialopez4124]

me right now

[@perrytheplatypus5373]

Ugh same bestie. I get into this weird slump every few weeks😭

[@melanieventer3511]

The past few days lmao--

[@briellejade._]

same

[@tia4517]

Same I feel like I can never be 100% happy and there’s always something that makes me sad and it sucks

[@luciaaxoxo]

Listening to my tears ricochet when you feel horrible is the most real thing I’ve seen

[@chocolateoreo6489]

Yes!!!

[@hellothere8358]

We all have our bad days and you are so real for showing us this

[@iasmim1283]

Listening to my tears ricochet, crying, reading and cleaning to feel better.. she's SO REAL for this.

[@looney_lovegood7776]

wtf? i just thinking about the fact that how i wasted a whole weekend being depressed and did nothing for my upcoming exams, i was soo sad and then i took a break from my binge netflix watch and came across this video. To think that i was not the only one, made me feel much better. Thank u steph

[@Audriavbruna]

ahhh i hear you!!!!! so much sadness this weekend and i have final exams next week. good luck friend!! stay compassionate towards yourself xo

[@lihaec]

Watching this back one year later is so heartwarming

[@booksandwine6245]

It's really comforting to hear you talk about friendship standards, because I always feel like a bitch when I think about what I want out of a friendship, when in reality it's not too much to ask for respect, being able to talk about everything and supporting each other. But in every friendship I have ever had, I feel like I was more committed than the other person, which doesn't feel great. On the other hand, I tend to distance myself from my friends when I don't feel good about myself or something in my life, because I don't want to bother anyone (because in past "friendships" people made me feel like I was), but to my friends, me distancing myself always looks like I'm abandoning them... Friendships in general are just really hard to figure out and once you have been through bad friendship breakups, it's harder to let people in

[@isastar940]

mood 😭

[@sarahcampbell3898]

this.

[@gabifurbino4417]

dear steph, thank u for always being so truthful and honest with ur fans. these past few months have been very difficult for me, and seeing u express yourself in such a genuine way makes me feel less alone. u are an AMAZING person, gorgeous inside and out; you inspire me every single day! even though we’ve never met, ur videos have helped me deal with a whole lot of things, and i couldn’t thank you enough for that. hope u know that u help lots of people all around the world with ur kind, fun vibe, and we love you so much for it. you’re not alone, u can count on us, no matter what! love you, hope ur ok!! keep well soon, sending u so much love & positivity 💘💘

[@camryenmitchell-marr3205]

Girly, you are not alone. I have been in a funk too, due to the semester being over and other things. I hope you feel better soon and love you!!!

[@supriyayaya9291]

rewatched this video today and it feels so good steph finally finding her people

[@mayisunreal]

The friendship conversation was the ted talk I needed but didn’t know I needed🫶🏻

[@poppylth]

I've been in such a flunk recently about friendships and watching this video has actually given me a peace of mind. watching your videos is like having a talk with a big sister and I love it!

[@elizabethgordon1515]

I honestly needed to hear this. I've been struggling with long term friends and how I've been feeling about them a lot recently. Thank you so much for your thoughts. It helped to hear someone else's perspective on this so I wasn't so bogged down.

[@keirajackson4319]

Hearing other people’s stories and their every day struggles makes me realise I’m not alone, there’s so many strangers out there who feel the exact same. We just need to keep reminding ourselves that, you help so many people Steph and we’re forever grateful Love from England 🤍

[@dontdenygrwm]

😭😭

[@possiblyme14]

I’ve never related to anything more than I did when Steph was talking about friendships 😭 I need to find my people

[@skk75000]

thank you for being so real and making many people feel less alone with this

[@johnd.20]

I love how Steph doesn't tell us why she's crying. most people crying on KZbin just want all the drama and the attention but she's just being sincere. kudos to you for that Steph

[@cheyenneclenney]

idk if its weird to say that these kinda vlogs are my favorite. something about seeing someone go through the same things as me and learning to deal with loneliness is helpful. thank u for being real steph!

[@CassieGreen14]

I'm literally going through the same type of situation with a best friend and i feel like im putting in all the effort. It's exhausting and heartbreaking. We all deserve better than that! This video is so real and relatable. Thank You Steph

[@sophieems]

i just went through a difficult situation with friends. as upsetting as it is, it makes me feel so better to see someone I look up to going through the same thing being hopeful and honest. you are so inspiring and help me on my most difficult days!! thank you, love you

[@katherinelheureux8337]

I used to feel a lot like you do when it came to friendship. That if someone did not put in the time and effort to see me, then they were not worth all the time I gave them in return. But after talking to some of my friends about this, I realized that a lot of the time the friend who has not reached out in a while, is the friend that needs the most support. You never know what someone is going through. I have learned that sometimes it is worth putting in more effort up front, as long as they are open with you as to why they have become distant. Communication is key when it comes to your close life long friendships!

[@eduardagonzaga7187]

literally had a huge disappointment regarding a friendship yesterday, thank u so much for posting this and being human with us

[@dsbfock]

everything you said about friendship and relationships in general is so freaking true and i’m absolutely agree. in my 25 years a learned to think just like that and remind myself i deserve the same energy and love i’m giving. there’s billions ppl on the world and i deserve good ppl around you who see my worth and love me as i do love them. cause honestly? i think i’m amazing person with great personality, who supports ppl around me, i’m kind, smart and care so much about my ppl and i constantly try to be better version of myself. And to have someone toxic in my life ? fuck no. now i have high standards for ppl in my life to let me close to me and if you can’t meet those standards, you will always be just someone i know, not someone i love

[@nataliedube1665]

Also side note: for girls who are looking to make new or more friends, some advice that actually has worked for me, -Branch out to people you know already and try to get to know them more, they could be closer friends then you know -try working on a passion project or fun activities, you will meet people with similar values and goals! -don’t let age, distance, or gender influence your decision for friends because I honestly have some old ladies who are friends and also some friends I don’t even see in person that often but they are still close friends -be vulnerable (people who like you the way you are, they are keepers) -reach out to family members, some of my friends are siblings or cousins or acquaintances -I know it’s cheesy but try new things, you never know where or to who it could take you! Also this community is so relatable and wholesome, support to all!!

[@rfanaccount]

steph’s videos are like sitting by the fireplace, drinking hot cocoa and feeling the laughter around you💗💗💓💞💞💞 sending you the biggest hug my love

[@sophie_0104]

3 months ago 3 people broke my heart. I realised the things that you talked about. I was always giving and giving but they never really cared about me and my problems. It was like they were the sun and I was a planet moving around them.

[@amandanovoa8768]

it helps to see that it’s normal to have bad days bc it feel so isolating and alone but we aren’t alone in it. ur not alone in it :,)

[@gianna_rose]

rewatching this video because I went through something similar recently, friendship breakups are SO difficult and upsetting. I'm so happy you documented this because it's helping me so much

[@NadaAlawadhi]

Your friendship talk was very reassuring, there is a lot of content about friendships but they always revolve around extreme toxicity, but they don’t cover the regular usual friends who are actually really good but then they do something that is a shocker where they’re not consistently doing something bad but then they do something that’s a slap to the face, this is more common and it hurts really bad, and when you have compassionate, it’s easy to fault yourself wrongly that to admit that they’re the problem and let them go.

[@edaav9215]

Thanks for showing the not just the highlights of your life, but also the sad and normal side. Hope you feel better soon ❤

[@offtheJinx]

omg this is sad. legit cried yesterday 4 times regarding a friendship. i needed this. this also does not end, well into your 30s its still hard to make and keep friends.

[@fabiaxo]

oh steph :( i cannot thank you enough for posting this and being so real with us. i’ve also had a few rough weeks with being sick and then the seasonal depression just hitting me :,)) watching u makes me feel not alone and gives me a distraction and ur just so comforting i hope u always know that

[@lucia7919]

I understand you a lot. You couldn't imagine how many times i've felt that. It's so sad but it make us stronger and stronger. Your reflection about friendship is simply brilliant! I'd never stopped to think about it. Thank you for giving me the opportunity to listen to you and to get to know you better. I wish I could meet you someday. I appreciate you a lot. And remember, you can handle this and more. You deserve the world. xxxx

[@Lucylu1u]

Hope you feel better soon Steph! We are all supporting you through EVERYTHING. ❤️ you deserve the world xx

[@emmaeaton8418]

Probably my favorite video you’ve made. Thank you for making me feel less alone.

[@christellemurugan]

Silver lining is listening to music and feeling it to your core❤️ GOD BLESS YOU ✝️

[@J.alexandra-3]

The cure for anything is salt water; sweat, tears, or the sea. 🌊 we got you girl…we’ll always be here to listen, support and encourage. 💛

[@troirutherford8353]

My personal therapy is venting in a video on my phone and just leaving it. I thought I was fine until you started talking about how you were sad, then I quickly had to pause and just go cry it out for a sec. Hope you're okay

[@melissakrimmel1384]

The friendship issues…I feel this stuff so hard and I’m 31. Unfortunately as you leave school and friends get careers, kids, spouses, this stuff only gets harder. Love seeing the realness

[@perrytheplatypus5373]

I really needed this advice rn because I’ve finally gotten out of a toxic friendship. I realised I had been doing too much, paying for stuff, always giving gifts and over sharing, just hoping they’d love me back and I realised that person never really cared. It’s lonely but also peaceful because now I’m not always guessing whether they still like me or not. I’m so done with going above and beyond for people just so they’d like me.

[@plastictr33z]

anytime I’m sad I watch ur vids bc you cheer me up, and seeing as we were both having off days, it was really comforting :)

[@juriha1185]

It’s so comforting when you’re not the only one who’s going through stuff, it’s sad that we all going through stuff but it’s comforting to know you’re not the only one ;)

[@JessHadji]

i just rewatched this while i was feeling down and its like a warm hug, steph is so my comfort person

[@Sarah-ty5ev]

Hey Steph. This morning I got a call that my grandmother died and I’m so far from home. I’m going home later this week, but I just feel so alone. This made me feel less alone, so thank you so much. Hope things are brighter for you now ❤

[@abbym7851]

this video gave me such comfort bc I feel the same way and its been hard for me to confront my emotions recently

[@alliifaithh]

thank you for posting this. i’ve been feeling the same way the past few weeks and it’s been intense, watching this made me feel like i wasn’t alone.. also i love you so much thank you for being one of my comfort people

[@kathleenfromwiller982]

We all have these days - there are times when I cry all day and I can't stop. We're here for you, Steph ♡

[@litsiegs]

I've never thought that way about friendships with guys, and that difference between girlfriends and guys friends. Now I will see thing differently. 🥺 I really lobe this kind of vlogs.

[@libertykent6284]

Everything you said about friendship is definitely true and I’m feeling the same

[@jackysaurusr3x]

I'm totally with you on the whole friendship discussion & the feeling of caring more than the other person. I myself am in a semi-toxic friendship for almost 20 years. There are phases where it works great and phases where it's getting toxic, but up to now the "good times" overpower the bad. (This friendship was formed when I was 3 years old, so we went through all the stuff together, so she does feel like a sister.) Mostly mentioning this to say: I get it. Anyway, when you talked about you always being the one to ask, and therefore concluding that the other person just doesn't care as much, my thoughts instantly went to neurodivergent people. I myself have ADHD, and I severely struggle with keeping contacts upright. When I read a message and for some reason don't have time to immediately respond, I forget - for days, sometimes weeks. I personally try to communicate this in advance, so the person doesn't feel neglected. I also request them to just tell me, when they feel like I don't care enough. But I am one of the most caring people I know (if I might say so myself) - I'll literally jump if someone needs me - but I struggle with the whole regular texting & regular meet-up thing. Thought I'd just add this to the whole discussion, because while I agree that if you're the only one that cares, you definitely should cut them out, I also think it's important to remember that some people might struggle with the concept of remembering to text (back). But communication is key here - if they just cut you off randomly, there's nothing to justify.

[@zoe-hd1si]

never ever stop posting videos like this, they help me as much as they help you. Its so comforting to watch and brings me so much happiness, so never stop Steph!

[@chloelw1217]

I can't explain how much comfort these video bring to me, love u steph

[@priyanshiagarwal]

I am going through the time where every day feels like a decade to spend but the time will pass and happy days will come for sure

[@crawfordjennifer2015]

I’m so proud of you for not putting up with other individuals that don’t show respect or boundaries! You’re right no one needs to put up with that no matter how long there was a relationship. 🌸🤗

[@aislinn5280]

i literally have been so depressed lately, i lost my dad in april & i had a bad relationship w him so losing him has rlly made me so sad and to watch this video rlly rlly made me feel better. and made me feel less alone for being sad weeks or even months later.

[@noos4425]

im sorry u feel this way and i hope it gets better soon, i also support ur decision of not sharing what’s going on completely on here if u r not 100% comfortable with it ! sending love to everyone in the comments going through a tough time, u got this

[@meghanamadhavaram7491]

You have this calm and soothing aura. It makes people feel so understood and less lonely. Thank you for that! Sending you lots of hugs

[@kaitlynalena7361]

needed this. the friendship talk part when you were doing ur makeup said everything i felt and needed to hear from someone else too. u get me so much ily steph

[@watcher8582]

What's say is that after uni, it gets fairly touch to meet people. Be prepared, cherish what you have. Young girl.

[@naomi6348]

these vlogs are my favorite thing ever. its 11:02pm, end of the semester, finals season. to know i am not alone, this video was a huge comfort. thank you thank you thank you. i so wish we could hug and talk and spend the day together. you are beautiful inside and out steph

[@manicpixiebooknerd]

I do the same thing, buying things and putting in more effort in hopes that others start caring again

[@amberfirexx9]

im so sorry for whatever happened, i feel so bad that someone made you so sad. but thank you for vlogging this was so nice to watch and definitely reminded me we're never alone an d we all have bad days. glad youre doing better now

[@amxranthine2766]

i love the little sheet cake tangent and the fact that she got the vannilla one she wanted

[@brieaunnastewart6558]

Can you do an updated makeup routine? I’m curious about the bronzer and concealer you use😊

[@Hannah_Lynch]

wow thank you for being so vulnerable on here, your talk about friends and holding people to a higher standard and not selling yourself like a product to make them care about you really stuck a chord with me. hope you’re feeling better, you are amazing and deserve the best 🖤

[@pratikbhaumik2748]

I wish steph never changes and she always stays this sweet forever

[@giaxalyse]

okay i know im commenting a lot but this video is literally a mirror to a T, i see so much of myself (and im sure lots of others here do too) in what you're saying, especially the sit down section discussing friendships/putting in so much effort and realizing im overcompensating and trying to keep ppl around. but yes, NEW YEAR NEW BOUNDARIES! we got this! and look at how many ppl are commenting about how they relate, we'll all definitely find people we resonate with better (also moving to a new place after graduating is gonna be such a great opportunity to meet new people!!) and because we exist there's definitely other people who are like us

[@claudiaaaaaaar]

I love this type of vlogs so so much, they are so comforting. Thanks you for be so real with us. I love you🤍🤍

[@sweetpotato2288]

just got the worst news and checked yt to watch something and this video pops up. It helped me get my mind off of things. I love you for being so real

[@sarahcampbell3898]

omg, literally maybe my favorite vlog from you because you put my friendship experiences into words like so accurately.

[@rebecamatamoros]

Oh Baby, we've all been there. It is very lonely living on your own but these are the moments you'll be able to look back on and realize how strong they made you. Enjoy this season of solitude and remember how loved you are!

[@angieannerose]

Steph don’t feel alone we love uu xx. Don’t stop doing these vlogs they’re so comforting and show the real uu!! 🫶🏽🫶🏽

[@ipeksar5322]

i literally have the same exact black sweatshirt from h&m you're wearing the entire video and seeing you wearing it made me feel much more closer to you despite the fact that we are thousands of miles away from each other. Small things man... small things.

[@Navigatingmotherhood]

Such a helpful conversation about friendships

[@ar3845]

hope you feel better soon, this vlog was honestly so calming to me and helped me a lot just seeing you for half an hour so thanks for that

[@plastichearts3]

you are the most precious angel, steph

[@ilyanaandbooks6769]

The fact that i can relate to every single thing you said about friendships is so sad to acknowledge

[@nikitasingh8185]

You are always there, when I need you. Thanks for existing ❤️

[@meganmicha_]

I just can’t get enough of your videos, especially the ones that show all sides of reality. Thank you Steph

[@princesszili]

Am here cause i am sad tooo ..i was waiting for me getting sad and feel better with you .. being with you makes me happy and feel comfortable i don't get comfortable so soon with anyone but you , you are different and also a reader so i love being with you 💕

[@keyaranichole2964]

I feel like so many of us went through friendship breakups this year! I can relate to you so much Steph! Everything you said about friends was spot on.

[@sarahweiss9047]

I love these vlog week videos so so much. If for some reason you ever want a free Uber to Target & Barnes & Noble I’m graduating from ASU in May too 💛

[@emilienasrallah1395]

Steph! I felt you on an entire new level (well all throughout the video but especially around 12:22 to 13:40)

[@UnrealB]

Being an adult is hard especially around Christmas, it can be isolating and just put a damper on day to day life. I know that I'm late to watching this vlog but I hope you're okay and know that you're doing great. I'm in a similar boat atm and trying to make friends and have a social life in your 20s isn't as easy as people make it out to be. Hang in there, you're doing great 💜

[@SAMMiiEEKAY]

I hold my girlfriends and guy friends to the same standard! I had the best guy friend in the world and we shared EVERYTHING! rest his soul.

[@cvro9704]

i can understand you so well when it comes to friendship breakups. I have also had many and it hurts every time but it happens because I know exactly how I want to be treated and hold people to that standard. Just now I have a friend who - in my eyes - constantly disrespects me and wastes my time. Almost every time we want to hang out she is late because of something she could have avoided (by late I mean 30 minutes +). She cancels because of things she could have avoided and never tells me. I always have to text her: "when are we going to meet up" or "when are we leaving" or something like that for her to tell me. It makes me feel disrespected and not appreciated. I've told her many times that this bothers me but she never changed or even apologised for making me feel this way. She doesn't seem to understand what she did wrong and even makes herself look like the victim sometimes. If she at least texted me and said: "look, this is the situation. I feel like I have to do this and I'm so sorry but that would mean I have to cancel. Is that okay with you?" I'd say yes because I respect her asking and respecting me. But this way: NO! I no longer have the time and energy for this and decided to stop caring about the friendship. If she doesn't want to lose me, she's gonna have to work for it. And I literally overcompensate the same way you do when I feel like people don't care about me but I care. I am trying to adjust my treatment of them now according to how they treat me and not always see every new friend I make as my new best friend. I have been doing that, where I put all my hope in that new person because I feel so lonely and that isn't fair to them or to me. I only end up getting hurt.

[@avacorinne9472]

i love these videos the most theyre legit therapeutic like it makes me feel less lonely

[@asaveraj]

I literally relate to all the friendship things you said in the vlog and this vlog was so comforting. hope you feel better!!

[@RobertaChannel1]

I enjoy watching your vlogs, they are really comforting. I’m filled with joy when I see the notification 🤗 It is difficult making friends after 20, people come and go and it’s hard to actually connect with someone on a deeper level. I also relate so much to you. Living alone is great and lonely at the same time. Plus anxiety doesn’t always make it easier

[@Al2SO4]

please keep vlogging, they're so comforting

[@amelyf]

I love these vlogs they bring me some kind of peace. Like knowing I’m not the only one struggling rn

[@shruti_sinha]

15:40 Sunshine vibes and the best New Year's resolution ever 💜🌟🤞🏻

[@nouranbenkraiem7693]

I hope you feel a little bit better soon. I know friendship breakups are the worst and you're definitely not alone. I love you steph hang in there

[@alisashaw6407]

Watching you go through your feelings and start to feel better honestly makes me feel better so thank you!❤ your videos are always therapeutic

[@danaalbezreh2971]

Thank you for this video, you addressed so many things that I'm going through right now too. I really enjoyed watching someone talk about feelings and thoughts I'm processing. Love you Steph

[@caitlinmuniz170]

the part about ur friendships blowing up like clockwork i felt that, that has been happening to me for so freaking long and it sucks. anyway i loved this video it was so comforting

[@dorsarose]

babes this is my fav types of videos from you, just know your anazing and we love u

[@abbym7851]

that rant while doing ur makeup reallllyyyy helped me bro thank u

[@audilynn3217]

Seriously it’s never fun but it’s all waves and we will get through the drama and hardships ❤️

[@cirus5945]

when you started crying i started crying too because before you posted the video i was having an awful day and just laying in my bed sobbing, watching this made me feel better