moving to a new state completely alone

new era!!!! thank you for coming with me. if any of you live here and want to be friends PLEASE message me ilysm
all the love always,
steph
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[@sophiedarting7682]

I live in Charleston & moved here totally alone a year ago, so if you need a friend I totally get it what you’re going through!! Good luck! 🎉

[@Chillestchicken]

This comment needs to be liked so Steph sees it

[@talaauchey3637]

I just moved to Charleston a couple months ago and would love to be friends with you and Steph! 💙 I am so new to it all too!

[@MelsShelves]

I’m also in Charleston and would love to be friends, too! Or even start an in person book club.

[@jenniferhernandez4260]

may be a weird question, but i’ve been thinking about moving to charleston randomly. is it poc friendly? even just a little bit?

[@fahda7400]

how do u make friends when ur alone in a new city

[@maddybailey596]

Steph is ABSOLUTELY getting her small town romance I’m calling it😂

[@rodelajafreen8790]

My thought exactly 😂

[@kaylayoungblood9577]

Amazon wish list

[@aperson7691]

I CAN’T WAIT FOR THIS NEW ERA

[@lvly_alia]

SAMEEE

[@djkreigline]

Djk35 💐🌹💐😘😍😘❤❤❤ are you single how old you are

[@lilliemaebake]

steph let me help you HOW TO MAKE AN ICED LATTE LIKE A BARISTA: 1. put your espresso in at the bottom 2. add flavoring and stir so it is melted by the espresso 3. add your milk and leave room at the top for ice (so it doesn’t get watered down) 4. add ice and stir!

[@r.22r]

Im such a novice so this great!! Thanks!!!🙏🩷🩷

[@lilliemaebake]

@@r.22rif you really want help, 1 shot of espresso and 3 pumps of syrup for 8 ounces, 2 shots and 4 pumps for 16 ounces, 3 shots and 6 pumps for 20 ounces is the standard😅

[@sherrylmohammed669]

Thank you for this! ❤❤

[@ilana8153]

I first put milk then add expresso at the top and put it in the freezer for 20 minutes, idc if it’s right all I know it’s good

[@emersonsullivan13]

and Starbucks uses Chobani Oatmilk!

[@hellothere8358]

I feel like an older sister watching steph grow up and built her amazing life ❤️‍🩹

[@brookeelizabeth681]

Same ❤️

[@lynda237]

Same 🫶🏻

[@fancyaeyl2360]

saaame

[@ivyd.oliveira]

i'm feeling like a younger sister lol

[@meganmicha_]

i don’t even know you personally, but i’m so proud of you. i’m so so excited to see this next chapter of your life!!

[@xofatima.x]

steph once you’ve settled into your new apartment, will you bring back ‘spend the week with me vlogs’ bc i seriously loved those long vlogs, they were so calming and comforting to watch & it’ll also be the perfect thing to help get through this fall/winter season!? 😭🤞🏼

[@laurenbedumb]

omg this!!! those videos were so comforting to watch

[@lovely0th]

Yes and solo dates

[@222_loa]

One thing that I really appreciate about this youtuber is that she doesn’t do any obnoxious tiktok slang. Like I’m the same age as her it’s nice that’s she’s just chill

[@xofatima.x]

22:25 “i don’t even know if my texts are coming through.. or if i just don’t hv friends? people could be texting me! & i just don’t hv service.. orrr just no one’s texting me” LMFAO steph just being the biggest mood fr 😭

[@leodah.5726]

I LITERALLY CANT WHEN SHE SAID THAT HAHA

[@lvly_alia]

😭😭

[@sarahferdous1341]

This just makes me soooooo happy ! Like I'm an 18 year old, laying in my bed and thinking I want to make a life like that. Proud of you! 💕

[@itslivv_05]

no literally same, it's so inspiring to see

[@annadeer3963]

Dont be afraid of this new place. When Bree Prescott left for a new town where she was alone first, she ended up falling in love with the place, the people, meeting the love of her life, and calling this new place 'home' ❤

[@Rachel-wt5nl]

I moved from California to Charlotte NC in the beginning of the year without knowing a single person as well. I’m gonna tell you right now it was all worth it. You’re about to enter a verrrry exciting era. Getting to know yourself and adapting to a new state is the best feeling ever!

[@user-qr9dn5ge1q]

You are pretty🙂

[@jam-jam1219]

Steph I recommend joining any club like yoga or any other activities as it helps you get friends who enjoy the same activity as you. I understand how lonely it gets having no friends I felt the same way but joining an activity class helped me a lot as l get to meet people. Rooting for you and so happy to be part of your journey

[@veronicagiuseppe3427]

Hi Steph :) I worked at a coffee shop over the summer and made a bunch of lattes and I just wanted to give you a tip for your flavored lattes. Add how ever many shots of flavor into your espresso cup/mug so that the espresso shot and flavor mix well together. After you add the milk to your cup, your coffee is directly flavored, making the flavor stronger and better lasting! Hope this makes sense, sending you all the blessing for your move

[@m_mmko]

so you add the ice last? I also hate when my coffee gets watery lol

[@marciejade1408]

Steph, firstly congrats on the new move and apt, so exciting! Next, as a young woman living alone in city where you know no one, please put safety above all!M 1. Buy a device to block your apt door from opening. Don’t rely exclusively on locks! 2. Try not to go out too much at nights until you are familiar with area 3. Always and I mean always look at your surroundings! Make sure no one is directly behind you when walking. Even in Apartment complexes look around who is around you. 4. Carry self defense like pepper spray and know how to use. 5. Make sure have roadside assistance 6. Have fun and enjoy your new adventure ❤

[@jasminmai3528]

This made me tear up. When I was 23 I moved from England to Denmark and it was terrifying, tiring and without a doubt the best thing I ever did. That was 5 years ago and I couldn’t imagine my life anywhere else. I’m so proud of you Steph, even though I don’t know you. You are so inspiring and I’m so happy for you for taking this plunge, it is going to be amazing.

[@itslivv_05]

i'm from denmark & this makes me so happy

[@damndanim]

​@@itslivv_05i went to Denmark on an exchange program and i got so happy for this!

[@jasminmai3528]

@@itslivv_05 it’s the best place in the world

[@andriaspyrou3253]

I don’t even know you personally, but I’m so excited about this new chapter in your life! It literally feels like the beginning of a rom-com book

[@bookmarkedatmidnight]

Steph watching the sunset: “I’m so happy” ❤ I’m so glad for you and so excited for this new era

[@morganhood4913]

I literally unpacked everything I own in 1 night because all of the boxes would stress me out! Hope you love it there!

[@dudassergio]

I just got so emotional down to the end of the vlog omg ahshajs it's just so beautiful and comforting to see someone moving somewhere new and starting a new chapter, specially Steph 💖 if u see this comment, I'm so so sooo happy for you! 💜💜

[@brendasauer]

I'm not even 10 minutes in on the video, but I had to pause. This year everything that could go wrong it did. I lost my 5 year dog, I planned on moving and then I lost my job, the absolute thing that I wanted this year was to move and start a new life just like you're doing. And seeing you doing this makes me so so so so happy for you. I can't wait to see what this new year have for you, it'll be amazing anyway. I'm full of joy for you ❤️

[@marlam6332]

Sending you so much love❤❤

[@melaniecrisamore2184]

Congratulations Steph!!! I can’t wait to watch this new chapter of your life!

[@forida1311]

I've been binge watching your long videos because it brings me comfort, and I don't feel as alone. This just made my week❤

[@emry1116]

this makes me want to move to a new place where no one knows me. i want a cute little apartment to decorate and fill with books

[@xofatima.x]

ahh i am so so so incredibly excited for you steph! i can’t wait for these moving vlogs 💕

[@maddybailey596]

As a girl in her last year of high school and excited for college this warms my heart! Congrats Steph! I wish you the best. This video brought a smile to my face❤️

[@falakfattal]

you’re videos give me SOO much comfort steph I can’t explain it 🥹🥹🫶🏻🫶🏻😭 thank u ily💗💗💗

[@emilyihde3921]

I’m 26 and making friends anywhere (even in your home state/city) as an adult is difficult! But if you put yourself out there and join a book club or even become a regular at your favorite coffee shop you can make friends quickly! Also, Facebook has tons of groups specially for making friends in different cities. Wishing you luck in your new era and welcome to adulting!

[@amanimeymon_]

I've been waiting impatiently for this, so excited to join you on this new journey. So so proud of you & how far you've come.❤️

[@Fangirlcore]

So excited for this new chapter !! I am so happy for you I hope it will be everything you want it to be! I’m so excited because I just moved to uni into a whole new city where I don’t know anyone and I feel like we‘re embarking on this new journey together so I’m really happy also kinda nervous but glad to not be the only one! You are a true Inspiration love you xx

[@luvtejas]

Just by watching her grow and live her life to the fullest makes me wanna cry! So excited for this new era. New era new steph. Love you xoxo

[@Kolbiscott17]

I’ve been wanting to move alone to a new state so bad for the last two years. And seeing Steph do it and being so happy makes me want to cry. I’m so happy and proud of her. I just feel so stuck bc I know I can’t move anytime soon. I wish you all the good juju in the world Steph!!

[@l1na20]

Seeing steph following her dreams even though she’s scared really inspires me to do the same🫶🏼

[@shayreads]

This new era is like season two of a tv show, so exciting!

[@valc6366]

you deserve all the best! good luck in ur new journey. honestly, ur vlogs come at the perfect time for me and are so motivational/relatable.

[@jazminshirley5325]

steph!! im so excited to see you grow in this new era!!!

[@rfanaccount]

the comforting vlogs are back🤍

[@jamiefranta]

ive never been more proud and excited for a complete stranger !!I cant wait to see what you do with your space. also side note I hope Zoe comes and visits and vise versa bc id hate to think you guys won't be able to see each other bc I adore your friendship. but I love this new era

[@lore4286]

I LOVE this video

[@allhailvale]

Congrats Steph!!! 🥹🤍 so excited for your new era and all the new videos to come!

[@marie6315]

I‘m so curious how everything looks now, like obviously we‘ve seen the main spaces but I would love a full update!!❤️

[@tasniahakter2787]

ahh literally look forward to your videos so much!! 💗

[@alice951996]

i am LOVING this new era of your life and overall video series of moving alone!!! you are actually super inspiring (as i might have to move alone soon too!), it feels like watching your bestie document her life

[@shouqlovesjin]

i love the way she talks to the camera it's feels like we're her friends

[@bythaynavalentim]

Words can't describe how warm my heart feels for this new era of your life!!!!

[@lisak603]

I did the same thing. Moved from Indiana to Texas alone. Now I have a great job, a husband, friends… it’s all good! Just please be careful. Not everyone is your friend. ❤ Love the apartment!

[@ShondaD_]

Hi, I’m currently trying to figure out where I’d like to relocate to. Do you mind me asking what helped you to decide to move from Indiana to Texas?

[@lisak603]

@@ShondaD_ I wanted good weather, liked the state in general, and was easier to get my dental hygiene license to practice here.

[@iwearheelsbiggerthanyourdck]

im so excited for your new journey, your vlogs bring me sm comfort

[@lindsaydeviveiros5533]

Omg I love the apartment, you should definitely get some bookshelves and make that entrance room a home library. Charleston looks like such a charming place and I can’t wait to see all the upcoming vlogs 😊

[@samara5856]

Omggg I’ve been waiting for another vlog

[@chelsearobichaud4365]

So excited for this new journey of yours! Can’t wait for the moving vlog series and watching you make your apartment into your creative vision! Mostly excited for what this library will look like!

[@leanned7608]

I’m so happy for you and so proud of you! Watching you grow as a person and your journey is beautiful and i can’t wait for your new era! Love you Steph!

[@alexab.s.a.3943]

Idk whyy I relate to you soo muchhh & thats whyy I really enjoy ur vlogs❤️❤️ Congrats on stepping into your new ERA🥳

[@phpsi720]

i was feeling down and after watching this vlog it honestly makes me feel so much better! fav youtuber

[@maddybrown2879]

the amount of happiness I feel during this video is unreal

[@xofatima.x]

let the moving vlogs begin! i seriously cannot wait for this new chapter in your life steph! so glad to have been watching your journey since day 1, love you always girl 🫶🏼🫶🏼

[@booksanddrafts]

such a cozy vlog😭 making me wanna move out so bad! Can’t wait to see more of ur adventures🫶🏻

[@shaylaatiles]

Nothing feels better than coming to YOUR home, that YOU decorated, in a place YOURE happy in 💕💓 Can’t wait for this new era!

[@nattyybohh]

stop it right now!! steph this video was so adorable! i love seeing you venture outside of your comfort zone! the sunset was beautiful! you will make friends so quickly i already know 🫶🏻

[@shahdali9351]

omg I'm so proud of you Steph

[@agpokef]

I'm literally so excited for you!! Can't wait to see how your apartment comes together

[@crisreadsbooks]

this is such an exciting time for you!! i loved Charleston when i visited and im glad you're loving it as well! hopefully i can come up and see you!! enjoy this new chapter and i cant wait for the future content. you look so happy!!!

[@masontusa5757]

steph and i so so happy for you! i want to do this in the future at some point and you’re making me so excited! i love to see you living life!

[@leodah.5726]

FINALLY WE CAN SEE WHERE UR NEW ERA BEGINS 😩SO PROUD OF UUU

[@ydaliah04]

Omg I see the vision of the library room 😍😍 you should totally make it a cozy reading room with a comfy chair and mood lighting ✨

[@RubyEmeraldGold]

I'm so happy and excited for you Steph! May you be blessed all through your new journey, I hope for the best for you! 💜

[@shaymusart]

So happy for you! It’s going to be such an exciting journey with many core memories 🥰

[@mirandalefebvre8623]

I’m so happy for you!! This is going to be an amazing new experience! You deserve everything in life!! ❤

[@isidraper]

Steph I'm so happy for you and this new chapter in your life! You look so happy

[@ashlynx101]

This so comforting seeing steph growing

[@songgirl751]

Steph I always love seeing your videos 💖 I'm in a similar stage in my life so thank you for sharing your journey through all this. And from my few years of barista-ing here is some of my basic tips for making your latte! (I'm not a fancy barista by any means so fellow baristas out there please feel free to add or correct). For oat milks look for one that says it's a barista oat milk as they typically have slightly different ingredients so that they can foam better. Where I worked we used the Pacific Foods oat milk which comes in a little carton. As for using an espresso machine, you want to make sure you don't overfill the portafilter (which is the thing you're putting the espresso grounds in) so that when you tamp it down it has a little bit of room at the top. And don't be afraid to put a a bit of pressure into it when you're tamping it down. Also I'm not sure what kind of espresso machine you have, but the shot should take around 25-30 seconds when you pull it. If it is meant to stop on its own but it's going for too long it usually means you either overfilled your portafilter or tamped it too hard. Lastly for building your iced latte I recommend mixing your syrups straight into the espresso and then adding your milk and ice on top of that! It will help the syrup to melt and mix better into your latte 😊💕 Sorry if that explanation was a bit overwhelming. Again I'm definitely not a full on professional barista by any means, but I hope this helps all the same and gives you that cafe-tasting latte you're looking for!

[@selahmea]

Very much agree with you! My coffee place used Planet Oat, so I'd love to try Pacific Foods oat milk! ☺

[@fai1185]

So happy for you Steph!!! This apartment and town looks absolutely perfect for you. I missed these causal vlogs, my favorite type of Steph video ❤ this was the highlight of my day

[@LizS1201]

So freaking excited for you! Love your apartment and can’t wait for the fully furnished tour!! ❤

[@aliciaharris18]

I’ve literally been wanting to go there for years! It’s so beautiful. I got chills when you said that’s where you’re moving. 🥺❤️

[@jackiezepedaa]

I LOVE THIS!!! ive been wanting to move to SC so this is like a sign in my opinion 😭 im so excited for this new era, genuinely

[@e.my.]

i’m moving in a different state for college in a week and i’m so exited for these videos bc I will be relating to you sm hahah

[@DenaliMarina]

So happy for you!!! Love this series already ❤️

[@natalieghprince9732]

I am so proud and happy for you! 💞 You will go far and I’m excited to watch the journey with others!

[@weebzoldyck1007]

im so excited for you!! this is gonna be a good chapter for you and im excited to see it unfold🫶

[@nissasbookcorner]

i’m so happy for you this is huge!! also that tea kettle is BEAUTIFUL

[@elisazouza]

this is so comforting! I hopeee i can get to that stage of moving alone and being super independent cause I would love that! and to also have a youtube community would be a dream ❤

[@amelieromanticreader]

I really loved this vlog. I felt so happy. The town looks gorgeous. I can't describe how good I felt watching this video and seeing you starting this beautiful life. Can't wait to see the other videos about you organizing your new place and discovering your new town.

[@raya2533]

so proud and happy for you steph!!

[@florafazekas4052]

I’m literally so excited for the upcoming videos

[@anyae8965]

OMG THANK YOU FOR THE 40 MINUTE VLOG STEPH!! I AM SO EXCITED FOR WHATS TO COME!

[@sarahengel4506]

Congrats Steph!! wishing you the very best for this new era🫶

[@tuckscowboyhat]

love seeing u so happy to be in an ideal living spot!! hoping the year is filled w sm happiness & success!! 🖤

[@angelastanley1999]

I’m so excited for you! I’m going to be living vicariously through you. Before watching the video I was like she is for sure going to move to Charleston and when you said it I screamed. I’ve always wanted to go there!

[@jessmisiuk]

As someone who is starting college this year and moving away from home to an apartment for the first time this video brings me comfort 💛 Im also a barista (at Starbucks, but still) and to make a latte the steps we use are syrup, espresso shot, milk (we use chobani oat milk) then ice last, hope this helps! Ive always wanted to visit Charleston so I'm excited to see what's next in this chapter! 💛

[@Iffy_jade]

Steph I recently decided I also want to move somewhere new completely alone. I am soo scared though. So this vlog is comforting. Pls vlog this process often it’s inspiring

[@anushkassaikia5789]

Im soo happy and excited for you. You are like an elder sister to me and I can't wait to watch this new chapter of your life❤❤❤

[@nityas28]

OH MY GOD ! Steph I actually am in love. I just know when I move to college next year ,this is EXACTLY what I'm gonna need. I'm an older sibling so this just feels like the perfect older sister advice video

[@martacosta04]

I got emotional!!! So happy for you Steph, can't wait for this new era 🩷

[@user-qr9dn5ge1q]

You are really pretty🙂

[@mafe_nvas]

i’m so happy for you steph!! Can’t wait for this new era ❤️❤️

[@giaxalyse]

I totally get the talk in the car about being on your own ❤ I just ended my college apt lease and decided to solo travel around the world. I’m currently in the UK for the first time despite knowing no one, it’s scary but it’s so so exciting 🙌🏾 good luck Steph !!!!!

[@saffiremidnight8685]

I grew up in SC, it's amazing and I miss it every day. So underrated as a state. So excited to see your vlogs about it!

[@marwafarrukh1744]

I'm sooo proud of you Steph!!!! This is SUCH an exciting journey for you and thank you for bringing us along the way!🤍🤍

[@paperrings1989]

i’m so so so happy for you and SOO PROUD OF YOU STEPHH❤️🫶. This new era might be my favorite of them all because you just seem to be completely glowing and happy with the little things :)

[@leanneblaize4050]

So happy and excited to see you thrive in this new era 🩵

[@brunettecrush7]

The apartment is beautiful! Good luck with the new move and this new journey. So proud of you! 🎉❤❤

[@giannamurillo3555]

so excited and proud of u steph❤️ this is a big step and i wish u the best of luck also i need a hair tutorial thank u 🙏🏼