Why This Birthday Changed Everything for Us

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Stepsof2Foreigners

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@magnusgilroy9096
@magnusgilroy9096 4 жыл бұрын
It takes a lot of courage to admit when there is a problem. Bad things have happened to you. That does not make you a bad person. Best wishes for you Adam
@georgejones1459
@georgejones1459 4 жыл бұрын
You're so strong Adam! Happy birthday also! Bernardo i just want to say Adam is sooooo lucky to have a support system like you, you're amazing and i wish both of you incredible luck in the future!
@paulhigdon-smith3753
@paulhigdon-smith3753 4 жыл бұрын
good for you Adam for telling us about your addiction,,, and your courage to face it and get help :-) we will all miss you but a month will go fast and we will see your smiling face again,,, just hope Bernardo will be ok alone ?? he needs to continue to post on line videos to keep in touch with us all ,so we can help him, if he needs the help, he seems like a very strong guy,, you two are so in love and we (husband & I) hope this will help you both :-) XOXO Paul & Tony
@thomasfrech1747
@thomasfrech1747 3 жыл бұрын
I just watched this 7 months late. Bernardo you are such a good and supportive dude. I’m sure the time before the release of this video was stressful watching someone you love go down a rabbit hole. You stayed by him and helped him see the light. Amazing dedication and love.
@MrNatocello
@MrNatocello 4 жыл бұрын
Eu e todos aqui do Brasil, estarão torcendo pela sua recuperação querido Adam! Vocês irão superar essa fase! Até breve! 😘
@miguelribeiro7202
@miguelribeiro7202 4 жыл бұрын
OMG! I cried so much in this video, cause I understand what Adam feels! I am 30 years old, and took me 20 something years to acept me as gay, and I didn't come out yet, cause my family wouldn't acept it, principally my father! So I was in some times of my life so depressed that I needed help from professionals. Even now with 30 years old I don't have friends and I don't leave that much home cause I can't socialize because I don't feel good. :( Every time I try to get into a relationship, the other guy betrays me or stop talking with me without explaining. I wish I could have a boyfriend one day that I can say, you are my best friend, I wanna spend the rest of my life with you! I hope that your days will get better sooner Adam! :)
@dianarice1443
@dianarice1443 4 жыл бұрын
I love you two. Adam stay strong 💪 as we all know you are. You will be home with your love before you know it. Hope they have a tub in Jacksonville! All my love to you both.
@leongrey6843
@leongrey6843 4 жыл бұрын
And I'm still in the closet. And afraid to come out because my parents will probably kick me out. I also don't know if anyone will ever accept me😭😭
@auggieaug2135
@auggieaug2135 4 жыл бұрын
I would love to be your friend ❤️. You’ve got a friend in me ❤️
@allancuseo7431
@allancuseo7431 4 жыл бұрын
You have a friend in me.
@platoman3810
@platoman3810 4 жыл бұрын
@@leongrey6843 Yes, we're out here. If God accepts me (and I know He does), then He accepts you. Embrace the world, if not yet in body, then in your heart, and pray for a friend or lover. In doing so you are praying for God to touch you.
@marilynnkimbrough6493
@marilynnkimbrough6493 4 жыл бұрын
I am a 68 yr old African American woman who was raised in a strict Christian home. When I watch you I see 2 perfectly beautiful people who love and support each other. I'm so sorry you were treated to feel anything but loved and accepted. Much love and many blessings to you both.
@joaopaulosantos1757
@joaopaulosantos1757 4 жыл бұрын
🥰❤🥰
@calebstrickland7888
@calebstrickland7888 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing that it!!! really blesses me to see love and acceptance
@kathyborthwick6738LakotaEmoji
@kathyborthwick6738LakotaEmoji 3 жыл бұрын
Beautifully stated🕊🌸🕊🌸🕊❤️
@kathyborthwick6738LakotaEmoji
@kathyborthwick6738LakotaEmoji 2 жыл бұрын
Beautifully stated 🦅☀️🦅☀️🦅💚💚
@davidbosquette6604
@davidbosquette6604 4 жыл бұрын
Guys, I actually feel proud of both of you for showing the not so good side of real life over these past few months. Everybody has their own struggle going on but I feel very protective of you too for some strange reason. I hope the next few weeks will allow you to heal Adam, meanwhile Bernardo will be there every step of the way willing you on. You are so lucky to have found each other. Love has a strength which is unbreakable. Love and best wishes to you both. 💚
@jadesolich2232
@jadesolich2232 4 жыл бұрын
OMG!! I totally agree with you man.
@BSGSV
@BSGSV 4 жыл бұрын
Just thinking about you two and hoping Adam is well.
@kristinwerner5519
@kristinwerner5519 4 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful gift - and it absolutely matches Adam’s eyes. Wishing you both strength on this next leg of life’s journey. We all support you! ❤️
@morganessen-moller1605
@morganessen-moller1605 4 жыл бұрын
Trying to find the right words for my admiration for the two of you ... Love..compassion ... Honesty are some of the words I come up with. All the strength to Adam for your new journey in life and lots of positive energy to Bernanrdo. You guys are so loved❤️❤️
@tommyandpeter
@tommyandpeter 4 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday, Adam! Good luck with the rehab. You can do it. You already made the first steps towards your recovery 💜 Bernardo, you are amazing being so supportive 💕
@keith.wilson1981
@keith.wilson1981 4 жыл бұрын
My heart is with you Bernardo! I just adore you and Adam! The love and honesty you have put forth is beyond appreciated. You may in fact have saved someone else’s life when all is said and done. Thank you for sharing this with all of us. ❤️🤗🙏🏼🌈
@philliphurley3883
@philliphurley3883 4 жыл бұрын
Hope you are ok and that things have improved for you both.
@kurtvanwymelbeke1427
@kurtvanwymelbeke1427 4 жыл бұрын
R E S P E CT Adam for sharing this and bring it in the picture that canabis isn't so harmless at all !!!!! it does destroys lifes Lucky your love is so strong that your partner is supporting you true this difficult time . God bless you guys stay strong YES YOU CAN
@daryl1408
@daryl1408 4 жыл бұрын
What happened.
@joshbaker430
@joshbaker430 4 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you are going through these issues please remember you guys have thousands of people who love you. Stay strong for each other and be safe. 😀❤️🌈
@juliusrusseldayoc8738
@juliusrusseldayoc8738 4 жыл бұрын
Yea that true..
@PonTran194
@PonTran194 4 жыл бұрын
I always feel scared when seeing "saying goodbyes". You can do it, Adam. You are brave to do it.
@were-all-human9427
@were-all-human9427 4 жыл бұрын
yep, i almost screamed noooooo and agree Adam is a good guy, and with Bernardo waiting for him he will get where he needs to be.... and Im sure his family are right there supporting him..
@danieledwards7565
@danieledwards7565 4 жыл бұрын
What you both are going through is extremely difficult, sending good thoughts and healing energy to you. Your videos are missed!
@cwy511013
@cwy511013 4 жыл бұрын
As someone constantly battling with PTSD, I believe that this is one of the bravest videos that I have seen out there. I am very glad that Adam has decided to work on his addiction. And, it is very heart touching to see Bernado acting as a supporter and a gentle lover being there for his husband (often enough we are not the best partner to our lover in this kind of situation).
@denniswatkins3294
@denniswatkins3294 4 жыл бұрын
Adam, think how far you've come already and with the love surrounding you, you WILL come out the other end a happier and healthier person. Bernardo, I hope you as well will seek some counseling to also help you. I say this as sometimes we blind ourselves to the issues someone we love is having. At times, we become the enabler as all we want is for the person we love to be happy. In the end you both end up feeling the pain. Your love for one another is undeniable. Be strong! Be Safe! Trust in your love and you will be back, stronger and happier. From my husband and myself, our thoughts and prayers are with you on this journey until our paths brings us together again. Love!!!
@pabletecornio
@pabletecornio 4 жыл бұрын
Bernardo, I just hope you stay strong because we are sure Adam is gonna be ok, we love you so much🥺💕
@dali2256
@dali2256 4 жыл бұрын
hello
@Ambyaaarr
@Ambyaaarr 4 жыл бұрын
What happen with Adam?
@TheBlockStreet
@TheBlockStreet 4 жыл бұрын
When I was little, my grandmother, she used to say: "You like because, and you love despite." -set it up (2018)
@SusanOnTVShows
@SusanOnTVShows 4 жыл бұрын
@@Ambyaaarr Did you watch the video?
@s.sarahslife
@s.sarahslife 4 жыл бұрын
@@SusanOnTVShows maybe they didn’t hear him to well. I couldn’t hear him that well, so I really didn’t know what was going on
@sarwansingh6950
@sarwansingh6950 4 жыл бұрын
Adam there is nothing in this World from that a person can't get over...So be positive and everything will be alright...God gives a difficult fights to his strongest children..so that they can become more stronger for themselves and others...So be strong...we love you ❤️
@jonathanjackson6757
@jonathanjackson6757 4 жыл бұрын
Just had a similar experience with marijuana. Smoked on in off for almost 8 years and it really affected my mental health. I used it to cope and numb my traumas/feelings. Just officially gave it up as of two weeks ago. Started talking to a psychotherapist and psychiatrist. Now I'm on antidepressants and I'm really seeing a change. Thank you so much for talking about this and normalizing seeking help. Its never easy, but it makes reaching your full potential possible. Best of luck and thanks again for sharing!!
@kiranandrew7701
@kiranandrew7701 4 жыл бұрын
How will taking drugs numb your feelings and traumas you have gone through!! You have to just forget em learn something from it and move on! Taking drugs is your own choice in my opinion (no offense) You know in ur mind that taking these won't help but even though you do cuz you want to do and but you want a reason to have, so you choose traumas you've gone through!! It's just our human psychology!! And I'm not talking about you dude I'm just generalizing the topic that's it!!!! And you are trying to change that's really great👍🏼 and all d best!!
@blace1200
@blace1200 4 жыл бұрын
. Hang on friends I know u will make it... I have also a depression. A sever panick attack and anxiety always hits me every day for the past 10 months. I'm tired but I keep fighting. This pandemic make it worst.....
@walter13ist
@walter13ist 4 жыл бұрын
Dear Bernardo, dear Adam , I hope , Adam makes good progress with his health and we will hear about you soon. Best wishes from Germany !!! Chris
@phredeejr
@phredeejr 4 жыл бұрын
Adam, you strength and determination will see you through this rehabilitation. I send you all of the positive vibes you need, and know you have our support. Bernardo, your patience and support shines colors of a palette that we all need in this world. Eres un amor completo! Nunca cambies.
@susiew.9012
@susiew.9012 4 жыл бұрын
Happy birthday Adam, I'll watch the rest now.🎂 Wow, that's a tough thing to admit to yourself never mind the rest of us. Adam good luck with rehab well be rooting for you and seeing a confident well adjusted man come out of this. I'm sure with your rock Bernardo you will find the strength to succeed. We love you no matter what, we all have our demons to slay! Good luck, stay safe were all behind you. Love and hugs 😍💝🏳️‍🌈😷
@jocasteleyn9890
@jocasteleyn9890 4 жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear you’re having all this issues coming up after all this years. Know that it will be a long and bumpy road for both of you. I hope that Bernardo will also seek for some support, as the partner is often forgotten in the process and has to face the changes in the attitude of the other partner. However your love for each other is strong and I wish that both of you will come out stronger from this new and long journey. I wish you both all the strength and love in the world and hope to see you soon on the other side of the tunnel.
@julioamador1098
@julioamador1098 4 жыл бұрын
Guys... you have everything to overcome this situation: each other’s love. We’ll see you in a month Adam! Lots of hugs and kisses!
@elihumansell4458
@elihumansell4458 2 жыл бұрын
Adam you are such a warrior 🪖 fighting for those feelings, you'll be just fine. God bless you
@genesiesky3756
@genesiesky3756 4 жыл бұрын
I sensed something was a miss given the absence of seeing your vlogs. I hope you will continue with the vlog Bernardo and lets us know how you are doing in Adam's absence. In this video Adam seems very very mello, and probably under the influence. It wasn't a good idea to also be drinking wine and particularly if he was also taking medications. His acknowledgement of the addiction is the first step. I have helped many clients through their mental health issues, but it takes perseverance and commitment on the part of the client. Be careful Bernardo that you do not become an enabler. There are free supports groups for both of you and it will help if you (Bernardo) start to attend a few while Adam is in Florida. You will find others in the same position as you Bernardo. Adam is very wounded and there is likely a relapse in Adam's future, even after rehab. Watch for the signs and don't let him try to escape from the things he needs to face. Thousands of people care about the two of you.
@KodaVoss
@KodaVoss 4 жыл бұрын
They always say that "Things will get better" but that is NOT true... the truth is that "YOU get better." Everyone that reads this, never be embarrassed or ashamed about working on yourself and working on being the best version of yourself! YOU are the most important person in YOUR life. You ONLY have to be the best version of YOU at any given point in time. You can do better, be better, and try harder in the very next second. If you falter or have a bad week or hour or minute, you can start again in the next second. NEVER give up on yourself. Sometimes the challenges are daunting in our lives... they can take months or years to overcome... but just remember, you only need to get through TODAY... don't worry about tomorrow or next week or next month... focus on today -- you just need to WIN THE DAY. Choose to be happy. Love yourself. And win the day. #WinTheDay
@kingforaday6121
@kingforaday6121 4 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@kahliquelanative5218
@kahliquelanative5218 4 жыл бұрын
Koda... Well stated... very well stated...!!!!
@MrCassett
@MrCassett 4 жыл бұрын
Awesome message, totally agree !
@davidsimon5336
@davidsimon5336 4 жыл бұрын
They have a lot of new videos on Patreon. Only for payment. we don't deserve this :." Stepsof2Foreigners has posted 5 times in the last month "
@Abhishekxsahu
@Abhishekxsahu 4 жыл бұрын
I am a kid and this was depressing ! 🤡
@isabelladigi
@isabelladigi 4 жыл бұрын
i understand what you are going through, i have ptsd and struggle with addiction because of my trauma, just stay hopeful and stick to your commitment to your health, you have a lot of people who love and support you. YOU ARE NOT ALONE.
@donnieharper4735
@donnieharper4735 4 жыл бұрын
During the darkest of times, no one can underestimate the power of love. I learned that after the precious 25 years together with my partner, after his passing now of 2 years. Keep loving one another in good times and bad and never give up. The road head will NEVER always be smooth. Expect unprevailing times along with the elation and highs. Enjoy it and life, as it is very short and captivating. You Both Are In My Heart & Prayers, Donnie Harper--South Carolina, USA
@joeburbulisjr1657
@joeburbulisjr1657 4 жыл бұрын
Donnie Harper wow Donnie, I was With my husband for 25 years and he passed away 2 years ago as well. His name was Jack. These are hard times now.
@MrCassett
@MrCassett 4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful message! I'm sorry for your losses. Greetings!
@TheGor800
@TheGor800 4 жыл бұрын
Tears of sadness, but yet tears of joy. We all are with you, Adam and know this is the best thing for you at this time. Blessings to you both and love. You can do this!! Be strong;both of you!!
@divyasreerbtsforever7987
@divyasreerbtsforever7987 4 жыл бұрын
I don't know if you guys will see this but...I hope both of you come out of this difficult part and be happy and healthy in and out...hang in there Adam..you are strong you can overcome this... take your time but don't stop believing in yourself..💜💜💜💜 love you guys... take care..both of you..
@edigargoncalves83
@edigargoncalves83 4 жыл бұрын
Faz pouco tempo que eu conheci o canal de vocês e, sinceramente, virou um dos meus canais favoritos. É muito lindo ver o amor e o companheirismo de vocês nos vídeos. Desejo muita força para vocês dois nesse momento, em especial para o Adam. Logo as coisas vão melhorar porque você, Adam, é um cara muito forte, gente boa, engraçado (muito mesmo, dou muitas risadas com você kkkkkk), inteligente, você é incrível... Quando vocês menos perceberem já poderam sair, criar memórias e continuar vivendo uma vida muito linda juntos.
@tenor714
@tenor714 4 жыл бұрын
I do admire your courage and honesty. It must have been such a hard decision to go public with a struggle that is so private. All my best to the both of you. I have no doubt you can both get through this as the way you treat each other and look at each other shows what a deep abiding love you have for each other. ❤️❤️
@peggyesquibel8353
@peggyesquibel8353 4 жыл бұрын
Bernardo you are so tender and loving to Adam in this video. And Adam, I can see the love and concern you have for Bernardo. Much love, support and many blessings to you both! Look forward to seeing you again when the time is right!
@kranshire
@kranshire 4 жыл бұрын
Happy (belated) Birthday. I have over 35 years of being clean and sober myself. As such, I want to tell you how wonderful things will become and how your journey will unfold. In reality, I know only how my recovery has gone and you will discover your own journey as it unfolds. So, I need say only "good luck" and "God Bless" . You both are such wonderful guys and I am excited about the positive self discovery and insight you will gain. Hopefully your relationship will become deeper and stronger and more real. Wishing you inner peace, joy, and love always....
@orlyhookhood
@orlyhookhood 4 жыл бұрын
Hi ... I'm sorry to hear about that but we know everything will be fine,together you guys are super strong 💪,we send you hugs and blessings ❤️🌈❤️🌈👍👍
@RaghAnugrah
@RaghAnugrah 4 жыл бұрын
"If there is a purpose in life at all, there must be a purpose in suffering and in dying.. But no man can tell another what this purpose is. Each must find out for himself, and must accept the responsibility that his answer prescribes. If he succeeds he will continue to grow in spite of all indignities." It's sad to hear your situations Adam, and I can't do anything except send my support from here.. You can do it! You too Bernardo! I wish all the best for you guys!
@jezzaqc
@jezzaqc 4 жыл бұрын
Guys - I’m so sorry that you’re going through what you’re going through but I hope whatever happens it works out for the best for both of you. You have both been an inspiration to me through some very tough times as I came out of and overcame my own drug addiction. You can do this. I did and I know you can x
@ronaldlabieniec987
@ronaldlabieniec987 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video, guys. By telling your truth and by showing your viewers just how challenging a relationship can be, you're making a huge difference. Adam, I want to be you when I grow up.😉 Bernardo, please take good care of yourself. In a previous comment, I nominated you Husband of the Year. Congratulations-- you won! 👏 Much love... many prayers from Ct.
@brianhawkins560
@brianhawkins560 4 жыл бұрын
Adam, that took so much courage. Thank you for sharing, and I am sending you and Bernardo positive thoughts and prayers as you face this challenge. Love to you both!
@mikerogers9186
@mikerogers9186 4 жыл бұрын
Addiction happens. It is easy to become addicted and not realize it. It takes a strong person to see it and reach out to control it. You have that strength and Bernardo as support. That's all you need. You want it so therefore it will happen. Luv you guys.
@albertbolt3710
@albertbolt3710 4 жыл бұрын
You can do this Adam and you’ll be stronger as a result. 😘
@kevinm.6492
@kevinm.6492 4 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday Adam! Something I've learned about the both of you over the course of all of your videos is that you two can get through anything. The support you have for, and give to, each other is truly inspiring. It will be scary and difficult, but you two will get through this latest journey and be stronger for it. Adam, you are so brave for taking the steps to get on the path you're on. Bernardo, you are just as brave for supporting him through this. People often forget that the loved one of someone with an addiction is also greatly affected and often needs support. Remember to reach out to those who support you, and to each other. And stay amazing, because you both are.
@andreasmarx6847
@andreasmarx6847 4 жыл бұрын
Hey from Germany, Just watched CNN this morning, hope you are both well and healthy!
@alexandrelucascoelho7175
@alexandrelucascoelho7175 4 жыл бұрын
Sentindo saudades de vcs, de seu comprometimento um com o outro...espero que voltem logo com alegria e saúde 🙏
@pricilacosta3009
@pricilacosta3009 4 жыл бұрын
Força,foco e fé saiba que sempre estaremos aqui por vocês.
@brichards54
@brichards54 4 жыл бұрын
Adam, remember you are loved. Get well and strong.
@Dds_Little_Life
@Dds_Little_Life 4 жыл бұрын
You two are such a powerful and inspirational couple. I’ll be praying for strength for you all during this challenging time. Adam I’ll be praying that God gives you the ability and the courage to seek out and take back the pieces of yourself that were stolen along the way. Bernardo I’ll be praying for peace in your heart as you navigate this journey with the one love. I pray God gives you the strength to bear those days without the person whom you share your soul with. We’re all rooting for you and I wish you a speedy yet fulfilled recovery! I love you guys!!
@bonglaforga4413
@bonglaforga4413 3 жыл бұрын
i commend Bernardo for being so patient and understanding. i wish i could have one like him soon!
@ronaldlabieniec987
@ronaldlabieniec987 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, guys. You're in my thoughts and prayers even more than usual. The two of you have dealt with a tremendous amount this year, including riots and unbreathabl e air caused by wildfires. Please stay safe and well, wherever you. I look forward to seeing you in your next video. 'Til then, may God continue to bless you both Love from Connecticut, as always 😷 💟
@jamesanson2711
@jamesanson2711 4 жыл бұрын
a wise man has no fear of, and is courageous enough to ask for, help when required. may all go well, Adam. i look forward to meeting an even more amazing version of ur lovely self in a month. Bernardo, u r wonderful, real, loving, human.
@joseantoniogagliardi6486
@joseantoniogagliardi6486 4 жыл бұрын
What a warm and loving birthday evening. Incredibly thoughtful of Bernardo and I m sure the gift will be all the more treasured by Adam during his absence. Not only can you guys do it, but you will, without a shadow of a doubt!❤️😘
@arif_and_ricky
@arif_and_ricky 4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@johnwayne8207
@johnwayne8207 4 жыл бұрын
Excellent job on the cake 🎂 love your new place. Happy birthday. I agree with Adam (you can do this). Our prayers are with you both 💕. You have our support. You both are beautiful in heart and soul. Also thank you for sharing. Your feeling are so special to us.
@sheilaezequiel9072
@sheilaezequiel9072 4 жыл бұрын
Bernardo e Adam,na vida as vezes temos que vencer as barreiras,e para isso passamos por momentos de transição. O amor deve prevalecer na vida de vocês! Adam,eu desejo que você se cure desse vício, e tenha força de vontade para superar. Amém. 😢😍😙😙
@JeremyMYG
@JeremyMYG 4 жыл бұрын
Folks in my family have gone through addiction and rehab. It’s a process, but I’m glad my family is on the other side of it. Sending you both love and light!
@darrylb9872
@darrylb9872 4 жыл бұрын
Adam and Bernardo: Be encouraged. We all will have struggles in our life. You're doing everything right. What separates those that overcome their challenges from others is their ability to recognize their issues and reach out for help. Adam's choice to share the darker side with us is proof of his strength of character and with Bernardo beside you, you can't miss. Sending you both, best, and most positive wishes. Thanks for sharing. Love to you both.
@Dutchy4you
@Dutchy4you 4 жыл бұрын
So very sad to hear about all the challenges you've had to endure, wishing you both all the best. Thank you for all the fond memories that you have shared with us. Getting assistance through rehab is important and vital to help get this under control. I believe in you Adam and you have Bernardo's and all of our support as well. Be strong. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers. p.s. Good job on making that cake, my mouth was watering as you both were enjoying it. Happy Belated Birthday Adam.
@hussnainshahi6546
@hussnainshahi6546 4 жыл бұрын
Love your comment
@annettegreek9689
@annettegreek9689 4 жыл бұрын
I was so afraid you were breaking up, and I couldn’t stand that for y’all...I’m actually relieved...please take care of both of you! I’ve been following you for probably 4-6 yrs. I’ve lost count! Prayers for you both!
@andrewsmith955
@andrewsmith955 4 жыл бұрын
My heart dropped when you guys said you have some bad news. I was like what is going on. First of all, I want to say that the love that you share Bernardo and Adam is beyond words. Your love story is truly an inspiration. As as gay man who struggles in the dating world when I watch your videos it reminds me that falling in love, getting married, and growing old with someone is still possible. As cliche as I made that sound it’s so true. Secondly, Adam, I commend you for acknowledging that something needs to change and taking action by seeking treatment. As someone that works in a profession where I work with a lot of treatment providers I understand how addiction is a disease. But substance abuse does not have to be debilitating. Just trust the process and take things one day at a time. Bernardo, I also must give you props as well for being so supportive of your husband during this time. I wish you guys nothing but the best ❤️💓
@waynemiami
@waynemiami 4 жыл бұрын
It's in the vows for better or worst
@omeninoverde4976
@omeninoverde4976 4 жыл бұрын
Eu fico impressionado com a dedicação do Bernardo. Acho muito lindinho. Espero que o Adam se recupere.
@ernestogarcia9221
@ernestogarcia9221 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck, everything will be ok. The lord is with you. I am not a religious person but I will be praying for you. Bernard be strong take care guys.
@arif_and_ricky
@arif_and_ricky 4 жыл бұрын
awwww❤️❤️❤️
@MKBuds1
@MKBuds1 4 жыл бұрын
Adam and Bernardo .... individually you are both so strong. Together you are a mighty team that will persevere. Getting through and over these life challenges to move ahead with your dreams and lives together is what must be done. I know .... I’ve had them with very similar circumstances with my history. My Keith as your Bernardo is what made the experience not easier but worth it to have an absolute authentic life with each other. You both are such positive role models ... I am sending you both healing love and energy and may the peace of the Lord be with you both always.
@rubineiaregina6153
@rubineiaregina6153 4 жыл бұрын
Parabéns!!!! Adam o mais difícil vc já começou a fazer, e não deve nunca se esconder. Tem muito amor envolvido, seus pais, família, amigos, esse cara incrível do seu lado e Deus. Estaremos aqui te esperando e torcendo para sua recuperação, emanando muita luz, amor e pensamentos positivos.bjsssssssss
@rubenvelasquez4519
@rubenvelasquez4519 4 жыл бұрын
I am happy for all the positive comments you have about this transition. You don't know how a couple of guys that you don't know who are practically strangers can change the lives of others. I divorced 8 years ago and I was hopeless to finding love and an amazing man to share my life with. One day I watched one of your videos and I started following you when you were in Brazil, suddenly I found the sweetest couple I have ever seen. Bernardo a sweet man, loving and funny man, with great feelings. Adam a guy with a beautiful and humble heart, naive and with great sweetness. I know that bad things can happens but all the life brings us are just small lessons that I'm sure you can both overcome. I can only wish you that the greatest blessings of God are with you and whatever you are going through you can overcome it, remember that there are people who, although we do not know you, we care about you and we will always wish you all the best. Love you guys!!
@jadesolich2232
@jadesolich2232 4 жыл бұрын
Dude I totally agree with you man; I came out as a gay 17 yr old young man, and I can honestly say that it's been rough for the past 3 years because I was starting to discover who I was. It's been hard on me for the last month, but ever since I started watching their videos I feel happier in knowing who I am.
@jadesolich2232
@jadesolich2232 4 жыл бұрын
I also love that they can teach how love is supposed to be to young people and they were the ones who inspired me to come out( think of them as Noah and Allie from The Notebook)
@debbiebieler9874
@debbiebieler9874 4 жыл бұрын
You guys are great itsybitsy12
@gauravrainck
@gauravrainck 4 жыл бұрын
We luv you guys. Happy birthday Adam. Thanx for taking care of each other, we feel it vicariously.
@davidl.4297
@davidl.4297 4 жыл бұрын
Adam...we all hope you finally overcome the childhood issues and pain. Bernardo...we all LOVE and support you. This is as hard, if not harder on you. You are not living Adam's pain, but this is now causing you pain. We will hold you, lift you up, and hold your hand thru this journey, anytime you need support. xoxoox
@okechukwupatrick8566
@okechukwupatrick8566 4 жыл бұрын
First, Bernardo starts the video n am like " this is wierd" then he starts talking about goodbyes which got me sad. Anyways it's for the best. Thank Goodness you have someone who loves and supports you. I wish you a speedy recovery.♥️ You too have been my favourite couple and motivation that true love exist. I love you both❤️❤️
@candacejuan1729
@candacejuan1729 4 жыл бұрын
How long it has been, you almost made me cry by not posting video 😭, missed y'all so much ♥.
@david082680
@david082680 4 жыл бұрын
I am so happy to see another video. I'm glad Adam is working on getting better. I wish you all the very best and sending healing thoughts his way.
@thiagotecnologo501
@thiagotecnologo501 4 жыл бұрын
Força A e B... Vocês são luzes nesse mundo. Deus sempre nos levanta....
@tazzietownley3545
@tazzietownley3545 4 жыл бұрын
So very sad, thank you for sharing. More hugs and kisses required to hopefully make things all better
@andrebeluzzi5758
@andrebeluzzi5758 4 жыл бұрын
Força Adam, você é ser humano incrível e iluminado, você tem uma família e marido lindo que estarão sempre ao seu lado. Toda experiência que você passou no passado pra tornar esse homem que você é hoje. Sei que não é fácil e simplesmente difícil de entender tudo no momento, mas transforme toda experiência seja ela positiva ou não pra um apredisenzado maior que nos torna a pessoa linda que você é e que você merece sim toda felicidade, alegria e amor que todos tem a oferecer pra você. Saiba que você e o Bernardo além da família e amigos tem o apoio, a amizade de todos seus admiradores de todas as plataformas, somos seus amigos distantes... de cidades e países diferentes. Só o que passa em mim neste momento é uma vontade enorme de abraçar vocês e passar um pouco do carinho e amor que vocês nos transmitem, quem sabe um dia posso fazê-lo, neste momento so envio pra vocês todo meu amor, carinho, amizade, orações e muita energia positiva. Como sempre um grande beijo no coração de vocês, muita luz e força. Vocês não estão sozinhos. Bjo ❤
@giovanimarcondes9698
@giovanimarcondes9698 4 жыл бұрын
Olá André lindo vc ótimas palavras Giovanni Taubaté SP esto por aqui
@andrebeluzzi5758
@andrebeluzzi5758 4 жыл бұрын
@@giovanimarcondes9698 Olá Giovanni , obrigado!
@giovanimarcondes9698
@giovanimarcondes9698 4 жыл бұрын
😘😘😘😘😘😘😘
@franciscarodrigues9344
@franciscarodrigues9344 4 жыл бұрын
E tao bom ver que pessoas que nem conhecemos nos faz um bem sem medidas.parabéns pelas palavras ditas. Sou uma pessoa que de vez em quando passo por aqui.algumas pessoas do meu convívio não entenderiam o meu posicionamento em relação aos gays .tenho por eles um amor inexplicável qie nem mesmo eu sei de onde vem🤷🏻‍♀️fiquei com o coração💔porque vao ficar longe um do outro mas por amor fazemos tudo ou quase tudo acho. Desejo muita sorte de bênçãos para eles💔😘😘
@giovanimarcondes9698
@giovanimarcondes9698 4 жыл бұрын
@@franciscarodrigues9344 parabéns Francisca beijos no seu coração Giovanni Taubaté SP
@yasirabozaid7105
@yasirabozaid7105 4 жыл бұрын
" this is a goodbye party " wow whenever I hear this sentence it brings me lot pain . Dear Adam , I hope everything will be alright , please keep us updated . I love you guys from the deepest point of my heart .
@helieldias3551
@helieldias3551 4 жыл бұрын
Meninos, Lembramos que com muita força está será uma nova página escrita, que papai do céu de força para vocês neste momento tão difícil, a gente apenas lembra da parte bonita que vemos e esquecemos que lá dentro ainda pode existir dores. Vocês são uma admiração para minha vida, estou orando que isso seja parte do testemunho de mais uma conquista. Não esqueça que aqui do lado de cá, há tantas pessoas que inspira em vocês. Beijos, fundo do meu coração, amo você. Deus esteja com vocês. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@emanuelluiz1153
@emanuelluiz1153 4 жыл бұрын
O que aconteceu ? O KZbin me indicou e eu to vendo pela primeira vez
@helieldias3551
@helieldias3551 4 жыл бұрын
Emanuel Silva os dois são casados, e eles expôs que adam viciado em maconha, e ele está indo para reabilitação, fora muitas coisas do passado.
@emanuelluiz1153
@emanuelluiz1153 4 жыл бұрын
Heliel Dias mdsss , mas eles vão se separar ?
@diegoflauzino
@diegoflauzino 4 жыл бұрын
@@emanuelluiz1153 Vão se separar por um mês por causa da reabilitação do Adam...
@lisawhinchester6714
@lisawhinchester6714 4 жыл бұрын
@@emanuelluiz1153 maratone o canal vc vai amar esses dois como a gente ama,são de uma doçura imensa, lindos em tudo.
@tonieheyneke8969
@tonieheyneke8969 4 жыл бұрын
Anxious to hear what you guys are up to and how you are. Please bring us up to date.
@floridaskater2003
@floridaskater2003 4 жыл бұрын
Best of luck to both of you. It takes so much to talk about the hard things we go through, let alone, sharing it on social media. This video along with you’re conversion therapy video, will help so many. Love you guys.
@johnl6371
@johnl6371 4 жыл бұрын
"When we speak, we are afraid our words will not be heard or welcomed. But when we are silent, we are still afraid. So it is better to speak" --Audre Lorde
@lisawhinchester6714
@lisawhinchester6714 4 жыл бұрын
Vai dar certo babys a gente ama muito vcs e vai estar torcendo e te apoiando. Parabéns Adam, Deus abençoe.
@kevintierney3542
@kevintierney3542 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bernardo.I'm speechless You are to be commended for your strength in pulling this off.A deeply emotional time to bring joy to Adam. God bless you always.Much better times are not too far away. Keep hope in your heart and take extra special care of your well being. Stay safe.Love you guys.Soon you'll both be on that big sofa deciding on what movie to watch.
@wiguy3
@wiguy3 4 жыл бұрын
Hello husbands- everyone misses you and we want you to know you're much loved, Hope you are both well and will be back with a video update soon.
@gene6095
@gene6095 3 жыл бұрын
That’s really beautiful thing you did bubba. I am proud to say that I call you 2 as my brothers.
@charleswoolley8367
@charleswoolley8367 4 жыл бұрын
Like quite a few of your viewers, this "revelation" about your cannibus use is surprising. I am sorry it has reached the point of needing rehab, but hope you will return with new insights. I wish you and Bernardo many long years together.
@janebyron41
@janebyron41 4 жыл бұрын
I know you can do this. You're such a strong man. So many people are rooting for you
@arif_and_ricky
@arif_and_ricky 4 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@marcilenesoares8053
@marcilenesoares8053 4 жыл бұрын
Parabéns Adam !A cada aniversário que comemoramos é o começo de novos tempos em nossa vida.Obrigada! Obrigada! Nós agradecemos a vocês a confiança de nós permitir fazer parte dessa etapa valiosa da vida de vocês. Uma sugestão, escreva um livro contando a sua história , ele vai ajudar várias pessoas .
@MrJayvazquez
@MrJayvazquez 4 жыл бұрын
Love you guys! You got this Adam! You too Bernardo! Good luck with everything. Sending you all the positive vibes. 😘 Ya'll got this! 💪🏽💚🤍🤎♥️
@billysullivan7996
@billysullivan7996 4 жыл бұрын
I was checking on Adam to see how he's doing in the rehab and I hope that you're okay and Portland with all those forest fires
@RockerPepe
@RockerPepe 4 жыл бұрын
When I started watching your videos, I was going through a very hard time in my life and you gave me that strength and hope by seeing that true love exists. Adam thank you for sharing this moment with us that we know is not easy for you but God is always with you guys because you are two beings incredibly full of love, faith and humanity. From Cancun Mexico all my love and blessings to you guys❤️🙏🏻
@RockerPepe
@RockerPepe 4 жыл бұрын
Oh, and im sorry... HAPPY BDAY!! 🎉🎉🎂
@Fusselmonster1984
@Fusselmonster1984 4 жыл бұрын
Sometimes watching you, i feel like you really dont know how strong and how brave you are, Adam. You will get through this. You will be happier and healthier and no, im not gonna say its going to be easier, but its gonna be "better". Bernardo, your kindness and commitment blows my mind. Your strength and your faith in Adam is not just inspiring but it warms my heart. Im absolutely convinced that as long as you both believe in each other, you gonna be fine. Yes, you struggle. Thats fine. Its reasonable. But as much as you struggle, as much and even more you love each other. Thats the key. Im sure. Love cant conquer everything. But love can do a whole lot more than anything else could. I have the absolute greatest respect for the both of you and I'll send all the good energies your way. Keep going. Never stop. There is nothing you cant do. Both of you.💕💕💕
@DragonLightz
@DragonLightz 4 жыл бұрын
You are so brave, Adam, to share your issue with us and Bernardo is just as brave to allow us to have a glimpse of your shared pain with Adam. OMG, Bernardo can sing! Can we please have some vlog segments where he sings some Portuguese/English songs? Happy Belated 36th Birthday, Adam! I don't think you'll come back as a new person, Adam, because you'll always be the person with whom we fell in love from the beginning of your KZbin days. You'll be the same person who have the skills to control your addictions. We love that because it will secure your marriage with Bernardo. ;-)
@shalonrocha2560
@shalonrocha2560 4 жыл бұрын
Puts... tinha tempo que não me emocionava assim! 😭😘❤️
@justyouraverageintrovert8487
@justyouraverageintrovert8487 4 жыл бұрын
Just rewatching the last video because I’ve missed you two this past month. You guys are both so positive that I wish you guys had your own reality show to spread the positivity, especially during this pandemic. I wish Adam the best and fully support Bernardo vlogging one in the meantime until Adam returns. Sending love and positive vibes your way. 🤗
@valinjansen2140
@valinjansen2140 4 жыл бұрын
Stay positive guys...this too shall come to pass! Looking forward to your return!
@tommypaton2445
@tommypaton2445 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck to you both and this is one of the reasons why I love watching you both. You don't hold back, you speak of things where others would squirm. Addiction is nothing to be affaird of. Heck I went to a life coach for about 2 years, at first I wasn't comfortable saying where I was going but then once I got better and realized what others think have no effect on me its just their own opinion I was ok saying it.
@paulneale4659
@paulneale4659 4 жыл бұрын
Sending love and positive thoughts from across the Atlantic to the both of you . Stay strong and your love for each other will get you through 🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈
@cotrim1972
@cotrim1972 4 жыл бұрын
Você São Lindos! Adam, vai dar certo a sua Reab! Estou torcendo por vocês! Adam e Bernardo! Beautiful!!!
@curtisblind5975
@curtisblind5975 4 жыл бұрын
Good morning, Your both very brave for sharing your story. I have been sober for 1 year, 43 weeks and 3 days today. The realization that trauma was the roots of my addiction is the largest stepping stone in my recovery. To be able to forgive, thank and eventually release that trauma will be a weight off all addicts minds. To hear you say "we can do this" is heartwarming. I know your message will help so many who continue to struggle in the darkness that shame, pain, guilt and remorse bring. Thanks for sharing. Be strong and continue to share as I find strength just hearing your story.
@alexandernascimento6889
@alexandernascimento6889 4 жыл бұрын
Como vocês são lindos! 😍 Sei bem como foi crescer no meio evangélico sendo gay, criei tantas camadas para me esconder que até hoje sofro as consequências disso. Adam, tente não se cobrar tanto nessa internação, com a culpa que crescemos temos essa tendência a nos punir por não conseguir "chegar lá", vá com calma e faça tudo no seu tempo e com as forças que dispor no momento. Muita luz e amor pra você. Bernardo, também não se cobre tanto, para nós que vemos de fora você já faz o que a grande maioria não faria, você já tem sido a força que o Adam precisa. Irão superar essa fase, vocês demonstram tanto amor, companheirismo e cumplicidade que saírão disso tudo ainda mais fortalecidos. Muito amor para o casal! 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍
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