Why do men avoid the topic of marriage? || STEVE HARVEY

Steve Harvey dives into things with serious questions about men and their feelings on marriage and cheating.
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[@Joker-sx5qj]

1 Gen feminist : we want equal rights 2 Gen feminist : we are equal to men 3 Gen feminist : we don't need men 4 Gen feminist : we are men

[@mythicalirishman6346]

5 Gen feminist : eliminate men

[@ananyapamde4514]

7 Gen feminist: since we are men now, let us eliminate ourselves

[@ghostup101]

9 Gen feminist: we ended the world. Why won’t men marry us?

[@jaybajan]

10 Gen Feminist : where have all the men gone?

[@archive___134]

12 Gen : Become the victim

[@sakatagintoki2888]

"women and children are loved unconditionally, while men are only loved when they provide something"- Chris rock.

[@netecrivernetecassassins2945]

And thus men are the most oppressed people 😔

[@alisontejeda3270]

Lol if women were loved unconditionally then both those ladies wouldn’t have the issues they do.

[@alisontejeda3270]

@@netecrivernetecassassins2945 I agree men are oppressed.

[@sakatagintoki2888]

@@alisontejeda3270 huh

[@netecrivernetecassassins2945]

@@alisontejeda3270 it's how society views people (in regard to the OP). Statistical anomalies in the form of the male killer cop is what should be focused on. Its an anomoly in the regards to males and cops, bcos that isn't the norm. In which case it shouldn't be associated with the norm either.

[@itsallgoodz1]

Women want a wedding but most don't necessarily want to be wives

[@r3dm1st31]

Ain't that the truth!

[@mooktemas6800]

BooooooM 🔥🔥🔥

[@gustavendayishimiye3366]

You hit the nail right on the head brother.

[@edwardtownsendjr.]

OUCH!💯🔥😂

[@lilymensah4860]

So sir what's a wife?

[@oifaye]

It's been 2 years and no new episodes. I want to watch more of this relationship advice. This is comedy gold! 😀

[@brododipollonews]

Why do men avoid marriage? For the same reason people in jail avoid picking up the soap.

[@joernshealthcare585]

Zozo box nice one!!!!

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

Zozo box That deserves to win the comment section.

[@fluffysnatch4689]

I lol'd so much I think I messed my drawers.

[@cristiannaldoro2985]

epic

[@gene4438]

300th like

[@PabloPerez-ep5zn]

We don't avoid marriage, we are just avoiding going into debt in advance.

[@TheREALSimagination]

More like bedt for nothing.

[@youtubesucksass8986]

Yeah

[@ezgonman]

Can I get a Kevin Samuel in here.. If a woman said she cheat them women be high fiving and clapping until the building about to come down..

[@gonefishin3620]

Amen. 2 years later I am.still paying for the divorce and alimony debt I acquired and we had no kids. Be careful out there guys.

[@melskilove]

Lololololoo

[@naolfekadu6101]

cheating is not a lack of attraction its a lack of character

[@SJ-cv4jk]

I just felt like I should say this Mr Harvey’s videos helped me through a very challenging 2018, I always unwind with his videos. Thank you sir!

[@bukhosidlamini3154]

If she threatens to leave because you won't marry her, let her leave.

[@alexandramaun7366]

Well duh what's the point of staying with useless man anyway

[@theguywhoasked1483]

@@alexandramaun7366 Lmao

[@Ryan-uu8oz]

@@alexandramaun7366 If he's useless, why was she with him. Use common sense.

[@LethalByChoice]

@@alexandramaun7366 Lmao you're petty. If she was useless to him then she wouldn't be with him, use your damn common sense.

[@TheREALSimagination]

Well ... yeah. That's the last and only time you can get her to leave without losing.

[@Dadee3]

*I love how they left out:* *D. Women will take our finance/assests in divorce.*

[@lorenzoclement2013]

exactly

[@TheREALSimagination]

SHHHHH!

[@Hussuki]

Bruv!!! I was thinking that! Too bad his show isn’t no nonesense or else I’m sure it would’ve been up there. I used to want to get married, until I learned of their scheme. Marry a dude who’s financially stable, stick around and have kids for a few years, then, once boredom settles in and a new guy shows up, divorce and take just about everything he got including the children. Thus, leaving him out to dry in a decaying dating pool with less than what he’s originally worth while they live la vida loca on the spoils with their new fling. No thanks, no thanks.

[@jamesedwards5070]

Because that's the plan of the government, who benefits from it as well

[@southerntiger3107]

TRUE!

[@leeboriack8054]

“Marriage is a great institution, but I don’t want to be institutionalized.” ~ Mae West

[@aksharshah8358]

Think of it as this way: Marriage for men....is like having a car with no possibility of having an insurance coverage. If there's an accident down the road, we have to pay everything out of pocket for the damage to the car, to ourselves, to the people in the car and to the people hurt on the streets as well. That is why we have to think it through a thousand times before choosing you as the one.

[@deangreen2567]

Women: Marriage is the ultimate sign that we love one another and are committed to it. Men: A written agreement with the government? Really?

[@bestfly8558]

Very unromantic. If it was just a party for our family and friends, then yes.

[@justinfacer6332]

I told my girl that we'll have the whole ceremony and honey moon. She seemed to be receptive to the idea. When I get on one knee I'll say something like do you want to legally change your last name and then we'll just kinda play it by ear from there

[@yuriboyka5759]

100th like

[@SomethinAintRightHere]

Dean Green Marriages, births, deaths & baptisms used to be recorded in the family Bible, and telling the government wasn’t necessary. This is what happens when we let government get too involved in our lives- ruins everything

[@OniNoFro]

A written agreement requiring government approval which women can exit out of (and do over 70% of the time) and derive persistent benefit from the end of that "love" and commitment (over 80% of the time). Basically... they lie. They can't even acknowledge their part in making marriage undesirable to men. And so, walk away.

[@JustMe-ku6rk]

Simple answer why men don't talk marriage: men have everything to lose and nothing to gain, while women have everything to gain and nothing to lose.

[@Anonymous-pr3gr]

You used to have sex but now it's handed over much more liberally...

[@sohlohmon3012]

@@Anonymous-pr3gr bro sex can be handed over to you liberally if you play your game well , what you say now doesn't justify anything , marriage is a cage , it takes some of man's rights

[@Anonymous-pr3gr]

@@sohlohmon3012 ...And women make it so easy that it's not worth spending time on one that won't give out sex. It's just easier to go out and find another one who will.

[@JustMe-ku6rk]

@@Anonymous-pr3gr I always had much more sex as a single man than I ever did as a married man. I believe that most men can say the same.

[@bullballsallday]

@@JustMe-ku6rk Depends. There are a lot of men out there who get no action whatsoever unless they have virtually no standards. It's only a small margin of men who have the opportunity to widely distribute themselves out to lots of women.

[@kavelbryson817]

Steve that was sweet of you to protect her feelings like that, good job and a wonderful expression of love and support.

[@chocolatesmyjam8480]

My spouse and I lived with each other, had two kids and remained faithful, committed and loyal to each other for 6 years before deciding to officially get married on paper… We never once let people try to pressure and rush us into marriage after having our first baby. Marriage is not to be taken lightly. Even though we have kids together, it is still a whole other level of commitment to get married. And needless to say, I am happy we stuck it out through the hard times and learned to communicate better during arguments and continue to work on self-improvement while managing a family and relationship. It is such hard work and so many young people just dont realize that

[@ninculus3042]

So you would have a baby with a man, but marrying him is a whole other level of commitment lol?? what?? A whole baby

[@proudexmuslim2354]

@@ninculus3042 i will be so happy if my girl never ask me for marriage

[@ninculus3042]

@@proudexmuslim2354 then your happy to not complete half of your Islam. Unless your not a Muslim

[@BudgetBuysHub]

Wooohh wooooohhh!! You trust the person so much that you have kids with them but you don't trust them enough to marry them ?!? Wtf is this logic? First marry thn have kids, so your children won't end up living without mom or dad

[@roodclover7109]

@@BudgetBuysHub Why do you have to marry before having kids? It the end result is the same, it doesn't matter what method or order was used. The kids can have a mom and dad, even if the parents aren't married. Did you even read the OP?

[@ethantalley90]

I'd rather be a king in my own castle than a court jester in a queens castle🤷‍♂️

[@Blog4Justice]

Very nicely put. 👍😂

[@onur-a-k]

Well said

[@iCANT_BELIEVE_YOU_SAID_THAT]

Love that comment. 🤣🤣🤣

[@mahersabit9265]

And that’s coming from van wilder

[@jlee6772]

Facts all day 💯 somebody give this man his props for saying that ...king never a jester in a queens castle

[@raddamusray1387]

I love it that the REAL reasons men don't want to get married is not in the actual video, it is in the comment section.

[@drewdatification]

Keepin' it real. Black pills all day!

[@Tushar_Talwar_09]

So true

[@johnratican3824]

I know. We are not commitment phobic; we are divorce rape phobic.

[@tremendousyeet3467]

same

[@scottwall8419]

If a man doesnt want to talk about marrying you theres only 2 possible reasons. He doesnt want to marry you or he doesnt want you to nag him into it.

[@jayisrayfillet7508]

Steve Harvey is a good actor as he can say all this with a straight face.

[@theemoseum8371]

Uncle Steve need to bring his segments back. we need this wisdom & these conversations in the 2020’s

[@gardhd4623]

Its gets me really PISSED when steve harvey continually lies to these women to make them feel better about themselves 🤦🏾‍♂️ instead of telling them to go IMPROVE themselves

[@JamesCPark-qf5xd]

I know right? I'm glad that I wasn't the only one

[@gnomeking6568]

He's PIMPING these women on their EMOTIONS... Steve is making MONEY! Just like a pastor in the church, pimping Jesus & FALSE HOPE to the congregation.

[@andresperalta5258]

Knome King Bro I realized that ever since I was a child. My family and friends were trying to push their beliefs on to me.

[@hogant.551]

@@gnomeking6568 💯

[@kristapsjj8520]

His moral barometer wouldn't allow him to tell those women the truth and potentially offend them xD

[@rustynuts4426]

"I wanna recount" I knew it was fixed. 99% Men voted C

[@MichaelJohnson-dt5zr]

That's what I'm saying...if she kept playing games over a period of time and she don't wanna talk things out like adults...well, bye👋...👍

[@error8119]

Facts though ain’t no way. I heard all them damn C’s in the crowd ain’t hear no damn A’s and B’s

[@vessaagosanchez9158]

Hell yeah, 49% of those men are lying.

[@n7elite259]

Yes. I was so sure the majority picked C

[@erikswanson224]

Yes, my guess would be it's much higher.

[@arhabersham]

1:56 "I want a recount!", I almost spat my coffee in laughter

[@danielclocanas7751]

I lost everything because of it.. My daughter taken away from me, my business my mental and physical health, etc...etc.and my ex is a Doctor. Never thought a Doctor would destroy my life...but she did!!!

[@kazj1728]

Were her relatives heavily influencing her?

[@mosesruperto7128]

Marriage is a woman's dream. Not a man's. Carry on.

[@peterjenei1619]

Not even marriage, in most cases only the wedding.

[@mosesruperto7128]

@@peterjenei1619 You've made a hell of a point. I agree. Many cases.

[@alexandramaun7366]

Then you hear these red pills losers talk about women not getting married at young age and "losing eggs"

[@ragingnoob3603]

@@alexandramaun7366 they don't talk about them getting married, they talk about them not settling down and hopping from guy to guy untill they hit there late 30's with like 9 kids n serious baggage trying to pluck a rich dude for "security"

[@solascripturaPR1517]

She can't make a rebuttal to THAT comment (those facts), @Mikael Tapoc !!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@Trid3nt861]

"Roses are red, love is fake. Weddings are funerals with a cake" -Anonymous

[@javierfito5077]

DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN

[@probrobosnian]

You earned my like

[@nunyabusiness168]

Whoever came up with this deserves a cookie.

[@Farmores]

@Bartandalus Blue It was rick from rick and morty.

[@blessingtshego4141]

😂😂😂 Why do I feel like you're anonymous

[@mubolala746]

Steve Harvey where do you get all these attractive, handsome, men? Looking at them all, make my day bright. Thank you for entertaining us

[@jslack8973]

There’s no way I would be with a man that doesn’t want what I want with each other. You have to know when it’s time to move on. Both people need to be happy

[@mr.speyside5240]

Men don’t avoid marriage. We avoid divorce!

[@sid6.764]

Mr. Speyside, actually men do avoid marriage because when the courts got involved in the process, men can't avoid divorce.

[@lyesabdi4753]

Marriage is not a long way relationship if a women cheats and gets problems that leads to divorce, so yeah that definitely the main reason for us man to avoid marriage

[@wildyato3737]

The main problem is all the sympathy and the argument are often listen by women's side And since women are innocent ,Men have to do all things And when this thing happens at the court ,Men life is ruin over emotional ly, financial and his freedom gets f*cked Also if there is a child ,then your life is completely hell ,cuase you need to pay the whole salary as a wife and child support when you get divorced It's like a good man always cut first ,even he didn't done any wrong in his life!:(

[@lumox7]

I've heard that marriage is the number one cause of divorce.

[@drunkmexican814]

Wrong sir! We avoid prison

[@lemhendrix]

She's NEVER yours, it's just your turn. Even in marriage.

[@magichoodoo5028]

You need to make better decisions with what women you date

[@DJ8017]

@@magichoodoo5028 Lol classic shaming tactics. "Must make better decisions". bla bla. Never mind there is a 50% divorce rate and 80-90% of those divorces are filed by WOMEN!

[@ElGeneralDelAire]

ShoUt oUt to ya! WE ARE THE PRIZE!!

[@JD-hx7yd]

@Roland Fraser Unlucky.

[@silentwitness536]

@@magichoodoo5028 bs. Bad women can fake being good women, and then reveal themselves eventually, long after the wedding.

[@aberrantlawyer59]

"Why do men avoid marriage?" Same reason we avoid prison.

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

"Sex you want, you ain't getting. The sex you're getting, you don't want it."

[@saultube44]

This is an Awesome Event, I wish I'd known about it, to watch it live

[@jvon1810]

"she did gain a little weight over time-" *Women starts booing and shaking heads* *The same women when a man is under 6f * "🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣"

[@HerveyShmervy]

Height is out of human control, while weight is the cause of eating unhealthy and being a pig lol

[@rjtelles3929]

Right. Its like it’s not supposed to matter. Women just want a man to be attracted to them regardless of whatever and if we aren’t...it’s because we aren’t good guys. Now if a woman judges a guy on anything it’s because she’s deserves the best their is.

[@randallcouto2904]

@Masanit I can guarantee it was more than her just gaining weight . They think in the their minds that they are unattractive and when a woman feels unattractive , she tends to shut down sexually. Men cheat because their sexual needs aren't being met . The answers were linear asf and didn't delve into the actually truth .

[@bkatbamna]

@@HerveyShmervy This is the United States of 2019 where even women eating like pigs and weighing 300 plus pounds are above any criticism and have to be not just accepted but "celebrated".

[@siddharthjain650]

The reason is simple The reward is not worth of risk anymore Men are taking the red pill

[@daweetparada9081]

So glad there’s a decent amount of red pill guys on the internet. I feel like the only one where I live.

[@JamesCPark-qf5xd]

We will be with you

[@danterymes1217]

You see them, they are the ones with the fake smile and the overly happy wife forcing them to smile for their Instagram pictures. They just took the pill too late.

[@brothernadjib]

Many guys are redpilled, they just don't let them express themselves on mainstream media, they select only bluepilled guys to fuel their feminist agenda

[@reesejohnson2788]

Dante Rymes one of the realest statements on the internet. Lol 💯

[@mortzon5681]

Same

[@ketsbeaotakalewold7819]

God bless u Steve 🙏 u have such a wisdom like Solomon

[@patriciadavis1393]

I love when Stevie used to do this I found them very warm with them and I wonder if anybody hooked up is there any updates

[@NiftyShifty1]

If 50% of parachutes didn’t work, would you go skydiving?

[@itsdemidy5439]

makes sense 😂😂😂🤣 all the signs are clear, women will win in every situation in marriage,, why should i marry ? MGTOW ~*Wow so many likes I ddnt expect*~

[@kajalkangra9423]

75% buddy where u live

[@joec1212]

#myweinermychoice

[@3ossomok588]

But above all that, i don't understand the idea of marriage, can any body tell me please ?

[@yobootystank8160]

Nathan Frey you got that from bill burr huh?

[@lilshokan]

"marriage is tradition" Tradition is peer pressure from the dead

[@goondocksaints9597]

No sex before marriage is a tradition, too. But women tossed that one out without any complaints. If you are going to look at traditions like a salad bar, men get to pick and choose too.

[@AnthonySforza]

The problem is, that certain traditions we've collectively tossed out because "Reasons"... Well, as we're seeing the destruction wrought by doing so, they were clearly there for a reason.

[@AntoninusPius100]

Goondock Saints Yes traditions are very important. Marriage was tradition because it worked back then. Women were less promiscuous, less likely to cheat, and had happier marriages 50 years ago.

[@AntoninusPius100]

cotton eye joe Traditions are defined as “The transmission of customs or beliefs from generation to generation.” Human rights are something that is passed down generation to generation, if everybody in this generation happened to spawn in the world with no passed down customs or beliefs, killing and slavery would be fine

[@raheemcamal998]

@@AnthonySforza this tradition sprung from religion to which people are throwing away nowadays, so don't expect it to work without the manual, it will inevitably fail

[@F22C1]

Gambling half of your possessions on human emotional consistency is dangerous. I feel sorry for those who found out too late.

[@vivianli7699]

He is a man with a good heart, people feel comfortable with him, it’s so charming.

[@heedmywarning2792]

why don't men want to get married? why don't women want to STAY married?

[@attorneyreid7]

Heed My Warning because there are too many women out there that loves casual sex and don't care who they sleep with. They give it up so easily that men can get it anytime, anywhere, anyhow. I believe if it was more difficult for men to get laid and ALL women kept their legs close, then more men would want to get married. Also, if less people had sex before marriage them both would be forced to get to know the real person without having their judgements clouded by great sex. Sometimes, people are addicted to the sex and they really don't love the person or they are not compatible but they won't see these things if they are sleeping together.

[@specturr]

Just because you marry a person that doesn't mean they wont be having casual sex on the side. Marriage is just a piece of paper and a ring it doesn't guarantee anything.

[@attorneyreid7]

specturr wow, that's so sad! If that's the way you feel about marriage then you shouldn't get married. God created marriage and He sanctifys it. The Bible says "Marriage should be honored by all!". If you have no honor or respect for marriage then it's best that you never get married because it won't work for you.

[@mikewilliamsjudo6160]

D Reid That's not what women think these days

[@max107sky]

D Reid I don't think you understand what he's saying, marriage is a piece of paper and a ring, that's a FACT. People don't need marriage to declare their love for one another, marriage just makes it public. There is nothing physically stopping someone from cheating on the side, any married person CAN cheat, that doesn't mean they will and there are stories of people cheating on their partner, so of course it happens. Specturr's sentence is logical, it is a fact that someone can cheat on the side (He never said that's how he felt about it), but you started thinking with emotions, not logic.

[@argacc9434]

“I bet you 50% of my belongings that we’re gonna be together forever” - Aba

[@tallboywitshortpants]

When I read it like that, it honestly gave me a good laugh. 😂

[@ft9217]

😂😂

[@raphael5165]

Underrated comment 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Stark720s]

Preach

[@larrylightner5638]

No what the problem is now, is there are more cheating women than men. & most don't admit to it or brush it off like it doesn't matter, or take responsibility for their actions, or blame the men like its our fault, saying we caused them to cheat

[@jamesmiller5900]

When I took this girl on a first date I was telling my dad about it. He was like "wait... Stop... Single mothers are a money sink and the worst investment you can make." Best advise I've ever gotten. Yes we need fathers in childrens lives

[@KariahJ]

What do you mean by that? It was the best advice you've ever gotten, but yet you say fathers need to be in childrens lives?

[@user-eo4px2cu4v]

Love the explanation about the ring..

[@agoraphobicadam1171]

I will break it down for you. Women say,I like marriage because it brings me security. Men say, Marriage takes my security away.

[@julianacheriza1575]

True!!!

[@stupidboy1746]

please change your profile to a different colour its confusing

[@carlmeh4674]

Jeff Haigs sometimes custody is still sometimes given to women even though they are abusive or negligent.

[@alibawazir8056]

Men say marriage takes their security away and their hard-earned MONEY.

[@leem.5917]

Suad Mahfouz women begin to control men in marriage it can be seen everywhere. Women become the pupeteer and men becomes the puppet

[@furyberserk]

Let me tell you. Steve Harvey had 4 divorces and he has 6 shows and is always working. He's bald for a reason.

[@alextrujillo1613]

I’m 27 never been married and I’m balding

[@denisewhite3902]

Men go bald with age. That’s just how it is 😂😴

[@denisewhite3902]

Barber of Seville .... imagine assuming that im putting it there for anything other than getting tired of stating the obvious 😂😴

[@makaynchealhalibbealkhooo9673]

He got bold for all the money he loosing for them lazy women ... but he can’t say something different cuz it’s his job requirements to love women , feminism , ...

[@aloveaffairwithself]

Hilarious! But, something is not too right with a person that’s been divorced 4 times...whether man or woman...I’m just saying...😂

[@uj2233]

Steve's words are like apples of gold in pictures of silver.

[@DavidPerez-lo4dn]

Divorce is a bigger industry than ever before. I've heard a friend of mine once compare marriage to buying a flashy new car and never able to pay it off while keeping up it's maintenance. I'm still never married yet.

[@Backstreets247]

Why do men avoid the topic of marriage? Me: Why don't you ask the court?

[@jeremyweekes2126]

Yep! It should be mandatory for every guy who is thinking about getting married to go sit in the back of a court room for a few days & observe the divorce & custody hearings.

[@DD-ky2pi]

@@jeremyweekes2126 What’s the worst divorce case you ever heard or seen ?

[@He_who_rides_many_winds]

@@DD-ky2pi The endangerment of the kigolian scozza virus.

[@kainenmattison3665]

I love watching a man who has been married 3 times giving people marriage advice. *asks blind man how to paint*

[@m2goofy760]

4 times...

[@kainenmattison3665]

@@m2goofy760 thanks for the clarification

[@kaputasri]

what a clown at least hes a walking billboard on what a man shouldnt do or become.

[@lacroix4876]

Mr potato head looking ass has been divorced 4 times?? Lmao yeah it's goofy that he's giving the advice

[@RelentlessSpirit1990]

*Asks Shaq for free throw lessons*

[@GitSumGaming]

Steve Harvey really knows how to lay down the truth easy on the women and change the words up so they understand

[@arturoacosta6583]

Great topic!!!!!

[@GeneralG1810]

Men can only here "I'm a strong independent woman who don't need no man" so many times, you ladies keep saying it so we go along with it

[@markcadieux3445]

Then they get mad when we expect them to act independent. i.e. pay their share on dates, vacations and all bills. Open their own doors, and things like that.

[@kaputasri]

@@markcadieux3445 haha so true, let them tools be mad you want equality theres equality for you.Wanna behave like a man? get treated like a man no sympathy whatsoever.

[@seanm7539]

kaputasri That’s why I stopped opening doors

[@rayyisbaeee]

Not every girl thinks the same just like not every man thinks the same so please stop trying to make this a "thing". Date someone who has the same values as you.

[@Curtis_George]

@@seanm7539 i make it my business to not open doors for any woman that I'm not related to or boning. You should see my sidestep game. It looks douchey but my plan is to keep my dignity intact at all costs.

[@James-dt7ky]

[@joshsanpedro8585]

@cat man do dude, I think women as well don't realise it either, just as much as men do. Agreeably, Marriage is a lifelong commitment that includes both partners to fulfill their roles as being parents, being supportive of each other, and not one way or the other. A husband is a working relationship and not someone who can be easily disposable.

[@clawrence66]

@cat man do YES JUST MAKE SURE SHE CAN COOK, CLEAN AND GIVE HEAD

[@nkwuapreciou4892]

I think on the day of the Lord Steve will get the same reward as a Pastor/ Preacher, he has changed more lives than most religious Congregations; I love you Steve #nigeria

[@insulareshdxo9454]

I like these kind of conversations,

[@Blackwingsss]

"For every woman that needs a man, there is a man that needs you too" LOL not anymore. Men are walking away.

[@Kennykomar]

For every woman that needs a man, there is a cat that needs you too

[@NN-cc8uo]

Women need men... not the other way around. Sad thing is many women don't even recognize this and then cry when something inevitably goes wrong

[@xargalakthe7thplanar326]

and the woman think its men's fault they are single no most men are hotwired that if they see a hot woman theyre carnal desires manifest(and even Steve Harvey said if he had media he would cheat on his wife and he himself said that) in the end we are no better then rabbits we fluff and fluff till nothing is left

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

Yep until the Laws are Changed that are Unfair to Men.. NO MAN should get Married.... #Marriagestrikebymen

[@NinoBrownBoxing]

Math doesn’t agree with Steve

[@SergioKoolhaas]

1:57 "I want a recount!" That guy is my hero.

[@ristonalaimo5048]

@@m2goofy760 they didn't poll youtube, they polled real bachelors. most of the youtube audience has given up already.

[@m2goofy760]

@@ristonalaimo5048 using my own ears and judging by what the audience is yelling, I would bet I am correct in my assumptions.

[@ristonalaimo5048]

@@m2goofy760 that's funny you say that because the first time i heard this i thought i heard a lot of "B" being said, not "C", but i thought to myself before they read the polls that "C" was going to be the most popular by far. I think, honestly, a room of people that are single and still looking for women would fall in the "B" catagory, and a room of people looking through vidoes like this on youtube are already at the "C" answer. just giving my honest perspective, it's just a tad different from yours. anyway, have a good day, bro.

[@rustynuts4426]

@@ristonalaimo5048 That's called an audio edit. It's not difficault

[@KeijiAkuma]

@sergio Koolhaas That 1 guy said "I want a recount" then the women with the ugly hair said "we want a recount". (She put ALL men into one pot, not only that 1 guy...now you see how women think)

[@Chefyscooking]

Marriage is the day of your dream & our dream is the woman of our dreams. great word..

[@Anusuyaadass]

Marriage isn't about love always, it's about responsibility.

[@theintruder6085]

Both

[@ilikepancakes2368]

Most women don’t understand this that’s why smart men like me tend to avoid it.

[@bgoneification]

My dad used to say, "It's not worth giving away half your groceries just to get the other half cooked." He also said that women trade sex for love, and men trade love for sex.

[@jeremyweekes2126]

Wise man

[@MrNeboff]

Legend. May he live forever

[@adflix424]

@@MrNeboff his dad 'used to say'

[@MrNeboff]

@@adflix424 Ah damn . I'm just realizing . Still a solid advice from him tho . May he RIP

[@EGoWhittier]

If a Son learns the lessons his Father taught, the Father will always be with him.

[@captc0ck5lap60]

Damn, the comment section gives me hope. Stay strong bros.

[@blazetino5713]

Ikr, I’m surprised they didn’t turn off the comments

[@user-cc4kq6hl4c]

Sarcasm ?

[@sakatagintoki2888]

you too 👍

[@capt.sparrow8898]

It gives me despair lol

[@noordiamond6308]

😅

[@GardensoftheAncientsHerbal]

What it is is when the emotion behind it is more about the symbolism of it all than the bond then we run.

[@Ekalavya_]

4:38 A guy loudly said "yeah". No hesitate there from bro 🤣

[@AlexLoskutov666]

" Divorce for men is like getting raped, in a police station, while the cops are watching and doing nothing. Men are not afraid of marriage, we're afraid of divorce" - Aries Spears

[@AlexLoskutov666]

@Jn35 *She can find another victim to pray on. You are one of the proofs to why marriage is a really bad idea for men, that women lose nothing while men lose everything.

[@creepy_regret5542]

@Jn35 so why she forces men to marry ,when she don't want to

[@AlexLoskutov666]

@Jn35 all the bs you wrote can only happen in countries in which women really don't have any rights, like some 3rd world countries or Muslim countries, but not in a western country

[@PAIP_Studio]

Yeap, men are afraid of divorces laws and women them selves that can grow fat, bitchy or even in some cases go crazy kill you in your sleep and claim abuse to get off easy.

[@PAIP_Studio]

@Jn35 Yes but they don't kill you with a hammer in your sleep to get the house and your investment portfolio from your kids now do they... So shut it.

[@mahsi03]

Maybe we're just smart enough to know that marriage is a sad joke.

[@ragingnoob3603]

A sad joke with no punchline...

[@God-gi9iu]

@@ragingnoob3603 y

[@bacon_affair4480]

True

[@burry218]

Legal marriage typically has zero incentive for men and tonnes for women. Marrying for religious reasons though is a totally different ball game

[@jenniferleigh1674]

beautifully said.

[@marlonmonsegue4853]

Totally agree with you

[@gatorp9536]

“I want a recount!” -that guy is a legend 😂😂😂

[@SoTrue144]

C should of been the answer

[@BillClinton228]

They are so offended when they get older and men stop paying attention to them, but younger men who are less attractive or overweight are literally invisible to 99.99% of females. So let's cut the BS

[@shamibrown2287]

Rotflmao

[@seankenneth8622]

I loved that too

[@def702]

That kinda sounds like ice cube

[@mrpk188]

Why Men don't wanna get married? "Never sign a contract that only benefits one party" simple

[@zakbrinkhoff324]

Yep

[@astromaniac7459]

Exactly

[@Memerproductions]

Its like me sighning a contract that says i serve them for 2 months and get nonthing, bassically labor without pay

[@silvanbodea8606]

Nothing is simple, it doesn.t benefit 1 party if you both grow into your wealth

[@silvanbodea8606]

@Overlord 3108 grow its just a figure of speech ofc you work

[@jayleneperez2792]

The lady in yellow rolling her eyes at Steve in the back 🤣

[@sphephelombhamali1182]

ii need a full episode of this

[@DoctorCataclysm]

Why do men avoid marriage? It has become a gamble not worth taking.

[@brendakabanda2181]

lol, that's a very good answer.

[@Maxantium]

Thank You , Well said !

[@llgla]

If you're not in love with your partner any more, end the relationship first. Cheating is just despicable.

[@Animusapertus]

That's a good point, I guess some people are rash enough to want the "better" sex, but don't want to lose what they have either..

[@rae7269]

yes i agree. Its crazy how someone can not be in love with you anymore and will not say nothing or end the relationship. They cheat or if you leave them they get homicidal.

[@raitodigital2092]

Becaus it's a taboo, it's exciting.

[@pirates9109]

raito it's exciting to be a jerk then ? ok

[@babayaga1767]

so , for bettor or worse, just words?

[@ephraimphiri5789]

The options of answers you provide Steve are not thorough, but still interesting...

[@makessensewithbrothermark1123]

Did ya'll see the look the lady gave Steve when he agreed with the guy speaking at 2:46?😂

[@hipcat13]

Answer "D" should'a been "Because I don't want to become an emotionally abused wage-slave".

[@jasonland455]

Stay single my friend I’ve been married 20 years and you summed up my life perfectly emotionally abused wage slave trapped in a loveless marriage it really sucks I don’t recommend it

[@hipcat13]

@@jasonland455 You don't deserve it, no one does.

[@He_who_rides_many_winds]

@@jasonland455 Start Drinking Yorkshire Tea bro you will see the effects in no time save yourself bro we need you bro.

[@jamingaming9251]

F Yorkshire tea. Go woke go broke.

[@He_who_rides_many_winds]

@@jamingaming9251 No, Yorkshire Tea has nothing to do with being woke.

[@tamani9553]

why do men avoid marriage. scared of divorce maybe

[@MGTOWUNIVERSE]

+slimflex1 MGTOW!!!!!

[@poopoo4469]

+Tamani Wheeler XD much earlier than that, they scared of the woman saying NO to the proposal ;/ but thats a risk u gotta take

[@andrejohnson1028]

+Tamani Wheeler paying for ring, then wedding, then bigger house, then maybe a kid that I never wanted, then new vehicle..ugh

[@rick_santana]

+Tamani Wheeler No REAL Return On Investment.

[@nofybn7794]

+Andre Johnson new vehicle?

[@Naman-tc6jv]

Saw this while high everything made sense lol

[@levisview.5492]

I love this show

[@TerryJohnson757]

Don’t take advice from Steve ladies.

[@folabomi713]

They should look at his daughter

[@Supreme_Lobster]

No one should really take advice from Steve IMO.

[@walterbrown9079]

Thank you Steve Harvey has ripped women off with that book think like a Man and act like a lady but Steve Harvey acts like a tyrant when you being around a traitor like Donald Trump and see where he is now

[@walterbrown9079]

@@folabomi713 yeah Steve Harvey abandoned his first 2 daughters in his first marriage and when he married Marjorie he accepted Lori Harvey as a stepdaughter this bama here is no relationship expert !

[@mathabahassan3471]

@@walterbrown9079 Omg really???? I look at him like a father :')

[@jairon5196]

I love how confidently Steve is giving advice *knowing he’s had three wives*

[@zhufuedits8898]

He has the experience lmao

[@OrangePony75]

I’m sure they’re all happy with their alimony. He knows his turn with each of them was over and he’s still rolling. No downside here.

[@constantnipples2428]

And cheated

[@constantnipples2428]

@@OrangePony75 he cheated on them but u men don't have issues with men doing wrong

[@mobydick3895]

Steve makes his living by siding with the women and for god's sake, never telling them the actual truth.

[@theblazinghawk1310]

Someone yelling i want a re-count is so damn funny

[@lindadecosta4964]

Steve speaks the truth and he is frank with his opinion.... On top of that, he keeps his sincerity as a man and respect when he speaks to and about women. Noble man....

[@steveharveyprivate6905]

"Thanks for compliment and sincere love, I am not complete without you, as a fan of mine, for which im very grateful."

[@Ben-Ken]

Imagine Steve telling a man: "You're perfectly fine. No need to maintain your looks or level of income. It's not your responsibility if she cheats on you. "

[@krono6967]

And that would be true.

[@robertravena]

but they do NOT want to hear that. EVER.

[@masterskywalker8877]

@@krono6967 No?

[@somber8233]

That's true though too. If you love someone, they deserve to have the best you but if you go through some hard times - some family dies or you get laid off, it is their responsibility to be there to support you. Goes for both men and women.

[@MaihymCG]

@Esphaeras Praestans I think she bares some responsibility though, she's obviously overweight and probably doesn't look as well as she used to. So of course her man went after a younger and probably hotter woman. If she kept her image up or at least showed effort then she might not have gotten cheated on. You just heard that man say that attraction is important, she let herself go therefore making her man lose attraction.

[@1RPJacob]

The question is why post wall women suddenly want to talk about marriage ?

[@speedygaming3589]

Rafal Jot. They want to be proposed to and they want the wedding day

[@tjlnintendo]

Their biology clock is ticking and they want a baby

[@kaputasri]

Exactly look at these fish looking for bicycles lmao.

[@hogant.551]

@@speedygaming3589 By then most of them are fatsos and would eat all the wedding cake themselves.

[@michellerichardson3090]

Well if a woman just told people I just want a baby but dont care about marriage, she'd be call all types of names so that's the most socially acceptable thing to do, get married and have a kid

[@AviantoMr]

agree with Steve

[@glenwagner94gw]

I came by my self and ill go by my self. STRESS FREE 💯

[@THEFIRST39]

I’m with the brother who 1:55 in yelled “I want a recount“ this video was taken over five years ago; things have changed. That 15% could be closer to 30%.

[@lord2529]

What you've said is absolutely true. I was confused when the results came out. And then I saw the date on the video.

[@weaponxi6151]

The 15% is way off. First thing I said to myself was "okay with it never happening". Times really have changed

[@granthill2980]

Men, because of feminism, have found out theres really a great life out there without them.

[@MrEysox]

@@weaponxi6151 I really thought the answer C would have get a 70%

[@randyjones3050]

Absolutely. It's "C" all the way in the 2020s!"

[@dodopoopinpoop]

Question: Why won't my man marry me? Answer: He doesn't like you like that. *Period*

[@squirepepe8657]

dodopoopinpoop And all the legal consequences.

[@proudinfidel6629]

Hey what's "period"??

[@Ziotic]

Not always the case. *Period*

[@christiangirl1275]

@@proudinfidel6629 Period is an expression to say "and that's all it is." For example, "What you did to me was wrong and inexcusable, period." Sometimes people use it as a way to hype people up. For example, if your hair looks really nice your friends may say period to say that you're looking good. It's similar to saying "yass," if you remember when that was popular.

[@jayfoster8521]

Sparky Nova it means end of conversation. Nothing else to be said.

[@sivan1127]

1:57 I want a recount 😂😂😂

[@imranynwa506]

As a husband and a dad to a beautiful daughter I think We not avoid this kinda thing. We just have to think carefully about this. Because this is a very big responsibility to to endure it.

[@janbaltes2863]

Reason 1: The courts are against men Reason 2: quality women have dwindled

[@V4Now]

Quality men have not dwindled. That's a fallacy. Women have grown unrealistic expectations, and are ignored over the fantasy.

[@MrEysox]

Honestly that's the 2 main reasons

[@Tier82nd]

You know whats crazy, a women can ruin a mans life permanently with just 3 words, "I got raped" or "he raped me" and even when he is proven innocent people will still think he is guilty

[@ezramatan5233]

@@V4Now so they have dwindled...

[@V4Now]

@@ezramatan5233 no, they simply aren't looking at real quality that already exists and instead go for their idea of quality that doesn't.

[@oldschoolfarmtough.bigbloc7129]

Those men are lost souls. 75% percent of those 2000 men will end up in divorce and lose it all

[@emmanueldamilare211]

You saw that too!😂👌🏾

[@kylethekanadian2790]

Like lambs to the slaughter

[@eliaspittman]

@@jonathangrabban912 what a waste of time !!! If the trust is gone the relationship is over already. Gentleman don't waste your energy and money on this foolishness, if you're not a #mgtow then don't just marry some woman you like sleeping with but rather make an educated decision using logic and rationale so you don't become another divorce story.

[@JackRafael]

rvhron08 why you laughing

[@yf222000]

I know it’s late to respond. But here’s option D. Smart men wised up and know it isn’t worth it! There!

[@jordantaylorwilliams8227]

This show is important

[@jessehargrove6737]

"I want a recount" 😂😂😂

[@Wanderer628]

Jesse Hargrove Yeah, the C option should have way more votes.

[@obed5oa]

It was rigged. Option C was the most picked. They had to give the women hope.

[@LuxuryOption4756]

Men have no biological clock. Class is over. Thank You for attending the seminar.

[@nakedfaves4445]

+Roz Hudson Some women KNOW that they don't want children, even before they start dating the man that they're eventually going to marry. And then of course there's the topic of adoption. If you really want a child so desperately, adopt one that somebody else didn't want at all.

[@lobecosc]

+Roz Hudson Yes we do. It just set differently.

[@mfriedrich2012]

The wall, sexless marriage and decades of trapped misery. Thank you all for coming and goodnight. Be sure to tip your waitress.

[@olganozdratenko3394]

Men do have a biological clock. Just because they can produce sperm doesn’t mean it’s any good. If you study the biological science of children who’s father were over 40 when they were conceived, then you’ll know that mental disorders in those individuals are a lot more prevalent than those born to young fathers.

[@ryanphillips5591]

@@olganozdratenko3394 men can get mates at any age. Older women have far fewer options.

[@kingz9967]

Steve’s shows have changed many peoples mentality and perspectives on stuff in life. He’s a legend

[@lauranyc4966]

First abt the looks and then chemistry !!!!!!!