Why do men avoid the topic of marriage? || STEVE HARVEY

[@deangreen2567]

Women: Marriage is the ultimate sign that we love one another and are committed to it. Men: A written agreement with the government? Really?

[@bestfly8558]

Very unromantic. If it was just a party for our family and friends, then yes.

[@justinfacer6332]

I told my girl that we'll have the whole ceremony and honey moon. She seemed to be receptive to the idea. When I get on one knee I'll say something like do you want to legally change your last name and then we'll just kinda play it by ear from there

[@yuriboyka5759]

100th like

[@SomethinAintRightHere]

Dean Green Marriages, births, deaths & baptisms used to be recorded in the family Bible, and telling the government wasn’t necessary. This is what happens when we let government get too involved in our lives- ruins everything

[@OniNoFro]

A written agreement requiring government approval which women can exit out of (and do over 70% of the time) and derive persistent benefit from the end of that "love" and commitment (over 80% of the time). Basically... they lie. They can't even acknowledge their part in making marriage undesirable to men. And so, walk away.

[@Dadee3]

*I love how they left out:* *D. Women will take our finance/assests in divorce.*

[@lorenzoclement2013]

exactly

[@TheREALSimagination]

SHHHHH!

[@Hussuki]

Bruv!!! I was thinking that! Too bad his show isn’t no nonesense or else I’m sure it would’ve been up there. I used to want to get married, until I learned of their scheme. Marry a dude who’s financially stable, stick around and have kids for a few years, then, once boredom settles in and a new guy shows up, divorce and take just about everything he got including the children. Thus, leaving him out to dry in a decaying dating pool with less than what he’s originally worth while they live la vida loca on the spoils with their new fling. No thanks, no thanks.

[@jamesedwards5070]

Because that's the plan of the government, who benefits from it as well

[@southerntiger3107]

TRUE!

[@raddamusray1387]

I love it that the REAL reasons men don't want to get married is not in the actual video, it is in the comment section.

[@drewdatification]

Keepin' it real. Black pills all day!

[@Tushar_Talwar_09]

So true

[@johnratican3824]

I know. We are not commitment phobic; we are divorce rape phobic.

[@tremendousyeet3467]

same

[@scottwall8419]

If a man doesnt want to talk about marrying you theres only 2 possible reasons. He doesnt want to marry you or he doesnt want you to nag him into it.

[@itsallgoodz1]

Women want a wedding but most don't necessarily want to be wives

[@r3dm1st31]

Ain't that the truth!

[@mooktemas6800]

BooooooM 🔥🔥🔥

[@gustavendayishimiye3366]

You hit the nail right on the head brother.

[@edwardtownsendjr.]

OUCH!💯🔥😂

[@lilymensah4860]

So sir what's a wife?

[@CoomThroneHeir]

We don't avoid marriage, we are just avoiding going into debt in advance.

[@TheREALSimagination]

More like bedt for nothing.

[@youtubesucksass8986]

Yeah

[@ezgonman]

Can I get a Kevin Samuel in here.. If a woman said she cheat them women be high fiving and clapping until the building about to come down..

[@gonefishin3620]

Amen. 2 years later I am.still paying for the divorce and alimony debt I acquired and we had no kids. Be careful out there guys.

[@melskilove]

Lololololoo

[@heedmywarning2792]

why don't men want to get married? why don't women want to STAY married?

[@attorneyreid7]

Heed My Warning because there are too many women out there that loves casual sex and don't care who they sleep with. They give it up so easily that men can get it anytime, anywhere, anyhow. I believe if it was more difficult for men to get laid and ALL women kept their legs close, then more men would want to get married. Also, if less people had sex before marriage them both would be forced to get to know the real person without having their judgements clouded by great sex. Sometimes, people are addicted to the sex and they really don't love the person or they are not compatible but they won't see these things if they are sleeping together.

[@specturr]

Just because you marry a person that doesn't mean they wont be having casual sex on the side. Marriage is just a piece of paper and a ring it doesn't guarantee anything.

[@attorneyreid7]

specturr wow, that's so sad! If that's the way you feel about marriage then you shouldn't get married. God created marriage and He sanctifys it. The Bible says "Marriage should be honored by all!". If you have no honor or respect for marriage then it's best that you never get married because it won't work for you.

[@mikewilliamsjudo6160]

D Reid That's not what women think these days

[@max107sky]

D Reid I don't think you understand what he's saying, marriage is a piece of paper and a ring, that's a FACT. People don't need marriage to declare their love for one another, marriage just makes it public. There is nothing physically stopping someone from cheating on the side, any married person CAN cheat, that doesn't mean they will and there are stories of people cheating on their partner, so of course it happens. Specturr's sentence is logical, it is a fact that someone can cheat on the side (He never said that's how he felt about it), but you started thinking with emotions, not logic.

[@Joker-sx5qj]

1 Gen feminist : we want equal rights 2 Gen feminist : we are equal to men 3 Gen feminist : we don't need men 4 Gen feminist : we are men

[@mythicalirishman6346]

5 Gen feminist : eliminate men

[@ananyapamde4514]

7 Gen feminist: since we are men now, let us eliminate ourselves

[@ghostup101]

9 Gen feminist: we ended the world. Why won’t men marry us?

[@jaybajan]

10 Gen Feminist : where have all the men gone?

[@archive___134]

12 Gen : Become the victim

[@oifaye]

It's been 2 years and no new episodes. I want to watch more of this relationship advice. This is comedy gold! 😀

[@rustynuts4426]

"I wanna recount" I knew it was fixed. 99% Men voted C

[@MichaelJohnson-dt5zr]

That's what I'm saying...if she kept playing games over a period of time and she don't wanna talk things out like adults...well, bye👋...👍

[@error8119]

Facts though ain’t no way. I heard all them damn C’s in the crowd ain’t hear no damn A’s and B’s

[@vessaagosanchez9158]

Hell yeah, 49% of those men are lying.

[@n7elite259]

Yes. I was so sure the majority picked C

[@erikswanson224]

Yes, my guess would be it's much higher.

[@sakatagintoki2888]

"women and children are loved unconditionally, while men are only loved when they provide something"- Chris rock.

[@netecrivernetecassassins2945]

And thus men are the most oppressed people 😔

[@alisontejeda3270]

Lol if women were loved unconditionally then both those ladies wouldn’t have the issues they do.

[@alisontejeda3270]

@@netecrivernetecassassins2945 I agree men are oppressed.

[@sakatagintoki2888]

@@alisontejeda3270 huh

[@netecrivernetecassassins2945]

@@alisontejeda3270 it's how society views people (in regard to the OP). Statistical anomalies in the form of the male killer cop is what should be focused on. Its an anomoly in the regards to males and cops, bcos that isn't the norm. In which case it shouldn't be associated with the norm either.

[@bukhosidlamini3154]

If she threatens to leave because you won't marry her, let her leave.

[@alexandramaun7366]

Well duh what's the point of staying with useless man anyway

[@theguywhoasked1483]

@@alexandramaun7366 Lmao

[@Ryan-uu8oz]

@@alexandramaun7366 If he's useless, why was she with him. Use common sense.

[@LethalByChoice]

@@alexandramaun7366 Lmao you're petty. If she was useless to him then she wouldn't be with him, use your damn common sense.

[@TheREALSimagination]

Well ... yeah. That's the last and only time you can get her to leave without losing.

[@chocolatesmyjam8480]

My spouse and I lived with each other, had two kids and remained faithful, committed and loyal to each other for 6 years before deciding to officially get married on paper… We never once let people try to pressure and rush us into marriage after having our first baby. Marriage is not to be taken lightly. Even though we have kids together, it is still a whole other level of commitment to get married. And needless to say, I am happy we stuck it out through the hard times and learned to communicate better during arguments and continue to work on self-improvement while managing a family and relationship. It is such hard work and so many young people just dont realize that

[@ninculus3042]

So you would have a baby with a man, but marrying him is a whole other level of commitment lol?? what?? A whole baby

[@proudexmuslim2354]

@@ninculus3042 i will be so happy if my girl never ask me for marriage

[@ninculus3042]

@@proudexmuslim2354 then your happy to not complete half of your Islam. Unless your not a Muslim

[@BudgetBuysHub]

Wooohh wooooohhh!! You trust the person so much that you have kids with them but you don't trust them enough to marry them ?!? Wtf is this logic? First marry thn have kids, so your children won't end up living without mom or dad

[@roodclover7109]

@@BudgetBuysHub Why do you have to marry before having kids? It the end result is the same, it doesn't matter what method or order was used. The kids can have a mom and dad, even if the parents aren't married. Did you even read the OP?

[@GeneralG1810]

Men can only here "I'm a strong independent woman who don't need no man" so many times, you ladies keep saying it so we go along with it

[@markcadieux3445]

Then they get mad when we expect them to act independent. i.e. pay their share on dates, vacations and all bills. Open their own doors, and things like that.

[@kaputasri]

@@markcadieux3445 haha so true, let them tools be mad you want equality theres equality for you.Wanna behave like a man? get treated like a man no sympathy whatsoever.

[@seanm7539]

kaputasri That’s why I stopped opening doors

[@rayyisbaeee]

Not every girl thinks the same just like not every man thinks the same so please stop trying to make this a "thing". Date someone who has the same values as you.

[@Curtis_George]

@@seanm7539 i make it my business to not open doors for any woman that I'm not related to or boning. You should see my sidestep game. It looks douchey but my plan is to keep my dignity intact at all costs.

[@agoraphobicadam1171]

I will break it down for you. Women say,I like marriage because it brings me security. Men say, Marriage takes my security away.

[@julianacheriza1575]

True!!!

[@stupidboy1746]

please change your profile to a different colour its confusing

[@carlmeh4674]

Jeff Haigs sometimes custody is still sometimes given to women even though they are abusive or negligent.

[@alibawazir8056]

Men say marriage takes their security away and their hard-earned MONEY.

[@leem.5917]

Suad Mahfouz women begin to control men in marriage it can be seen everywhere. Women become the pupeteer and men becomes the puppet

[@SergioKoolhaas]

1:57 "I want a recount!" That guy is my hero.

[@m2goofy760]

@RockMusic using my own ears and judging by what the audience is yelling, I would bet I am correct in my assumptions.

[@rustynuts4426]

@RockMusic That's called an audio edit. It's not difficault

[@KeijiAkuma]

@sergio Koolhaas That 1 guy said "I want a recount" then the women with the ugly hair said "we want a recount". (She put ALL men into one pot, not only that 1 guy...now you see how women think)

[@youtubesucksass8986]

Yeah

[@billgreen576]

I notice they didn't seek him out for a comment with the microphone. Just Mr 'I'm going to propose' conveniently located near the front.

[@jayisrayfillet7508]

Steve Harvey is a good actor as he can say all this with a straight face.

[@Animanuel96]

Why do men avoid marriage? For the same reason people in jail avoid picking up the soap.

[@joernshealthcare585]

Zozo box nice one!!!!

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

Zozo box That deserves to win the comment section.

[@fluffysnatch4689]

I lol'd so much I think I messed my drawers.

[@cristiannaldoro2985]

epic

[@gene4438]

300th like

[@daweetparada9081]

So glad there’s a decent amount of red pill guys on the internet. I feel like the only one where I live.

[@James_C_Park]

We will be with you

[@danterymes1217]

You see them, they are the ones with the fake smile and the overly happy wife forcing them to smile for their Instagram pictures. They just took the pill too late.

[@brothernadjib]

Many guys are redpilled, they just don't let them express themselves on mainstream media, they select only bluepilled guys to fuel their feminist agenda

[@reesejohnson2788]

Dante Rymes one of the realest statements on the internet. Lol 💯

[@mortzon5681]

Same

[@Etwilder]

I'd rather be a king in my own castle than a court jester in a queens castle🤷‍♂️

[@Blog4Justice]

Very nicely put. 👍😂

[@onur-a-k]

Well said

[@iCANT_BELIEVE_YOU_SAID_THAT]

Love that comment. 🤣🤣🤣

[@mahersabit9265]

And that’s coming from van wilder

[@jlee6772]

Facts all day 💯 somebody give this man his props for saying that ...king never a jester in a queens castle

[@leeboriack8054]

“Marriage is a great institution, but I don’t want to be institutionalized.” ~ Mae West

[@argacc9434]

“I bet you 50% of my belongings that we’re gonna be together forever” - Aba

[@tallboywitshortpants]

When I read it like that, it honestly gave me a good laugh. 😂

[@Jonny-Wise]

😂😂

[@raphael5165]

Underrated comment 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Stark720s]

Preach

[@larrylightner5638]

No what the problem is now, is there are more cheating women than men. & most don't admit to it or brush it off like it doesn't matter, or take responsibility for their actions, or blame the men like its our fault, saying we caused them to cheat

[@lilshokan]

"marriage is tradition" Tradition is peer pressure from the dead

[@goondocksaints9597]

No sex before marriage is a tradition, too. But women tossed that one out without any complaints. If you are going to look at traditions like a salad bar, men get to pick and choose too.

[@AnthonySforza]

The problem is, that certain traditions we've collectively tossed out because "Reasons"... Well, as we're seeing the destruction wrought by doing so, they were clearly there for a reason.

[@AntoninusPius100]

Goondock Saints Yes traditions are very important. Marriage was tradition because it worked back then. Women were less promiscuous, less likely to cheat, and had happier marriages 50 years ago.

[@AntoninusPius100]

cotton eye joe Traditions are defined as “The transmission of customs or beliefs from generation to generation.” Human rights are something that is passed down generation to generation, if everybody in this generation happened to spawn in the world with no passed down customs or beliefs, killing and slavery would be fine

[@raheemcamal998]

@@AnthonySforza this tradition sprung from religion to which people are throwing away nowadays, so don't expect it to work without the manual, it will inevitably fail

[@captc0ck5lap60]

Damn, the comment section gives me hope. Stay strong bros.

[@blazetino5713]

Ikr, I’m surprised they didn’t turn off the comments

[@user-cc4kq6hl4c]

Sarcasm ?

[@sakatagintoki2888]

you too 👍

[@capt.sparrow8898]

It gives me despair lol

[@noordiamond6308]

😅

[@naolfekadu6101]

cheating is not a lack of attraction its a lack of character

[@mosesruperto7128]

Marriage is a woman's dream. Not a man's. Carry on.

[@peterjenei1619]

Not even marriage, in most cases only the wedding.

[@mosesruperto7128]

@@peterjenei1619 You've made a hell of a point. I agree. Many cases.

[@alexandramaun7366]

Then you hear these red pills losers talk about women not getting married at young age and "losing eggs"

[@ragingnoob3603]

@@alexandramaun7366 they don't talk about them getting married, they talk about them not settling down and hopping from guy to guy untill they hit there late 30's with like 9 kids n serious baggage trying to pluck a rich dude for "security"

[@solascriptura-e7t]

She can't make a rebuttal to THAT comment (those facts), @Mikael Tapoc !!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@Backstreets247]

Why do men avoid the topic of marriage? Me: Why don't you ask the court?

[@jeremyweekes2126]

Yep! It should be mandatory for every guy who is thinking about getting married to go sit in the back of a court room for a few days & observe the divorce & custody hearings.

[@DD-ky2pi]

@@jeremyweekes2126 What’s the worst divorce case you ever heard or seen ?

[@He_who_rides_many_winds]

@@DD-ky2pi The endangerment of the kigolian scozza virus.

[@furyberserk]

Let me tell you. Steve Harvey had 4 divorces and he has 6 shows and is always working. He's bald for a reason.

[@alextrujillo1613]

I’m 27 never been married and I’m balding

[@denisewhite3902]

Men go bald with age. That’s just how it is 😂😴

[@denisewhite3902]

Barber of Seville .... imagine assuming that im putting it there for anything other than getting tired of stating the obvious 😂😴

[@makaynchealhalibbealkhooo9673]

He got bold for all the money he loosing for them lazy women ... but he can’t say something different cuz it’s his job requirements to love women , feminism , ...

[@aloveaffairwithself]

Hilarious! But, something is not too right with a person that’s been divorced 4 times...whether man or woman...I’m just saying...😂

[@aksharshah8358]

Think of it as this way: Marriage for men....is like having a car with no possibility of having an insurance coverage. If there's an accident down the road, we have to pay everything out of pocket for the damage to the car, to ourselves, to the people in the car and to the people hurt on the streets as well. That is why we have to think it through a thousand times before choosing you as the one.

[@James-dt7ky]

[@joshsanpedro8585]

@cat man do dude, I think women as well don't realise it either, just as much as men do. Agreeably, Marriage is a lifelong commitment that includes both partners to fulfill their roles as being parents, being supportive of each other, and not one way or the other. A husband is a working relationship and not someone who can be easily disposable.

[@clawrence66]

@cat man do YES JUST MAKE SURE SHE CAN COOK, CLEAN AND GIVE HEAD

[@lemhendrix]

She's NEVER yours, it's just your turn. Even in marriage.

[@magichoodoo5028]

You need to make better decisions with what women you date

[@DJ8017]

@@magichoodoo5028 Lol classic shaming tactics. "Must make better decisions". bla bla. Never mind there is a 50% divorce rate and 80-90% of those divorces are filed by WOMEN!

[@ElGeneralDelAire]

ShoUt oUt to ya! WE ARE THE PRIZE!!

[@JD-hx7yd]

@Roland Fraser Unlucky.

[@silentwitness536]

@@magichoodoo5028 bs. Bad women can fake being good women, and then reveal themselves eventually, long after the wedding.

[@gardhd4623]

Its gets me really PISSED when steve harvey continually lies to these women to make them feel better about themselves 🤦🏾‍♂️ instead of telling them to go IMPROVE themselves

[@James_C_Park]

I know right? I'm glad that I wasn't the only one

[@gnomeking6568]

He's PIMPING these women on their EMOTIONS... Steve is making MONEY! Just like a pastor in the church, pimping Jesus & FALSE HOPE to the congregation.

[@andresperalta5258]

Knome King Bro I realized that ever since I was a child. My family and friends were trying to push their beliefs on to me.

[@hogant.551]

@@gnomeking6568 💯

[@kristapsjj8520]

His moral barometer wouldn't allow him to tell those women the truth and potentially offend them xD

[@F22C1]

Gambling half of your possessions on human emotional consistency is dangerous. I feel sorry for those who found out too late.

[@TerryJohnson757]

Don’t take advice from Steve ladies.

[@folabomi713]

They should look at his daughter

[@Supreme_Lobster]

No one should really take advice from Steve IMO.

[@walterbrown9079]

Thank you Steve Harvey has ripped women off with that book think like a Man and act like a lady but Steve Harvey acts like a tyrant when you being around a traitor like Donald Trump and see where he is now

[@walterbrown9079]

@@folabomi713 yeah Steve Harvey abandoned his first 2 daughters in his first marriage and when he married Marjorie he accepted Lori Harvey as a stepdaughter this bama here is no relationship expert !

[@mathabahassan3471]

@@walterbrown9079 Omg really???? I look at him like a father :')

[@bgoneification]

My dad used to say, "It's not worth giving away half your groceries just to get the other half cooked." He also said that women trade sex for love, and men trade love for sex.

[@jeremyweekes2126]

Wise man

[@MrNeboff]

Legend. May he live forever

[@adflix424]

@@MrNeboff his dad 'used to say'

[@MrNeboff]

@@adflix424 Ah damn . I'm just realizing . Still a solid advice from him tho . May he RIP

[@EGoWhittier]

If a Son learns the lessons his Father taught, the Father will always be with him.

[@mahsi03]

Maybe we're just smart enough to know that marriage is a sad joke.

[@ragingnoob3603]

A sad joke with no punchline...

[@God-gi9iu]

@@ragingnoob3603 y

[@bacon_affair4480]

True

[@burry218]

Legal marriage typically has zero incentive for men and tonnes for women. Marrying for religious reasons though is a totally different ball game

[@danielclocanas7751]

I lost everything because of it.. My daughter taken away from me, my business my mental and physical health, etc...etc.and my ex is a Doctor. Never thought a Doctor would destroy my life...but she did!!!

[@kazj1728]

Were her relatives heavily influencing her?

[@jvon1810]

"she did gain a little weight over time-" *Women starts booing and shaking heads* *The same women when a man is under 6f * "🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣"

[@HerveyShmervy]

Height is out of human control, while weight is the cause of eating unhealthy and being a pig lol

[@rjtelles3929]

Right. Its like it’s not supposed to matter. Women just want a man to be attracted to them regardless of whatever and if we aren’t...it’s because we aren’t good guys. Now if a woman judges a guy on anything it’s because she’s deserves the best their is.

[@randallcouto2904]

@Masanit I can guarantee it was more than her just gaining weight . They think in the their minds that they are unattractive and when a woman feels unattractive , she tends to shut down sexually. Men cheat because their sexual needs aren't being met . The answers were linear asf and didn't delve into the actually truth .

[@bkatbamna]

@@HerveyShmervy This is the United States of 2019 where even women eating like pigs and weighing 300 plus pounds are above any criticism and have to be not just accepted but "celebrated".

[@siddharthjain650]

The reason is simple The reward is not worth of risk anymore Men are taking the red pill

[@Blackwingsss]

"For every woman that needs a man, there is a man that needs you too" LOL not anymore. Men are walking away.

[@Kennykomar]

For every woman that needs a man, there is a cat that needs you too

[@NN-cc8uo]

Women need men... not the other way around. Sad thing is many women don't even recognize this and then cry when something inevitably goes wrong

[@xargalakthe7thplanar326]

and the woman think its men's fault they are single no most men are hotwired that if they see a hot woman theyre carnal desires manifest(and even Steve Harvey said if he had media he would cheat on his wife and he himself said that) in the end we are no better then rabbits we fluff and fluff till nothing is left

[@patrioticaussiesams8581]

Yep until the Laws are Changed that are Unfair to Men.. NO MAN should get Married.... #Marriagestrikebymen

[@NinoBrownBoxing]

Math doesn’t agree with Steve

[@llgla]

If you're not in love with your partner any more, end the relationship first. Cheating is just despicable.

[@Animusapertus]

That's a good point, I guess some people are rash enough to want the "better" sex, but don't want to lose what they have either..

[@rae7269]

yes i agree. Its crazy how someone can not be in love with you anymore and will not say nothing or end the relationship. They cheat or if you leave them they get homicidal.

[@raitodigital2092]

Becaus it's a taboo, it's exciting.

[@pirates9109]

raito it's exciting to be a jerk then ? ok

[@babayaga1767]

so , for bettor or worse, just words?

[@jslack8973]

There’s no way I would be with a man that doesn’t want what I want with each other. You have to know when it’s time to move on. Both people need to be happy

[@JustMe-ku6rk]

Simple answer why men don't talk marriage: men have everything to lose and nothing to gain, while women have everything to gain and nothing to lose.

[@Anonymous-pr3gr]

You used to have sex but now it's handed over much more liberally...

[@sohlohmon3012]

@@Anonymous-pr3gr bro sex can be handed over to you liberally if you play your game well , what you say now doesn't justify anything , marriage is a cage , it takes some of man's rights

[@Anonymous-pr3gr]

@@sohlohmon3012 ...And women make it so easy that it's not worth spending time on one that won't give out sex. It's just easier to go out and find another one who will.

[@JustMe-ku6rk]

@@Anonymous-pr3gr I always had much more sex as a single man than I ever did as a married man. I believe that most men can say the same.

[@bullballsallday]

@@JustMe-ku6rk Depends. There are a lot of men out there who get no action whatsoever unless they have virtually no standards. It's only a small margin of men who have the opportunity to widely distribute themselves out to lots of women.

[@kainenmattison3665]

I love watching a man who has been married 3 times giving people marriage advice. *asks blind man how to paint*

[@m2goofy760]

4 times...

[@kainenmattison3665]

@@m2goofy760 thanks for the clarification

[@kaputasri]

what a clown at least hes a walking billboard on what a man shouldnt do or become.

[@lacroix4876]

Mr potato head looking ass has been divorced 4 times?? Lmao yeah it's goofy that he's giving the advice

[@RelentlessSpirit1990]

*Asks Shaq for free throw lessons*

[@tamani9553]

why do men avoid marriage. scared of divorce maybe

[@MGTOWUNIVERSE]

+slimflex1 MGTOW!!!!!

[@poopoo4469]

+Tamani Wheeler XD much earlier than that, they scared of the woman saying NO to the proposal ;/ but thats a risk u gotta take

[@andrejohnson1028]

+Tamani Wheeler paying for ring, then wedding, then bigger house, then maybe a kid that I never wanted, then new vehicle..ugh

[@rick_santana]

+Tamani Wheeler No REAL Return On Investment.

[@nofybn7794]

+Andre Johnson new vehicle?

[@jamesmiller5900]

When I took this girl on a first date I was telling my dad about it. He was like "wait... Stop... Single mothers are a money sink and the worst investment you can make." Best advise I've ever gotten. Yes we need fathers in childrens lives

[@KariahJ]

What do you mean by that? It was the best advice you've ever gotten, but yet you say fathers need to be in childrens lives?

[@AlexLoskutov666]

" Divorce for men is like getting raped, in a police station, while the cops are watching and doing nothing. Men are not afraid of marriage, we're afraid of divorce" - Aries Spears

[@AlexLoskutov666]

@Jn35 *She can find another victim to pray on. You are one of the proofs to why marriage is a really bad idea for men, that women lose nothing while men lose everything.

[@creepy_regret5542]

@Jn35 so why she forces men to marry ,when she don't want to

[@AlexLoskutov666]

@Jn35 all the bs you wrote can only happen in countries in which women really don't have any rights, like some 3rd world countries or Muslim countries, but not in a western country

[@PAIP_Studio]

Yeap, men are afraid of divorces laws and women them selves that can grow fat, bitchy or even in some cases go crazy kill you in your sleep and claim abuse to get off easy.

[@PAIP_Studio]

@Jn35 Yes but they don't kill you with a hammer in your sleep to get the house and your investment portfolio from your kids now do they... So shut it.

[@THEFIRST39]

I’m with the brother who 1:55 in yelled “I want a recount“ this video was taken over five years ago; things have changed. That 15% could be closer to 30%.

[@lord2529]

What you've said is absolutely true. I was confused when the results came out. And then I saw the date on the video.

[@weaponxi6151]

The 15% is way off. First thing I said to myself was "okay with it never happening". Times really have changed

[@granthill2980]

Men, because of feminism, have found out theres really a great life out there without them.

[@MrEysox]

@@weaponxi6151 I really thought the answer C would have get a 70%

[@randyjones3050]

Absolutely. It's "C" all the way in the 2020s!"

[@gatorp9536]

“I want a recount!” -that guy is a legend 😂😂😂

[@SoTrue144]

C should of been the answer

[@BillClinton228]

They are so offended when they get older and men stop paying attention to them, but younger men who are less attractive or overweight are literally invisible to 99.99% of females. So let's cut the BS

[@shamibrown2287]

Rotflmao

[@seankenneth8622]

I loved that too

[@def702]

That kinda sounds like ice cube

[@SJ-cv4jk]

I just felt like I should say this Mr Harvey’s videos helped me through a very challenging 2018, I always unwind with his videos. Thank you sir!

[@hipcat13]

Answer "D" should'a been "Because I don't want to become an emotionally abused wage-slave".

[@jasonland455]

Stay single my friend I’ve been married 20 years and you summed up my life perfectly emotionally abused wage slave trapped in a loveless marriage it really sucks I don’t recommend it

[@hipcat13]

@@jasonland455 You don't deserve it, no one does.

[@He_who_rides_many_winds]

@@jasonland455 Start Drinking Yorkshire Tea bro you will see the effects in no time save yourself bro we need you bro.

[@jamingaming9251]

F Yorkshire tea. Go woke go broke.

[@He_who_rides_many_winds]

@@jamingaming9251 No, Yorkshire Tea has nothing to do with being woke.

[@davisdesigns1153]

Marriage these days has no upside for men. There's 60 percent divorce rate and men getting majorly skrewed when It happens. Once you marry a woman she loses interest and eventually blames you for all the problems in the relationship.

[@solascriptura-e7t]

@Rick O'Shay Yep. The dummies that agree to have joint accounts (and she takes the liberty of paying off her MASSIVE student loan debt with HIS money).

[@beastmasterbg]

@Rick O'Shay you pay les tax to the goverment but whats the point when she gets 80% of your income to do shopping

[@liqritrs8391]

There isn’t a 60% divorce rate.... I’ve no idea why the guys here keep exaggerate the number. You’re looking at the crude number which also includes people on their second or third divorce. It’s more like 30-40%, which in itself is enough to let any sane man avoid it. And of those who don’t, how many are happy and how many are staying for financial, religious or emotional reasons? I only say this because I get irritated seeing people say it’s 80%+ when it just isn’t.

[@TheEllord33]

​@@liqritrs8391 Divorce rate or first marriage divorce rate, it's still a high rate.

[@moyare7057]

If you fall in the marriage trap in 2021 then blame yourself. I’m not against marriage and I’d love to get married but it’s hard to find wife material these days, Be careful who you’re marrying to because during dating period we try so hard to display our good side both men and women

[@DoctorCataclysm]

Why do men avoid marriage? It has become a gamble not worth taking.

[@brendakabanda2181]

lol, that's a very good answer.

[@Maxantium]

Thank You , Well said !

[@kavelbryson817]

Steve that was sweet of you to protect her feelings like that, good job and a wonderful expression of love and support.

[@jairon5196]

I love how confidently Steve is giving advice *knowing he’s had three wives*

[@zhufuedits8898]

He has the experience lmao

[@OrangePony75]

I’m sure they’re all happy with their alimony. He knows his turn with each of them was over and he’s still rolling. No downside here.

[@constantnipples2428]

And cheated

[@constantnipples2428]

@@OrangePony75 he cheated on them but u men don't have issues with men doing wrong

[@mobydick3895]

Steve makes his living by siding with the women and for god's sake, never telling them the actual truth.

[@NiftyShifty1]

If 50% of parachutes didn’t work, would you go skydiving?

[@itsdemidy5439]

makes sense 😂😂😂🤣 all the signs are clear, women will win in every situation in marriage,, why should i marry ? MGTOW ~*Wow so many likes I ddnt expect*~

[@kajalkangra9423]

75% buddy where u live

[@joec1212]

#myweinermychoice

[@3ossomok588]

But above all that, i don't understand the idea of marriage, can any body tell me please ?

[@yobootystank8160]

Nathan Frey you got that from bill burr huh?

[@AviatorMike777]

Because there's simply no benefit for a man to get married. Ever.

[@AviatorMike777]

@James J. Koumos Well said and spot on!

[@God-gi9iu]

Ikr

[@paccawacca4069]

@James J. Koumos fax. i actuallly have no problem with the wedding and even calling myself married. its the legal marriage that i will never take part in. I wont put myself in a position to be divorce-raped, ever.

[@paccawacca4069]

@James J. Koumos damn that's crazy. thx for the info bro. gotta be careful

[@bacon_affair4480]

Facts

[@GitSumGaming]

Steve Harvey really knows how to lay down the truth easy on the women and change the words up so they understand

[@Ben-Ken]

Imagine Steve telling a man: "You're perfectly fine. No need to maintain your looks or level of income. It's not your responsibility if she cheats on you. "

[@krono6967]

And that would be true.

[@robertravena]

but they do NOT want to hear that. EVER.

[@masterskywalker8877]

@@krono6967 No?

[@somber8233]

That's true though too. If you love someone, they deserve to have the best you but if you go through some hard times - some family dies or you get laid off, it is their responsibility to be there to support you. Goes for both men and women.

[@MaihymCG]

@Esphaeras Praestans I think she bares some responsibility though, she's obviously overweight and probably doesn't look as well as she used to. So of course her man went after a younger and probably hotter woman. If she kept her image up or at least showed effort then she might not have gotten cheated on. You just heard that man say that attraction is important, she let herself go therefore making her man lose attraction.

[@jessehargrove6737]

"I want a recount" 😂😂😂

[@Wanderer628]

Jesse Hargrove Yeah, the C option should have way more votes.

[@obed5oa]

It was rigged. Option C was the most picked. They had to give the women hope.

[@Trid3nt861]

"Roses are red, love is fake. Weddings are funerals with a cake" -Anonymous

[@javierfito5077]

DAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMN

[@probrobosnian]

You earned my like

[@nunyabusiness168]

Whoever came up with this deserves a cookie.

[@Farmores]

@Bartandalus Blue It was rick from rick and morty.

[@BlessingTshegoM]

😂😂😂 Why do I feel like you're anonymous

[@Anusuyaadass]

Marriage isn't about love always, it's about responsibility.

[@theintruder6085]

Both

[@ilikepancakes2368]

Most women don’t understand this that’s why smart men like me tend to avoid it.

[@adjustingmythreshold233]

I’ll get married when they change the laws on separation. Or if I find a girl who makes just as much as me.

[@Blog4Justice]

Not even then. No thanks.

[@orientlombardi6903]

Then you'll never get married brother 😂😂😂👍🏻👊🏻

[@zack_0psgaming150]

Oof, word of advice, marry someone who makes less than you. Women don’t date down and they elevate their own number so equal salary to them is you making less, and she’ll see you as nothing less. Stay safe and live smart my friend.

[@zack_0psgaming150]

@Florian what? I'm saying avoid women with higher wages. where did I say marriage was a good idea??

[@kuraido6370]

She can quit her job and play you. Also child support will come for you and you will still lose part of your assets.

[@sodone466]

Why? Because,,, "There is no wisdom in signing a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it."

[@booyaah82]

The man that said 'I want a recount' is a hero

[@kenwilliams7597]

If a woman is pushing you to marriage & hinting at wedding rings, go & study the traits of a narcissist then watch to see if she match the traits. More than likely, she will. If she match the traits, run & don't look back. It will save your life. Don't bend to threats or shaming tactics. Stay on your path. If she is the one for you, only then you decide to get married.

[@oldschoolfarmtough.bigbloc7129]

Those men are lost souls. 75% percent of those 2000 men will end up in divorce and lose it all

[@emmanueldamilare211]

You saw that too!😂👌🏾

[@kylethekanadian2790]

Like lambs to the slaughter

[@eliaspittman]

@@jonathangrabban912 what a waste of time !!! If the trust is gone the relationship is over already. Gentleman don't waste your energy and money on this foolishness, if you're not a #mgtow then don't just marry some woman you like sleeping with but rather make an educated decision using logic and rationale so you don't become another divorce story.

[@JackRafael]

rvhron08 why you laughing

[@gaugeray7462]

Never enter a contract with someone paid to break it.

[@jasondyrkacz8270]

Pay really close attention to the small print.

[@janbaltes2863]

Reason 1: The courts are against men Reason 2: quality women have dwindled

[@V4Now]

Quality men have not dwindled. That's a fallacy. Women have grown unrealistic expectations, and are ignored over the fantasy.

[@MrEysox]

Honestly that's the 2 main reasons

[@Tier82nd]

You know whats crazy, a women can ruin a mans life permanently with just 3 words, "I got raped" or "he raped me" and even when he is proven innocent people will still think he is guilty

[@ezramatan5233]

@@V4Now so they have dwindled...

[@V4Now]

@@ezramatan5233 no, they simply aren't looking at real quality that already exists and instead go for their idea of quality that doesn't.

[@cameronhirtle7316]

Like Aba and Preach said: Men propose 100% of marriages, and women initiate over 80% of divorces. The pressure is on us to put ourselves in what is usually a disadvantageous position. Women also often get child custody and alimony the majority of the time. So why do we have to be rushed into this decision. Also, why the hell is Steve Harvey giving advice on marriage. There is some irony for you. Like taking career advice from a failed businessman.

[@wolfspain7385]

The comment section on these videos are gold.

[@TravelWithBradley]

Full of virgins who are afraid of women and can't communicate in any way. It's a sad, depressing place to view.

[@toonballoon6244]

BobbyRice2 are you serious lol

[@TravelWithBradley]

Not just serious, I'm correct!

[@sargentslim300]

@@TravelWithBradley sure you dont know them all

[@TravelWithBradley]

I mean that would still make me correct.

[@PsychosisFire]

Why do men avoid the topic of marriage? Because we don't want to spend thousands of dollars on a ridiculously extravagant, pointless ceremony that will, stastically speaking, most likely end in divorce, in which case we will most likely have to give up half our stuff, pay your alimony and give you custody of the children. Marriage is a hideously unfair deal for men, and no man in his right mind would want one.

[@BigMan.270]

For us blokes, its a costs benefit analysis

[@PsychosisFire]

pinkwonder power I notice you haven't actually refuted anything I've said, though... lol.

[@Ashbringer36]

Hey loneliness and single are two very different things

[@prncessbaby16]

im a woman but i TOTALLY agree 10000%

[@Blackstock123]

I would read that as a compliment

[@cynicalape1015]

Men don't put getting married on top of their too do list!

[@paradigmdashed]

Amber Ay.. yeah sorta how its the mans reward to smash her after paying for dinner and a movie.

[@mainecoon6514]

cynical ape, men want their cake and eat it too. They can have multiple partners and have all the sex they want w/o commitments. I guess that's 'Friends with Benefits.' Good deal for the men, a raw deal for women who want something more than a 'one night stand.'

[@eugenejoseph6910]

It's not Even I the bottom either

[@easy6427]

They also don't address that for men, all the financial risk of a marriage is on him. If you get divorced the vast majority of the time it's the man who is paying alimony, and 80% of divorces are initiated by women. When you have 60% of marriages failing, sex readily available at the swipe of a finger, and an increasing number of women on the "I am the prize" train, you're going to have an increasing number of men who are less interested in marriage.

[@mrpk188]

Why Men don't wanna get married? "Never sign a contract that only benefits one party" simple

[@zakbrinkhoff324]

Yep

[@astromaniac7459]

Exactly

[@Memerproductions]

Its like me sighning a contract that says i serve them for 2 months and get nonthing, bassically labor without pay

[@silvanbodea8606]

Nothing is simple, it doesn.t benefit 1 party if you both grow into your wealth

[@silvanbodea8606]

@Overlord 3108 grow its just a figure of speech ofc you work

[@jamess.3013]

This guy has been divorced twice (and married a third time) so I think I’ll get my advice elsewhere

[@DoomCatcher]

How am I not surprised...

[@lilchristuten7568]

He was right about 1 thing, she shouldn't worry about being the reason he cheats, she should worry about not actively being the reason he hates or starts to hate her i.e. being an unbearable nag, being unsupportive and putting him down, being a woman who keeps bringing up things that he might have done wrong, always acting like she is right and he is wrong.

[@essentialoilsme]

lil chris tuten valid points, a nagging woman who takes no ownership for her own words and actions is the worst!

[@Walking-MY-Path]

I believe he got divorced more than twice. I could be wrong though.

[@InstallaFriend]

I WANT A RECOUNT

[@traviselliott6329]

Give that man a medal lol

[@GplusGains]

I want a recount without having someone look over their shoulders as they vote. While they're at it, no video taken of them either.

[@jomomma8754]

Flawless timing.

[@steveouk90126]

I want a fourth option: D. Not worth it.

[@scylla019]

None of the answers are right. Don’t get a marriage because there’s nothing in it for the men.

[@mubolala746]

Steve Harvey where do you get all these attractive, handsome, men? Looking at them all, make my day bright. Thank you for entertaining us

[@1RPJacob]

The question is why post wall women suddenly want to talk about marriage ?

[@speedygaming3589]

Rafal Jot. They want to be proposed to and they want the wedding day

[@tjlnintendo]

Their biology clock is ticking and they want a baby

[@kaputasri]

Exactly look at these fish looking for bicycles lmao.

[@hogant.551]

@@speedygaming3589 By then most of them are fatsos and would eat all the wedding cake themselves.

[@michellerichardson3090]

Well if a woman just told people I just want a baby but dont care about marriage, she'd be call all types of names so that's the most socially acceptable thing to do, get married and have a kid

[@troym33]

I've been married and I hated it! Everything was always about her and what she wanted. If I ever wanted something of my own she felt like I was choosing myself over her. She ended up doing what every MGTOW video was telling me she would, she left me for a guy with more money and status. HYPERGAMY!! The guy did me a favor! It just took me a while to realize it.

[@raven75335]

troym33 people these days get married for the wrong reasons. It’s not that marriage sucks, it’s the people who suck. Marriage is not about what you get for yourself, it’s about what you give and receive. People need to live by love, becoming loving people to love others.

[@radmanpedram3214]

troym33 I am glad you escaped that trap enjoy your freedom 👍🏻

[@mgfan4lf]

Enjoy your freedom, health and piece of mind, it only gets better

[@supe12man1991]

Seriously my dad hasn't had a vacation in years but my mom with no job goes on vacation to Mexico 4 times a year. She's also always comapling about being tired WTF you don't work

[@salemsaberhagen8390]

man thats the problem guys that snap and go after the one their partner slept with when what they should be doing is going after the one who betrayed them not some stranger. Though this doesn't apply when she cheats on them with someone they know like a friend or relative in that case they both deserve it, sadly that is exactly who most women cheat on their guy with.

[@YungMono0]

6:17 "attraction is important..." Steve Harvey is lying through his teeth when he said "you're perfectly fine", she's looks unhealthy, overweight, looking like she's 40+, and even with makeup on she is not even attractive. I can see why her ex cheated on her with someone younger, she stopped taking care of herself.

[@sweetandyyy]

That’s not an excuse to cheat. Just break up

[@lipsonjonathan211]

He has to say that. Truth is kryptonite.

[@God-gi9iu]

@@sweetandyyy yeh but they can’t in today’s society as they will call abuse, rape, assault, child support etc

[@sweetandyyy]

@@God-gi9iu break up, pack your things, move away from her and get a restraining order.

[@NoFapKing]

@@sweetandyyy Sure it is cheating is fun

[@vivianli7699]

He is a man with a good heart, people feel comfortable with him, it’s so charming.

[@LuxuryOption4756]

Men have no biological clock. Class is over. Thank You for attending the seminar.

[@nakedfaves4445]

+Roz Hudson Some women KNOW that they don't want children, even before they start dating the man that they're eventually going to marry. And then of course there's the topic of adoption. If you really want a child so desperately, adopt one that somebody else didn't want at all.

[@lobecosc]

+Roz Hudson Yes we do. It just set differently.

[@mfriedrich2012]

The wall, sexless marriage and decades of trapped misery. Thank you all for coming and goodnight. Be sure to tip your waitress.

[@olganozdratenko3394]

Men do have a biological clock. Just because they can produce sperm doesn’t mean it’s any good. If you study the biological science of children who’s father were over 40 when they were conceived, then you’ll know that mental disorders in those individuals are a lot more prevalent than those born to young fathers.

[@ryanphillips5591]

@@olganozdratenko3394 men can get mates at any age. Older women have far fewer options.

[@TinyCricket89]

I’m a married woman and I don’t blame men AT ALL for avoiding marriage. I’ve seen enough of what divorce entails and it would scare me too if I was a man. I also think that since I have a young son that my perspective has changed. I fear my boy will get financially screwed over someday by a pretty face. I will have some serious discussions with him when the time comes to be very careful about his life choices.

[@HurricaneGaming509]

You should start now and not wait until after you die to communicate that to him. Tomorrow is not promised. Start them young.

[@bigshoots1181]

yes that is what it is. women are all for women until they have a son. then reality hits. i watched a video a mom was asking how to keep her son safe from women cause she worried about false rape accusations and such.

[@dr.ryanmd8313]

The majority of today's modern women want the wedding, but not the marriage.

[@bigshoots1181]

lol well said

[@alibawazir8056]

Thank you, Patrice.

[@m.a.118]

"Why do men avoid talk on marriage unless it's forced?" Well- I know for a fact women don't like when they're hounded about having kids when they aren't ready... So don't aggressively impose your wants on someone else?

[@m.a.118]

True not all women... #notallwomen? Lol?

[@f.k6920]

If that's how they feel then why don't they just leave the relationship, stop wasting people's time.

[@jesterarts734]

Yea but let's remember not to generalize them like she did men. Unless that's just another one way street in favor for women. Maybe that's why he avoided it. lol. If she decided she's out for ANY reason... He's gotta pay and figure out the rest of his life.

[@Stupid33]

@@f.k6920 Leave because their woman doesn't want kids? If thats the case why dont womenm leave when their men avoid marriage talk. Shes wasting her own time

[@f.k6920]

Mr. Mint they should, did I ever say they shouldn’t. Leading people on is bad and settling is too. But women settling and staying with men who lead them on is a lot more complicated you can’t compare them because women and men live differently and are pressured into different things at different times.

[@arhabersham]

1:56 "I want a recount!", I almost spat my coffee in laughter

[@ARyan-yk9qh]

"Just between you and me Steve, along with the other 2,000 guys behind me, I am actually proposing this week." Famous last words.

[@TheJimmyClip]

he was a studio plant for the cheap women applause

[@orientlombardi6903]

Rip dude 🤣🤣🤣

[@lipsonjonathan211]

"I want my testicles in a jar".

[@JoeCnNd]

@@lipsonjonathan211 "A very small jar"

[@jackspring7709]

@@JoeCnNd Lol good one.

[@cromlaughsatyourfourwinds8333]

OK. The woman at 4:19 saying her husband cheated on her for a tighter model. Were not hearing his side of the story. One thing women are very good at is denying personal responsibility for a failed relationship. It's always HIS fault.

[@joys8634]

he cheated lmao. what is there to say lol

[@CarlosAlberto-gf3dy]

C'mon there is no excuse for cheating never, if you are not attracted anymore you just talk it out like adults and if nothing can be done just break it, no reason to go behind your spouse's back

[@cromlaughsatyourfourwinds8333]

@@CarlosAlberto-gf3dy You can't just "break it". In divorce the man is usually destroyed. Sometimes rightfully so but other times (many times) not rightfully so.

[@seanmathews1826]

Women will always tell you what was done to them. But they never want to talk about why it was done to them.

[@martinjandijkstra3205]

I think instead of cheating he better could tell her to lose weight and to pay attention to her appearance. Then he could decide whether to break up or not. Maybe he didnt tell because of divorce laws.

[@gracieanderson9390]

The comment section is making me so happy 😁 The game is changing and so will the players

[@zoomtutor2925]

RIP

[@mainawangondu8205]

You enjoy the truth.

[@anfrewllaves1752]

Why are you using a burner account v for a Steve Harvey show comment section 😆🤣😂

[@MissMetaBlack]

On the second question: A is actually the minority. B and C are both reasonable answers that hold the same weight, and because it's a pick one answer survey the more reasonable guys had to choose one or the other. A is 40%, B and C combine is 60%. It's still pretty shocking to see that slightly less than half of men would cheat for physical reasons. Just means us women got to choose well 🤷‍♀

[@stephenmacleod6173]

Why would I invest in something that has a 50+% rate of failure and that will cost me more in the end.

[@Genpri]

*cough cough* 75

[@varietydreams3707]

Fr

[@wezichirwa5398]

Aren't there ways to make sure it doesn't cost you more in the end?

[@stephenmacleod6173]

@@wezichirwa5398 none that the court system can't overturn

[@wezichirwa5398]

@@stephenmacleod6173 I think this is primarily an American problem... Most of the things divorce law demands in your country don't happen where I'm from. There's no alimony for one thing. Only child support if there are children involved.

[@omarraymundo7475]

Losing your kids, home, business and self respect yeah marriage sounds awesome !!!👍😃

[@SONORSQ2guy]

Omar Raymundo Hell Yeah!!👍😀

[@vladberez3974]

Omar Raymundo this guy gets it lol

[@RaggenZ]

Yep

[@dennis22255]

Omar Raymundo Correct. No woman is worth marrying.

[@anthonyperkins5856]

yeah tell me about it

[@BrianMiddletonNews]

“For every woman that needs a man, there’s a man that needs you too” Steve just lying....

[@jairesemccoy9779]

A man needs himself

[@vanceaskance884]

"it's not your fault..." i knew his making a lip service when he dropped this one. fckin its their fault for not taking care of their bodies and they expect guys to stay healthy with those 6 packs? its like daylight robbery, only taking not giving fcking hell

[@clementineschalchen330]

Damn steidfjt

[@HaydenDavidson6]

haha True. Actually as observed in nature, the highest value males take multiple females and low value males get none. And,... 'need' is a bit strong lol. It's the female who needs the man.

[@mikemecklenborg5412]

That is definitely not true that is Steve making women feel better about themselves. It keeps him a good paying job. Men can easily turn off their emotions. There emotions only really come out if they are getting laid and that's because they know they need to if they are going to keep getting laid. Men love first with physical attraction and can not maintain intimacy with a women that they are no longer physically attracted to her. What do men really get out of marriage. His importance in the marriage drops as soon as he is married and keeps going down with every child born and every animal adopted until he finally bows out or gets scooped up by the next lady who finds purpose for him.

[@ssthakur1208]

The biggest reason why marriages are complicated in the west is the kind of women they have. They live in a world where fun and happiness is everything and most of them don't care what the man wants from them. All they know is talk about themselves and tell the want about what they want from them. In west the marriage culture is all about individual happiness mostly of women rather than social responsibility and sacrifices a person has to make for the welfare of society. Seriously, in a society where making a sandwich for you man is considered oppression, you really think a man will want to marry in that kind of society.

[@kittens_N_puppers]

India is the new west! Bro

[@Chad_Hart]

Marriage in this day & age provides zero benefit to men, huge risks and zero return on investment. You dont have to be a businessman to see this isnt a good idea. Men avoid marriage the same reason women avoid talking about the total number of past sexual partners.

[@jerrynavarro2404]

Right ✅

[@orientlombardi6903]

And when they do talk about their sexual partners they lie, believe me, always multiply by 2/3, I would say 3

[@johnjohnson3390]

Because: 1) we know they will divorce us anyways 2) when that happens we will lose everything 3) sleeping with the same person for the rest of your life

[@hardwiredtoselfdestruction3401]

@@ghevisartor6005 #3 is more of a woman problem than men. They cant pair bond with men after their high body count. Scientifically proven

[@noobslayer6915]

@@ghevisartor6005 There's no problem with wanting to sleep with different women, as long as you realize that if you were to get into a relationship then you'd have to be able to accept women who do or did the same.

[@TheWilDOn31]

No 3 just shows your hypocrisy. You actually don't want to have a family, so don't blame women for it. Of course she will divorce you if you can't sleep with only one person and you cheat.

[@johnjohnson3390]

@@TheWilDOn31 your argument made no sense at all.

[@adflix424]

@@johnjohnson3390 It makes perfect sense actually If 3 is a problem for you, then you don't want a monogamous ltr which values fidelity anyway; so the 1 and 2 is not even the real issues but just passing the blame onto somebody else

[@joslu80eight5]

Damn I’ve been single for quite some time now and every time I come across relationship videos it’s all just videos of why you’re better off single lmao

[@lm3729]

Real talk

[@biglittleyeti8870]

@@mrnobody6609 Stop dating western women. This is why religion matters find yourself a religious Russia/Ukrainian women and you will have none of those problems.

[@tyrannosoreusflex5297]

@@mrnobody6609 could u tell me some reasons why were better off single? I’ve never dated before just like the original comment

[@bullymaguirememes7390]

@@tyrannosoreusflex5297 there's a big possiblity that you'll get your heat broken and no one will care thinking it's your fault. Or simply : we are not in a romantic movie.

[@doyourbest7655]

So the negatives are pretty strong and very real, however one needs to negotiate them with a plan for their entire life. Do everything you can to be financially secure in your 20’s and early thirties. Place those assets in a trust. Start again when you begin with a relationship. Don’t get married until you are financially secure and starting new money growth. Your trust is separate and un-comingled property. Recognize that everything built after she knew your name Is subject to take. Also the rule is she gets half in the divorce and the other half in monthly installments. That indentured servitude lasts until you are 65. That’s all you need to know. The So get married when you are 60 and hopefully the marriage lasts until you retire. It’s the slavery part that breaks most men. I misspoke I meant unending “alimony”.

[@DavidPerez-lo4dn]

Divorce is a bigger industry than ever before. I've heard a friend of mine once compare marriage to buying a flashy new car and never able to pay it off while keeping up it's maintenance. I'm still never married yet.

[@256mike]

I'm going to be straight up after 10 years of marriage and one day she telling me that she wanted a divorce out of the blue I became a red pill it's been 4 years now I have slept with over 57 Mary woman that cheated on their husbands I didn't even know they were married I met them on tinder guys don't get married it will be the biggest mistake of your life believe me I'm telling you like a brother

[@nlytend1]

Thanks for the insight. More men with similar experiences need to share their stories so we become disillusioned with the implicit necessity of marriage/relationships. Especially the stories of the cheating wives whose husbands probably believe they’re in happy marriages.

[@lipsonjonathan211]

Shocking. Unbelievable. (sarcasm)

[@frosksdeadteeth5163]

57? Ew I hope you used protection

[@zack_0psgaming150]

@@frosksdeadteeth5163 I’m pretty sure it’s implied but yeah. If you didn’t give her the juice chances are she might give you the squeeze. ...this is a terrible babytrap/STD analogy my apologies.

[@johndillermand4053]

Preach!

[@FreeSpeechIsDead]

Steve's just telling the ladies what they want to hear.

[@Rahsaun77]

That's where the $$ is.

[@geraldfountaine1619]

Of course. He's not gonna alienate half his audience.

[@Rahsaun77]

@@geraldfountaine1619 half? More like 70 - 80%

[@geraldfountaine1619]

@@Rahsaun77 the majority of his audience then.

[@GabbieCh]

That's his job. But this is one of the most truthful episodes with him that I've seen, I think because there are actual men who vote and say their truth. He was right when he said that you shouldn't cater to someone's wish, it is true, you should be who you are because you wanna be that. If you're the type of woman that likes eating fast food and sitting on the couch all the time, you shouldn't force yourself to be active and food smart just for a man, that man should just find another woman. You should only change for yourself, otherwise you'll turn into someone else and you'll hate it.

[@StoicBehavioR]

"She didn't up keep herself like when we first met." In other words, let herself go and he received boos for telling the truth! Boris Kodjoe once said "A women getting fat is against my marriage policy." It's sad when men say this they are deemed shallow but women do the same thing and not called out on this behavior. In order to keep a relationship going both people have to put in effort to keep it spicy don't settle into the habits of being content with the daily routine of said person.

[@yaboyed5779]

StoicBehavioR she hit the wall hard

[@petelee2477]

He's still a terrible person and will cheat again. He could have simply told his ex how he felt. There is no excuse for cheating

[@petelee2477]

@sour airhead since when do morals only apply to one gender. Females shouldn't cheat either

[@jonathangrabban912]

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[@attilaambrus4521]

Men are always told that if your wife/GF cheats on you, it's not her fault, it's your fault that it happened. Steve is telling the women that if their men cheat on them, they should not feel responsible. In other words, it's ALWAYS the man's fault!