Steve Harvey's 3 month plan to get a man!

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@Doggy12347
@Doggy12347 6 жыл бұрын
This was good advice. We rush love so often and end up brokenhearted.
@RemyIssa
@RemyIssa 3 жыл бұрын
I think loneliness and fear for being alone makes us rush or settle down
@jacintaellison1
@jacintaellison1 8 жыл бұрын
It worked!!!!!! I followed this and I am now very very happy and much in love with my new baby! He is a professional athlete and he said women gave it up to him so easy that he did not try for them at ALL! Try for what?! So sex for him just became something to do with those women. He did not even know how to love a woman. I set my standards high and I challenged what he was comfortable with. One thing that helped was that I never verbally told him know I showed him with my actions that it was a no. I just changed the subject or dodged any words that mentioned sex and that was very hard but it made him try harder. Now, I am very happy and I appreciate Steve so much!!!! Thank you Steve!!!!
@wowso4
@wowso4 8 жыл бұрын
Congrats darl give us single girls some advice, how long were you dating until you found someone you truly connected with? I keep meeting guys that are not good for me and it's stressing me out :( I don't know what I'm doing wrong!
@AlldorCast
@AlldorCast 8 жыл бұрын
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@familyfirst9517
@familyfirst9517 7 жыл бұрын
Jacinta Ellison ok
@christopherthuesdee7227
@christopherthuesdee7227 6 жыл бұрын
Ralph of course not
@petittall557
@petittall557 6 жыл бұрын
@Ralph Good damn question bud.
@Arkane117
@Arkane117 4 жыл бұрын
If your doing the 90 days rule, don’t tell your man that you are dating that you have a 90 days rule. I once had a girl tell me that. All that told me is that she wants to but she is waiting 90 days and it’s guaranteed. It’s better to not say anything so he he doesn’t know if he will get any or not. As soon as I heard that, I knew I could speed it it, which is what happened...
@anthonynosike
@anthonynosike 3 жыл бұрын
Very interesting that you said that
@gaby5546
@gaby5546 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah cuz if you tell him, he'll probably just wait 3 months and hang around and make it look like he's still interested and invested and once he gets what he wants, he'll probably be outta there. Just tell him you're not ready yet.
@MakeYouTubeGreatAgain1
@MakeYouTubeGreatAgain1 8 жыл бұрын
Not a "fan" of Steve but these tips are correct. If a man is truly interested he will SHOW you. Especially in the beginning months.
@makeitcount2985
@makeitcount2985 5 жыл бұрын
Players also show their interest just watch and be observant
@mamacocolilo105
@mamacocolilo105 4 жыл бұрын
@@makeitcount2985 yes, that might be true, but they ain't gonna wait 90 days to get some. They'll be gone before that, if all he wants is booty. Also, his plan allows for the two of u to bond, making it a little more difficult for them to want to stray.
@lovewhitey2027
@lovewhitey2027 3 жыл бұрын
Its called love bombing many narcissist do this move to get you hooked 🚨
@EveChantelle16
@EveChantelle16 9 жыл бұрын
hopefully one day i'll be in a happy relationship...
@everythinganima480
@everythinganima480 7 жыл бұрын
It's 2017...are you??
@PennyParkerTV
@PennyParkerTV 5 жыл бұрын
You will :)
@mimilarbo2845
@mimilarbo2845 5 жыл бұрын
Are u ??? If not, you will.
@hadassahsimone7202
@hadassahsimone7202 5 жыл бұрын
Eve Chantelle oh will you’re beautiful ❤️
@chriss1810
@chriss1810 5 жыл бұрын
Hey @Eve Chantelle I'd like to try the 90 day rule with you😁
@sarahmichelle6385
@sarahmichelle6385 4 жыл бұрын
I am 38, single 7 years......watching everyone of these videosssss please ....wish me luck.
@agents3409
@agents3409 4 жыл бұрын
Also try checking out some of Chloe’s videos on KZbin. She drops so many gems about vetting men. Good luck!💖
@douxbebe1810
@douxbebe1810 4 жыл бұрын
goodluck baby. u got this.
@chocsn414
@chocsn414 4 жыл бұрын
This book is great, an easy read, funny and I find myself agreeing with everything said...even if it is hard to put into practice 🙈
@lollymadikiza3174
@lollymadikiza3174 3 жыл бұрын
My story is different though.. I slept wid a guy on our 1st date,we dated for five years & now we are happily married♥️
@thequeens420
@thequeens420 3 жыл бұрын
The cookie was that good?
@chaitanyajain3127
@chaitanyajain3127 2 жыл бұрын
This is true having a rule of not having sex for the first 90 days and rejecting a man for having sex in the first 90 days can even send the good man away from you . Even the man who truly loves will feel hurt , rejected and not interested and you might lose him , so having any kind of rule will be bad
@Vio_ASFARR
@Vio_ASFARR 8 ай бұрын
Books are a guide not a strict method, Steve always says use your intuition. First sight night stands to marriage is HARD LUCK 🍀
@khongorzultuvshinjargal1671
@khongorzultuvshinjargal1671 5 жыл бұрын
Is anyone came from “Think like a man”(2012) 😂?
@r_n_c_4408
@r_n_c_4408 6 жыл бұрын
Be careful ladies it’s a group of men “AMS” committed to playing the role to get what they want. I’m not sure any of Steve’s tips will work in this day and age. Ppl have mastered pretending to be whomever they need you to believe they are....stay safe Queens 💎
@kimk1715
@kimk1715 6 жыл бұрын
R_N_C _ this is so true
@productionsceo88
@productionsceo88 6 жыл бұрын
Yeahh, but there is something called GUTS FEELING, you know right away if the guy is interested in your Cookie or the for the long run...just outplayed him, never give it away until he at least fiancé you
@sakatherinejohnson
@sakatherinejohnson 5 жыл бұрын
True
@MsBadBody
@MsBadBody 5 жыл бұрын
Facts. We women r screwed
@codycox2685
@codycox2685 5 жыл бұрын
true, there are some men who will trick you into giving them what they want, which is sex and costs you nothing. But, every single woman in america has the ability to use the court system to MAKE a man give them things that do cost them financially. So, to you, I say women are not screwed. In fact you are treated way better than men in the eyes of the law and our current societal structure. There is a double standard against men whether you admit it or not. This is the reason men are so reluctant to get with women seriously. There is very little benefit to us and an insane amount of risk. The payoff isn't worth the potential chaos you can inject into what used to be a peaceful life for us.
@SonAlexander
@SonAlexander 2 жыл бұрын
One disagreement I have is when he says to look for the top 5 things he likes and see if you are compatible. This is a mistake in my opinion. I actually think it’s a major failing with dating in general that everyone gets wrong… Why…? Well, interests change, hobbies change, tastes change. You will have numerous hobbies through out your life, you will like different TV shows, books, foods, movies, etc… so stop trying to be compatible off of interests and start looking for compatibility in VALUES. If Values are compatible, then it doesn’t matter what you like or dislike. Because you can move together towards a common PURPOSE opposed to trying to form a relationship on shifting sands.
@cmg2651
@cmg2651 2 жыл бұрын
If you know the top five things he likes and you have some in common, you can do those activities or have something to talk about…a conversation. Steven then said, go do something new together.
@blueskies773
@blueskies773 4 ай бұрын
Hobby: Being a redditor Hobby: Smoking after work and chillin Hobby: going to the mountain for snow sports Hobbies show LIFESTYLE. Lifestyle depicts compatibility. It is safe to follow Steve’s advice.
@maxinewells7539
@maxinewells7539 6 жыл бұрын
This worked. I tried this on one man and til this day this man still calls & sends me flowers &,gifts for my birthday to my job. It's been years since we broke up (my choice). But Steve knows what he's talking about.
@khirylowry9007
@khirylowry9007 2 жыл бұрын
Ok has this worh on a man you want tho?
@malikbey3758
@malikbey3758 3 жыл бұрын
THANKS FOR WRITING THIS BOOK 📚 📖 FOR MY DAUGHTER AND OTHER GIRLS IN THE WORLD
@tocharamoniqueallenhurst8237
@tocharamoniqueallenhurst8237 8 жыл бұрын
it works and he want to wait too! He just now realize its been two months we been having fun w/o sex! now he want to wait! i realize my most meaningful relationship was when we waited! but I want this man forever so I'm making him wait longer ha! and I think I'm teaching him too
@animarreen2975
@animarreen2975 8 жыл бұрын
Ha you smart
@lejlasas9103
@lejlasas9103 6 жыл бұрын
Good girl!
@flyandshy00
@flyandshy00 4 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't say you're testing him.
@MrCanelover
@MrCanelover 3 жыл бұрын
So how did it go?
@terrelldickens8505
@terrelldickens8505 3 жыл бұрын
Smh I left a girl cause she waited 90 days to meet
@izabelastefania11
@izabelastefania11 2 жыл бұрын
Dude,after 15+ years of many failed relationships, you made it more clear than ever or anyone for me on what I was doing wrong, thank you 💖🌈🙏🏻🌞🥰
@youtubeuser6443
@youtubeuser6443 8 жыл бұрын
Women you should wait until your MARRIED not 90 days what if he leaves you on the 91st day??
@coppersulphate002
@coppersulphate002 8 жыл бұрын
+KZbin User I agree! Or she should wait until he has shown her that he is committed to her and truly wants to be with only her. If a man thinks long term, then yeah that is a queue to maybe sleep with him. Unfortunately not many women do this and end up giving up their body to the wrong guy.
@staceykersting461
@staceykersting461 8 жыл бұрын
A queue is a line, as in"There was a long queue for the restroom". A clue wd be something giving you an indication..or evidence. A cue is a signal, as in, "When the bell chimed we entered, right on cue." And, yes 2 are homonyms and the third one rhymes.
@candlecane
@candlecane 8 жыл бұрын
That's the problem with rules. We all know couples who have been married for decades that slept together on the first date and we know single women still following 90 day rules like Joan from Girlfriends lol and we know people who marry as virgins and it still doesn't work out. All that is certain is to 1) follow your intuition and 2) NEVER make decisions from a place of insecurity or desperation. If you go by these two points which, as you notice have nothing to do with time, everything will workout.
@jacintaellison1
@jacintaellison1 8 жыл бұрын
Bye! I am so serious. There are millions of men in this world. If he wants to leave then leave. I will help you get out!
@lejlasas9103
@lejlasas9103 6 жыл бұрын
Waiting till marriage is fine but if good sex is important then they will have to try it before so 3 months rule is still fine. Players dont wait that long.
@raphael5165
@raphael5165 4 жыл бұрын
Damn Steve Harvey stays making money out of these women's despair 😂
@faceyourown6642
@faceyourown6642 3 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@GG-gf3bl
@GG-gf3bl Жыл бұрын
But he’s on point
@chrisbellard2884
@chrisbellard2884 4 жыл бұрын
If my mom did this with my dad... I wouldn't have been born. Cause my dad was a huge mistake that my mom only found out later after getting married.
@codingiscreativity
@codingiscreativity 4 жыл бұрын
My mom's dad was clever. He found the eligible bachelor my dad for my mom , it was arranged marriage. My mom was the mistake for my dad.
@coolmoe3289
@coolmoe3289 6 жыл бұрын
Do you want to know how? "Yeah" Well... We Outta Time... 🤣😂🤣😂
@travisandrews3909
@travisandrews3909 4 жыл бұрын
Im sure they do lmao 🤣
@MaYen1
@MaYen1 6 жыл бұрын
I came across this book and read it. It's actually pretty good. Definitely recommend it; it's not going to give you the answer to everything and there are a lot of differences between men. However, there are also many underlying similarities between them and I feel this book really helps you to better understand their mentality ,in general, and how to approach situations with them. No one really tells you these things when you're a girl growing up so most of the time it's trial and error, taking your gfs advice or learning from mistakes, all of which aren't ideal. After reading this I've been able to reflect on myself and previous interactions, understand what I'm doing well, where I've been going wrong and what I need to work on. I thank God I found it as I do feel I've learnt a few things that will help me with future interactions. Thank you Steve and God bless you.
@MissChibiGodd
@MissChibiGodd 6 жыл бұрын
would you be able to teach and help me with that? omgyoudidnt@hotmail.com
@militarytoy
@militarytoy 6 жыл бұрын
Need a little more break down on month 2 #1 checklist. What actually qualifies as things he's done for you?
@dinaab504
@dinaab504 5 жыл бұрын
Nothing shows more commitment and love than him asking you to marry him ! Wait till marriage .
@nimcoBeauty2346
@nimcoBeauty2346 2 жыл бұрын
Axectly! well said👏
@wendyswintona.juma.4949
@wendyswintona.juma.4949 2 жыл бұрын
Sure, 'cause tricky thing is they can only pretend for so long ...
@JGComments
@JGComments 3 жыл бұрын
How to seal the deal: just show up looking like they lady in the animal print at 3:05 - that would do it for me!
@AGC.Ambassadrice
@AGC.Ambassadrice 3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ I saw the movie who talks about this book today and I want to have it, I live in conge Brazzaville 🇨🇬🇨🇬🇨🇬 if it possible to download, juste let me know please 🙏🙏
@summervolz8677
@summervolz8677 6 жыл бұрын
I’ve read act like a lady think like a man. While I agree with the majority of what he says in it. The only thing I don’t like is, he says the cookie ( sex ) is a necessity in a relationship ( yes I get that ), but he also said if you don’t give your man sex for a couple months straight he WILL go and cheat on you. He even said he would if his own wife didn’t give him sex... i find that very messed up, and no I’m not trying to read in between the lines, he said this straight out. I’d like to think not all men are like that 🤷‍♀️
@AAO-92
@AAO-92 5 жыл бұрын
Nothing messed up about it. I wouldn’t say cheat though, but a good chance they will break it up. Sex is what keeps relationships together
@comfortjohn68
@comfortjohn68 4 жыл бұрын
But he is saying the truth.. Sex doesn't keep a relationship to say but it builds a certain connection , can deepen trust ,builds intimacy but that's only if its given when the both of you are in love.
@JiJihane-pv5jp
@JiJihane-pv5jp Жыл бұрын
​@@AAO-92that's indeed messed up, as a Muslim girl, Muslim men around me already know that sex before marriage is smtg prohibited, so it's already the norm to wait until marriage, months years whatever..and they won't cheat at all because of the lack of s'x, im not saying that there are never men who claim to be Muslims who cheat but most of them won't do that and especially not because of lack of the cookie, maybe smtg else. Please stop making the unormal normal and vice verse. God created both sexes loving s'x and inclining to one another but also gave them the power to control their desire for that. Only an animal won't control its desire and excuse my harsh last words.
@alexdabeat8895
@alexdabeat8895 8 жыл бұрын
I actually have this book right now, and im learning a lot of what not to do with the next man that comes along my standards are very high right now
@goodvibes-we3qs
@goodvibes-we3qs 8 жыл бұрын
Heartbeats 04 hi can plz tell me what we do exactly on thr third month i dont have the book it doest exsit in my country thanks a lot
@beautiful2834536
@beautiful2834536 8 жыл бұрын
Heartbeats 04
@petittall557
@petittall557 6 жыл бұрын
@@goodvibes-we3qs I assume you're from an arabic or muslim country. You should definitely wait till marriage, that's your best bet sister.
@goodvibes-we3qs
@goodvibes-we3qs 6 жыл бұрын
@@petittall557 u have right iam muslim and i will wait 😢😢😢😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
@emil1322
@emil1322 5 жыл бұрын
A 90 day wait is such an idiotic and arbitrary way of trying to figure out if a man will commit to you or not. There is no guarantee that anyone will stay with you after x number of days. The best thing to do, in my opinion, is to go with the chemistry you’re both feeling. If you want to sleep together early on, then that’s completely fine. Imagine having to wait 3 months before you realize that your sexual chemistry is not what you had imagined. What if you’re the one that doesn’t want to commit after 3 months? Don’t waste time, is all I’m saying.
@mafiaps31
@mafiaps31 4 жыл бұрын
Truthfully the only issue I ever had with this book was that I was always under the belief that it should happen naturally rather than forcing it to wait until a certain point that doesn't mean put out on the first date but rather let yourself decide when you feel is an adequate time whether that be three months a month or whatever the case may be it makes me a little sad that some women have to read a book from a man to come up with rules like why can't they think for themselves? Granted some women may have not had the best of luck when it comes to guys but that's mainly because part of it is because they're not looking in the right places so even if they follow these rules you know they have to analyze the guy
@gaby5546
@gaby5546 2 жыл бұрын
True, it's good to use as a guide, but I agree, ultimately it's up to every woman to decide when she's ready, when she feels safe enough and trusts him enough to sleep together. The amount of time a woman needs is always up to her individually. We all have different comfort zones. But I think it's important for women to figure out clearly what their time frame is and stick to it when dating. Maybe it'll be different with different men, but generally I recommend setting a time frame you're comfortable with: 2 months, 3 months, 6 months, until you're in a committed exclusive relationship, until you're engaged or until you're married, however long it may be. But stick to it for your own clarity. Once you know when you're ready, you can relax and not feel pressured. And be firm with your boundaries.
@ntombifuthigumede
@ntombifuthigumede 4 жыл бұрын
I made him wait a year! lol.. it's worth it ladies. Don't be quick to unwrap that cookie because the wrapping is as irreplaceable as the time used to unwrap it.
@johnmurray3734
@johnmurray3734 3 жыл бұрын
🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
@skuastone9698
@skuastone9698 3 жыл бұрын
Wait for a year? No marriage? Lol
@ntombifuthigumede
@ntombifuthigumede 3 жыл бұрын
Believe it or not.. Still happy 4yrs later😍
@ntombifuthigumede
@ntombifuthigumede 3 жыл бұрын
For me, marriage will come when it comes. If it doesn't, I'll still be cool with it. This man didn't make me regret my first time and for that I'll always be grateful..
@Laurius57
@Laurius57 3 жыл бұрын
You must be virgin to wait that long.
@halinabonbon9936
@halinabonbon9936 2 жыл бұрын
Just date and be with someone who is on the same page as you. That's it, that's the whole 'big' wisdom!
@auntigingy8666
@auntigingy8666 6 жыл бұрын
My bf and I did it all backwards and we have one of the best relationships anyone could ask for. I'm not sure I want to marry again. I'm scared as much as he is to even try marriage. I'm happy with a strong foundation of just love, trust and communication.
@anthonynosike
@anthonynosike 3 жыл бұрын
It only worked for you because you didn't want marriage. Steve's advice is for those wanting marriage
@chaitanyajain3127
@chaitanyajain3127 2 жыл бұрын
@@anthonynosike many people who are like her want marriage and it has worked for them and many people who followed Steve advice had not worked out for them , Steve advice can even make the good man go away from you
@anthonynosike
@anthonynosike 2 жыл бұрын
@@chaitanyajain3127 facts, it all depends
@tishygetsfit7463
@tishygetsfit7463 4 жыл бұрын
Am on 7 weeks now he is so patient and kind he still does so much without frowning,I ask him am i asking too much of u he said no I know I like u and one day my time will come
@FishFreddy
@FishFreddy 7 жыл бұрын
So do shallow things for your partner. then check if their perfomance is good by your own expectations. Fast food relationship advice.
@travisandrews3909
@travisandrews3909 4 жыл бұрын
I miss this show
@elegantcraftsbyangela185
@elegantcraftsbyangela185 3 жыл бұрын
That was good Steve. Buy the book got damn it😁 if you wanna no more.
@MM-un8ew
@MM-un8ew 4 жыл бұрын
strange to talk about 90 days or so, because it depends on how often man and woman meet, right?
@conormacdougal2344
@conormacdougal2344 4 жыл бұрын
This book ought to be titled, 'How to be a Female Chameleon 101'.
@thythao4212
@thythao4212 4 жыл бұрын
“Get to work on getting a man that meant to be for you” 😆🤍🤍🤍
@YasminYoruba
@YasminYoruba 5 жыл бұрын
What about long distance?
@lenajafaryassinosman2168
@lenajafaryassinosman2168 5 жыл бұрын
My favorite book! 💜
@ladymery6872
@ladymery6872 8 жыл бұрын
how to work this 90 days rule with a man who travels a lot? like in 3 months, we met only 5 or 6 times..
@shaznewa752
@shaznewa752 2 жыл бұрын
Myb expand it to 6 months.
@flaviedpre
@flaviedpre 10 ай бұрын
what is the checklist and the steps of the third month?
@easybaby5296
@easybaby5296 2 жыл бұрын
Date when you are ready not when you are needy, mostly people rush love, forgetting that love grow, 90days is on point.💞🤝👍
@klaudiaarriera3604
@klaudiaarriera3604 6 жыл бұрын
This book is gold ladies
@reqausxobi
@reqausxobi Жыл бұрын
The video title is wild by accident.
@عبداللهعبدالله-ت1د2خ
@عبداللهعبدالله-ت1د2خ 7 жыл бұрын
ياريت لو بي ترجمه للغه العربيه انا سمعت ملخص كل جزء باللغه العربيه كولش عجبني اتمنى احصل على ترجمه للكتاب والي يعرف كيف ياريت يفيدني
@lovely1190
@lovely1190 9 жыл бұрын
DOES ANYBODY KNOW IF STEVE HARVEY'S BOOK "act like a lady think like a man " IS A GOOD BOOK OR NOT ???............I HAVN'T READ IT YET
@asselzhabagina5635
@asselzhabagina5635 9 жыл бұрын
+lovely 11 I am reading it and enjoying! It is a very great book!!!
@lovely1190
@lovely1190 9 жыл бұрын
ok thank you
@crystalj9725
@crystalj9725 9 жыл бұрын
+lovely 11 I think you'll enjoy the information he shares. A lot of things that you already KNEW but a confirmation from another source "A Man" happy reading.
@lovely1190
@lovely1190 9 жыл бұрын
ok ............thanks alot
@kaylashane4584
@kaylashane4584 9 жыл бұрын
+lovely 11 It is a wonderful book and I highly recommend it.
@HimanshiKharoo
@HimanshiKharoo 5 жыл бұрын
Well priyanka Chopra married Nick after 2 months of dating. Guys there is one rule - there are no rules.
@LearningKaizen
@LearningKaizen 10 ай бұрын
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:02 📝 *Steve Harvey introduces a three-month actionplan for women to connect with men while waiting.* 00:43 💡 *Month one: Enjoy dating, keep standards high, lay the foundation for friendship, and assess compatibility.* 01:40 🔄 *Month two: Maintain standards, continue learning about each other, and observe his actions closely.* 02:21 📋 *Create a checklist by month two to assess if the man is putting in effort and making you feel valued.* 03:16 💼 *Month three is crucial but not elaborated, encouraging viewers to buy the book for more insights.* Made with HARPA AI
@flaviedpre
@flaviedpre 10 ай бұрын
what is the do list and the steps of the third month?
@LearningKaizen
@LearningKaizen 10 ай бұрын
@@flaviedpre someone who bought the book knows
@tstyles9690
@tstyles9690 5 жыл бұрын
Did Steve & Marjorie wait 90 days!!? Why not right a Book on how Men should TREAT Women, the man is to Pursue the Women. Steve Harvey is suppose to be a Christian🙏
@s.boundless3163
@s.boundless3163 5 жыл бұрын
There's guys like Corey Wayne and AMS already doing that
@fasinuprecious74
@fasinuprecious74 3 жыл бұрын
Please how can i download this book?
@jeans8565
@jeans8565 8 жыл бұрын
I have to say, this is not my experience. Men are just as, if not more romantic and emotional about sex. If what you've got is non crazy and good, the good ones will stick.
@roger8654
@roger8654 9 жыл бұрын
He's describing everything i hate about relationships
@celestinebennett212
@celestinebennett212 Жыл бұрын
very interesting and everything you said is 100% actually ...thank you Steve
@enjinks
@enjinks 8 жыл бұрын
I think his advice make sense... I lost myself on the internet again xD
@sallysmith9421
@sallysmith9421 8 жыл бұрын
Good rules But where do these men exist? 😨
@jacintaellison1
@jacintaellison1 8 жыл бұрын
All the ones I know!!! Honestly
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 5 жыл бұрын
@Ralph Wrong. Maybe you were too shallow then to pick those women. Women do that because guys are horny, it's what women know. Fat land whale? Not very nice. You are shallow. You deserve flack, there IS a difference. Sexist, you are TERRIBLE. Sorry, you are not a good guy. I know from your post and every guy says he is good guy, every one was wrong.
@goodvibes-we3qs
@goodvibes-we3qs 8 жыл бұрын
who can give me what we do on third months plz ???
@bakoabdulrahman665
@bakoabdulrahman665 8 жыл бұрын
wats ur email?
@goodvibes-we3qs
@goodvibes-we3qs 8 жыл бұрын
bako abdulrahaman assma.finance@outlook.fr
@MissChibiGodd
@MissChibiGodd 6 жыл бұрын
can you email me it too omgyoudidnt@hotmail.com
@sunshinethruthestorms
@sunshinethruthestorms Жыл бұрын
In 2000 when I woke up from my co-dependency, I tried different ways of dating since previously I wasn't good at picking partners. I learned that if you hold off with the cookie, you will find out everything you need to know about your beau. I went thru men like a bag of cookies, LOL
@omneyamahmoud8314
@omneyamahmoud8314 5 жыл бұрын
It all ended in 20 days uncle Steve with a coworker and the man indirectly was heading to a proposal ! And I have been following your first month guidance but deal breakers were popping up unfortunately... I'm now scared of keeping my standards high :/
@AchaiCooks
@AchaiCooks 5 жыл бұрын
Omneya Mahmoud Keep trying! Go meet someone else. Dating in a place of work is tricky anyways.
@cmg2651
@cmg2651 2 жыл бұрын
Keep your standards high and a man with high standards himself will find you.
@vturner
@vturner 4 жыл бұрын
im mad im just seeing this now loll
@maureenironlady1988
@maureenironlady1988 Жыл бұрын
What are these 6 important things 😶 Sir Steve?
@maha_sage
@maha_sage 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes these things don't viber long distance relationships
@sheilamartin7561
@sheilamartin7561 5 жыл бұрын
It’s an interesting book... but missing a lot of things...
@claudiaschmidt3708
@claudiaschmidt3708 3 жыл бұрын
What?
@Rose2gard
@Rose2gard 6 жыл бұрын
Top favorite things......P......nanny
@raphael5165
@raphael5165 4 жыл бұрын
Keep high standards ? "Relatively high standards" would be a better formulation
@latrellwilliams796
@latrellwilliams796 4 жыл бұрын
That was cold leaving us hangin...I have the original book...hmm...
@NYer9853
@NYer9853 2 жыл бұрын
Did Marjorie make you wait 90 days?
@milachyc88
@milachyc88 5 жыл бұрын
I know a lot of people cannot stick to the rule, because we all want the dessert first, but then we pay for the consequences . So how I understand, this is the rule for those who want to have a meaningful relationship and not a 1-2 month boyfriend. We have to teach these men nowadays to treat us women with respect and value us , without women they cannot exist. So why we allow them to have everything so quick and we explain so much to them and still don't get results. I am a very beautiful girl, not only, smart and classy, with manners and still struggle and become a prey to these jokers that play me. But I learn through my bad times how to not allow them trap me so quick anymore. Make them wander, let them wait for those texts , too quick everything creates a weak foundation. Who is worthy of you will work to earn you #goodluckladies
@codycox2685
@codycox2685 5 жыл бұрын
Another likely reason men are playing you is because commitment is a huge risk to us. A woman can end a relationship at any time and cause financial ruin to a man. The payoff to getting serious with women just isn't there but the risks are more and more every day. Want to find where all the good men have gone? Encourage the US legal system not to demonize men anytime a relationship or marriage doesn't work out. Women file for over 70% of the divorces in the US. Why? easy money!
@trinigyal4sure
@trinigyal4sure 9 жыл бұрын
Does the 90 days represent no sex or no sexual activity such as oral?
@queenie_the_virgo
@queenie_the_virgo 9 жыл бұрын
I would say no sex period. There's no way oral will just be that. You will be thought of as only a good time and a tease if you give only oral. So don't do it.
@Mel-jy4kc
@Mel-jy4kc 8 жыл бұрын
Oral might actually be worse. I have an unofficial rule of no oral the first time we have sex. The worse type of tramp is a headmaster. I know several men who will not have sex with a woman but will allow her to go down on them. Plus, Steve Harvey didn't say no touching; he said no sex. I'm sure some make-out sessions are fine, even a little dry-humping close to that 90 days. But any phallic penetration of any of a woman's three holes is a no-no.
@queenie_the_virgo
@queenie_the_virgo 8 жыл бұрын
+Melanie M Absolutely agree
@staceykersting461
@staceykersting461 8 жыл бұрын
When you said oral, I assumed the woman wd be receiving, but definitly a big NOOO, either way.
@lejlasas9103
@lejlasas9103 6 жыл бұрын
Trini Gyal ,no oral. Only kiss, little touch and hold hands. You want to wait with all sexual activities to be safe and test this man. Oral is still sex so he may just use you for that. To really know man's intention is to remove it all and see if he stays. It also shows your self discipline and he will trust you more. If you hard to get for him, he will know you wont be easy for any other men either. Good luck and stay strong! Remember men deep down want a woman who is strong and confident and says NO. Right man will never go away. Good luck!
@Jonthegreat18
@Jonthegreat18 6 жыл бұрын
Sorry ladies. Steve is not telling you the truth. Men are simply going MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way). If you don't know what it is, look it up. @Steve, please tell the ladies the truth
@msaverielle
@msaverielle 3 жыл бұрын
This is interesting.
@VegetaThoughts
@VegetaThoughts 10 жыл бұрын
It seems as if he appeals to the more traditional paradigm of women. Not to say modern day women do not think the same way, but in all of his videos it's what the man can do for the women. What is the women doing for the man? Making a list of five things he likes? I won't judge but a video about reciprocity is In order.
@staceykersting461
@staceykersting461 8 жыл бұрын
There are a lot of party girls out there and that's OK. Steve's just trying to help the one's who want more of a long lasting relationship. It's how to be the one he brings home to mama. A lot of guys out there still have "fam values" , not in some right-wing nutjob sense of the word, but in a "someday have a family sense. Your woman wil lRespect your mama and know her place in your mama's home. She will listen to your family's advice, even if she doesn't follow it. She'll bring food to your family members when they're sick or hurt, or there's been a birth or death in the fam. She'll know to do all these things by being brought up by a woman who did all these things. She will bring your children up right and they will have a good shot at being successful in life. A woman is the glue of the fam, and it's emotional center. A woman can turn a house into a true family home.
@VegetaThoughts
@VegetaThoughts 8 жыл бұрын
Stacey Kersting I agree with everything you said. To be clear I was speaking more on what can women do for men instead of the other way around.
@katrinamccreary6411
@katrinamccreary6411 6 жыл бұрын
LM the woman is the prize
@DiarraHarris
@DiarraHarris 6 жыл бұрын
His main audience is women so of course he's going to focus only on women their his money maker.
@maximeglt7813
@maximeglt7813 6 жыл бұрын
it depends on the relationship
@anthonystroman8407
@anthonystroman8407 6 жыл бұрын
That's his opinion.
@stefeno372
@stefeno372 6 жыл бұрын
I'm. Ready
@enjoywhoyouarre4029
@enjoywhoyouarre4029 2 жыл бұрын
I don't understand the first part of the Title
@maureenironlady1988
@maureenironlady1988 Жыл бұрын
How much is tha book?
@rayarene4772
@rayarene4772 2 жыл бұрын
Wonder if this works for black men in Atlanta 🙃
@john-sketo
@john-sketo 6 жыл бұрын
Who else is here from the movie?!
@asmaal9972
@asmaal9972 6 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I feel like Steve is old fashion kinda of a guy
@islandhorses..
@islandhorses.. 5 жыл бұрын
HE IS OLD SKOOL
@extinctbc9988
@extinctbc9988 5 жыл бұрын
Damn he rlly did us men like that
@diontethames6218
@diontethames6218 5 жыл бұрын
Fr , I love my girl but at the same time I’m tired of the PH
@yvonnetrevino2916
@yvonnetrevino2916 2 жыл бұрын
I just ordered it steve is my go to for real mam advice
@michaelsix9684
@michaelsix9684 4 жыл бұрын
problem I found most women now won't accept avg. guys, you have to be 9 or 10
@parkercummings1906
@parkercummings1906 3 жыл бұрын
Not true. I totally think average guys are better than a 9 or 10.
@guyincognito5706
@guyincognito5706 5 жыл бұрын
Waiting ninety days for sex is just as arbitrary as not waiting at all. If the time is right, and you’re into him, follow your instincts. Stop overthinking so much. It’s foolish for you to wait to see if he did six things for you and making a list of his five favorite things, and seeing if they’re compatible. Stop waiting for the right time; the right time is whenever you make it to be
@terrelldickens8505
@terrelldickens8505 3 жыл бұрын
Rite it’s the beginning of a woman controlling the relationship
@vickiwitt2112
@vickiwitt2112 4 жыл бұрын
I want a happy relationship and think I found the one! Need to get the wrong one gone 1st. Not with him but he thinks my place is his and it’s not!!!
@semperfidelis2970
@semperfidelis2970 7 жыл бұрын
Steve, you handsome, handsome, handddddsome man.
@stefeno372
@stefeno372 6 жыл бұрын
Patiently
@lillyvgutierrez9685
@lillyvgutierrez9685 5 жыл бұрын
trying to find this book
@FriedrichHerschel
@FriedrichHerschel 6 жыл бұрын
This 90 days no sex rule is BS. It's a relationship, not a game. Don't torture me with arbitrary made up dates and numbers (like the "what has to happen at the first, second, third date" etc.). Be yourself, do what feels natural.
@crystalxx0714
@crystalxx0714 6 жыл бұрын
most women make the mistake of playing wife role, with out any commitment from their men. most men becomes comfortable and expects it from a women with little no imput.
@1992ilikepie
@1992ilikepie 5 жыл бұрын
It's about not playing yourself, letting a man get what he wants before he shows he's in, and actions speak louder than words. So many have slept with a guy and then they ditch very soon after or within three months they find out something they can't accept about a man, and you think well damn I jumped the gun. It's really just a suggestion to watch out for yourself so this stops.
@jlovesj3335
@jlovesj3335 5 жыл бұрын
It's not a game. Some may say this is manipulation for making women wait and value themselves just so u can make them feel wrong for doing so n get the cookie faster. Hmmm
@crazyhikerdude
@crazyhikerdude 7 ай бұрын
If I hear this 90 day BS… first and last RED FLAG… bye bye and good luck.
@zoelife7272
@zoelife7272 4 жыл бұрын
the 90-day rule DOES NOT apply in a kingdom relationship
@GTA5Player1
@GTA5Player1 6 жыл бұрын
Seems like fairly general dating advice, but I like it.
@sheilamartin7561
@sheilamartin7561 5 жыл бұрын
What do you do after the 90 days??? Get married? Have sex?? The answer is a big NO!! Ladies and men..
@thebaretraveller
@thebaretraveller 8 жыл бұрын
3 months...😳😳
@kerbeare
@kerbeare 2 жыл бұрын
Although be aware of narcissists as they can mask all these and show up real good...so get to know what to look for ...otherwise a life of pain and suffering.
@nayvalentine
@nayvalentine 4 жыл бұрын
I just found out my fiancé has cheated on me and the girl is pregnant 💔
@esethusesesibali8379
@esethusesesibali8379 4 жыл бұрын
It's will get better sweetheart. Leave him
@lollymadikiza3174
@lollymadikiza3174 3 жыл бұрын
@nay valentine I am so sorry abt what happened to you, God heals a broken heart🙏lolly 4rm South Africa
@shaznewa752
@shaznewa752 2 жыл бұрын
Move on
@jenneyryan
@jenneyryan 2 жыл бұрын
My advice to couples dating is to date three years, not three months. Books are only for entertainment.
@daryescarraman6591
@daryescarraman6591 7 жыл бұрын
Somebody help me out here w the 3rd month???!!!!
@anneloren3586
@anneloren3586 6 жыл бұрын
Dary Escarraman be patient my dear you will attract good men..just make sure you are ready mentally, spiritually and lovingly..take some time by yourself to love yourself..FIRST this builds confidence and makes you desirable...your energy..will lead him to you..he will be able to feel you and strike GOLD
@jeanlouislaura
@jeanlouislaura 5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Steve God bless
@kiranmahnaz525
@kiranmahnaz525 3 жыл бұрын
What he did 6 things in 60 days? OMG!.. my memory is so weak. I can't recall single thing.. hahahahaha hahahahahaha..
@lianecornils6603
@lianecornils6603 2 жыл бұрын
When God shows you a man is not in this phone.
@deborahg3093
@deborahg3093 10 жыл бұрын
Its not that, he wants a Woman that doesn't think at all. That is the only way someone of his pedigree to get a mate.....stay of the page if you don't like the advice, Man!
@christensencaesar9089
@christensencaesar9089 10 жыл бұрын
that's true !
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