This was good advice. We rush love so often and end up brokenhearted.
@RemyIssa3 жыл бұрын
I think loneliness and fear for being alone makes us rush or settle down
@jacintaellison18 жыл бұрын
It worked!!!!!! I followed this and I am now very very happy and much in love with my new baby! He is a professional athlete and he said women gave it up to him so easy that he did not try for them at ALL! Try for what?! So sex for him just became something to do with those women. He did not even know how to love a woman. I set my standards high and I challenged what he was comfortable with. One thing that helped was that I never verbally told him know I showed him with my actions that it was a no. I just changed the subject or dodged any words that mentioned sex and that was very hard but it made him try harder. Now, I am very happy and I appreciate Steve so much!!!! Thank you Steve!!!!
@wowso48 жыл бұрын
Congrats darl give us single girls some advice, how long were you dating until you found someone you truly connected with? I keep meeting guys that are not good for me and it's stressing me out :( I don't know what I'm doing wrong!
@AlldorCast8 жыл бұрын
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@familyfirst95177 жыл бұрын
Jacinta Ellison ok
@christopherthuesdee72276 жыл бұрын
Ralph of course not
@petittall5576 жыл бұрын
@Ralph Good damn question bud.
@Arkane1174 жыл бұрын
If your doing the 90 days rule, don’t tell your man that you are dating that you have a 90 days rule. I once had a girl tell me that. All that told me is that she wants to but she is waiting 90 days and it’s guaranteed. It’s better to not say anything so he he doesn’t know if he will get any or not. As soon as I heard that, I knew I could speed it it, which is what happened...
@anthonynosike3 жыл бұрын
Very interesting that you said that
@gaby55462 жыл бұрын
Yeah cuz if you tell him, he'll probably just wait 3 months and hang around and make it look like he's still interested and invested and once he gets what he wants, he'll probably be outta there. Just tell him you're not ready yet.
@MakeYouTubeGreatAgain18 жыл бұрын
Not a "fan" of Steve but these tips are correct. If a man is truly interested he will SHOW you. Especially in the beginning months.
@makeitcount29855 жыл бұрын
Players also show their interest just watch and be observant
@mamacocolilo1054 жыл бұрын
@@makeitcount2985 yes, that might be true, but they ain't gonna wait 90 days to get some. They'll be gone before that, if all he wants is booty. Also, his plan allows for the two of u to bond, making it a little more difficult for them to want to stray.
@lovewhitey20273 жыл бұрын
Its called love bombing many narcissist do this move to get you hooked 🚨
@EveChantelle169 жыл бұрын
hopefully one day i'll be in a happy relationship...
@everythinganima4807 жыл бұрын
It's 2017...are you??
@PennyParkerTV5 жыл бұрын
You will :)
@mimilarbo28455 жыл бұрын
Are u ??? If not, you will.
@hadassahsimone72025 жыл бұрын
Eve Chantelle oh will you’re beautiful ❤️
@chriss18105 жыл бұрын
Hey @Eve Chantelle I'd like to try the 90 day rule with you😁
@sarahmichelle63854 жыл бұрын
I am 38, single 7 years......watching everyone of these videosssss please ....wish me luck.
@agents34094 жыл бұрын
Also try checking out some of Chloe’s videos on KZbin. She drops so many gems about vetting men. Good luck!💖
@douxbebe18104 жыл бұрын
goodluck baby. u got this.
@chocsn4144 жыл бұрын
This book is great, an easy read, funny and I find myself agreeing with everything said...even if it is hard to put into practice 🙈
@lollymadikiza31743 жыл бұрын
My story is different though.. I slept wid a guy on our 1st date,we dated for five years & now we are happily married♥️
@thequeens4203 жыл бұрын
The cookie was that good?
@chaitanyajain31272 жыл бұрын
This is true having a rule of not having sex for the first 90 days and rejecting a man for having sex in the first 90 days can even send the good man away from you . Even the man who truly loves will feel hurt , rejected and not interested and you might lose him , so having any kind of rule will be bad
@Vio_ASFARR8 ай бұрын
Books are a guide not a strict method, Steve always says use your intuition. First sight night stands to marriage is HARD LUCK 🍀
@khongorzultuvshinjargal16715 жыл бұрын
Is anyone came from “Think like a man”(2012) 😂?
@r_n_c_44086 жыл бұрын
Be careful ladies it’s a group of men “AMS” committed to playing the role to get what they want. I’m not sure any of Steve’s tips will work in this day and age. Ppl have mastered pretending to be whomever they need you to believe they are....stay safe Queens 💎
@kimk17156 жыл бұрын
R_N_C _ this is so true
@productionsceo886 жыл бұрын
Yeahh, but there is something called GUTS FEELING, you know right away if the guy is interested in your Cookie or the for the long run...just outplayed him, never give it away until he at least fiancé you
@sakatherinejohnson5 жыл бұрын
True
@MsBadBody5 жыл бұрын
Facts. We women r screwed
@codycox26855 жыл бұрын
true, there are some men who will trick you into giving them what they want, which is sex and costs you nothing. But, every single woman in america has the ability to use the court system to MAKE a man give them things that do cost them financially. So, to you, I say women are not screwed. In fact you are treated way better than men in the eyes of the law and our current societal structure. There is a double standard against men whether you admit it or not. This is the reason men are so reluctant to get with women seriously. There is very little benefit to us and an insane amount of risk. The payoff isn't worth the potential chaos you can inject into what used to be a peaceful life for us.
@SonAlexander2 жыл бұрын
One disagreement I have is when he says to look for the top 5 things he likes and see if you are compatible. This is a mistake in my opinion. I actually think it’s a major failing with dating in general that everyone gets wrong… Why…? Well, interests change, hobbies change, tastes change. You will have numerous hobbies through out your life, you will like different TV shows, books, foods, movies, etc… so stop trying to be compatible off of interests and start looking for compatibility in VALUES. If Values are compatible, then it doesn’t matter what you like or dislike. Because you can move together towards a common PURPOSE opposed to trying to form a relationship on shifting sands.
@cmg26512 жыл бұрын
If you know the top five things he likes and you have some in common, you can do those activities or have something to talk about…a conversation. Steven then said, go do something new together.
@blueskies7734 ай бұрын
Hobby: Being a redditor Hobby: Smoking after work and chillin Hobby: going to the mountain for snow sports Hobbies show LIFESTYLE. Lifestyle depicts compatibility. It is safe to follow Steve’s advice.
@maxinewells75396 жыл бұрын
This worked. I tried this on one man and til this day this man still calls & sends me flowers &,gifts for my birthday to my job. It's been years since we broke up (my choice). But Steve knows what he's talking about.
@khirylowry90072 жыл бұрын
Ok has this worh on a man you want tho?
@malikbey37583 жыл бұрын
THANKS FOR WRITING THIS BOOK 📚 📖 FOR MY DAUGHTER AND OTHER GIRLS IN THE WORLD
@tocharamoniqueallenhurst82378 жыл бұрын
it works and he want to wait too! He just now realize its been two months we been having fun w/o sex! now he want to wait! i realize my most meaningful relationship was when we waited! but I want this man forever so I'm making him wait longer ha! and I think I'm teaching him too
@animarreen29758 жыл бұрын
Ha you smart
@lejlasas91036 жыл бұрын
Good girl!
@flyandshy004 жыл бұрын
You shouldn't say you're testing him.
@MrCanelover3 жыл бұрын
So how did it go?
@terrelldickens85053 жыл бұрын
Smh I left a girl cause she waited 90 days to meet
@izabelastefania112 жыл бұрын
Dude,after 15+ years of many failed relationships, you made it more clear than ever or anyone for me on what I was doing wrong, thank you 💖🌈🙏🏻🌞🥰
@youtubeuser64438 жыл бұрын
Women you should wait until your MARRIED not 90 days what if he leaves you on the 91st day??
@coppersulphate0028 жыл бұрын
+KZbin User I agree! Or she should wait until he has shown her that he is committed to her and truly wants to be with only her. If a man thinks long term, then yeah that is a queue to maybe sleep with him. Unfortunately not many women do this and end up giving up their body to the wrong guy.
@staceykersting4618 жыл бұрын
A queue is a line, as in"There was a long queue for the restroom". A clue wd be something giving you an indication..or evidence. A cue is a signal, as in, "When the bell chimed we entered, right on cue." And, yes 2 are homonyms and the third one rhymes.
@candlecane8 жыл бұрын
That's the problem with rules. We all know couples who have been married for decades that slept together on the first date and we know single women still following 90 day rules like Joan from Girlfriends lol and we know people who marry as virgins and it still doesn't work out. All that is certain is to 1) follow your intuition and 2) NEVER make decisions from a place of insecurity or desperation. If you go by these two points which, as you notice have nothing to do with time, everything will workout.
@jacintaellison18 жыл бұрын
Bye! I am so serious. There are millions of men in this world. If he wants to leave then leave. I will help you get out!
@lejlasas91036 жыл бұрын
Waiting till marriage is fine but if good sex is important then they will have to try it before so 3 months rule is still fine. Players dont wait that long.
@raphael51654 жыл бұрын
Damn Steve Harvey stays making money out of these women's despair 😂
@faceyourown66423 жыл бұрын
Lmfao
@GG-gf3bl Жыл бұрын
But he’s on point
@chrisbellard28844 жыл бұрын
If my mom did this with my dad... I wouldn't have been born. Cause my dad was a huge mistake that my mom only found out later after getting married.
@codingiscreativity4 жыл бұрын
My mom's dad was clever. He found the eligible bachelor my dad for my mom , it was arranged marriage. My mom was the mistake for my dad.
@coolmoe32896 жыл бұрын
Do you want to know how? "Yeah" Well... We Outta Time... 🤣😂🤣😂
@travisandrews39094 жыл бұрын
Im sure they do lmao 🤣
@MaYen16 жыл бұрын
I came across this book and read it. It's actually pretty good. Definitely recommend it; it's not going to give you the answer to everything and there are a lot of differences between men. However, there are also many underlying similarities between them and I feel this book really helps you to better understand their mentality ,in general, and how to approach situations with them. No one really tells you these things when you're a girl growing up so most of the time it's trial and error, taking your gfs advice or learning from mistakes, all of which aren't ideal. After reading this I've been able to reflect on myself and previous interactions, understand what I'm doing well, where I've been going wrong and what I need to work on. I thank God I found it as I do feel I've learnt a few things that will help me with future interactions. Thank you Steve and God bless you.
@MissChibiGodd6 жыл бұрын
would you be able to teach and help me with that? omgyoudidnt@hotmail.com
@militarytoy6 жыл бұрын
Need a little more break down on month 2 #1 checklist. What actually qualifies as things he's done for you?
@dinaab5045 жыл бұрын
Nothing shows more commitment and love than him asking you to marry him ! Wait till marriage .
@nimcoBeauty23462 жыл бұрын
Axectly! well said👏
@wendyswintona.juma.49492 жыл бұрын
Sure, 'cause tricky thing is they can only pretend for so long ...
@JGComments3 жыл бұрын
How to seal the deal: just show up looking like they lady in the animal print at 3:05 - that would do it for me!
@AGC.Ambassadrice3 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ I saw the movie who talks about this book today and I want to have it, I live in conge Brazzaville 🇨🇬🇨🇬🇨🇬 if it possible to download, juste let me know please 🙏🙏
@summervolz86776 жыл бұрын
I’ve read act like a lady think like a man. While I agree with the majority of what he says in it. The only thing I don’t like is, he says the cookie ( sex ) is a necessity in a relationship ( yes I get that ), but he also said if you don’t give your man sex for a couple months straight he WILL go and cheat on you. He even said he would if his own wife didn’t give him sex... i find that very messed up, and no I’m not trying to read in between the lines, he said this straight out. I’d like to think not all men are like that 🤷♀️
@AAO-925 жыл бұрын
Nothing messed up about it. I wouldn’t say cheat though, but a good chance they will break it up. Sex is what keeps relationships together
@comfortjohn684 жыл бұрын
But he is saying the truth.. Sex doesn't keep a relationship to say but it builds a certain connection , can deepen trust ,builds intimacy but that's only if its given when the both of you are in love.
@JiJihane-pv5jp Жыл бұрын
@@AAO-92that's indeed messed up, as a Muslim girl, Muslim men around me already know that sex before marriage is smtg prohibited, so it's already the norm to wait until marriage, months years whatever..and they won't cheat at all because of the lack of s'x, im not saying that there are never men who claim to be Muslims who cheat but most of them won't do that and especially not because of lack of the cookie, maybe smtg else. Please stop making the unormal normal and vice verse. God created both sexes loving s'x and inclining to one another but also gave them the power to control their desire for that. Only an animal won't control its desire and excuse my harsh last words.
@alexdabeat88958 жыл бұрын
I actually have this book right now, and im learning a lot of what not to do with the next man that comes along my standards are very high right now
@goodvibes-we3qs8 жыл бұрын
Heartbeats 04 hi can plz tell me what we do exactly on thr third month i dont have the book it doest exsit in my country thanks a lot
@beautiful28345368 жыл бұрын
Heartbeats 04
@petittall5576 жыл бұрын
@@goodvibes-we3qs I assume you're from an arabic or muslim country. You should definitely wait till marriage, that's your best bet sister.
@goodvibes-we3qs6 жыл бұрын
@@petittall557 u have right iam muslim and i will wait 😢😢😢😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
@emil13225 жыл бұрын
A 90 day wait is such an idiotic and arbitrary way of trying to figure out if a man will commit to you or not. There is no guarantee that anyone will stay with you after x number of days. The best thing to do, in my opinion, is to go with the chemistry you’re both feeling. If you want to sleep together early on, then that’s completely fine. Imagine having to wait 3 months before you realize that your sexual chemistry is not what you had imagined. What if you’re the one that doesn’t want to commit after 3 months? Don’t waste time, is all I’m saying.
@mafiaps314 жыл бұрын
Truthfully the only issue I ever had with this book was that I was always under the belief that it should happen naturally rather than forcing it to wait until a certain point that doesn't mean put out on the first date but rather let yourself decide when you feel is an adequate time whether that be three months a month or whatever the case may be it makes me a little sad that some women have to read a book from a man to come up with rules like why can't they think for themselves? Granted some women may have not had the best of luck when it comes to guys but that's mainly because part of it is because they're not looking in the right places so even if they follow these rules you know they have to analyze the guy
@gaby55462 жыл бұрын
True, it's good to use as a guide, but I agree, ultimately it's up to every woman to decide when she's ready, when she feels safe enough and trusts him enough to sleep together. The amount of time a woman needs is always up to her individually. We all have different comfort zones. But I think it's important for women to figure out clearly what their time frame is and stick to it when dating. Maybe it'll be different with different men, but generally I recommend setting a time frame you're comfortable with: 2 months, 3 months, 6 months, until you're in a committed exclusive relationship, until you're engaged or until you're married, however long it may be. But stick to it for your own clarity. Once you know when you're ready, you can relax and not feel pressured. And be firm with your boundaries.
@ntombifuthigumede4 жыл бұрын
I made him wait a year! lol.. it's worth it ladies. Don't be quick to unwrap that cookie because the wrapping is as irreplaceable as the time used to unwrap it.
@johnmurray37343 жыл бұрын
🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢🧢
@skuastone96983 жыл бұрын
Wait for a year? No marriage? Lol
@ntombifuthigumede3 жыл бұрын
Believe it or not.. Still happy 4yrs later😍
@ntombifuthigumede3 жыл бұрын
For me, marriage will come when it comes. If it doesn't, I'll still be cool with it. This man didn't make me regret my first time and for that I'll always be grateful..
@Laurius573 жыл бұрын
You must be virgin to wait that long.
@halinabonbon99362 жыл бұрын
Just date and be with someone who is on the same page as you. That's it, that's the whole 'big' wisdom!
@auntigingy86666 жыл бұрын
My bf and I did it all backwards and we have one of the best relationships anyone could ask for. I'm not sure I want to marry again. I'm scared as much as he is to even try marriage. I'm happy with a strong foundation of just love, trust and communication.
@anthonynosike3 жыл бұрын
It only worked for you because you didn't want marriage. Steve's advice is for those wanting marriage
@chaitanyajain31272 жыл бұрын
@@anthonynosike many people who are like her want marriage and it has worked for them and many people who followed Steve advice had not worked out for them , Steve advice can even make the good man go away from you
@anthonynosike2 жыл бұрын
@@chaitanyajain3127 facts, it all depends
@tishygetsfit74634 жыл бұрын
Am on 7 weeks now he is so patient and kind he still does so much without frowning,I ask him am i asking too much of u he said no I know I like u and one day my time will come
@FishFreddy7 жыл бұрын
So do shallow things for your partner. then check if their perfomance is good by your own expectations. Fast food relationship advice.
@travisandrews39094 жыл бұрын
I miss this show
@elegantcraftsbyangela1853 жыл бұрын
That was good Steve. Buy the book got damn it😁 if you wanna no more.
@MM-un8ew4 жыл бұрын
strange to talk about 90 days or so, because it depends on how often man and woman meet, right?
@conormacdougal23444 жыл бұрын
This book ought to be titled, 'How to be a Female Chameleon 101'.
@thythao42124 жыл бұрын
“Get to work on getting a man that meant to be for you” 😆🤍🤍🤍
@YasminYoruba5 жыл бұрын
What about long distance?
@lenajafaryassinosman21685 жыл бұрын
My favorite book! 💜
@ladymery68728 жыл бұрын
how to work this 90 days rule with a man who travels a lot? like in 3 months, we met only 5 or 6 times..
@shaznewa7522 жыл бұрын
Myb expand it to 6 months.
@flaviedpre10 ай бұрын
what is the checklist and the steps of the third month?
@easybaby52962 жыл бұрын
Date when you are ready not when you are needy, mostly people rush love, forgetting that love grow, 90days is on point.💞🤝👍
@klaudiaarriera36046 жыл бұрын
This book is gold ladies
@reqausxobi Жыл бұрын
The video title is wild by accident.
@عبداللهعبدالله-ت1د2خ7 жыл бұрын
ياريت لو بي ترجمه للغه العربيه انا سمعت ملخص كل جزء باللغه العربيه كولش عجبني اتمنى احصل على ترجمه للكتاب والي يعرف كيف ياريت يفيدني
@lovely11909 жыл бұрын
DOES ANYBODY KNOW IF STEVE HARVEY'S BOOK "act like a lady think like a man " IS A GOOD BOOK OR NOT ???............I HAVN'T READ IT YET
@asselzhabagina56359 жыл бұрын
+lovely 11 I am reading it and enjoying! It is a very great book!!!
@lovely11909 жыл бұрын
ok thank you
@crystalj97259 жыл бұрын
+lovely 11 I think you'll enjoy the information he shares. A lot of things that you already KNEW but a confirmation from another source "A Man" happy reading.
@lovely11909 жыл бұрын
ok ............thanks alot
@kaylashane45849 жыл бұрын
+lovely 11 It is a wonderful book and I highly recommend it.
@HimanshiKharoo5 жыл бұрын
Well priyanka Chopra married Nick after 2 months of dating. Guys there is one rule - there are no rules.
@LearningKaizen10 ай бұрын
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:02 📝 *Steve Harvey introduces a three-month actionplan for women to connect with men while waiting.* 00:43 💡 *Month one: Enjoy dating, keep standards high, lay the foundation for friendship, and assess compatibility.* 01:40 🔄 *Month two: Maintain standards, continue learning about each other, and observe his actions closely.* 02:21 📋 *Create a checklist by month two to assess if the man is putting in effort and making you feel valued.* 03:16 💼 *Month three is crucial but not elaborated, encouraging viewers to buy the book for more insights.* Made with HARPA AI
@flaviedpre10 ай бұрын
what is the do list and the steps of the third month?
@LearningKaizen10 ай бұрын
@@flaviedpre someone who bought the book knows
@tstyles96905 жыл бұрын
Did Steve & Marjorie wait 90 days!!? Why not right a Book on how Men should TREAT Women, the man is to Pursue the Women. Steve Harvey is suppose to be a Christian🙏
@s.boundless31635 жыл бұрын
There's guys like Corey Wayne and AMS already doing that
@fasinuprecious743 жыл бұрын
Please how can i download this book?
@jeans85658 жыл бұрын
I have to say, this is not my experience. Men are just as, if not more romantic and emotional about sex. If what you've got is non crazy and good, the good ones will stick.
@roger86549 жыл бұрын
He's describing everything i hate about relationships
@celestinebennett212 Жыл бұрын
very interesting and everything you said is 100% actually ...thank you Steve
@enjinks8 жыл бұрын
I think his advice make sense... I lost myself on the internet again xD
@sallysmith94218 жыл бұрын
Good rules But where do these men exist? 😨
@jacintaellison18 жыл бұрын
All the ones I know!!! Honestly
@nofybn77945 жыл бұрын
@Ralph Wrong. Maybe you were too shallow then to pick those women. Women do that because guys are horny, it's what women know. Fat land whale? Not very nice. You are shallow. You deserve flack, there IS a difference. Sexist, you are TERRIBLE. Sorry, you are not a good guy. I know from your post and every guy says he is good guy, every one was wrong.
@goodvibes-we3qs8 жыл бұрын
who can give me what we do on third months plz ???
@bakoabdulrahman6658 жыл бұрын
wats ur email?
@goodvibes-we3qs8 жыл бұрын
bako abdulrahaman assma.finance@outlook.fr
@MissChibiGodd6 жыл бұрын
can you email me it too omgyoudidnt@hotmail.com
@sunshinethruthestorms Жыл бұрын
In 2000 when I woke up from my co-dependency, I tried different ways of dating since previously I wasn't good at picking partners. I learned that if you hold off with the cookie, you will find out everything you need to know about your beau. I went thru men like a bag of cookies, LOL
@omneyamahmoud83145 жыл бұрын
It all ended in 20 days uncle Steve with a coworker and the man indirectly was heading to a proposal ! And I have been following your first month guidance but deal breakers were popping up unfortunately... I'm now scared of keeping my standards high :/
@AchaiCooks5 жыл бұрын
Omneya Mahmoud Keep trying! Go meet someone else. Dating in a place of work is tricky anyways.
@cmg26512 жыл бұрын
Keep your standards high and a man with high standards himself will find you.
@vturner4 жыл бұрын
im mad im just seeing this now loll
@maureenironlady1988 Жыл бұрын
What are these 6 important things 😶 Sir Steve?
@maha_sage2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes these things don't viber long distance relationships
@sheilamartin75615 жыл бұрын
It’s an interesting book... but missing a lot of things...
@claudiaschmidt37083 жыл бұрын
What?
@Rose2gard6 жыл бұрын
Top favorite things......P......nanny
@raphael51654 жыл бұрын
Keep high standards ? "Relatively high standards" would be a better formulation
@latrellwilliams7964 жыл бұрын
That was cold leaving us hangin...I have the original book...hmm...
@NYer98532 жыл бұрын
Did Marjorie make you wait 90 days?
@milachyc885 жыл бұрын
I know a lot of people cannot stick to the rule, because we all want the dessert first, but then we pay for the consequences . So how I understand, this is the rule for those who want to have a meaningful relationship and not a 1-2 month boyfriend. We have to teach these men nowadays to treat us women with respect and value us , without women they cannot exist. So why we allow them to have everything so quick and we explain so much to them and still don't get results. I am a very beautiful girl, not only, smart and classy, with manners and still struggle and become a prey to these jokers that play me. But I learn through my bad times how to not allow them trap me so quick anymore. Make them wander, let them wait for those texts , too quick everything creates a weak foundation. Who is worthy of you will work to earn you #goodluckladies
@codycox26855 жыл бұрын
Another likely reason men are playing you is because commitment is a huge risk to us. A woman can end a relationship at any time and cause financial ruin to a man. The payoff to getting serious with women just isn't there but the risks are more and more every day. Want to find where all the good men have gone? Encourage the US legal system not to demonize men anytime a relationship or marriage doesn't work out. Women file for over 70% of the divorces in the US. Why? easy money!
@trinigyal4sure9 жыл бұрын
Does the 90 days represent no sex or no sexual activity such as oral?
@queenie_the_virgo9 жыл бұрын
I would say no sex period. There's no way oral will just be that. You will be thought of as only a good time and a tease if you give only oral. So don't do it.
@Mel-jy4kc8 жыл бұрын
Oral might actually be worse. I have an unofficial rule of no oral the first time we have sex. The worse type of tramp is a headmaster. I know several men who will not have sex with a woman but will allow her to go down on them. Plus, Steve Harvey didn't say no touching; he said no sex. I'm sure some make-out sessions are fine, even a little dry-humping close to that 90 days. But any phallic penetration of any of a woman's three holes is a no-no.
@queenie_the_virgo8 жыл бұрын
+Melanie M Absolutely agree
@staceykersting4618 жыл бұрын
When you said oral, I assumed the woman wd be receiving, but definitly a big NOOO, either way.
@lejlasas91036 жыл бұрын
Trini Gyal ,no oral. Only kiss, little touch and hold hands. You want to wait with all sexual activities to be safe and test this man. Oral is still sex so he may just use you for that. To really know man's intention is to remove it all and see if he stays. It also shows your self discipline and he will trust you more. If you hard to get for him, he will know you wont be easy for any other men either. Good luck and stay strong! Remember men deep down want a woman who is strong and confident and says NO. Right man will never go away. Good luck!
@Jonthegreat186 жыл бұрын
Sorry ladies. Steve is not telling you the truth. Men are simply going MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way). If you don't know what it is, look it up. @Steve, please tell the ladies the truth
@msaverielle3 жыл бұрын
This is interesting.
@VegetaThoughts10 жыл бұрын
It seems as if he appeals to the more traditional paradigm of women. Not to say modern day women do not think the same way, but in all of his videos it's what the man can do for the women. What is the women doing for the man? Making a list of five things he likes? I won't judge but a video about reciprocity is In order.
@staceykersting4618 жыл бұрын
There are a lot of party girls out there and that's OK. Steve's just trying to help the one's who want more of a long lasting relationship. It's how to be the one he brings home to mama. A lot of guys out there still have "fam values" , not in some right-wing nutjob sense of the word, but in a "someday have a family sense. Your woman wil lRespect your mama and know her place in your mama's home. She will listen to your family's advice, even if she doesn't follow it. She'll bring food to your family members when they're sick or hurt, or there's been a birth or death in the fam. She'll know to do all these things by being brought up by a woman who did all these things. She will bring your children up right and they will have a good shot at being successful in life. A woman is the glue of the fam, and it's emotional center. A woman can turn a house into a true family home.
@VegetaThoughts8 жыл бұрын
Stacey Kersting I agree with everything you said. To be clear I was speaking more on what can women do for men instead of the other way around.
@katrinamccreary64116 жыл бұрын
LM the woman is the prize
@DiarraHarris6 жыл бұрын
His main audience is women so of course he's going to focus only on women their his money maker.
@maximeglt78136 жыл бұрын
it depends on the relationship
@anthonystroman84076 жыл бұрын
That's his opinion.
@stefeno3726 жыл бұрын
I'm. Ready
@enjoywhoyouarre40292 жыл бұрын
I don't understand the first part of the Title
@maureenironlady1988 Жыл бұрын
How much is tha book?
@rayarene47722 жыл бұрын
Wonder if this works for black men in Atlanta 🙃
@john-sketo6 жыл бұрын
Who else is here from the movie?!
@asmaal99726 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I feel like Steve is old fashion kinda of a guy
@islandhorses..5 жыл бұрын
HE IS OLD SKOOL
@extinctbc99885 жыл бұрын
Damn he rlly did us men like that
@diontethames62185 жыл бұрын
Fr , I love my girl but at the same time I’m tired of the PH
@yvonnetrevino29162 жыл бұрын
I just ordered it steve is my go to for real mam advice
@michaelsix96844 жыл бұрын
problem I found most women now won't accept avg. guys, you have to be 9 or 10
@parkercummings19063 жыл бұрын
Not true. I totally think average guys are better than a 9 or 10.
@guyincognito57065 жыл бұрын
Waiting ninety days for sex is just as arbitrary as not waiting at all. If the time is right, and you’re into him, follow your instincts. Stop overthinking so much. It’s foolish for you to wait to see if he did six things for you and making a list of his five favorite things, and seeing if they’re compatible. Stop waiting for the right time; the right time is whenever you make it to be
@terrelldickens85053 жыл бұрын
Rite it’s the beginning of a woman controlling the relationship
@vickiwitt21124 жыл бұрын
I want a happy relationship and think I found the one! Need to get the wrong one gone 1st. Not with him but he thinks my place is his and it’s not!!!
@semperfidelis29707 жыл бұрын
Steve, you handsome, handsome, handddddsome man.
@stefeno3726 жыл бұрын
Patiently
@lillyvgutierrez96855 жыл бұрын
trying to find this book
@FriedrichHerschel6 жыл бұрын
This 90 days no sex rule is BS. It's a relationship, not a game. Don't torture me with arbitrary made up dates and numbers (like the "what has to happen at the first, second, third date" etc.). Be yourself, do what feels natural.
@crystalxx07146 жыл бұрын
most women make the mistake of playing wife role, with out any commitment from their men. most men becomes comfortable and expects it from a women with little no imput.
@1992ilikepie5 жыл бұрын
It's about not playing yourself, letting a man get what he wants before he shows he's in, and actions speak louder than words. So many have slept with a guy and then they ditch very soon after or within three months they find out something they can't accept about a man, and you think well damn I jumped the gun. It's really just a suggestion to watch out for yourself so this stops.
@jlovesj33355 жыл бұрын
It's not a game. Some may say this is manipulation for making women wait and value themselves just so u can make them feel wrong for doing so n get the cookie faster. Hmmm
@crazyhikerdude7 ай бұрын
If I hear this 90 day BS… first and last RED FLAG… bye bye and good luck.
@zoelife72724 жыл бұрын
the 90-day rule DOES NOT apply in a kingdom relationship
@GTA5Player16 жыл бұрын
Seems like fairly general dating advice, but I like it.
@sheilamartin75615 жыл бұрын
What do you do after the 90 days??? Get married? Have sex?? The answer is a big NO!! Ladies and men..
@thebaretraveller8 жыл бұрын
3 months...😳😳
@kerbeare2 жыл бұрын
Although be aware of narcissists as they can mask all these and show up real good...so get to know what to look for ...otherwise a life of pain and suffering.
@nayvalentine4 жыл бұрын
I just found out my fiancé has cheated on me and the girl is pregnant 💔
@esethusesesibali83794 жыл бұрын
It's will get better sweetheart. Leave him
@lollymadikiza31743 жыл бұрын
@nay valentine I am so sorry abt what happened to you, God heals a broken heart🙏lolly 4rm South Africa
@shaznewa7522 жыл бұрын
Move on
@jenneyryan2 жыл бұрын
My advice to couples dating is to date three years, not three months. Books are only for entertainment.
@daryescarraman65917 жыл бұрын
Somebody help me out here w the 3rd month???!!!!
@anneloren35866 жыл бұрын
Dary Escarraman be patient my dear you will attract good men..just make sure you are ready mentally, spiritually and lovingly..take some time by yourself to love yourself..FIRST this builds confidence and makes you desirable...your energy..will lead him to you..he will be able to feel you and strike GOLD
@jeanlouislaura5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Steve God bless
@kiranmahnaz5253 жыл бұрын
What he did 6 things in 60 days? OMG!.. my memory is so weak. I can't recall single thing.. hahahahaha hahahahahaha..
@lianecornils66032 жыл бұрын
When God shows you a man is not in this phone.
@deborahg309310 жыл бұрын
Its not that, he wants a Woman that doesn't think at all. That is the only way someone of his pedigree to get a mate.....stay of the page if you don't like the advice, Man!