His wife uses his bday for things SHE WANTS! 🎂🤔 II Steve Harvey

[@cherieecoco]

He seems like an amazing man, and he obviously loves her. I hope she stops taking him for granted. She seems self centered.

[@Olcool]

she is indeed and realy selfish. even her answers are signs of her personality, thick-headed and hard minded.

[@scookculture426]

Yes, but bet and believe, she's putting it on him in the bedroom

[@MyWayWendy]

I like the way this man talks, he is so funny.😊

[@ellen5276]

The man doesn't want seafood. He wants STEAK.

[@sheemay4281]

ahhahaha... he wanted steak but Steve wanted to hook him up to some gumbo and seafood platter... SIR, QUIT MAKING OTHER PPL HAPPY AND GO AHEAD AND GET YOU SOME DAMNN STEAK THAT YOU DESERVE! :)

[@distorbia20]

Please treat your husband and make his day about him. Do random gestures for him not just limited to birthdays. He really loves his wife and makes her dreams happen. Time to tick his bucket list.

[@Lay-Tasha]

Probably would be great if he expressed what his bucket list so that she could get to it he should communicate better and stop saying whatever you wanna do dear.

[@lindagarza5726]

Apparently she doesn’t know how to appreciate her husband…let me tell u something lady…after a while it gets old and someone else is going to snag that good man you have.

[@honeywest39j95]

That last part. She’s laughing now, but it won’t be funny when he wakes up and treat her the same way.

[@foreignking-2]

She's Self Centered.

[@pieterhofkens7259]

She for the streets

[@elongaabigail8636]

From a child 🙄🙄

[@elongaabigail8636]

​@@pieterhofkens7259you mean your mother?

[@colihon3552]

​@@pieterhofkens7259that's what I said lol

[@sheemay4281]

she doesnt know how lucky she is... many women would KILL for a man like him

[@aziagalaxy1158]

She has a very lovely husband 🎉❤

[@eriklambert3809]

She is definitely one with the mindset of "what's mine is mine and what's yours is ours"

[@eclectica1]

what's yours is mine* Slight correction there.

[@ladennayoung2939]

Selfish.

[@eriklambert3809]

@@ladennayoung2939 most people are today. Greedy and selfish. They don't care who they hurt along the way as long as they get what they want. Look at Steve's wife. Just sad.

[@arlenewhite1872]

She is Very Selfish! I am sorry I can't join in her laughter. Her husband deserves some Special Time! No excuses!

[@Lee_Nolo]

I agree. my heart's even breaking at this

[@janisannjensen]

Narcissists do this.

[@Kirwina]

The wife is extremely spoiled and selfish, plain and simple

[@DwayneSmith-kq9eb]

Wouldnt be me... the day for non reciprocal relationships are far behind...

[@KathyAnne28]

That's actually sad, tbh. I mean I can understand wanting to do things you enjoy with your significant other but using their birthday to do things for you is sad.

[@pamelajackson6730]

Selfish, selfish, selfish!

[@realmaureenoyakhilome]

Sadly many of these men don’t care. 😂😂 I laughed all through but she needs to calm down.

[@florencewilson4709]

It is selfish!!

[@elongaabigail8636]

Trying to sound like you are better

[@theempresscodes]

How is it sad? Y’all dramatize everything. He can simply say, baby this is what I want to do and it will be done

[@TheLovely990]

"You not getting no damn steak"😅😅😅😅

[@kentrellbrown5187]

She doesn’t deserve him tbh

[@elongaabigail8636]

And you do?

[@user-bu3un5yl8f]

He likes that

[@CarolynForney]

She is what he likes.

[@A_Brion]

He seems like a great guy and she seems very selfish and taking advantage of his niceness smh

[@Erica-cf1xb]

Most people that wear mask always seek out those with big hearts. She gonna always get fed and It will never be enough. This is what greed looks like.

[@worldwidebirthdaycelebrations]

To the lady with the person that only sees her, when she wants something. A lot of adults use people to get what they want, because as children, nobody ever taught them to genuinely care about people, and that life doesn't revolve around them! Never entertainment one sided relationships! If people don't respect you enough to care about you, as a person, if they're not family, cut the cord!

[@noirnrougenuit9188]

You can cut the cord with the family members as well. Family members are the biggest low lives sometimes.

[@worldwidebirthdaycelebrations]

@@noirnrougenuit9188 OK! Lol!!!

[@LinaPisces]

Cut ties with anyone using you. Be it friends or family. You mean nothing to them. You are just a hand out, when they need something. Some won't shed a tear, if you dropped dead.

[@evelynegehrig750]

I love the block option, God bless the genius behind the invention 😊

[@earthzone85]

Wow what a great guy. I bet he is faithful too . Lady do something nice for him at least once lol

[@rgeorge8618]

Whenever you feel obligated to overextend yourself to the point where you’re putting your own self at a disadvantage, just remember that you may be someone’s best option, but you’re not their only option. Let them move on to their plan B.

[@MarquelCherry-ji7rf]

She's very selfish, she needs to think about her husband and do something for him .

[@jennaronmurray3071]

And fellas, that's why you don't marry for looks. She could care less

[@patriciagurwitz509]

The first Gentleman is exactly the kind of man most women hope for. Wake up wife, don’t get too full of yourself. There’s always temptation close by. ❤ He deserves better and even though you’re not admitting it, you know that. Selfishness isn’t a trait most men are willing to tolerate!

[@saf1090]

He loves her. She keeps him as a pet.

[@timli1830]

Thank you Steve for posting this video today! I was just told that I have a non cancerous brain tumor. This video has really brightened my day!

[@sr8655]

In my prayers.

[@timli1830]

@@sr8655 Thank you!

[@jenniferalford-walters5609]

With God all things are possible read Psalm 91

[@MIKA2POWER]

Praying for you

[@timli1830]

@@MIKA2POWER Thank you!

[@AllThingsSoul]

For some people, long term friendships are just not a high priority. Other things are more important to them. Kobe Bryant struggled with maintaining friendships because he preferred to practice basketball rather than hang out with friends. He was a great short term friend, but could never put in the effort to maintain long term friendships.

[@rsj2027]

Thank you Mr.Steve 😊🎉❤

[@andreajones886]

where do I find me a man like that,bruh? I'm so fr rn!🙄

[@yolandajohnson6894]

me too I would treat him and celebrate his birthday the way he wants to celebrate

[@yusufmaxamed-p4p]

​@@yolandajohnson6894 I'm here for you beautiful

[@craigcp7455]

I ddint want to get out if bed this morning n watched a lot of tv, but still didnt want to get up.. then i saw this show and Steve Harvey and i really got up with a Smile too 😊

[@LinaPisces]

I would celebrate without the wife. Then see how she feel.😊

[@gloriabaylor882]

I miss seeing you on television Steve! 🎉

[@rainbowlove5391]

Damn, you said it all. I'm tired of being the go to sister. I did stop answering the phone. Because my sisters doesn't have anything to do with me unless I'm doing something for them or their kids! I'm really done!

[@RessurrectionGraves]

😂 I have learned!! We do it big for my birthday 🎉 and he’s come around to travel for his birthday but I make sure no big parties.. he just wants me. ♥️

[@ladennayoung2939]

Narcissistic personality disorder. Marriage is supposed to be about both parties.

[@StitchByBytes]

What is this? Meanwhile many great women out here are struggling to find a great man.

[@sr8655]

She is just selfish!

[@CatchTheSpirit]

Blocking phone contacts is one of my specialties...

[@GamaXander]

Jada behaviour

[@zoradelaney9412]

My lesbian two cents......Sis, what is your problem?!?! Your husband seems like a good, loving dude. Take the man out for what HE wants to do, on HIS birthday. Stop being selfish......

[@danielcarlson8137]

Self centeredness at its best. This is what happens when you put a woman on a pedestal. Treat yo man right

[@nancyhoward7005]

Cute couple ❤❤. I hope he gets his steak 🥩🥩

[@universalcomedylove527]

He wanted steak 😅😂 he will never get that steak

[@justatad00]

Part two was it for me!

[@jamessolomon7935]

Naw! She selfish and don't care about him.

[@adg4454]

Hey Steve, I wish i am in US and attend ur show!! really wish!! If i ever come to US, ur show is at the top of my to do list! Big fan Keep up uncle steve.

[@sybilblake-zd8gl]

,your advice is so cool. I go through these problems and have no idea how to solve it. Thank you this works.

[@allthingsnu4673]

Time and time again I see men marry self-centered women so there must be something they like about it. Maybe it's a boost to their ego when they can keep them happy or something. He basically admitted that much when he said he wants to see her smiling before she goes to sleep and when she wakes up. You didn't hear her say that about him, did you?

[@malehlohonolo8463]

Seafood?? That man wants steak are yall listening!

[@mikep2272]

Terrible and immature advice - next time your friend calls, answer the phone and tell her you can't help her with her trip arrangements. Grown people don't need to hide!

[@Tenseiken_]

I get the feeling they've been together for quite some time so there's probably some kinda deep chemistry that's doing something right, but I get the feeling that the man is just scratching the surface with the whole birthday thing. Just look at her reaction when it's about some of the most basic things to do. She can't even look straight. She's playing games within games and then man just want simple things. That's just nasty.

[@ricosnell4623]

Using her looks for manipulation poor dude

[@elnoawilson101]

They allow it.😂

[@colihon3552]

​@@elnoawilson101so that makes it ok?

[@elnoawilson101]

@@colihon3552 Well I didn't say it was okay, I just saw it from how he explained it. He gives her the money to do these things so she does, right or wrong it depends on her?🤷

[@colihon3552]

@@elnoawilson101 u laughed u do think it is no big deal

[@mesho2700]

2:41 it will be 50 years later 😂

[@jackybrown5211]

Open your eyes 👀 man

[@merima6184]

Thank you 😂 So good video.

[@Babygirl-gq7ke]

She is really selfish

[@aglaelmelendrez86]

She luck to still have husband.

[@storyreact]

1:34 he’s great player 😂😂

[@thomassheppard3498]

What about them text messages lol😂😂😂😂 when yu phone telles you when the other person has read it lol😂😂😂😂

[@juslistening469]

She selfish he already knows the problem...One fool asking for advice from another fool.

[@LeaderColden]

She got a birthday. Mine is for me.

[@BrandyDerg]

So glad im single

[@yogotti1230]

This is what happens when you put someone on a pedestal. He signed up for this situation, so he might as well accept it for what it is.

[@MyWayWendy]

"Happy wife! Happy life! lol 😊

[@stevengrvp]

The saying that has set marriage back so long

[@lynn7392]

It should be, “happy home happy life”. The husband has an equal right to be happy as well, not just the wife.

[@jaykaizen5648]

​@@lynn7392yep I usually say happy spouse, happy house.

[@lynn7392]

@@jaykaizen5648 Right!!! "Happy Wife! Happy Life! is a fast track to a divorce. You can't have two people in a marriage, but only one of them actually matters.

[@name9601]

@@lynn7392 no matter what she's right means she's also never acknowledged if u only give in to appease her.

[@goonern4644]

These men enable this selfishness and ignore all the red flags, and then complain when these women Leave them. There is nothing amusing about this man's complacency.

[@ShannelBrown-s7t]

Send him to Jamaica!!

[@YouWell2]

If it's been happening for so long and he goes along then it clears works for him...all the best to their relationship 😂

[@colihon3552]

how does it clearly work for him and he is complaining. men don't complain 24/7 like women. now if he cheats on her have that same energy

[@nancyhoward7005]

Block her number.

[@kevinjefferson-vx1cv]

He need to divorce her bruh. Every yr for his bday she does a bucket list that’s for him but checks it for her ! Man divorce her brotha

[@dianalogan6185]

She aint slick she’s selfish 🙄 nd self centered

[@albertaowusu3536]

The girls night for his birthday was utterly selfish. How about a ticket to a football match with his friends 😊

[@grindaholic12]

Steve understand she using him just like she steve gettin used

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

You not getting no damn steak 😂😂😂😂😂

[@JUSTIFIED-R.W.M.J.]

My first rule of gift giving… never give anything to anyone that you can’t use yourself. 😂

[@maryhazlett]

I disagree about voice mail. When you have kids or senior parents, you need it. When she was alive my mom couldn't deal with a cell phone at all so couldn't text. I was her caregiver. There ARE emergencies.

[@lawrencelwartleyjr.8186]

He 😽 Whooped

[@georgemalley6414]

Thats not a wife. Thats a Golddigger. A selfish incapable of love or care of another person type. She is a bad pick.

[@shantakoa8596]

The 1st she is well taken care of because she has not stop smiling

[@deborahfreyre3252]

I have turned off my voicemail along time ago, so no one can leave me a voicemail, and if they try calling me it is up to me if I want to pick up or not 🤣

[@wwmoon101]

Money he has and she takes full advantage real but true

[@cmark1443]

It's all about her.... his birthday and he pays and does what she wants. Wow!

[@moniquefacey5760]

Shes selfish

[@farahabusalem9679]

Everyone in the comments is so dramatic 😂 relax. They clearly have a better relationship than most of us. If he was that mad, he would've made it a bigger problem than it is. He clearly is in love with this women and is making jokes out of the situation😂 people in the comments saying he should divorce her or she's a narcissist😂😂😂 relax it's not that serious. Why does everyone have to make a mountain out of a mole hill every time 😂😂😂 chill

[@KemyLynn]

Yes...Sounds Kind of Selfish 2 Me. But some Men just love Self-Centered Women Like This Sadly.

[@tonyspencer2318]

I all for love but a sucka I can never be

[@kirkslayden834]

You know Steve it would be nice if your woman Marjorie treated you properly by not cheating on you and I would let her go and never go back to that 🗑️

[@hazelboyce7230]

Why are you even making that comment? Steve said up to recently that he and his wife has been together for eighteen years and she has been faithful to him and always has his back? Stay out of people’s relationships.

[@leonj301]

I understand loving someone but damn man...... 😂

[@ItsThicc]

Get a Passport mens

[@sharond.5749]

It's all in fun

[@Atlboy1992]

This is sad , you gotta realize when you being taken advantage of!!

[@buttercup1087]

He will get tired eventually

[@saiwanu4598]

Oh my God did you all know that 😂😂😂

[@puffy9257]

This makes me so sad. I try to hard with my partners and they don’t do anything nice for me - and here you have a woman who doesn’t even think of her husband and he adores her? What am I a cow?

[@ilonafrissina5617]

Steve and his wife need to keep their affairs to them selves. In the end no one is interested. We all have our own problems.😢

[@vidalsmith9160]

Exactly

[@Josie3387]

This would be a deal breaker for me. This is selfish as hell.

[@admar6934]

Ive met woman like this too before

[@ARushin80]

Oh please...smh

[@chico7469]

Suckerism….🍭

[@InYourHouse90s]

DIVORCE

[@valarmathym4870]

Need subtitle. Not able to follow American English.

[@hazelboyce7230]

You can turn on the closed caption (cc) on the top right on the video, if you wish.

[@kirkslayden834]

Yeah that would be nice Steve if women were true to their man but a lot of women and men cheat and that destroys everything so be true to the one you love and never ever ever ever ever ever ever never cheat on the one that you love

[@Chalkywhiteisinthehouse]

Shout out to Harold & Bells!