How NOT To Scare Men Away! 😱 II STEVE HARVEY

These two best friends say their strong personalities are intimidating to men. But is that REALLY causing their dating issues?
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[@suzannemuliolis6066]

It's one thing to be confident. It's another to be full of yourself...

[@YourRoyalHighness88]

I don't think so with that looks 😂

[@producerk8247]

@@YourRoyalHighness88 Its "Those Looks"

[@YourRoyalHighness88]

@@producerk8247 Those looks makes me want to throw up.

[@producerk8247]

@@YourRoyalHighness88 again with the grammar... "Make" but I totally agree with their looks. Not a fan.

[@beautybelq91]

She hides her insecurities with sarcasm.

[@radiandrea]

Men are not intimidated, they are just not interested…

[@kirk1007]

Exactly and men don't really like funny. They want to be the funny person

[@kirk1007]

Women acting like men is awful ugh. Promising him a good date eww

[@ausernamehandle]

Obviously

[@liona1657]

So true. Why do these women think they are better than the men they meet.

[@flyingdutchman2442]

@@kirk1007 Not at all. Most women just aren’t funny. It’s the unfunny, awkwardness that makes us want to run away.

[@Mim795]

I just want to say thank you to these two women for “keeping it real” 😳 Behaving like this comes across as arrogance and cocky, there’s nothing attractive in this behaviour. You can see they are both attractive women however as soon as they start speaking it becomes ugly. Thank you ladies, as I can see some of my own behaviors here and it’s not appealing or warming.. Thanks Steve 🙌🏻

[@g_plus_one8020]

I wonder if the network has realized the mistake they made letting him go yet?

[@PeaceMastered]

I'm definitely learning to suppress my sarcasm while dating. It definitely gives the opposite effect of my typical sweet, good girl persona. Men do not like it at all. I'm still learning where it derived from.

[@Indygenous]

How about just be urself. Stop listening to these help shows and put down the fashion magazines. It is whats causing yall ladies to have self esteem issues.

[@jeanwilson3752]

Perhaps seeing others and felt you needed to always be in guard to protect your heart. Good that you see you can control and make a change for the better!

[@PeaceMastered]

@@jeanwilson3752 You know what?! Absolutely. Especially childhood, never speaking up for myself when I felt like someone slighted me, especially the adults. Now I'm quick-witted to a tee. My comebacks are lethal but they also became a part of me to the point where it was in every response. I couldn't even just accept a compliment. Now I'm learning when it's OK to keep it a bay & know when it's absolutely necessary. Thank you for that perspective.

[@PeaceMastered]

@@Indygenous Being myself is learning who I am and ever-evolving. If there is something about me that is infringing on how I interact with people, Being myself is improving that for ME. Thank you. 😊

[@shakenabrown667]

It's a defense mechanism. I was very sarcastic and quick witted ...I knew it came from being hurt. If someone acted like they really liked me I figured they'd just hurt me so I pushed them away. I worked on me and things got better. It will for you too

[@rorojam8400]

"Tell her yo 12"😂😂😂😂😂 Steve is funny y'all

[@gypsyhermitishtarot]

The real problem is, they think more of themselves than they should. I think that's called delusional.... smh And when you stay dating 21 year olds you're looking for a son, which is creepy, not a man. Where did they find these goofies? Hook up real women Steve!

[@biggi6115]

what you mean like traditional women :D

[@sampreetgumparla659]

God, I would’ve just walked away with a weird and confused look on my face if the first woman did that with me…IN A BAR😑🚶🏻‍♂️

[@YourRoyalHighness88]

I will turn away by just looking at her.😂

[@sampreetgumparla659]

@@YourRoyalHighness88 Bruh..!! I was just being generous😂

[@jenniferokafor3156]

@@YourRoyalHighness88 boring!

[@YourRoyalHighness88]

@@jenniferokafor3156 imagine me going for a date.

[@Name-sb1fr]

Some guy would take it serious. "So ... um ..... you're a prostitute?"

[@gracekelly2810]

I was going to make a comment about the ladies, but @ 7:10 I couldn't stop laughing watching Steve! Points well taken though Dr Steve

[@YourRoyalHighness88]

If it goes on like this, you'll be a spinster for life.

[@suzannemuliolis6066]

For real

[@marquesdeangelobroadie-shi8596]

Share: Christ would have voted Republic (Public). Remember The PEOPLE=REPUBLIC. Don't be fooled by the Believers who vote Democrat, they are not reading the scriptures. Democrat in Gemetria=Satan/Samael. (Gemetria is The Hebrew Numerical Value Of Each Letter) Read Luke 18;9-14. Christ=Republic. Don't be fooled by celebrities endorsing Politicians remember we wrestle not against flesh and blood but wickedness in high places. Without being taught we will be voting for devils(DEMOnic=DEMOcrat) and praising GOD.

[@jenniferokafor3156]

Ain't nothing wrong with that bro

[@nofybn7794]

You are NOT charming. Nothing wrong with being a spinster. Better than dealing with assholes.

[@YourRoyalHighness88]

@@nofybn7794 what are you calling them???

[@meganlord781]

Some people have the gift of singleness!

[@kujas]

Poor girls, I don’t think they were ready yet. Bless their heart child.

[@Angelica-N]

08:33 "tell her you 12" 😂😂😂

[@fitzmauricephidd2377]

🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀☠

[@yojjjyoj1116]

😂😂😂😂 that killed me

[@johnmoore4714]

To the first lady is full of herself. Super funny 🙄oh please

[@zero1188]

Maybe they are not intimidated, her personality and character isnt good as she think it is

[@luckyliane796]

When I saw this video, I remembered the advice my grandfather gave me at my uncle's wedding while we were sitting close to each other next to the music band. The music was so loud that I couldn't hear what he said.

[@bambi274]

🤣

[@janh6097]

They’re immature in my opinion. At their age they should definitely carry themselves with a little more class and discernment.

[@johnnyxp64]

They lost their train because of their immature behaviour, now they keep doing it even more and they call it "been funny". That ladies is "how to remain alone and single for the rest of your life".🤣

[@gloriaferguson4767]

Leave the young men alone and seek your age group.

[@theyregr-r-reat8035]

"been funny"???? Seriously? I apologize if this comes off as the dictionary POPO....buuuut.. Being funny is totally different than been funny. (Like: once or twice)... They were in weird situation. I watched this for corrections but didn't find any. 🤧

[@Youtubeguru05]

I'm a woman and im Sick of hearing "I'm focused" that has become a cop out

[@elizabethmitchell0071]

The one is dating "boys" the other thinks she has game and she doesn't...she's obnoxious 🙄

[@jeanwilson3752]

Agreed 💯

[@MyWayWendy]

Thank you Mr.Steve Harvey..you make my day..😊

[@steveharveyprivate3058]

Thanks for compliment and sincere love, I am not complete without you, as a fan of mine, for which I’m very grateful

[@deniseobryant302]

Thanks for profound words 🙏 🙌

[@123CrazyBaBe124]

i will take this advice for real i want this as my dad i already see him as my rolemodel thank you steve

[@twebazejoseph2128]

The way I like you Steve,only God knows You are doing a very good job right there 😊

[@bobbyjones2911]

These two just don't know how to talk to people. PERIOD!.

[@peekaboots01]

They don't know how to talk at all.

[@ashleysnow7470]

There is some truth in every joke!

[@seoulseokjin]

People who label themselves "super funny" are usually the butt of their own jokes.

[@lt127]

Yesss.. it was so awkward to hear her describe herself *repeatedly* as funny/ hilarious 🥴 I have my doubts. I’ve never heard anyone who is naturally funny describe themselves that way. It’s usually the ones who *think* they are that do that.

[@davislouis8181]

Simple music can make you sing simple hug can make you feel better simple things can make you happy, i hope my simple Hello make you smile..

[@tugboat2]

This was hard to watch 😬but hilarious at the same time😂 Makes me glad I don’t have this problem…😅

[@hermitebolivard3110]

Telling you 12 That's killed me

[@neianeguinhausa]

It's hard nowadays...we got lost as to approach a man that you interest or if we wait. Some guy's really don't know how to talk or how to be a gentleman. Trying to be sarcastic or funny definitely backfire must of the time. That's me: the joking all the time lady

[@-live8659]

Funny how this modern world a woman that’s not wanted by a man means he’s intimidated and an overweight older woman with braces thinks a man is going to chase her… 😂😆🤣 The delusion… 😳🤦🏽‍♂️

[@peekaboots01]

They definitely needed the truth from Kevin Samuels. To bad he's gone.

[@ronaldk.wileyjr.5476]

I'm Glad he said it. Men are never intimidated, they may not want to deal with a particular women's chaos or issues. Maybe even don't feel they are worth the effort.

[@MyWayWendy]

Have you ever thought time is running out on you? The clock is ticking away..

[@rachelsingermacdonald]

I think some men are intimidated... but maybe pushed away is a better way to put it

[@sara123lovesmusic]

Everytime i have a problem i think: what would. Steve Harley say? And it answers all my questions... Thank you so much ❣️

[@davislouis8181]

Simple music can make you sing simple hug can make you feel better simple things can make you happy, i hope my simple Hello make you smile..

[@sarelito9202]

Have these ladies never met a man? Why do they act like this? It's most strange! A real turn off for men AND women!

[@supportvawa2213]

I had two men tell me that I am intimidating. One was a friend from high school, ROTC who became a police captain. Because of his divorce he retired and we became housemates at age 40. So that was a close friend who I had known my whole life and we lived together. The second guy was an internet date at a small town pizza place. He was 6'4" and was a (psych ward) prison guard, black belt. Maybe they were just telling me what I wanted to hear? But I don't think so. I'm a straight shooter, always honest and expect the same in return. And I know when someone is lying or blowing sunshine up my butt.

[@hallojutuhb9071]

I don't know you so I could be wrong, but: when people say "And I know when someone is lying or blowing sunshine up my butt." my experience is they too often falsely accuse others of being dishonest. And when people say " I'm a straight shooter, always honest" I assume they don't really care about other's feelings. Maybe you could think about this.

[@supportvawa2213]

@@hallojutuhb9071 thinking about other things today but I'll put your request on the to do list for tomorrow, after I take care of priorities. Thanks for the suggestion!

[@supportvawa2213]

@@hallojutuhb9071 do you know The Four Agreements? One is - Never make assumptions.

[@jeanwilson3752]

Unfortunately those two women are a poor example of how they can be corrected because there is so ingrained and being assholes! They truly think that they got it understood yet they got all these problems and it is so obvious because it's the way that They carried themselves is the way that they think they're too busy trying to protect themselves instead of really trying to find something that's a good match partner for them. And once they get tired of living like that then and only then what they decide to make a change. Because I saw in your face Steve the shop of how they think showed and how they presented themselves. They don't think high of themselves on that particular level yet they want to blame the other situation which is nonsensical.

[@maymadison3620]

Nobody likes arrogance. They're delusional

[@jeanwilson3752]

Agreed 💯

[@bulikguru3871]

Hiii steve, watching from Indonesia

[@ItsSoarTime]

LOVE his explanation about MEN not being intimidated by women! BOYS are though!

[@maryalabi9255]

😎❤ Steve The Love Coach...always nice to watch.

[@lorenebradford3983]

Yes uncle Steve we in class today

[@karmicsoul4444]

Watching from New Zealand 💜

[@officialWWM]

Kia Ora.

[@susanhayward5285]

I'm so embarrassed by the blonde girl. Do people actually act this way?

[@breeeque]

Yeah :(

[@peekaboots01]

The other was no better. They were both terrible.

[@lovekidstvchannels8314]

I really love you best time to stand up ❤️

[@lyreenathan3837]

Men are logical, straight up. They will tell you, you just ask. Read the book, Act like a Lady, Think like a Man

[@Xx-po1fu]

When a woman says men are intimated by her, that's the excuse she uses when she can't keep a man.

[@evalinacesarcassule5097]

Very often the "can't keep a man" means being submissive to a man in all aspects. Thankfully, not every woman is available for that so yes, this type of women intimidate so called "man"

[@TerrenceMcGinnis]

@@evalinacesarcassule5097 From what they displayed here I think it has a lot less to do with “submissive to a man in all aspects” and more to do with one of them coming off rather rude with her ‘jokes’ and the other wanting a man to just be like a puppy behind her. That and having a thing for young guys who are generally not grown into manhood yet at 21.

[@beatricenganga7732]

What could be the reason when it comes to dating you only attract wrong people in you life?

[@tugboat2]

That ju jitsu move, though 😆😂

[@everythingniasha]

Both ladies don’t really want something serious 🙄.

[@oliveeasther9654]

Steve Harvey sir, I greet you in the Lord's Mighty Name, Steve am a lonely Single mum who is in prayer and in search of a God respecting gentleman who can take me in with my kids, Steve help me out, I believe someone out there can take me in, am tired of not feeling loved and cared for😒😒😒six years Steve without someone calling me baby or sweetheart 😒😒 Thanks to your show, Hello to your dear wife

[@maureenthefirst1]

A woman can be strong and confident without being castrating to a man. Loving a man means being supportive of him and he being supportive of you. Today's women think they need to compete with their men. Not so. Compete with yourself and you will rise to the top of your field. But, in your home and in a love relationship the real smart woman will not compete with her man. She will love and respect him and still be the best version of herself. Proverbs 31 in the bible explains this clearly. 10 [3] A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. 11 Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. 12 She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. 13 She selects wool and flax and works with eager hands. 14 She is like the merchant ships, bringing her food from afar. 15 She gets up while it is still dark; she provides food for her family and portions for her servant girls. 16 She considers a field and buys it; out of her earnings she plants a vineyard. 17 She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. 18 She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. 19 In her hand she holds the distaff and grasps the spindle with her fingers. 20 She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. 21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet. 22 She makes coverings for her bed; she is clothed in fine linen and purple. 23 Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. 24 She makes linen garments and sells them, and supplies the merchants with sashes. 25 She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. 26 She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. 27 She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: 29 "Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all." 30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the LORD is to be praised. 31 Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate. [1] Or of Lemuel king of Massa, which [2] Or / the answer to my prayers [10] Verses 10-31 are an acrostic, each verse beginning with a successive letter o

[@musicneurons7807]

He really tried his accent, Bless his heart.

[@Claude_van_Dammage]

I did Steve, thank you

[@nicidevine6670]

He is very right

[@countryboundgirl7424]

Was he snacking on gold fish 😂

[@steveharveyprivate3058]

Thanks for compliment and sincere love, I am not complete without you, as a fan of mine, for which I’m very grateful

[@franciscoresendez5674]

Well enjoy being single all rest of your life

[@taezaj123]

#WishingThemNothingButTheBest #SendingLoveAndLightToEvery1 #Nameste

[@82adebayo]

Steven Harvey should teach these women with high ego about humility. Without humility, they are going nowhere. If they like let them build artificial walls around themselves, it is act of humility that can break those walls.

[@senaityohannes6010]

Oh lord I am speechless.

[@SUMMARIZINGSTAR]

Wonder if their person just hasn’t found them yet? Imagine making yourself small for someone to like you.

[@theodoreteliot725]

That's the word women use to justify the fact men just doesn't want to deal with certain types of women period, It has nothing to do intimidating men, men come into relationships with different intentions depending on the type of woman they are dealing with. It's kinda like a thief trying to steal a vehicle, the thief assesses the chance of a clean get away and if the thief thinks that the vehicle was going to take too much effort, it's too risky, or just not worth it to them they commit or walk away from the risk. Real men are natural warriors and competitive and dominant that's how we are built so why would "men"(black, white, Hispanic etc)be intimated your telling me all men from different walks of life are all intimated, look at real examples like men who are unemployed, homeless, got nothing going on who approaches an attractive female on the street, is he intimated of course not wether he gets shot down or not proves he isn't intimated.The same way a woman knows what she is looking for is the same way "men" know what they want or don't want. If you are getting the same outcome in different situations time and time again that's not the man, that's you all the way good or bad. Men like feminine women period, your resume means nothing to a man, what man wants to date a masculine sounding woman. Your education, bank account, car etc means nothing to men, can you submit, can you stay in your role and position there's only one CEO in a company not two or we will be going in two different directions. The word of God say two can't walk unless they agree, the Bible also lets the world know the order of things the Husband is the head of the household as Christ is the head of the Church. So it's God, man then the woman so if you want a suitable husband make sure you are feminine, humble and choose the right husband that way submitting won't be a difficult task for you. If you don't agree with the Almighty God about His order I guess you know more than God so go ahead and marry your career, house and cars and have nothing to look forward to in old age but loneliness and regret.

[@joshuamorency7808]

Tell her! You are 12...😂😂😂

[@ouga1721]

Them leopard heels 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@KelleyBroussardMackaig]

I know!! They were all I could look at! LOL

[@kidistgetachew7565]

I love these women

[@delilashapaka8104]

I agree with Steve. Well, dating is not about the funny, man want to be taken seriously and so does a woman. But if you make a joke of yourself all the time, jumping in high heels karate show offs naaaaa no man will play with you. Try a serious approach my ladies you might just land yourself in a relationship .

[@johnwashington7203]

Security 😂😂😂😂😂

[@soniavelez5569]

These 2 women really don’t know what they want . They’re still immature , and are not serious. They’re in it for the game .

[@gedogdarker7211]

Strong and confident women don't act like this

[@ericaluke5448]

Talking about being successful! I know am blessed because if not I wouldn't have met someone who is as spectacular as expert Mrs Blossom Jefferson

[@jamescandason6954]

The greatest regret is not trying and failing but it is not to trying at allFunny enough people aspire to emulate great investors and entrepreneurs, of our time but they only see their wins and achievements and they careless about their challenges and failures during multiple trials and the lesson it teaches

[@scottbonovan6521]

I wouldn't agree less but a times we are influenced based on result of what will see and experience, failure at first try doesn't mean it is over but unfortunately people seems to back off when they have experiences some obstacle or failure along the way

[@markjahson475]

You have to recognize you need an expert that understands how to read the market so you can avoid winning today and losing tomorrow. There's reason why experts like Mrs Blossom wins all the time,I was a bit skeptical but she Kept encouraging me to invest and it turn out very successful

[@jeffmatt7086]

Who doesn't know Mrs blossom? It's been a year since i met her and I'm still making great profits under her guidance.

[@James-km7ut]

This is really helpful for my situation,please how can I get intouch with this exp Mrs Blossom?

[@positivelyradiant9655]

Oh my heavens! 😮😂

[@abuyousefali]

I would run away from them and it's definetly becasue I am not on their level.

[@bvkb2005]

They both...."extra and special"...

[@cookiegirl891]

Lmaoo not special 😂

[@jungersrules]

6:41 LMAO!

[@cbase06]

Now I see why they’re single lol

[@oladapooyinloye7869]

Don't even no y a woman would think she intimidates a man

[@xxyy1318]

Gut.

[@simzali4575]

First .... happy Saturday 😊

[@xxkissmeketutxx]

How does she say all this with a straight face!

[@davislouis8181]

Simple music can make you sing simple hug can make you feel better simple things can make you happy, i hope my simple Hello make you smile..

[@nomadictravelerfromTx]

Noni will always have dating problems because of her weight issue and Jess talks too much. Most men will not tolerate these 2 issues. Facts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@jazmynfranco6538]

You are not serious weight is not the issue

[@nomadictravelerfromTx]

@@jazmynfranco6538 Yes it is.....Listen to men! We will tell you the truth. Ignore what women tell you.

[@jessicapham1624]

Send Daniel my way!!!

[@KingMK31]

I see Sarah Jay quit the industry and is trying to live the good life!🤣

[@Godkingjay]

Can women leave this intimidating line in 2022

[@senkyirenanaserwaa-kobi546]

They’re both not serious. Birds of the same feather 😂

[@sweetman5249]

I am not intimidated by any woman. Reach out to me and see 😂

[@gloriatemael2510]

They sceard of me

[@DG-vb8up]

She didn't even open her mouth yet and I was already running away so I didn't have the opportunity to laugh.

[@mrsdtubbs]

No one is intimidated you are saying the wrong things therefore attracting the wrong type of men.

[@isaacbernath]

Stays with his mom.. Financially responsible.

[@mewi789]

THEY are full of themselves thats why they aint got nobody 😂😂😂😂

[@SELFCAREMODEL]

1 WOMAN DOESN’T WANT TO GROW UP & 1 PLAYS TOO MUCH. THEY NEED TO DATE AIR & WORK ON THEMSELVES.

[@elenarotestan5823]

Confident? Lord this was pure silly grown women. I was embarrassed 😳 for them.

[@gypsyhermitishtarot]

Same. Just cringe worthy really...

[@davislouis8181]

Simple music can make you sing simple hug can make you feel better simple things can make you happy, i hope my simple Hello make you smile..

[@nancydrew1102]

Oh my word , did she just refer herself to a call girl ?? Yikes 😬 😳

[@gottliebheinrich8413]

too late for what they wanted

[@12DreamsFull]

He slips a married man in the pact...then tells her at the end that she's going about it the wrong way. 🤣

[@gyver471]

overweight, and he has to chase after you and she's really busy this woman going to be single forever.

[@sarabernpaintner4704]

I would say that men can intimidate women. I’ve been there several times already, and it bugs me. I already have a boyfriend, I keep telling them that, but they don’t really care about or respect that

[@patklemmensen1694]

but how many 'deal-breakers' is acceptable?? that's the age-old dilemma...

[@davidshaw5872]

I ain’t interested, because I am not attractive to them 😂😂😂

[@ida.yjohnson9713]

My boy!! Theres someone out there for you!! Honestly BELIEVE IT or NOT

[@blacktinkerbell2324]

Why do women think men are intimidate by them.

[@LucRio448]

Because it's easier on yourself to assume someone is intimidated than someone being annoyed by you. If you are annoying people, that's most likely your fault for being obnoxiously unfunny but thinking you are the funniest person on earth for example. However, if you are INTIMIDATING people because you are just soooo much more funny than them, that's THEIR fault and not yours because one can't blaem you for being more funny than them. Plus, you can only intimidate someone if you are "better" than them in some way and they know it.