Ask Steve: Find Me A Man!

Elaine will meet a guy and the same thing happens every time. They ask her out and have what she thinks is a great time, they ask her out for a second date...and then they never call, no explanation, they just disappear after the first date. They'll magically reappear weeks or months later, acting like nothing happened.
What should Elaine say to these guys when they randomly pop back up into her life?

[@Simplykiebby]

She didn't even stop to take a breath! That's why her dates run away...

[@yagazmwayagaz807]

SimplyKie 😃😃😃😃

[@sophiadent2610]

SimplyKie that is the problem .. talk too much

[@Kryptonopoliscx]

If a guy said this he would get mean comments. True men due like docile women with a good sense of humor , but this lady wants a cake and won't share. Conversations work best when we both talk and listen to each other. Don't be controling be spontaneous men like it to.

[@kandevie]

Looks like a trap

[@sweetman5249]

She is gorgeous. I would definitely date her 🎉

[@nicoladavis6379]

she not only talk too much she is not a good listener or communicator.

[@SuperLuke9999]

She’s super conscious about audiences responses. As we can see that made her anxious. She seems like a genuine person to me.

[@findingnory]

Not sure what you watched. She is a very good listener. Probably too good of one.

[@Apezz19]

Actly no..she just wants attention..like an attention diva..thats all..

[@itsmesandman]

yea, but most girls are like that these days... driven, empowered, men hater at the same time want a life partner lol

[@deficator750]

She keeps talking over steve

[@samiiqbal007]

Steve “this is my show & I can’t get a word” 😂

[@TransformChantel]

LoLLLLL! "Is there anywhere in the date that u stop talking???"

[@victorvaiopoulos2873]

Cracked up laughing when he asked that lol

[@ericbrouet]

Godschild_Channy Obviously she doesn’t stop talking - I’d walk too 🤣

[@traditionalprimitivearcher3561]

So she says no. Then proceeds for the next 15 seconds "no" "no" "no". Jesus girl take a breath.

[@ericbrouet]

Micro Penis Who wants to be with someone like that? I’d leave the date first chance I had 🤣

[@traditionalprimitivearcher3561]

@@ericbrouet I hear that

[@NicholasTJR]

looks like the kinda girl who just wanna argue over anything and won't shut up lol

[@Celisar1]

And she is very, very loud. I only wonder why the men come back.

[@Celisar1]

+Yohannes Feyissa Hm, I cannot find anyone cute who is loud and enervating.

[@peaceandlove544]

Ohhh.

[@sabrinasmith2766]

Maybe she's sleeping with them too early

[@peterparker2981]

Red flag flying sooooo high

[@jomontanee]

I'm a woman but I'm scared of her. Her being so pushy and too much talk are scary. Maybe she's unconsciously unaware of it.

[@jinxterpinxter]

+Montanee jo Im a man and I like her. I think she has a bubbly personality. When you go out with a talkative person like that, there are no awkward silences. The men she has been dating just can't handle it.

[@meika858]

+James Peter true. I love men that love talkative women

[@barremohamed]

+temeika mckee you both can date then

[@meika858]

Lord Jay I can understand that

[@thewhiteheart883]

im a man i like her

[@curious17589]

I was exactly where this young lady is a few years back! I read Steve's books and learned that sometimes you really need to be quiet and let a man talk, even if you don't agree with what he's saying. In those quiet moments once you open your mind up, you see things from their point of view. She's open to advice, so I think she's realizing she has to make changes and that's a good thing.

[@mauricebend8594]

+Mariah B which of the books did you read sister mariah B..i would love to get it for my wife..

[@curious17589]

+maurice bend Hi Maurice I read act like a lady think like a man

[@avesselofhonor]

Mariah B In my experience and observations of the opposite sex that don't want to listen to what a man has to say, I believe is one of the highest forms of emasculation. Also, I have heard many of the opposite sex say we don't have brains and that they are our brains, and Steve perpetuates this ideology by consistently stating that we are stupid.

[@stuartbrown9740]

Cornelius A. Martin Are you insane😂😂😂

[@avesselofhonor]

@@stuartbrown9740 Mr. Brown, Would you mind explaining your question?

[@dilinyertorres02]

Steve is like "thank you so much darling" inner Steve: "you ain't coming back to my show again" lmaoooo

[@kenbrown602]

Her reaction when Steve said he’s gonna get her a man is priceless… I’m glad he can help her

[@darthachref6195]

I don't think he can 😂

[@vitorfernandes651]

As a man I like her. She has personality. She sounds fun. Great smile. Never a bore. I hate women who have nothing to say. The only improvement would be if she wasn’t speaking so loud.

[@LaughingblueSu]

She was probably nervous, voices tend to raise under pressure. Hope she finds a nice guy that is strong.

[@dianaferdinand7546]

She is a great personality, only has to het her match

[@lovereachable]

She's a package deal...hehe....you can't take some of her and want to change the rest of her.

[@steph9123]

I agree, as a quiet female, I actually get along with the opposite of me, so a guy that talks a lot !

[@TheSophisticatedSavage]

She desperate

[@kuur3137]

look at her face when Steve tell her "I'm gonna bring you back on the show to get you a man" then she was like"really?". she was scared, nervous, afraid, excited and happy at the same time. that's how lonely people are.

[@aliviatabb1386]

" "A any point during the date do you stop talking?" "No. No I don't. Never. Nope. No. Uh-uh. NOPE, UH-UH."🙅🏻 Is Sis on a stimulant😂😂

[@kianna2530]

Not a stimulant 😂😭😭

[@apoliticallevi]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lola-mo5sh]

i thought she might have ADHD..

[@Spiderqueen69]

probably just nerves mixed with excitement

[@ericbrouet]

She must be on something - it’s called desperation!

[@MomTheEbayer101]

Looks like Steve is saying she’s to aggressive, talk to much and that could possibly be her problem. 🤔

[@primitivochapa7837]

Possibly????? No guy wants that

[@simpleutil]

Yes, a woman should be a little bit softer..

[@stevec3526]

She comes off as masculine and not feminine. Men do not care for that.

[@RimSportsTv]

Probaly

[@yasminhabibti721]

@@simpleutil A woman should simply be herself.

[@JuanitaMichelle]

she reminds me of my bff. great girl. smart. friendly. but she does the same thing this girl is doing. trips over herself talking.

[@kennishabell8315]

Excited ☺️

[@crohunter100]

BFF? What decade is this?

[@xoupi2808]

@@crohunter100 🤣

[@malvernianmazorodze121]

kinda crazy right.

[@Netherwolf6100]

You could see it on his face when he thought "That's the problem." Wow. Nothing wrong with being passionate but you gotta let others talk sometimes.

[@jugy4656]

I love her, right away Steve could tell she was exciting, alive and spontaneous enough to put her on the show again. She has great energy and obviously knows what she wants, and like all men who just want to sleep with her, they realize she is going to be hard work not some easy, clingy girl. If you can't see the worth right away in this young girl, you still haven't learnt about the finer things in life.

[@LeMerch]

I 100% agree. She is very similar to my wife. She was very hard work when we met.. I remember thinking she's crazy haha but we've been married 15 years and happier than ever so I trusted my gut feeling and fell madly in love with the most amazing, energetic, smart and beautiful woman of my dreams!

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

Slow 👏🏻 clapping 👏🏻 Sloooww 👏🏻 clapping 👏🏻👏🏻 !!!! 🤣🤣🤣☠ absolutely!

[@starryskies9655]

I’d absolutely love to see the second part of this, love this lady

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

I love her too!!! She's the absolute cutest!! And I can relate on such a deep level!! Hahah

[@gordita878]

She is pushy that's the problem

[@467076]

marilyn She’s “independent” 😂you can’t win with these woman.

[@harrybae1r729]

5yrs ago

[@stacythefancybogan4543]

my hubby chimed in half way through saying "guys call back to see if you've learned" 2minutea after Steve did! its friggen true lmfao

[@suzys8558]

Tell him to have a talk show as well. We need one since apparently Steve is gonna be taken off the air... 🤔🤔

[@Chiego08]

Suzy S why is he taken off d air ?

[@Dizzinator2114]

chiza onyenekwu from what I hear it basically because he was making power moves behind the scenes with another company, so they decided to take him off air, but from my understanding the show will continue, just not on the station it normally airs on. However time will tell.

[@betterbodies4u]

Most men like women to be soft and gentle that's how you win our hearts .

[@SimpleBeautyServices]

Sam Fitt unless they have a fluffy outside to make their soft and gentle personality, then you don’t want us

[@AFGhan420]

@@SimpleBeautyServices Then you hit the gym

[@909smutty]

@@SimpleBeautyServices some of us do love the chunky ones

[@brett8460]

This girl has the personality of an alpha male and it's not working.

[@Kheira20]

@@AFGhan420 🤣

[@jacobsama818]

that's why they just disappear from her life, cause she talks way to much and it's so annoying because she says the same sentence but in a different way for like over 5 times😂😂

[@lisakanyambuu5550]

Hitting the nail on the head.so annoying indeed 😂😂😂

[@karlatrujillo4213]

Steve makes me laugh so hard, this man is hilarious 🤣🤣😂

[@dubbydub9245]

Stop LOOKING for A man. Start WAITING for THE man. A first date isn't about declaring what you ultimately want in the end. It's about learning about who the person is in front of you.

[@craigso_wavvy3098]

Steve “anywhere in the date do you stop talking “

[@valcor7]

Maybe that's why the guys leave her. Chatterbox!

[@marksmales2204]

Does this woman ever stop talking? LOL

[@blahblahblah3722]

im guessing you want a mute instead of an equal partner...

[@mintruth]

It is not about desiring a mute but it is about BALANCE. If you ALWAYS talking it is IMPOSSIBLE to LISTEN. If you do not listen, you will NEVER get to know your date. Your DATE Will also NEVER get to know you. Some people talk too little and others talk too much. KNOWING when to SPEAK and when to LISTEN is the KEY...#GIVEmeJESUS #HISremnant

[@marksmales2204]

Mr. GiveMeJESUS Eddings Ok I'll give you that one. 😊

[@veng3r663]

Question, HOW can something that is weaker BE equal to that which it is inferior TO ?? Mentally & spiritually speaking...

[@jdd5886]

And she wonders why they disappear 😂

[@DestinyC1020]

I had only watched 15 seconds of the video and immediately I thought to myself: "She's probably coming on a bit too strong on her dates with men..." Steve hit the nail on the head...as did a lot of people in the comments section. I think she is being a bit too aggressive on her dates. She would do well to lighten up a bit, maybe ease up on the talking, maybe speak a little slower and calmer, and not come across as aggressive. Just turning it down a NOTCH would probably help her love life a LOT!

[@andrewmoon26]

man this girl is persistent

[@immortalsatyr]

persistent MoonLight fan all around :))))

[@dianpowell6416]

I think this girl is serious and knows what she wants and just straight forward about it and the guys just can't deal with her boldness.

[@chukwudiilozue9171]

Probably better than wasting four years again.

[@benjaminetim3350]

She talks too much

[@Buglife59]

O boy she never Shut Up😀😀😀

[@Phantom6lack]

Benjamin Etim the power of stfu women need to understand that.

[@ShadoWafel]

I imagine her brain recursively goes like: > receiving input >input type: criticism > analyzing criticism... >Criticism analyzed: key findings: possible internal problem >getting possible solutions... >ERROR 20: unable to find library 'taking-responsibility' in internal memory. >aborting program...

[@erikagreene7890]

This is so funny! Lol, I may be in there somewhere!! That's really good!

[@yvonnesishuwa7500]

Hilarious😂😂😂

[@rodneyram5172]

Underrated comment🤣🤣🤣😂

[@EliGovernor]

Hahahaha this comment went right over millions of heads

[@ritzypremiumfoodsdrinks5095]

“If you don’t like it, WALK” “They’re Walking”😁

[@carableu]

I don’t think she realizes how strong she comes across...

[@maylynbayani]

Why is she talking like she's in an argument?

[@Amaranthos2]

I'm a bit late here but Steve is timeless so here goes anyway: In terms of a job interview, no boss from any job worth having would ever hire her. She may think she's ready and qualified for the job, but as a potential employer listening intently for certain cues and flags, she simply comes off as desperate for a job. No good boss will ever ever hire "desperate." She even describes herself as "driven" and "I know what I want," which she says is a result of being in a bad relationship in the past for four years. Assuming that's true, all this here is just whiplash from that and every guy she meets gets treated the way she wished she would have treated that old ex. 100% understandable, but also 100% unacceptable and unfair.

[@theophilusniilamptey8519]

Every man is born a warrior, as his woman, you have to stand by him. If you stand to face him, he feels you are against him!

[@ericbrouet]

OMG!!! I'm exhausted just listening to her, no wonder the men just run away!

[@Player1ZW]

I met a girl like her in October, I went away and came around in November and went away again, the girl was aggressive, she wants things done her way like yesterday. Steve is right

[@wyntamaxwell2766]

HAHAHAHAHAHA. Did you go back in Dec 2020 and will you be going back Jan 2021

[@jindrichsander9555]

@@wyntamaxwell2766 Probably

[@farah9583]

Am i the only person that think she’s adorable ? I don’t think she talks too much she just knows what she wants and that usually scare men.

[@tesivila407]

Louder for the people in the back 🙌🏿

[@ladennayoung2939]

She just have an annoying personality to me.

[@Arkane117]

Girls know what they don’t want, but they don’t know what they want. And women gotta stop saying men are “scared” as an excuse. Men are not “scared”! He just didn’t like you. It’s not complicated.

[@arronmulunga8842]

Steves face at the end is priceless😃😃😃

[@tobubirole3097]

Watching this for 100th time and still smiling. Who's this beautiful lady? Expression queen

[@joaopaulob80]

This man did the funniest faces on your program !!! Lol

[@ronaldreagan388]

Please Steve like... don't put another guy through that hell lol

[@michaelnwankwo2079]

That's the problem right there! She can't stop talking. Runs all the men off with her endless talks.

[@kianna2530]

She talks soo so much😭😭 “they walking” Steve kills me😂

[@ursulavirgilio3288]

"Its been rough seriously"😂 she's something

[@yulianaa8776]

🤣🤣🤣 By Far This Is ONE Of My Favorites

[@467076]

She looks like type of girl who sits in class with her bag of takis and starts munching away 😂

[@ladynottingham89]

This reminds me of Christopher Titus' love is evil stand up. Sometimes when you've been burned before you become overly sensitive. Any little thing sets her off, she needs to analyze the guy like a specimen but not let it show. She is pushy

[@chinwemejang]

I love how she rolls her eyes😂😂

[@philipkojohinson4089]

Did anyone get the line where she said anything she wants, she goes for it? Let the guys hunt you and let them talk, not you.

[@Brian-ij8ti]

she even scares me, and im just on the phone watching

[@rrina5354]

This was everything! Cant stop laughing

[@xxk4rilsxx]

As soon as she said “I read all your books” I knew she was cray

[@wisdom47397]

Poor Steve... it's too bad he couldn't say:" it's your demeanor lady "...🤣

[@w8nc82]

Where can i find the episode where she comes back for a date? I gota see that!! Pls.....

[@themthatcanthearmustfeel8115]

Why is everyone obsessed with getting a man

[@cookiegirl891]

Debbie let’s be real life is better when we have a good one by our side

[@sugarspice3797]

Debbie I don't understand either

[@97cmassey]

Right I hate how we have to please everyone. It’s very respectful to be considerate of other people but they also need to appreciate who you are and treat you with respect.

[@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823]

Young and stupid. Masking biology.

[@an_impasse]

I understand wanting a romantic partner but if you start feeling like you need one, then yeah, you have a problem you should address.

[@keino111689]

I see why they are walking away. She's coming on too intense, she's talking too much, she's cutting them off, she's insinuating that she wants it her way(because she wasted time in last relationships) and it probably feels like an interview on a date with her.

[@pabielaminjabbijabbi3445]

She is a very good good lady.... Wish me and her all the best of luck in life and love ❤️💯

[@abdihodaan]

She needs to practice to be good listener, not only the date but on the phone too texts etc, she will be allright if she stick with that.

[@ShiaGirl18]

That happened to me once! 😄 I'm laughing at myself.

[@jessicadillard9180]

4:08-4:10. Took the words right out of my mouth.

[@mexicanboxingkartel8283]

This is THE woman of my dreams I'm soooooo in love 🥰 I love her energy SHE is so alive and beautiful, God bless her 💖

[@Mellelllen]

Whew! I'm exhausted just watching this woman! I'm a Mental Health Professional and listening to people is my job...

[@Chicharito413]

Love her energy

[@Pharaohdefowl]

Thsts why her dates goes bad bc she won't ✋ yacking. Lmao 😂😂😂😂😂

[@abdullahimsaleh89]

3:52 is when Steve realize why they don’t call back

[@kpjlflsknflksnflknsa]

The likelihood of her revising this behaviour is infinitesimal.

[@JoyFoolActs2035]

She rolled her eyes when she said we have a great time. Makes me believe she's the problem. Maybe her expectations are way too high so she's not really having a good time and they sense that and decide to no longer waste their time.

[@bm.h9268]

Where can I find the episode where she goes on A date??? Plzzzz tell me

[@mosesgondahreeves3102]

She can't even give Mr. Harvey a chance to take

[@shellyannemerson1536]

Steve ewey time I look your shows I just ctack up so loud you just made my day she is quite a talker but she is just full if a guy just get a chance to get into her.

[@GetTheGrandFunkOut]

This girl's trying to bond with pickups with which she has nothing in common, and her first-date "requirements" for a man keep running them off!

[@zimmerman630]

Does anyone know the link to that date?

[@cal31BRIAN23]

shes just not their first option. and when they run out of options they come back to her

[@easeondowntheroad7158]

Yeah Steve gonna get you a date ……but he’s gonna warn him first 🤣

[@elhbailodiallo2629]

Its my show I can't get a word in! Lol

[@jami1love]

Exactly why the men run for the hills after the first date!! Wow!

[@jackie7796]

This girl should be on a talk show! The way she talks so real is adorable

[@huthayfaainqawi4348]

Why don't tell her the truth Steve, Those guys don't find her attractive and only get back to her when they don't find some other girls

[@StevenGarcia118]

Me: Reads the title. Also Me: Lady, I'm right here.

[@joanneclarke4226]

See why they say...."Balance in ALL things in life is good".....my goodness....

[@AnUnkindnessofCrows]

She ran Steve away. She's good at that.

[@bluebellcrushedvelvet]

Hahahahaha I'm legit belly laughing!!! I love her!!! She's the cutest!! And I can TOTALLY relate to the goddamn PAINS of singleton and dating these 'hefa' men 😩😩😩🤣🤣🤣☠ This is possibly the BEST segment of steve I have EVER SEEN!!!!

[@allanjohnson8139]

Watching from the UK your fantastic and funny 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍keep up the fantastic work and keep safe

[@rachelmoten2424]

This girl will argue w somebody for DAYS! lol where is the follow up episode?? I want to see it😂

[@shaimaahegazy3809]

Find me a man too Steve

[@TheWilDOn31]

It would be exhausting for me to have a friend like that.. Even if she seems like a great girl. I can imagine men thinking on a date with her "I could never live with this." I have stopped talking to guys who were all over the place and talking all the time because I knew I wouldn't feel good being around that all the time.

[@jakjan6768]

Lol

[@angelahunt5486]

Steve Harvey is the Dr. Of love

[@jamiadixon331]

what happen to the follow up?

[@kristvanbeston6893]

Who believe the shoe needs to end by Steve saying: *_THATS WHY YOU STILL SINGLE_*

[@aboutdoorsman4695]

She won’t STFU because she is uncomfortable with silence. This is indicative of a larger issue. She needs to learn at a minimum to enjoy being alone before she can enjoy being with others. And by alone I don’t mean with her phone or other electronic devices, I mean truly alone with just her thoughts. I’d bet there is chaos in her head.

[@hlmeans]

She is pretty but she talks AH LOT lol maybe that's why the guys disappear 😂😂

[@megshimatsu8615]

She's not pretty, pushy and obnoxious.....

[@karthikeyan1152]

If Steve had a chance he would have disappear.....

[@rj-qv6xn]

Just as i said that Steve says. Do you ever stop talking... OMG..he was so polite to her.. .

[@patriciagurwitz509]

I think if the guys that Steve Harvey wants to get on the show to meet her… If they saw this show, no one would come. She’s nuts😅

[@tonyminority1510]

I love her 😍 she's funny

[@BOBISMCHANNEL]

4:12 .. hire comes 10 different NO...

[@jonnie-lee3953]

Had me laughing so hard laughing so hard.....

[@billsonsatake2585]

big mouth & really aggressive lol that's why u got none sweet lady

[@ni3070]

Follow up episode?