This Horse pretends to be brave!!

[@junemarsh3050]

Soppy old thing that I am, I cried at the end of that video! What a fabulous success.

[@gaildrake5940]

Steve your kindness to that the owner about her weight did not go unnoticed. Not only are you an amazing trainer but your professionalism and kindness are unmatched.

[@ginettevincent1824]

love the actual scene of where the reoccurring issue is occurring. True to life. Great job everyone

[@kihntagious]

I love that you respectfully addressed the weight issue. She loves riding and whether shes too heavy is not for anyone but her and her horse trainer to determine. Im so happy shes thinking ahead and with hope for her horses. If anyone could help, its Steve and Tanya. Again , I support them because of the important role they selflessly fill in Britain and that fact that they are so funny!

[@rightasrain7949]

Yes, that's an issue for the horse too I would have thought. Brave of Carly to take that into account and be willing to make a change.

[@pop867]

Try the Lion diet. It works.

[@ashleighcarlson2445]

You want to have safe horses and great experiences. How many people are happier and safer because of you. What a blessing you are to others and your horses! Most of all to share these videos so others can learn to train in a calm kind manner! Crack on, I say!

[@sophieforkel6547]

The best was hearing that Will was the bravest horse in the group when Carly went out to ride with her friends. Such a boost to self confidence for both of them.❤

[@cherylyoung440]

❤ loved watching them

[@spiderkiller64]

I just want to thank Carly for letting you put this video out into the world. Some laughs and lots of courage.

[@inkedtoo1097]

Lol! In my life I've never seen a horse sit down to refuse something. Poor guy lol. So cute.

[@yvt5535]

I am a fellow horsetrainer for 30 years and love watching. I learn new stuff every video, especially about timing and patience. Let's make the world better for those horses around us by helping and life long learning. Thank you Steve, Tanya, Charlotte and especially Carly for being real!

[@browniewin4121]

Kudos to Carly for putting herself out there, and for seeking the help she knew was needed. Glad to hear she is turning things around, doing and feeling better. Please, please, please, wear a helmet when on your bike, if an accident should happen, all it takes is one good thump to your head and a brain injury would mean your life would never be the same.

[@abe7608]

Carli- 5 ☆ student! Will now 5 ☆ horse. Steve what can I say-🎉 Kudos! Your care and expertise have created a new "team" who can both go on and safely explore new roads ahead. Enjoy the journey Carli and Will!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉! Job well done!👍❤

[@jayneterry8701]

🪖👍

[@madeleinedonaldson4422]

I just love all the videos and the transformations.Steve you've taught us so much.Horses are amazing God bless your whole family💝🙏💝

[@kidstuff44555]

It's crazy how people put a saddle on and get on top of horses who can't even cope with a rope or a stick waving at them. Walk before you can run, people. I wouldn't dare get on a horse that spooked at a simple rope over his back... imagine how dangerous it could be if something blew against the horse, or your jacket slipped against him, or a stirrup broke, or a branch caught in the saddle, or any number of things happened while riding.

[@glitterprincess5672]

This was one of my favorite videos yet!! ❤❤

[@sufarnlacher6863]

Dear Steve & family, I can't tell you how much I appreciate your loving kindness to all beings. I've loved horses my entire life but have never owned one. I watch your videos because they are incredibly uplifting. You are indeed a soul rescuer! Su Ann from the States.

[@loisjanssen2730]

So beautiful to see how this horse is gently been guided through its fears and bit by bit gains more and more selfconfidence !

[@lizgarland2241]

Such a happy ending. Steve you are a joy to watch. Lucky horse 🇮🇪💚☘️

[@jessiehodgson5211]

That's awesome you gave Carli and will a new life.

[@kailand3056]

Steve, Will is such a beautiful boy - he’s going to mature into a wonderful riding companion for Carly❣️ This episode is especially interesting because Will’s problem is being fearful, which is very different from some of the defiant, dominant horses you’ve worked with in other videos. I felt such sympathy for him - I just melted when he sat down in the ravine.

[@irljacinta]

Heartwarming, I wish all horses were helped how Steve and his team….Tanya, Charlotte, James and Dan support each other which translates to caring about the horses, donkeys, mules and dogs …😅 while also giving owners/riders skills and confidence but also BELIEF when often hope has gone. A very rare and very special natural affinity they share with horses and people while being honest and mindful when the difficult assessments present with difficult suggestions. It warms my heart to see.

[@jokic9347]

Thank you, Carla, Im a plus sized person, and I commend you for showing that we can ride. Big thank you to you, Steve, and your family for your support of Carla. ❤❤❤

[@josiemainecoon]

You may be able to ride being overweight, but the question is should you? It can be detrimental to the horses long term health issues! You can do a lot of damage to a horses spine!

[@FamilySmith]

@@josiemainecoon Average weight and underweight persons can do a lot of damage to a horse's spine (overall health, really) as well, depending on their level of knowledge, how well their horses are cared for, the equipment/tack they use, and how they train/reward, and ostensibly...punish. Bottom line, it's like anything else. The right equipment, training knowledge, care, size to weight ratio, and love for the horse and rider should be considered.

[@diannemcgowan1045]

Your family is so sensitive and caring. You and Tanya, Charlotte and James must be so proud of all you've accomplished, making a massive difference in people's lives. Carla is kind and caring and obviously loves her horse 💕

[@minmin91187]

Very inspirational.

[@Boyland8692]

I always stand by if you don’t have anything nice to say don’t say anything. Congrats to all involved you all put and outstanding amount of care, knowledge and love into your horses and what’s best for them. 🤩🤩🤩🤩👏👏👏👏🇦🇺🇦🇺

[@AppaloosaDreams]

Such a cool video of courage and triumph, for all💗☺🐎😊💗

[@vanessasworder]

Love this channel …❤

[@YewTher]

I never comment but I can't resist, this video was so uplifting. Kudos to Carlie, what a beautiful life! Don't be discouraged, you are living the dream! A beautiful place to live and ride, lovely, smart horses and wonderful friends. I always come to Steve Young Horsemanship when I need a lift to my spirits. And Steve, thank you for including the hobbit houses. We have so few of them in North Carolina 😊

[@denisepacetti4559]

Another amazing video! Carlie was brave, determined and confident. Will just needed some professional guidance from you, Steve, to gather up his confidence too. You made it all come together for a girl who really loves her horse and a horse who loves her back. God bless you and bravo and applause to Carlie and Will. 👍🥰 P.S. Luv you, Charlotte, and thank you for your help too. 🤗

[@heatherbartlett6788]

Wow what a difference you have made (as usual) that horse has now got a great future without being so frightened. Loved this Steve and Charlotte thank you so much. Been away no internet so loving the catch up 😊❤

[@jaynellewellyn7628]

Hi Steve, I used to be slim, and rode a Shire cross Cob, whom I loved!! I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis in 2002, and due to the side-effects of the drugs and my mobility problems, I gained weight, I can no longer ride due to lack of control in my lower legs and my weight. I have had adverse comments made. I have a hidden disability, so Carly I send you my sympathy and love. People, you need to think how your comments affect others, it does not help! Thank you Steve for all that you do😀

[@louisegogel7973]

Blessings on your journey! I believe diet has a huge influence on getting out of what you have been going through. I hope you find what works to help you fully heal!!

[@nancychapman3132]

I agree with the fact that many, many people have a “hidden disability” and people on the outside looking in think that they have all the information and form a judgement based on just what they see. That is a sad way to view the world and others. I think that judgement gets us nothing really whereas seeking to learn something almost always bears fruit.

[@questioneverything9535]

Carla is brave. I wish her the best of luck with her horse and her health. This is coming from someone who has struggled with weight gain from stress and horse and human health issues.

[@myrnaedmisten599]

Really wonderful to see confidence building in both Carly and her horses! Well done!

[@isadorasmith6320]

Thank you Steve and the rest of your team, for being passionate, not only for the horses but for the owners

[@forrestfey]

It is so important to build the confidence of a horse.

[@RWelsh-ro9gb]

He looks RELIEVED to not be so scared. The leadership is what makes him feel better.

[@questioneverything9535]

It is a new start for Carla and her horse. Well done Steve, Carla, Charlotte and Tanya!

[@aliceskewthorpe8991]

An amazing video... Thank you for the special intro... This brave girl, is in the best place... loving, caring friends... and horses I believe can be our healing journey... and best of all... Horses help us find ourselves... Blessings to all ❤

[@DallasNatureLover]

Huge respect for Carly for 1 - asking that this video be shared and 2- not letting depression keep her away from horses.

[@annecasillas5402]

Beautiful. Carlie, you are so brave and really have a beautiful future with Will! Thanks Steve and Family and Friends for being such a balanced, respectful and loving presence in the world. 💜💜💜💜

[@maggiemant3409]

The best family , people, horse people EVER, so kind and compassionate, I love you guys. Fab video thank you ❤❤

[@sarahjensen8095]

Carla you’re beautiful inside and out! I would have been so scared to have my horse sit like that. Your bravery and determination was brilliant to see. So proud of you and your horse❤️

[@edwinawareing2395]

A lovely post for gorgeous Carly , beautiful, kind words.❤

[@dianajones8598]

Hi Steve and Tanya.!! God bless you and your family and keep you safe. I look forward to seeing your videos, I've learned so much. Hi from USA.

[@joykiser6673]

He is one beautiful horse! ❤

[@milliestrachan2632]

Agree with you if you do not have anything good to say please keep quiet. ❤

[@lindanorton4958]

Loved this one. Seemed so much more real. This is the stuff we deal with out in the real world all the time.

[@colleensmith6636]

Thanks!

[@brianswinscoe5412]

I really do agree with you . If you can say something positive don’t say it . Thank you for your brilliant videos.Eileen

[@epona9166]

I haven't even watched the video yet but already rooting for Carly (Karly?). I have such huge admiration for people who put themselves out there so other people can learn. What a gift! Thank you and good luck!! ❤

[@Lil_Nuggles]

"He's calm. He sorta just plants his feet" LOL That made me laugh with you and your dad, Charlotte! 💕

[@Petra-beta]

She raised this horse since a baby did she say? and yet he seems like a rescue, that needs A LOT of work. Poor thing.😔

[@maemae4909]

It’s really sad. The poor horse is terrified of everything. You would think he was a rescue who lived a horrible life… by how he acts. I hope Steve can spend more time with him or refer her to a good trainer so she can learn how to care for a horse properly. Breaks my heart how scared he is of everything he encounters.

[@kristiwetsel9531]

He was at a trainers being trained for a year ? Never know how they where with him . Mom's so soft with him to and hes looking for guidance

[@jillking5876]

Another wonderful video, Steve. You helped Will to understand that the fear he had was not based on anything real. Once he conquered his fears, he kept that success and was able to lead other horses who had the same fears he'd had. Totally amazing! I write on the Quora forum often, and when I get questions about horse training, I mention your channel, and hope that the querants follow through and watch your videos. You are a superb teacher.

[@dove-1234]

Willy, wont he????? YES HE WILL!!!!!!!! Made me cry when you said Will led the way through the boggy marsh at the end, bloody marvellous! Carli and Will are a fantastic team who trust and have confidence in each other all thro your wisdom and brave tender strong guidance Steve . As for little ‘stroppy sox!’’’ Hes coming along a treat for Carli’s brave young son, I wish all youngsters would be as brave and determined as he is. They make a champion pair. This could be my fav video. Bless all of you on four legs, two or sitting on yer bum in a muddy puddle! (Not you Steve). Hoorah!!!!

[@louisegogel7973]

I love that pun … willy wonty… will he wont he. lol Awesome your whole comment btw.

[@petsforsale]

Huge well done to the owner and her horse, so brave, I wouldn't have been so brave. :-) x

[@sharonmacanley4591]

Another great video Steve. Lovely to see horses and their owners getting through their challenges 😀

[@jadam-2024]

Good job young lady. Get better everyday, that’s all you can do.

[@katemaree5826]

Oh my, that was just the best 🎉🎉🎉 I had the biggest smile on my face for most of that. You are absolutely a wonderful trainer Steve. I have learnt so much from watching your videos. You are such a wonderful man. God Bless you and your wonderful family. Well done to Char on this one too and wasn't Carlie just a champion 🎉 fabulous all round guys 👏👏👏

[@debbiehollis5711]

I know its not funny but I did start laughing when he sat down .Bit like a Thellwell cartoon.Thankyou for helping this lady she's lovely.

[@mrsdashwood9700]

Not really seeing the humor watching a poor defenseless animal in obvious distress. Wow.

[@louisegogel7973]

I get what you mean! It does look a bit funny seeing a horse sit like a human, even though the fear of the horse is the part that is not funny. I think the horse might look back and think his sitting was funny after he figured out how lovely the stream and cool mud were if he could see the video clip of that in a year when he’s even more confident.

[@helenrider4279]

Wow, what courage both Carly and Will have! To push past boundaries off camera is one thing but to share your journey on camera is quite another. I applaud your achievements. ❤

[@gailmadsenclayton1769]

As someone who loves to ride smaller horses. My farriers have told me that if your balance is good, you can fudge on the weight limits a little. Carla looks like she has great balance! And as you said she’s just walking. And her boy is going to grow. 😊😊😊

[@louisegogel7973]

❤❤ I just learned a new perspective from what you said here! And it makes such good sense that balance is key for being able to handle weight. When I carry a child, esp if they are a weight that is at the edge of my capacity, on my back and they start shifting all over the place, it puts a lot of strain on my back. Very interesting! Maybe we human aught to try having a pretend rider on our backs which or who is in good balance and then shifts around so we really know what we feel like to the horses? It would have certainly been helpful when I was first learning about horses.

[@forrestfey]

From what I understand there is research done that say that weight of the rider is less of a problem for the horse if the rider is experienced and have good balance. (Also the built of the horse matters. A short back is better.)

[@elisabethalvarez-fager6669]

This video was important to me. I too am overweight and had rude people tell me what did I think I could with a horse because of my weight. It really hurt me because I love horses and I suffer from anxiety and they calm me. Thank you for this video. Thank you Carly.

[@nancychapman3132]

I’m glad Steve said “How funny!” when Will parked his haunches on the bank there! I couldn’t agree more! lol 😂 and like another person commented, in all my life I have never seen a horse sit down, on purpose, out of fear to go forward! Really Will has quite the personality I would be willing to bet. And Carlie you will do beautifully with him! Thank you so much for telling Steve to put the video out there! This has been one of my very favorites!! Charlotte you did not go unnoticed either. You get “Best Supporting Actress”! Blessings to you all!

[@Freeandokay]

Horse is beautiful and his wellbeing is first.

[@Petra-beta]

I don’t know how anyone can say she is too large to ride. And no one has any business commenting on it anyway. You see horses and donkeys even carrying loads on them, in addition to the person, all the time, all across the world. I think she just lacks a lot of experience and confidence in herself, so she is running into a lot of problems. This should help a lot of novice horse owners. Props to her for allowing it to be shared to help others❤

[@Stardust_Truth_Seeker]

It looks like the horse was collapsing under the weight of the woman. Perhaps a larger more girthy horse would be more suitable. It's because of concern for the horses welfare that people comment so it's not really that difficult to understand why anyone would be concerned looking at the weight of the woman and the size and build of the horse

[@Stardust_Truth_Seeker]

Every pound that is added to a horse puts strain on the horse's back. Too much weight can cause rub-sores from the saddle, strained muscles, and pinching of nerves. Permanent damage such as a “sway back” or deteriorated muscle function can even occur over time.

[@honeymgswtrancehealer7936]

Way to go Carly putting yourself out there much love to you & good on you for calling on Steve for help, he's amazing & well done Steve for yet another awesome video 👍🤗

[@myhappygecko2895]

She rode all of that horses spokes so well and she clearly is a very good rider. Also love her knitted sheep hat!!! Lovely video.

[@rennaehanson9996]

Well done Steve!! You changed both of their lives! That is just awesome!

[@joannsmith9]

Happy trails! We love you guys!

[@gaynor7947]

No malice at all from the horse ❤ Hey its hilarious when he sits down, aww bless him. You are all amazing with the horses ❤❤❤❤❤

[@bookmouse2719]

Saw that you put up a vid and was so excited! Love your videos.

[@river1790]

Carly I’m sure you and Will be just fine together. Thank you for being brave enough to have this filmed. Would love to see an update in a year or so. You’ll be the dynamic duo.

[@lisamclain2549]

Steve, you are a superhero! What a pleasure it is to see these horses blossom in front of our eyes due to your courage and hard work. Thanks much to you and your fantastic team. And bravo to Carly. She is absolutely lovely.

[@jackywilliamson333]

Although I don't have a horse now my daughter has just bought a youngster very much l ike to try some of these moves out on him to get his confidence and build on his trust. Learning how to be gentle but firm at the same time you are truly an inspiration to us all and it just shows that you don't have to use pain or be forceful to get what you ask. Thankyou for teaching us to be gentle and patient

[@firstnamelastname-uq9hr]

Definitely one of the best vids , i thoroughly enjoyed it from start to end,what a result too!! Carlie was brill and really got her stuff together, her little boy came good too.Carlie is not too big for her boy just to ride out at walk and trot for an short rides to build up his and her muscles,she will loose weight riding often anyway,and will help so much stop those awful dark times, i think she is self aware of her weight just as i am, i am in exactly the same scenario, but speaking as a horse physio as long as she keeps things short and build up to longer hacks over months and doesn't go hunting or three day eventing, yet, i think all will come together.If she has any concerns always speak to the vet of course.Steve as usual you have addressed so many concerns for them both as a team, you and Charlotte are so funny everyone is happy once again, well done.

[@louisegogel7973]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@sidilicious11]

Absolutely a pleasure watching their progress.

[@kathyblooflat7217]

Well done! Once again, the difference you have made to that horse and his owner is amazing. Blessings to your family!

[@law7897]

Well done Steve. What a beautiful horse. Carly should be very proud of him and herself xx

[@susied.3376]

Nothing Negative I’m here to learn. Steve and Tanya you two do a great job. Thank you.

[@forsythia33]

I love your videos! Regarding the mud and water, sometimes horses have more sense than we do about riding on strange surfaces! What is it with people who want to run around in all kinds of weather on all kinds of mucky, slippery, noisy and rough surfaces? I was out once with my husband, he on my old sensible but opinionated mare, and me on an Amish-trained mare who had been taught to obey whatever was asked without question. Our old mare refused to cross a large puddle on a dirt farm road. I thought she was being ridiculous, so I asked my Amish mare to go first, and she leapt forward into the puddle, which turned out to be a huge deep hole full of murky water which we had to scramble for our lives to get out of, while old sensible mare laughed at us.

[@MsDormy]

Handsome horse! All the very best to Carly for a fab future with him. God bless true horse lovers!! ❤️

[@parisdevine8553]

Thanks guys this one was awesome . The owner was so brave and really wanted to help her horse beautiful to see bought a tear to my eye the end of the story that he became the leader !💕🇦🇺🐴

[@jaynedutton8011]

Brilliant stuff 🎉❤

[@jeannetteparry5587]

To see a horse sitting down like a dog was extraordinary - I didn't know they even COULD! So glad he got over it, and more. Amazing that he actually led the way for the other horses in the end!!! Carley was brilliant how she followed instructions and got there with distinction. Well done, Steve, Carley, Charlotte, William and even cheeky Socks!

[@frdmbe9258]

Karla/Carla, thx you for sharing this video with me. You are perfect, whole & complete.

[@krisseamons3358]

Thanks from Idaho

[@elizabethfrank2213]

Wonderful xx

[@celticminstral6511]

Excellent video!! Spot on Team. Good to see you helping horses in the 'real' world. I'm a mature rider now. ( 'Been doing your groundwork with my new pony!) . I find it has really helped my mare understand that I control her legs also when being ridden. It's so satisfying building the bond with her. This video really is a cracker!! Love it! Love it!! xx

[@rofiahcrawford3250]

Wonderful video, lots and lots of training! Full of everything! Awesome for Carly. Well done, brave girl!

[@mldufault9399]

Great learning, great results! We all have stressful situations & responses -- caring owner - you cared for your horse & you are making a difference!😎 My best to you 🤎🐎🤎💯

[@lsdev4229]

Well done Karlie! Thanks Steve and Charlotte, Great video❤, Sharon.

[@RWelsh-ro9gb]

My Mum always said to us kids, "If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all." I in turn taught it to my daughter. Its great advice for all of us; just think how different it would be if everyone followed that maxim!

[@gailratliff7592]

Great Video and kudos to Carly. She did great. So glad you were able to help her baby and her. Can't wait for the next video. Thank you Steve, Charlotte and Carly.

[@janiceblacow1728]

What a lovely video and a wonderful owner ,I really enjoyed that

[@normanwhiteheed7464]

What a video.charlote your dads a genius.the ground work broke the camels back.well done Carly . thanks guys for the video.take care ❤

[@nancyk3615]

I love that little guy! He's so cute! You've got this! Carla is a damn good rider!

[@sarahrochester2561]

That is such a good video you can see how scared will was at the start but once he realised he can do things and survive he came on leaps and bounds, also will was a spitting image of my horse sole Glad you worked through the problems carly can now enjoy her horse more great video loved it

[@lovebug9125]

Absolutely love watching you work! Amazing how Will just needed that push for confidence, he was super lovely otherwise! Socks is an adorable little one as well

[@lyncheeseman]

Love watching your videos. I think Carly was brave herself as she seemed a little unsure at times. Steve you get the trust from them

[@SG-gk1jn]

Every time I watch a new video I think it's the best so far.......and then you do another and then that's the best. Your integrity and respect shines through every step of the way. It's wonderful!! Are you coming back to Dorset area this year? I loved attending the Portland demo xx

[@louisegogel7973]

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[@8621Charro]

I absolutely LOVE that you did "real world" training with Will!! Not many trainers would do that, IMHO!

[@doreenwilson138]

Wow great video. Glad that you were able to help with this horses fear

[@HollyJordan15]

I just loved this. Giving people & their horses more confidence to enjoy the world 👏👏 Carla is lovely & her horse is stunning.

[@heidipeters7174]

I think that is great that you guys are so positive and totally agree with “ If you can’t say anything nice, then don’t say anything at all! My Nan always said that, and it stuck! I think Carla is lovely. The fact she has been through so many struggles and is doing her best for her horse is awesome! And well done to her! for giving up smoking😊 great video guys!!!❤❤❤

[@louisegogel7973]

And she has such an awesome light sense of humor, it was a joy for me to listen to her!