Stop Accepting Less, Act Like More

[@inneralignmenteducation]

Leveling up is an inside job. You can be a 10 looks, but if you have no confidence or poise, you have NOTHING.

[@keke8880]

Sure. But we can't ignore the reality that looks are super important in society. Its awful and wrong but people who others don't think are attractive suffer immeasurably because of how others ignore them or mistreat them

[@girlnextdoor2836]

Very true.I’m not very beautiful but l use my poise and act like lm a 10.Most of my girlfriends who are actual 10s try to destroy me and get jealous because they feel like lm not that pretty but l always get more than they do.

[@AFFTFOMSICHTS]

This is the truth. Looks mean nothing without self esteem. This was the story of my life until I realized i had no self esteem and that’s why I had all the problems I was having in life. I know many beautiful women who still haven’t woken up to the fact that don’t have self esteem.

[@dg-qn5mi]

@@keke8880 exactly!!!!!

[@calvinriver9834]

@@ScientificAnomalies876 Many people in the world unfortunately, believe that attractive (beautiful) people have perfect lives and have it all together. I get compliments ever so often on you're so pretty & tall. I've been treated badly by insecure trolls in the workplace out of jealousy,churches, and social settings with some insecure wives of some has been.... who's always in some state of "cocky lustful eye".. We do not have it easy. The losers/dusties who try to approach are many. Some of the men who are into me are married,while others try to insult by remarks "She's a gold digger" lol..

[@liorasitelman1856]

I’m tired of accepting crumbs. I deserve an entire cake. If you settle for crumbs that’s what you’ll get. This includes friendships and jobs too. Being alone is better than being in a toxic relationship.

[@inesdje7748]

True

[@Goddess764]

Most definitely!

[@thepurplequeen256]

Amen ❤

[@PinkLaptop]

Thank you. I’m 21 and 2 months ago I went on my first date. Now I’ve been on many good dates and men want to just buy me things because I tell them that I have a standard. When they approach me with cheap stuff I calmly act confused and say “oh I’m just not used to that” Link? I don’t do that. Paying half??? “Oh I’m just not used to that. I thought a real man pays the tab. Are you broke? Cause you’re asking a woman for money.”

[@TIAOFNEBULA]

lmaoooo girl same

[@gabyisabel5355]

Damn, cut throat. Love it.

[@ritaaleksandrovna4518]

Ahahaha love it 💯

[@CS-pl1re]

😂 gonna use this

[@diontillman3132]

Hello you there, yes I don't blame you, I have a beautiful daughter, who I love to death,but, yes my parents taught me to, be good to my girlfriends give them what ever they want, and my dad was one cool, man,you don't want to mess, with they were fearless, but I'm not and they both passed long time ago and in this day and age I need there advice, but I manage,

[@WelcometoAshLand]

"What you do want is going to pass you by, because you are busy with what you don't want"- Shera

[@Samsmith0077]

Wow 😮!

[@natashafreeman2220]

So true. If we settle for bread crumbs in our relationships we will always get bread crumbs. Level up, up your value, and start expecting more to get more.

[@nicolesmith7611]

I did that, trying to be supportive.

[@georgec8210]

Who do you think you are Meghan Fox. Chris Tucker was right. If you were rich wouldn't you date the hottest girl possible. Why you so delusional?

[@natashafreeman2220]

Who am I? A Dusty rejector

[@georgec8210]

@@natashafreeman2220 but what if you have money or a great career but only spend on yourself or budget. What if you have an average job? What qualifies a dusty? Do they need go to trial and plead there case and you judge? Lol how does it work?

[@natashafreeman2220]

George Chachati If you work hard and want to keep money to yourself I don’t see a problem with that.

[@LaDeeDah]

I worked In strip clubs for 10 years. And the prettiest girls can get guys straight away, but the hustlers keep them. And the hustlers arent always the prettiest one in there.

[@rumooooni]

They know the definition of retention and business

[@AmberBrooklyn24]

This is true. I try to look my best everyday, whether causal or dressed up, do my makeup everyday, keep my nails done religiously, keep hair presentable and done. I’ve always noticed how some ppl (especially some Pickmeishas) don’t like it or feel a way. They think it’s being “extra”. But some women don’t understand that when u always look and expect the best, you ended up being treated that way. My ex took me out for HIS birthday recently, and he told me a girl asked why she only gets sent Chinese food or DoorDash but yet he takes me to all of these nice restaurants and buys me things (he talks about me to every girl he talks to and we’ve been broken up for about 7 years smh lol) He said it’s because she doesn’t require anything. If you expect the least, u get the least. The other day I went to the store to grab some wine and the guy behind me paid for it. If I was looking like trash he wouldn’t have seen me coming from across the street like he did lol Looking good is not only fun, it’s also beneficial. I just want to step it up to a higher level. I’m just trying to level myself up more and more and hopefully it all falls into place. It’s a process, but we’re gonna get it done ladies! 💗💯

[@JSophiaFamous]

👏🏽

[@diana4reals507]

Thanks for sharing 😘

[@AmberBrooklyn24]

diana4reals Anytime sis 💕💅🏾💋💎

[@AmberBrooklyn24]

@@mariekouakou5215 Thanks beautiful 💋💕🥂

[@AshaMaat]

They’ll literally pay for your dinner on their birthday lol

[@brownsugar1301]

It’s basically all about ENERGY.

[@yeahthatsme921]

The game doesn't have room for it because if you stay too long you will get sucked dry giving it to someone else

[@lizsdlt11]

I’m sitting in my backyard, drinking iced coffee, and journaling. Taking notes on what you have to say. Thank you 🙏🏻

[@easelminch6887]

Yesss

[@BrittanyCaprice86]

That’s a vibe sis! ❤️

[@hermilynmarryshow4103]

Sounds like a vibe

[@GFUncovered]

Amen, me too. I've been binge watching her for 2 weeks and already got a "boyfriend," money, and shopping. Now I'm trying to catch wealthier ones. Sprinkle sprinkle

[@yourbeautybff]

OMG....I was dying laughing when someone asked what do do because her man smells? Shera....”Act like he stepped on something. Do you smell that?” I’m dead. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@SkinnyGirl125]

"Make sure that you end up keeping your thoughts where you want to go"

[@yokiponn4129]

Law of Attraction

[@itsBenzie]

Today’s video made sense to me on so many levels. The point about “lack” and how it comes back to bite you is so true! No amount of physical leveling up will help, if you walk into a high end store or restaurant and give off a “vibe.” The most commonly dressed (white T-shirt and stained track pants) people go into a Louis Vuitton store and come out with 6 bags because of the way they see themselves. No one can shake them or make them feel small. My mom told me to keep my head up and demand respect no matter the amount of money I had in my wallet. Really liked today’s self esteem topic 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@easelminch6887]

jose's leather jacket why u here lmao

[@mayahn3574]

jose's leather jacket you’re insecure, you don’t have an issue with men wanting a certain type of woman when they’re doing well but you have an issue with women wanting a certain type of man! Sucks for whoever settles for ur type in this life cuz she’s sleeping & “building” with a man who hates women’s basic wellbeing or opportunities for the females in general

[@sunshine-mc2mr]

“Make sure you keep your thoughts where you want your life to go”

[@thecatnextdoor12]

I used to be a happy pickmeisha in a long term relationship and after listening to Shera I’m wise, miserable and single 😂

[@kirakeynow]

literally the same. haha

[@tq325]

Me too. BUT, it'll only get better from here as long as you think you deserve it!

[@Lovepinkdress]

With looks like this you won't be able for long. ❤️

[@liquidshares8574]

Not for nothing and not for long. Trust the process. Better is coming

[@ScorpionPrincess1989]

When you’re not afraid to be alone and realize you want to live your life on your own terms, things change!

[@FairyDragon9]

"Only thing that's fair is how you treat yoself". -Shera7 spewing solid gold.

[@elmahdi5]

Everything glitter isn't gold.

[@vanessacs322]

The only youtube channel I can watch for 2hours & not get bored😂❤️

[@hermilynmarryshow4103]

Me too LOL

[@drakeforever560]

me too! Like addicted to this channel lol

[@infamousbaby]

same 😭

[@judithnamatovu5288]

👋

[@venty5197]

I love how she teaches us the “acting”

[@girlnextdoor2836]

Acting is crucial in this game 🤣🤣Men don’t want a woman that’s too real.Give them a fantasy and they will be hooked

[@denisedixie1625]

@Venty right! And now after all these years of taking drama classes I finally realize where my talents need to be going...

[@misshouda1740]

Men love fantasy just like we love complements it doesn't matter if its true we still enjoy it 😂

[@tawanawilliams9618]

I never tell man what I need money for I just say how much.he told me he does not to need to know what it's for.

[@brittanychristine1811]

Only a real man says that, mine says the same thing!!

[@butm5125]

That's right!!!!

[@MaryPAULINElove]

How

[@donnamcintosh2109]

A woman should show that she is worthy of a man's best. Men will treat a woman according to how she presents herself and how she treats herself.

[@quacinasteward5105]

People offer me free stuff and I don’t know them! I take it ! Those are my blessings !

[@TheSoftLifeMeditations]

these videos are better than therapy and better than any relationship advice videos ever made. I understood and changed my energy in a few days COMPLETELY.

[@MissBrandao]

Me too

[@inesdje7748]

Same this was more beneficial than therapy

[@MMTT193]

This is so true 👌🏽

[@MMTT193]

This is so true 👌🏽

[@MMTT193]

This is so true 👌🏽

[@leafmealoynederpydeu85]

Shera best quote- you were used and confused...💯✔💪❤ Truth hurts.

[@itsokay2606]

@jose's leather jacket whaat

[@mysmirandam.6618]

@jose's leather jacket huh?

[@businesslady7840]

@jose's leather jacket why it's always the broke guys that gets mad while the guys with money get it 🤣

[@ooakRAREGEM]

@jose's leather jacket Rich men don't argue with women online. They're too focused on their empire.

[@georgec8210]

Ooak not true they make money but dont spend it on wanabe silverdiggers like yourself. They get the best possible. If you dont like Meghan Fix or better you can dream all you want. Men with money arent stupid. That's how they became rich. Your living in a delusional world. I make money but im so cheap with women I only spend on myself. I have 2 friends who are doctors who wouldn't give you a penny even if you gave them non stop sex for 3 years. Stick to old fart sugar daddies.

[@bellalee6927]

You're so right about Mothers,not teaching their daughters this clarity. I'm 57 years old,and I was taught to be self sufficient within myself,not to depend upon a man for anything. I was blessed to hear this,thank you for your platform.

[@mandywindwalker6207]

“The only thing that is fair is the way you treat yourself”-only 4+ minutes in, and your video has so many gems! This is one of your best videos yet on leveling up, and you have many good ones. Thank you, this is giving me life-and your hair-fabulous!

[@BlackCulturalPreservation2023]

Found me a provider type, that's and executive an entreperneur, with his house is paid off in an expensive town. After one date he's already talking about making me his girlfriend. He has lots of plans to take me on trips whereas the last guys i dated were blue collar cheap and put in no to low effort in their appearance and things to do/things they'll do for you. Glad i didn't settle and kept leveling up and not let a man manipulate me or make me feel like I'm asking for too much when they're actually looking for women as a leg up. SheRa was right about dressing for your future and the lifestyle you want/desire and only dating men that are willing/want to impress you. Date for data not for a just companionship/sex and make the best choice for you. I will say how well you love yourself, have self-control and apply these tips will make the difference btwn being a busty babymama, a bitter betty or a woman in a position where you're set for life.

[@esliz6499]

careful hes not future faking.. dont get sweeped in the emotions. Take it day by day. Make sure he's putting those words/plans into action.

[@freestylingthetruth7054]

Talk is cheap. Don't respond to cheap gifts, wait for the real thing to respond or even acknowledge.

[@sherry4535]

Some men try to rush into a relationship so they can sleep with you! Make him work, don’t give him props yet.

[@babyqueen2030]

Girlfriend and trips = sex. Wise up and focus on getting the bag.

[@Jane5720]

Watch the actions, not the words

[@roweishagray9966]

“With certain environments come certain mentalities” 👏🏾

[@kmydesire12]

I met an attorney who wanted pics and massages, so I told him my booking fee. And he’s like, “ so you’re charging me ???

[@elmahdi5]

Lawyers and prostitutes are like salt and pepper.

[@daebak_hana]

😂

[@AMoore-jm3md]

Why not? Most guys out there say or comment that all women are prostitutes, so why aren't they paying???

[@Thepinkxx]

@@elmahdi5 dated a lawyer for a short period he was into role plays which involves me being a prostitute lol

[@bubus682]

Just ignore that kind of rude behavior

[@durutalolawyers1984]

I just told him, he's going to have to pay for the lunches and give me cash and he better stop breadcrumbing me coz I deserve a whole relationship. Am leveling up...Dude speechless..boy shape up or boy bye 👋💪

[@ScorpionPrincess1989]

You don’t ask him for a relationship EVER! You have to act like all the dudes around you want a relationship and you ain’t waiting around for him or anyone! It’s not about THEM it’s about you! What are you getting out of this??? Why do women get dolled up and make all the effort? They have to bring what YOU want to the table because your beauty, time and attention can go to someone else WAY better. Always remember

[@ritasjourney]

Update? 😀

[@durutalolawyers1984]

@@ScorpionPrincess1989 spot on jasmine...its about us not them

[@kaheaisaac1]

So what happened?

[@SkinnyGirl125]

Auntie is too on point EVERYDAY

[@Vfd6610]

I hate to admit it but AShera is so right. I am 43 and have been watching her so years. Listen ladies! I haven’t agreed with everything she says but I am learning that was a mistake.

[@jasthephysicist]

Can you list specifics of what you didn't agree with and what you do now?

[@soyestee]

Exactly. Every major artist has a rider. A rider is the list of accommodation requirements from the artist that are included in the larger contract. The bigger the name, the more demanding the rider. The higher your value, the more you can demand.

[@janetferguson1864]

This woman is absolutely beautiful. She knows it too. Within the first four or five minutes, she touched her beautiful hair at least 10 or 12 times. 💃

[@sunshine-mc2mr]

“Th world ain’t fair... the only thing that’s fair is how you treat yourself”

[@LynsiHutchinson]

I listen to these at work. The level up is a career in and of itself

[@Empress_powei]

I have been telling too truth way too much.. I need to learn more. Bcus being honest has done nothing to me but harm.

[@Koko77773]

Yea you gotta lie 😂I learned the hard way

[@KitanaTulip]

"dont be one minute late or you gonna regret it" *write that down, write that down*

[@jamiengaddis8416]

Just to give a little advice... don't juice diet women! Intermediate dieting is the key. If you can mix it with the keto diet and watch that weight melt off. Walk for 45 mins a day. Good luck my Queens!

[@callalilly4743]

Im not dealing with no stank man laying next to me.

[@handlebusiness9322]

Right

[@amilllion1]

😭😭😭, put on a 😷

[@kv2811]

@@amilllion1 lmfaoo

[@leeslyrose]

I stopped accepting less and left the relationship lol

[@ihanakaunotar2741]

This has helped me level up so much! Legit my bf has taken 360 turn! You’re so smart and wise and you know where to stop. It’s rare.

[@natnel617]

180 turn. 360 would suggest he is still the same.

[@ihanakaunotar2741]

@@natnel617 true, I’m an idiot lmao

[@adameve6623]

this is proof that different people experience people differently depending on what you accept

[@britshanesmom]

I wish KZbin was like this 15 years ago because I would have known better and done better.

[@mandywindwalker6207]

Again, your hair is EVERYTHING

[@c.merrick1820]

You are such an actress😹 you kill me when you do the hypothetical mini skits..I needed this whole video♥️ they really KEEP me on this level up path and always evolving. You are invaluable!

[@brendacrawford5744]

YASSSSSS HUNNY!!!!!!

[@brendacrawford5744]

Say that!!!!!

[@Theoracleprincess]

Shera I know you're not into colored hair.. but the highlights are sooo complentary to your skin tone. You are looking so gorgeous in this video 😍

[@jasminerasco]

Love this chat Shera. Always carry yourself how you desire to be treated. 💛

[@cbreeze123]

Your hair and makeup are always on point but this look is exceptional hunni🤌🏾

[@camiller958]

There's this one city here in california full of wealthy older men and I'm thinking of freestyling there more often. Last time I went I wasn't even super dressed up but one older guy was flirting with me a lot and a lot of women were looking at me all jealous lol

[@jordasia1]

I'm in cali too, went out with this older guy one night before this pandemic hit, had several females giving eyeballs at us lol.

[@clauaome25]

Which one? I'm in CA too

[@mrs.l.3565]

..💥...That color/hair is gorgeous. Love this message. Love it..!!! This ALSO applies to family and jobs. This woman is the truth, on point ALL the time..💌

[@therealangelbaby805]

Girl..sometimes family will try and keep you down and make you feel bad for doing better in life hell even if you haven't reached your full level up ..because unfortunately they are not happy with their own lives and don't want change for the better. So yeah family could be the one thing to stay away from. I love them from a distance. I call on birthdays and holidays only now. No more hanging around unhappy ppl.🌷💞✔

[@clauaome25]

Did he pay up??

[@authentic_jill]

You changed your own life i just talked🤣

[@kaitlinmontgomery2750]

You have a gentle yet assertive disposition that I admire and am cultivating(in my own way of course) within myself. I love learning from you and know that with persistence I will follow through on every single one of my goals. Thank You for your videos and the value they've brought for myself and many others. 🌻💪

[@jscreations1344]

Thanks for everything you do. You have change my life forever.

[@ritamcnamara521]

Changed*

[@dottiestaxx]

If only I got this game when I was in my 20s

[@threesandsevens]

Oh wow! Did I really catch you live? This is wonderful. I am a changed woman from your videos. 😘

[@caye7721]

Whatever makes you feel comfortable and confident do it 🙌🏽

[@starshine7322]

Shera, It is a blessing to have my life exponentially changed by information that you give so earnestly. I am forever grateful! Thank you.

[@kittykat135]

Men nowdays are not nice, the rich ones and the poor ones are not gentlemen anymore

[@marte1376]

@@MadameQuoi or make your own money and get better man, even richer

[@elmahdi5]

Like Drake said nice for what to these b*tchz

[@JessicaGrey]

you are the mother that I wish with all my heart that I had ❤

[@sgzjajsjsi133]

Oh my Goshhh this is legit the most beautiful Shera has ever looked!!

[@Vfd6610]

My mother told me the same thing she does except she said it more bluntly. But if she delivered it to me like this I THINK I would have listened more! Because the woman I am needed to hear it this way and not as grotesquely as my mom explained it. Hood style which I was not on. And I grew up in the hood. I was just different.

[@RandomSubjects]

Woahh When Shera acts out scenarios she is so convincing lmao I'd give her money haha

[@Holistichealingwithme]

These are the videos I loveeeeee! No silly people disturbing and distracting you make your point. New technology with bots and scammers throwing off the convo is ASF. I’ll continue to watch your videos and support with likes and shares❤❤

[@paulagriffithpaulag2]

Good practical advice SheRa. I always learn so much. These are some golden nuggets. Nobody tells women this stuff.

[@maryellenevaburns]

Shera you really do look stunning in this video

[@evangelinamiles3249]

Fantastic look today 🎉

[@mikapettigrew5675]

I just did my make up and perfume and I’m so excited for you and the movement

[@izzysal5152]

My favorite hair color on you Shera. Sprinkle sprinkle 💗

[@amarachiogbonnaya9917]

I love when she says that😍

[@vickyelenatheacutestthinker]

I love you! Dreams are coming true all around, and it’s thanks to your harsh yet gentle guidance

[@Speechiegirl1]

We love you Shera! Sending positive energy 💓

[@nokwandamakhanya1260]

I think Shera needs to develop a game that has these guidelines to levelling up...the game is on 💯

[@melaninatedstardust4081]

Keep your thoughts in line with where you want to go.

[@honeiibee13]

I always say "Dogs chase cats"

[@girlnextdoor2836]

Exactly! It’s very rare for a cat to chase a dog

[@mrlinklady]

You’ve been getting even more fabulous and gorgeous over time like a fine wine 🥰

[@Cherryblossom-fg1pl]

This videos content is “Priceless!” Thankyou Shera you are a gift 🎁 xx

[@LaDeeDah]

Shera saying "of course I have a back up" 🤣🤣🤣 like girl stop playing with me.

[@godlovessophiia]

I love this hair and makeup look on you! Yaassss✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨💛💛💛💛

[@boujeechiccsbeauti4418]

I'm so thankful to come across this Because, now I definitely know what I need to stop doing.

[@kashagoddess9862]

You do have the power to change what you do not like about your moon sign.

[@Rarity4444]

“Your brain does not understand less” yesss 👏🏽 ✨✨✨

[@RealtalkWithKash]

I'm teaching my daughter and I told her what I did us exactly what not to accept! Let me show you a better way and I'm watching every video to learn the way things should go. I was never taught so I appreciate your time and effort to share your knowledge.

[@sofiavelyka1669]

Shera looking snatched and gorgeous 😍 💖

[@AstoundingAries]

Dang I wished I watched this last night. I need this advice so bad. I thought it said “lies” not less. I’m about to watch it now... does she talk about narcissists? I’m married to one, but I’m trying to make things better for me before I leave him.

[@Best_backup]

Yeah she has a couple videos about it, only way to stop a narcissist is to become one

And have a plan and strategy

[@amacmazing]

I'm with a narcissist, too. I just treat him like shit and spend his money. like audrey rugburn commented: act like a bigger one than he is

[@thesalesgirl101]

Your advice is priceless but you crack me up so bad 🤣🤣🤣

[@isabelbetancourt1095]

Quarantine yourself again with no food 😂

[@dg-qn5mi]

This video gave me the wisdom I needed 😭🔑🗝️🔥

[@msross67]

The acting role play is hilarious-going into man voice and expression 🤣🤣 amazing

[@patriciaattah849]

I love you and your platform keep doing what you do your definitely helping us level up.

[@remshjgh2245]

You the best, Sheraaa!! Loving that yellow on your skin 🧡🧡🧡 makes your skin glow!!! This video gives me hope, confidence and makes me feel good about myself.

[@Jubileejones]

This makeup and hair look is so pretty!

[@yurii_asmr]

Shera! I named Desert Entanglement today 😍😍😍 can’t wait for it to come out so I can buy it!!

[@SheRaSeven1]

thank u lol sprinkle sprinkle.......

[@Valeriakrissol]

My favorite shera look 😍😍😍

[@camie2306]

Thanks!

[@linas8841]

Looking younger and more beautiful everyday ❤️❤️❤️

[@heyeveryone]

Hahaha omg you are so funny “too stupid to pay my own rent” that was so needed I hope that commenter hears the truth! Lol

[@LaLabutterfly]

I love your southern accent!! Gets me every time 😂👏👏👌

[@handlebusiness9322]

I don’t hear a southern accent

[@Aspect762]

Shera, I receive you. I just want to worship you so much.

[@poppy-bc4vf]

24:17 come up with something he can rescue you from

[@rianashlee3528]

Shera!!! I just watch your videos for shits and giggles. You be having me on the floor! You are too funny!

[@jasneet6569]

Shera you are mind blowing!! I love your teachings!!❤

[@hearteater333]

she’s speaking facts 💅🏼 sprinkle sprinkle

[@asia3147]

the vicks vapor rub part is hilarious 😭 ✨✨