OK...I watched and listened to 3 of your videos. I'm a new subscriber and Merry Christmas to you!
@JLTravels2 күн бұрын
This ‘nice girl’ is no longer…I found ‘self love’ at 70! And, NO is my favorite word!
@minaflores6650Күн бұрын
Same here...people pleasing, I stopped 20 years ago.
@DreamLife-bd7rzКүн бұрын
Amazing ❤
@vani-rie2 күн бұрын
Thank you, needed to hear this
@MyMySharona2 күн бұрын
Thank you, this came at the right time for me today, Ive been the nice people pleasing girl who has a hard time with no and when I do apologize and explain myself. Time for that to change! Starting now.
@marilynschroeter7962 күн бұрын
I wish I knew this 40 years ago.
@OAlchemAzylКүн бұрын
My mom would say the same.
@karlareadstheclassics217Күн бұрын
Thank you for these videos. Found you a couple days ago & can't stop watching.
@ellenberry42 күн бұрын
What a gift you are! Thank you❤
@krisjacobs7602 күн бұрын
Right on time, what a mirror! Thank you so much❣️
@CasseyfromCalmPeaceVictoryКүн бұрын
🎉❤Thank you from my real heart for this video! This society teaches women to be nice so men can take advantage of them, it’s time to stop being nice to others in the wrong perception but just be real!❤
@susanakfogel82172 күн бұрын
Thank you for this Joe. Well, I have always said women got nowhere by being nice. It is often received this message received with pushback from women, but having been part of the radical feminist movement, the pro-choice movement and having to fight my own way in the mortgage industry, and eventually owning my own company, I know that you being “nice” gets women nowhere thank you for this I’m 75. I say no all the time.
@anitakephart3851Күн бұрын
Susan If you have a position at your mortgage company I would be quite interested beause you're the type of person and woman. I would like to work for I could write a book on how horrible bosses I have had in the past most though not all of them were men. I have held a position on telling my friend's to say no and not being so nice and gave them bullet point to why they should say no and stop being so nice and they continued with their niceness and I watched them suffer. I am now a stoic person with very limited people in my life and enjoy my time with myself. It is strange to have to apply this thinking so late in life. But I slowly started watching myself do this over the course of a couple decades and could teach a class on it now.
@havad3938Күн бұрын
I've found women are often giving the message - to submit to men, in various ways.
@pashablue8431Күн бұрын
That doesn’t work for me! I will be using this. Great video, thank you
@susanakfogel8217Күн бұрын
Dear Anita, thank you for such a nice message. Actually I was working for a broker and I’m not renewing my license. I would have to jam it through by the end of the year and I just don’t want to anymore after 30+ years in the industry no, I’m not doing it. I did own my own company as I think I said. Also, when it comes to sewing and people ask me oh could you just do this? I simply say no I don’t explain Now if it’s a dear friend, I will explain why. It is never too late to take charge of your life. I want desperately to go to one of Joe seminars. The seminar price is great. It’s the lodging that’s a problem. We were raised to always be nice and not act smarter than the boys and all that bullshit.I raised my son and daughter to not be like that and I’m proud of them. Thank you again for your message. If you want to chat again, let me know. We could always go onto messenger or something. Take care and merry Christmas.
@studentofabrahamiamavibrat3615Күн бұрын
OHHHH YESSS! GOOD TO HEAR A MAN TALKING ABOUT THIS! I HAVE A FEMALE FRIEND WHO WAS BROUGHT UP CATHOLIC. ITS EVEN WORSE FOR THEM!
@assyrianempress74012 күн бұрын
NO!! :)
@nicolewilliams36459 сағат бұрын
Period!!!!
@anitakephart3851Күн бұрын
I find it ironic that every woman that he talks about now works for herself successfully and has a 7 figure business and is successful in her own field. That's a little much for me I don't believe that always happens. Notice that this man only states that these women are business. Successful that it all comes down to business in order to be successful He still has a way to go on his own thinking.
@deryademi847322 сағат бұрын
I think a lot of Videos on this Account is actually AI generated.
@anitakephart3851Күн бұрын
I have to say as I noticed that we are taking advice about how to be a better woman from a man. A bit of irony.