Stop Calling Me Pops! I'm Not Your Dad 💯 | KARAMO

[@nyty9578]

My heart actually feels so sad for him.

[@Ffdhjj]

I'm 20 he my dad to

[@roselandebazelais8236]

@@Ffdhjj Maybe you guys could accept him.And give him ALL THE LOVE.

[@Ffdhjj]

@@roselandebazelais8236 I been looking for this man for 7 years and just looked on here and seend him

[@size38cs]

He is so broken. I feel for him 😢

[@cathybolden1760]

Thank God this young man has enough sense to walk out and get away from both of them trashed talking idiots. If she is not his daughter, she sure picks up his ways. Sad he was out there spreading them demons seeds. Young man burns that chapter of your life and never looks backward because he is not worth your time and energy.

[@sincerely_amani_]

“i’m sorry for wasting yalls time” this breaks my heart for him. i really wish he had the love he’s been looking for.

[@byronlambert-cw6xk]

My instincts told me he was'nt the father. Even though there was No resemblance at all.

[@goldenstarr8469]

​@@byronlambert-cw6xkMe too I feel so sorry for him

[@jaylenpatterson8062]

He does he just doesn’t know it yet. The love that he’s searching for in the world through humans is found only through our Heavenly Father and in Jesus Christ. He’s a father to the fatherless. This goes for all of us as well. This story breaks my heart but Jesus is the way hell receive that love his soul is searching for.

[@goldenstarr8469]

@@jaylenpatterson8062 Amen 🙏 🙌

[@kimberlywint8371]

⁠​⁠@@jaylenpatterson8062 7:46 😅

[@petronellamwaba3517]

The mother is to blame. So sorry for him. I literally cried.

[@ChanticoChulo]

so many men out here especially in the black community have no father and are searching for that father love in so many things.

[@CassandraV-kl4hq]

I did too. His Mother was wrong for this.

[@SDC1949]

Typical male response…

[@aaronmiles2802]

@@SDC1949What? The mother is to blame is she not? Tf are you talking about?🤣

[@BusinessGuidesKenya]

Typical Feminist and Man hater@@SDC1949

[@bellaiarose]

I don’t feel like he’s weird, he just wants to be loved.

[@Earthspirit555]

That’s exactly what it seemed like to me. He just wants to be accepted by them.

[@formerlyknownas123]

I feel like he was so longing for family that he was a bit excited to find he belonged to his family's soul tribe.😢

[@LadiiLoc44.]

Exactly

[@laydeeb1]

Exactly

[@Tejuanna]

You called it like I see it ❤❤

[@wally6914]

I hope he loves his own kids the way he wants to be loved.

[@YBCSYR]

I do

[@bobbiedm5369]

I have no doubt that he loves his kids fiercely! He has a huge heart you can hear it in his voice. 🥺❤️

[@YoungBagChasers1]

He definitely does he loves us more than anything! He was raised to always show love n that’s wha he does that’s why he love so hard😢

[@AbundanceGoddess888]

@@YBCSYR🥰🥰🥰🤗🤗🤗

[@paigescarpage5448]

World's BEST father ❤

[@samanthadutoit1247]

He still a little boy, needing his Father's Love. God bless him.

[@BobaDavis]

All men that went without fathers are like this.

[@sincereofficial7211]

needing his fathers love for what? he’s grown now fuck that father where ever he is… he’s not gonna care or protect or feed his like he needed when he was little.. i don’t know why he’s looking for his dad wat for Fuc that

[@BobaDavis]

@@sincereofficial7211 Because growing up doesn't eliminate the desire for parental love, it only reaffirms the need for it.

[@tinarjackson9844]

How does a child deal with a mother that doesn't know who her child's father is! I BLAME HER 1000%

[@totallyyahware6840]

Exactly!!! We all make mistakes but she's just nasty. At least know who you spreading your legs for

[@roselandebazelais8236]

If it's you on the profile,you are beautiful.

[@roselandebazelais8236]

That's the problem with these women,going around sleeping with people,and NOT CARE ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES.

[@MelissaLaura8989]

That part sad story. 💯😞

[@doneeshacunningham2949]

Shit nasty , just plain irresponsible. Saddest part she was having sex with more than one man around that time frame for her not to know . IDK but before marriage and i was single i never did hooks up ir just link up for sex my body is a temple and i can't give just anyone acess inside my temple.

[@DantayLatham-t9t]

It’s crazy how many mothers lie to their kids about who their fathers are

[@Its_Ari02]

mad messes up

[@lilianasaba9846]

It's so disturbing. This needs to stop. Women please stop hurting your kids. You are destroying their lives.

[@gloriaconteh5807]

WE all Can make mistake ...IS sad but life Can be Heard sometimes

[@DantayLatham-t9t]

@@gloriaconteh5807 true but if your not sure you should get that clear before the kid becomes of age because it’s going to come out evo

[@mercylago4744]

​@gloriaconteh5807 lying about your child's father is a big mistake though.

[@maryharris8723]

I Just Found This Man Syrrome On Facebook. When I Brought This Video Up His Response Was... "That Was A Long Time Ago". Syrrome Has 7 Biological Children. He Is Being The Father He Has Never Had!!!

[@tinaabenaoforiwa]

My heart hurts for this man!!! This is a prime example of how children pay the ultimate price for the reckless actions of their parents. I hope he makes peace with this entire situation, even if he never finds his biological father.

[@Pinki0134]

Especially women. We are so reckless and selfish sometimes. Knowing the story surrounding his paternity why didn't she do the paternity sooner? Really heartless.

[@EricaEarth]

​@@Pinki0134 so it's women fault and men can't do no wrong? Sounds like you a wife beater

[@Fahima90]

​@@Pinki0134We don't know the circumstancee. Don't you recognize his indifference. I don't blame her. He's a POC.

[@tatim6123]

@@Pinki0134Alright now you’re doing too damn much😂 He not texting you back

[@Pinki0134]

@@tatim6123 😂😂😂. And you're assuming too much. Relax. We're all here.

[@heatherperry1052]

This host is very compassionate. You can tell he really wants to help his guests

[@mariahhorton3538]

Karamo is the man the world needs more of

[@lawrencew7813]

I love you ❤

[@BigSplenda1885]

He's exploiting them idiot

[@meauxzellebaptiste879]

He grew up a lot because he was toxic as fuck on the real world when he was pretending to be this hypermasculine gay man.

[@therkokid215]

Kuramo was an unorthodox pick from. MAURY to take over his show but as time goes on, I start seeing that he was the perfect choice.

[@emilyb2036]

The fact his mum wasn’t on this show with him says everything, she clearly doesn’t know who the father is.

[@dannysands9341]

Mom not mum

[@dannysands9341]

@vivianmamboleo7538 well the show is in the USA last time I checked bruh so it mom and there is no u in mother and yall talk smack about our English smh

[@XavierBOB-dt6qx]

@@dannysands9341what the fuck r u on about

[@doedoewski1939]

​@@dannysands9341Bro it's English as in a language from England. They can talk however they want and it's right as they made this sheet 😂

[@Soakingroom]

He just wanted to be loved and finally accepted by his people

[@kiravideos.5353]

He’s not weird, he’s trying to get love and give it.. damn

[@CoCoDeLaCruZ]

Right!!

[@Ghostaredead]

So if a stranger tells you that you are their mother and calls you mom .. What do you call that?

[@israelnekruman]

I don't think anyone thinks he's weird. everybody in the video is behaving reasonably, but man what a tragic situation.

[@israelnekruman]

I stand corrected. the last comment was truly cruel.

[@YoungBagChasers1]

@@Ghostaredeadyou gotta understand there’s been months of talking on the phone FaceTimes for hours texting all through the day he knows them decent enough ta if he thought that was his family ta tell them he loves them n at one point of time they were telling him they believed he was family to jus saying🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Itzyhani]

After they treated him like an outsider, a weirdo, disrespected him. AS soon as they find out he’s not the father THENNNNN they try and have compassion. Even if he knew he could have been different.

[@LBloggie]

lmaooo alot of unneccesary mess lead with the tests not the back story

[@Itzyhani]

@@LBloggie hmmm 4 months out and you picked my comment to say that lol 😂 I know your type and I’m not interested….. go in peace.

[@LBloggie]

@@Itzyhani lol i just seen it but im just sayin once you had an idea run them test right away instead of getting invested in the back story of it all

[@Itzyhani]

@@LBloggie well you should be saying that to the father. A real man protects his kingdom and legacy right. If he felt this kid was not his, the guy was crazy, and he wanted him out of their life then he should have taken the test right away. The truth is he knew there was a chance he could be the father. Then he did like a lot of BM and ran from his responsibilities. Even if it’s not his child he had a responsibility to his family and this young man to find out.

[@Itzyhani]

@@LBloggie this is exactly what happens when children grow up without a father, leader, protector etc. Our community is creating broken humans that are walking around unhealed, angry, and suffering.

[@realmnthrwknives]

Listen, this is not to bash this young man's mother at all but ALL adults need to understand all the sleeping around, lying and producing babies is no joke! Let these stories be a lesson that the child is the one who suffers during all this. That trauma is hard to heal from.

[@angelowens7497]

Big facts 💯💯💯

[@emmajohnson5042]

Yeah, laying up with all kinds of men end up don't know, who the father?

[@NashvilleBraids]

This is the biggest message of this story because it led to unnecessary heartache. I’m also gonna add accountability and honesty to this. If she knew she was with different men at that time, she may as well fess up and keep it real. He’s heartbroken and probably embarrassed on national tv, and this could have been prevented if he had all the facts. I want to hug him 🤗

[@nelixsulu6201]

People take sex too lightly

[@fleurviolette1257]

​@@nelixsulu6201So true

[@tremainedejohnson8136]

When he walked off the stage and said I know I shouldn't had came on this show, hurt my soul. Every man should get a DNA test if they have doubt or if they don't have doubt depending on the situation. The mother literally said 100 percent

[@KamJ2010]

I went through this in my early 20's. For a decade the baby mom put daddy status on me and it ripped my family apart against me. Not only my family but everyone who knew me (and her) in Chicago. Some called me a not good man for standing on wanting a test before engagiing. Others said I was a dead beat for not supporting on her word. It sucked. 10 years later, through a serious of comical events, a DNA test was ordered by the court where I was proven not to be the father....although the child had my name (a name I picked out for him). When all was said and done....no one apopligiezed to me for not believing me, except my grandfather. Hell I invited the boy into my home to spend time with my othwer kids (I had gotten married and started a family). Baby mom got mad anf forbad me from interacting with him. Now...him and I don't have a relationship and he has a half fuzzy memory that he is part of my family and that, for some fucking reason, I am someone to hate. It's all toxic. Get a DNA test immediately! Trust me. End of rant.

[@tasha9650]

I agree with you'll. The only women who have or has ever had an issue giving a guy a paternity test is one who isn't sure. I actually told my husband I won't be offended/mad if at anytime he gets one, I'm 100% sure because he was and is the only so its not a big deal. It sucks that its not mandatory and it's the only way that men can be sure.

[@user-zn7on7lu6j]

This is why you woman stop been a clothes pin the kids are the ones that gets hurt

[@user-zn7on7lu6j]

Then a what them seen on that man fi a breed them ?

[@user-zn7on7lu6j]

So so sad

[@shedabarber]

I feel deep sorrow for him. Lying on men to be the father is so damaging to the child. He's now grown and has to go through all this again but in front of the world. I hope he finds closure in this situation.

[@brittanysaid]

Seeing a man who’s tried to stay strong his whole life cry always makes me cry too. I’m so sorry for him. His mother has a lot of explaining and apologizing to do. She owes him answers and comfort at the very least and it should have happened LONG before he put himself out there on television.

[@carolbucks6991]

The girl brought him on the show for the DNA which was free. They could have paid to have the DNA done privately...but who was going to come up with the money???

[@brittanysaid]

@@carolbucks6991 from my perspective his mother should have paid for it especially if it meant saving her son from that heartbreak and confusion in the public eye. I mean, she created this mess, you’d think she would want to fix it for him. I just don’t get how she could do that to her kid.

[@carolbucks6991]

@@brittanysaid It was his persistence to find his father. From all indications he believed that the other Mike was his dad. In actuality she didn't know. We as young people never stop to think of the serious consequences beforehand, it's about that moment. I wasn't always grown, and I speak from experiences. My oldest son turned 57 y/o today, and nearly 20 yrs. ago he was told who his father was. I knew all the time, but I raised him by myself and the grace of God,and he had a good life. But he started asking, and I had to do what I needed to do. We both were young, and one time together resulted in my son. I moved away from the city, and provided for my son, but it remained on my mind all those years. My son ended up getting married and had two sons of his own,that's when the questions started. So I started doing my paperwork and found where he was. I made contact with him, and his response wasn't what I thought it would be. So I sent a picture of my son to his wife, and she was very receptive. My son spoke with him on the phone, and he referred to him as Pop...which broke my heart. They both lived many states apart but my son never mentioned of they meeting each other. Many years passed and my daughter sent me an obituary where he had died. I sent a response to my son and he never mentioned anything after that. That's why I mentioned that the decisions as young people make results in the pain that children endure. I wanted to keep my son from being hurt if I reached out,and this guy didn't respond to him. His obituary didn't mention my son and my son is his oldest child.. My son's baby boy was killed in a daycare, a tragedy we both have never gotten over...this was 2000, he had just turned 3 y/o. But God is a healer of pain and void, because he's carried me through all of these years. They young man on Karamo's show is going to be alright, time and space heals all brokenness, and God is forever good,and my prayers are for him and his family. The best thing for Syrrome that this guy turned out to "NOT" be his dad, and you know what ...my son had to know his dad, so that he could put closure to that chapter of his life!!

[@ARajantara777]

Do males feel the same for women who tried to stay strong her whole life?

[@brittanysaid]

@@ARajantara777 couldn’t tell you, I’m not male lol but I would assume some would and some wouldn’t. You’ve got a 50/50 shot, same with women. Not all men are heartless and not all women are empathetic.

[@peggybaby0894]

As a lifelong foster kid, I have to say the first blood relative that popped up on my ancestry account just made me instantly not feel so alone. When you go your whole life never being around anyone who is blood related, it’s hard. I had 3 first cousins show and all I could do was imagine what it woulda been like growing up with them. We are all 4 around the same age but my mom abandoned me at a neighbors house. I completely understand why he latched on so tight from the very beginning. 😢

[@LexiBricks]

I feel exactly the same I found a lot of my family later in life too and ppl have called me weird for wanting to be in their lives so much but I just feel like I wanna make up for lost time and I was lucky enough to live close to a few of my siblings

[@yvettekinchking8838]

His mother broke her son's heart. 😢😢😢😢. Lies always comes back to bite you.

[@shantresewilliams6692]

I cried real tears this was so heartbreaking for me😢

[@nadiawelham7737]

@peggybaby0894 Awww thats hard, I hope you are blessed with finding where you belong sending you love and hope for your journey into the unknown...love is awaiting somewhere for you to be known🌷

[@saitv4538]

🗣️💯

[@monalisa-wf4pq]

Karamo is so sweet and authentic with his responses, but also very fair. love it

[@bossibunz8143]

I love Karamo, he’s so real but still sweet & empathetic.

[@StinkyPoopyMcFartFace]

He was very sweet and empathetic when gaslighting Ally with the Pink Sauce bitch.

[@nadiawelham7737]

ITs evilllllll

[@thomasyoung5013]

Of course a cameras in his face 🤣

[@eb1680]

Nigga bout as real as the make up he wear . Get the fuck outta here

[@Obeox]

He’s really not !

[@Chinagalaxina]

Syrrome not being apart of their family is the best thing that could have happened to him truthfully, the way they handled this was so distasteful and to treat him so poorly was messed up despite not fully knowing him? - they could have talked to that man better than that, there was no need to disrespect him. He just wants to have a family and find love through that! this was a blessing in disguise for him, I pray that he eventually finds his true father and gets the love that he truly deserves

[@sethshepherd3221]

Tbh how can we blame the family? They had every right to be defensive to a grown man who comes out of nowhere claiming that they’re siblings and start professing his love without knowing them.

[@Chinagalaxina]

@@sethshepherd3221 - point taken but, there was really no need to get hostile or aggressive with him because it seemed that he just wanted to be apart of something and to be loved, lord knows what else his mother told him for him to be so adamant that-that was his family and that man was his father but I can see both sides, still- they could’ve been far more understanding towards him and much more respectful with regarding handling him.

[@Dai-dr9mn]

​@@sethshepherd3221let's be so fr he researched the name given to him to find his father that's how he came across the fb group so it isn't really random, they didn't have to let him in the group. He just got too excited and confident they had the same father and wanted to express his love but it may have been too soon now he's embarrassed 😫

[@estadje]

THIS!!!!

[@KamJ2010]

I went through this exact same thing. Trust me the only blame is at the moms foot. Period.

[@nadiasven4771]

This guy is so gentle and sensitive. These typ of moms are terrible for what they do to their kids.

[@ohhxsoxcynthia]

This is the first episode that literally brought tears to my eyes. I feel so much empathy for that young man. Imagine having a horrible image of a man, yet still holding on hope and loving him only to find out he isn’t your father and your mother was a liar. So much to rebuild here. I hope he leans on his children even more, treats his baby mothers properly and doesn’t become dark over this. God bless.

[@tinadavis7016]

Let him go home and love his babies and keep his mom out of his and their lives

[@ninathompson3280]

His Mom shouldn't have done this to him, wow!

[@simplyputmusings2948]

Why isn’t she there to support her son? Why isn’t she on the stage? Cowardly 304! Lying 304.

[@allbyhisgrace8925]

​@@simplyputmusings2948that mother is so wrong for this ,stop making babies willy nilly and messing their lives like this .

[@kathconserv]

and he has kids with three women now.

[@KayB-l5h]

Its sad that his mama couldn't tell him the truth but would further embarrass her son like that. They were so against him and he was so ready to love them after everything. 🙏

[@plbs6]

Omg I feel so bad for him. It’s his mother fault. That’s messed up

[@AngelaBarry-f1q]

He isn't weird, he's desperate for love and family. BUT the guy could've said "I want a DNA to see if you're actually dad or not"

[@cruc1446]

He trusted his mother’s word. Is that so difficult to understand. Some, not many still have an open heart ❤️ ready to love. He be ok and grow stronger from this. Glad he’s closed this chapter.

[@4evertrue830]

​@@cruc1446Can he ever trust his mother again? Can he ever trust women again? Food for thoughts as they say..🤔

[@katrinadoswell6468]

I’m a child who has been in this situation. Watching this brought me to tears, because that hole will never be filled. Bro from this point it doesn’t matter. Heal up your heart and move on

[@officialbodegavega]

He just need any family at this point. We love you bro!

[@LovelyLauren26]

YOU CAN TELL THAT THE DAUGHTER DIDN'T WANT HIM TO BE HER DAD SON.

[@WomanOfWisdom91]

I know she is mean

[@Jeanology]

Exactly, her attitude was trash!

[@shauntae190]

Girl my dad has 16 kids already why tf would o care if another came along clearly I’m not the only child so we sharing dads you slow asl

[@The-ChosenQueen]

Yesss and I’m like wtf is her issue. How would it negatively affect her if her father was his daddy. You should want to embrace someone going through that especially if you know who your father is

[@shauntae190]

@@The-ChosenQueen I’m like wtf your problem let him in yo family then you don’t know nothing but what you seen and iont give a damn what you think baby boo 🤣

[@ms.chocolatecandy]

The mom was a tramp and it’s not his fault. I feel so bad for him.

[@IrenaDeacon]

Facts, sadly

[@yanioshun3496]

Well the guy that is not his dad, wasn't any better

[@4evertrue830]

​​@@yanioshun3496Oh yes he was. He was truthful all through the interview about his past as a young playful dude and knew immediately he was not the father before the DNA result was let out. The mother is the problem, still untruthful in her old age and will not admit to her shameful past of sleeping with more men than her son could have imagined.

[@goead]

@@yanioshun3496how is this his fault

[@Myopinionmattersthemost]

The mom and alleged dad were tramps.

[@bridgetevans2188]

As a Woman, I would never lie to my kids!! This is devastating!! I’m so glad that my kids have the same Dad and they don’t have to guess or try and grasp for answers. They know!! As it should be!! As a child that grew up not really know if my father was my father, this hits home!! But, I made sure my kids didn’t have to go through something like this!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️I pray that he finds his real father!!

[@patriciasmith1005]

Let's hope and pray for him to find his real father and he love and accept him

[@carolbucks6991]

It wasn't that she lied...she just didn't know because it was more than this guy Mike!!

[@zawadiyahb.7982]

Respect to you!

[@maryharris8723]

You Go Girl!!!

[@thedarkstar7045]

I haven't cried in years, but this one nearly brought me to tears. Even though I could never imagine the pain he feels, I hope he heals.

[@johnadams-km9wm]

Shutup

[@carolbucks6991]

I was deeply hurt for him as well.God is more than able to heal all wounds. He's going to be a better man in the lives of his children, and he will heal. Right now he needs his space and time from this situation.

[@ekachuks7481]

Me too

[@tavaleze1491]

That was so heartbreaking, the pain in his crying🙏🏽 I pray he seeks God's guidance and I love when he said all I need is my wife and kids❤️❤️

[@brendawatt8164]

I didn’t feel he was weird either. He’s just searching. Every boy needs his father and he’s searching for that connection he did not have and he thought it was him because that’s what his mother told him so he was instantly latched on and thank you Karam all I think you’re amazing and I love your heart and how you help people and show them the understanding and give them a little guidance that they didn’t have before❤🙏🏾

[@allegroaffettuoso9012]

I feel so bad for him. You can tell he’s had a hole in his heart for a long time and I think he thought it was finally filled. But, since he has kids: he can now be the father he always wished he had. And, in that way, he closes the circle. I also understand where the sister and the father were coming from, also. They didn’t know him and needed time to process things and even be sure, but he’s already saying he loves them, and calling the man “pops”. Love and relationships take time, and just because you’re related to someone, doesn’t mean you’ll have either. His intensity came from his desire to fill that void, but it was definitely off-putting, and I understand and think most of us would respond the same way to somebody appearing out of nowhere, saying they love us and calling us their parents. I think they did the best they could to handle it while also being honest about their feelings. I feel for all of them. I hope he’s able to create the love he clearly desperately needs, and I think he can if he realizes that it starts by loving himself totally and then being love to others: he’ll get all that love right back once he does that. He’s got enough love in him that he can create his space of love.

[@shauntae190]

This the one !!!! Thank you for writing this and understanding it all

[@sharomamatthysen7434]

So true what you saying,you explained it so beautiful.I feel so sad for this guy.

[@maryvalentine5506]

He is looking for love, I pray he find!.. it soon, all this hurt cause by his mom...😢 choose God, my friend, he is ❤️ u don't need DNA for him😮

[@itzsheena5941]

This one has me in tears. I would love to see an update. He tries to put the best outside but I can see how much he's hurting and he needs to know where he belongs. Mama better start coming up with all the names and help him find his way. Man I'm sorry you're going through this 😢

[@cheryljohnson1328]

I adore his loving spirit. I hope he keeps on being that way❤

[@thehoneyeffect]

Poor man, my heart goes out to him, he's so open to being loved 💔

[@PrettyColorsDoe]

I knew what it was when I realized Mom was not on the show. She’s horrible to leave her son out there to face the brunt of her bad decisions.

[@YoungBagChasers1]

@@PrettyColorsDoenawl there was things causing her not be able to go she was sposed ta be on the show things happened n it also cost money ta do all that flying n hotels n shi she ain’t send him off ta hurt him although there’s hurt in the situation him going alone was not part of the pain

[@carolbucks6991]

Every man desires to know/meet the man he came from, wondering if he has anything in common, will he end up being like him? All these questions runs through their minds, but many times when they do meet the actual father it would have been best that he never knew!!

[@tannyaartis3685]

I used ancestry to connect DNA to a 1st cousin, which led to me finding my dad. When I reached out, my dad and his current wife received me with arms wide open. My dad has since passed within less than a year of me finding him. God blessed me with that time with him, and for that, I am forever grateful and humble to everyone hoping for closure. May He bring this young man closure!

[@kyaramonique420]

Shame on his mother.

[@Belladonna-ot3to]

Thanks for giving out the spoilers 🙄

[@jonathansmith8672]

​​@@Belladonna-ot3toIt's a reality show. What do you expect?

[@YBCYUNGAN]

First of all you not finna talk about my grandma like that. Talm bout Shame on her u don’t even know her bruh.

[@alextheeaquarius7082]

@@Belladonna-ot3togirl that’s your fault for reading the comments b4 watching 😭

[@Belladonna-ot3to]

@@alextheeaquarius7082 No yours was plastered up top on front. So yeah, that’s your fault.

[@damianu4082]

Closure is one of the toughest things to search for. I can totally feel his pain especially as the one person you trust (Mom) appears to have betrayed that. I pray he finds peace most importantly and gets the closure he deserves. God bless you Karamo..... You do an amazing job!

[@carolbucks6991]

His mom was wishing it was this guy Mike, but in actuality she didn't know because she had dealt with someone else as well.

[@rahshida]

I feel sooooooo much sympathy for him. Why are these people being so cruel and hard in their words to him?

[@GODBLESSED2959]

They were cold over a young man that only wanted the truth. I truly felt it in my heart for him. They humilated him by bringing him on that show. Sorry, dude, for their heartless approach to further scar you.

[@locosmith2005]

His mother humiliated him

[@christophersmith7064]

There is no they. Just the mother. She is the only one to blame

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

They weren't cold they wanted to be sure first. They didn't humiliate him because he agreed to come to the show.

[@simplyputmusings2948]

They don’t owe him anything. He’s a stranger.

[@Katherine24246]

His mother did this to him. She is completely responsible for the entire sequence of events. And it's sounds like this is not the first time that she wreaked havoc into that man's life, to the point of threatening to name a child after him that was even his. At the end of the show, her son said he'd never believe another name if his mom made any future claims about his paternity. She has completely betrayed her own son and destroyed his trust in her.

[@Vibewithkeara]

His mama is the one to blame she is the one who have that poor boy Confused which is sad for him all on national tv sheesh this was crazyyyy

[@kimwashingtonofficial6041]

He just wants to love and be loved. Nothing weird about that. He deserves the truth!! I’m praying that the truth is revealed to him finally.❤️🙏🏾

[@viviangames7538]

The fact that Mike was throwing shade I was glad that he was not the father. My heart goes out to this young brother I wish I was there to give him a hug. I pray he fine comfort in his kids

[@hazelboyce7230]

Go deal with the lying mother.

[@b.u.dmusic9424]

What an ignorant assessment. The father wasn't "throwing shade" he was being real and resolute in the fact that he was not the father. If the "son" had listened, he would've known that his mother has a taste for black meat and that she doesn't know who the father is. Typical and expected response from certain people

[@chaysemilani]

girl he was being real .

[@nadiawelham7737]

yeah he probably knew something we dont and was trying to be respectful as possible cos he knew the Poor Young Man is going to get Hurt

[@jeremieanderson6614]

He was not throwing shade at all. It's a man talking to another man as respectful as he could. Like how can you tell someone ya mom was ho back in the day

[@aP-me]

As a mother, you know! The problem I think is ; The mother’s believing in their own lie and I refuse to believe she doesn’t know. It is just heartbreaking that a child has to going through this ….

[@kakishisfriend1126]

She prob don't know his real name, plus it was a long time ago. I feel bad for the son.

[@boogieb_7179]

I am so blessed for having both of my parents raised me under the same roof. I don't know what it feels like to not knowing who's your father is, but I have empathy for his pain....

[@iranutter2661]

Man, this gives me chills. As a grown man, this is heartbreaking. I grew up with my dad, but I could hardly imagine searching your whole life for someone to guide and understand you unconditionally. In this world, there’s only one man you can really cry around and that’s your father. Idk if women who mother these young men understand the importance of that in a world that is unforgiving.

[@bvtnFutureCorpse]

When my brother found us, he had been looking for his father for 42 years. Sadly, he had ours (our dad is a shit human), but he was so excited to find out he had a bunch of sisters, he was VERY forward and excited. 😂 I kept saying, "he's very keen." It was a lot to take in at first, but he's been in our loves for 3+ years now and we're more comfortable and getting that bond we should have always had. I'm not surprised that Syrome acted that when he thought he had found his family. I wish him all the best in healing.

[@jacklynmarin2448]

“I got my family” that’s right. Blessings to u.

[@cynthialogan5158]

Syrrome, if you can find it in your heart to not be angry and try to find out who is your real father I believe it will calm your spirit. You need to find out because you have children and you don't want them to wind up in an incestuous relationship. Talk to your mother to find out who else could possibly be your father. God speed young man and peace be with you.

[@tinarjackson9844]

It's hard for him not to be angry...because his mother has lied to him from birth! This is a different feeling for him. Them for her to get in on video saying I'm 100% sure this man is the father...KNOWING HE WASN'T THE FATHER! This young man is hurt beyond belief that his mother has lied to him all his life! 😮

[@roselandebazelais8236]

Well he can't find his father if his mother was sleeping around,and worst don't even know who the dad is.

[@ericstewart517]

What? Why do ppl always BELITTLE 😳 other ppl's Pain & Situation...... Find it in "HIS HEART" He shouldn't want his KIDS in an "incestuous relationship" ? TF? That's on HIS shoulders to....why not have HIM cure cancer, while ur at it! How about NANA caring about that for HER grandkids vs putting THAT on him, too....geez.....can the dude get a minute 🤔 before THAT'S on him. Did you NOT hear the pain, he had from actually "talking" to her, confiding in her, pleading for the TRUTH from her.....he DID that already, MA'AM!!!! His Momma didn't show up....for a reason....and then threw that jab about that old man "finally stepping up to BE "a" father.....then you wish the guy "peace" with putting all kinda extra 5hit on HIM.....👍🏾 👌

[@4CQueen]

​@@ericstewart517Exactly! Like, let the man grieve.

[@LBloggie]

GORL

[@fromama2011]

Whether that man is his Dad or not, the man's daughter needs to shut up. She knows no more than this young man. She was not there.

[@Ghostaredead]

Apparently He don’t know nothing either!

[@cherisainz]

😢 this brought me to tears 😭 I could feel his pain I hope he’s found peace and the love he needs ..

[@tashacraig4999]

I’m hurting for him 🥹

[@vanessaphillips184]

I know firsthand what he went through.I searched for my dad over 20 something years and when I finally found him and he was nonchalant,act like he couldn’t remember anything,so I left him alone .It definitely hurt 😢

[@AG-jg9qi]

Fuuuuuuhhhhh that’s some rough shit… this video made me tear up… so sorry you went through that

[@KamJ2010]

I went through this in my early 20's. For a decade the baby mom put daddy status on me and it ripped my family apart against me. Not only my family but everyone who knew me (and her) in Chicago. Some called me a not good man for standing on wanting a test before engagiing. Others said I was a dead beat for not supporting on her word. It sucked. 10 years later, through a serious of comical events, a DNA test was ordered by the court where I was proven not to be the father....although the child had my name (a name I picked out for him). When all was said and done....no one apopligiezed to me for not believing me, except my grandfather. Hell I invited the boy into my home to spend time with my othwer kids (I had gotten married and started a family). Baby mom got mad anf forbad me from interacting with him. Now...him and I don't have a relationship and he has a half fuzzy memory that he is part of my family and that, for some fucking reason, I am someone to hate. It's all toxic. Get a DNA test immediately! Trust me. End of rant.

[@soniaoghroro]

Oh, baby. I'm so sorry 😥

[@daybagodiswithyou9302]

Your momma was a 304 lol

[@itty.bittypretty2019]

Smh sometimes it’s best to leave ppl alone sorry for that

[@kalishadee8925]

My heart aches, looking at the demeanour of this man.

[@fullacharms]

Why the dad and daughter wated to chase after him after being cold and disrespectful to ease their conscience is wild. Leave that man alone. Hopefully he gets the answers hes looking for and has peace and happiness.

[@TF-gf3fs]

Ugh. The daughter pretending to care after the results came back negative only proves she was glad about it.

[@zoelife7272]

agreed

[@789FredBe]

Why you say, “the dad?”

[@indeiam7260]

The daughter set this up that’s why she saying sorry

[@snapshotsreviews4967]

My heart goes out to this young man, I hope he finds the answers he is searching for

[@melanierivera728]

Karamo speaks so well I just love him. That guy broke my heart.😢

[@dyoung2739]

Syrromes mom is a jerk for putting him through this. We as women can be so delusional sometimes. Reminds me of Kirk Franklins mom disputing 2 DNA test confirming Kirks father’s identity.

[@BRI2020-d8x]

Madness so sad 😢

[@dyoung2739]

@@BRI2020-d8x 😢

[@KamJ2010]

I went through this in my early 20's. For a decade the baby mom put daddy status on me and it ripped my family apart against me. Not only my family but everyone who knew me (and her) in Chicago. Some called me a not good man for standing on wanting a test before engagiing. Others said I was a dead beat for not supporting on her word. It sucked. 10 years later, through a serious of comical events, a DNA test was ordered by the court where I was proven not to be the father....although the child had my name (a name I picked out for him). When all was said and done....no one apopligiezed to me for not believing me, except my grandfather. Hell I invited the boy into my home to spend time with my othwer kids (I had gotten married and started a family). Baby mom got mad anf forbad me from interacting with him. Now...him and I don't have a relationship and he has a half fuzzy memory that he is part of my family and that, for some fucking reason, I am someone to hate. It's all toxic. Get a DNA test immediately! Trust me. End of rant.

[@dyoung2739]

@@KamJ2010 Hate that y’all don’t have a relationship but I’m glad that you got the truth.

[@dyoung2739]

@@KamJ2010 And you did the right thing by him so that speaks volumes about your character no matter what others think

[@MsNathalie26]

This really broke my heart.... I can see how much he wanted that man to be his father and to have siblings, He just wanted to be loved....

[@marieleblanc759]

As a woman I will never disrespect myself like this birth giver and as a MOTHER I would never put my children in any situation that will purposely hurt them unless it's for the greater benefit! I feel so bad for him!

[@evanewton1974]

Karamo is coming through with those suits!! 🔥🔥

[@KBrogsmom]

Casket clean

[@butyoucancallmesam]

You can't convince me that he can be a good father to 16 kids when they're spread around.

[@Guezster]

They’re probably just talking money wise at this point lol

[@TajaunMiles]

Right. If I was him, I’d be happy that he wasn’t my father. While the siblings are so defensive. I’m trying to understand why. The dad was nothing to defend or brag about.

[@tincredible]

I was sorta thinking that it's probably best that his father isn't a man with 16 other kids to give his attention and resources to. Perhaps this is good news in the sense that his actual father (if he can find him) is someone who is not spread too thinly to give him some of the individual love and attention that every offspring needs.

[@hazelboyce7230]

@@TajaunMilesYou are in no position to judge the relationship between this man and his children. His daughter said he was in all of their lives and they know each other. It is up to them to brag if they see fit. The young man got to see that the siblings get along and he wanted to be a part of it but because of how things turned out, these people are now the worst for you all.

[@tancaldwell9832]

Facts especially being in different households

[@nubianqueen4375]

I am glad he is not connected this family especially the father who spoke derogatory language about his mother in his presence. Be strong brother. You are worth more. Stay strong.

[@bobbiedm5369]

Syyrome you have an amazing light . I pray healing love and comfort to chase you down and hold you tight..may they never let you go. I can see and felt your heart. Continue being a great man and nah you're not weird ..you just need answers. ❤️🙏🏾

[@KBrogsmom]

The bad thing about these cases is that both "parents" got around. And the "child" never wants to hear that about the parent that raised them. And the Mama needs to hush talking about what she's sick of. Had she been honest with her son from the jump, he wouldn't be in the show.

[@deborahleslie2730]

My heart goes out to you young man. I can see you have so much love inside, but you yearn to also receive love of a father. This man doesn't deserve a son like you anyway. He could have handle the situation much better. Pour all that love into your children, and I promise they will love you right back. I pray one day you get to meet your real Dad...you deserve that. And Mom, be honest with your son. Help him to find the peace he searches for! God bless you.

[@Leslie-n1u]

Dame but the daughter really was emphatic she even cryed, wow I feel so bad for him❤

[@alwayssomething8344]

And I hate when those mothers put their kids through that embarrassment. She could have had them do DNA somewhere else privately knowing there was a possibility that he isn’t the father especially the way they were treating him. This is so sad and that’s why DNA testing should be mandatory for EVERYONE/EVERY CHILD at time of birth no matter what including for married couples. I can’t help but cry for him

[@andrewmohlala3262]

I really thought he was the father. So sad. But hey, man. You have the world in your hands. Just like you said, you have your kids. Atleast you still have, and you know your mom. No matter the issues between you, forgive her and live positively. It's not an easy thing to do, but you can.❤️❤️💖❤️💖

[@essay1405]

I can feel his pain……I’m about to be 40 and I been trying to find my father too……We built different bruh ,like you said is you got your kids and stuff…That’s all the love you need!!!!!💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

[@sweetepiphany67]

I just hope and pray he finds his dad and gets the love and closure he needs.😢❤

[@nicolebonetti8467]

I was so hopeful, dang! He's got so much love to give AND receive! I pray he gets all the answers he is seeking some day and that the love and acceptance is mutual. I truly do. I'm rooting for you, man!

[@YoungBagChasers1]

He really appreciates all the love and support ❤️ we gon figure this out pops

[@Jeanology]

I'm glad to see this comment and hope he doesn't give up on his search. It's possible his actual father has no idea he exists. I hope he keeps going on the journey to find his dad just for him to know his truth. ❤

[@BrenCap99]

Tell your dad there a many people out here pulling him that he finds his father and heals the hole in his heart.

[@paulchakola7372]

This was rough to watch, I hope that he can find peace. I respect the (almost) step sister for immediately trying to comfort him, that was the mark of a genuinely decent human being trying to be there for another person. I respect the man they thought was the father because he knew what the result was going to be and tried, in his own way, to have empathy. I have ZERO respect for the mother who spoke in such definitive terms about her son's paternity when she likely knew the truth.

[@Empress_Energyyy]

I was raised in a 2 parent home with my parents and didn’t get any love. Dude love yourself. Encourage yourself. Be there for yourself. Be all things to yourself. While your heart is broken imagine someone having that and growing up without it. 🤷‍♀️

[@sav_slayss]

This just broke my entire soul. This poor young man doesn’t know who his Father is among his Fathers side of the family which means he is missing half of his heritage and culture. I hope that his Mother is able to give him some answers because this man deserves to know that feeling of being complete. ❤😢

[@maribrunson4464]

He's hurting, the worst feeling in the world is to lied too and incomplete. Praying for this young man.

[@pollyannaprinciple5860]

Syrrome's pain, broken heart, and disappointment was devastating. I supposedly have a half brother out there who might be searching for his father. When I found out, I put my DNA on every DNA site just in case he was searching for answers. Syrrome needed the potential family's compassion. I pray that he finds his real father.

[@SB-tc2jr]

Syrrome, what a beautiful name! --- I can only imagine his pain! I just wish he would let this family love him despite the facts. The "sister" had so much compassion, but he shut her out! Wow, the dad knew what he knew! Geeeze, too bad! 💔💔💔

[@barbaracarley3601]

Totally agree. Beautiful name for a Beautiful young soul. My heart just breaks for this young man.

[@SB-tc2jr]

@@barbaracarley3601 - yes, indeed!

[@kaleahcollins4567]

No it's a white woman's attempt to give her Niger son of black name what they think of as a black name if he was dark-skinned with a black mother was his name still be nice

[@divinitygoddess1976]

The sister had compassion after she found out he wasn't her brother, but before that, she was very rude. I wouldn't have talked to her, neither

[@SB-tc2jr]

@@divinitygoddess1976 - if you were in her shoes, how much compassion would you have had? I'm sure she didn't know what to feel in this mess that she didn't create! But seems to me she did her best!

[@mika2707]

This is what happens when a mother lies to her son all these years knowing she had multiple partners and got him on TV talking about….I know you’re my dad when he’s not your dad

[@TheSclarke1989]

Oh this one got the water works to fall! He broke my heart saying “why did my mom do this to me”…I hope he get the answers and love he deserves.

[@sistaqueen3802]

I feel so bad for him, I wish I could give him a hug.

[@2005SHERWIN]

How could his mother do this to him? I’m so sorry and sad for this young man. I hope he will eventually meet his father but I don’t think he’ll be able to trust his mother again.

[@carla9898]

My heart hurts for him.. I pray he finds peace and everything he is looking for...

[@jarrodlevert7213]

Like the old saying goes “Mama’s Baby Popa’s Maybe” What so sad about situations like this is that people are always quick to condemn the man before the DNA results are revealed.

[@gracevictorious3922]

Karamo's suit!!! Perfection

[@cjohns1005]

I was literally reading the comment AND looking at his suit

[@nancycartwright325]

Awe he was just trying to find family love 😢. Honestly I completely understand because you can see he loves hard & quick (as do I, that’s why I understand ’cause I’m the same way) & I’ve tried fitting in all my 53 yrs. Stay strong keep your head up. You can see how much love he has to spread, so just save all that for YOUR fam (wife & kids). Shower them so they never feel the pain you have endured. Wishing the best of luck & more blessings.

[@KidAstronaut]

Damn I had to cry at seeing Karamo speak into that brother at the end. You can tell bro was off the deep end and Karamo brought him back.

[@OrestesSword]

No matter how secure of a person you are, paternity is a very delicate issue. Even if you aren't looking for a relationship beyond the results of the test, it will impact you the rest of your life.

[@bohlalenchabeleng1370]

Sounds like you're speaking from experience.

[@Nothingisreal1737]

@@bohlalenchabeleng1370weren’t you watching the video 😕

[@OrestesSword]

@@bohlalenchabeleng1370 No, but have interacted with enough people who had paternity issues. It amazes me how many women are unaware of who they're sleeping with at a given time.

[@RoseGoldHunii]

Wow, I'm heartbroken for him! He really wanted this to be the end of his search, he truly believed that was his dad. I hate when parents are irresponsible like this, only the child suffers😢

[@tiffanyadams2956]

You can tell he just wants to belong and has so much love in his heart. So flippin sad.

[@sukalameko4956]

My heart is in shambles for this poor baby. He wanted LOVE. WHY the heck did his Mother play him on like that?! Making him all vulnerable 😔❤ We're here for you! Sending love xx ❤

[@melissabernard1120]

Hes a loving man just wanting to love back i found that very evident god bless him either journey he chooses from here on😊

[@MSOM444]

Man this one really hit me ! I feel so bad for him 💙 he just knew that was his pops! Man I pray you are ok and well ! That’s so messed up ! You’re worth everything brother !