Stop caring about what others think about you

If you continue to care about what people think, you continue to live a life that isn’t truly yours.

[@Matt-bg3bd]

50 year old white dude here. Literally stumbled on your videos today. As someone who is single after being in a bad 20+ year marriage I am trying to make sure my next chapter is a happy and healthy one. And I think I just found a guide that can assist me in this journey while I “do the work”. Bravo young man. Bravo.

[@AskShimon]

Much love to you brother❤️thank you for tuning in

[@madelinemcpherson6313]

hope you’re doing well! good job choosing yourself and your happiness!

[@Fiatfan]

Keep up the good work on yourself

[@sushiii475]

Proud of you old man 👏

[@theevolvingmindset333]

I love this!! You've awakened, it's only up from here!

[@sw_calebschultz]

Deleting Social Media really made a huge impact on my perception of my own life.

[@Xzortix]

how so?

[@sw_calebschultz]

From my own personal exsperience, I was always focused on what other people were doing with their lifes I began to start comparing myslef. "Oh they always seem like they are having a good time" or " Damm I wish I had friends like that" and so when I deleted social media it made me realised and apreciate what I have already without comparison and learned that we are all on our own journeys @@Xzortix

[@ralph9923]

@@Xzortixcause you are not comparing yourself to any unrealistic standards on social media and only focusing on yourself. It’s the best thing to do as well as desexualising your mind by quitting porn too.

[@Frank-ix7jw]

how did you comment this

[@sw_calebschultz]

@@ralph9923 100%

[@zhoxc]

"Everything don't need to be said, every thought don't have to be exercised", shit this is good

[@BradleyGrosz1821]

He makes some great points and the thing I already got going for me and have since day one is I never cared what other people think about me and never will.

[@GrowthGuidance12]

This video felt like it was meant for me right now for the things I’m going through. Thank you

[@AskShimon]

Anytime g ❤️

[@BernardMumba755]

True 🙏 I stopped doing that in 2023

[@erenyeeagah204]

Im just starting its hard i wish i learned it sooner or that it clicked in my head sooner cus ive known for a long time. From now on im living for myself tho

[@saber3719]

​@@erenyeeagah204 Same here. I've been so selfish conscious, and in me head, and had so many doubts and false thoughts and constantly thought what peeps thought about me. But I'm done living for other people in the sense of their opinions a d being in my head so much and doubting and all that low vibe stuff. I'm going to be me 100% and i accept me 100% abs will keep bettering myself everyday. And I'm living for myself too from now on. And I'm living for me abs my Intrests.

[@daze77gaming]

@@erenyeeagah204don't just comment it actually do it

[@tingememilian8988]

Update us about how you feel now

[@TheMeron100]

The algorith suggested me a video fo yours and now I'm watching others. You're a good guy, God bless you my friend

[@foreverglowingup]

this is true !! when you no longer care about others perception of you step into your divinity ✨✨✨✨ one time i chose an outfit and a loved one was like i don’t think it goes together i said well i do lmao and i was complimented ALL day on it 😌

[@Drifter.Dreams]

The funny thing that happens when you start pleasing yourself, is that the burning desire for outside validation begins to dissolve. That need for outside praise and fulfillment (others doing for you as you *wish* they would) fades away when you begin to make fulfilling choices for yourself instead. Once that happens, it's like an energetic shift takes place. Your needy, grasping energy returns home to center and you become calm and still. And *that* is likely the point in which the attention and validation you've been rabid for this entire time will come -- it's a wild contradiction. A calm and private, satisfied spirit is like a magnet in this world that is filled with seeking, grasping energy. Boundary up, kids, this is the most wild of rides. 💕

[@Cherishcherryberryss]

i really appreciate this because im going to the 8th grade and i want to start a new style but im worried that people are going to pick on me but this video made me actually not care about what people say tysm!❤

[@kayyy_0510]

Literally same over here!!!

[@darkshadow955]

I wish I had this talk with my parents when I was younger.

[@johnnybravo9194]

This is the message I really need. I always find comparing myself to others, and become depressed when they're "better" than me.

[@rahman-p1e]

at my age 44 i give zero f.... anymore about what anyone thinks of me.i am feeling myself i aint seeking other peoples approval

[@theevolvingmindset333]

You're such a young and wise young man. I love it. I'm 53 and been on my journey for 5-6 years and you're speaking TRUTH for all people at any age. I pray my son finds one of your videos and it resonates. Keep doing what you're doing, young man. You're living in your purpose by sharing this knowledge. Take care. ~Mrs. B~

[@sylow1357]

Thank You man, I am truly starting to change my ways because of you

[@Djebwbsjziebbe]

Found your channel today. I needed these types of videos badly. Your gonna change many lives bro. Much love bro❤ have a great day/night!

[@theultimatereductionist7592]

60 year old white dude here. Literally stumbled on your videos today. As someone who is single my entire life (except for 5 girlfriends/sexual encounters) I am trying to make sure my next chapter is a happy and healthy one. And I think I just found a guide that can assist me in this journey while I “do the work”. Bravo young man. Bravo. (Sorry, @Matt-bg3bd. 😂🤣 I'm just messing with you: it was easier to copy and paste what you wrote than to start from scratch.)

[@a1anaillustrates]

I'm so grateful for this video. You are helping me be a better person, I was feeling bad today and worried about it but you showed me that it's okay to consider myself. ❤

[@padplays8441]

It's funny how we all know that some thing's are bad for us. We know this but yet there is like this fog in between our thought's and ourselves, that fog is mostly created by social media. And you sir are doing an amazing job telling people the truth, only with words, nothing else. Keep going man your doing good for the people who don't have a bigger brother or sibling. You are giving them brotherly love through video's.

[@AskShimon]

Much love to you❤️❤️

[@tylerbrooks0410]

found your channel yesterday and it’s truly a blessing. you’re already changing my life and the way i think after only one day. i already feel like a better person and i cant imagine what ill be like in weeks, months, and even years from now. im truly grateful for you and your content. keep grinding king👑🙏🙏

[@JanuaryCroy-wl6wo]

I love how this guy sounds kinda mad but he’s still speaking facts

[@kieraskyy]

I really needed to hear this. I get so tuned in on how I portray myself to other people and I hate that. I’m really trying to work on it and this video helped so much. Thank you💕

[@AskShimon]

Anytime❤️

[@EnJe682]

This speaks volumes. Self-love is the best love❤

[@Inkked7]

Stumbled upon your channel last night and I have been watching several videos already. I can't thank you enough for the immediate substantial input you share. It helps a lot in carrying this weight and persevering through life's absurdity.

[@ukiyo1406]

Omg.. I watched a lot of videos about this topic but only this one get in my heart. I even cried.. I’m just so tired to please others and think about their opinion about me, but I never think about myself.. I didn’t think what I like, what’s comforting me..

[@datbishded435]

I love you man, youre so comforting and youre so calming. Its like you speaking helps me heal myself. I love your thoughts and mindset

[@alexsandoval7051]

Nothing but facts. I needed to be reminded of this again, even though I’m aware we sometimes lose our self with the thoughts of what others think and how they feel about us. I felt like I had struggled through that probably my whole life in a way trying to find my own identity. My family is truly important to me and without them I wouldn’t be who I am and same goes for my friends. But im at a time where now the same friends I have been with since elementary and middle school we all see and do things less and pick and choose who we want to associate with. What this year has shown me was exactly what you said in this video word for word brother. through this experience of life I now see where I stand and what I should be shooting for. Thank you 🙏🏽 keep up the uploads it’s very informative!

[@adopezebra]

Dude I’m loving these uploads. There are loads of men that are just so lost right now, and this seriously helps a ton. Thank you.

[@fantacyencephalon_jess]

This video came at the right time. I have a public speaking presentation tomorrow and here I am overthinking about the audience and how they are going to judge what I say and overthinking about saying the right thing. I almost have tears in my eyes digesting this information you are sharing. Thank you for this, I am more at peace and going in tomorrow with a peaceful mind. I appreciate you.

[@user-rx8no1zt4c]

Brooo I’m going through it right now and these videos help me like for real man keep the videos coming. Much love from London!

[@mohamedabdelazim5788]

Thanks this video came just in time I have been thinking about that these days. my biggest regret in life is not putting myself first

[@AskShimon]

🧘🏾‍♂️❤️

[@dmx-am]

Congratulations on 50k subscribers bro 🎉 a week ago at 10k and look where you are. You've helped me tons man, thank you ❤️

[@anhquynh4938]

I just can not say thank you enough, your videos appear at right time to me when I was so struggled to set the boundaries and do not know where to start to find self love. I do believe that you helped so many people, your guidance like the answer from the universe when people needed the most. I wish you all the best.

[@SaxonWaters-tz1ef]

10k in one day. That is awesome. You are making an impact on so many lives mine also. Thank you so much man

[@Newstarz1]

this is a important life lesson, Very Very important i wished i learned at a young age .

[@NicholasTudor-k4v]

Bro, I wanan meet you so bad, you literally made me cry bro. Keep it up. Your inspiring to so many people. Luv your stuff bro

[@espenhaga2375]

Hi Shimon! You are truly a wise young man who have a lot to give to others, me included! You speak the hard truth, and I am doing my best to live by your teachings, because they are the right way! I hope many many more people come across your channel! God bless!

[@iSamoChan1]

the new youtube era is starting , i like the fact that your channel is growing while being authentic , huge respect ing

[@AskShimon]

❤️🧘🏾‍♂️much love to you

[@iSamoChan1]

❤🙏

[@tingememilian8988]

This video deserves 10 million + views. For all you said here are all facts. Thank you so much

[@bananasplit121212]

You're timing is incredible man. Thanks for sharing.

[@wäffłëşs-y]

I’ve been binge watching your channel for idk how long now but I can’t stop. Please don’t stop what you’re doing your videos have made me think back on myself and see what I need to do. Underrated channel just how you speak and the way you explain things is just wonderful. Love your channel have a blessed day

[@AshleyMcFadden-y4n]

Thank you for talking to us and not feeding our ego.

[@derek554]

Haven’t been so present with life let alone KZbin videos. Watched every frame of this video bro, thank you for speaking to me.

[@Neneneneneneneme]

I’m amazed by how much wisdom this has, you’ve helped me so much. I was just crying because a close friend of mine made a minor comment about my outfit. I was so insecure about my identify that attacking a small thing like my outfit felt like the end of the world. But if I’m being honest, I’m now grateful she said it because it made me realize how much I idolized wanting to be approved of. And because of the misplaced trust that I put in myself instead of God I obviously got hurt in the process😅. Of course I wouldnt want to hear the same comment again 😬😂 but it’s opened my eyes for a change of the better!This helped me to calm down and remember who I am AS A PERSON and even more importantly AS A CHILD OF GOD is much more important than what somebody thinks of my appearance. I usually don’t comment but I know the power of testimony is real. I also wanted to say you aren’t alone!! This is a bit off topic but I’m currently about to transfer into a new school and I think this is where all the new anxiety is coming from. If you could pray for my up coming year this would be a blessing. Thank you so much and stay strong!! The sun ALWAYS comes out after the storm. :)

[@Slipknot99]

Damn this was deep man I swear I needed to hear this 5yrs ago. This was so on point.

[@milanardito9249]

Your words are gift, you’re voice is a gift, I don’t know where your soul come from or the reason why you’re doing this but thank you

[@BeReborned]

Most inspirational on social media you growth has inspired and woken me up, keep grinding your meant to be at the top🔥

[@AskShimon]

Let’s fly high g🧘🏾‍♂️💯

[@KarismaSung0506]

YOU ARE LITERALLY THE BEST KZbinR IVE EVER SEEN YOU ARE AMAZZINGGGG

[@abuengkeddy8230]

bro this dude is my fav therapist

[@elsahernandez5216]

His words are so very true. But when it's all said and done the only one we should care about what we do or think is God. For he is the only one that can judge us. He is who we need to worry about and please by following his path. No one loves us better that God Almighty. Look in the mirror and tell yourself I am beautiful and I love myself. God bless everyone with doubt. AMEN,❤.

[@elsahernandez5216]

Thank you.

[@jett7249]

Thank you so much man, this was therapy for me and I honestly feel so much better listening to you and my frame of mind has changed ever since I listened to you! thank you, brother!

[@trsdepotllc9393]

Great Words!! You saved Alot of lives....your words are seeds planted in peoples hearts...

[@rainnghell3683]

Your eyes are so powerful bro..

[@jaydenisnostalgic]

This vid makes me want to start coloring in color books again in school and at home like I did as a kid definitely adopting this mindset all 2024 👦

[@AskShimon]

hy !

[@ougininja8412]

the words "family doesnt have to be blood relative" hits hard man

[@alessandro1268]

you are saving my mental health man, much love and keep it up!

[@shreysinha3567]

I stumbled across your videos today, you don’t bs, you are genuine, I want to build a good likeable personality who everyone wants to be around always, u are like a big brother to me.

[@therealstax-565]

wow I really feel God Has showed me you’re channel. Thank You for this Video it has opened my eyes

[@channelization3796]

Damn I needed this. Appreciate you bro❤

[@bigjoshallen]

Man! This was awesome! I feel like you were talking to me because you were looking into the camera lens. Thanks bro.

[@AskShimon]

I love you bro

[@bigjoshallen]

@@AskShimon same here. Have a wonderful day.

[@gugu532]

I will try my best to implement this mindset. Thanks for this valuable info

[@sadityravenn]

this healed me

[@daniel_najar]

"When it's time for you to perish, you're are the only one going in that case" 🔑

[@miniking7865]

Your video on moving on and healing popped up in my recommended, and I can’t thank the algorithm enough to be pushing your positive messages towards me. I’m locked in with your channel now, you’re a blessing to everyone G. Keep pushing out these videos, and if I can make a request, can you make a video on quitting smoking (vaping, cannabis) etc. God bless

[@kenanamsterdam]

This is what Hamza should have been if he didn’t sell out 💀💀. Good job dude, keep it going!

[@HopeFaith-d1c]

Yeah yeah! I needed to hear this, God bless you bro!🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@devpatel1716]

Your channel is amazing it helped me a lot on that corn addiction i thought i can no di anything i can not overcome it but after seeing your videos it gave me boost….pls keep uploading videos it helps many people and I am always supporting you…

[@stevenrobinson9856]

Im came to the conclusion recently im going to stop caring what others think about me. Its not like a criminal or anything. Im no longer dignifying things with a response.

[@MillyMill87]

Man I needed to hear this

[@ivycooper7224]

I love this video because my problem is I care too much about what people think about me and now I don’t care I slowed down but I have some moments I have to work on it! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@luvvvfear]

literally just have to be yourself and focus on yourself and everything else falls into place. if you’re comfortable with yourself nothing causes a huge problem. easier said than done but it’s true

[@navyacexv2937]

This channel is amazing thank you for what your doing man I’m truly starting to change because of your words and you deserve this crazy growth for your channel

[@yeriel2809]

I needed this so much bro. Thank you. This is giving me the courage to ignore what others think abt me. Also congrats on 50k🎉

[@billotron5521]

Nice job on 50k dude. You deserve 100 times more, but small steps man. God bless you 🙏

[@GamingTimothy]

This video really helps me. I appreciate it

[@yesi2117]

Thank you for these video. I've been trying to change myself.

[@Fattyas1]

I love this video, I teared up a little

[@ivycooper7224]

I don’t have time to think about people anymore!

[@YEVS1234]

I've been watching all of your video recently and i must say your just amazing. I appreciate all of your video, it really help me thank you ❤

[@edudyakoo]

On a tuff day like this i needed this

[@cinthiaglez7270]

Thank you so much for this video 💛

[@Eclipsez.]

Only recently discovered your channel but you seem very genuine I'm not sure if you have a tiktok but I feel like you'd blow up on there

[@erinbradbury0]

your soul lives on forever 😮

[@KhakiShow]

you words helped me alot

[@mianjocotv4296]

On point 💯

[@AndrewJrMkansi]

50K Subscribers, you did it!

[@JT-7771]

Hello Shimon just came across your videos about a couple of days ago your videos are really inspiring and I’m thankful for your knowledge and wisdom your doing great.

[@AskShimon]

I appreciate you fam

[@GhostHybridX]

Thanks man I actually really needed this.

[@gamezod18]

Thank you bro I really glad to see your video most times be like what they think of me this that but now not so much thanks for reminding to find my self keep doing what your doing new suscriber

[@akuxdante8471]

I love you bro I found your videos man n they helped the way I think idk what you believe in but I want you to know if you don’t already another thing that helps is having Jesus in your life n you have helped me alot in the five videos I’ve watched

[@gymgeneticsofficial5661]

Ur so cute hahaha the ending ❤️😂 love u too!

[@stvn.6891]

So glad I found your channel bro 🩵

[@NoSurrender786]

This is phenomenal, greetings from London

[@noonaqueen8133]

Thank you so much 🤍🤍

[@JayywavySurfingLaughs4Days]

I Thank The Lord all I Respect your video at the end of the day gotta just live your life and pray for those who are constantly worried about what others are doing instead pray for them

[@AskShimon]

🧘🏾‍♂️❤️

[@jbeats23]

shinon davis > andrew tate

[@eternalhatred666]

this. this man has only ever built people, not degraded them like tate

[@levar9911]

​@@eternalhatred666do you understand what this sign > means??

[@eternalhatred666]

@@levar9911 greater than. shinon davis is greater than tate

[@BunnyCavendish]

Thank you 💜

[@Jack_975x]

Great video again! Keep your good work up and keep helping us.

[@fluff9231]

Thank you shimon..thank you

[@Serhat67348]

Thank you bro❤