STOP SACRIFICING YOURSELF FOR OTHER PEOPLE | Overcome People Pleasing | Wu Wei Wisdom

[@laurielamoore2941]

Perfectionism is synonymous with judgement. That’s a brilliant concept. So perfectionism isn’t only self destructive. It’s also ruinous to relationships.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi, Absolutely! Perfectionism can lead to unrealistic expectations for ourselves and others, which can create unnecessary stress and strain on relationships. Recognizing this can help us approach ourselves and those around us with more compassion and understanding. Kind Regards, David P.S. Join our community for more insights: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/

[@angbeebee1]

Love the question of how the negative voices of other people keeps us in a vortex of constantly putting ourselves last. Its really difficult to break out of that negativity.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @angbeebee1, Thank you for highlighting such an important issue. Breaking free from the cycle of negativity and prioritising oneself can be challenging, but it's a crucial step in asserting your value and nurturing your Shen spirit. Remember, you have the power to choose your thoughts and who you listen to. Each step you take is a move towards more positive, self-affirming beliefs. Keep pushing forward, you're doing great! Kind Regards, David

[@angbeebee1]

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[@tobsternater]

It's really fascinating listening to David Lee's teaching. It gives actualised context to the Tao lessons. Reading the Tao...these concepts have always been but listening to David speak them gives them greater understanding of alot of questions that having always arisen from those readings. Thankyou both.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @tobsternater, Thank you for your kind words! We're thrilled to hear that our teachings have provided you with a deeper understanding of the Tao lessons. It's wonderful to know that the context and insights shared have helped clarify the concepts and questions arising from your readings. Your journey of exploration and understanding is truly inspiring. If you ever wish to dive deeper or discuss these topics with like-minded individuals, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community could be a great place for you. Visit facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/ to join the conversation and share your experiences. Continue to explore and embrace the wisdom of the Tao with openness and curiosity. Kind Regards, David

[@fingerprint5511]

Blessings for you both 🙏🌟🙏

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @fingerprint5511, Thank you so much for your blessings! 🙏🌟🙏 Your kindness and positive energy are truly appreciated. We send our blessings right back to you and hope that your journey is filled with insight, peace, and joy. Kind Regards, David

[@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA]

You are right David and Alex you cannot give people what you don't have self love and SheIn is first before you can give anything way. Great word's and advice ❤❤❤

[@tobsternater]

a bit more difficult to achieve I'll add. lol!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA, Thank you for your heartfelt acknowledgement! ❤❤❤ You've captured the essence beautifully - nurturing self-love and your Shen spirit is indeed foundational before extending your care and wisdom to others. We're glad our words resonated with you. Keep cherishing and cultivating your inner well-being as you journey through life. Kind Regards, David

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @tobsternater, Absolutely, it can be a challenging journey at times, lol! Remember, each step, no matter how small, is progress. Embrace the journey with patience and kindness towards yourself. You're not alone in this; we're all learning and growing together. Kind Regards, David

[@elizabethbarnes3969]

Thank you David and Alice. Your talk has helped lift the idea of not being good enough and not doing enough from deep in my belief system. I have been a active seeker on the spiritual path since I was 12 years old and yet at 81 years old, it has taken your conversation to really understand my own worth and how to use it affectively. I will listen to this again because there is a lot of content and I’m sure there are things I have missed. 🙏.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @elizabethbarnes3969, It's truly heartwarming to read your message. We're honoured to have played a part in your journey of understanding and valuing your own worth. Your dedication to personal growth and spiritual seeking is inspiring, and it's a testament to your strong Shen spirit. Remember, it's never too late to embrace new insights and perspectives that resonate with your path. We're so glad our conversation has been a meaningful resource for you. Please listen again and absorb the content at your own pace. Every step of reflection and understanding is valuable. If you ever wish to explore these topics further with others who share your dedication, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community is always open: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Thank you for sharing your experience and for your continued pursuit of wisdom. Kind Regards, David

[@margerita2176]

I love to listen to you. Thank you David and Alex for your teaching. I much appreciated ❤❤❤

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @margerita2176, We're thrilled to hear that you appreciate our teachings! Thank you for your kind words and support. Remember, we're here to guide you as you navigate through resolving issues and finding balance. If you ever want to share your experiences or seek advice from like-minded individuals, consider joining our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind Regards, David

[@margerita2176]

Thank you David for your lovely words. I am already a member of this lovely group.. I do not participate regularly. I live in chaos at the moment. Life is not running the best for me right now. I am glad to have you, as a person who understands the inner child and helps resolving issues and finding balance. We are in this together, and I feel I am being looked after. With love ❤❤❤

[@ryanhowley6977]

This is a brilliant life lesson!!! Bravo to you both! Great Q and A!!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @ryanhowley6977, Thank you for your enthusiastic feedback! I'm so pleased to hear that you found our life lesson brilliant and enjoyed the Q&A session. Your support is greatly appreciated. Continue to embrace these lessons, as they are steps towards nurturing your inner child and understanding your Shen spirit. Bravo to you for your commitment to growth and learning! Kind Regards, David

[@MarionFraser-de9dv]

Love all your teachings and enjoy listening♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @MarionFraser-de9dv, Thank you so much for your kind words! We're delighted to hear that you enjoy our teachings and find them beneficial. Your support means a lot to us. Continue to nurture your journey with positivity and wisdom. If you ever wish to delve deeper or share your experiences, feel free to join our Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind Regards, David

[@HD-mg9ru]

Thank you so much for all your teachings. I so appreciate you both. As an Empath I've always found it hard to put myself first. And to stop being on autopilot saying yes when I actually feel like saying No. It's hard to put yourself first. I think a lot of it has to do with abandonment issues and being trained as a child that you're not important.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @HD-mg9ru, Thank you for your heartfelt message and for valuing our teachings. It's a significant step to recognise the patterns you choose, such as the difficulty in prioritising your own needs and the challenge of breaking the autopilot of saying yes. Understanding these patterns is a crucial step toward resolving these issues and cultivating your Shen spirit. Remember, choosing to prioritise yourself is not selfish; it's essential for your well-being. Our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community could be a supportive space for you, where you can connect with others who might be sharing similar experiences. Feel free to join us at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind Regards, David

[@HD-mg9ru]

​@@WuWeiWisdom Thank you David for responding back to me. It really means a lot to me. I needed to hear your response. Especially from a highly respected professional like you you. 🙏😊❤

[@watercolourartincapetown2919]

Thank you 🙏

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @watercolourartincapetown2919, Thank you for your gratitude and for being a part of our journey! It's wonderful to have you with us. We're here to support and share wisdom, so if you ever have questions or want to connect with others, our Wu Wei Wisdom community is a great place: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind Regards, David

[@dianapaloma3102]

Thank you to you both. Such lovely, beautiful human beings. 🙏❤️

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @dianapaloma3102, Thank you so much for your kind words and appreciation. We're truly grateful to connect with such wonderful and supportive individuals like you. Remember, we're here to support each other in our journeys to resolve issues and enhance our Shen spirit. Kind Regards, David

[@vancelifereflexology]

You guys are just wonderful. ❤😊🙏

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @vancelifereflexology, Thank you so much for your kind words and for being with us for 10 months! ❤😊🙏 We're delighted to hear that you find our work wonderful. Your support and engagement mean the world to us. Continue to embrace your journey with joy and positivity, and remember, we're here to support you every step of the way. Kind Regards, David

[@jamiepaich]

Excellent timing! I'm going to get my mom to bring her to stay with, and take care of her, while still working. I've come a long way, so I think I've got the balance, but if there's anymore sage advice I'm open. Thank you!

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @jamiepaich, That's wonderful to hear about your decision to take care of your mom while balancing work-it's a commendable and loving action. It sounds like you've developed a strong sense of balance and resilience. Remember, it's also important to take care of yourself during this process. If you ever need more advice or support, don't hesitate to reach out. We're here to help. Wishing you strength and harmony in your journey. Kind Regards, David

[@bachngocto6368]

Thank you so much for your energies. You both really help transforming my life !!. Wonderful to be of service but make sure you have something on your plate to serve 🙏🙏♥

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @bachngocto6368, Thank you for your heartfelt message! We're thrilled to know that our energies and teachings are contributing positively to your life transformation. 🙏♥ Your reminder to ensure we have something on our plate to serve is wise and much appreciated. We believe in nurturing ourselves to effectively support others. Your acknowledgement and support mean a lot to us. Kind Regards, David

[@carollloyd9715]

Thank you for everything

[@440SPN]

Thank you both. 🎉🎉🎉

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @440SPN, You're very welcome! 🎉🎉🎉 Thank you for your gratitude and enthusiasm. If you have any questions or need further insights, we're here to assist you. Keep embracing your journey with positivity and openness. Kind Regards, David

[@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA]

David you and your wife Alex are a great team, the Wisdom and knowledge that you have to help me and other's I am so grateful to have you and her as my guidance and therapist Thank you so much

[@440SPN]

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[@Lenneke8422]

Brillant ty David and Alex I really enjoyed it and learned from it especially that people pleasing is in fact manipulating ...❤❤❤

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @Lenneke8422, Thank you for your kind words. We're glad you found the video insightful. Recognizing that people-pleasing can be a form of manipulation is a significant step towards living authentically. For more support and wisdom, feel free to join our free community: [facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/] Kind Regards, David

[@sallyvalentine7493]

Thank you.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @sallyvalentine7493, You're very welcome! Thank you for being a part of our community for the past eight months. Your support means a lot to us. If you ever have questions or wish to share your journey, remember that our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community is a space where you can connect with like-minded individuals: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Keep moving forward on your path to resolving issues and cultivating your Shen spirit. Kind Regards, David

[@akbarkhalaji9196]

you are like a father to me David

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @akbarkhalaji9196, I'm deeply touched by your words. It's an honour to be considered a father figure to you. Please know that I'm here to support and guide you, just as a wise and compassionate parent would for their child. Together, let's continue walking this path of understanding, nurturing, and resolving issues, embracing our journey with the Tao. Remember, you're not alone; we're in this together. Kind Regards, David

[@mikehardy3823]

Hi, with your guidance, I’ve done a lot of work around re parenting my I.C and my/ our Shen connection, and now I have another request….would you do a video specifically for the parent, our adult selves, the part of ourselves that live in the human centred world with all its interactions ! If that part of ourselves is not together,as it were, then it’s not possible to re parent our I.C properly ! Love Mike, as One !

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @mikehardy3823, It's inspiring to hear about the progress you've made in re-parenting your Inner Child (I.C.) and nurturing your Shen connection. Your suggestion for a video focusing on the adult self, dealing with the human-centred world and its complexities, is excellent. It's true that having a grounded and balanced adult self is crucial for effectively re-parenting the I.C. We'll certainly consider your request for future content. Keep up the great work, Mike, and remember, we're all connected in this journey. If you'd like to discuss this further or share insights, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community is always there for you: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind Regards, David

[@EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA]

Yes the inner child will start pointing things out to you and trying to make you feel your decisions are not right and then the self talk begin and black beauty, I knew she had surface and was trying to control my actions. I am aware of her now I immediately took control over her and went back to my SheIn.😊

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @EnlightenmentQueenElisheBA, It's great to hear that you're becoming more aware of your inner child's influence and how it affects your self-talk and decisions. Recognising this is a significant step toward aligning more closely with your Shen spirit. Your proactive approach to acknowledging and guiding your inner child, rather than letting it control your actions, is commendable. Keep nurturing this awareness and connection to your Shen spirit. 😊 Kind Regards, David

[@Mungi33]

I agree with everything you say on an intellectual level, but as a carer of someone with a degenerative condition, I don’t always find it easy to put into practice. Everyday seems to throw up new challenges. When I first moved in, it was more of a winwin situation, and I was giving from a full cup. But as time has gone on, and things have progressed, it has become harder. It's not a situation I can change overnight either. It would take time and a lot of really hard and heartbreaking decisions. Sometimes, what you sign up for, might not be as easy to fulfill as you first thought. So do you just give up and walk away? Do you have any tips for staying grounded and positive in challenging situations? I know most lives must have some hard times. Thankyou for your videos 🙏 I have listened to you for a long time now and have found them very helpful.

[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @Mungi33, Thank you for sharing your heartfelt situation. It's truly commendable to care for someone with a degenerative condition, and understandably, it can be challenging to maintain balance. It's okay to acknowledge that what you're doing is challenging and that feeling overwhelmed is natural. Remember, it's essential to take care of your own well-being too. Finding small moments for self-care, grounding yourself through simple mindfulness or breathing exercises, and seeking support from others who understand can be invaluable. You're not alone in this journey, and it's okay to seek help when needed. If you're looking for a supportive community, our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community is here for you: facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Your resilience and dedication are admirable, and it's important to recognise the strength it takes to face each day's challenges. Kind Regards, David

[@Mungi33]

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[@hmohamud86]

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[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @hmohamud86, Thank you so much for your continuous support over the past two years! Your encouragement means a lot to us. Keep embracing your journey to resolve issues and cultivate your Shen spirit. If you ever want to share or gain more insights, feel free to join our FREE Wu Wei Wisdom community at facebook.com/groups/wuweiwisdomcommunity/. Kind Regards, David

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[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @agnetalundgren1358, Thank you for your lovely message and the positive energy you're sharing! 💜 If you ever wish to deepen your understanding or connect with like-minded individuals, consider visiting our Wu Wei Wisdom community. We're here to support each other. Kind Regards, David

[@TimCCambridge]

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[@WuWeiWisdom]

Hi @TimCCambridge, Thank you for your support and the positive vibes! 🀄👍 I'm glad to see your enthusiasm. Your engagement and feedback are incredibly valuable to us. Keep embracing the journey with a positive spirit and openness to growth. Kind Regards, David