Stop UNDERvaluing Yourself and OVERvaluing Others by doing this...(the comparison trap)

[@AaronDoughty44]

heyyyyy everyone! I think this meditation is perfect for shifting your self-image & breaking free from the comparison trap. listen for 21 days and watch how your life changes :) kzbin.info/www/bejne/e5bHcqyFh9FjetU

[@JoeAwesome1]

Thank you kind sir if you would like to try a short meditation with me I would be honoured but obviously I know you have lots of request from the viewers and totally understand if you are unable to, thank you for being a guide to so many of us souls of the light, I send many kind blessing's to you and all always 🙂💡🙏🌎🌕🌙✨💧❤️

[@stevestone5569]

This is FANTASTIC and true!! Aaron, Can you PLEASE make a video about people who Overvaluing themselves and Undervaluing others?!! I meet people who think everyone else is less than or no good! Thank you for all the knowledge you share❤

[@bellabwz]

Thanks

[@bellabwz]

Steve Stone agree my ex like this

[@stevestone5569]

@@bellabwz thanks, yes you see it's hard to deal with them. Even though I know that every one is just a reflection of an aspect within me, I can't really enjoy their presence! It's always not good enough for them 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@tequilachanel7312]

“If you want to change your reality about how people value you, change your story about how you value yourself.” Got it

[@blizzard5287]

I should steal this one as well lol

[@jacalyntaylor6721]

Thank u!!!

[@wingnutmcspazatron3957]

Perfectly worded, wow what a quote.

[@ErikaK]

Life changes the moment that you decide that you are WORTHY, SPECIAL and BEAUTIFUL... when you feel confident and you value and love yourself, others will see you the way you see yourself!!! :) self-love is truly everything

[@AaronDoughty44]

yasss Erika!

[@ErikaK]

@@AaronDoughty44 sending love !!!

[@arvindreddy.business]

💗💗💗💗

[@ErikaK]

@@arvindreddy.business much love Arvind !!! ♡♡♡

[@joeblogs9017]

That was really nice to read ♥️♥️♥️

[@bkholch8179]

Just wanted to tell everyone I love you! You’re worthy! You’re amazing!

[@pamelamccullough7384]

And I must say to you I love you and you are worthy and very much amazing

[@sharonthomas865]

Thank You Brandi ,You are worthy and Amazing ,I Love You too

[@marshmello4944]

Brandi you are worthy and amazing too 🥰

[@ThisisDaniel]

You too Brandi, feeling your great vibes!

[@guknhguhcrujbcd3962]

I love you too

[@crystalmanifestations560]

1. Stop competing and comparing yourself to others and know that you are cut from the same cloth. 2. Make the choice to find your vision. 3. Take action with your vision and be dedicated and consistent with it. 4. Stop being the cameo and take centre stage in the limelight. 5. BOOM - you are a STAR, worthy and valued. 😊🙏 ⭐️🌟✨💫

[@sergebeaulieu7956]

should i keep my attention on what i want when i let go or just forget about it

[@louisejeffries7155]

Serge Beaulieu - hey Serge I see no one has responded to your question May I This works for me I think when you're manifesting something its near impossible to just forget it Even the things we'd prefer not to manifest!!!! I say my daily affirmations and then go about the day If it pops into my mind, which it usually does if it important enough, I figure my subconscious brought it up so I'll recognize the thought (observe it) and Give thanks - something like 'thank you that what is mine is mine, only what is best for me comes to me and comes to me easily and now. I accept the best and now leave the rest. Then just carry on with what ever I was doing. This seems to take any stress out of the remembering or not remembering or hanging on to tight Hope that helps at least a little Have a great day and expect the best for yourself- blessings to you

[@sergebeaulieu7956]

@@louisejeffries7155 so how much time a day should i act as if thx

[@louisejeffries7155]

Serge Beaulieu - every time it comes to mind And it does come to mind more and more often until it becomes apart of you - who you are. It's truly amazing what happens, what comes into your life and how things just work out Hey I don't want to be high jacking Aaron's site here so I'm signing out now But it's really good to having been chatting Serge Blessing to ya

[@rayali9854]

I like this.

[@BryanDivisions]

This is huge! Something we all fall victim to from time to time. The key is stay in our own lane! If we're gonna compare ourselves, we should only compare ourselves to who we were yesterday. Much love!

[@AaronDoughty44]

Well said Bryan!

[@waelfaraj6705]

Just be aware of being worthy . As said , joy , love and peace are our true nature if we allow it . Just like a cork if released when under water , it pops up ...

[@NorthernHedgeWitch]

This is so true. We can only compare ourselves to ourselves.

[@Stufftough]

@@AaronDoughty44 Just because you did the vlogging and it worked for you, you go "yay it was my calling." You know that ticked me off a bit when you said that. Because I've gone after my passions and had 0 support from family and friends and fuckking, shit didn't work out for me the way i wanted. So i tried another passion and that didn't fuckin work out either. Okay? Do you hear where I am Aaron? I'm pissed off it appears things aren't working out for me, it feels like I gave up trying, it feels like im a loser. So it aint as easy as you say it is.

[@alisagopyan355]

Bryan, thank you for clarifying what staying in your lane means. I've been wondering about this, you know on a deeper level..

[@HumansOfVR]

*_comparing ourselves_* to others tends to lead to undervaluing yourself

[@septemberdreamer2651]

“You can only perceive that which you are in the vibration of” 🤯

[@Philippians2..10]

Yes, WOW…!!!

[@oureverydaylives]

Self love : the power is inside of you. 🙏 Yesterday's video is very important on narcissists 💫 warrior Aaron 🙏🌞⚡🕊

[@AaronDoughty44]

much love bro!

[@NorthernHedgeWitch]

Self love is so important

[@EloraCare]

Self love is so vital. I wish more people knew what a difference it makes 😩

[@animationsimplified2718]

This came in the right moment bro! Holy SH....I was just thinking of this for the past 3 days on how i can stop feeling inferior to other people. I always felt like i had to chase something to be great. I keep repeating the words of my mentor, "You are not broken, you are growing". I am worthy!

[@louisejeffries7155]

Dare To Be Better - I've read a few of your comments in a few places now - you're cool

[@animationsimplified2718]

@@louisejeffries7155 Thank you! Love engaging with other content creators like Aaron as well as the community. Much Love

[@doreens120]

"stay consistent in the way you prefer to be" that really stood out for me, thank you ❤

[@Nicole-ld6ev]

Aaron you're manifesting millions of subscribers so easily and fast👏👏💖💖

[@Pheladi.M]

So so true

[@lorrained9374]

So deserving 🙌

[@chrissymarsha2282]

Period! When you look up to people, they have no choice but to look down on you

[@lilsimsun]

I need that motivation. Let’s keep the good vibes coming!

[@AaronDoughty44]

much love & namaste

[@lilsimsun]

Aaron Doughty namaste to you too big bro!

[@Rockking1111]

The Mirrors in the mind shall reflect the best within Self, not the worst within others.. Thanks Aaron

[@lightworkermonica]

I've been needing to this video for a long time!! Up until a couple a years ago, I was positive that I was the only person in the entire world without a purpose and I put everyone else on a very high pedestal. That was before my spiritual awakening,

[@PeterAse]

Perfectly timed because I had to realise this at this moment in time. It seems I had too much pride, while at the same time wondering why I couldn't connect to people, even after healing myself. I found the answer: EVERYONE has the SAME VALUE. When I realised this, my reality and feeling of it started to shift tremendously. Possibilities and miracles started flowing in and the old ways started breaking down. Why? Because "same value" breaks down the seperation structure "this person vs I", allowing in unity/oneness to take place. No matter how much skill someone has, or how much material they own, everyone has the same value as a living being. And yes, ultimately, everyone is special, but don't think this way because the ego loves to hear you or someone else is special (the pedestal Aaron is talking about). Think in "same value", KNOW "everyone is special" (deeper layer beyond the ego)

[@pamelamccullough7384]

Exactly and the reason why everyone has the same value because we are all one wow talk about Goosebumps now LOL we are all connected

[@ttupcommunications819]

Bro, you do not know what you just did. Although I almost cried n shit, I feel so empowered and invincible I think I am going to save the World.

[@daninovazki3371]

Id love to see videos on dealing with toxic parents...

[@pennyproud2370]

Yes definitely! Narcissistic abuse is no joke

[@miriammuradas4623]

Aaron for the first time I understood the phrase “you get/attract in life what you are” and you clarified that it is about the image of oneself. No other speaker has made that clear. Because of that I now understand what I’ve been doing wrong. Blessings to you!

[@ArtByHazel]

Blessings to whoever is reading this right now. You are enough. You are valuable. You are worthy. You are amazing. You are beautiful.

[@dangelleewarner1925]

Don’t tear yourself or others down, everyone is valuable - it’s beautiful content 💗

[@danajhadavis]

111 comments! 👼🏽 I really needed this Aaron, thank you! I felt like the Divine was speaking to me through you. Much thanks 🙏🏾

[@JMG72ARG]

with home office we had a little vacation from negative people at the office, now we need your videos again! The office environment destroys any hope of harmony at work.

[@viszariogullini3963]

Being in the present and in full acceptance can awaken these concepts we must love our inner first at all cost .

[@celissewillis9399]

Yes for sure! Our conditioning definitely contributes to our level of self love. Most people don’t recognize the connections between childhood beliefs & what we attract as adults. Although whatever was said or done to us in childhood was not out fault, it IS our responsibility as adults to shift those under serving beliefs about ourSelf, because no one can do it for you.

[@SteezyDollIsabel]

I ran into this video for a reason I swear I went from Dishwasher to owning my own boutique & I worked for it. Right now I was thinking man what if I am not worth that job what if I am not good enough for it I might as well go back to labor but I have the skills for the better job. Thank you so liberating!!😭💕I have always been worth it relationship wise & job wise 💅🏼

[@mordaciousfilms]

So I'm on the right path if I've started SEEING myself as this awesome, big, superstar artist and filmmaker and musician and I carry myself like a "main character" and an important presence. I like to think I make a positive impact and inspire others so I make it a point to live from that perspective as much as possible!

[@halonamwendwa6887]

Thanks our sweetheart. We are unstoppable To everyone listening.. you're so precious...God is your worthy... you're priceless.

[@jayhulrs1435]

Aaron you just speak to my soul. I listen to your videos while I walk, take notes, and read again. Changing from the inside out♡

[@wingnutmcspazatron3957]

"Comparing yourself to others when there is no 'other'." That's a profound statement.

[@kellyvandall3355]

I've always been treated as under valued. So I felt as though I were not valuable. Not anymore! I am the most important person in my life and I AM valuable. I will not allow anyone to treat me that way again!

[@JS-io2bh]

I was taught the same thing when I was young “ be seen and not heard”. Thank you for sharing this, it helps so much. When you said this happened “for me “ instead of to me, that really clicked and opened my eyes a lot. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@incrediblemrj7958]

Being a 42 yr old man , after hearing and watching this video, I realized I have been lost from myself and put everything and everyone else first before me. And trying to make everyone else happy then myself. I thank you for your help and helping me find myself again

[@Sequinxx]

I so needed this. I am always there for everyone. The first to help. But no one ever seems to be there for me. I guess as I am always seen as the strong one. And when I fall down everyone comes down with me.

[@Rattifant]

I took your test an I'm already a hero. The next level is wizard I always wanted to be a wizard lol. Thx for sharing all this stuff with the world.

[@Munnraibe]

bruh, your Ho'oponopono meditation that I finally listened yesterday works! literally 15mins later I get a rather inspiring message from person Ive had communication problems with. Later that evening I have a rather positive talk with my dad (whos still a bit of an alcoholic) and I haven't had a blame free talk with him for ages. tears of joy literally mate... speaking of comparisons lol, Im also getting a much more grown up vibe from you Aaron compared to few months ago. probably the perspective change when walls are coming down. eternally/internally grateful!

[@alisagopyan355]

Haha so notice how the camera refocused as you said you only perceive that which you are the vibration of! I've gone through a lot of difficulty with putting people on a pedastal, not believing in myself and mental illness, suicidal thoughts, not growing up etc. Soo much so I've had a lot of difficulty with career, and crystalising the vast array of ideas I've received through spirit. What you're saying is speaking to me directly , you're a huge inspiration really! Dedication as Bashar says, is one of the 4Ds. After major depression and anxiety this year, I've had to dedicate myself to do a lot of healing and inner work. My self esteem had plummeted big time. NOW all of sudden, my friends are coming to me saying I sound like a "spiritual teacher" and my words are compelling etc (I'm paraphrasing, and they're pretty in tune themselevs too so they know their stuff!) .. It brought me to tears because it spoke to my core, I've been afraid to step up and made a lot of destructive choices in my process. It's taught me so much though! So if people are giving you messages and it touches you deeply, please listen guys! So much love and gratitude 💜

[@normagaunce9630]

Thank you Aaron. I had a narcissist mother so I think you are right. There is something that happens to children of these people. Thank you

[@edwinromilly4645]

God & Creation doesn’t make mistakes-Such a Fabtastic video!!!!!😀😀 Quality of our life's are the Quality of our emotions •passion •Love •Growth •peace •intensity •empowerment •Greatness⭐️

[@samanthachildress1091]

The part about thinking you're the exception and everyone else is on a pedestal.... wow, that hit deep! It really is a very selfish mindset but I forgive myself for having it and release myself from that thought pattern ❤❤❤

[@roifberthyijixuifuubgbv4cr655]

Hi my name is Robert I'll be 40 at the end of May so this is a milestone I've been doing a lot of work on myself and I've dealt with some therapists that were money hungry and I hadn't realized that I owe the answer within myself and thank you so much for your videos they are so liberating and they are grounding during my journey ....so much of what you say is true about being your own person that's where the energy goes to want to watch your videos letting go I mean it resonates with me and I feel that connection when I'm in tune with myself people are attracted to me if I'm attracted to someone else it's a repellent I mean it's so universal and pretty beautiful

[@EmyT]

This video touched my soul. I cried through most of it. Thank you for this empowering video!

[@bellabwz]

I agree thanks for encouraging ,keep focus on what you wanna be and compare your self from your self before be better by time thats my prinsip to before i got relationship with toxic person and make me undervalue myself..and now i try to come back to my self before and keep better by time .And i wanna add something i learn from life ..we are have same value..money fam n succesfull or apparance not make us less than the other..What make us less ,are less respect to our self and other.

[@2legit178]

Can I just say: despite the fact that you’re not melanated, I really do believe and hope you’re a chosen one! Thank you for your wise words ✌🏾❤️

[@Blueswedishbeauties]

You make me feel all warm and fuzzy and I love myself so much more now.

[@Anonynamalam]

Everyone is POTENTIALLY valuable. It is their decision on whether they choose to act to make it a reality...

[@moongoddess1806]

Ur so right. I've needed this for quite sometime. It is hard to overcome childhood experiences. Thank you.

[@josephkaruri6586]

I'm feeling my purpose now thanks for the message

[@jaspercao6369]

I am claiming my role as the star of my movie. I am taking back my power and control of my own life.

[@crazyc99]

This nothing short of AMAZINGLY OUTSTANDING! Your twin flame experience is almost identical to mine! Accept I don't think mine knows what's going on yet.

[@firstladyqueen5985]

I absolutely love and admire your breakthrough and success! 😊❤😍however, i absolutely abhor when Anyone says get rid of the old beliefs that No longer serve you! When have they have served you or anyone?! When has limiting beliefs, negative talk, self-worth that came from parasitical low-vibe/low-character lost souls ever served anyone? No one was born with low self-worth, insecurities! No one was born petrified and feeling beneath Anyone! That is other people's doing! And it is super sad that one is left with all that detriment, trauma, sadness and/or anger to heal. Takes a lifetime for some! 😓😢

[@betteryoubysabrina]

watching this a year after you posted but damn this is great. vision = focused. actions = aligned. worth = OVERVALUED. we’re going far & high places baby ✨

[@trueabundance2062]

Dude each video you've posted lately has been a total reflection of where i am each f-in day. No lie, I feel like it's something small missing in my overstanding or subconscious that when the switch is flipped once i get what it is, it all will jus make sense in manifest through me... 🤦🏾‍♀️ What is it though? Because you're pleading with me/us who understand to value myself/ourselves... We so needed this bro!!!! Here🌹 There's a 🌹 a rose!

[@jamiecee4960]

I needed to hear this today...💖💖...I do deserve what I Believe. No one is taking that away from me. Maybe Selfish...It's who I am now. 💖💖Compete with youself. Not with others. All about me. And not how others see me. I Love your smile. I need to practice that more often...🤗🤗 Ty Aaron. I do love your video's. 💖

[@squishy_soob]

A Leeor burrito in its natural habitat 😂✌

[@SONALI_V]

😂😂

[@MusicWorkflowAcademy]

Great vid!

[@rkghaisani]

Aaron you dont know how much you have saved me

[@THRILAH]

This video is going to change my life

[@cindykeyes4532]

Thank you I am taking the star role in my life. I started making youtube videos on spirituality and i love it. Thank you

[@summary-oneminute8680]

I sometimes feel afraid to open your videos, I get shocked Everytime! 😍 Thank you ❤️❤️❤️

[@xxparzival23xx98]

Thank you Aaron this video came at Devine timing for me. Peace and long life to you.

[@positiveenergyseeker]

facts! Eye just woke up feeling bad about myself. Aaron is anointed

[@DJTeddyJetts]

Big big big loves bro! I have seen so much so called positivity content...but you are by far the best at teaching in a tangible way. You can feel your peace through your words. A rare quality. I used to be like that self consciously...but I ate the forbidden fruit...knowledge of good and evil...

[@ascendingoldsky]

THIS IS EXTRAORDINARY TRUE !!! IM 19 AND ON MY SPRITUALLY JOURNEY GOD BLESS EVERYONE WAS PUT HERE FOR A PURPOSE !

[@lumi7156]

I appreciate you making videos everyday

[@deadcellpictures6843]

This video has opened my eyes to what I have been putting myself through , so glad i found it! Thanks so much!!

[@timtelligence6667]

This was really powerful, I felt those words in my heart. I always wondered how I can achieve such a state of wellbeing..until I realized it's a stream that's constantly flowing, I just need to stop resisting the tide and catch a wave🌊🏄‍♂️

[@MmeLouy]

I liked this video like 2 minutes in, and then continued to try to like it over and over throughout the rest of the video. So timely. Thank you so much!

[@michaelpigmans2276]

At the right moment, ment to be, thank you. Namaste, much love and light from the Netherlands.

[@roaakabli2261]

I am defiantly guided to this by my spirit guides! I wanted to listen to your video yesterday but I didn’t, I kept it on my history and got back to it today (5 things your spirit guides want you to know) and then it got me to this! I took the quiz and did the meditation and tears were just coming down and I met two of my spirit guides which I AM SURE they are, it’s not the first time they show up, my father who passed away 2 wears ago and my uncle who passed away many many years ago! Both showed up and told me, we took the hard way for you! You are safe to release how we did it and evolve into just reaping! In the beginning I felt so guilty to leave my dad behind and then he told me we will always be there dear, we are light now without the beliefs, so no you won’t leave us behind, no guilt! And that just made me fly and they flew with me 💓 thank you so so so much!

[@Dannyrainofficial]

This video is so rad ❤️

[@nicolepada2414]

Aaron: MAKE THE CHOICE!! me: repeating what he said a hundred times

[@vaidikaruchulu676]

Thank you for this video Aaron.. Thoughtful video... Amazing things are happening in my life when I started watching your videos thank you a million times From india 🇮🇳

[@SmartVideosJarkaWatched]

"When will you make the choice? ..." I am a sonic screwdriver! But--until someone picks me up & unlocks all the functions & uses etc.--I remain a discarded flashlight. I've also heard the saying, "Whether you think you can or you think you can't, You're Right."

[@wendyburgess2962]

Boundaries. I had to put in place some much needed boundaries. Since doing that I have noticed Superficial Connections fall away. It seemed they must have been offended. I no longer share or divulge too much of my Life , but I’m now having to pick up the pieces of having wasted away much that can’t be retrieved. I will work through it and embrace this new concept. I’m valuable, as is my time, Energy and Light. I’m an avid follower of your Videos, and am currently doing the 21 day Ho oponopono.🙏

[@mojobuzz1961]

For 23 minutes I heard "value yourself". Got it.

[@joanvoss7512]

you are the most honest person i have never met

[@anabelnieto74]

Everytime i open the KZbin app, i see you in a video with exactly the message i need to hear... everytime i open this app, the same thing happens: you with the right message at the right time. Thank you!

[@OLatreil]

This video is soooo powerful Aaron. I have to save this. Just thinking about how we create our own reality and that everything is a reflection of who we are inside. I had to pause and reflect when you said "there are no others"... What? Wow! The others are different versions of me? Sigh... Now I want to analyze all the people who I connect with and try to see how they mirror me.

[@Surfsup448]

I get so much from your videos. Makes total sense. The other way does not work. Worth the effort.

[@JuanCarlos-ez5yn]

This is cool I had to hear this message . Very important . Thank you. This makes people complete .

[@majesticstyle4527]

This should be a meditation. Very powerful words.

[@nyeng14]

Thank you so much Aaron! I watched this before. I just watched it now. My spirit IS AWOKE AGAIN NOW! Thank you!

[@jeantuite-actress--imdb]

Thanks Aaron for reiminding us of our uniqueness and individuality

[@emekaabuah6029]

You were sent from above Aaron.

[@sharonsmith6179]

I appreciate your videos. They help me look at my self from a different view point, again Thank you.

[@SarahElise-so3sy]

This is an amazing mindset shift. After thinking about this video, I started viewing myself different.. realising who I really am.. i stopped procrastinating on study, aced my exams, the list goes on. Its changed everything- complete 360.. Im becoming a completely different person. Thank you 🤍🙏

[@311soul5]

This resonated with me! Thank you Aaron. 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

[@AaronDoughty44]

Glad to hear :)

[@MelaniePhippard]

Good to see you smiling and super happy! Much love, Melanie💕🎸🎶🌟

[@caitcancreate]

This is a great content shift. I've worked with many A list celebrities at my job. A lot of them are super down-to-earth and very generous with their time, energy and money (creating more value). The media creates the line that they're above us.

[@joanvoss7512]

you care so much... you are so special and you have no idea how strong your videos are omg

[@blahblah4986]

The vibration chart picked out my personality perfectly.

[@sylvia2525]

Thank you so much Aaron this resonated with me.

[@EloraCare]

Sylvia me too! I’m glad you got something from it 🤗

[@SilverSurfeq1989]

I was very sick for more than a year because of glifosade in food. I did have so weak immune system that i cound not live in normal way.But i was transformed before and that saved my life. I work hard every day on my immunity and boosting it. It was hell on earth.

[@OwomenofRareBeauty]

Thank you Aaron, this is my topic of choice because this is what I'm passionate about letting women know there value and worth!! Good job!!! Much peace and love xoxo

[@crystalwalker726]

Thank you for this video! I needed this today. I found myself falling back into old vibrations and thoughts of insecurity over the last two days and I needed a reminder of my value.

[@shelleydavis5231]

Thank you Erin, what a beautiful reminder, the reach you have with people, there's no doubt how valuable this is to so many, thank you, god bless 🌹

[@jeantuite-actress--imdb]

Yes I'm alot older so the more time I can spend on my calling and passion it's better but is competitive and challenging.

[@NorthernHedgeWitch]

Great points. I find so many people can’t put a value on themselves. They would rather work longer hours than increase their value - whether they undervalued themselves or if they don’t want to put the effort in to make themselves more valuable.

[@optimisticfairy8888]

Thank you for the value that you are adding to everyone’s life❤️