Stop Yourself From Contacting Someone Who Doesn't Want You

[@noserialkiller3596]

This is excellent advice. The needy/desperate feelings definitely occur due to a lack of love. No Serial Killer.

[@maceyr.6583]

I'm actually the one who left him. I'm confused about our relationship. Life is already confusing. 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@KristenBrown]

I understand 🫶🏽

[@aliona.lubimova]

Really helpful, thank you

[@KristenBrown]

You’re welcome 🫶🏽

[@flowerydaze4246]

I went through this earlier this year and luckily the sense of urgency to contact him has reduced greatly.

[@KristenBrown]

Good for you! It’s relieving isn’t it? Great job!

[@flowerydaze4246]

It truly is!

[@jasonedwardsflys]

Wonderful episode! Thank You!❤❤

[@KristenBrown]

You’re welcome 🙏🏽♥️

[@Shayla8319]

Thank you so much!! I really needed to hear this. My husband is filing for divorce on Friday of this week 😢. I’ve been calling and texting him to try to change his mind this pain I’ve never felt before 😢😢😢😢

[@KristenBrown]

I’m sorry you’re going through this. Sending you big gobs of loving energy 🫶🏽

[@Shayla8319]

Thank you ❤️

[@morganrobertson3721]

I am so sorry your going through this. My praying for you 🙏💖 I know the divorce rate is very high today especially since the pandemic. I'm 39 years old and have never been married but been in many toxic relationships and working on healing from a lot of past hurts including truama.

[@Shayla8319]

@@morganrobertson3721 Thank you so much!!! God is in control 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@littleiodine9480]

Thank you Kristen. I found some answers to those questions!

[@KristenBrown]

Woohooo! YES! 💪🏽👏🏽🫶🏽

[@DannyB-t6k]

Thank you Kristen!

[@KristenBrown]

You’re welcome 🫶🏽

[@DannyB-t6k]

@@KristenBrown dated this women for a month and really liked her which is rare, she seemed super into me and then next thing I know she’s telling me she met someone else. Hard not to shame myself but I’m doing my best but it freaking sucks. I really liked this woman.

[@morganrobertson3721]

I'm so blessed so have found your channel and making progress with my healing from past hurts. I have learned things that lead me to attract toxic relationships including not understanding what being fully healed meant. Questions I have is how can you tell the right man rough obstacles I faced which were losing my parents and brother so young to terminal illness and how I deal with grief every year. Also, why do some men in the workplace who are not happy with their social life outside work try to use women in the work place to either fill a void or have an affair? Thanks again and God bless 🙏

[@KristenBrown]

Hi Morgan, I responded to your first question. If you haven’t yet, go check out the new “Dear KB” video. 😊

[@morganrobertson3721]

@@KristenBrown I saw that and watched the video. Very helpful. I'd like to hear your input on a situation I went through. About a year ago, a male officer at my job in a different department would talk to me almost every day and appeared to show interest as if maybe he might want to date me. I believed I ignored or couldn't understand red flags because I would get anxiety later over him. This past March is when he told me he is married. God was warning me before and glad I didn't get into dating him. After that, he would make the effort to run into me many times but never said anything disrespectful. That is starting to decrease and I've set my boundaries a while ago. He sees I'm friends with some officers he has worked with for years and does not show any problem with it. I'm still working on healing from it. He drives a white range Rover and I see them almost every day no matter where I go and that makes no sense. I wonder if God is trying to give me another warning. Aside from praying to God to heal me, I'm praying for him to become a better person. It felt like the devil was attacking me. I know I'm an attractive looking lady and can't help it. I also have acknowledged over 4 years ago that I have not fully healed from past hurts that caught me to me later and been going to therapy ever since. I look forward to hearing back from you. God bless 🙏

[@KristenBrown]

Hi Morgan, What is it you’re asking my opinion about?

[@morganrobertson3721]

@@KristenBrown Wow quick reply, do you think this officer is not happy with his social life and was trying to have an affair?

[@KristenBrown]

That’s something I cannot know as I didn’t experience it myself nor am I in close proximity to it. I’d recommend getting quiet within and trusting your instincts and inner knowing. It won’t lead you astray.

[@ShivamSharma-om5jo]

@Kristine thank you for this amazing advice. I completely get your point that self care and self love is the key, but i am unable to figure out in my case how do I do this. What should I do myself that I feel loved & cared? Kindly help.

[@KristenBrown]

Excellent question and I’ll put it on my list to make a video on so stay tuned.

[@ShivamSharma-om5jo]

@@KristenBrown kindly make it at the earliest:)

[@KristenBrown]

I record in order of the questions received. I have a few before yours. It’s in my queue. 👍🏽

[@Ashley-ps8ej]

Thank you for the video. How do I give myself physical affection? I feel I reach out because I miss being in their arms. Cuddling .Being close. Their back and body rubs give me as watching shows.. not even sex but the other types of closeness.. how give myself that? If hire a massage person doesn't feel the same. No friends to do that. I also reach out because they are look and appear to be my ideal type. The desired physical type I've always wanted exactly. And had specific specific qualities about them I always wanted in a relationship.. but we don't go together..they are awful to me Mentally. So how give myself any of that?

[@KristenBrown]

Find ways to give physical affection to yourself. Hug yourself, give yourself body rubs, sleep with body pillows. Do this alongside practicing the 5 self-love tenets in my book and you'll notice that although you may still enjoy physical touch from others, you will no longer feel "desperate" for it. These practices combined will help you move from dependent to interdependent. It's a natural progression and the ideal place to be. The key is to intentional practicing giving yourself anything you need, when you need it.

[@Ashley-ps8ej]

@@KristenBrown ❤️