Girllll, passing you the check at your birthday dinner is diabolical.... he's evil🙃
@nubianprincess9216Ай бұрын
🩷🩷🩷 RIGHT!!! That demon was about to burst into flames if he didn't take off that mask and reveal its true self.
@KrazzyKitty7978Ай бұрын
RIGHT!
@MsRaenaАй бұрын
That part🙄
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@kolaspeaks1 right I was like wow are you serious 🧐 that shit really hurt my feelings but karma always around the corner
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@nubianprincess9216 fr like he could not hold it in any longer
@MocaBunny562Ай бұрын
Every time you go to the bathroom and come back, he a different personality 😂 damn 😂 you gotta hold it around him lol
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@MocaBunny562 omg girl why I didn’t even realize that 😮 but fr every time that’s crazy 🤯
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@MocaBunny562 right can’t let him outta my site 😭😭😭
@sdot1822Ай бұрын
That’s the type of person you need to stay away from. Mood up & down. Shii be cool one minute bad the next. You don’t know what to expect. Especially bc he could’ve kept it a bean & told you he wasn’t fw you straight up. I hate that for him. I hope you genuinely enjoy your next birthday you don’t deserve that
@sdot1822Ай бұрын
Then it seem like he used this trip as an opportunity to “get back” or sum cs ain’t no way
@VilebabyАй бұрын
"FRIEND-ER-RICK" Lmaooooo😭
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Vilebaby 😂😂😂😂😂😂 girl I was crying when I watch the play back on this part
@nuteynuuАй бұрын
girl them wads of money must’ve been his bill money
@SiahSiahАй бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@RoyalEnterpriseConstructionАй бұрын
@@nuteynuu exactly what I said cause I've heard this before 😂 or some of it was FAKE
@WhynotlexАй бұрын
“I be pulling em I don’t know they be coming to me” TALK YO SHIII
@cjcoleman6711Ай бұрын
When a man walk too fast in front of you that means he don't really want it to look like yall are together...that is definitely a red flag. God just revealed who he really was.
@TishaShNieceАй бұрын
One thing he WAS right about though was you def didn’t need the makeup. Your skin is flawlesssssssss!! Omg!!! The girlies with the clear skin who can go out without makeup and still EAT are def Gods favorites!! I’m not one of them, but I live through yall! 😂🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@SadayahАй бұрын
What Shamar said… “He ain’t ya frieennnnnd, he is yo enemyyy!” 😂 Nah but fr fr you need a big dawg Shala, your vibe and energy be too much for these 🥷🏾
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Sadayah very much my enemy cause he did me real bad. Would have never imagine he switch up on me like that on my birthday at that
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Sadayah & you so right on that big dawg part cause these small fries can’t keep with someone like me I intimidate them so bad
@ashtonxleigh_4716Ай бұрын
@@slimshalait’s so clear that you do
@100nikhollywoodАй бұрын
Now I'm thinking he probably just wanted to be a damn storytime 😩😂🤦🏾♀️🤷🏽♀️
@TheKirinyagaАй бұрын
....girl and this 40:00 is what makes ALL relationships (platonic, romantic, familial) difficult. We hang on to what they did vs what they're doing (that's such an Iyanla line 😂)
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@TheKirinyaga facts that’s why iv been learning to no hold on to what was then and face reality of what’s now and learn detachment
@SaluteMarieАй бұрын
I love how you really was grown asf enough to put your feelings aside and still try to look on the bright side of things ! ❤
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@SaluteMarie right I was so proud of myself cause old shala would have put the paws on his ass and made a big ass seen
@SaluteMarieАй бұрын
@ facts I already be knowing !!
@jamekanichols3732Ай бұрын
Some people who claim to be men/women dont like when you shine. You was probably looking too good or enjoying yourself too much for his/ her liking. There are men and women like this so folks be aware. You don't have to do anything wrong for them to feel a need to ruin your shine. It's like thee audacity for this person to be too happy. Big red flag.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@jamekanichols3732 so true ppl love to dim others light because they are not happy with their life. Misery loves company
@butterberry4997Ай бұрын
I just feel like if he was tht salty about the glasses he should’ve just said he didn’t won’t to go no more instead of messing your bday up after you already told him about yo previous bday…
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@butterberry4997 right like that simple he could have just simply said look I ain’t feeling you after the glasses sh!t I don’t want to go on the trip.
@sheiskadeja1198Ай бұрын
Wtf so he made you pay for both of y’all food on your birthday 🤦🏽♀️ that’s wild. Even if he didn’t want to pay for your food, why would he walk out without paying for his own food smh 😩
@mysticaltj2440Ай бұрын
That part! I would have been completely done with his ass at that very moment because that's freaking insane.
@piinklemonade6257Ай бұрын
He was definitely right when he said don’t put the makeup on …..u really looked gorgeous ❤️❤️🥴
@NefDaBratАй бұрын
He was right about the makeup…you looked so pretty 🥹🦋
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@NefDaBrat naw fr that was the one thing he did right the whole trip was tell me no make up
@amour647Ай бұрын
Shala I’m really tryna understand why after he kept playing in your face you still tryna mess w him!! Girl wym after he basically said he don’t like you,you went and was dancing on him???😂🤦🏻♀️
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@amour647 girl it was just a dance I was not trying to be with him not sure how dancing = still trying to mess with him I was drunk having fun in the club girl I knew things between me and him was not gone nowhere before I even got on the plane for the trip.
@RoyalEnterpriseConstructionАй бұрын
Exactly I'm glad someone else speaking facts
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@RoyalEnterpriseConstruction what facts is this person speaking? Again dancing does not = still trying to mess with someone. So please elaborate since you keep having something to say. Make you point make sense please and thank you or just sit back and listen.
@xy_3671Ай бұрын
Exactly
@RoyalEnterpriseConstructionАй бұрын
Umm why would you even be considering a relationship with him even if he did get out the streets? Girl you set yourself up for heartbreak. Exactly what i was saying on the last one. Thats why i give it Raw. you need to see a therapist . I would not ever bring no unhinged fool like him round my son. You in your 30s its time for common SENSE.
@xy_3671Ай бұрын
I’m telling you sis should of left his ass right at the club from last video. Matter of fact we would not even be sleeping in the same room. Then she paying for him on her birthday trip? Nah evil and bitter ain’t even the word for him lol.
@RoyalEnterpriseConstructionАй бұрын
@@xy_3671facts
@maryfranbossaller5611Ай бұрын
❤️🔥❤️🔥to the end !!! One of my favorite KZbinrs, so real and love your storytimes🥰 your channel is growing so much! Love that for you🫶🏻
@Anna-vi8jlАй бұрын
Wow that’s fucked up you did not deserve to be treated that way. I think you’re right he decided he wasn’t interested anymore and didn’t wanna spend money on you like he said he would. His true colors finally came out. Such gross behavior
@lordhavemerci2Ай бұрын
I think he’s handsome the only reason he wouldn’t be that cute is because of how he treated you , that’s when all that fineness goes out the window. Next year if you have to do it by yourself because you’re seeing the signs then so be it. ❤️ your channel girl 😍
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@lordhavemerci2 yes I’m thinking next year I’m doing something solo cause I ain’t got time for ppl
@themainplayaАй бұрын
God saved you with him showing his true colors during your birthday. He gon realize what he had when it’s too late. You look pretty in this video 🥹🤍!
@nicolesweetheart2417Ай бұрын
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥...Girlll he would have been cut off after the BS he did...Cause if he was acting like that then u should have just took a girl's or a solo trip
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@nicolesweetheart2417 right I should have told his a$$ to stay home, but definitely no better now
@nicolesweetheart2417Ай бұрын
@slimshala Righttt...It was just a lesson learned
@Darealchinadoll4Ай бұрын
He’s flaw asf for passing you the check ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Darealchinadoll4 yea that was crazy I was in such disbelief
@TshireletsoNeoАй бұрын
You deserve to just show up as you are and not prove your way into anybody’s life !!! Glasses or not , shirts or not ! You deserve someone who would know how to handle that in a mature way ! I hope you find someone babe who has a bigger heart than you ! I’ll pray on it ❤
@SiahSiahАй бұрын
So true!
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@TshireletsoNeo right big facts cause the whole situation could have been resolved in such a better way. But I felt like he wanted to be mad on purpose.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@TshireletsoNeo and thanks babe I appreciate you so much 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽 I pray the same fr me and all the kind girls out their too
@KrazzyKitty7978Ай бұрын
❤️🔥 girrrl your hair got real long and healthy love it
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@KrazzyKitty7978 thanks love 💕
@SiahSiahАй бұрын
You mean to tell me he made you pay for both of yall dinner on your birthday! Made you leave the after spot early because he caught an attitude! Argued with you over some goofy topic, and had the nerve to think he deserved some kitty kat after it was all done? Oh he really lost his mind. People really be so manipulative. They want a woman to act like a traditional woman but can’t be traditional men. I shouldn’t have to come out of pocket for anything. I’m not obligated to follow your every command or give you some any time you want. You are not my husband, even husband’s shouldn’t require that. I’m glad his true colors started coming out. He might not be a bad person but he’s just not the person for you. I’m glad he only was around about a year. Sometimes people are put in our lives to help us get through difficult times at the time. But once it’s over they’ve served their purpose and need to go on about their lives. ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
@tooblessedtobestressed5908Ай бұрын
I agree with you. He setting you up to how he really will treat you. He wants his foot on your neck and he wants you to like it.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@SiahSiah girl yes he really thought I was gone give it up after all that! Like he had no remorse, he expects everything to go his way cause he a man
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@SiahSiah yea I don’t think he a bad person he just wasn’t a good fit for me. And we had ran our course with each other at that point
@xy_3671Ай бұрын
He is a bad person let’s just call it what it is and not sugar coat for a nigga. At the end of the day boyfriend or just a friend you don’t treat nobody like that, and I damn sure not paying shit for another person on my birthday.
@theefineeeweirdgyalАй бұрын
he definitely a narcissist based off every single thing he did.
@100nikhollywoodАй бұрын
Yesssss. U didn't need no makeup you looked so adorable 🥰🥰 sexy bday dress too. Sorry about the glitter but u ate 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ NOOOOO he didnt pass that Check to u.
@dfwpremierpartyprops4306Ай бұрын
Damn. Why must he play you like that?? Glad it played out sooner than later. F him he played hisself
@Lee9565-Ай бұрын
My fav !! U looked so amazing in all ur bday pics ! “Friend friend” was terrible. U did not deserve tht but I’m glad ur living better than ever ! I love you Shay !!! *ps I put my mom onto you* lol ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Lee9565- awwwww love your so sweet thank you so much i appreciate you ❣️❣️
@kandibar21Ай бұрын
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 girl Fren Fren was being petty
@breanaelizette5381Ай бұрын
THE WHOLE ENTIRE POINT OF HIM GOING ON VACA WITH YOU FOR YOUR BDAY WAS BC YOU NEVER HAD A GOOD ONE SO HE WENT JUST TO MAKE IT WORSE IM SORRY SHAYLA HE DESERVED THE FISTS OF FURYYYYYYYY 🤢👊🏻😖😩
@RoyalEnterpriseConstructionАй бұрын
Oh its also giving he had another biiiiiiiitttttccchhhhh. Really part 2 did to
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@RoyalEnterpriseConstruction right that part definitely what it was giving
@woahz174Ай бұрын
"Friend Friend" has a chemical imbalance. Po' Thang.
@raevenmayes5900Ай бұрын
You went to eat at the peppermill. One of my go to breakfast places in Vegas ❤
@sydneyrae3634Ай бұрын
he is misogynistic and literally a hypocrite to his own misogyny passing u that check omg boy bye and going after your friends ex is disrespect it’s not immature to think that way bro is literally projecting lol u deserve better ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@sydneyrae3634 yea he was so wrong for that like he want to be a leader and sh!t and want a woman to be submissive but you couldn’t pay for dinner. When I payed for his birthday dinner and made your day so special
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@sydneyrae3634 right like naw it’s definitely weird if my friend talk to me guy after I talk to him that’s fake friend energy
@dadonjass7315Ай бұрын
I love the story times Shala💙
@tedrekaadams6216Ай бұрын
Hey girl I'm sorry you had to go through that on your birthday he is so messed up for making you pay that bill after he said he was going to pay for everything is giving you the narcissist and he definitely a misogynist and he was already that person people who are fake well eventually show their true colors because it's really the person they are
@giselleromero9350Ай бұрын
He basically Sabotaged your whole birthday girl I can’t believe he made you pay for your birthday dinner!! 😮 He’s a lame and he was never a real friend! like you said you could of stayed home, it was his idea to go out of town.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@giselleromero9350 very much sabotaged my birthday all because of some sun glasses and shirts like really
@lakengreen250Ай бұрын
❤️🔥, love your videos
@teddeye21Ай бұрын
Girl I know the devastation of being in ur own shit then gotta go back to moms
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@teddeye21 right like it was so hard for me I was so sad I cried my eyes out but it definitely taught me some lessons
@xo_babymoАй бұрын
The braids eat 😻😻😻😻🥰🥰🥰
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@xo_babymo right they came out perfect just how I wanted them. Definitely want to try this style but different again
@kendlefulton7429Ай бұрын
I'm sorry that happened to you
@charporter6943Ай бұрын
🔥❤️ I don't see the actual flaming Valentine emoji. Hopefully this will suffice. 💯
@TaneshasingsАй бұрын
He was beyond wrong for leaving you with the bill in your birthday 💓
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Taneshasings right very wrong especially since I didn’t my big one for him on his birthday
@TishaShNieceАй бұрын
❤️🔥❤️🔥 having you pay for your bday dinner ON YOUR ACTUAL BDAY?!! Diabolical! And then to leave the restaurant?!! 😳😳😳Girlllll……..
@brebre6342Ай бұрын
Fren fren ain’t shit but he fine ash 😂 still ain’t shit tho 😅
@angelagibson9978Ай бұрын
❤🔥He was wrong for being that damn petty, how childish !! He didn't have to do all that, he could've been up front with you 🙄
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@angelagibson9978 right he always like you never hold your tongue so why do it now on my birthday. You should have just said look we ain’t on the same page ima sit this trip out
@TrendyT.Ай бұрын
34:50 PERIOD. 35:00 Right, It’s not a good feeling. It definitely sits with you. Nobody is entitled to your body. 42:03 ❤️🔥❤️🔥 43:29 new opportunities ❤ 45:07 I’m on this same journey. 52:36 look pretty shala! 52:55 I’ll give it to him , ninja can dress tho. 😂 1:00:19 So, after listening to everything, I take my comment back! Doesn’t seem like he’s stingy , he just want a bot and that’s not you. Y’all just aren’t a match , doesn’t seem like he’s a bad person. He should have went about things better.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@TrendyT. definitely not a good feeling and it’s crazy how men will pressure you knowing you not in the mood.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@TrendyT. yea he can dress he is very well put together he definitely has style
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@TrendyT. yea he wants a yes man for sure and that’s just not me especially if you not my man fr. Yea we was probably better as strictly just friends
@TrendyT.Ай бұрын
@@slimshala ‼️‼️‼️
@TrendyT.Ай бұрын
@@slimshala It’s okay cause you are figuring out what you don’t like and what you would want from a partner.
@cjcoleman6711Ай бұрын
You really dodged a bullet
@Loverlover-f7rАй бұрын
I've been waiting on this girl
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Loverlover-f7r girl yt was hating but I don’t give up so glad I was able to get this video out today
@Brooke-en6ksАй бұрын
I love that you you didn’t let him ruin your night cause baby I would’ve been hot❤️🔥
@cecee510Ай бұрын
I love your birthday dress even tho it was too glittery for you
@natunfiltered2.0Ай бұрын
He’s misogynistic. You are still entitled to your body regardless if your man or boo wants some… Him throwing multiple tantrums then expecting some 🐱 is insane! I wouldn’t have wanted to share the same room with him after that. He’s giving jealous of you honestly
@PhoenixRising11Ай бұрын
What was the name of the place y’all went for brunch? In the beginning of the video?
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@PhoenixRising11 it’s called the Peppermill
@PhoenixRising11Ай бұрын
@slimshala Thank youuu!! And girl I hate how you were treated on your BDay trip! That’s a Scorpio man for you! My man and I are both Scorpio so he tries it and I get right back with him lol we cancel each other out now he know better! But yeah Friend Friend don’t deserve no reconciliation! And side note … why we don’t like Mr Perfect anymore?? I might had to double, triple back lol
@phexi419Ай бұрын
@PhoenixRising11 Ewwww….your man sounds gross
@K.P.0629Ай бұрын
Damn….I can’t imagine what he did, he’s done enough 😮😮
@lonesesaАй бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@BigBabyyy24Ай бұрын
Hey Shalaaa 💜💜❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
@sashaoliver5414Ай бұрын
❤️🔥 i could see the difference in your facial expression after the dinner. it’s f up how he pass u the check. you looked sad but trying to appear happy. i think the next person you meet tell them only good things men did to you and don’t let them know you have a youtube channel just make another instagram and let any man you talk to after follow that one i bet you they will treat u better
@AriNicoleLife24Ай бұрын
Friend friend we was liking you at first now you our enemy ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
@tooblessedtobestressed5908Ай бұрын
I was pissed for you. He should have spoke to you about who was going to pay for bday dinner before you all even went. I don’t like him for you. He has too many different personalities. I don’t like how he thinks. This is exactly why I doubt if I’ll remarry. The relationship should be about compromise and active communication. It seems like at least in my relationships it always what the man says. There is no give and take. I need peace in my relationships. If I can’t get what I need in a relationship while I’m doing everything I need to do then it’s a wrap. I rather be by myself.❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@tooblessedtobestressed5908 right like why would you wait for the bill to come. That was so lame I was so flabbergasted.
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@tooblessedtobestressed5908 i totally agree men want puppets someone they can control. They don’t want real partnership
@josephinesjointАй бұрын
Hey girlie! Back to kick it with you!!!
@mormoney615Ай бұрын
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
@AesthicallyKeyАй бұрын
Friend friend isn’t cute to me but damnnn I didn’t know people actually wrote that in the comments lmaooooo nah he not ugly but he just look young to me like 18 years old young but he’s not ugly
@RedNicole_Ай бұрын
My girl dropped!! One of the first to view
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@RedNicole_ yes yes i appreciate you fr thanks for being one of the first tuning in
@dondondontcareАй бұрын
Omg I remember these pics !! You looked so good 🥹🥹 friend friend better gone😒😒
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@dondondontcare yea I felt so cute on my bday can’t believe it went the way it did. But you know karma be coming for ppl when they least expect it
@dondondontcareАй бұрын
@ and was!!! you was so beautiful … you didn’t deserve that! but he’ll get done dirtier trust me
@dfwpremierpartyprops4306Ай бұрын
What is his sign? Not that it matter. ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@dfwpremierpartyprops4306 a sagittarius
@BooLadybeautycareАй бұрын
Flame heart ❤️ lol mines didn’t show up
@tabethahernandez1230Ай бұрын
Friend-rick took me out ❤️🔥
@prettybrittany_Ай бұрын
shala please !! i need the new part neeeoooowwww!!!
@alientingz7733Ай бұрын
Yasssss🎉🎉🎉
@kh-di7puАй бұрын
Omg yea he was tripping. He was purposely trying to ruin your bday trip smh
@sw33tbrown3y3sАй бұрын
I ain’t never been this early!
@Jade_T.1520Ай бұрын
Let me just❤️🔥
@lonesesaАй бұрын
❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥
@marainagreen2249Ай бұрын
❤❤❤️🔥❤️🔥
@YvettePrincesaSandovalАй бұрын
❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥
@Brooke-en6ksАй бұрын
Girl it sound like friend friend was on drugs the way he keep switching up 34:12
@Moochistrawberry7021Ай бұрын
❤️🔥❤️🔥
@oliviar2650Ай бұрын
💖⭐️
@xo_babymoАй бұрын
Heyyyyy ❤❤❤❤
@koyanc3Ай бұрын
I do not have a flame heart lol
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@koyanc3 it’s okay boo I got you ❤️🔥
@zaydenprettymommyАй бұрын
🧡
@theestarr5155Ай бұрын
18:02 i wouldve walked straight out
@laceycason5285Ай бұрын
❤️🔥
@Moochistrawberry7021Ай бұрын
YAYYYY!!!
@K9ShelleАй бұрын
❤️🔥
@Shoty148Ай бұрын
❤
@BooLadybeautycareАй бұрын
I had a dream u said u wasn’t effin with the new ninja lol Dnt ask But he got some shi with him
@Loverlover-f7rАй бұрын
Not throwing shade I promise but the right side of ur hair is longer than the left side. Maybe u need a new hair dresser. Ur beautiful perfect sweet n kind I'm not being mean. Just maybe find a new hair dresser
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@Loverlover-f7r iv said that in many videos that my hair is uneven I don’t have a hair dresser I do my own hair it’s uneven do to breakage. I will be getting my hair professionally done in January.. I know your not being mean love I appreciate you for tuning in and showing love 💕
@Loverlover-f7rАй бұрын
@slimshala it is still gorgeous
@nubianprincess9216Ай бұрын
🩷🩷🩷
@LadyLynn2123Ай бұрын
You ain’t lying when you say he fine 🥰😛🤤
@slimshalaАй бұрын
@@LadyLynn2123 girl fr he was definitely some eye candy
@laurenguld1854Ай бұрын
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥I love your steezeeee your my girlllll I’m so obsessed with your story times I wish u didn’t live so far away!