STORYTIME : I Went On A Trip To New York And My “Friends” Ditched Me…

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Lavish Liyah

Lavish Liyah

Күн бұрын

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@mikaelaraymond4690
@mikaelaraymond4690 8 ай бұрын
All the comments saying she should've gone out and about NYC ON HER OWN, a city she's not familiar with, as a YOUNG WOMAN....smh seriously 🙄🙄
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 8 ай бұрын
Thank you!!!!!! 🤦🏽‍♀️😭😭😭
@deee_eeed
@deee_eeed 7 ай бұрын
Okay!! Especially with how the world is like are you crazy
@alfsmom8025
@alfsmom8025 2 ай бұрын
Why no? Some people have learned independence at a young age. I was traveling many places alone by her age, including NY.
@diamond3170
@diamond3170 Ай бұрын
idk ny is really the place you can enjoy alone but hey 🤷🏿‍♀️ safety i guess
@Savannahlovexo
@Savannahlovexo Жыл бұрын
Girlie NEVER feel embarrassed or shy to say “NO” to anyone especially if it’s something you don’t want to do. Your friend had NO right to ask you to pay for her Uber like TF?! You seem like a very nice and kind hearted chick, don’t let ppl like that take advantage of you!! I’m from NYC, I would e gladly showed you around Chinatown and errrehere! Hehe ❤ keep doing you and shine bright! 👏💝
@globalphenomena6979
@globalphenomena6979 Жыл бұрын
Just know she was planning on getting her hair done by you from the jump and after wasting your first day in NYC she should've had some type of guilt to not ask you for that. It's giving broke
@thelightseven
@thelightseven Жыл бұрын
They NEVER liked you and all of their behavior was done on purpose to harm you, it also is showing you to use more discernment, protect your Light.
@Steph_is_back
@Steph_is_back Жыл бұрын
I would of explored NY without those two. Don’t let unreliable people ruin your fun.
@globalphenomena6979
@globalphenomena6979 Жыл бұрын
45:54 I think you should get some mental health done to help with your anxiety so you can enjoy places by yourself cause there's so much to do in Chinatown, you could've saved your trip ❤❤❤
@benjamindoverr3455
@benjamindoverr3455 Жыл бұрын
"... would HAVE explored..."
@josiebfancy
@josiebfancy Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you had to go through that. Nothing worse then having “friends” ruin a trip. Both of them were wrong af.I hope this video goes viral and you recuperate all that money you spent.
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
I hope so too … I literally wasted $3k on this trip 😩😭
@ocky88
@ocky88 Жыл бұрын
It sounds like Blue, especially, is extremely insecure about her appearance. She did not want to be out and about with you looking cute so she kept obsessing over beauty appointments and flaking. Red may have had a similar issue. I’m glad your home boy and his friends were normal.
@77768
@77768 Жыл бұрын
my thoughts exactly. She was in a one sided competition for sure.
@ambergriffen7911
@ambergriffen7911 Жыл бұрын
Big facts 💯
@Blessed.dailyy
@Blessed.dailyy Жыл бұрын
Homeboy was a real one 🙏🏽
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯
@simone10214
@simone10214 Жыл бұрын
Your aura is so bright, and you can tell you radiate positive energy. I remember being 21 and dealing with fake friendships. You did right, block and move on. 👏🏾
@actuallycold
@actuallycold Жыл бұрын
You come off as a people pleaser!! I used to be one girl but I had to get mean, and that’s okay!!! If you don’t want to do something or get slight bit uncomfortable , this is your life girly, take the wheel and say no and stand on it !! You’re so pretty btw 💕💕💕💕
@LizzyAnnShow
@LizzyAnnShow Жыл бұрын
They pissed me off like it’s always the good hearted people who get done wrong
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
Literally !!!!
@kelseyalexander3602
@kelseyalexander3602 Жыл бұрын
Girl you look like a doll, simply gorgeous 😍 Sorry that you had a bad time love, definitely gotta watch the company you keep! I learned a lot from this story time at my big age lol. Never trust people because, people smile in your face, and plot behind your back!
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! 💕💕 And yes definitely, this is probably one of the biggest lessons I’ve learned this year!
@kerrahoward
@kerrahoward Жыл бұрын
Just take this as a lesson learned. Do what you want to do and not what others want you to do. 💪🏽
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
Definitely!!!
@User-fp8dk
@User-fp8dk Жыл бұрын
GIRL I literally just travelled with 2 girls that I knew for 4 months and they were begging me to come on holiday knowing that they’re broke and obviously I had thoughts of backing out but I had already had the AP booked, they ganged up on me on the holiday. Needless to say one thing I’ve noticed is that these weirdos will literally BEG, PLEAD AND PERSUADE you to go on holiday with them just to be weird to you on the trip the WHOLE TIME. They beg and plead just to bully and throw shade and that’s the thing that gets me because they would never do this to me in my city. It’s like they want you to be vulnerable and rely/depend on them and have you wait on them just to play in your face! Ts is crazy I can’t even wrap my head around it!
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
Omg!!!!! I hate that that happened to you too! The crazy thing is people kept warning me about going to NY but I wasn’t really paying it any attention because I literally had no doubt in my mind that my trip would’ve turned out how it did… I wish I would’ve took those ppl warning me as a sign!
@User-fp8dk
@User-fp8dk Жыл бұрын
@@lavishliyah1 I literally came back from the trip last week Tuesday, on top of this I almost got kidnapped by a fake Uber driver which is why I wasn’t trying to split up from them since that happened and all they were doing was complaining about the holiday in the airbnb just drinking and smoking. As soon as I touched down in my city I had them blocked and deleted! It was my first time on holiday too and it’s made me so depressed
@User-fp8dk
@User-fp8dk Жыл бұрын
@@lavishliyah1 honestly it’s time to start trusting your judgement more and being more vigilant coz things could’ve turned ugly real quick! I’m really friendly too and I think some bitches just want to have friends for show and aesthetics because in my holiday that’s what it was giving. Never again though
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
@@User-fp8dk Right!!!! Ppl don’t understand the dangers of going somewhere by yourself ESPECIALLY when your not familiar with the place and you never been there before… I had so many ppl telling me to just go out by myself and I ignored it. I refuse! And I’m so glad you blocked them! Keep then blocked and don’t ever think about unblocking then, they’re no good!
@AK-go7sh
@AK-go7sh 7 ай бұрын
Spot on. I also think it's all about the aesthetics for them. Similar thing happened to me. Persuaded and begged me to go on this trip, but was then ganged up on and gaslit almost the entire time (like why even bother to invite me in the first place if you apparently don't like me?). They wanted to take a lot of group pics though😂Safe to say we're not friends anymore.
@bqatm5236
@bqatm5236 Жыл бұрын
This story breaks my heart…I hate that they did that to you. I know the feeling of a fake/hater friend all too well. Honestly though their behavior probably stems from jealousy. That was my very first thought when I saw how pretty you were. At least you know their character now you can step accordingly. God bless you
@BOBBYMOMMY624
@BOBBYMOMMY624 Жыл бұрын
it’s always the pretty girls or person that have something going for themselves the either family or friends always wanna act funny But Can we just take a moment how beautiful she is 😭 you should horror story/ makeup tut
@bribro23
@bribro23 11 ай бұрын
Yes name it “makeup and madness”
@tiffanybarnes3831
@tiffanybarnes3831 Жыл бұрын
They were definitely jealous smh 😒
@meishadenisexo6602
@meishadenisexo6602 Жыл бұрын
Girl they was jealous and weird asf! But just know I experienced this and it hurt my feelings bad but I learned my lesson and cut everyone off ! Now god sent me my best friend (🤰🏽) and I’m good ☺️ you live and learn though and your so beautiful but just let them go and never look back!!! NEVER EVER
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
Omg congrats! 🥹💕 And yesss it was definitely a lesson learned! It’s crazy so many people told me they experienced the same thing before 😩
@meishadenisexo6602
@meishadenisexo6602 Жыл бұрын
@@lavishliyah1thank you hun ❤ yes it happens often in this day and time smh! But you got this keep the story times coming and keep grinding
@katlynnbell
@katlynnbell Жыл бұрын
Why is it so hard to find genuine friends in 2023??? I feel like everyone do things for social media and insecurities
@TheBestShowOnEarth1
@TheBestShowOnEarth1 Жыл бұрын
People can be extremely inconsiderate. That’s why you have to choose yourself first. If you’re constantly dropping everything for someone else they will never appreciate anything you do for them. Be kind to yourself and choose your peace love 🫶🏾
@alysiag2633
@alysiag2633 Жыл бұрын
They didn’t deserve a friend like you at allllll. You’re way too sweet and kind and mature for them. I’m glad your guy friend at least cared about you but I would’ve been crying too cause you spent money and traveled just to be alone. But one day, you’ll be so confident in traveling and have better friends and will be on an island laughing at this situation.
@HillaryKay
@HillaryKay Жыл бұрын
people pick who to play with and those “ friends “ took advantage of your kindness .. but now that’s a lesson for you to learn to heal .. all that people pleasing stuff going have you around the wrong people if you can’t be yourself around them you shouldn’t be around them ! Learn to tell people no creates boundaries !
@babeblue1000
@babeblue1000 Жыл бұрын
girl this just pissed me off soooooooooooooo bad.. both of them are sooo weird.. I would've went tf off
@moedemonroe
@moedemonroe Жыл бұрын
Love let me tell you something that will keep you happy no matter what. Never ever depend on other ppl to have a great time, when you were waiting on her to text you back you should’ve went to go explore the city, pull up reasturants, sight seeing sights, go shopping something. Waiting on other ppl or expecting them to be what you are and be a good person will almost always leave you disappointed. I’m sorry this happened to you, honestly it was probably trying to show you live for YOU. And don’t every put yourself in a hole to please others. They had fun and your trip was ruined, even if you have solid plans always have a backup. Lbvs ♥️
@TheRaineWay
@TheRaineWay Жыл бұрын
Sorry that happened to you. I hope that doesn’t ruin your NYC experience. Seems like those girls were on the same wavelength of insecurities. Better things are coming for you. Protect your peace love ✨🌻
@Kaee_411
@Kaee_411 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry that happened to you. It’s always so sad & upsetting when your friends are the reason you’re birthday is ruined. Keep that boy around, that came thru for you. He’s a real one! Celebrate your bday with your friends from your city, him & maybe those girls from now on. I learned that you gotta celebrate your bday with ppl that support you with no ill intentions. Those 2 girls are mean & weird asf
@natunfiltered2.0
@natunfiltered2.0 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry this happened to you! It’s extremely weird that they ditched you for no reason. The fact that you went up there by yourself made it way worse smh. I wanted to go to a frat club event back in college & none of my friends were going. So I hit up an acquaintance to go with. Why did this girl not reply to any of my texts/calls once I arrived to the venue smh. I ended up bumping into this one girl I knew and got adopted into hanging with her crew for the night. I was so thankful. Til this day, she never explained anything smh.
@butterpecanbrielle
@butterpecanbrielle Жыл бұрын
Sis I applaud your courage to talk through your pain. I encourage you to get comfortable with going out by yourself. I had social anxiety when I was younger and taking myself out on dates helped me get through that. I had a best friend that ditched me in LA, but because I was so comfortable with going out by myself by that point I still had a fun time. I was PISSED but I still enjoyed myself. I still blocked him though. 😂 I pray that you can forgive but never forget. This happens to a lot of us but know sis that you’re a dope ass chick and by 30 you’ll be an even better version of yourself-more than you could ever imagine! Much love and light!! 🩵
@alish4lyfe432
@alish4lyfe432 Жыл бұрын
I live and learn that not everyone is real and it’s ok to not be okay as I feel your pain 🥺💯...”The pain you’re feeling can’t be compared to the joy that’s coming!” Sending love your way❤️🙏🏽
@makedakettle3140
@makedakettle3140 Жыл бұрын
Aweee girl we’re just alike we pour out heart out when it comes to friends and they never reciprocate the energy
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
Yesssss and it sucks 😢
@courtniegordon5093
@courtniegordon5093 Жыл бұрын
Girl i wanna be your friend and go out of town with you just because i empathize with you 🥺 Im 26 and i've dealt with this my whole life. THEY ARE JEALOUS & YES B#TCHS IS WEIRD. My best advice to you is live your life have a blast with people who make you feel as you deserve! Let them watch you and SHT on them, they don't deserve your presence. 💕
@MichaelJohnson-kw1dj
@MichaelJohnson-kw1dj 9 ай бұрын
The money you spent was an investment in learning true friendship. I moved out here to New York from Oklahoma back in 2019. I been here about 5 years. From my first year here all I got was invitations to hang out with people. I took some people up on some of them, some I didn’t, you can’t just hang with anyone. You’re still young and learning, it was about 5 red flags you overlooked. Always ask for details to the invite, even if it sounds flawless. Ask questions. People be weird and envious. I think they were intimidated because you’re attractive.. Just learn from this.
@MakaylaTiera
@MakaylaTiera Жыл бұрын
You seem so genuine and sweet I would love to be friends with you 😢 I’m so sorry that happened to you smh mfs are so WEIRDDDD
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
I’m always open to new friends! 💕💕💕
@StephinTech
@StephinTech 3 ай бұрын
I pray these are not your “friends” any longer!! I had the same issues of not wanting to do things alone! I went to Cali and it’s was tough to step out my confront zone but I did have friends come through for me for a few of the days. I’m pushing myself to travel alone more! An idea for yourself would be to pick a city and look up stuff you want to do. Make that list for each day and then let your loved ones know the time and places you will be there. I had to get comfortable being on my own lol I wish you the best in your future SOLO travels! You will outgrow the social anxiety!!!
@alexandriahague87
@alexandriahague87 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry that your trip went like that. You could tell Blue was a flaw friend anyway telling you that you were being "scary" because you didn't want to go in NEW YORK (one of the busiest cities in the U.S) by yourself. Anything could've happened to you. Me having social anxiety myself I can 100% understand you and because we're soft spoken and chill people try to play with us. Please learn to speak up and say no. If not, people will keep trying to play you. I can't tell you what to do obviously, but I can tell you are so sweet and have a genuine heart. Quit letting people play with it! And I don't care what I'm going through. As a friend I'd be there especially because I influenced someone to come in the first place. You could've just went to Houston for all of this.
@theefineeeweirdgyal
@theefineeeweirdgyal Жыл бұрын
they so weird for that, if you were my friend visiting to hangout for a week i would’ve prioritized our time together not ditch the plans. friends don’t act like that frenemies do. i think next time you plan trips with other people definitely have a plan b or just vacay by yourself.
@jessicat2304
@jessicat2304 Жыл бұрын
Tip for next time in NYC - take the subway. Get a $33 unlimited 7 day pass. The subway be running faster than the cars and you get to your destination quicker.
@NaomyP
@NaomyP Жыл бұрын
Awww girl I’m so sorry your trip was messed up, some of these NY broads are super weird! I live here and can attest to that! But they’re other girls are great friends as well! I hope you have a better experience next time you come ❤
@malloreix2361
@malloreix2361 Жыл бұрын
I been watching “story time” videos all week and I swear it reminds me why I don’t have a lot of women friends smh. I’m only halfway through your video. But I just had to say this. 🤣
@janiahdairel
@janiahdairel Жыл бұрын
LMAOOO its the shirt for me. you know I'm tuned in boo, sooo sorry your trip didn't goes as planned.
@actuallycold
@actuallycold Жыл бұрын
This video upsets me bc this used to be me! I wish you would’ve not sat around all day waiting for her text & went to the pool party on your own !! I bet you would’ve made friends there!!! Lesson learned !!!!
@GiveHerFlowers
@GiveHerFlowers 6 ай бұрын
This is relatable AF❤. I have had similar experience on a trip years ago and also struggle with saying no. I was in Vegas and ended up spending most of my time at the hotel since it wasn’t safe to explore like I would have with someone else. I’m now 40 and have been working over the years to improve but it can be hard as hell some days to set those boundaries. I totally get it….as someone with social anxiety, I have really worked hard over the last 10 years. I now enjoy my solo outings and do a lot by myself, but there are those occasions when it paralyzes me from getting out. I have self compassion and work thru it best I can. It helps to start out with going to the movie theater alone since everyone is focused on the screen and not really looking around. Then graduate to perhaps window shopping and maybe a solo brunch at a place not too busy. Just how I started getting out on my own❤. You seem very sweet and I’m glad you were able to make new friends. Also, it’s Gods protection those “friends” bailed on you because I’m afraid of what messed up shit they may have done. Jealousy is one hell of a drug!
@QueenAlexis
@QueenAlexis Жыл бұрын
Ewwww. I’m so glad you blocked them because thats so foul. Im so sorry that happened to you hun. I remember when I turned 21, I had a series of similar friendship fall outs. I think its something about that age where you start to learn a lot about how people truly move. I’m just glad towards the end that you mentioned that you wont let these sour moments change your character. Keep being friendly, kind and genuine and you’ll attract people with the same energy as time goes on! 💕
@9le1201
@9le1201 Жыл бұрын
Girl once I peeped the first sign of weird shit I would said forget the both of them and turned the trip into your own thing. It’s ok to do stuf alone
@tanasziataylor2949
@tanasziataylor2949 Жыл бұрын
Aww dang I hope you learned a lesson !I haven’t had friends since middle school and I’m 25 !this is the reason why I will never have friends cause people be pulling weird stuff like this!
@yameirlacy9066
@yameirlacy9066 4 ай бұрын
I am so sorry that happened to you. You truly seem like a sweetheart and this breaks my heart so much for you 😢
@dessyy8643
@dessyy8643 Жыл бұрын
Lemme just start by saying I’m from upstate NY. I’ve been to NYC a few times. I wouldn’t even recommend you to go out by yourself, especially knowing you not from NY, that’s weird asf. NYC is a dangerous city to just be roaming around by yourself and you don’t know anybody. God forbid but girl anything could’ve happened to you. She’s an L friend. Cause fym I’m scary ? Ya damn right I’m scared bitch idk where I’m at & I came here to be with friends and y’all playing in my face rn.
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
Exactly !!!!!
@CarpeDiem-vs3cy
@CarpeDiem-vs3cy Жыл бұрын
How did you become friends with the girls in the first place?
@JennJennntv
@JennJennntv Жыл бұрын
Im from Brooklyn , trust me that girl just wanted a free install & she a leech & was most likely brokeeeee she a weirdo fr .. Wig wasn't even nothing hot at that , she should of left u alone word. Sorry you had to deal w. a weirdo your first experience this is why I stay to myself out here lol
@Liallure
@Liallure Жыл бұрын
As soon as that girl said she going to a braiding shop at 11am-1pm, I knew she was playing in your face. Because there’s no way she thought she was gonna be finished at a decent time.
@misslovely4679
@misslovely4679 Жыл бұрын
I was shaking my head damn near the whole video. Smh they definitely aren’t your friends. I hope you go back with friends and actually enjoy the city!!
@RealitytoldbyMzguddi
@RealitytoldbyMzguddi Жыл бұрын
This is most definitely me at my big age now. I don’t like having friends or meet new people
@an3sch
@an3sch Жыл бұрын
girl i’m glad your homeboy and his friends saved the trip for a bit but NEVER be afraid to say NO you need to learn how to say NO because people like them will continue to use and abuse you! you are a sweet and genuine person do not let ANYONE take advantage of that and next time do not rely on people like them or ANYONE go get pretty and take yourself out!! i found this video and immediately subscribed! you are beautiful and genuine
@tiba4life217
@tiba4life217 Жыл бұрын
Girl i wouldve went by myself n vibed out.sitting around waiting for humans is a no go.
@miralyn808
@miralyn808 Жыл бұрын
Even as a stranger, if you came to my city. I wouldn’t have done that 😢 I’m so sorry…
@sheniquadecuir6976
@sheniquadecuir6976 Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad you made it off that trip safely. 🙌🏽
@Celestial_Nomad90
@Celestial_Nomad90 Жыл бұрын
I feel like the lesson in this is to stop being reliant on other people and break out that anxious energy and do you on your own.. you could’ve had so much fun alone if you were open to it
@fiona1407
@fiona1407 Жыл бұрын
True, I feel you for real some friends can turn into foes forreal.
@PreciousPlaylist
@PreciousPlaylist Жыл бұрын
2nd comment: but after making it to the end of your video, and hearing the whole story, I just got out of the same and longest situation like this with 2 girls I thought were my friend and who I considered my cousin being how close we were and her daughter was my lil cousin. But then they both stabbed me in the back and jumped me at work… THIS WHOLE TIME PLOTTING TO GET RID OF ME AS A FRIEND WHEN I HAD BEEN NOTHING BUT GENUINE TO THEM BOTH!! I even forgave the other one and let her back into my life after she told me I was dead to her because I CUT HER OFF ONCE BEFORE because she believed someone else over me in another foul situation. I have truly learned that I just gotta be careful with who I allow in my life and don’t be so quick to claim everyone as a friend… or extended family.
@autumnstar418
@autumnstar418 Жыл бұрын
I saw the pain in your eyes when you relieved this. I’m so sorry
@jessicat2304
@jessicat2304 Жыл бұрын
Baby girl you are so young and have so much life to leave. Like others have said. Let this be a lesson. Do things on your own and if ppl wanna roll fine, but don’t wait on no one.
@dee2fire
@dee2fire Жыл бұрын
girl i understand your pain something similar happened to me like how do you leave someone alone like that !! i’m happy that you are safe 💕
@Kiki32131
@Kiki32131 Жыл бұрын
Awww, I wish you had a better experience. Hopefully, you make better friends in the future. Definitely come back to NYC❤
@janaywhite4567
@janaywhite4567 Жыл бұрын
Its a lesson learned. Your still young and learning don't ever change for nobody but learning to say no is a little hard 😅
@Tbaby_
@Tbaby_ Жыл бұрын
Just found your channel today, glad to see a new post!🤞🏽❤️
@breionnaqueen7090
@breionnaqueen7090 6 күн бұрын
Awwe u genuinely seem like such a sweet girl
@itsurgirlcharlene
@itsurgirlcharlene Жыл бұрын
Ur so pretty, I’m so happy this happened to u. In life we really can’t trust having certain people in our lives
@7sevvv
@7sevvv Жыл бұрын
i wish i could’ve been your friend girl :( i feel sooo bad you went through this you seem so sweet and pure. imagine making someone fly to ny just to abandon them is really low and disgusting tbh
@lkofie6670
@lkofie6670 Жыл бұрын
I use to be like that... REALLY did NOT like going ANYWHERE by myself...AT ALL.... ESPECIALLY out in the open in public places... until I got older and realized I had the same sort of friends (and later on SILs I might add) who would make plans and later I ended up being "excluded" or the plans suddenly get so delayed or "canceled" at the last minute (cancellation is in quotes because they either flake out OR per my suspicions, they decide to go but don't want to include me or pick me up on the day of). Hell I wanted to live and have my own fun too as a result so I took baby steps. I started off by taking drives to places alone and just parking and sitting a bit before window shopping, going to local places for an extended period at a time like being in the magazine section or just looking at new products or foods I'm not familiar with at the grocery store just to pass the time, then the mall and little boutiques and later the thrift stores (love it). Gradually, I began to go to eat alone and going to the movies alone...all of it.. all the way up to flying out to places I WANTED TO GO ALONE. It was the best peace of mind ever and I started to truly enjoy my own company. Not to mention, I could do things on my own schedule and go wherever I wanted to go without putting out money and time to be with "friends" (or SILs) doing absolutely NOTHING that was really of interest to me just for the sake of "hanging out" or turning into other women's personal shopper in the event we went to a clothing store. So to date, many years later, I do things with my husband but to this day, if I'm not going with him, I plan to do and go places with our younger son or ALONE.
@Pinkonthebrain123
@Pinkonthebrain123 Жыл бұрын
Once she asked can you install the wig I woulda been out , girllll I’m here to T up not service anyone 😂
@niisharegin_
@niisharegin_ 9 ай бұрын
Damn, I’m so sorry you experienced that babe. I live in New York and I don’t even like going out alone 😔 I can imagine how scary that felt. -Bitches can be weird. But it’s okay babe. Just take it as a learning lesson. I’m 31 and it took me years to recognize that most people will use you as long as you let them. I’m glad you’ve opened your eyes early. Now you know how to move with certain people. 😣 Keep being your genuine self though❤ but take your time when choosing friends.
@darexi8082
@darexi8082 Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry for this. Those are not good friends, good friends would try and try to make you happy and company you when they KNOW you came from a far away place. You did a lot for them financially jus for them to not even treat you right fr. they are terrible ASFFF! You deserve way better friends who want to make you happy fr
@MompreneurDiary
@MompreneurDiary Жыл бұрын
Also people be hating when they realize you ain't sad and lonely without them when they doing you wrong. Proud of you for doing you at least a little bit
@Brandiisbeloved
@Brandiisbeloved 6 ай бұрын
i had a friend do this to me. She tried to leave me in New York and took my ticket. Thank God the police man was so kind and talked the people into giving me a free ticket. But for me she did it because her boyfriend tried to come on to me and i told her. i was 19, she was 28 and her man had to be 40+ and sis really thought i wanted unc. i really dont trust women easily anymore. Too much competition and comparison.
@katiedross5633
@katiedross5633 Жыл бұрын
omg girl this made my heart hurt so much for you. i dont have any friends due to situations like this and nobody deserves this, especially someone as sweet and genuine as you. im sorry these people are shitty and only care about themselves, they will get their karma and you just keep bein you! if it were me, we would be hanging everyday even as a stranger i would kick it with you all trip. ill be rooting for you on your next birthday
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
Definitely!!! I’ve always been a strong believer of karma and I know they will definitely get theirs! ❤️
@GoddessPower777
@GoddessPower777 Жыл бұрын
with how they played, I would have used their real names. weird is an understatement. Like what was the point of having you come out there.
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
Exactly!!! I literally wasted SO much money and time on this trip just to not even end up enjoying it…
@jessicat2304
@jessicat2304 Жыл бұрын
@@lavishliyah1smh . With all the money spent it would’ve made more sense to go to Houston :(
@Syxmilli
@Syxmilli Жыл бұрын
Good, genuine ppl are rare. Folks don’t know how to be friends
@jray5907
@jray5907 Жыл бұрын
Damn that sucks, I went to new york with my bf because he has a work trip and while he worked i explored by myself, I was scared but i took a uber and stayed close to time square. I went to the Vanderbilt and also to the MET museum, i had fun by myself. I just wouldn't go out at night alone. I also went to Chicago by myself but i did meet up with friends there so if they would have left me like those girls left you i would have been sad too. Thankfully you had other people to hang out with because I can understand not wanting to be alone. Its just crazy how they made all these plans and then ghosted you. Smh
@TaijaT14
@TaijaT14 Жыл бұрын
😢 oh my!!! Girl I’m pissed for you . They’re very wrong for that, that’s a waste of your time and money . Friends really don’t be friends these days . Sorry you had to go through that .
@itsafablife
@itsafablife Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry this happened to you smh I feel you with the social anxiety 😢 same thing happened to me in ny
@dasya.reneee
@dasya.reneee Жыл бұрын
And don’t wait on anyone to do anything. Do things yourself they can either get right or get left.
@mizzztstruth2925
@mizzztstruth2925 Жыл бұрын
It's sad to say but the brightest part of this trip is at least you came back alive. These last few girls trips one of the friends have not made it back. Take it as a learning lesson. Stop giving people so many chances and have backup plans to your backup plans in case things don't fall through waiting on people. If you put your happiness in someone else's hands you'll be disappointed every time, trust me.
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 Жыл бұрын
Very true!!!!
@taoroahgah
@taoroahgah 11 ай бұрын
crazy I had a similar experience with friends …. now that I see your story time I see my “friends” ain’t friends fr.
@malaysiabaldwin562
@malaysiabaldwin562 Жыл бұрын
Sorry this happened to you but word of advice when you travel no matter what enjoy your trip don’t let nobody dictate how your trip/vacation goes I started traveling solo at 22 and always have a amazing time on my own vibes and meet great people along the way you just turned 21 so take this as a lesson these girls were randoms who didn’t genuinely care about you wasting your time Sidebar: I use to have social anxiety meditation has help me with that ❤
@indiat.7242
@indiat.7242 Жыл бұрын
When you said the Uber was $60 I was like 😮 NOOOOO but I get it because I used to be the same way it took somebody completely taking advantage of me for me to change that
@lashafine
@lashafine Жыл бұрын
Them 🕳️s was most definitely jealous & it showed REAL BAD
@ShortyLikeDeish
@ShortyLikeDeish Жыл бұрын
It’s giving she never genuinely liked you and wanted to use you to her advantage and waste your time
@Prettyimvustoryss
@Prettyimvustoryss Жыл бұрын
Girl you pretty asf nd got tha bag ❤❤. Them girls was just weird asf I have not even finished the whole video yet but nah them girls was most definitely hatin, you spend all that money just too not do really shii with they fake ass 🙄.
@CutieePiee1218
@CutieePiee1218 Жыл бұрын
this makes me so sad because this type shady shit makes woman not wanna make new friendsss ughh u didn't deserve that
@CutieePiee1218
@CutieePiee1218 Жыл бұрын
wait cause im just peeping u installed her wig on Thursday and she got braids on Saturday??? is she haunted lmfaoooooooo
@JennJennntv
@JennJennntv Жыл бұрын
I understand not wanting to tell ppl no but when you get that gut feeling you gotta stand on your boundaries people will suck you dry 7 not care hm they drained you as long as you keep on helping &its sad that good people get used but we gotta STAND UP fr & don't let a soul play in ya face . "Friends" don't always be genuine smh you got me ready to tell a few story times 😂. Im getting triggered & mad for you the more the story goes on 😩
@jada9822
@jada9822 Жыл бұрын
you and glorilla resemble eachother you’re so gorgeous ❤
@bigwhoa23
@bigwhoa23 6 ай бұрын
Babe I have the same problem about saying no that why I make sure who ever I friend will rock with me just as hard I do you deserve better ❤
@Brooke-en6ks
@Brooke-en6ks Жыл бұрын
I haven’t watched the video yet but ma’am your make up looks soooo good it looks like when people use a face app that shit is too flawless😍😍😍😍
@LadyDiamond-gv3bk
@LadyDiamond-gv3bk Жыл бұрын
Red is psycho……smh 🤦‍♀️ who does that? They both need help and seem shady….
@nychellelipkovitch4616
@nychellelipkovitch4616 Жыл бұрын
Hey girl, Just found your page today! Im sorry this happened to you!
@PreciousPlaylist
@PreciousPlaylist Жыл бұрын
We always put ourselves before these so called friends… We learn something new everyday and here we learned that yourself is your #1 priority… if you don’t have kids. Even put you first before a nigga, especially if it’s nothing serious.
@bribro23
@bribro23 11 ай бұрын
Blue planned all that shit…. Cause she only took her hair out cause she know your coming, she wanted to go home early so she can get you to pay. Red is just mad your cute or paid🤷🏽‍♀️
@lavishliyah1
@lavishliyah1 11 ай бұрын
I thought this same thing!!!!!
@bribro23
@bribro23 11 ай бұрын
@@lavishliyah1 yes girl and you gonna get your money back by making this video, plus I’m going thru the others to add to the views❤️ don’t sweat it anymore as certain things have to happen when they need to cause god forbid is was a out of country trip with them hoes.
@justmeyahya7799
@justmeyahya7799 Жыл бұрын
That’s so messed up. I’m sorry that happened to you. These ppl are really weird. U seem like such a sweet girl.
@chaniam1989
@chaniam1989 Жыл бұрын
Girl red and blue sound like co conspirators. F then! They probably saw your beauty and got jealous. Funny thing is New Yorkers don’t usually act that way. They either f with u or they don’t. They too bold to be be shady so they are weird. Don’t be scared to have experiences on your own. I know how social anxiety can be but be bold. Also, when I travel try to just link other content creators. U don’t need friends you just need company.
@felicitybakerscorner6767
@felicitybakerscorner6767 5 ай бұрын
That is why I got a train card and took the train everywhere it runs really well and fast.
@inasissoko5504
@inasissoko5504 Жыл бұрын
You need better friends! So sorry you had to go through this🥺
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