straight boyfriend guesses LGBTQ+ terms

straight boyfriend guesses LGBTQ+ terms
hiiiii fam! in today's pride month special I decided to quiz Frase on some popular LGBTQ+ slang/terms!! this was a bunch of some and something a lil different! please let me know if you'd like more content with Fraser in the comments below! can't wait to chat xx love y'all!
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[@MsDickerz]

Hi cuties!! I hope you enjoyed this one! 🥰🌈✌️bit of wholesome content for your Tuesday! I just wanted to address the LGBTQ+ acronym definition. This is not my definition, this is purely what most definitions were online. If you don’t agree with “allies” being part of the A that’s totally okay and your opinion. There are obviously more terms within & outside of the acronym itself such as Agender, Gender Queer, Bigender, Gender Variant, Pangender, Pansexual and so on. I’m not in any way excluding these terms from the community! Love you all 💗☺️🌈🥰🦋

[@mackenzief4329]

I need help Dutchy! I'm trying to come up with LGBTQ+ blogging ideas for pride month (I'm a lifestyle blogger) but I have nothing. Please help me!

[@InternetLoreTruth]

Hi dutchy my chrush a boy by the way me also a boy when I'm around I feel like I am in heaven but in class today I was sat next to him and our elbows touched and our knees also I asked him out he said his mom wont let him until he completes his grades back to the class when it happened I felt so nice it's hard to explain but I kept staring at him he noticed once and smiled back but I think I love him he makes me happy also I started to think if in a relationship if I would be more feminine or masculine and I came up with a mix but more feminine I also want in a relation ship for the person to if there going to or want to kiss me similar I want it to be them also today in class all I could think about was him touching me even if it was just elbows and knees also I really wanted to hold his hand what is it aswell when I have feeling of like calmness but also heightened sense of touch

[@clancychoo1575]

Dutchy, i think the problem wasn't that you were necessarily excluding other labels from the acronym, but giving straight allies a place in the community, when even if you're straight and support the LGBTQ+ community it doesn't make you a part of it. that's kinda like saying a white person who is anti-racist is POC just because they support different races, if that makes. love your videos but 'allies' not being a part of the community isn't really something that is 'just an opinion' no hate at all to you, i just wanted to point this out :)

[@lassam333]

For someone who is straight, Frase was actually good. You seem to have taught him very well.

[@MsDickerz]

He’s up with it!

[@sharstic2929]

haha the grape reward really sold fraser on answering questions thoughtfully

[@MsDickerz]

Hahaha it really did hey!

[@vincyagain]

We love a loving supportive bf 💗💗💗

[@MsDickerz]

Yissss we do 💗💗

[@bcollienr1]

The A is for asexual, aromantic and agender, not ally

[@mlvendetta2492]

Ally is in it

[@bcollienr1]

@@mlvendetta2492 but why tho? I assume an ally is a cisgendered hetero person, and they can still get married despite being an ally, they can go to any country they want and hold their partners hand without the fear of being k!lled for it. Supporting the LGBTQ+ community should be the norm and not something special, Allies are more like guests, they're awesome, they're welcome but they're not part of the community because they're cishet. And I feel like a true ally wouldn't need a place in the community or a part of the spotlight. And you won't be able to change my mind on that. On the other hand Asexuals, Aromantics and Agender people are a part of the community but that gets forgotten because people say the A is for ally, and that's why I wrote that comment,

[@skylar2600]

@@mlvendetta2492 no it's not (sincerely, a queer person) Think of it this way - I support animal rights. Does that mean that I'm now a cat? No, it doesn't. Just because you support a group doesn't mean you're apart of it. Also I second everything that Kimberley said

[@mlvendetta2492]

@@skylar2600 it’s is in it tho even if it doesn’t make sense it’s in the +

[@skylar2600]

@@mlvendetta2492 no ❤

[@wren8423]

“are you nervous?” “incredibly” “yeah good”✌🏻

[@MsDickerz]

Hahahaha yas

[@noekie9786]

Most of these I didn't even know. Its good to learn about my community ❤️

[@MsDickerz]

It’s great to know! Always more to learn 💗

[@briannalikesbooks]

y'all are awesome! and as promised another joke: "wanting to see Harry Styles shirtless in a music video dosen't make u gay... right?" k byeeeeeeee (i need joke ideas i'm getting desperate here lol)

[@_anna-c_2298]

LMAOOO also I LOVE your pfp

[@briannalikesbooks]

@@_anna-c_2298 thanksss! u watch/watched she-ra?

[@_anna-c_2298]

@@briannalikesbooks yes I am watching it!! :)

[@dollinabox6602]

YESSS SHERA FOR LIFE

[@briannalikesbooks]

@@_anna-c_2298 what season are you on? I just finished

[@rita9942]

You guys are the cutest 😭❤️

[@MsDickerz]

We love you 😭😍

[@samanthapatrick4345]

Happy Pride Month Everyone🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🏳‍🌈🌈🌈🌈

[@Alahna285]

Same to you 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@MsDickerz]

Happy pride month cutie 💗

[@zoej3689]

same to you :)

[@thebiggestweirdoever8484]

Ok this is random but u should read people’s coming out stories again. Also happy pride month!!!! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈❤️❤️

[@MsDickerz]

I’d love to!! 💗🏳️‍🌈

[@ellaschnegelberger3466]

I love how cute he is! :)

[@MsDickerz]

He’s an angel 🥺🥺

[@ellaschnegelberger3466]

@@MsDickerz Thanks for the heart! I really appreciate it 😇

[@ellaschnegelberger3466]

@@MsDickerz LOL, thanks for a second heart. :)

[@ellaschnegelberger3466]

@@MsDickerz OMG, Thanks so much! You always make my day with your smile. 😊

[@ella1856]

The fact that twink isn't something most people know makes me question how far into gay culture I am

[@MsDickerz]

Hahahahaha

[@noekie9786]

Its so cute how he wears your merch

[@MsDickerz]

He wears it all the time 🥺🥺 bless

[@Ryuu_Helluva_Hazbin_Fan]

@@MsDickerz Aweeee cute

[@stormylovely8912]

Oooh no hate to either of you but hearing him say the D slur as a straight man and ally hurt my soul just a little bit😅 I know he didn’t mean it in a derogatory way so I’m not hating I still love both of you guys. I’m trying to say this as politely as possible but in the future I hope you guys keep in mind that it still makes many of us uncomfortable to hear that word coming from a cis straight person, even if they are an ally. Also, side note, Any lesbian can identify with being a D*ke, it’s not only masculine lesbians. Masc lesbians are just referred to that way more often because they are more obviously gay. It’s a reclaimed derogatory term used against wlw, especially, but not exclusively, lesbians.

[@mxrcuriie8759]

Happy pride month!!!! I’m now back in the closet as gay for my family, perfect for pride month! Anyone have any tips on how to celebrate pride in the closet?? Edit: it’s SICK how many people that actually gave tips! Imma try to use the most of em!

[@dollinabox6602]

Hide a pride flag behind the door 👏😄

[@rottenDeathmoth_]

You can watch gay tiktoks or listen to gay music! Maybe wear subtle rainbow things or something

[@mxrcuriie8759]

@@dollinabox6602 I really want to but I can’t buy one :( I don’t have a store close by that have one and I can’t buy one online myself :( but thx :D

[@dollinabox6602]

@@mxrcuriie8759 oof oh well but omg gay tik toks r the way to go!👏😄

[@williamoconnell1233]

Watch The Prom on Netflix.

[@pinjakauppinen4692]

Your boyfriend seems awesome! And you're so cute together

[@MsDickerz]

Thank you ☺️☺️

[@robertp181]

Dutchy! You should do more videos with him. He’s adorable and he did really great!

[@MsDickerz]

Awww thanks Robert!

[@BeautyMonster1000]

Cutest couple ever! Your boyfriend seems like such a cool guy! Couple goals! :D

[@MsDickerz]

Haha thank you !!

[@FatAssAdventures]

I love how giggly Dutch got when it came down to the power button 😆

[@pierced_veil]

i love your videos so much and you’ve helped me figure out my sexuality. i’m planning on coming out to my father today, wish me luck!!!! 💖💜💙 edit: i’m not sure if it’ll be today but i think it’ll be this week💖💜💙 EDIT: THE BICON HEARTED THE COMMENT OMGOMGOMGOMG

[@lexihall7383]

Let us know how it goes!

[@jb5636]

@@pierced_veil omg sorry ill delete it i didnt mean to be rude it was just the first time i was actually first and good luck on coming out to your father!

[@pierced_veil]

@@jb5636 it’s okay :D

[@pierced_veil]

@@lexihall7383 i’ll edit the comment when i’ve done it 💖💜💙

[@jb5636]

@@pierced_veil eeee

[@talisa.g]

Ooh love the video! And your boyfriend is so nice!

[@MsDickerz]

Thanks Talisa ☺️ hehe he’s a gem!

[@clancychoo1575]

hi, i just wanted to say that ally isn't a part of lgbtqia. The 'a' stands for ace/aro. i don't mean anything bad by this, but straight allies don't face the same struggles and go through the same discrimination we do just because they support us :)

[@junkoenoshima2756]

It also stands for two more things agender and abrosexual

[@jasminem7390]

This might be weird and I’m sorry if it is because this is supposed to be a compliment but you two are so aesthetically pleasing together. Like overall very attractive couple.

[@MsDickerz]

That’s no weird at all! Such a sweet compliment, thank you ☺️☺️

[@sourskittles5087]

Except for the fact she seems ashamed to be with a guy...

[@MsDickerz]

@@sourskittles5087 excuse me?

[@sourskittles5087]

@@MsDickerz just stating my opinion based off what I noticed luv😚

[@cathalreilly6579]

Happy pride month👭👬🌈🌈🌈🌈🌸💕💞💖🎀💜💓🎀💓🌸🌸💕💞💖🌸💓🎀🌸💕💞🌸🌸🌸💕💞💖💕🌸🎀💓💕🌈🌈🌈🌈🌈🌸💕💞💖💓🎀🌸💖💞💕🌸💓🎀💖💞💕🌸💖💞💕🌸👅👅👅💙💚💛💓🎀🌸🎀💓🌸🌸🌸

[@abismith7945]

you two are way too cute 😭🥺

[@MsDickerz]

thanks abi 💗💗

[@kisskiss6866]

Okay but the fact that Frase wears Dutchy merch is just sooo sweet ❤️ also I'm proud of myself cause I as a bi knew almost all these terms haha

[@MsDickerz]

💗💗

[@nesie.noodles6541]

hey dutchy! loved this video so much :) you and your boyfriend are really adorable. just wondering, maybe make a video about ways to celebrate pride at home?

[@MsDickerz]

awww thank you! ☺️ yesss can do!!

[@nesie.noodles6541]

@@MsDickerz thanks for the heart dutchy! really appreciate it. I discovered your channel when I was still questioning things and watching your videos helped me come to terms with the fact that I am bisexual and out to most of the people I know so thank you so much for helping me!

[@mx.larissahummel1620]

I know I'm a bit late to this video, but oml you guys are so cute!! I can't!! 😖🥺🥺💖

[@randybutterfield4336]

You are both so cool together!

[@sophiep.5040]

omg i enjoyed thid vid so much 🤗😍😍🏳️‍🌈 need more of you two together!

[@MsDickerz]

hehe thanks lovely!! 💗💗

[@_anna-c_2298]

Awwww this is so sweet🥺😂

[@MsDickerz]

Hehe thanks lovely!

[@Klaud_Skai]

I think this is the first vid I watched that her bf is in it. They are so cute and adorable. Happy Pride Month. 🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@MsDickerz]

Thanks lovely!! 💗💗💗

[@robertp181]

Happy Pride month everyone! Please know that regardless if you are out or not, you are valid and loved and the world is better with you in it.

[@MsDickerz]

💗💗💗

[@lifeisbitvlover171]

100 footer--Kurt Hummel! 😂😂

[@mlvendetta2492]

😂😭

[@MsDickerz]

💗💗

[@Wolfpack_edits]

This really helped me learning stuff because I just joined the community

[@berserkerofthesouth3923]

Hey pansexuals!! We're special!! We never can come out of the closet since we come out of the cupboard with the other pans >:3

[@MsDickerz]

💗💗💗

[@mariebourgot4949]

Don't you meant out of the PANtry? ^^

[@berserkerofthesouth3923]

@@mariebourgot4949 Wherever you put your cooking dishes, you do you

[@pierced_veil]

here before this video blows up

[@MsDickerz]

bless 💗

[@pierced_veil]

@@MsDickerz PMG YOU REPLIED IM DREAMING OMGOMGOMG

[@_anna-c_2298]

EEEEH I have the same chain as you Dutchy😝

[@MsDickerz]

Loveeee !!!

[@maealicebaird9561]

Wow! As a Native American, who knows the label of 2 spirit for non-binary people is apart of Native American culture, I am really impressed and happy you were so inclusive! I don't hear non-native people recognize that label a lot

[@MsDickerz]

Aww I’m glad! Yes well it’s all part of the acronym 💗💗

[@NIKOLAP7]

My favorite part was the "Beard". Beard may also means that both people can be homosexuals but they present themselves as heterosexual couple in front of other people who don't approve of homosexuality. I am 100% straight guy, but I wouldn't mind be a "beard" if I have a close female friend who is a lesbian and must hide her sexuality.

[@camillamatamoros1128]

Happy pride month btw

[@MsDickerz]

YAS happy pride!!

[@sportsnthingsshows2786]

Hopefully we get a part 2

[@MsDickerz]

Hehe perhaps!

[@lucideandre]

At the end, when talking about “Bi Baddie”, when he said “life’s gone by without me hearing about it” it took me a moment to realize he hadn’t said “life’s gone Bi (...)”

[@kyokajirou1429]

Oh my god! It's been years since I last watched this channel I totally forgot about it until now!

[@MsDickerz]

Naw well hello & welcome back!

[@mackenzief4329]

I need help Dutchy! I'm trying to come up with LGBTQ+ blogging ideas but I have nothing. Please help me!

[@Ryuu_Helluva_Hazbin_Fan]

I’m in this with you. I’m planning on starting a pride series on my KZbin channel and I think one of my starter videos is going to be on acceptance.

[@ermmm...wild-homo]

i'm trying to not laugh but i can't help myself-

[@MsDickerz]

hahaha

[@jasmeenbagga9358]

you guys are so cuteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee i cantttttttttttt

[@MsDickerz]

Blesssss! Thank you 🥰🥰

[@Emily-io2sp]

I would like to see another video where you read subscribers coming out stories

[@MsDickerz]

Can do! 😍😍

[@FatAssAdventures]

I’m a Latina woman and I’m loving this Australian accent 😂 y’all are so cute ! Over here wishing I can talk like y’all

[@kiefinity162]

Had a few of these correct, but damn his def of backpacker fits better then backback for a booty

[@MsDickerz]

Hahahaha right?!

[@kiefinity162]

@@MsDickerz yea, a booty is more like bounce “they got bounce”..but still damn I want to go add his definition of backpacker on urban dictionary

[@charliequinn6321]

I didn’t know too or bottom was a lgbtq+ term I thought everyone used it 😂😂

[@JoeyLange1]

Dutchy, I need help, I'm gay and my family doesn't support it. Your videos make my day and I would love to hear back. WHAT SHOULD I DO?!

[@myamarquez5471]

did dutchy get lip fillers, they look good if so :)

[@robertp181]

Is there a male version of the girl in red thing?

[@moncriss9981]

He’s straight but got twice the ones i got as a bisexual

[@cathalreilly6579]

And I watched Stranger things on Netflix tonight but 67 episode

[@ameliafailla635]

dude i've been out for years and i didn't even know some of these 🧍

[@brettcarruthers8838]

I knew most of these.

[@MsDickerz]

Wooooo !

[@cathalreilly6579]

Plenty more pronounced he said I can think of for just can't think I've done no well I will think of them

[@liasavvi6475]

Luv ur vids ❤💜💙

[@MsDickerz]

Thank youuuu 🥰🥰

[@liasavvi6475]

@@MsDickerz you're welcome ❤

[@FatAssAdventures]

Me; watching golden retriever part 👁 😃 Frazer: you said im a gamer Dutch; well you’re into Pokémon right now Me: LMFAO ROTFL ohhhh noooo my man is obsessed with Pokémon ! I guess it’s true 😭 😂

[@earptheorist448]

Please react to More Wayhaught. If you haven’t seen the stairs scene, Wayhaught proposal or the Wayhaught wedding please react.

[@MsDickerz]

Hehe okie!!!

[@cathalreilly6579]

I know several mistress and dominatrix on KZbin and on the internet and in the US and some of them are same-sex some of them are bisexual and some of them are polysexual and pansexual

[@thefitnessgrampacertest9057]

hey guys!! i got my first pride flag the other day!!

[@MsDickerz]

proud of you!!!

[@thefitnessgrampacertest9057]

@@MsDickerz omg i didn’t know you would respond! that made my day. thanks! i’m proud too!

[@kiefinity162]

The two of you can Defs do vids on a second channel, think it would blow up in the KZbin realm

[@zivyona7443]

15:31 so apperantly I had a golden retriever significant other too, she's non binary (prefers she/they pronouns) so I don't know if they count in this definition😅

[@MsDickerz]

BLESSS LOVE THAT

[@cathalreilly6579]

It is our mistresses that is on top of and air control order them and we worship them and that is it and it do our dressing up and cross-dressing with us

[@bugbug611]

Eryyy

[@MsDickerz]

Ayeeee

[@presleecarson532]

Y’all are awesome keep being you and so cute together I want that I’m 21 a Gemini queen here who loves anything be kind and ignore haters let me know ?

[@ariane143]

Dang Im early O*O

[@pierced_veil]

same :D

[@MsDickerz]

We love an early queen

[@ariane143]

@@MsDickerz ✨o✨ You replied to me Thank you TvT

[@diganta22]

I missed your premiere 😔

[@MsDickerz]

I didn’t actually premiere this one!💗

[@diganta22]

@@MsDickerz Ohh that's why I didn't get any notification 😅💚

[@cathalreilly6579]

There is any number of pronouns the joking used for a transgender person

[@FatAssAdventures]

So cute lol

[@erika_7777]

ok but does he know what a woolawoo is?

[@cathalreilly6579]

Actually touches I like my missus shoes and feet and a worship my mistress and that is it

[@stormylovely8912]

A backpack lesbian is in fact a lesbian that carries a backpack with a strapon in it that’s another term though lol!

[@jxderin]

i have no idea about any of these terms wth

[@jb5636]

first

[@pierced_veil]

wow you’re first hello

[@jb5636]

@@pierced_veil yes lmao

[@keenan-leestrauss9790]

Is it strange that I do not identify with any of these terms?

[@MsDickerz]

Nope ☺️

[@brodybelford8501]

I’m like 380

[@MsDickerz]

Yewww

[@kyoko938]

…

[@cathalreilly6579]

I am a little sissy girl TG

[@cathalreilly6579]

I like be BDSM Duchess and I know that professional mistresses and dominatrix on KZbin and in the US and on the internet and and that it

[@FatAssAdventures]

Excuse me he should of said you baby you’re the bicon! Lol retake ! Lol

[@Demigoddess_of_Myself]

The A doesn't stand for Ally

[@user-gw4sf3cz2h]

Im a Lipstick lesbian, but like one trans boy. So Im comfused

[@MsDickerz]

It’s okay to be confused :)

[@user-gw4sf3cz2h]

@@MsDickerz Thanks. I love ya.

[@camillamatamoros1128]

First

[@MsDickerz]

Hellooo

[@ayabellabhojwani24]

hey dutchy! heads up, transsexual is an outdated term bc it's not a form sexuality :)

[@MsDickerz]

thank you!!

[@ayabellabhojwani24]

@@MsDickerz omg you actually saw it and replied this is so cool! i love watching your vids

[@dahlia7927]

I'm confused, I thought you were a lesbian are you bi or pan?

[@MsDickerz]

I’m bisexual lel

[@cathalreilly6579]

I can tell you about pronouns dutchy's this is any a number of pronouns for transgender people

[@pepper_thepenguin]

Okay you've commented a bunch of times chill already-

[@cathalreilly6579]

And my neighbour's daughter is same-sex to duchy so no and there's me in the same area and there's a few letter office as well and the snow lady up the road and she's a pansexual I think anyway she's a tomboy you never got married

[@veiledowl1357]

Well, I didn't know all of these. I'm a bad Pan.