Straight Guys Ask Me Gay Questions

[@emilysgrapejuicee]

i love how andy and rec are so supportive and educated on this. as a queer person, i think it’s important for straight people to learn about these things so that they know more than just the stereotypes and all. i low key got rlly emotional watching this because they both genuinely care and love you so much😭 love you

[@BrianTerada]

I’m genuinely so lucky and it is not lost on me to have friends like this. I love how we can have important convos and also joke and laugh so much together. I love putting it on display so other people can be free and do the same!

[@keeleyapperley1]

ANDERSON REC AND BRIAN ITS MY LUCKY DAY

[@BrianTerada]

YEA BABYYYYYYY

[@cecilia7918]

I love this video! As a bi girl, having straight people like Andy and Rec who are comfortable, educated, and genuinely excited talking about gay relationships/ stereotypes we have, genuinely make me feel safe. It honestly heals a bit of the trauma I have. It’s so damaging as a gay person seeing a lot of straight people not want to be around you or seeming uncomfortable having conversations around being gay. So having straight friends that treat u normally is so comforting. Honestly started tearing up a little bit! It’s so rare to see (especially from guys). Thank you, we love you Andy and Rec

[@ohbubbl3s]

I love this video because not only are Andy and Rec so openly supportive, they aren’t afraid to be there for Brian. There’s a lot of cis straight people that are afraid to defend a queer person because they don’t want to be seen as queer too and that can be the problem in the world. This is a W video. W friends. I love these type of videos because it gives me hope that there is support out there from other communities. ❤

[@BrianTerada]

This comment was beautifully written and I’ve read it so many times. Thank you so much for the encouragement, more to come :)

[@bendemare5270]

True true

[@sarahrickard2103]

Loved this video! You should definitely do this with kian cause he's so fluid in everything to do that I think he'd have great questions and opinions!

[@breagentle6298]

Im a preschool teacher, and there are two boys in my class that said they like each other, so I definitely think that you’re born liking what you like and we’re taught to be boy+girl

[@BrianTerada]

Fascinating! Yes I remember since 5 years old

[@Matty12333]

Doesn't always mean they are gay, they could just be friends?

[@usernameisusernam]

​@@Matty12333in preschool language, in my experience, Like=Crush unless specified otherwise

[@CuzmicTarot]

I knew my attraction to what gender at a very young age.

[@CuzmicTarot]

@@BrianTerada I was about the same ❤

[@maddiemynhier324]

these really are my fav videos to see lol. something about all of the boys being so open and respectful is refreshing when there’s so much unnecessary toxic masculinity everywhere u look 🥲❤️

[@Chulaemz11]

I guess I just wanted to thank you and your respectful friends for bringing positive insight ❤️ I love that you feel so safe and loved with the boys in such a toxic world! Xoxo

[@KnijMagz]

I hardly ever click the like button unless I really really like a video. And its safe to say this was one of those 💚. Loved the engagement, questions, and how close you all are.

[@christyc491]

I LOVE HOW ALL THE FRIEND GROUP IS EXCEPTING OF BRIAN ITS AMAZING DOESNT MATTER WHO YOU LOVE AS LONG AS YOUR A GOOD PERSON. LOVE YOU BRIAN LOVE IS LOVE GLAD YOU FOUND LOVE ITS BEAUTIFUL HAPPH FOR YOU.

[@Kristamariexx]

I love how accepting your friend group is of everyone. Not one of you are the same. All different people with your own personalities, styles, sexualities, etc. I always wonder if there’s anyone that is not as accepting…but of what we see online really shows they’re all safe people and accepting. It’s lovely to see

[@jesse-mu4ue]

love love LOVED the video! the conversation and questions asked were genuine and definitely felt like a safe space!! love y'all

[@tessamarie1994]

Probably two or the most perfect people to do this video with, so respectfully and still kept it playful. I really enjoyed this trio 🧡 thanks for sharing!

[@aimeesalinas6077]

my ex bf used to get hit on by gay guys all the time, we loved it 🤣

[@vhildy11]

literally love this so much!! thank you for being such an inspiring person, Brian and I'm so glad that you have so many friends and family that love and support you! i wish for the same when i come out🤍🤍

[@BrianTerada]

You got this! And you got three guys who will love you then too!!

[@vhildy11]

@@BrianTerada thank you so much🤍🤍

[@allisonheldman]

I love how Rec and Andy are so supportive as well as educated Brian deserves friends who are not only supportive but also educated

[@savv3204]

Awww. Love this. We adore supportive friends. Definitely need more of that

[@jaydalolxo]

i love seeing everyone's thoughts on these questions each video you upload :) love you sm

[@BrianTerada]

Jayda ILY!! Thanks for saying that :)

[@janniehaus138]

Amazing video!! Andy and Rec had such interesting questions!! I’m so happy you have such loving and supportive friends💙💙

[@BrianTerada]

Love you jannie

[@janniehaus138]

@@BrianTerada I love you more💙💙

[@angelica_anahi]

I love these type of videos! It's nice to see you have a genuine conversation with your friends while it simultaneously lets them learn and it lets us, the viewers, be apart of the conversation and learn too🙂 also w fit brian!

[@MrMerel]

You always make such wholesome content ❤

[@Wolfy83]

This is a great channel. Thank your sharing it with the world, Brian. If I were asked about how I would figure out whether or not I could hit on a guy at a bar, my answer would be that I wouldn't. The risk of a straight guy retaliating against me with extreme violence for doing so is incredibly high. In recent years homophobes have felt increasingly emboldened to be more open and expressive in their hatred of the lgbt community.

[@Sarahhjb28]

Andy and Rec are so sweet and welcoming, I love it. I love to see fellow straight people be more open minded and kind. People now days can be so mean and I don’t understand why. I’m a big believer in love is love 🤍

[@fwshortsofficial]

Can you make these videos longer damn I love it😢😂

[@BrianTerada]

My fav comment. I want to start my podcast!

[@LaurenAusEngland]

Brian really understands the attraction thing, especially when he mentioned that straight women will still be attracted to a man that isn't necessarily visually appealing to them. Spot on. I really like Brian, he's just so wholesome, cute and wise. 😮

[@mz6367]

I got emotional watching this video ! What a great feeling you must have felt knowing that you have two people near you who’ll always support you and be there for you ,I liked the sense of the humor in this video which wasn’t offence by any chance ❤

[@aanjalinastewart8427]

“I’m not just gonna hop on any c***.” Andy took me out

[@BrianTerada]

I love how we can have serious convos and make funny jokes

[@rickshearer]

Great friends.

[@lilacsky8833]

6:45, Andy saying you know what's crazy? And then nothing and then Rec and Brian immediately teasing him is so funny

[@jaypatron23]

i kept replaying it because it was so funny 😭🤣

[@stevechubb5791]

I am 56 and still have not come out in fear of losing family, I feel that I have wasted my life,

[@petermintunmusic]

This is a very good video, which I will forward to some of my straight friends.

[@kelsealedford4468]

Ugh I love you guys and these type of videos

[@BrianTerada]

ME TOO LOTS MORE TO COME

[@DeviLe15]

4:33 maybe that's why no one approaches me, because I'm scared of eye contact lol.

[@destyneefloyd6804]

aww I love these videos u have such amazing and supportive friends I love u Brian ❤️🫶🏾

[@deejaytiger]

this is the first time ive seen like a gay and straight guy be comfortable with eachother physically (like giving fist bumps and touching eachother)

[@bendemare5270]

Thank you for the video I am grateful for it

[@kendrastephenson4132]

“5 years old? I wasn’t even born at 5 years old” - Anderson

[@virlinehonore9767]

9:09-9:13 same, I was like Andy wtf u talking about but ik what it means now 😂😂

[@rhyleew5280]

Love when Brian uploads 🤍

[@virlinehonore9767]

9:27-9:46 Brian with the double rizz 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂😂😂

[@johnnyerenee8968]

This trio is low key the best! Thanks for this video y'all! ❤

[@BrianTerada]

Thank you Johnnye! Love these guys they’re like my lil bros

[@makaylawhite1888]

A trio I didn’t know I needed!!! I love u three sm

[@_pride_101]

I love that im learning things about the community that I didn't even think about XD.

[@julianfountain]

W video! So much respect and love for each other and each others differences. The world needs more of this 💯❤️

[@virlinehonore9767]

I loved the video with Ryan, Crawford and David and ik I’ll love this too. Tbh I love every video u post 🥰🥰

[@alex_kilgore]

I agree with all of the other comments about how I love this discussion and the great support from all 3 of you throughout the video. However, I can't stop thinking about how Andy's legs remind me of the Spongebob legs meme 😂

[@carlosalenduran4630]

Awww I love this video and you 3 are super awesome.

[@HawthorneHillNaturePreserve]

What is nothing more attractive than a straight man who is secure with his sexuality, and not threatened by other gay men!

[@222realestbih]

loved this video and this trio ily brian

[@heatherlouise6603]

The camera angles 😍😍😍😍

[@ccrystallized]

Stream and new video today? Wooo let’s goooo #brianisback

[@nikkid2252]

absolutely loved this video

[@deepbluehue3]

It's all about body language ... With ANYONE ... and HONESTY ... be upfront and direct ... otherwise ... one assumes ... wrongly

[@Itzezyyyy]

Love seeing unlikely collabs come together for a great video☺️

[@patricksmith2274]

Brian you're very fortunate to have great straight friends. Culturally it's different for me. Most straight black men are not friends with gay men. I would love to have a few straight friends who weren't just females. It's tough and lonely. 😢😢😢😢😢

[@brayantrejo5595]

Trust me, “straight” guys get angry when gay guys hit on them lol.

[@BrianTerada]

Hahaha definitely some do

[@nolanng2590]

Bless these straight guys. ❤❤❤

[@brianj959]

Those boys are beautiful but so straight: the way their instinct was to high five you when you described getting a “rod on” (also hilarious!) with the high school chick. LOL

[@GREENSOURBALL]

No gay man would let that happen. And it’s childish for adults to give high fives cause of someone getting an erection that’s just weird.

[@elainasoriano1798]

Woo lets go #brianisback

[@roberthammer8890]

awesome people hope you guys are having a great day.

[@Itzezyyyy]

Rizzology lmao

[@elliottpurnell9105]

The amount of healthy masculinity in this video makes me happy

[@jahipalmer8782]

People have said to my husband, whom I introduced as my husband, "Oh, I didn't know you were gay," like two conversations after I introduced him as my husband. It's weird.

[@seriouspleasures]

This woman I know was on the phone with her son, when she hands it over to me and said "talk to my son! He's gay, too! It was awkward. He was like "I'm so sorry!" And I said I was sorry, too.

[@777DVB]

Awesome video loves it, Anderson love you but I like Rec's Q's a bit more 💙💙💙

[@bajanyaoikaizer6902]

How about a challenge where all three of you have to do the same thing. Whomever is comfortable doing the activity gets a candy {or chocolate ball or something edible}; and who ends up with the least amount has to get blasted with ice cold slime/jello. {example 1: go to the beach in speedos for 2 hours and interreact with people} {example 2: cuddle on the couch and watch a gay themed movie} {example 3: eat giga spicy corn chips} there's more than 10% of the population that's like you Brian, they just aren't all out/open yet. And there's also pigs and slobs and himbos who are varying levels of low maintenance -ooh but they can rock your world just the same.

[@Bazroshan]

2:48 I was at a disco; it was someone's birthday and a cake was put out. A man made his advance to me by putting a piece of cake in my mouth without so much as a by-your-leave. He was very handsome, we had a fling, and it was great while it lasted! 13:24 Precisely! There will come a time when we do away with all the labels and simply arrange our lives in the way we see fit.

[@alexiskawaiiLOL]

Omg I love these videos ❤❤❤

[@vomacbecca]

i can’t wait to hug you again! thanks for being apart of my life since 2020 you truly deserve the world, i love you and appreciate you so much ❤

[@Gemineyestar]

A-frikken-mazing video. ❤ Sending love.

[@deepbluehue3]

As an american , when I visited Italy my american gay-dar DID NOT WORK ... Social norms are different ... especially with friends / long time hetero friends ... Thay hang all over each other in public ... I was astounded ... IN a bar asked my friend if ' THAT GUY ' was gay .... ( I was sure he was ) ~ HE WASN'T ' Hetero ' Social norms are different in different countries ....

[@JessiexWx]

this convo was so amazing ,, WWW boys

[@jazzqueen1]

nice video snd this was interesting to hear the questions Brian

[@mrell1sd]

14:14 my heart would RACE when my bff would hold my hand and i had a crush on her at 5 but being catholic and my family saying “girls should be with boys and boys should be with girls” i thought i was sick… like something was wrong with me because i had a crush on boys n girls.

[@virlinehonore9767]

8:59 imma have to look that up

[@selinasaleh_]

#brianisback 🕺🕺🕺

[@amberlynn60]

love this trio

[@rhyleew5280]

#Brianisback 🎉❤

[@larrylane7709]

Do Anderson abd Rec have socials?

[@virlinehonore9767]

3:16-3:33 I never understood why they get upset/annoyed about it

[@mervyngreene6687]

I have had the funniest discussions around this issue. At first, these guys claim that they are insulted that someone would think that they are gay. However, after a while, most of them admit that their reaction is based on fear. This fear was based on the belief that gay guys were just like straight guys. Given the right situation, they would have sex with ANYONE! This fear is based on the amazing amount of stories about straight men having gay sex in prisons, during long military deployments, and in fraternities. Of course, the most famous situations arise from the "I was so drunk last night scenarios." All of these situations highlight the fear that it be easy to convince them to have sex with another guy. AND that they might enjoy it!

[@cattttaleya343]

Love reccccc ❤

[@camillechai-onn6168]

LOVE

[@faisalgg6698]

5:00 are you friend of Dorothy?

[@josephadiaz8343]

Love is love ❤️✌️😎

[@angelburgess526]

them being so woke is so attractive fr

[@sampalladio9122]

Brit guy is fuckin hot … all hilarious

[@vomacbecca]

#brianisback 💙

[@hardcore86]

13:30 andy my abolitionist king

[@mervyngreene6687]

I think that the other straight guy's explanation of the second question is accurate. I think that most people who say "you should meet..." are playing matchmaker. I know a lot of non black people who say "you should meet (another black person)." They are usually matchmaking, networking, or trying to prove that they are not racist. The question that annoys me is "do you know..."

[@Itzezyyyy]

I agree with Rec tho cause why should we resort to one gender which is why everyone is technically bi but I also hate labels bc the term ‘gay’ and ‘straight’ just rub me the wrong way and calling myself ‘straight’ is just cringy to me😅

[@lyssa7780]

fav trio

[@BrianTerada]

Aww me 2 :)

[@neonoires]

I get what Brian is saying about being gay but open to kissing a girl and not really bisexual because when you’re already queer you’re kind of open to many different things without it being such a huge break from who you are. I’m a bisexual/pan cis woman and in my experience with gay people vs straight people, straight people are typically more concerned with diverging from the norm whereas most gays and lesbians are like “okay whatever.”

[@BrianTerada]

RIGHT!! that was so well said. I love what you said about how queer people aren’t as afraid to diverge from the norm because, well, we already are divergent from the “norm”. Love it

[@JohnnyHandsometm]

I truly like people who say I wouldn’t or didn’t even know you were gay until you told me because I view myself as just a man who likes other men. Yes, I have my “YAS QUEEN” & “SLAY/VOGUE THE HOUSE DOWN BOOTS” moments, but I don’t identify with the whole “overtly feminine gay man” stigma/stereotype. I also find it EXTREMELY DIFFICULT to meet or even find other gay men that are, for lack of a better term, more masculine type gay men.

[@GREENSOURBALL]

At this point I’m finding less and less REAL gay men who aren’t just bisexual but call their self gay cause they’re mostly into men. That crap is mad annoying. No such thing as 90% gay or 90% straight. Either you’re gay (ONLY LIKE THE SAME SEX) or straight (ONLY LIKE THE OPPOSITE SEX). There is no in between when it comes to these two identities

[@chadh-q7c]

They're harder to spot, is why

[@anthaneshawalker7782]

top 3 cam boysss yayyy

[@ooohdaniellekim]

Agreed w/ Brian…there are bunch of couples who are in relationships but they don’t have sex…asexual couples.. it could happen

[@jessicablack9960]

For me, saying “that’s gay” is rarely offensive. The only way I’d find it offensive is if it was blatantly obvious that someone meant it in a degrading way and disliked gay people. It might be personal bias because growing up my family was so homophobic that they would never make any gay jokes or say something is gay because the term was very taboo. So, in a way, when people say “that’s gay” it makes me feel like they are accepting and comfortable with the term.

[@spht9ng]

It's just slightly questionable if you have no idea where the person saying it stands on the morality of being gay or if they hold prejudice against gay people. Sometimes I won't think much of someone saying 'that's gay' but then i'll hear them say other ignorant things about how they don't let gay people around their kids because they think they're more likely to be child predators.

[@jessicablack9960]

@ yes I agree with that. If they’re saying other homophobic things then it changes my perspective on them using the term. I think it really just depends on the context of them using it and why they say it.

[@jeanie5893]

❤🖤❤🖤 I love this

[@Matty12333]

Are stright people really stright? Some stright people, act gay

[@a.tartist]

It's not even 10% it's more like 5-8%

[@Alxxisk]

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