Stripper interview-Cherry

Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Cherry, a stripper in Los Angeles.
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[@LordHaveMercy]

"No traumas at all as a kid. My dad was a psycho and a narcissist. My mom was an alcoholic. And my parents divorced."

[@stephentyree9296]

I know, right? I guess suffering is relative. That was a day at the office to. I would definitely consider that traumatizing.

[@dshesser]

Sometimes people downplay their trauma when they haven’t been through things like physical abuse or SA.

[@zheliak6536]

Trauma is no what happens to you but how you react to it.

[@thefarside2639]

I mean nobody’s life is gonna perfect every family has some dysfunctional some shield their kids better, why go around playing the victim card if your parents who are imperfect humans at the very least clothe, fed, and protected you from any type of abuse

[@fasteddie0306]

But trauma will dictate your reaction. It can be devastating or it can roll off u like nothing. Depends what your upbringing was and what life Their life was made up of

[@joshuaryantrucking7396]

When I was younger I used to go to strip clubs and sell drugs, now I'm older and I have daughters feel ashamed of myself I can't believe I even did that when I was younger so disrespectful to those women I am sorry

[@baublesanddolls]

We all do stupid things when we're young. At least you grew up and realized. Most don't. You sound like a good father.

[@Maddsgigi]

Point is you learned from it & now do better. We all have done things we regret.

[@tas4u93]

Better keep an eagle eye

[@SweetUareDesi]

❤

[@tuforu4]

AMERICANS

[@tylercraig5633]

Very good interview! Really intelligent and insightful lady indeed. Heartbreaking to hear her talk about her upbringing and the way it distorted her view on relationships. Genuinely hope and pray she finds someone who loves her and is healed from her experiences.

[@user-bh6wg8qf3h]

Really you think so wow, there’s someone for everyone. I guess I feel like she’s very immature delusional about yourself and her life and I feel like she’s a super cornball.

[@danielosmon]

I dated an ex dancer for almost a year. I did not know she had been one when I met her. Although absolutely beautiful on the outside, she was dark and cold on the inside. I think about her everyday still, and genuinely hope she one day is happy and fulfilled

[@Penelopemee]

What made her dark and cold inside ??

[@NathanLGrossman]

A very smart, self-aware, well-spoken and honest woman. I hear her point about stripping be an unhealthy lifestyle but the easy money being addictive.

[@hawk_346]

She is most definitely not self-aware. She says that she had no trauma growing up, but explains how bad her mother and father were. She also says she has a lot of friends, but probably doesn’t know that these people aren’t truly her friends. Definitely not self-aware. I hope one day she sees this and begins to make some changes for herself.

[@trevorlageson5122]

I met my wife when she was 23. She was seuxalized her entire life. 13 years later the wounds are still healing. Real Love finds The Way.

[@ashleystanley5526]

I worked in the same clubs as her for 6 years. I have been retired for almost 10. Everything that she said about “mental trauma” in the club and body dysmorphia is ABSOLUTELY true. It stays with you for forever. The way you perceive men will stay with you forever. It’s hell on earth.

[@realamericannegro977]

Sure yall go to places that attract the bottom of the barrel men then decide to view every decent man that way while marrying or still sleeping with scum

[@fin.nessss]

And ironically, it's shown as "women empowerment", meanwhile, it crushes the depths of your soul.

[@valeriacortez7003]

@@fin.nessss Great point..

[@Trevor_Marines]

I myself have never been to a strip club, but I don't understand how someone selling their body for money can "perceive" men different for paying for your product. To me, being looked at and touched by tons of men for a living is several times more disgusting than a man paying to look at and touch a woman. Especially considering the man does it on occasion, while the woman does it for a living..

[@montananerd8244]

@@Trevor_Marines thank you for defining misogyny so effectively. You are as stupid as you are evil. I hope no woman ever risks her life by being in a relationship to you. Dude, you legit sound EXACTLY like a serial killer. That is textbook psycho who thinks he is some moral hero but everyone else can see he is the worst of all.

[@lynnzephyr563]

I really liked her and how she gave a lot of thought to each question Mark asked her. She's got a good head on her shoulders and I wish her the very best.

[@reelincoln7747]

Agreed!

[@thecoastlineintuitive8615]

I love watching the interviews that you do Marc, hello from Canada 🇨🇦 😊

[@carolfromalbertacanada]

Hi from Alberta 🇨🇦

[@drchico40]

Don't ever be your kid's best friend.

[@pambeforethestorm9784]

I think as an adult it's fine, but as a child, parents need to enforce boundaries and show them they are Not their friend, but the parent entrusted to protect and care for them 💯💯

[@drchico40]

@@pambeforethestorm9784 100%

[@tamirsharif314]

In actuality parents are being there child or children best friends when they try their best to parent them right and guide them right, my big brother,, my big sister & i parents were to us when we were growing up .

[@atham2776]

The other way around

[@JuliaShalomJordan]

I stripped for 12 years.🥵 Leaving was SO hard because I made great money (which made me feel valuable). In the end, being liked for sexual reasons makes you feel empty.🤯 I had major daddy issues, too.🫣 Praying this beauty gets out and takes care of herself.🙏🏻

[@sj9410]

Thats if you put your worth in your job and looks. Otherwise just go in make your money and leave. Don't put your identity in it.

[@ZootZinBootZ]

@@sj9410 totally agree. Put the costume on for the roll, step out as yourself and be professional about everything like time to sleep - I missed so much sleep thinking$$$ was worth more. Not a big deal but buy yourself out of low value by retailing your dreams to yourself as the lay away purchase built from your drive to hustle. The fun in the frivolity can be fundamental strength in self realisations of appreciating abstract stuff like boundaries. Things maybe taken for granted are enhanced in this lifestyle with it being a choice. Unfortunately that's not everyone's ride though.

[@ZootZinBootZ]

@@josephpchajek2685 I understand that hesitation to support things that slotted into a more unhelpful not positive catalogue of lifes continuing component options for enlarging ourselves as we grow... not all idols are worth trusting, not all temptation is worth trusting ect.. but please refresh the open-minded person you aim to emulate , add extensions to expand on perspectives ..fit more in than the conformity your binding yourself with - with Zero proof any of it will secure an afterlife or something like spiritual realm heavenly father fulfilment , to believe in God's actual being real not just thought bubble group think , is as unsupported as any clairvoyant or predictions mystic , we only have faith, our own private nightmare on terms of being taken advantage of for our indulgent hunger of companions & company driving people to go to such extreme lengths as commit murder to provide proof of faith in something, even kill themselves - symbolism is everywhere you look for it , a full stop could inspire a novel and win a Nobel prize, we are all easily accessible to influence - religious manipulating and inaccurate reasoning skills are the atomic energy Commission for Charlatans , to get fooled for my life on earth by someone asking my faith run over my fear of being wrong & condition myself with low confidence anxiety of never overcoming my flawed guilt worthy mistakes in connection with pious ambition of being dedicated to my faith ... I am not structured to apply myself to a whole sink of washing up as a task I fly away and float off in my mind very thankfully I'm like this unrestricted responsibility free bubble of nothing obligated to anything .. I have a huge ego , I'm full of myself and rude rough terrain like I'm stalagmites of sharp obstructive crystal pillars standing up like natural deliberate independent standing cave decoration in a catacomb of pathways to adventures... Be less inhibited by what is right or wrong with moral compass & trust yourself as the king of your own domain wherever you roam. Castle you Carry on Crocs 🤣 The temple concept is strong self worth type messaging thats personal foundation building compassions but sanctimonious righteousness is not structural integrity, it's guild bejeweled dressed up power and politics entrapped in reliance on religious manipulating to obtain confidence and ultimately control ... For power and authority with the C clear eating itself - hence the exit stage popularity of atheists and disengaged congratulations on ever increasing volume of personal paths chosen for individual spiritual needs instead of letting the groupthink of church combined collage of conducting concepts trying to communicate how to be like jeesus ... Stuff that is hypocrisy blurring of the situation advising not to worship false idols - my magical maybe god creator was smart enough to make sure that functional loophole exists to ensure the empty headed faithfully delusional congruent of derailed hate inspired retaliation feeding peace bandits who have not understood that message of taking care, like value even a single grain of salt as if it was as precious and as equal to sediments & sand & spoils of this land , our own Valhalla we call earth. God basically said do not waste your life in prison of your mind set yourself free from straight dire conundrum in failing a system generated from implausible proof we register as being belief sounds truth and reconciliation for safety to trust and support or endorse a thing or concept or leader or church & god said through his son exactly this end of sinning shames and stalling of our blessed gift d freedom to choose to not feel constraints from guilt or inability to access fullfilling faith as the brochure your touting pitches ,. I'm sorry your not going to see my position as realistic because your subscription is anything you need to can be cast as devils aspirations to tempt your thoughts to cave into lesser conformity to immaculate aspirations , nobody's perfect mate , why do you try to fit yourself into a constant commercial club of conditions in church life when you can actually fk everything you ever glorious wanted to power stroke your own second and third and fourth and fifth cumming to the high jolly hole of celestial delights , and gain access to some good times worshipping or being worshipped like a phallic icon or the devil's advocate for kinks of the perpetual pleasure plying disciples of deep-throat or the canonization of clit cult classics... Ordained officiated orgasms are actual options , mocking temple garment purity is playing with parabolic equations like pearls of love beads , no idea what the Catholics do with things like crucifixion pendant necklace things but utility brown is probably not a coincidence... My religious ethics are amalgamated & very competent at delivering an alternative embodiment of a happy intelligent and admirably inquisitive ascension advanced adventure ambassadors for essentially advocating the abolishment of artificial atrophic alignment and allow your life to have another meaning than your settling with... Our brains are not even near turned on yet... Evolution is God's will.

[@MARKHENSTROM]

I like your use of emojis, Julia.

[@tuforu4]

@@ZootZinBootZ jeeeez thats COMPLEX.... u need move to EUROPE.

[@bruce274]

work 9-10 hour shift, wait 2 weeks for a paycheck and receive $300. or strip and receive $500. in 1 night.....can you blame her!?

[@waitaminute2015]

Anyone with a good personality and decent looks can go into sales. No education necessary. Some furniture sales people make over 100k, real estate, etc. Not every job is low paying. These girls spend like there's no tomorrow with nothing to show for it in the end, and settle for a jerk with a few bucks later if they're lucky. Funny they never mention owning a home or any investment.

[@Guttagangboosie102]

What job is paying 300 dollars biweekly? This ain’t China dawg

[@SM-fk5or]

Yeah, self respect and dignity is worth more than making quick money. And you can make far more than 600 a month even working minimum wage 🙄

[@QualityQman]

Unless you're concerned about your career once your youth goes away. You may only be earning $300 dollars in one day but it's not just money you are earning. You're earning skills and investing in yourself which pays dividends once your looks go away. So you can make an extra 200 a day now or delay gratification and earn exponentially more money once you hit 35 or 40. Otherwise, you'll start earning $300 a day at that age. And you still have a whole other half of your life to live.

[@bruce274]

@@Guttagangboosie102 10 per hour x 40 = 400 which nets out around 300

[@curiousme8]

Really enjoyed this interview. Such a pleasant personality and energy!

[@sues3728]

Love her honesty. Thank you for sharing cherry x

[@voxlugosi4957]

What a lovely personality. This was really a happy interview. Kick ass Cherry.

[@smirkinatu5512]

Thank you for recording and posting this valuable educational video. I wish you peace and prosperity in your future endeavors.

[@ter1133]

The people commenting who think most strippers are sober..... you are KIDDING yourself!!

[@sparkyskooter911]

A lot of strippers/dancers use a number of different substances, of course, and a lot of them don't. I've personally known ones that didn't even drink in the club. Stripper doesn't automatically mean drug addict or alcoholic. It's just like how some girls will prostitute and use stripping as a way to find tricks, but most of them don't. And it IS safe to say most strippers are not prostitutes. Everyone is different and there's a large variety of different personalities+looks in that specific area of sex work(strip clubs).

[@spookkybeemee669]

I was a stripper for 3 years and didn't use drugs. I prolly drank at the club around 30 times during my 3 year adventure.

[@snicker576]

@@spookkybeemee669 "adventure"

[@vloneseraph]

@@sparkyskooter911 shes def a prostitute lol

[@ter1133]

@Victoria Rose my response was in relation to those insulting her for drinking. I worked in strip clubs for 8 years and currently friends with many strippers and sex workers. So yes, I know what I'm talking about. 😉

[@agees924]

She’s a very intelligent woman for sure, great interview

[@jeffreyfelshaw7316]

These interviews are fascinating

[@SammieLuvable]

Loved this interview! She was so straightforward and open. She's gorgeous, and I love her tattoos. Especially the Jujutsu Kaisen tattoo :)

[@sophiehilgert4330]

i was looking for the tattoo comment, yes its epic! :D

[@taddricketts6282]

Her smile and laughter is Golden!!! When she said her Mother was her best friend, that is so rare these days, almost every girlfriend, or girl in general had a distant/distorted relationship with their Mothers which always broke my heart, and I'd always try to get them to contact, or send a Mother's Day Card/Letter and they were so convinced it was over

[@jimmiehines1769]

I jus need a golden Shower and does she do that I know she does blowjobs so everything's pretty good lol

[@lanadexter]

Her mother is a codependent, that is why they are so close and that is why she married her father-the narcissist. They go together.

[@stacywallace6187]

I had to let go of my best friend of 20 years, almost 2 years ago. I no longer could relate to her. Constantly hustling people for money, now in Real Estate but found out real quick people in that realm do not deal financially with a hustler. Married her 4th husband who took her from stay-at-home Mom of 3 girls to strip clubs in San Francisco. She shared minimal as I couldn’t relate and worried as an older sister. My view on her husband, cowardly pimp. Addicted to steroids…thank you for filling in gaps in the industry. It gives better insight as to what really is going on. I wish this young lady nothing but the best.

[@melrivas3655]

She is so young and can go in any direction in life still! Hope she’s happy and if she ever decides to get out hope she can get out in a smart and practical way 🙏🏽

[@zenvirgo1]

I totally felt her when she said she leans more towards being asexual. Makes complete sense.

[@trees6543]

She done so much fucking so she got tired of being stretched out everyday by random men.

[@jjgaddafiaaaa3072]

How does that make sense to you?

[@MM-sq5pf]

I love to bust one out too on my own sometimes

[@daplayer1098]

@@jjgaddafiaaaa3072 Perhaps, having to take being over sexualized almost 24/7 by men that most of the time look at you as if you were some type of grilled chicken might make you feel disgusted by the idea of having sex sometimes.

[@Ltasty]

Let me guess, : you're both on SSRIs

[@sirbaronvoncount4147]

Judging men by their behaviour at strip clubs is like judging women for their behaviour at strip clubs.

[@willedwards9293]

Ctfu! Real shit!

[@sarahalderman3126]

That’s true, either one is trash.

[@sup393]

Best comment

[@yung_dice203]

🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@jaja32807]

Deadass lmao

[@roxy1522]

I love her, this is My favorite interview so far

[@DanielleCapichano]

Considering everything, she's got a really good head on her shoulders. She's able to identify the problems and knows them instantly, her main vice is about finding a solution that doesn't hurt as bad as the trauma she's already been through. The hurdle she needs to pass now is getting past her failure to plan, because not doing so is planning to fail. Besides sex talk, she needs to have conversations with some of the jobs about the kind of industries they're in so to afford her services in the first place. Take it from myself; my father was a jeweler and his father before him a steel welder. Both were engineers in their own right; but where it left me was back to the transportation industry as per our last names namesake; the captain, because our ancestors worked on fishing boats back of the day. On good weeks, I'm making just as much, if not more than most strippers out there. On bad weeks, I'm bringing in a minimum wage work week. All of this is figuring out your income to expense ratio, of which she needs to figure what kind of challenge she's willing to put herself out there for versus the risk and especially the reward she wants in this life.

[@Catalinaobregon]

Thank YOU Danielle for saying it like it is!

[@kireicheri]

❤❤

[@onejacket4603]

She actually has 2 heads if you count the tattoo

[@swordfish2089]

24 and going on 60 real fast. She'll be turning tricks on the streets in no time.

[@stephE80]

@@swordfish2089 why do you think she would become a prostitute from stripping? This young lady seems to have a good head on her shoulders and isn't even into the drug scene....she talks about how other strippers make more $$ by doing "extras" that she doesn't do. She seems to have self respect but is young and is doing the best she can with what she knows (and has) at this time in her life after an upbringing that doesn't sound great

[@carolynrupard2699]

Wonderful Interview! Good advice! I jump into things all the time

[@kathymarie3723]

Very sad interview.

[@dtmjr34]

I like her personality. She’s beautiful and relatable. Hope she does well.

[@juppheynckes6110]

She's juicy as well

[@iamjeffreybezos]

Man, I really enjoyed this interview. I hope she becomes what she dreamed to be.

[@Bearlyhan]

Simp 😂 you would pay for that onlyfans wouldn’t you JEFFREY

[@kireicheri]

Thank you ❤

[@MattC-jg1yb]

Seeing as how she only makes videos with black guys…single mom life soon

[@katiesandin7905]

You are SUCH a beautiful and smart young woman. I don't judge your choices, just know you are capable of whatever you decide you want to do in this life. Sending you only love and positive vibes 💞

[@debbieflaherty1975]

Edit: That black and white photo is absolutely stunning!!

[@rosesavoy9035]

I admire her so much she has more emotional and intelectual intelligence at this age than me that could be her mother! You can see her deep honesty that is so rare such a precious quality she has. Praying for her to do something that supports her and that she enjoys. Beautiful soul.

[@reelincoln7747]

What an adorable girl. Please do an update. My hopes are with her!

[@cynthiaconnors183]

She's actually an adult.

[@josephback-upaccount6116]

Stop simping.

[@reelincoln7747]

@@josephback-upaccount6116 you are gross

[@reelincoln7747]

@@josephback-upaccount6116 F u

[@TGBahr]

Interesting perspective, thank you for sharing, Cherry.

[@giopaints2943]

You feel like a whole deep down, that’s why you need to get “liquid courage” in you. Do t feel that way. Be that bad one you set out to be. I mean that in a good way. Be proud and look up to your self. Not down. Your amazing and you should know that.

[@tereseday4060]

I enjoyed this interview. She seems bright. She has a good personality. I wish her the best.

[@pamelapalmer2832]

I am totally blown away. She is the twin to my granddaughter. Even her voice. That's really weird. I guess everyone does have a twin.

[@Jmotwa87]

It’s called a doppelgänger

[@pamelapalmer2832]

@@Jmotwa87 I just read it, thank you for letting me know. I always heard that everybody has a twin now I truly believe and know the word for it. 😊

[@annikarasmussen6616]

@@pamelapalmer2832 when I was a sex worker there was a guy who'd call once a week and always piss me off so I'd never see him. Once he called on a slow day and I thought well I know he's not a cop so let me find and lurk his social media etc and maybe he'll be good enough to be a guest today and I'll just try to ignore his stupidity. And then I found his Facebook and his wife looked exactly like me!!! She looked closer to being my twin than my sister! Girrrrl I was like hell no this is how lifetime movies start or episodes of unsolved mysteries and blocked his number haha

[@OvercastDaze]

Is she single?

[@pamelapalmer2832]

@@annikarasmussen6616 Damn girl I don't blame ya. So far there's not a twin of me, lucky bitch 🤣

[@MsOka007]

Sad. She's definitely a survivor, but getting drunk to be able to do this horribly job is evidence it is not a healthy job.

[@Barnabas555]

And water is wet...she's addicted to fast money

[@erikgutierrez3138]

Shut up, there's a ton of people who do that just to cope w a shitty job. Not that horrible man. Others have it WORSE

[@tuforu4]

@@Barnabas555 she needs go HOLLYWOOD.

[@EnragedTofu]

As someone who has dated sex workers, it can be a challenge with some because the dynamic of labor, time & money between yourself & them can be wildly different. My last girlfriend could just make thousands of dollars in a “date night” and she would not really consider the time it takes for me to earn my own funds or consideration that I put into the work of handling my policyholders (I worked auto insurance accidents). Couple that with her narcissistic traits, it didn’t end well. As she seems considerate & honest with herself, I hope Cherry ends up in a mutually respectful relationship that evolves.

[@sj9410]

Why does she have to be in a relationship?

[@JohnSmith-su3ze]

Yeah, but I bet the sex was out of this world, right?

[@ZootZinBootZ]

It's a pretty high functioning mutual gain , quid pro quo to the hilt. It's enthusiasm for self evaluation of ego v personal esteem.. we all have a price to pay or cross to bare - I appreciate your thoughts making values of people in the industry more than a mythical fantasy - it's real life and it's attachments are equal to any other social dichotomy between ourselves and others.

[@EnragedTofu]

@@JohnSmith-su3ze bet.

[@Charlotte-ti6oq]

Why would you go out of your way to date ' sex workers'. A lot of people in unusual ' careers' have narcissistic traits, the clue is in the profession.

[@myeyeswentdeaf6213]

Good Morning Everybody!👋😎or whatever it is where you are. Peace and Love from 6:00am Brooklyn NY 🇺🇸 to all my SWU fam around the world 🌍

[@Gram72534]

4:20 in the mile high city!!! Have a great weekend brother!!!!

[@people_watcher]

Good morning to you and the rest of the SWU family from The 🌞 Sunshine state.

[@myeyeswentdeaf6213]

@Gram #7 Wats up Gramz. Right back atcha 🫵😉. Yo, idk why but I just had a good laugh at the still shot as it was going down and her skirt kept getting longer and longer 😂 I was like ‘ankle length skirt….huh? Very modest. I just didn’t expect that for some reason.

[@esmeprowse]

I love knowing I’m not alone in how I became who I am. Maybe alternative but it’s also the journey we’re on.

[@jackierosado1777]

I enjoyed this interview 👍

[@KayKay-ki5gi]

I love her. We’re all just human and we (strippers) deserve to be treated as such.

[@sarahalderman3126]

They are treated as human. I mean what else would they be treated as? There is a stigma though, appropriately so.

[@Pedant_Patrol]

Strippers should be treated as humans with a distasteful, disgraceful job.

[@coreytheperson4345]

nothing against the profession personally. I just can't stand the ones who hate men ... ALL men . The ones that brag about taking money from them.... delusional because they brag about not needing or depending on men... yet men are they're only customer.. lol. sorry. bitter experience with a stripper/ho recently!! 😂 😂 But generally they get treated poorly because it's hard to have respect for a person who doesnt display respect for themselves... It's not right but it is what it is.

[@snicker576]

Don't strip, sweetie. Check the local job postings. You do not need to be that sad and desperate!

[@xp8969]

@DanOfTheWild you need to learn how to spell 3 letter words, that's how you can get a job so you can stop sucking dick pretending to be a pimp

[@Bringthewinter]

I always hear women say that most guys are easy to control/manipulate. But so are most women, and any person in general, if you know what they want and what they’re looking for. Not saying I do, but no one is really such a great mystery in this world like they think they are.

[@baublesanddolls]

Exactly. My ex-husband is a master manipulator and can fool anyone. He gets away with everything and everyone loves him. He says people are easy. All you have to do is look them in the eye and listen to them. He says it works every time. He even has a specific smile he uses that melts people's hearts. I used to ask him to show me that face all the time and he could do it in command. People fell for him all the time, judges, police, etc. He could talk himself out of anything and always did.

[@junopierre2988]

After watching that channel scamfish I realized how easy it is for a hot picture of a man sending a message to an old lady is easy cash. It’s crazy how many still fall for that shit

[@denisla3546]

@@baublesanddolls yeah not me tho' . My alarm goes of any time i dont know someone and thay act to frendly or are just so cool about it ...98% of the time if u dont know someone and thay behave like that its a manipution and i can see right through it, guess i am i minority...

[@jamesfall101]

She seems very intelligent & level-headed. Not to mention completely and utterly gorgeous!

[@Unicornballs69]

😅😅 clown 🤡

[@_EightySix]

*udderly

[@jayturner7145]

@@_EightySix you do realise your dumbass spelt it wrong?

[@paulahillman1100]

At the end when you called her candy 😂

[@queenelizabella]

I didn't even catch that 😂

[@RotanCam]

Freudian slip. ;-)

[@ootenyafoo6935]

It's always motivated by "quick, easy big money", but the diabolical truth is that for most, life will be a marathon. In only a moment, we become old, the years melt by and before you know it you're 50 or sixty with no savings, a decaying body and a bleak future ahead. You can't really be lectured about this when you're only 23. The truth only becomes apparent when you personally experience these sad outcomes. Life plays very cruel jokes on us indeed!

[@pambeforethestorm9784]

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[@pambeforethestorm9784]

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[@kittenhrdr]

I'm 60,aretired stripper, and men still are helping me, taking pictures of me. I spent money wisely and attended college and am happy . Drinking too much can be a problem, but that's for anyone, in any job.

[@renanstxr]

To be fair you can indeed get lectured about it at 23 tho

[@syterharris4626]

Great words you made so much sense 🙏🏾

[@themilosh895]

Lol. Mark calls her Candy at the end.

[@DMaes23]

I noticed that too. 🤣🤣🤣

[@RECHARON]

Baby Dolls and Buck’s Wild are very popular clubs in the DFW area. They’re mostly white establishments but they’re cool.

[@VannahhhBanana]

i really think she could be an influencer or you-tuber. She’s really pretty and relatable and down to earth.

[@moxita91]

Another happy person. Love it.💟

[@Theresa3267]

Happy?

[@moxita91]

@@Theresa3267 what'd I say 😄

[@aliciac7053]

She better be careful with that drinking. That alcoholism sneaks up on you.

[@brycecharles3856]

The moral and basis of 90% of these stories of broken people all have one thing in common... No dad...

[@barbaralawrence-rodriguez2981]

Very interesting and she was honest.

[@x7slim8x]

All of the fathers out there, stay in your little girl's life! They need you.... this gal is so jaded and looks to hate men.

[@sarahalderman3126]

Yes, those of us who’ve been abused and traumatized by evil will always see that evil in those who have it.

[@laureng6222]

Her dad wasn’t a good example lol

[@x7slim8x]

....product of a bad father and a scorned mother.

[@richstafford1245]

Very comical to see people drawing conclusions about someone from a 20 minute interview lol.

[@charlieharper8477]

Saying all men are like the men at strip clubs is like comparing all women to strippers.

[@xobabygirl1369]

They’re dogs in the club. They’re not even actual men at that point.

[@charlieharper8477]

@@xobabygirl1369 Not true.. I know guys who have wives, houses and jobs that are responsible and nice people that go to a strip club once a year for a birthday and spend money just having fun and treat the women with respect.. plenty of respectable guys at the strip clubs..plenty of respectable dancers too...get a clue

[@Chakra6Hakini]

She is so beautiful and chill, love her

[@ScrappyBoy626]

So basically every stripper on this channel doesn’t do the extras but every other girl in the strip club does😂

[@prisonisinourminds8070]

I don’t know what clubs u go to

[@willpowr416]

Exactly 😂

[@ChrisP3000x]

@@prisonisinourminds8070 He goes to the clubs EVERY stripper on this channel claims exists, genius.

[@zeroglitch13]

It’s ironic she says that when she does onlyfans as well

[@zeroglitch13]

@@DevilsDisciples same difference, she has done her OF content with customers before in the same vein as her stripper coworkers that “serviced” customers behind closed doors. I do feel she’s not being entirely honest unfortunately

[@carolineheffernan7368]

At 23 years old Sherry can change her life...if she wants to... not only lovely to look at but great personality. Sherry if you dont stop drinking your life will never improve. Save your money, buy a house, go to school, make some plans and follow through!! Audio book- Stop Drinking Now- Allen Carr- listen to it- it's so real. Your young and lovely- I pray you get out Sherry and find a life of peace, love and joy!!

[@deerheart87]

Cherry 🍒

[@carolineheffernan7368]

@@deerheart87 so sorry!!

[@cmthekilla]

ALL THESE COMMENTS AND NO ONE DROPPED THE IG OR OF?

[@JC111WPB]

I love how all these interviewees describe a “great” childhood. Someone needs to update Dr. Spock.

[@Grahamt978]

😮

[@user-ch9rz3ov9e]

Great interview; she came across as really genuine.

[@b.w.98]

I don't understand why so many beautiful women choose this type of job..

[@Scottieguru]

This interview carries a narrative "if you could do it all over again what would you change?" I see her as having a good head on her shoulders. She is very young. I think she said she is 23yrs old. She can easily finance a good education with her stripper/only fans work and start a business and a good life away from the clubbing sex work world.

[@dev_taco]

Every case seems to have the same trend they don’t realize the trauma they suffered maybe cause they have blocked it out or they think it’s “normal”.

[@chelseamiracle128]

Truth is most homes in America are toxic - they don’t teach their kids their worth, how to have boundaries, they argue in front of their children, abuse them. It’s an epidemic. The lack of self awareness of parents breeds generations of traumatized people. I had complex trauma and didn’t even know. I didn’t live in the ghetto. It was a gilded cage though. Perfectionist father, traumatized mother. She had been sexually abused by her own dad who was wealthy. It crosses through all spheres.

[@peace4598]

I really like her. I hope she stays safe and well.

[@whatyouseenow411]

To answer you, not all men are like your father. Some men want to be with only one woman and that one woman would be the only woman on the planet that could have him. He also would have no interest in anything that goes on in a strip/club but these type of men are the very men that get cheated on and looked down at. Its kind of a double edge sword so to speak.

[@martialartsguild6460]

OOO snap Cherry if you see this comment, and if you really do want to get into cosplay you would do really well. especially if you go back to Dallas funimation is located there and anime is huge in Texas. I was living in Houston last year it was crazy how big it was there, I absolutely loved it. I'll be moving back to Houston in a year thank goodness. I hope that you are able to do it. You should look into doing VO for anime too try to get on with an agency and see if they can get you some vo work with funimation.

[@mastluob2554]

Very honest interviewee

[@halesm]

Whoa, her Sukuna tattoo is crazy. She should definitely try cosplaying.

[@traci8746]

I was waiting for a response to that sakuna tattoo I love jujutsu kaisen!!!

[@statusdisarray9598]

She would be a stunning cosplayer. I wish her nothing but the best.

[@mikenormandy9250]

Was thinking the same thing. A BIG reason why!

[@Vbxii339]

She is a cosplayer

[@JustPlainAwful]

her ig?

[@vijayam1]

One word I can think of.. Amazing stories!

[@truuff]

6:55-- for those of u who keep thinking merely having a father keeps a girl from going the wrong way...absolutely false! Its not about the father staying cuz some fathers are bad...its about having the RIGHT authority figure and good structure from childhood...regardless of if its father, mother or guardian.

[@marsharowaihy6725]

Exactly!

[@lancerobinson9097]

They're just going off of statistics...Not having a father raises chance percentage of jail, prison, and contempt for authority. Having 1 lessens the percentage and is closer to having both parents. Statistically, single mother homes raise percentage of juvenile and "non contributing to society" individuals.

[@j.brianbobiak12]

@Smart One You bring a good point. In her years living with parents, it is as if she wanted someone to care about her enough to stop her.

[@itsmatt2105]

Statistically, far and away the safest place for a young person, female or male to be is with their biological father. Far safer than with just their biological mother. Sure, there are always exceptions but they are called EXCEPTIONS because they are not the rule.

[@MM-sq5pf]

It's true, my friend has 5 kids, raised in great environment. He has one kid that's not that bright, and doesn't like to hang out with people smarter than her (which means really stupid, bad judgement having idiots). Generally good kid though. Doesn't do drugs thankfully, so I don't think it has anything to do with the family, I think it has to do with intelligence, REAL intelligence

[@ccm8817]

I've got respect for her, she knows that XXX sells and is cashing in on it. Not mad at it at all. I think ppl are still so upright about sexuality when it should be enjoyed and explored.

[@jesseramirez9062]

Conservatives

[@stella-eh8xc]

i think everyone should be allowed to do whatever makes them happy however we cannot deny that over-sexualization hurts the psyche lol

[@ccm8817]

@@stella-eh8xc I agree with that 💯

[@yeetnama9094]

shut up 😒🙄

[@kristymatsen8262]

There is just something about you! You can be whatever you want girl! You will never know about the influencer life if you never try.

[@krischanlive]

No, f that. Get a proper job.

[@melaniejenkins2915]

Ahhhhh I worked at bucks wild too when I lived in Dallas! Weirdly enough - I miss it! It was a great experience. For me at least!

[@amygalvin1799]

I never understood why men in strip clubs think it’s ok to disrespect the workers and make negative comments about their bodies? 😠That must be hard to deal with daily.

[@tdkt160]

Follow-up question: "Are those real?"

[@msbae]

Yet another fine example of why it is so important to be a good father to your daughters...

[@jaredadams5748]

Maybe teach your sons not to be perverts?

[@Anonymous-9og]

Well, of course our personal experiences with the opposite gender usually forms our opinions of that gender. It doesn't make said opinion any less valid....it actually makes it much more valid....if everyone formed opinions through actual experiences.

[@Spencerlayne]

You can always see the pain in people's eyes in the black and white thumbnail pictures.

[@abear964]

Great advice!

[@pambeforethestorm9784]

She has such a happy sweet spirit! I hope she keeps it and stays safe out there...because there's a Lot of nuts and freaks in those places....not to mention the snake pimps. Take care girl, you can go so far in a slightly different career! 💖

[@tedijune6759]

Dear PamBeforeTheStorm; I’m just curious? What is a “snake pimp?” Cherry may have said?

[@kathymarie3723]

She really isn’t happy she said so.

[@pambeforethestorm9784]

@@tedijune6759 Oh I was calling all pimps a name, in which "snake" fits most of them to a tee lol 😆

[@JC111WPB]

Give her a few years and then see how “happy and sweet” her spirit is.

[@tamzenkarma]

To dance Is to create Women have danced for thousands of years.. There is power in our dance. That was abused. We can take that power back. The sensuality, the beauty and the seductiveness of the dancer, is not given way enough credit.... What a work out. Thank you beautiful ladies. We appreciate you

[@denisla3546]

Lol I would never give u a pany for dancing even if u were send from god himself . Get a grip

[@tamzenkarma]

@@denisla3546 lol

[@Skumpakrig1984]

You are fun and a very beautiful person. I wish you all the best!

[@shroombunny510]

girl you could totally cosplay you would look so cute😭

[@christinahighsmith4453]

Such a sweet girl. Wish her the best!

[@yourmomscomment]

She bad Asl gimme sum head aooo

[@garibaldi54]

I think these girls don't realize that you get old pretty quickly.

[@sarahalderman3126]

That’s true for both sex’s, young people don’t realize they will get time catches every one.

[@jhozthron4415]

So what you are saying is better make that money quick before age starts to set in, seems like solid reasoning.

[@cjh4427]

Their P gets really old real quick. 🍑 😅😂🤣

[@garibaldi54]

@@sarahalderman3126 But dudes aren't making a career off of their bodies.

[@pambeforethestorm9784]

@@jhozthron4415 I spit out my coffee ☕️ laughing at your comment, but you're right, so what can I say? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@peacelily64]

Great interview I’m sure she will move on someday and do well.. hopefully she banks the money 🙂✌🏻

[@anthonynunez9173]

Did he call her Candy at the end? 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@Nicholas-HTX]

Cherry.. Candy.. they're both stripper names.

[@loiscassels8966]

She says she doesn’t do extras. What does she do in the VIP rooms?

[@slumdutchess]

you know that people arent supposed to do sexual favours in the vip rooms.. right?

[@prettykitty5416]

VIP rooms are for private dances and partying. 🙄 are you dumb? If a guy want a dance and to speak with you he has to buy a vip room.

[@loiscassels8966]

@@prettykitty5416 Exactly. Do you not recognize sarcasm?

[@stevend481]

Its just a private dance

[@baublesanddolls]

Her tatoo doesn't seem to match her. 🤷‍♀️ I find it interesting that she said she doesn't do extras, yet talks about it at 9:00 and 12:00.

[@prettykitty5416]

She said lap dances and vip rooms….those are not extras. Those are dances…..

[@drinkciroc6350]

I enjoyed this for 2 big reasons: she had an incredible journey through life.

[@JenFromCa84]

Man, she’s still soo young.

[@staciewhite6442]

It’s interesting that she doesn’t view alcohol as a drug.

[@helenaneumann1872]

Alcohol and weed are not drugs on this channel. :( People are celebrated here, who supposedly make a lot of money, especially when it comes to sex-related money. Whether female or male whore, drug addicts, drug dealers, pimps, etc., the main thing is that they look reasonably attractive. Anyone who sells well is ennobled here as a sex worker, others are just prostitutes.🤑😉

[@Lisa7gee]

Worst drug because it is legal

[@rockzannYO]

She would be an amazing cosplayer! Hope she gives’ it a shot and get the recognition she deserves

[@Hintedbymarina]

yesss she has that "look" very beautiful girl!

[@naomib.778]

Is the tattoo on her left arm from JJK?

[@a.wanderer5006]

That's not a job, except on the sidewalks of Hollywood and Vegas.

[@Weissguys6]

She’s a stripper. Isn’t that Cosplay at heart? Think about it.

[@newporttaylor2702]

@@a.wanderer5006 yes it is? Top onlyfans cosplay girls make millions of dollars

[@taddricketts6282]

Nice to see A lot of Females in the comment section, I liked what she said about "Concent"

[@Marzoband]

Is it just me or does he call her Candy at the end of the interview? He’s doing so many of these he can’t even keep their names straight.