Stripper interview-Anxiety

Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Anxiety, a stripper from St. Louis, Missouri.
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[@cee1970]

I find it fascinating how she basically said she feels like she had a normal childhood but it was clearly chaotic. I think that goes to show you that becomes people’s norm. Chaos. They keep operating in that space because they don’t know how to live life any other way. Prayers for that young lady. She obviously has a lot on her shoulders that she shouldn’t.

[@nhdad3439]

No, this is classic. Almost EVERYONE says they had a good childhood. When you break the "childhood" down into experiences in always sounds different.

[@MavidG]

@@nhdad3439 Yeah a lot of them say that too.

[@willis7218]

@@nhdad3439 Well stated! Some of the people interviewed in this channel have never gotten the opportunity to actually process or say out loud, what their experiences were/are.

[@paulacook5157]

Wow what a great statement! It is a very sad lifestyle!

[@pamelanadel3787]

Thank you CEE. A simple comment but very impactful.

[@sherrilynnnelson703]

Being dependent on my granddaughter's stripper money is a completely depressing thought

[@JC111WPB]

Lol true that

[@nhlibra]

Hahahaaa. Good point.

[@carlmorgan8452]

Yeah money can be depressing 🤣🤣🤣🤣🧟‍♂️

[@nhdad3439]

You're not a dude

[@staciemorelli384]

@Sherrilynn Nelson your comment is smart on can the people dependent on this young lady GET JOBS TF 😗 that makes no sense man apply for SS benefits or something so you don’t have to depend on this young lady

[@ronb8052]

A "normal" childhood is NOT "your mother picking you up at night and taking you to another state."

[@mygirlwendy1850]

She was so adamant about not using drugs, then states "I'm a heavy drinker, socially & when I'm bored & I don't know what I would do without weed." The inability to live without a substance is an addiction, just b/c you don't go through the physical withdrawal doesn't mean you're not an addict. The dt's from alcohol are no joke & cirrhosis of the liver is a horrific disease.

[@123123snickers]

You’re right!

[@holagataeang]

You literally took the words right out of my mouth! I was scrolling just to see if anyone else had the same thoughts about her acting so proud when talking about never using, yet she's clearly already addicted to the worst substance possible, alcohol. She won't be feeling so great when she starts going through DTs for the first time because she doesn't have a drink around to make it all better. She should really research addiction as a whole though. I think she might be a bit biased and possibly misinformed, so I think it could only help.

[@brah04X]

What you say is correct, but this was likely simply her considering what heavy drugs her brother is into as the "real" drugs. I'm sure she knows that drinking a lot is bad and that having to have weed equals an addiction.

[@mokrodog]

I think those are still better alternatives then compared to coke, crack, or heroin. That’s probably how she copes with her lifestyle.

[@Ch-vl8bg]

@@mokrodog how do you figure? Alcohol is horrible on the endocrine system. Causes liver and pancreatic diseases. Dehydrates the entire body. She drinks daily. Coke once was legal and has known health benefits. Just like some strains of weed. True herion was used medically as well. You can abuse anything and cause harm to yourself. Gluttony can kill you. Within foods think about salt. Salt is legal. It causes so much damage when used wrong. Just a example. Tobacco alcohol and weed just are more excepted around the world. We would of legalized coke and kept it legal if the the rich could get richer here like they do on alcohol and tobacco.

[@millennialstray4215]

"I got everything I wanted in childhood, I had a normal childhood" and then she says what she says :(

[@joancarrino890]

It seems to happen every time he interviews someone they say normal childhood but they have no idea what that means

[@rudimunk7030]

The most chocking thing in this whole interview is that she payed 4200$ a month for a 1-room apartment. Absolute insanity.

[@jlj777]

She lieing!

[@brijmsn]

If shes constantly dancing in the club she probably didnt have much time to enjoy that beachside apartment. That's what I don't get about workaholics....they can afford to have all these nice things but don't have the TIME to enjoy them.

[@issacindigopodcast]

@@brijmsn life is about creating sytems and have others work for you if not its just a hstle

[@przytulanka1979]

@@jlj777 Did you mean: lying!

[@openmike4559]

@@jlj777currently a 1 bedroom apartment in Stockton California runs for above 1700-2200+

[@brunolima7402]

I've seen some weird names but "anxiety" is a new kind of weird. Thanks for the video.

[@ow3wells]

It’s probably a name she made-up.

[@qwertyboo]

@@ow3wells Of course, strippers have fake names

[@wesleyalan9179]

@@ow3wells Ya think?🤔

[@sleeplate3584]

@@qwertyboo Strippers would tell me their names and I'd be: "Nice. Now what's your real name?"

[@ItsFreshItsAnne]

Dang....Anxiety? Talk about a word to describe walking on these dangerous streets like that. Man, my heart really feels deeply for those who find themselves in these places...It's always from a childhood that needs to be recovered from...Always...

[@jen-ms4xo]

Not always but most times there are that very small percentage of female strippers that got into that line of work for many other reasons some started stripping juss behind the lure of easy big $ other's got into for their view of performing 🎭 arts I could name many more because I to once upon a very long time ago aspired to become a stripper at thee 1 and only establishment that was open to the public opened I believe mid 80's I would've been around 11 or so think I was about to promote to the 6th grade and this stripper club was called Deja Vu and I'm not sure if it's still open and running under the same name but through the decades that have passed it's been renovated many times added onto and even demolished and built back up again but only bigger and grandeur let me tell you it blew my hair back when it was in the 90's and I had juss got paroled from C.I.W and my a week later I was going to visit my grandma & grandpa that lived within walking distance of the Deja Vu as we were driving up the main highway I started to feel that we must've turned on the wrong street somewhere because for about a good half of a mile what once was very dense and blended landscape and property juss a year ago was now full of 2 story buildings with bright signs and lights to my left and right and as we hit the stop light right on the left hand corner stood this huge bright pink had to be 3 stories high building that resembled a mansion and to left of it on the side of 1 of the entrances on the driveway was another bright pink building that was a long duplex type of thing with about 10 or more doors on it which I later learned was their motel for patrons and employees alike 😀 so anyhow I think I got carried away with myself going down memory lane I juss envisioned the whole property of Deja Vu all over again and totally forgot what was my point oh yeah when I wad a lil girl before drugs became a part of my life and I loved going to school I wanted to go enter the amateur night stripping contest 1st runner up won $500 so yeah I dreamed about doing that once I turned 15 I thought in my lil brain back then that at 15 I would have fully developed breasts and a patch of fiery bright red hair between my legs and with those attributes pink nipples to boot that I would surely win 1st prize and that they would hire me on the spot and I would become a millionaire before I turned 18 and all my family and friends everybody from my small town would be in awe of me and treat me like a movie star thow gifts at me everyday that they seen me well there you go that's my story as you probably gathered from what I shared none of that came to fruition but I still think about what if only what would my life be like would it be better but those days are over I'm almost 50 now and my body has changed gravity has taken effect in certain private areas and I've gained a lil weight I really juss go up and down with my weight since I'm older now started happening right after I turned 47 and for some reason once I lose weight I have a hard time staying at my ideal weight but good thing for me is that I'm comfortable in my own skin and I'm not living for everyone else's opinions of my body or the way they think I should look or weigh you know what I mean well I better end this here I've said far to much but then I said eff it why not I've already shared this much why stop there so there you go there I hope you enjoyed my short story or it at least gave you a lil chuckle and made you think about your days of the past of wants and dreams that never came to fruition God bless you Dear and Merry Christmas 🤶 🎄 to you and your family 👪 😀 😊 ❤️ 💙 😄I

[@ines4588]

Our American world is built off p3dophilia…

[@SuzanneDeniseB]

True story. Childhood trauma will mess you up 💙

[@offerskirksey2255]

Walking the streets? Did you listen to the interview or are you just assuming she’s a street walking prostitute??

[@bensmiley7042]

@@SuzanneDeniseB it will actually make you act the very age the trauma happened at, and that's actually a scientific fact, you can see the age on people's faces, someone can be 40 but if they had a traumatic experience that ruined alot of their life, when they have a breakdown they will mostly act the age they were when they stopped developing properly (so when they were traumatized)

[@yaretzicontreras99]

Congratulations on 4 million subscribers!!!! Thank you for the work you do and taking time to interview people and giving them a voice to share their stories. These videos have helped me understand people more, good luck in all you do

[@KSCummins6.7L]

Exactly, this channel is exactly what this world needs to be seeing, the mental struggles of those so many look down and to showcase that there's people everyone wants to turn a blind eye to people just like they are. Everyone's story is unique but in the end, these people are who the world needs to be working hard to help not the oil companies and chain stores etc!!!!

[@nicolebabi1314]

Omg on the thumbnail I thought, she’s Kylie Jenner if she never got surgery cute and seems like a sweet girl. OAN note, KUDOS to her for sharing!

[@yaretzicontreras99]

@@nicolebabi1314 same!!! I thought it was her for a split second 😅

[@hipsonsogbo]

drugs is such a broad term, dunno why she kept saying she stays away from drugs but i smoke weed and drink alcohol a lot, they are both drugs. Alcohol is one of the worst drugs, weed and Psychedelics are the good ones

[@carolinecouture36]

Weed and psychedelics are plant medicine.

[@cupofserenity7692]

Y’all forget both weed and alcohol could cause depersonalization derealization

[@cupofserenity7692]

Depending on the person, that’s why it’s good being charismatic without the need of both

[@jaggirl]

Funny how she doesn't view alcohol and her too much consumption of it, isn't really a problem. 😮 I guess cause its legal its not on her radar of addictions.

[@judylane8901]

Been watching this for 5 minutes….she continues to say that her childhood “was normal” etc etc. over& over…iThere is nothing normal about what she is describing….my heart goes out to her. She really doesn’t know what is normal. I pray that this beautiful girl can find peace in her life. It is so very sad. She is doing the best she knows how. 😘🙏

[@jackinthebox6143]

People say she's strong and straightforward but they just see and believe the 'persona'. A woman with tattoos on her neck and face is telling another story. And it isn't self respect.

[@The-Autistocrat-]

There's a factory somewhere pumping out millions of copies of this lady. Right down to the "There's nobody else like me, I'm unique, everyone says I'm different" stuff

[@meco4068]

Are you speaking from experience? Are you a first-edition factory gal? 😆

[@The-Autistocrat-]

@meco4068 i was the quality inspector, they dropped my department after i left

[@icummins1806]

@@The-Autistocrat- i have noticed the tattoos have been a little off lately

[@sarahvandenbos3784]

Yeah they have a male and female section. Society sux

[@The-Autistocrat-]

@sarahvandenbos3784 oh yeah i dont doubt that one, i see all the stuff i'm passing over in the men's clothing sections haha

[@princesjasmyn]

The money to be made at a strip club is crazy. I was a door girl, just collecting the admission fee, and I’ve had people give me $250 just to talk to me for 15 minutes. It was such a fun moments in time. Ironically I worked there while I was going to nursing school

[@plicany_exotic6861]

Idk why, but I swear it seems like she’s not being honest…she’s more than likely done some of the things she says she doesn’t. There’s also a lot of contradictions in her story. I would imagine that it serves as a shield to lie to herself about the reality of the things that she’s done. No judgement about whatever she may have done in the past, but you gotta be real with yourself to have any kind of growth in life. I hope she finds the courage to be honest with herself….

[@tomwells8093]

She seems very egocentric. Everything is about her doing well, how big she is. She brings across arrogance not confidence. Lots of things seem like contradictions, where its very likely she's lying about many things. She doesn't seem genuine in the way she speaks

[@AshleyExtremeCouponer]

Makes me miss my granny so much She was the ONE who never judged people. She was always supportive

[@Joe-gw9wh]

She sounds like an awesome woman I’m sorry for your loss

[@lisamariealaniz7538]

Mine too I miss my wela's on both sides my mom side and my dad side they are both in heaven I miss them holidays is not the same without them or life Is not the same without them.

[@michaelblody3053]

Was she a prostitute as well ?

[@AshleyExtremeCouponer]

My granny was so old school. She never drank or did drugs her whole life. She was with the same men her whole life. They were so much in love they died 3 days apart from each other. Their deaths had nothing to do with the others. You people who made terrible comments about my Granny should be ashamed of yourselves. If she was a stripper or in prostitution I would say so. It’s not my place to judge anyone. I don’t personally believe in doing prostitution or stripping but it’s been a part of the world forever. Almost all of the women who work in these fields are victims of some kind of abuse. Also if they did not have men paying them for their services they would not be on the street

[@AshleyExtremeCouponer]

@@Joe-gw9wh She was. Thank you

[@archieg8009]

"I don't do drugs... I smoke weed and I'm a heavy drinker."

[@SA-ho1mu]

Please interview a McDonald's employee next. All these strippers have the same damn story

[@JC111WPB]

Agree

[@melissab8871]

Yes!

[@lil_debbie]

I'm interested!

[@nostalgic-one]

Right! Or an elderly person working a minimum wage job. I always wonder what happened, what's the story behind? It's sad because some of them should be enjoying their retirement years and you see them still working alongside college kids for minimum wage. Life can take many twists and turns and you have to do what you have to do to survive.

[@noodlemaker4719]

Agree. Strippers, trans, prostitutes , pimps, druggies-- it's the same old same old.

[@kingj521]

Last thing I want in my lap is Anxiety. Already got enough of that ish.

[@hanginwithhunter3395]

Hahaha 😂

[@5150Rockstar]

She got more red flags than a Chinese military parade🙂

[@roxanateodora8874]

Fr

[@alliA09]

My favorite thing to do with Marks videos is zoom. I love that that’s an option in KZbin. Zooming onto their face and just listening to the fascinating lives of these people.

[@audriusbaranauskas6227]

Got a brand new car. Got hit. Lost the car. Something doesn't add up.

[@joancarrino890]

She's obviously a liar who wouldn't know the truth if it hit her in the face

[@TinkerTech]

Here's a life lesson for everybody. Confidence is good and it's very important. Just don't let confidence turn into arrogance.

[@wesleyalan9179]

Correct...it's very foolish to let that happen

[@TinkerTech]

@@wesleyalan9179 The guest in this interview is apparently to young to understand what she sounds like. But if someone showed her a transcript HOPEFULLY she would reevaluate herself. "At first I intimidate you. But after talking to me, you realize I'm intelligent and can have a conversation." Intelligence is a matter of perspective. And whenever I hear somebody say they are intelligent, I generally think the opposite.

[@vacheriedevacherie1959]

@@TinkerTechshe’s not dumb, but she still let a man abuse her financially her ex left her broke…that’s not smart, she should know how some men are.

[@wesleyalan9179]

@@TinkerTech Right👍 An intelligent person knows not to say they're intelligent...an Intelligent person knows that. An intelligent person can prove it without knowingly doing so.

[@knado8135]

The fact that this girl can be so arrogant, looking like a Bratz doll that somebody got pregnant and drew on their face...makes me think I can be a model. I've never seen someone lie so much in a short amount of time. "I've never done anything extra, I've never had to!" All the while, she has cum on her hands from giving $10 hand jobs at the alleyway strip club 30 min before this interview.

[@joshpointoh]

Doesn't matter how blatantly obvious a person can be lying on here, and how much their story doesn't add up, how many conflicting stories they tell, there will ALWAYS be tons of people in the comments saying the exact same thing: "Wow, she's so honest!" "I can't believe how inspiring this person is!"

[@mark3p]

Don't forget, everyone is so beautiful and smart.

[@m.a.p.transformation1938]

😂😂😂

[@b-Image]

Yea she is holding back 🤦‍♀️. I thought the point was to open up and be a lil more self reflective. She kind of treated it like an intro of her story. It’s cool. Great work Mark but you can tell she is holding back some.

[@christy2391]

when did speaking truth, disagreement, and common sense become intolerable?

[@mark3p]

@@christy2391 when it's convenient to do so.

[@BeautyBMine]

I find it interesting how many people interviewed say they had normal childhoods and then you hear how normal it really wasn’t. I wonder if it’s perception or a coping mechanism

[@sophia-marieyoung6773]

Both. If it's all you've known, it seems normal to you. Additionally, as a child, you cannot comprehend that your caretakers are deficient. As a child, your caretakers are God - they hold your survival in their hands. To admit that they are lacking would be to admit that you might die. That's so frightening and painful, that children turn the trauma inwards and become responsible for whatever is going on. They blame themselves if they're abused or if their parents divorce or fight. It's not until much later, when you are no longer responsible for your survival that you can accept that they were, in fact, often quite deficient. It's challenging to come to terms with, even as an adult.

[@bbfrancis23]

So much complete dulsionment. Overgratification leads to a short life because there is no where to go but down. It leads to complete depression because after your stripper life is over nothing will satisfy you.

[@VAL702]

Dulsionment is not a word

[@cara3673]

​@@VAL702 I think he meant disillusionment

[@brijmsn]

The fact that being a stripper is "overgratification" for people like her is truly sad.

[@lj9524]

I enjoyed this interview. She certainly has lived a variety of experiences in her chosen profession. I pray she stays safe and healthy. It is a hard life in so many ways…God bless you and give you freedom from whatever causes you anxiety. Thank you for sharing your life❤️🙏

[@yt_hatescrime_data4301]

But r u really praying for her? 🤔

[@giovannicarosa8819]

I’ve been in business for 10 years. You’ll never be your own boss. Your clients are your boss, and trust me they’re gonna care what you look like.

[@BeautyQueenFL]

💯 you work for your clients, around their schedule & whatever it takes to accommodate them. As a female entrepreneur & multiple business owner, it’s somewhat easier than a man because you develop long-term friendships outside of business with other women (your clients).

[@BeautyQueenFL]

Let me add, business + psychology = key to success. So drop the name, “Anxiety,” get tattoo removal, and market yourself accordingly.

[@nhlibra]

@@BeautyQueenFL Good grief. Men develop friendships the same way. Your statement had an obnoxious, feminist twist.

[@giovannicarosa8819]

@@BeautyQueenFL I don’t know about it being easier for a woman vs man or not? I think it’s just human nature to be honest. I’ve definitely built life long friendships with clients and some more casual friendships. Been invited over for dinner at their homes, heck I’ve even been invited for family game night..lol…most all of my clients are women.

[@nhlibra]

@@giovannicarosa8819 My son, same thing. He spends time with grad school friends, but a few clients from his past too. This is definitely NOT a specific gender thing.

[@lyndzsea8213]

Soooo many contradictions in this interview. I don't even think she's aware of that.

[@janisg7409]

I thought she said she still lived with Granny. Taking care of her whole family. She thinks she’s so cool. I can’t feel any empathy.

[@jonhammer7953]

There are a lot of odd inconsistencies in this interview and I'm not even halfway through. Her childhood was "normal, she got everything she wanted," but her mom would move her family in the middle of the night and she didn't know her father/her grandmother was her caretaker but was an alcoholic; she says she's danced in every state and traveled a ton, but after working in her first club, moved to CA with almost no money and has worked in one club the whole time; drugs are not a part of her life but she "can't calm down without weed" and is a "heavy drinker." I'm not saying she's intentionally lying or is disingenuous, but as a viewer it's difficult to follow what she's trying to portray; it's like she gives off her thought of what's going on with the direct answer to the question and then when she explains it it's a ball of trauma that she either hasn't processed or has actively chosen to deny. She portrays confidence, definitely, but that doesn't really mean anything to me in light of everything else I said. It's a tough read.

[@kennedyfknalexa]

I agree. I was confused the whole video.

[@PenguinsGalore55d1]

I mean there are people who don’t see weed and alcohol as hard drugs. Her brother is probably doing harder drugs so she sees her habits as tame.

[@jonhammer7953]

@@PenguinsGalore55d1 the question was "drugs" not "hard drugs." I agree with you that alcohol and weed may seem small in comparison to narcotics abuse, but she didn't say "I have a glass of red wine at dinner" here you know? It's moreso the way that she's answering questions and then explaining them that throws me for a loop, because they don't line up. What you wrote actually supports what my point is -- we both have very different interpretations of what should be a straightforward answer

[@ivaloowilson3524]

You need to be a therapist. I say that because you're comment was spot on. ✨

[@jonhammer7953]

@@ivaloowilson3524 thank you! Psychology is a passion of mine and I ultimately decided against going into therapy as a career but I'm grateful you saw my ability to catch these types of things. I try to help where I can when people come to me :)

[@esrealwilleatit8574]

I used to know a lot of strippers. Never once have I ran across one who makes $5,000 per night…

[@lyla5961]

Not realistic 1-2K varying at the most and that’s for a drop dead gorgeous dancer.

[@esrealwilleatit8574]

@@lyla5961 for sure! I know some that made $800-$1000 consistently but still not every night

[@BeeKay4444]

Definitely

[@scarfo]

That's probably her high score.

[@brijmsn]

How else could she afford multiple schools with no loans, $4200 a month rent, savings, and supporting her family back home?

[@MrChristianbowman82]

Congrats mark on 4 million, you deserve at least 10 and I hope to see it happen!

[@rachelc6442]

I’m from Houston. I loved the lifestyle. I stopped after I had my daughter. But I can definitely relate to her. I been there. I hope she gets everything she wants as far as her life goals. Keep it pushing don’t give up. And use that money for investment in yourself.

[@jthedon420]

Any way a man can get some street money like that lmfao . Above average looks and tall lmk😂😂

[@stirgy4312]

"drugs are not a part of my life. But, i smoke weed and am a heavy drinker" 🤔

[@sugafoot60]

Uh oh the blackcent came out when she thought she was special lol😅😊😊😊

[@V1124az]

I’m still stuck on how someone who can make $200-$5,000 a NIGHT could not even afford Auto Insurance on their Brand New Car so that when the drunk driver hit her car it couldn’t be totaled & paid for. 🤔🤔🙄🤷‍♀️

[@nessal4078]

Because it's lies

[@melissab8871]

Because, she-and others on this channel-lie..

[@nhlibra]

Priorities.

[@knado8135]

The same type of chick with tattoos on her face that claims she doesn't trick. She is wayyyyy past her prime too, has zero value.

[@maryjackson2308]

I work nights and watch your interviews. I find them fascinating. I don't necessarily believe everything these folks say but it's definitely a different set of perspectives.

[@DeadMemories5354]

Have you considered quitting?

[@maryjackson2308]

@@DeadMemories5354 No.

[@DeadMemories5354]

@@maryjackson2308 Why I don't mean this in a bad way, but are you happy doing it? Considering the various risk factors that go into the field.

[@onejacket4603]

Are you getting paid to be on your phone

[@maryjackson2308]

@@onejacket4603 Yes.

[@FrenchTwist]

My absent mom was an egomaniac, bipolar and violent psychotic She desperately needed the adoration of an audience and continued to strip in low end bars into her late 50s. With her huge ego she never realized that she was a joke and embarrassment. So sad for a once beautiful woman.

[@maryault8928]

Non related but when will you be doing an update on the Whittakers? I love your channel and they are honestly my favorite ❤

[@elainebines6803]

There has been one but maybe due another?

[@sandife4nandes365]

IMO, Anxiety is straight forward. Great interview. Thank you Mark and Anxiety!

[@m.a.p.transformation1938]

Don't ever give your money away to anyone unless it's charity.

[@JohnRCWilson]

You know Charity too? Isn’t she a lovely girl?

[@Dell7788]

She 26 and look 32. By the time she 30. She will look 40 . And all this money she makes, she lose house and no car. 99% of these women will be broke

[@ricsosa7107]

26 yrs old ...more like 36 yrs old

[@melissamartinez3593]

lmao

[@danielmendi77]

*46

[@ThePetersmith77]

66

[@robm8067]

A hard life which puts you in the position of sending stripper money back home to your family will probably make you grow up really fast! I think entertainment life in general ages you emotionally and physically.

[@suavomcbravo679]

Right on

[@kristinamelone2466]

So many strippers said during these interviews:“ everyone does prostitution in ViP rooms and if they say they do’t they are lying” and then you get strippers who keep repeating : “ not me, I know others do but I NeVErrrrr 😵‍💫”. Do they watch these interviews or do they think they are the first ones on it and nobody knows? When you listen to their story its so obvious to see the lies : “oh yes I make thousands of dollars a night but yet I am broke and lost my apartment and my car and my man took all of it …” 🙄 Lately all these interviews seems like bs to me. I don’t understand how Mark can stand it anymore after doing this for so many years now. i mean he sees right through them, I can hear it in his voice way more now than before.

[@nattywho]

Don’t believe that all the men coming in there have a wife at home nagging and yelling at them! You did say most of them want to take you home…Anxiety my dear…most men just want to have their cake and eat it too…they just want what they want and sob stories are usually bullshit! And, these men complaining about home…ask yourself what they are doing or not doing to make things better at home! They aren’t…their at the strip club! Anywho, I wish you the best of luck!

[@back2basic390]

"I stay away from drugs" Proceeds to say she smokes and a heavy drinker.

[@breadnButter.]

I absolutely love this interview. BUT I'm still stuck on the 4200 for a one bed room! Sis you should not have been spending 4200 on rent for a one bedroom definitely could have been saving more money on something cheaper. I love her personality though honestly.

[@baddiea]

So you’re making 5 thousand a night and have worked 9 years and sometimes still so broke you don’t have anything in your account and you managed to lose your house too? What?

[@nessal4078]

Lies..

[@jodykurt9935]

It's called pimps

[@phyllysanantonio]

@@jodykurt9935 well, it’s not your money. So, technically, she did not make that much money for herself. The only truth is she “might” be big in Houston. It’s really bad there.

[@sleeplate3584]

@@jodykurt9935 Strippers don't have pimps.

[@jodykurt9935]

@@sleeplate3584 my guy..... You really buying all thus hoes BS? 😂 Come on now

[@CodyTravers_]

WAIT HOLD UP, drinks are cheaper in strip clubs???

[@32raweggs22]

She doesn’t even strip anymore lol. She does onlyfans & doesn’t make much off that. She’s staying with some dude for his money.

[@HookahAnonymous]

She's actually pretty and you can tell she's smart. .. May have just took a wrong turn but nobody's perfect.

[@Voldamares]

Best of luck. Just try to keep sober. I have several Ex-Stripper friends all who are doing really well so, once you're done doing what you're doing, don't be afraid of what comes next. You got this.

[@BelleTolles]

I'd say stay sober and maybe work in counseling some on learning to love yourself in a way that doesn't allow everyone else to drain you dry - be it boyfriends or family

[@joshpointoh]

It would be interesting to hear an honest version of her story would be.

[@k_roc200-32]

Interesting that she finds the strip club and clients so wonderful and harmless. All others that come on say the opposite

[@nicolesawyer7117]

She said she was drugged twice and someone threw her against the wall. I don’t think that’s harmless lol

[@lil_debbie]

seems she's used to being around people like that, like she's desensitized?

[@k_roc200-32]

I'm sure she is desensitized. Most other women interviewed don't speak highly of the life

[@saphire9823]

She started at age 17 so she was a child and I wonder if that has something to do with it. It's just been her norm

[@MylifeMystory323]

Great interview as usual!!

[@virgo51210]

Out of all of the stripper interviews that Mark does, I don’t recall a single one of them admitting that they actually do have sex in the back rooms.

[@andreasaylor6831]

Right 🤔 like they $$$thousands every night by singles being thrown at them!!! Come on now 🙄

[@onecutelittlebug]

Well I don’t! But South Dakota is a lot different then the coasts. Also we do $2 😂

[@kali-rayskinner1612]

They’re covering their asses which they have to because it is an every man for themselves mentality you have to have to get by in in the industry

[@janetelizabethherman9867]

@@andreasaylor6831 one of my best friends is a stripper and she made $11,000 from dancing for one customer for 6 hours. Lots of girls just know how to sell and many clubs will immediately fire you for anything besides a kiss on the cheek.

[@crimsonrose]

@@moomoocowsly Because humans lie. FIFY. Protecting egos is not exclusive to strippers.

[@amandawoods4051]

Just can't stop thinking this is 99% PR hype

[@32raweggs22]

It is. Harley is a huge attention whore. Known her for years.

[@sebestyenszaby]

"I've never done anything like extras" - "I don't like doing vip rooms a lot..." :)))

[@Random-ro7nt]

On another note- vip rooms Pay you the most. So why would she not want to get vips? Not all men who get vips expect sex 🙄

[@sebestyenszaby]

@@Random-ro7nt If in the end of the day she walk home with thousands of dollars be sure she does the VIP rooms otherwise she would walk home with pennies. All girls are doing the VIP rooms, all the big money is coming from there but they would not admit that ever, and somebody at her level be sure is doing the VIP rooms.

[@Ch-vl8bg]

Thinks she doesn't use drugs....states she drinks heavy and cant relax without weed. That's drugs. Legal drugs. You are just like your brother. Not the opposite.

[@gloriaculberson3568]

Anxiety don't realize alcohol and Marijuana are drugs.

[@wesleyalan9179]

I understood it as...those aren't hard drugs like meth,coke,& haroin. I believe thats what she meant by that..a matter of fact, I'm sure thats how she meant it. It amazes me that some people don't understand it that way.

[@gloriaculberson3568]

@@wesleyalan9179 alcohol aren't any better than the next drugs, don't minimized it for the others., they are all bad

[@taylorlibby7642]

I work with a guy who has "DON'T PANIC!!" tattooed backwards across his cheeks so that he can read it when he looks in a mirror.

[@wesleyalan9179]

Lol, that's so stupid,pfttt!🤭

[@KJ-tz7vc]

He's the living embodiment of the Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy.

[@taylorlibby7642]

@@wesleyalan9179 Maybe not so much. He's a fairly calm guy normally. Whatever helps.

[@Skylarfournier]

Mark, congratulations on 4 million subscribers!!!! 👏 ❤️

[@Currency999]

She’s put me on edge I deffo wouldn’t pay her to see more of her

[@parallaxview2143]

Sad to think she had a normal childhood. Depressing actually to think how badly she was failed by her family.

[@Currency999]

Haha she tried tinder for one month and it was horrible but she got asked out on a date and invited him to a strip club and I’m guessing she was working aswell lmao

[@perry74mac]

hoes be hoeing

[@deannapowell7237]

I think this girl has a very good head on her shoulders. She has confidence and it doesn't seem fake. I also work in the real estate industry and she's going to do just fine. There are LOTS of agents in the industry with tattoos and so forth, all different backgrounds. She could become an agent AS WELL as an investor and she'd get all the business from her circle of influence.....she'd kill it.

[@PNWCagey-Dub]

I was thinking the same thing. She appears to have the skills to deal with people in a way that if she chose to go straight and go into sales (real estate, insurance, financing, etc) she’d do very well. And, she’d have the advantage of an “in” with a crowd of people who need someone who gets what they do and understands the lifestyle to help them make the most of their finances. There’s an untapped niche there and she could fill that very well.

[@JC111WPB]

I don’t think she’ll be doing this for another ten years.

[@paquifrancoramirez6104]

Me gusta tu contenido,soy española y agradezco los subtítulos en español, gracias.

[@sethmarchese397]

She does not seem educated, and is mediocre with her words at best. 28:03

[@nhdad3439]

She is clear, concise and smart. I wish the best for her future

[@gutterisatool4489]

She said she's doing this to save money but sometimes she only has $100 in her bank account that means you're not saving money. Acquiring large sums of money in a short amount of time is not the same as saving money if you go out and spend all of it. You poor girl you have no idea how naive you still are. You should not be financially responsible for your family because that will just suck you dry and it will create a lot of resentment on your side if you really want to help your family help them become financially stable or help them get into programs that financially benefit them like possibly social security, housing welfare making the money you said you're making and if you think you're saving you should have 20 30 $40,000 in the bank that you don't have to even touch. If your brother keeps on getting locked up for drug offenses from being a drug addict don't bail him out leave him in jail you're only enabling him. I know this from experience. If you're making as much money as you say you are you should never ever only have $100 in the bank. Never tell your friends or family that you make a whole lot of money because they will always then come to you for that money you seem like a good person I I hope you you learn how to take care of yourself before anybody

[@jodykurt9935]

💯

[@El1ipsismm2]

She's pretty but I wouldn't say she is unique looking. The problem with stripping is the party lifestyle. Heavy drinking and drugs will always takeover and win! If you could keep your nose clean but that's far and few between

[@louisgarafolo3846]

Girl names 5 states and claims she's been everywhere lol.... yikes. Small mind, big world.

[@Tbaby_]

Drinking when you’re bored is a sign on it own you have a problem with drinking

[@rachelrose9369]

Normal childhood???? She’s nuts if she thinks that is normal

[@wesleyalan9179]

I know it's sad to say, but that IS the norm for a lot of folks. But yeah, I understand what you're saying

[@izzyram31490]

That's her Normal not YOUR normal... To some people where they live and what they go through in life might Not be normal to the average person but to us that been raised in poverty and violence IT IS NORMAL...

[@wesleyalan9179]

@@izzyram31490 Right! Thank you!

[@crimsonrose]

It's a common thing. I was abused as a child and didn't realize it wasn't normal until I went to therapy. Had you asked me that question 10 years ago, I would have answered similarly. I finally met people who hadn't been screamed at constantly and thought wow, I didn't know it was even possible to hold normal, not emotional conversations with your parents. It's all you know and your parents brainwash you into thinking it's normal. It's not "crazy" it's a predictable outcome of abusing a child.

[@1428monsterdrink]

Chaos becomes normal

[@theprofessionalgambler21]

VIP room is not $1,000 😂. In Miami it’s $300

[@vampiregirlie]

She has a law degree and did cosmetology school twice?

[@entertainme7523]

Anybody can get those degrees

[@MrSeattleguy3098]

So interesting comparing the older (mature) women strippers with the younger ones. Totally more believable numbers and experiences. The young ones always tell a story of I never do prostitution. The older ones say everyone there does it and if you don't you won't get put on the schedule. I appreciate the honesty of side by side comparisons

[@JV_214]

What is she gonna do 5 years from now after her youth is gone? She's so proud to have danced in multiple states, not seeing that she's considered an object that's replaced by the next younger one.

[@DS-mh5hb]

I never got that either ... but maybe they sometimes feel that's all they're good for, unfortunately. Anyone can strip just about but very few can strip and plan ahead.

[@timhughes3684]

Honestly I feel like she’s holding alot back but who wouldn’t?? We all have skeletons in our closet

[@mytruthslays1303]

You mean like every single person on this channel?

[@joshpointoh]

I think what she is holding back is called "truth"

[@timhughes3684]

@@joshpointoh As if she owes you that…

[@Emthaung]

This young lady is very bright. While taking care of her whole family, she is doing the best she can to improve her life and reach her goals! Best wishes for her and her future! 😍

[@seaglass1111]

This is the best she can do? You have a very low standard view. I find it somewhat funny that you are so ignorant. The "best" a person can do is this?

[@tuforu4]

She can open UNIVERSITY with STORMEY DANIALS.

[@IRONMANSCHOOL]

You're very educated, Clarice, you're very good with your words.

[@truesavings1988]

😂😂😂

[@adamm2091]

Experienced is a better word.

[@gwenlock]

Guess what...depending on your field, face tattoos could matter even more when you are your own boss. Having been my own boss for 2 diff small businesses in the past, I felt way more scrutinized and felt like I had to prove myself more to get folk to believe in and trust me. Just something to think about when trying to figure out what you want to do after stripping.

[@BigSteve186]

This is true. With something like face tattoos most people will treat you differently. But for someone like Anxiety I'm not sure that's necessarily a bad thing. The way I see it she definitely understands this but wants to differentiate herself from other people and express herself through tattoos anyway which I think is great. You should never set limits for yourself based on what other people might think of you. I also feel like altering your appearance in such a drastic way can help you figure out peoples true intentions. The ones who are quick to judge and shy away from someone with face tattoos most likely don't have your best interest at heart. But if someone sees past the tattoos and actually cares about your personality it tells you something about that person. So in a way they almost act as a bullshit detector. They'll bring out the true personality of the people that she meets much faster than normal and I think she knows how to benefit from that rather than getting caught up in negativity about them/her.

[@kayyjohnson8325]

She can always cover it up with makeup. I have a face tattoo and I cover it work with make up when needed

[@millenniumtowerskelton5143]

You are so right! People with face tattoos are the most beautiful people in the world. They are so misunderstood. They have made the best decisions and are working towards being CEO, CFO or owing their own business just smoking weed. Whats’s your name Anxiety!!!!! I would love you to work for me. Total sarcasm. This generation is our future people!!!

[@ridiculogan2962]

@@millenniumtowerskelton5143 you had me worried with the first couple sentences lmao

[@mplslawnguy3389]

@@millenniumtowerskelton5143 LMFAO I thought you were being serious too.

[@davidgraham5578]

Very good interview. Speaks well.

[@misteralice2614]

A little skeptical about her educational and financial credentials.

[@32raweggs22]

I follow her on IG. She neglects tf out of her kid for various different men

[@adamlewis3729]

link?

[@32raweggs22]

PureAnxPrincess

[@roleat666]

Omg I follow her too, since before she had her daughter, and I pity that kid. She's never with her, then posts her once in a while on her story with whoever she's dating, playing the "I'm an awesome mom" card. She changes her personality for whoever she is dating, and I personally feel like she fetishizes black men in a really weird way. She'll throw on a blaccent (that she didn't have before), braid her hair, and use the n-word. Before that she was just a cute lil alt girl, and now she's back to pushing that side of herself ig.

[@32raweggs22]

@@roleat666 Yes! She’s back to being an emo kid because she’s obsessed with some 18 year old in the UK. She definitely fetishized black men and can’t stay single more than 10 seconds. Her daughters like 5-6 now and still wears diapers. It’s really sad.

[@roleat666]

@32RawEggs I've been watching that real close for some reason lmao he is too young for her, and it's definitely for his insta clout. I was shocked when she married that one dude after like a month and divorced like 2 seconds after moving him into her grandma's house. It's also weird that whenever she braids her hair and she's home, she'll braid hair into her daughter's too. She doesn't know who she is at all, and being a "chameleon" is her trademark. It's sad dawg

[@JRastafari007]

Well that's one way to be sure you're always anxious.

[@michaelhart7282]

She thinks she is the most interesting person in every room

[@annaxefta587]

Lol. She does

[@bunnykandi69]

She is savage at best

[@jakobreichelt3089]

But she is not!

[@blancachula]

As she should,

[@bhadj1285]

Yeah you should try having some confidence too 👍

[@marie-hu5yq]

It’s so weird to me these people always describe their childhood good at first and then describe all the not good parts 3:10 , not just her. I’ve noticed this with many interviews on this channel.

[@stever507]

My neck my back my anxiety attack

[@veronicahancock3245]

😅

[@johnnyb3126]

Interesting interview 👍

[@lyla5961]

Saving money but sometimes she has $100 in her bank account and then in a few days she’s up again? Darling, that’s not saving money.

[@robinrhineheimer8444]

Based on my very personal experiences in many different environments with many different types of people....this interview...she sounds very guarded...and there's just many details that are over exaggerated and lots of stories 5hat seem fantastical...however I'd never presume to know more about someone than they do...this is just nothing like my experiences...I will say too...that 9 out of 10 dancers exaggerate their successes...

[@joshpointoh]

Guarded? She's just lying

[@kimkjrulff1731]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@kimkjrulff1731]

Another liar interwiev

[@jenna_jayy]

Stl is where I’m from and no joke. The streets will eat u alive. That’s where I started using heroin and on the streets. I will never forget when I was in a Traphouse and after I left the place got shot up and robbed. My dealer got murdered. Still wasn’t a wake up call for me N lived it for years

[@hazzelmiller1836]

Wonderful interview, well spoken and dressed, good luck my friend, continue to take care of your Mom, love and cherish her long as you can, sweetheart when she's gone, your world will turn upside down, take care of yourself and stay safe and strong, have a blessed night, much love to you 💯

[@debm8814]

I’m not sure I believe everything she says here. She basically said she works 24/7 . How did she have any time for all the schooling she says she completed I’m confused

[@cooldolphiin]

I think she might have anxiety

[@nhlibra]

Mark asked you if you save money. You indicated that you try to...but have times with $100 in the bank...but then you go up after that. It sounds like your income is up and down, similar to a 100% commission sales job. Find someone to help you get on a budget. Your twenties is critical, don't party it all away. It is the decade for finishing your schooling, networking, bootstrapping your career, getting your name out there in your chosen profession, etc. If you were my daughter I'd tell you to stay away from men that leave you broke (love is not bought)...and get a relationship coach. Always be forward-thinking, you're going to be aged eventually so line yourself up for that. Be safe, be well, be selective. Good luck 💜

[@RealAyzeNZ]

Who else knows exactly how the first question is asked? 😄

[@olddog123]

He changed it up for a short while then went back to the standard phrase.

[@Hisdudeness101]

The first 3 😅

[@kristinenagornaja7667]

Confidence is a wonderful thing …