STRUGGLES OF BEING AN UNMARRIED SINGLE WOMAN IN AFRICAN VILLAGE

  Рет қаралды 3,394

Makena J

Makena J

Күн бұрын

hello family, to contact me makeeh254@gmail.com
if you wish to support me
PayPal: lydiamakena254@gmail.com
Mpesa, Sendwave, world remit
+254714335279
subscribe ‪@JennyJeniffer.‬
I'm on Instagram as Makena J
#iammarwa #deemwango #davyjnr #village #viral #congratsmum #iam_marwa #emotional

Пікірлер: 135
@ItsNasto
@ItsNasto 5 ай бұрын
Majja is here waiting 😊
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣his wife to be is ready
@fatimafranks2765
@fatimafranks2765 5 ай бұрын
😂
@BrianMulo-f2q
@BrianMulo-f2q 5 ай бұрын
Agree with you @nasto.
@Bil626
@Bil626 5 ай бұрын
Viewing here from Texas , USA 🇺🇸 👁️ 👂 ❤🎉😅 👋🏾 Sis Makena pay no attention to anyone, you and the Lord Almighty know best. Focus on yourself the most important thing currently.
@WithRose111
@WithRose111 4 ай бұрын
@Itsnatso great match maker to @majja_ke and @makena_J have agreed @majja_ke ungapi wo..
@ianbolah5873
@ianbolah5873 5 ай бұрын
What do you want for yourself? University education and a career, just a job, marriage and a job, or following your passion, which you said was vlogging and traveling? Get your passport and travel the world before settling down. Build yourself up, establish a career, and be independent before considering marriage. 🙂 🇹🇹🇺🇸
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
I completely agree 💯❤️🌹
@Lovells_network
@Lovells_network 5 ай бұрын
@Makena Jamaican father here; young lady ur on the right path, it's about finding the right person and not just anyone. Seek God concerning this thing, that the right man would find you and that God would give you recognition of that man.
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
I completely agree. Thankyou so much Lovell's❤️🌹
@colinthomas6888
@colinthomas6888 5 ай бұрын
You sound very smart. Please do what is best for you. God bless you. 🇯🇲
@WithRose111
@WithRose111 4 ай бұрын
Makena, all in God's timing
@makena_J
@makena_J 4 ай бұрын
For sure ❤️
@marjoriebent5439
@marjoriebent5439 5 ай бұрын
Good going Makena you are positive in your thinking everyone journey is different dont listen to their pressure....some ladies because of pressure pick the wrong partners....build your life MJ you are still young.....Love u💕
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much❤️❤️🌹
@patrickpiper240
@patrickpiper240 5 ай бұрын
Please don't try to rush into marriage just stay single and try to build your life God will provide for you at the right time just keep praying and God will bless you 🎉🇯🇲
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️🌹
@jayvanhorn6372
@jayvanhorn6372 5 ай бұрын
The most important person in your life is YOU. Even with kids there's no need to give up this position. Your empathy will always be related to your kids, but without you your kids would face a much bigger struggle. So if you're happy and relaxed your kids won't see any struggle. So you live your life the way you want it. Sooner or later you'll find the right partner. No rush needed. Don't be bothered by other people. You're strong and will find YOUR WAY. All your subscribers love you.❤❤❤❤ Stay strong, take care and God bless you 🙏❤👋 🇩🇪
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
I completely agree, thankyou so much Jay🌹❤️
@laisalewatu932
@laisalewatu932 5 ай бұрын
Do not rush Mqkena , Youre a beautiful girl the right one will come along . Be financial independent first . So if a man leaves you ,you still have something to fall back on . Men are unstable . My daughter is 32 working as a nurse in Australia she is independent ,beautiful and shes afraid of getting married too she doesnt trust men
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
WOW, I love that for your daughter, it's hard to trust the current generation of men❤️🌹
@antonytishipa136
@antonytishipa136 5 ай бұрын
No more pressure ur still young😊😊
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️🌹
@dascool15
@dascool15 5 ай бұрын
Make yourself comfortable first, make your career!
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
I will❤️❤️
@paulinethomas7398
@paulinethomas7398 5 ай бұрын
You are a wise young lady Makena, you are right, there is no need for you to rush into marriage
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️🌹
@lady.J3962
@lady.J3962 5 ай бұрын
Blessings my Lady M Hope all is well in your world. No rush take your time and do not let anyone rich u into marriage do it when u are ready. Stay bless🙏🏿❤️
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Well said lady J ❤️
@robinjarrett8314
@robinjarrett8314 5 ай бұрын
Don’t forget this life is your journey personally. Don’t ever let anyone tell you how to live it. You live it at your own speed and bring who you want into your life at your own time. Nobody else.
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
I completely agree💯❤️❤️
@alansodsb
@alansodsb 5 ай бұрын
You and Barundian Traveler are in the same boat. Both very nice people. He just built a new house nearby.
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@jesusvelador5372
@jesusvelador5372 5 ай бұрын
Take your time and enjoy life to the fullest God has many blessings for you and don't be afraid to speak up when people want to take advantage of you
@THE_ROYALS2019
@THE_ROYALS2019 4 ай бұрын
Watching you and wanting you from America ‼️😍😍😍💯
@trevorbennett9046
@trevorbennett9046 5 ай бұрын
Hello beautiful lady keep up the good work love ❤️ you girl am in Florida
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Thanks so much❤️
@lilianchristensen5198
@lilianchristensen5198 4 ай бұрын
Have money in the bank good career Get your own car Your own apartment Put your budget fast So you don't beg nobody . That is the best freedom of a woman To have your own income. Have a nice day😆
@makena_J
@makena_J 4 ай бұрын
Thankyou for your wise words 🌹❤️❤️
@kirimanyambura1896
@kirimanyambura1896 5 ай бұрын
Live your life forget the peoples pressure just put God first in your everything and he . will give you desires of your heart.the right man for you will find you .coz whoever finds a wife finds a good thing❤❤
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
WOW, putting God first is the point, thankyou so much ❤️
@robinjarrett8314
@robinjarrett8314 5 ай бұрын
Here in America mostly people don’t care about that. They make their decision if they want to get married. If not they just don’t. People are very individualistic.
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
WOW, it's really different from here
@LennyLucase-vq4up
@LennyLucase-vq4up 5 ай бұрын
Hello Makena,I’m from Miami Florida .I throughly sincerely believe you are a gem.Have patience.🙏🏾
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much ❤️
@cyrustraveller
@cyrustraveller 5 ай бұрын
nice video ❤🎉
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Thankyou ❤️
@sivajig6840
@sivajig6840 5 ай бұрын
Makena j ur videos fast time im watching really good 👍🏻 👌 im indian fans
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much
@noziqu7728
@noziqu7728 5 ай бұрын
What happened to you and Royal Kheem. He is still available
@fatimafranks2765
@fatimafranks2765 5 ай бұрын
Take your time dont rush to get married...
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
I will🌹
@maxgamboltv9940
@maxgamboltv9940 5 ай бұрын
Had to subscribe since make similar videos
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️🌹
@linagithua
@linagithua 5 ай бұрын
Hi beautiful lady😊😊😊
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Hi dear😊
@DanielRoman-yu4ms
@DanielRoman-yu4ms 5 ай бұрын
Lovely ❤
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️
@julietjones1726
@julietjones1726 5 ай бұрын
No my dear in jamaica you marry and have kud whenever you want.my dear focus on and having assets now in your young life.
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much ❤️
@virginiammadikgomo8777
@virginiammadikgomo8777 5 ай бұрын
No pressure my baby ❤❤❤
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️🌹
@samthabody1967
@samthabody1967 5 ай бұрын
You're still young and have plenty of time when it becomes convenient for you. Don't let the pressure get to you! 😍👍☎️
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
So true Sam❤️❤️
@johnmpaweanayo9751
@johnmpaweanayo9751 5 ай бұрын
Am always advising my young ones not to be pressurised with people to determine your future. Those pressuring you will not be there when you face tough times. So please lay your foundation before marriage commitment.
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Sure❤️❤️
@louvelalain4907
@louvelalain4907 5 ай бұрын
Hello Makena; I know this family pressure for marriage well, my wife lives in Madagascar and it's the same there. It's quite difficult when you live so far away, I live in France but the most important thing is love. 😍😘🌹
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing, atleast I'm not alone❤️
@julietjones1726
@julietjones1726 5 ай бұрын
My girl don't let anyone pressure you about marriage and kids. . that's why africa have so much kids that not in school.their parents cannot pay school fee. And the mother walking in the yard without shoes.stand firm my dear.❤❤❤
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Thankyou ❤️❤️
@ataomom6278
@ataomom6278 5 ай бұрын
National Maat Public Policy
@wondracurtis5852
@wondracurtis5852 5 ай бұрын
Whatever you do get married when you want to I didn't get married because I didn't want to I don't have kids cuz I didn't want to but yes I heard when you going to have kids when you going to have kids I wasn't asked when I was going to get married but when I was going to have kids and I'm like I don't want to have kids and I don't want to be married but this is the problem just like you said they didn't invite you to family issues and stuff I wasn't invited to family function and if I was it was to help fix the food or watch their kids why they went out and have fun but when I got ready to tell them something that was wrong about that kid they were like how would you know you don't have kids but I'm taking care of all these kids I own a daycare center I worked on base military base teaching kids was dealing with kids and now that I'm retired I'm still dealing with kids my nephew and my nieces they bring their kids around me and stuff my brother just told my youngest niece that oh you can talk to this auntie about everything and anything that's the one you want to talk to talk to her but yet they also turn around and say oh you don't know nothing you don't have kids so live your life you're young and you need to travel live life then settle down if you want to if not do you😅 and I'm from the United States and I'm 56 years old and I'm happy that I have no kids and no husband and my mom still pushing me to have kids at my age😂😂😂
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
WOW, I'm glad you stood firm and didn't give in to the pressure cookers🤣
@Lorineokoth
@Lorineokoth 5 ай бұрын
That's true but life is a journey
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
💯❤️
@colinthomas6888
@colinthomas6888 5 ай бұрын
Nothing is wrong with you the devil is a liar. You got a very smart understanding mother and dad.
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
I thank God for them❤️❤️
@ceciliafelicien4138
@ceciliafelicien4138 5 ай бұрын
Don't worry it's still early
@FDK-FAMILY
@FDK-FAMILY 4 ай бұрын
watching from SA
@makena_J
@makena_J 4 ай бұрын
One love❤️
@noziqu7728
@noziqu7728 5 ай бұрын
How are about Mayuguno? Do not worry there a lot of batchelor youtubers who have a sound mind. Your prince charming is coming
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Mayugno is a married Man 😂 ❤️ and I highly respect him, I would never think of him in that way😂😂
@harpalgajera2875
@harpalgajera2875 5 ай бұрын
Majja is here waiting 😊 patel marriage?
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
😂😂
@iammachacha
@iammachacha 5 ай бұрын
@ltsNasto is here waiting 😂😂😂
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Miss fle will pinch your ears Machacha 😂😂
@agneslyengu1579
@agneslyengu1579 5 ай бұрын
MJ, you are a very smart young lady and it is very clear you know who you are and what you want. Please just smile politely at those people who are putting pressure on you regarding marriage and tell them you will get married very soon. Assure them that it's going to happen sooner than they expect. A man does not define who you are and neither does a woman define a man. It is a partnership that needs to taken seriously and not just something you jump into because others are married. You have said it all yourself about how important it is to finding the right person and knowing and loving yourself first. You are doind just fine. The right person will come to you. Ignore the pressure cookers 😂😮😂. May God continue to guide and bless you abundantly and send you a good person for a husband IJMN, Amen 🙏 ❤❤❤🎉
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
The pressure cookers🤣🤣🤣I will completely ignore them , well said Shosho Agnes ❤️❤️
@michelleclarke1022
@michelleclarke1022 5 ай бұрын
Hi
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Hi
@patrickpiper240
@patrickpiper240 5 ай бұрын
Hi beautiful
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Hi🌹
@colinthomas6888
@colinthomas6888 5 ай бұрын
Don't get into pressure foolishly. Please stay positive young. They is better things to think of in life. What about telling you to go and get your collage degree.?
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️🌹
@alexmithika2162
@alexmithika2162 4 ай бұрын
Makena j you are ready😂
@makena_J
@makena_J 4 ай бұрын
Yes🤣
@ohisio1986
@ohisio1986 5 ай бұрын
There is no rule for marriage accept when you are below 18. In Africa, there is no hope to settle financially. Our economies are not performing well. No employment opportunities etc. You may be a graduate but market is very competitive with a lot of people jobless. No capital to even start business. If you wait to be financially stable then you marry, that is not going to happen. Marriage will force you to work harder because there is already serious responsibility. However, I agree with you that at least someone marries at a later age. Not so early!
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
I completely agree 💯
@franklinemwikah8048
@franklinemwikah8048 5 ай бұрын
The place look familiar
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@stellakagendo7324
@stellakagendo7324 5 ай бұрын
Ungesema pressure of being single😊
@makena_J
@makena_J 4 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@AlbeItex14
@AlbeItex14 4 ай бұрын
Beautiful place😅
@makena_J
@makena_J 4 ай бұрын
Thankyou
@mike.p.r.2243
@mike.p.r.2243 5 ай бұрын
👑💍
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
🌹❤️
@Burundian_Traveller
@Burundian_Traveller 5 ай бұрын
Soon you will get dada
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Thankyou BT❤️❤️❤️
@THE_ROYALS2019
@THE_ROYALS2019 4 ай бұрын
In America they pressure you not to marry. 😞💯
@makena_J
@makena_J 4 ай бұрын
Oh my
@Irriswhartirris
@Irriswhartirris 5 ай бұрын
Haha you are crying for marriage.. Look for money, add your education, travel the world.. The man will find you and marry you when he sees your value.. ❤Nowadays marriage isn't an achievement especially when you marry the wrong person out of desperation and you still end up back on the streets
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@Newtonsgalore
@Newtonsgalore 5 ай бұрын
Come i take you home here western Kenya 😊
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣bring cows
@Newtonsgalore
@Newtonsgalore 5 ай бұрын
@@makena_J I will ooh😄
@auntiepiarants2238
@auntiepiarants2238 4 ай бұрын
Makena how old are you😂😂
@makena_J
@makena_J 4 ай бұрын
I'm very old🤣🤣
@noziqu7728
@noziqu7728 5 ай бұрын
5:20 Majja is a potential candidate. I think you will be cute with each other. Do not bother just try and be like Diana Kemmy.
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Thankyou ❤️
@julianabraham172
@julianabraham172 5 ай бұрын
hey Makena, interested
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Thankyou Julian ❤️🙏
@Xi-gc1cp369
@Xi-gc1cp369 5 ай бұрын
NINI KILITOKEA MSICHANA..👀🤭😝⁉️...MAJJA.. BURUNDIAN TRAVELER..DAVY JUNIOR ..WHERE ARE U GUYS U R INVITED TO REACT AND CONSIDER THIS GIRL👊I WILL PAY THE DOWRY🙆...PUT A RING ON HER FINGER💍♥️.....I WILL BE THE BRIDE'S GURL ....🙈🙉🙊....🦜🌺🧸🇳🇱
@laisalewatu932
@laisalewatu932 5 ай бұрын
😂
@ONLYMAWIRA
@ONLYMAWIRA 5 ай бұрын
I will marry her
@laisalewatu932
@laisalewatu932 5 ай бұрын
@@ONLYMAWIRA oh oh Mawira you know what they say in America ? Try NEXT DOOR 🤣🤣🙏
@Xi-gc1cp369
@Xi-gc1cp369 5 ай бұрын
@@ONLYMAWIRA I KNEW ITTT‼️ONLY MAWIRA CAN BE THE KING 👑NO ONE ELSE❣️♥️🌹🤣...🦜🌺🧸🇳🇱
@queenNancie
@queenNancie 5 ай бұрын
@@ONLYMAWIRA congratulations bro 🎉 😂
@dopyojj4974
@dopyojj4974 5 ай бұрын
Are you married??
@makena_J
@makena_J 5 ай бұрын
Nop
MY BOYFRIEND'S HOME TOUR🌹
16:03
Makena J
Рет қаралды 98
ДЕНЬ УЧИТЕЛЯ В ШКОЛЕ
01:00
SIDELNIKOVVV
Рет қаралды 3,3 МЛН
РОДИТЕЛИ НА ШКОЛЬНОМ ПРАЗДНИКЕ
01:00
SIDELNIKOVVV
Рет қаралды 3,2 МЛН
#3 Days in my Life🍃Life as an Introvert Girl in Kenya | Slow Living
20:07
Diaries of MakenaJ
Рет қаралды 1,8 М.
7 things women do when they genuinely love you
9:47
Jessica Os
Рет қаралды 6 МЛН
EMOTIONAL BIG SURPRISE FROM THE USA FOR HER‼️‼️
45:35
35 and Single!
5:54
MissSophie
Рет қаралды 81 М.
Interview with Tiffany "whats like to grow up with deaf mom"
14:27
Veronica Dunnington
Рет қаралды 1 М.
MOVING OUT AGAIN ‼️ TRANSFORMATION OF MY NEW HOME
33:26