Struggles of Getting Married at 24

[@TheDownBadShow]

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[@erikascencen]

Shouldve called her out for domestic abuse

[@sungyeeyildirim1727]

Nnbbi lip pop JJ mmmkjjjkmmkkllkkoonjjjr

[@RoseBud24]

Michelle’s confidence is EVERYTHING like the way she’s just like “yeah” “I did” like love her

[@GinaCarden]

I really like her conviction and how she demands respect. She has standards for how she wants to live life and be treated, and doesn’t compromise on them. Especially now knowing her and Andy were so close for several months and the type of charming (but maybe immature) man he was, but she didn’t compromise or get swept away. It’s difficult what they both went through to achieve the quality of the relationship they have and it’s quite inspiring

[@bwingbwinggwiyomi]

​@@GinaCardenI think our hardships, trauma and difficulties help refine relationships into better, stronger quality because you know better about yourself and of love ❤

[@vanessahuang6672]

They’re honestly the only couple that can make me watch an hour’s worth of podcast and not get bored

[@temmieluyahojurongbe2738]

Honestly them and kaed, they so awesome

[@lvrbc]

I said the same thing and quite surprised when I realized it😂 I actually watched 2+ hours with The Nectar gods…interview of Andy and Michelle. 2+ hours!😮😅 Yeah, I did that😅

[@elaineyixuan]

Yes I was about to do some stuff but then I saw this video once I clicked in I can’t stop watching

[@izk3460]

Their kids won't think the same

[@tangdongyang]

Me too

[@karsam7751]

The way she look at him and the way he explain why she is the one . You know they are in such wholesome and beautiful relationship

[@joansbeef4035]

Ngl too early to tell

[@karsam7751]

@@joansbeef4035 you have beef in your name? Damn . Are you from 🇻🇳?

[@warisjournal]

I love how they ask each other ‘’can i share’’ it literally couples goal , ask for permission 😊😊😊

[@VinoDeRio]

Honestly I envy how strong they are as a couple. I was smiling and laughing through the whole thing! Andy's trust is incredible to see and Michelle seems very easy going and open. I hope to find and build a relationship like this one day. I'm 28 atm and comparing my past relation to theirs I can see the diff in maturity and hardships they went through to get to the place where they are now.

[@joansbeef4035]

We probably need another 5 years to see how this comment ages..

[@VinoDeRio]

@@joansbeef4035 true but we hope they stay married and not get into some scandal. Don't want to wish the worst on anyone

[@qcrctgavarcesxrfab8015]

agree

[@GinaCarden]

@ joansbeef4035 Young marriage like theirs will have to stand through many iterations of evolution, sometimes in a way no one can predict (especially under the spotlight on KZbin). But I see a maturity underneath the youthful demeanour that’s quite rare. Strong values from their upbringing and life experiences plus hard work, determination and trust in each other I think means they’re more than capable of weathering storms together and ultimately knowing what’s important.

[@GinaCarden]

@VinoDeRio Michelle is certainly easygoing and all those things you said, but i also see strength and expectation in the relationship guided by her. I also am inspired to play this out in my own relationship

[@yomamasan]

I love Andy and Michelle. And this podcast does so well to showcase that they really came from small beginnings and hardships. Well deserved

[@erikascencen]

Dude she's literally verbally abusing him every other video and playing it off as "skitz"

[@joansbeef4035]

@@erikascencen yeah might be too early to tell now that if they've both found "the one" for each other... or maybe they've never said that they're for each other and will eventually y'know.

[@phantomsniper1083]

@@erikascencenwell theyre acting.. it literally is a skit

[@erikascencen]

@PhantomSniper108 doesn't seem like an acting to me.Even if it Is she's making abuse against males a joke

[@lollololololololololol8116]

@@erikascencen u should visit some comedy shows to see how ruthless they r to women, males, and different races

[@sunnylotus]

Andy is so good at talking omg and the emotional maturity he has is next level

[@jasonkeju8174]

Making a guy wait a bit longer isn't about teasing; it's about investing in something real. That's what leads to lasting marriages, not just fleeting hookups. Now i am 100% sure that Michelle's the player. Andy is in her mercy...

[@bwingbwinggwiyomi]

Exactly. That's the difference between an immature and mature relationship. You want to be sure about each other ❤ and realising how long marriage can actually be. It's not willy nilly.

[@secrated]

We need more interviewers like this man, just let interviewees talk and give them a moment

[@amandamenezes5617]

I noticed that too. One of the best interviewers I’ve seen so far

[@christopherbarros6197]

I really look up to thier relationship. Having 100% trust and being able to be themselves as outgoing people without the other thinking anything other than being friendly. This is definitely a match made in heaven because they are so in tune with each other. I really love it!

[@erikascencen]

Lol she's verbally abusive,controlling and insecure,and trying to play it off as "skits" nothing to look up to

[@lincer4784]

@@erikascencen hater detected

[@Abby-ft1bu]

@@erikascencen Just stick to your bts shit & stop hating on people you know nothing about.

[@taylorkara9764]

@@erikascencen no. You can tell from her reaction and her replies when he is talking. You can tell that she absolutely trusts him and is definitely very secure of herself.

[@douknodawae7805]

@@erikascencen hater LMAO

[@halo_582]

Andy is a really good story teller

[@brandonxiongxiongsta636]

Imagine him as a story teller

[@buildtkingdom_wat]

There is such a wonderful level of emotional stability and maturity in this young couple that I truly adore. You can just hear it in their story that communication isn’t just talking but listening to understand before being understood. It’s inspiring to see the work you both put in come to fruition. Jimmy, you’re doing such great with the guest and I only wish you more success brother!

[@erikascencen]

Lol yeah her making skits verbally abusing him is sooo mature.

[@buildtkingdom_wat]

@@erikascencen that’s why they are called skits lol. Not gonna lie, I felt the same way when I first watched their skits too🤣

[@erikascencen]

@Build T Kingdom nah man she's literally abusive and playing it off "it's for the skit"

[@anxtrnn]

@@erikascencen seems like you didn’t watch the video at all. obviously you lack the maturity they have😮

[@saechin20]

Andy loves her so much. It’s so beautiful to listen to how he explains love. It’s the same way I perceive love when I try to explain it to someone.

[@hungrymothergoose]

This is probably the only podcast that I listened to for over an hour long without losing interest...good content, humour, questions, overal good vibe. Great job!

[@JeLLoH1000]

The communication and honesty is so it with the both of them. Love it

[@idkwho1195]

Andy just sets the bar for the saying “if he wants to, he would.” 😌

[@strawberi690]

I'm here very invested on the whole convo and then a skin care routine made me go like NOOOO JWSJSKSOOSWJWB 😭😭😭

[@Buddha_2001]

30:00 i love this part how they took a break and try to find their own worth in themselves and not just try to please the other and not care about yourself.

[@Lesgotravel]

I have literally never looked up to a couple on the internet but man their values and their emotional maturity is on another level and has made it difficult for me to not admire them They’re adorable together💗

[@Just1HotPringles]

Love how open, vulnerable and comfortable they are on sharing the intimate details of their storyline. And Andy seems so mature in his thoughts and values, which is a WIN for a lady! To get a grown up mature man!

[@amybarthwick4975]

Yo. This turned out to be your typical Bad-boy-falls-for-good-girl trope! Loved every bit!😍

[@cuties1238]

My father said to not settle with boys until they turn 27 cause that's the age they slowly gets matured but I really respect Andy ready to settle at such a young age I really love their relationship

[@Just999Me]

Your father is a smart man -- i would listen. Most people (men & women) don't mature mentally and/or emotionally until 25 at least but late 20s is more accurate. of course there are exceptions to this. Andy and Michelle, are great examples of this. But you also have to follow your gut and natural instincts when you do find someone. ensure they follow your boundaries, bring out the best in you, appreciate what you do and the relationship overall doesn't change you for worse.

[@Hamyhamster24]

Nowadays, guys at 27 isn’t that mature either lol

[@Oak7565]

I met a guy who never dated when I was 24 and he was 27. We broke up a year later. 😢it wasn't meant to be - he thought making all the money he can possibly make by overtime to the max would get him to a more comfortable lifestyle later and even going out on dates was a struggle. He may seem mature with money but to the point where it's immature when you have a significant other. Then he dumped me when things got hard and his depression manifested.

[@liasisboa]

I would say this holds for women, also. Brain development in both genders is complete only in the mid twenties. But aside from strictly physical reasons, in today’s world adequate life experience/personality formation usually doesn’t occur until the later twenties.

[@captureholic]

I would say mid 30s is when they mature lol

[@jaymeered7063]

you can tell Andy is still shy talking about how they met, exactly how he felt when he first saw Michelle. And you can tell by the way Michelle just stare are Andy while talking that she loves him. ASDFGhJKL this couple!

[@seiko3565]

love these two and their humor, such a beautiful relationship

[@erikascencen]

Verbal abuse of males isn't comedy.Get help you're not right in the head

[@seiko3565]

@@erikascencen what are you saying? LMAO you got issues

[@Aussiemz]

They’re just like their shorts 💀

[@jankoskai]

my dog

[@namelessgaming416]

@@jankoskai my cat?

[@pcha091]

My bat?

[@hanad.d.d127]

My rat

[@PixelDonkey-rj2uv]

it’s almost as if like the clips are from the vids 😱

[@amansidhu7989]

This was helllla insightful. Thank you for taking the time to make this episode.

[@Alien142011]

I loved hearing them on this podcast. They are so real and comfortable with one another. Bringing back the hope and faith in healthy relationships!

[@youssefbenazzouz9797]

Jimmy is so good at letting people talk i love the podcast ! keep it up man

[@itsolivia8242]

And that’s why Andy’s married lol. Andy and Michelle should do more of these videos. I love listening to them.

[@triplerstudios6108]

27:17 love that he reassures her that’s what a secured relationship looks like ❤

[@Sonalsharma2016]

So true!

[@soji404]

i’ve actually met her before and it was so cool to see them super happy

[@erikascencen]

Is she as abusive and insecure irl?

[@rihannarae6480]

@@erikascencen no i have actually met her too she was very nice

[@aimanrizal97]

@@erikascencen you seem to have a vendetta against her. Are you one of their exes per chance?

[@MahiAhie]

@@erikascencen Did you watch the the video…? They literally mentioned how the toxicity is only in the skits

[@khadijahjohari6180]

@@MahiAhie that person you replied to seems to have hate against michelle in every comment's replies ive seen 😭

[@once4all125]

For someone who didn't pass English, Andy is a good at storytelling/speaking

[@deedee0824]

Watched two of their videos on FB and came across this video. I love their whole relationship and how open they are with one another. They knew earlier on that they were willing to work for things and had the emotional intelligence to work through their problems and came up with resolutions on solving it, rather than just arguing and becoming those toxic couples who end up hurting one another and staying in fear of being alone. Glad I came across their videos. Needed this video haha timing is great And also, GMU! Love it! 😊

[@Cloudnine422]

I feel like andy has won in life by marrying such a good girl such a content decent and fun woman like michelle! He’s lucky tbh

[@don.viitto]

She's lucky to have him

[@torchmilk9793]

@@don.viitto Lmao both of them are lucky

[@user-fc6yp1xq1i]

Michelle, it is so admirable and inspirational that you were/are an innocent woman in this day and age. And look at you winning now. There’s something really beautiful about “waiting” for the special moment.

[@Courtannica]

It's not unusual. Men should also strive to be that way as well

[@nicholasroberts4043]

I love how she let's you talk. She isn't timid so her letting you talk and staying quiet while you gather your thoughts has everything to do with respect and not shyness. You're stoked dude!

[@lizzybuhay2919]

i hope they stay good to each other and their relationships last forever, Amen🥰

[@cwang3388]

This is actually really great. Good couple with solid advice. Love Andy and Michelle !

[@GuamPhotoLife]

id been watching this couple for a bit now, and they’re such a cute & wholesome couple & his outlook that there’s always gonna be something better around the corner, but the little things that is common between them is much more valuable in their relationship, that view is very refreshing.

[@seandaman6509]

Its true what he said about bouncing around and settling with the one you connect the most. I felt that with my Wife. He literally spit all what was in my head going into the relationship. Theres never gonna be a perfect partner but you could work together toward a perfect compromise.

[@bwingbwinggwiyomi]

"it's the ones that look like good schoolgirls" Noooo, that took me out. Don't call me ouuuttt ahhhhh 😂😭 I'm a freaky freakster, I knowww

[@thefamilycat86]

This is a very wholesome podcast! I really enjoyed the conversation between Jimmy, Michelle and Andy. So many points which I can apply to my relationship to work on.

[@felixsfreckles8925]

I actually learned so much more in this video than my college classes

[@OcaOca]

What a great couple, they deserve all the success they are getting right now

[@iTiM50]

I literally went through what Andy is describing in the past year and real relationships take a good amount of work but is so worth it if you can work it out

[@michipunkt]

This interview was great. Just a honest healthy relationship. Love you both. I found myself and our relationship in this interview and I asked my husband a few times how was it when we met, cause we are together since 21 years haha. 😅🎉I hope you stay together for a long time as happy as you are now.... It's great so see love so real💕all the best for you

[@sknk1823]

They both have crazy characters together. Must be so fun living in the same roof. They may have some cringe tiktok vids but they are fun cringe. Like the cringe is so good to fathom. It saved me once in my lowest. I had fun watching this. Still rooting to my jimmy boy also. Great show man.

[@mrs.gardener6363]

I'm new to this channel and I must say that the host did in excellent job with the questions, comments, etc. The couple was also very real and genuine.

[@mrs.gardener6363]

I'm new to this channel and I must say that the host did in excellent job with the questions, comments, etc. The couple was also very real and relatable.

[@rosariolarion9319]

Andy and Michelle’s chemistry is at par. This is hilarious 🎉love this podcasting ❤.

[@loloioi]

Andy spittin fire about the right fit part @26:42 mark and onwards. There's def always someone going to be better but the right person is what matters the most.

[@ukrose]

Facts. There's always a bigger dick or bigger wallet, just gotta find the guy with the biggest heart ❤

[@bigballer4594]

These r the types of guests we love to see

[@jbnxcom]

She's like my wife. I enjoyed the show. Also from the DMV here 🎉 It's "happy spouse, happy house!"

[@berniezhong]

This is so funny LMFAO, I feel like things like this aren’t talked about enough tbh. Love the video

[@xuimod]

Man this interviewer is really good. He asks such good, probing questions.

[@JAMoore-zz3ki]

Such a real conversation. I love it.

[@GucciPow]

"She looked like a normal girl. There's something about that." - take notes fellas. Don't be too fixated on your ideal type of a woman and the exterior (tho it matters too). Modesty goes a longs ways.

[@Princess-di2zx]

And let me have another comment. I love Michelle! She is like cool, pretty, and hot at the same time. She is like strict and hard appropriately, and she is naughty when she is with her husband only. THAT IS VERY RESPECTABLE.

[@snowball6677]

Sh!!!!!t she's only a year older than me only and she's already all set with the love of her life while I'm still here struggling... Smh...

[@ohtouko]

such a good episode love the energy between you all

[@dustf1nger118]

20:25 "I was laughing but dying inside" Bro, we felt that one.

[@lloydn6095]

Love this couple! As a man, so much respect for Andy. That is just pure maturity at such a young age. Respect brother!

[@becomingtawana8253]

I like the Honesty. I found this couple last month and have been watching them since. Love their relationship bc it’s real, honest, relatable and you can see the love they share. Throwing in the funny stuff makes it even better. ❤ Thanks for Sharing

[@Xarthius2021]

Wow. Good job Jimmy. This couple took me by surprise by how they met and how they were able to proceed together as a married couple. 😊😊😊

[@briibird]

I got married at 19 to my husband and have been together in total for 7 years. Honestly we were lucky to find each other quickly in life and have managed to mature together which made our bond more stronger. I say it’s total luck imo

[@TubeDeviant]

Such a wholesome (but probably sanitized story) about love.. Compared to the toxic, passive aggressive or downright hostile garbage that happens out there on the dating scene..

[@travinatolbert5905]

Michelle is just so gorgeous!! I already knew I loved her but seeing a little more into her personality here is awesome..

[@yngtadpole]

I love their content- this 1.5 hour video was filled with so much comedy 🤣 I laughed so much. I got to know them so much more too!

[@TheGLOSSette]

I think this is amazing that someone can come into the life of an f-boy and through personality and compatibility change his perspective on dating/relationship/marriage. From what I've seen, f-boys stay that way for a long time till they feel "old" enough to settle. And some don't even settle. I feel with the fighting it does generally hit hard around 2 years and so why most relationships end around that time. And if you get through it then it'll make ur relationship stronger. Happened to my and my husband. For us, we are both Christians and that helped us get through it And then around 2.75 years we got engaged and then got married 8 months after that

[@ma.melinegarcia5639]

Jimmy bring them back again..I love this couple..Their so much fun

[@wy5335]

It was never 50-50, it was always 100-100. ❤

[@nobu368]

first podcast ive ever fully watched and it was awesome. Loved seeing andy and michelle and I love jimmy. Hes hilarious

[@tiff8346]

Great video!! Love andy and michelles content. Always hilarious. This is the kind of relationship i want :,) i am glad it is possible and i love seeing examples of that. I guess it is really reassuring to know what im looking for in a partner is realistic. 1:20:20 such important topics - assertive communication - not aggression gets people to listen. Yelling is kind of triggering for me cos my parent’s had a similar communication style. The yelling, passive aggression, lack of communication (it seems from the outside anyway. I dont see everything ofc). I just feel so crap being part of it, cos they can interact with me like that too so i really worked at learning what healthy communication looks like and practising that cos my mental health was plummeting at a certain stage.

[@Nobody-vx4wu]

the timing of me finding this is insane

[@brandontltl]

Same here bruh

[@MelsLife163]

Wow they story is beautiful!! And the way he said he doesn't want her to be on birth control 🥹More guys need to be like Andy .

[@ang4390]

It’s crazy to know that they grew up where I grew up and that we even went to the same college 😮

[@aaronrefugio6461]

22:05 I had to pause cause I was dying from Jimmy’s reaction

[@cressi9362]

Oh my...I freaking love them.... They're so fun n honest!....JUST KNOW THT I'LL ALWAYS BE SUPPORTING YOU...I LOVE U BOTH SO MUCH!!❤

[@ButacuPpucatuB]

So lovely to hear how they met and fell in love 🧡🧡🧡 Also it was great to hear how they approach their channel and content. Thank you so much it was a wonderful conversation 🧡🥰🧡🥰

[@overcomeoverthinking5647]

I saw this on my feed and IMMEDIATELY took my earphones. I'm a freakin' BIG FAN

[@LaprimKane]

Oh shit, my favorite content creators on the same podcast... Thank you so so much! Absolute purest of content!

[@sheisstrongpodcast]

they are so cute tho, this is one couple i love following on tiktok, love their honesty its very much needed for us in this generation nice to see a young couple doing marriage well

[@DangerGes-ic5oz]

I like how they also talk about their background and build from that❤

[@17napps38]

Yo, Jimmy, been following you for years now... These pods are the way to go!

[@bettsboo]

I feel men of all ages should listen to this chat 🎉

[@K0isu]

My favorite couple on here. They're so cute together. Love yall Andy and Michelle

[@peculiar-eze5616]

This is so educative and fun like how raw they are helps me ❤Thank you God for stumbling on this ❤

[@jewelines6738]

Jimmy is learning, and at the same time he looks like jealous but at the same time he wants to enjoy his (maybe) single life lol

[@LeBeautiful]

Infectious episode, this is going to be great!

[@mugiwaratrii4545]

I knew I wanted to marry my wife writhin the first week of meeting her. She was NOT my type either, but I wanted her more than any other girl I’ve ever talked to. I thank God every day for her. She trusts me to lead and she’s the only one that really knows me.

[@unscriptedmess]

wow! this is the first podcast I listened to and just didn't get bored! I love this couple, they are so insightful about one another! I'd love to be friends with Michelle! I love how chill she is. so so so mature!

[@iwannajustinhan]

the part when he said the song dont ---- i was like omgg-

[@JangBu78]

This is the first podcast I've ever watched. Didn't disappoint XD

[@empreszn]

This podcast is innocent and pure man. I like it ❤️

[@modernbassheads5051]

Watching them interact makes me wish my relationship was like this, my girl is not the type to say sweet affectionate shit to me and I’ve had this talk with her multiple times she just can’t change

[@AiBkomachi]

Is there any other way she shows you her affection? Some people might not say it but show it instead.

[@ana-ld8yr]

for the end of the video : sex is also communication, men only want pleasure and not give anything back, so obviously most of us aren't een interested anymore, and we're not connecteing to them bc we do'nt have anything to connect to and intimacy also creates pleasure (even when the sex isn't that good, so really focus on this connection)

[@dylannicolay7347]

Andy is such a good storyteller

[@betsy032785]

I love this been following this couple for a year now and seeing this video is awesome .

[@gracekim5291]

16:57 bruh all my life as a woman, i deadass usually was the one that's asked the question not the asker. i found this so relateable

[@animesongsluv]

Glasses are underrated, they're so cute and make people look smart :3