Struggles You Only Discover In Your First Same-Sex Relationship

[@ItsJustMikee]

Its really bad when you can't hold hands down a street just being in fear of someone actually being aggressive cause they don't understand

[@steveforbes9302]

This is true....but in the same respect....why do couples feel the need to be attached at all times. Never understood that.

[@codythompson1477]

that's not the issue. the issue is that people are attacked in the public by homophobes. it is a basic human desire to express affection, and it looks as though you're turning blame onto the victims.

[@steveforbes9302]

Cody Thompson victim cause you feel scared to hold your partners hand in public? Meanwhile in Africa....

[@checks6312]

Steve Forbes Just because there are other issues, doesn't mean you need to forget about the more minor ones. We can focus on more problems then one.

[@steveforbes9302]

Yes we can, but it's a little ironic that such minor issues seem to be everyones #1 agenda...

[@elliottea8069]

I'm dating a girl right now and we kissed on the escalator and there was a group of drunk guy friends and one was like "OH MY GOD ARE THESE LESBIANS?" I kept on kissing her and another guy said "NO BRO, THEY ARE HOMOSEXUALS" and another one was like "FREEDOM FOR EVERYONE" after that we broke out into laughter

[@stayhydrated2371]

I'm dead

[@ljannoyance8391]

lol

[@river.-.6382]

Elliot Tea dead 💀 😂

[@cruzcruise5164]

r/thathappenef

[@GFINHK]

@chow tt You're in the closet

[@crazyhyperartist5886]

At the airport I saw two guys hold hands but then one of them looked around looking really scared and let go. It honestly broke my heart. They shouldnt have to be scared to hold hands. Maybe they weren't even a couple but as two men they shouldn't be scared to hold hands. As people even. I'm bisexual but I've never been in a lesbian relationship so I haven't dealt with it yet but I emphasise with them.

[@blue_cameron]

Crazy Hyper Artist they should worry less because most people aren't going to dislike them

[@royalteaanimations]

Same. I haven’t been in a lesbian relationship yet

[@totallyoutofit6989]

Crazy Hyper Artist that happens to me and my gf sometimes

[@tyreeserobinson8766]

@TaeWithSugaAndAKookie same situation with me boo

[@ThatStupidCircle89]

Crazy Hyper Artist they need to grow up and realise the world doesn’t care about them...people feel uncomfortable, they won’t attack 😂😂😂😂 this isn’t the Congo

[@daisyharris5709]

So in my school, two girls (who are in a relationship) were kissing. Two girls walked passed and one of them shouted 'That's disgusting!' Her friend then proceeded to turn on her and full on rant about gay rights and how she was ignorant and it just made my day

[@kawaiigrommet399]

lol if that happened at my school, the teachers would probably get mad. Its annoying!

[@blazingheart3240]

at my school the that girl would get a detention XD and it's a catholic school we even have an LGBT club

[@justabitsatirical9029]

daisy harris yaaaaaassssssssss

[@justabitsatirical9029]

Justasleuth yaaaaassssss

[@azraz1364]

omg I love that

[@Dropthefishtank]

PSA: If you're staring at a gay couple because you think they're cute, smile at them! It helps clarify that you're not being judgmental!

[@theomeletteguy]

It's simple but I haven't thought of it ' '

[@pj7919]

Thank you haha ! I try to tell everyone this, it makes us feel better!

[@JackMarisKnight]

@@kie1967 Maybe the old men are dating, too.

[@LeoHikari]

But then they'll think you're being creepy and fetishising them lol

[@veronical4373]

Just not a "I don't approve" smile

[@mollyseger9593]

i always get so scared that when i stare at a gay couple it’s because i’m homophobic but i’m actually screaming in my head because i’m so happy for them and i’m just like damn i wish you knew that i am aLSO GAY

[@gingerjames7650]

honestly same lol XD #gayproblems

[@Brynwyn123]

Dude just smile they'll get it

[@julenliantrehe6780]

Literally same

[@ilikefrogs9782]

Like yes. Me too

[@nareushardin8990]

Same

[@TheRokstar13]

My boyfriend and I were walking through the park holding hands one day and we walked passed this family that asked us to not hold hands in front of their kids because they don't want us turning them gay... To my surprise, a few people heard this and next thing you know a multitude of people were telling the family that they need to open their minds and close their mouths. We were both soon apologized to shortly after the whole rant. I hope one day everybody will learn to be accepting of everybody and realize that people are people. Because hatred isn't pretty. But equality is beautiful. :)

[@loveveil8428]

that's like people saying seeing gay characters in TV will turn their kids gay, Like thank you for explaining why in 2001 I turned into a big fat green ogre. I'm glad someone finally understands my struggle.

[@TheRokstar13]

No my channel is just really old I realized it said that. So thank you for showing me for preventing future embarrassment hahaha

[@da96103]

Where is this place? That's nice.

[@ichigothehedgehog1173]

Blake I can only pray that my children will be gay

[@stephenwaldron4213]

I never understood, why can seeing gay once turn kids gay, but seeing straight everywhere does nothing...

[@mgrace9871]

I once kissed my girlfriend in public and there was an old lady standing behind us and her gasp was priceless

[@athenaoliver1985]

Lmao amazing

[@awesomesauce5711]

Lol

[@Kyle-du7rb]

Gotta mcr

[@jewelianagrace]

are you as gay as Castiel and Dean? (your profile is amazing)

[@skytterd9491]

Kyle Rowen I'M- *G NOTE* TRIGGERED

[@alexmurray47]

I stare at all couples holding hands regardless of gender because I just can't help it, it's cute as heck

[@belfort.belmont9917]

Honestly though.. ME To0-

[@xxashleythefoxx6765]

Agreed

[@crazycreeper3653]

Same

[@SH-sj4km]

CrazyCreeper 365 ea

[@bruhboi2741]

a girl at school said "lesbihonest'' when i walked out of the locker room holding my girlfriends

[@Brizzontherocks]

I love sayin that

[@julieg2603]

lmaooo

[@fid.firdhaus]

I learned that from Fat Amy...nobody realised at school I said that all the time lol...

[@deadaccount7641]

arch boi that’s genius, I’m using for my gf now lmao

[@dotunderscoredot2041]

@acountryname jersey she meant "girlfriend's hand"

[@palacioed17]

Your hair looks sexy pushed back. Please tell him, that his hair looks sexy pushed back. :)

[@naurrrre]

ah you, regina!

[@annatorrance7598]

lmao mean girls

[@monkeyluvr]

1:27 XD

[@nikitalollipop1696]

+Anna Torrance love that profile though

[@peterjames9076]

Your hair looks sexy pushed back.

[@KayKay-cu6xg]

I don’t think men being in a relationship is not manly. I think men being able to express there love for other men is much more brave then straight men making gay jokes and saying being gay isn’t manly

[@gyuisthebeom]

Very true

[@jamerothy]

gay relationships will always be more manly than straight relationships. Double the guys, double the manliness.

[@JoelWalker56]

Jezz0 Double the testosterone💪🏻😎

[@Nina-sh1zs]

🙌🙌🙌

[@raylevi4575]

@@jamerothy Gay men divide the testosterone tho.

[@laurestongardens867]

"What's wrong? Am I not gay enough for you?" I'm actually dying this is amazing

[@patrickborro2000]

I truly believe humanity will get there. Just stay strong guys.

[@urbanjahts]

Of course we will. But I feel bad for the people who are dealing with it on the way there.

[@patrickborro2000]

Jahts ! Agree! It's always the first ones who get in the firing squad. But in some ways, it could greatly improve their characters as human beings in the end.

[@georgeabraham4026]

+nOnOy borbun I am an Indian and people in India hate gays,they throw gay people out of the society and i am really afraid to get out of the closet :( Any suggestions?(please)

[@Christina-eh2es]

+Random Human we don't need people like you with terrible grammar.

[@georgeabraham4026]

Dina Berhe truly said👍

[@untidyecho9916]

When people are homophobic it sort of hits me in the stomach, because I've got used to the normality of being gay that when someone is homophobic it brings me back to the fact that people dont see me as normal and it kinda makes me feel sick...

[@flutedscissors9655]

I was like that until I saw how helpless they were and it's kinda hopeless to take offense from it

[@awesomemilkshake6612]

Yeah, I've been struggling with my sexuality, but just walking in the street and hearing some homophobic comments. I felt really hurt and mad... idk, perhaps I'm still new to.. everything

[@tiffythekewlchick3457]

Same

[@markporter9075]

Before COVID, one weekend afternoon, a pastor (decent looking man in his 40s) and a group of young people were trying to preach to gay men on the corner of Castro and 18th Streets in San Francisco, right in front of BofA. I have thought more than once about how horribly lost in unreality that pastor was. The idea you could talk a gay person out of being gay seems bizarre to me. The ignorance of what gay people walking by have likely gone through at the hands of religion or at least what they have contemplated to live functional lives shocks me. And who was the pastor trying to persuade? Passers by or himself?

[@oyleday0195]

I'm gay and I stare at other gay couples just because it makes me so happy inside... Sorry!

[@CTH9821]

im exactly the same. it fills me with joy to see happy gays.

[@ezenwasamuelbryan720]

Me too😄😄😄😆

[@Flareontoast]

same!! I get super happy!!! Also my girlfriend and I look super good together👀

[@sugarkats21]

+Julian Doyle SAME and I'm not even gay

[@caityowl3752]

We gay people act like excited puppies when we see other gay people, honestly.

[@loveveil8428]

"which one's the man?" um... neither of us. we're both women. That's why we're together. Because we're gay women...

[@jimmyneutron4329]

Thanks SJW; now please be offended by everything else a man does

[@tasyasyafira5406]

@@jimmyneutron4329 you are the one that be offended by everything

[@munira5672]

"We get mistaken for siblings" opposite happens to the Winchester brothers 😉

[@theflaminggaminggay1095]

Munira Hassan You are the best 😂😂

[@kristianblack5140]

Oh my gosh!! Scrolling through BuzzFeed comments not related to SPN and look what I find!!! 😂❤❤❤👍🏽💕

[@lx3061]

I literally thought of that lmaoo

[@tochiekwueme4577]

Haha supernatural cuties

[@bakloldogg1078]

Wattpad smuts

[@Greetingsfriends915]

A few days ago a drunk:ish man came up to me and my girlfriend and said "I just want you to know: I get so happy when I see girls who love each other like you do. I'm fine with that!" I'm a guy.

[@KTGMetalheadSwiftie]

Scott Rat HAHAHAHA I found this extremely funny

[@stayhydrated2371]

What even 😂

[@Nok_Sul]

Lol get rekt.

[@emmajean3797]

Drunk words are sober thoughts

[@CJ-dn4zr]

"I'm a guy "😂😂😂

[@GOod-wu7gs]

"...Unless your like both like Super Gay Looking. -But even then straight people seem to be like blind to that." LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

[@GOod-wu7gs]

Rustoro You're very pretty Rustoro. Its been a long time since I told someone that. Cheers!

[@dainah105]

You want people to automatically know your gay because some "look super gay" but then everyone gets pissed when people stereotype? Uhhhhh bit of a loop hole

[@pallasa]

Straight people ARE blind tho!!!! Can I get an amen

[@ToutCQJM]

But why would you assume anyone is in a relationship? I think saying “your friend” is always safe.

[@giovannicallisto9037]

STOP👏ASKING👏WHO'S👏THE👏GIRL👏IN THE👏RELATIONSHIP 👏 The whole point of a *G A Y* relationship is that we're either both girls, or neither.

[@ihatealgebra2431]

No, I don't want to be a versatile bottom, for the record...

[@Kyydon]

I feel like it's easier to hide a lesbian relationship than a gay relationship. If you see two girls at a restaurant or at a movie together you typically won't think anything of it, but if there were two guys in the same place it would just seem more like a relationship. Is it just me that would think that, or is it just society?

[@garyjaycat]

Yeah. It kind of is society.

[@InUnderstandingMe]

It's also harder for a guy to come out to than a woman. Society almost sees female homosexuality as a positive, look at all the female celebrities who claim to be bisexual just so they can be edgy.

[@Vanessacabesa]

+That Is My Prerogative bisexual denial is a real thing though. Bisexuals are often not accepted by gays or straights, and are told they're faking it. Why is their sexuality not valid enough? Do you know anything about those celebrities' private lives? No, how can we? So, don't deny someone's right to come out, just because their sexuality (or gender for that matter) doesn't fit into a perfect box of gay or straight.

[@InUnderstandingMe]

+Vanessacabesa it seems like you're turning my comment into something it isn't to fight an argument you have with someone else. I wasn't talking about everyday individuals. Please find the right person to argue with because I haven't got time to read pointless essays.

[@boredunitato7601]

I think that's even more accurate when you're talking about latin americans (as a girl who lives in brazil), cuz like i'm used to see female friends just holding hands for no reason and like hugging each other in an intimate way and even dancing romantically and stuff... It's reeally confusing trying to figure out if they're just friends or not, that's why it's such a fun thing to do (or i'm the only one who finds it fun, which is quite likely)

[@cammybear1288]

I'm 14 I came out when I was 12 and my girlfriend and I both have brown hair and she has green eyes and I have blue and we're the same height and people either assume we're sisters or best friends so I brought her to a Dance and I kissed her and my math teacher was like "woah u guys must be pretty close friends" I said "we're gay" he gave us detention, I'm gonna sue him I swear omfg

[@darby1220]

I legitimately don't think that's legal, giving detention because you are gay.

[@zeitgeist1762]

Detintion wasnt needed but he couldve assumed that u two were close like some straight girls do that. but they kiss on cheek

[@WormInATrenchcoat]

+shooky jim 😂😂

[@cammybear1288]

Marvel Fangirl what did he even say? Lol

[@WormInATrenchcoat]

Cammybear12 I don't even remember, lol. 😂

[@witchoforacles]

me: my pride flag came! :D friend: if you support gay rights, you’re gay me: ... me: *i support animal rights, do i look like an alpaca to you?* friend:

[@cheffren7011]

Sorry for the late reaction but I just had to comment. This just made my day. I'm going to use that for now on.

[@antonymeanonyme8944]

This is the best comment ever !

[@skyhideaway]

I mean, technically humans are animals, but I get your point.

[@j.hindle9243]

My girlfriend and I haven't really had much trouble. A few funny looks, but the funniest thing was the guy walking his dogs who went "Yeah, lesbians!" when we kissed. All three of us had a laugh about it.

[@ella9666]

J. Hindle that’s so great😂

[@selmaz7722]

They put little pride flags on the busses here in sweden cute af

[@kingflynxi9420]

We had sainsburys sponsoring our pride festival

[@kellywu6092]

There was a train in London with a rainbow on the side of it with 'Travel with Pride' :))))

[@kylac3477]

"Pride flags"

[@kylac3477]

I'm proud I'm an Italian, do I get an Italian flag on the side of the bus? yeahhhh no .

[@xLovePeaceAndHope]

+Ky's Diys do you not understand the idea of words having certain meanings within different contexts? Lol. Hang an Italian flag on your car and I'm sure people will get the message

[@carenxatu5962]

My favourite comeback that I came across to that line: “who’s the woman/man in the relationship?” Is: “Uh... neither of us? That’s kind of the point.”

[@camillac7845]

If I'm looking at a gay couple, it's probably because I think they're cute, not meaning to stare at all!

[@willow_9623]

Or like the inner gay in me is coming out and I can't help but stare because yessss people like me 😂😂

[@carlmosby1582]

if i stare it's most likely because it's gay and my stomach is turning😂

[@carlmosby1582]

kevin michael gross

[@BadAce42]

"Gaylord". Wow. That transported me right back to 2008.

[@carlmosby1582]

BadAlice well glad i can help it wasn't a bad year (....i don't think it was)

[@JamesV84]

To be fair, they do look a bit like siblings...

[@JamesV84]

+Ka P And I think the lips too. It probably doesn't help that they sport facial hair in the same areas too...

[@rhythmf.4460]

I ruined the 69 thumbs up.Mwahahahahaaa

[@JamesV84]

***** Hahaha. If they didn't bring it up, then we wouldn't have given it a thought I bet, they have only themselves to blame :)

[@minaisfab17]

I, as well, think they look like they're brothers

[@JamesV84]

Rhythm F. 69 does not last long when done well. we can aim for 6969 thumbs up :)

[@kalamansikka]

I'm a short and feminine guy but I'm also a dominant person and prefer to top so life is hard

[@Marceau.]

that's hot 💖 the best thing about sexuality is that it comes in all shapes and forms, yet there are always plenty of people that match yours!

[@paulan2598]

Sounds exactly like Louis Tomlinson

[@its_a_poncho]

That is really hot

[@rolandmelles4484]

+Paula N Yup hi Louis

[@apollovvv]

@@paulan2598 I screamed

[@kmac6118]

OOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHH LESBIANSSSS!!!!!!!!! 😂😂😂 I can't it's too good xDD

[@ipunchanythingipa6770]

That woman is boss af

[@PizzaBerryCrunch]

+Carameltorchthem Lesbi honest its pretty exciting to see lesbians

[@kmac6118]

+PizzaBerry Crunch I am a lesbian, so yes XD

[@tomiekapper3427]

I replayed that so many times... XD

[@blkberri]

She sorta sounded like Mey-Rin from Black Butler (dub) when she said that.

[@scarlettwolf3903]

People do stare at me and my girlfriend so we just act more obviously gay.

[@cowchips1191]

Scarlett Wolf I'd do the same 😂

[@tozmarauders4187]

like oh hello MY GIRLFRIEND HEY MY GIRLFRIEND YES I SAID GIRL FRIEND because we're HOMOSEXUALS HOMOSEXUALS you say? oh yes girlfriend that's nice

[@ref3665]

Ellenor P-B I've gotta try this tomorrow!

[@tozmarauders4187]

Toxcique I literally forgot I even wrote this! I made myself laugh because I don't even know how I came up with it 😂😂😂😂

[@tozmarauders4187]

Toxcique what happened?

[@ThoreClips10]

In Vietnam and Japan, gay couples are like the most precious things in school. Many teenage girls would die to see two guys holding hands or kissing each other. They worship gay couples.

[@minhhuyle43]

Aesir Thor Yeah but only girls though, boys will gross out if they see a gay couple kissing.

[@maritrndal815]

it's honestly just as bad imo

[@minhhuyle43]

Shalini Rampersad Go fool somebody else.

[@juliasofiagalindo2106]

The situation is a little tricky in the Aisan culture. While homosexuality is heavily fetishized, it has little real support (culturaly or legally). Gay is still a "bad" or "wierd" thing that makes the vast majority of people uncomfortable. Other than the fan girls, that is.

[@KyoKoamaru]

Aesir Thor In vietnam? im vietnamese living in germany and my parents don't like gay people at all , they think it is gross and wrong... little they know that im gay

[@mourryefieth8676]

"even if you're like super-gay looking, straight people seem blind to that.." haha Killed it xD

[@jube1443]

The plaid guy was so cute. Ugh the cute ones with style are always taken or gay.

[@jube1443]

why so agressive

[@thatme3109]

because the stereotypes are stereotypes that's why

[@chuugummy975]

That's because gays are Fa-Fa-FABULOUS! xD

[@thatme3109]

+Lymarie Guzmán Pérez ew

[@thatme3109]

+Korra Sammi lmaoooooooooooo k really great argument thanks for bringing in the way I look as an actual argument

[@rey7318]

"Aww siblings!" *kisses each other* "Aww Luke and Leia!"

[@greyardwhite2683]

I'm so happy because i haven't seen a single homophobic comment and that the number of dislikes is just as high as under every other video! \(^,^)/

[@greyardwhite2683]

C heart I couldn't care less what you like.

[@emilypost4734]

Xx BigBoss xX Because you're being ignorant to the meaning of those two words and are using them like they are no big deal.

[@LifeLikeSage]

+Xx BigBoss xX "+D0M1N1C4N4L1F3 that actuly kinda makes sense but i thought there was a gene or something well actully none found yet but idk " There would be no one gene responsible, instead a group working together in a complex manner.

[@LifeLikeSage]

Xx BigBoss xX Single genes aren't responsible for complex outcomes like behaviors. Genes specifically code for proteins, and the number of protein differences responsible in the brain for someone to be gay isn't hard to extrapolate.

[@LifeLikeSage]

Xx BigBoss xX Not a doctorate, but I study genetics. Get any genetics book and you can learn about things such as "co-dominance" between genes, where groups of genes have changing influence on phenotypical (traits you can see) traits based on the presence of one, two, more, or none.

[@maxhu4976]

I had a gf who, I'd kiss her in front of my friends on the mouth, and this one friend I had just thought we were very close friends. Haha. Oh yeah, just pals making out, that's all.

[@charlieclark9552]

Fuma Fu maybe she had a few friends with benefits if you know what I mean

[@charbanfield4674]

"Just pals making out."

[@jelenagavrilovic282]

just gals being pals

[@avastars3393]

@@charlieclark9552 lol

[@ashleycofield2026]

Honestly I’m in middle school and there are so many LGBTQ people in my school and it’s amazing and I’ve met so many amazing people and I could come out as gay to almost any person there and have it be chill.

[@Anna-fc5pk]

Wait same but I’m not going to yet bc I’m terrified despite being in a pretty welcoming environment oop idk why tbh

[@elysiabackup889]

@@Anna-fc5pk Take your time, you'll know the perfect moment to come out.

[@verenant4567]

Meanwhile I'm in grade 8 Jamaica where it is extremely homophobic . I can't even give the slightest hint I'm gay .

[@marianoalb7272]

0:19 Sir, I wouldn't have any problem introducing you as my boyfriend tbh.

[@LeahWolfMSP]

(͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

[@dougn2350]

The guy at 0:42 is my preference

[@jackandmore5358]

Mariano Alb ii

[@HodlinC]

You’re both gross. Beards are disgusting.

[@_TheAlexLee]

D N agree 💯! What’s his name?

[@valcomm5]

i think you guys should make a buzzfeed rainbow

[@olising8843]

Yes!!!

[@britneyarmyalwaysforever5341]

Definitely, for all the videos like this.

[@werew0lfboyfriend]

yes

[@shabawupd3128]

YAAAAS OMG I WOULD SUBSCRIBE SO FAST

[@faqr22]

Smokes A Rollin YAAAS

[@yeehaw8765]

My boyfriend's bi, and he's awwweesssoommmeee when he told me he thought i was gonna freak but i just looked at him for 2 seconds cuz i never suspected and said ok and just went on with my day.

[@catinabox3048]

​@@ozgunerenozkan7310 Do non-bi people ALL cheat on their partners because there are more people of their preferred gender than just their partner alone? That's essentially the same question. Why do you assume that being attracted to a certain gender (or genderS in this case) as a category means that their partner is not enough for them?

[@ihavenoidea2805]

@@ozgunerenozkan7310 freaking doja cat on your profile picture is bi

[@latinstalin1131]

eVERYONE IS BRITISH YES

[@YumiBow101]

English=

[@latinstalin1131]

+Ushio Bird (UshioBird) close enough :))))

[@glencoconut]

But English is a language... Wouldn't British be right? Unless you meant they're from England specifically...

[@arabellat]

i think they're all english anyway though

[@YumiBow101]

Glen Coco Well, a British person could be speaking English, Welsh, Scots, Cornish or Scottish Gaelic.

[@laceyshea6475]

"we get mistaken for siblings all the time" I CAN RELATE SO HARD. This one time, I kissed my girlfriend as I was leaving the locker room, and this girl was like, "Oh, was that your sister?" And I'm like, "Who?" And she's like, "The girl you just kissed." Like, do you hear yourself? ;-;

[@silver8334]

SINCE WHEN DID BUZZFEED HAVE A BRITISH BUZZFEED?! I FEELLLL COMPLETEDDDDDDDDD

[@Domolikesyoshi]

Marvellous Maddie! Always has

[@crystalxoxox7691]

yesterday i was watching this ADORABLE lesbian couple on the train and one of the girls gave me a dirty look and was like "what are you looking at?" And i said "yous just look like a great couple" and she's like "what. because we're lesbians?" and i laughed a bit and said "no... because i like when anyone has a great relationship. its cute and everyone deserves to be happy. and yous are publicly showing it which i admire so much. even straight people when they show their love, i admire it" and the other was like "thats so nice" and we all kinda just small talked until i got off. made my day

[@blue_cameron]

Crystal xoxox creep

[@quoi3826]

קמרוןSnipethemapplesקמרון he’s not a creep

[@jenjen2239]

thanks for sharing! that was hella creepy

[@boobabloobi]

I didn’t know telling someone that they’re relationship was cute was creepy?

[@flutedscissors9655]

Creep

[@emmaformanova9808]

I feel bad, my mom stares at gay couples & it looks like she's saying bad things from afar but really she's like "I can't get enough of these cute gay men staring at each other with puppy eyes!" My mom was raised in a country where it was NOT ok to be gay, lez, bi or pan (reason I'm not naming trans is because it was the cold war & they had NO IDEA what the outside world was like & had nothing from the west.) So she's always so happy to see a gay couple! Sorry if it makes anyone uncomfortable...

[@thijskooiker5501]

that is so cute

[@emmaformanova9808]

Thijs Kooiker It's SO ADORABLE!!! XD

[@marshmarshwell364]

If only more European countries felt the same as your wonderful mum.

[@donovantan5962]

Emma formanova oh god my parents are the same but in Singapore i dont think its legal for people to be gay yet (pls correct me if im wrong) so my parents are quite against gays that makes me sad

[@amelia4384]

Emma formanova A?

[@garrythesnail1900]

1:27 he looks so so so much better with his hair up. He just turned from a 6 to a 10 for me 🔥🔥🔥

[@peterh9986]

He looks so much like Sam Claflin to me with his hair down

[@lix1330]

Are they still together?

[@shaunzanyusof2102]

Bet you’d turn from whatever to a 10 too if you’d just stfu

[@KiltedGreen]

Hair down for me 🙂

[@jtaylor669]

i hope that someday there's not a fear over coming out. i'm open around my friends, but my family has no clue

[@ilazia9646]

+Rok Adanza same

[@lemonlimekebab5064]

Same here

[@LucaRocha2012]

same here

[@tyshanl6483]

same

[@Sorakeyblademaster37]

I'm the opposite.

[@president-owen6267]

I'm waiting for the day where no one comes out you could be a girl and say you have a crush on another female and people would not think twice about it

[@stayhydrated2371]

I'm waiting for the day when straight people have to come out. I'm not looking forward to it, I'm just waiting

[@kinghaza2440]

Lord Cinnabon Well if that days comes I’ll be the first to come out as straight

[@waifu_png_pl6854]

@@stayhydrated2371 giving one person freedom does not mean you have to take it from another person. i hope straights will never have to come out because its stupidly embarrasing

[@pearl9731]

Lord Cinnabon this is literally stan twitter

[@taylornotwolferd1513]

My family doesn't believe I'm bisexual because they've never met any girl I'm dating. Little do they know they have. Yettttt they still don't believe me😂😂

[@boobabloobi]

Taylor NotWolferd 😂

[@lexiealbert7072]

I stared at lesbians in McDonald's a few years ago. I looked because I knew I was like them. I regret looking though, they probably thought I was giving them a homophobic kind of look.

[@ingridode7488]

LexieLouise same me not in mcdonalds tho and im bi

[@moprolackofuploads1674]

LexieLouise I did that at a beach one time and I feel really guilty!

[@sparklemotion1018]

+LexieLouise Don't assume that the couple you stared at thought you were homophobic. People look at each other for all kind of reasons. Unless you said something weird or mean, they probably didn't focus on you at all - it's likely they were too busy thinking about the abominations they were about to put in their mouths (ie, their McDonald's meal).

[@TR-in9lp]

We as a community are far too excitable. Comparable to dogs seeing other dogs really.

[@wallowsem]

Why do I find it so satisfying when I hear my own accent on a channel that usually has other accents on but if it's just a British channel then I don't care😂😂😂

[@9_in_the_afternoon]

I'm with you on that one!!

[@bluechipboolasane5793]

same im british too

[@beccarino]

Yeah same but it's kind of got to the point where I don't always even know if it is an American or British accent because I'm so used to hearing both lol

[@wcnders]

the other day I saw this cute lgbtq+ couple and I smiled at them while other looked in disgust. I'm 13 and I was the only teenager there.

[@chithramahadevan]

\(^,^)/

[@plewanika]

Who's like me and doesn't give a damn if someone sees me holding my partners hand or kiss them

[@awesomenathan100]

Unicorns For Life I wish

[@leanneaguilar9473]

Penguin I don't care but my girlfriend does : (

[@joshbishop7134]

Penguin lol mans single af

[@michellesmirnova4471]

Penguin As long as people don't stand in the way or kiss at the most random places (in a kinda stand in the way thing) it's fine to kiss your partner according to me but I've seen a bunch of couples that kiss in the middle of a crowded store or something and that annoys me because they're standing in the way of people

[@Nina-dk1sb]

Dude honestly Idgaf if anyone sees me on the streets kissing my gf or whatever bc i kinda do not feel hurt by any verbal insults as long as they dont attack me physically it's all goood😬

[@Ikwileennieuwenaam_]

Tbh i wouldnt date anyone that looks like me.

[@brittanyjeanne9078]

me neither. that's just too weird

[@Ikwileennieuwenaam_]

Brittany Jeannè ikr! :p

[@twr4555]

Erm

[@MyUploadedLifeJD]

We actually subconsciously are attracted to people who look like us and the more you look like the person you're dating the higher chance you'll stay together.. Of course that's not always the case but it happens very often

[@matthewream1309]

I would bc I'm kinda hot

[@williamking4021]

I cling to the hope that one day there wont be that horrible thing called "coming out" and that we can all just love who we love and not need any sort of conformation from others about it.

[@huhhwuhh]

I'm pansexual but I haven't been in a relationship with another woman... yet. still waiting for my first gf 😭

[@mack3599]

+carolinestories saaaame

[@KaregoAt]

+carolinestories Oh man same here, I hate how difficult it is to meet girls. I always think "Well, they're probably straight, don't bother..." and I'm also a bit afraid they might be really rude about it if they were straight.

[@kylieday5966]

im bi and same

[@adolfoMK3]

+carolinestories me too, and I'm straight and 27, lol

[@scribbleworld656]

+KaregoAt use the surge app

[@ThePurgatorians]

I was in a gay bar once with a friend who is lesbian and she kissed her girlfriend, there was this straight guy sat opposite with his friends, and I think girlfriend/wife too, who suddenly shouted 'eww, there's two girls kissing'. I cut out the expletives and shortened it but what did he expect when he visits a gay bar. This is supposed to be one place gay people can be themselves and enjoy a night out without the disgusting slurs from the homophobes. The worst homophobes though are the people who automatically thinks the word gay also means paedophile, I have met far too many people with that thought process.

[@aributera6241]

The Purgatorians I hope one day there wouldn't be such thing as a "gay bar" or "straight bar" I hope one day all couples would go to the same bar no matter what race or gender they are dating.

[@sof977]

You're stupid, aren't you Ari?

[@reddwarfer999]

@@sof977 You're the stupid one mate.

[@odin8352]

0:40 GOD! He is so adorable :Y

[@amyartlover]

IKR he's adorable!😍

[@vishnushankar7232]

@@amyartlover But I fell for his boyfriend 😂

[@boobabloobi]

Odin I kinda like his hair better when it’s in a quiff 😂

[@song7087]

What are their IGs?? 😭😭 I need that for my data collection purposes

[@evianuwu3836]

​@@song7087I need it too 😭😭

[@izziesmith1310]

As a British person it's really strange to hear my own accent on the internet, apart from the odd British KZbinr everything is centred around America (or a lot of KZbinrs are American etc) and I'm just so used to hearing an American accent! British pride WOOO!

[@TheSolitaryGrape]

+Izzie Smith You don't know the struggle of being Australian. Let's cry over accents together

[@hazzaspazza9]

Same!

[@discospaghetti6744]

ikr!!

[@Cammykazzy]

Now I just need bit of hot Scottish guys and I'll feel the pride ;D

[@izziesmith1310]

"apart from the odd British youtuber", i love them very dearly but the internet is still very Americanized

[@thetngon3285]

No one will have to come out one day . Yeah I hope so

[@gyuisthebeom]

I hope

[@jonathanlandau-litewski7405]

Believe it or not, I never ever came out. I just brought my other half home and introduced him- no big deal. Then I hear stories of people that have been too scared to 'come out' they literally end their own lives, it's absolutely heartbreaking.

[@ozurking4748]

Straight people: There's only two gender, you can only identify with the gender you were given at birth. Also straight people to gay men: Which one of you is the female in the relationship?

[@yanasimitchiyska9289]

😂

[@lawnbagel2792]

"Asking who is the male or female in a relationship is like asking which chopstick is the fork." - Ellen Degeneres

[@iPhelio]

Isn't weird? in the 1960's the people were fighting about skin colors. Today we are fighting for sexuality. I wonder whos going to be the Marthin Luther king Jr. now?

[@kennyRoyalzA]

+Kharmallow c; bernie sanders

[@jenblack98]

+Martin Harvey milk

[@nicoleraza8389]

harry styles :)

[@shannonbriggs100]

Ellen Degeneres

[@Josh-bu1kr]

They'll make a movie titled "12 Years Closeted"

[@kikie9991]

Daughter: Dad I’m Gay. Dad: Oh Other Daughter: Me Too! Dad: Geez is anyone in this house interested in men? Son: Me!

[@corxiiifelinike2643]

Keira Erlin 😂😂😂

[@avastars3393]

Plot twist

[@investigativejournalist3602]

That blond headed women is soo funny. Anyone know her name?

[@jasonzhao9641]

I know!! Especially when she laughed when she's says "Ew! Lesbians!"

[@investigativejournalist3602]

jason zhao Ikr lol!

[@jayelyyn]

"Dan and Phil's Story of TATINOF" came up as an ad before this, and it came out of nowhere and slapped me in the face.

[@asitas]

L. Richards I was thinking I log Dan and Phil the whole video 😂😂😂

[@stayhydrated2371]

p h a n

[@mirtesteyaert408]

*"One day, no one will have to come out maybe"* That's really one of my biggest dreams!

[@Nambazi]

One time this person was cleaning our house and I was like oh my partner will be back in a minute, and she was like you're married why are you calling them partner, that's what you call folks you share a business with lmfao

[@rachelgarber1423]

Kalisto Zenda Yes, my thoughts exactly

[@jonathanlandau-litewski7405]

My other half and I call each other 'partner' when speaking to people. 'Boyfriends' feels a bit immature as we've been together nearly 12 years and I'm nearly 40 so it's a bit juvenile to me personally.

[@helinski7198]

i am straight myself but everytime someone finds out someone else is homosexual its like so much of a deal like " ooh i wouldnt have thought" or when theyre around its like a really weird atmosphere . its just so annoying and confusing to me like why ? why is it something so weird to you

[@lidiaappell8072]

some of my friends and i have like no boundaries. like we sleep in the same bed, go to the bathroom together but like its not like sexual or anything we just like having company. anyone else or am i just being weird?

[@WinterRoseYT]

I've got to be honest, those two guys did actually look like they could easily be siblings XD Jist look at their eyes and cheekbones, they look related. I have absolutely nothing against the LGBTQIA community, everyone I know who's part of that community are absolutely great people, so please don't think I meant to offend :p I honestly think those two look like brothers!

[@KingkyLeor]

lol don't need to justify so much i think the same (i think it's because our preferences naturally aims for what looks kinda like family, or the exact opposite)

[@vanessahernandezcuevas2852]

ok so I was at the mall and this gay couple were holding hands walking out of hot topic and I screamed out loud "omfg they are the cutest gay couple ever" they looked at me blushed and kissed and I squealed :3

[@vins1979]

Everybody in this story just seem adorable!

[@vanessahernandezcuevas2852]

***** no I wish I would of cried

[@Emily-xr6ny]

Please stop

[@vanessahernandezcuevas2852]

Emily Edgeler please stop what??

[@Emily-xr6ny]

It's so uncomfortable for gay people when people squeal over them. Just treat them as normal people, they're not your pets that you can aww over.

[@marshallprods8747]

BuzzFeed has started to invade England

[@r_travel4306]

Kind of loving it though xD lol

[@TigerPrawn_]

I was trying to figure out their accents for the first minute! Always so used to hearing them having American accents & I'm like, wait! That's my accent!

[@r_travel4306]

***** haha I was the same!

[@necrobunnie6109]

+Marshall Prods It's mostly England that does the invading... #history

[@lloydy1510]

+Necro Bunnie lets be honest though the U.S. comes in a very close second #oil

[@amyartlover]

if I see a gay couple, I feel so warm inside cuz gay couples give me hope and let me remember that everyone has the right to love who they like

[@sazdocuments]

We as humans need to stop judging each other and respect other people more tbh

[@adriennestjacobs2841]

"Who wears the pants in the relationship?" I think the only proper response is "well we prefer it when neither of us are wearing pants."

[@brenon1441]

"Are you two brothers?" "yeah" Then lock lips and stare directly into their eyes.

[@QueensQuorner]

The two guys that are near the beginning look nothing alike...

[@myraann2003]

my ex and i were polar opposites look-wise. people still asked us if we were siblings :\

[@etienne8166]

Funny thing: People ask me if my boyfriend is my brother (we look nothing alike) AND they ask me if my brother is my boyfriend. So yeah... it seems this thing can go both ways.

[@katiebanning4335]

"ooo! Homo!" Me constantly

[@cnty8293]

"every month we by a new hamster" Me Constantly

[@shelbyzimmerman]

+Krishan Nath ...................................................................................

[@kimmunoz3764]

+Krishan Nath HAMSTER!

[@martinreinheimer8993]

I am guilty of staring at gay couples, sometime just because they remind of the beauty this world holds but mostly because of jealousy

[@unFayemous]

Is that how you properly pronounce Coif? This makes my past conversations just a bit more awkward...

[@unFayemous]

***** the french way? Idk 😂😅 like how the french pronounce "coiffeur"(without the "eur" part). Who decided that it needed to sound so much like " queef"?

[@Leighton7989]

Coif, as in the hairstyle?

[@unFayemous]

RejectVocaloid yeah, when the guy sort of styled his boyfriend's hair he mentioned it.

[@Leighton7989]

+unFayemous that's a quiff, lol. When he did that, though, I think I squealed a bit. (I'm a guy'

[@Leighton7989]

+RejectVocaloid (I'm a guy)*

[@lubnabegum3998]

'Lesbeheckling' omg😂😂😂

[@elscourou6654]

i saw two men holding hands whilst shopping with my mum. she said 'bless them, they've brave.' i said to her 'they're not brave. they are natural.' because it is natural and you shouldn't need to be brave to show love; everyone anywhere deserves to express their affection towards who they love, without fear of discrimination, or worse

[@kimmyhalley4115]

The worst thing (to me) though is when someone you met says ¨Oh, you´re gay? What a waste, you are actually quite handsome!¨ So... how is being gay a waste? I always feel like telling them ¨I don´t see the problem. You see, even if I was straight I wouldn´t be dating you¨

[@orionkw7373]

Being a transgender pansexual isnt all that fun, when I had my girlfriend people kept asking if we were lesbians, but when I said I was a guy they asked if we were straight and then we both said no (because she was bi) and they just kept asking and asking

[@lunasheadspace9297]

Same here

[@smat7388]

Struggle: you can’t walk in a public place holding hands without getting death stares, overly excited smiles, slurs, cheers and sneers all at once. Literally makes you think the world is crazy and you’re the only sane one.

[@nienkeh301]

i can understand that people would assume you're just friends. it might be rude, but assuming that two friends are in a relationship seems even more rude

[@heymikkao]

That guy should leave his hair up

[@sven4955]

The one singular time I held hands with my (now ex)boyfriend, we got stared and laughed at by two guys passing by. It took me forever to finally feel comfortable with the idea of holding hands with him in public so when this immediately happened I was super embarrassed.

[@sydneydawidowska9206]

Can we just appreciate how perfect the gay couple is, thank you.

[@iwuvwu123]

It took me the whole video to realise ALL of them were British

[@cyber_katie1845]

Honestly idk if I’m Pansexual or Asexual I don’t care about gender, just personality but I have never had a crush...... I honestly don’t know xD just gotta wait I guess

[@Imnya]

Phan is love Phan is life If you haven't already, you may want to check AVEN (asexuality.org) out. Lots of great people there who can help you figure yourself out if you need it. And if you turn out to be pan or anything else, that's cool, we'll still welcome you. (:

[@YinYang-CisPanPolyF]

MemesOrNothin, I’m Pansexual you’ll settle it’s process I was Heterosexual then Bisexual now I settled and I am Pansexual~I realized I’m Pansexual because I am attracted to Various-Multitude sexual orientations and psychological gender

[@saryjackson1493]

Same

[@kroduss4802]

!! I used to think I was strictly lesbian (oof I was wrong, lmao, say hello to the PAN) So, you'll figure it out eventually!!

[@TheManaPrism]

If you find a good personnality hotter than a good body, maybe you're sapiosexual. And if you don't have any sexual attraction but you still can fell love (in a "couple" way), maybe you're asexual but not aromantic

[@WoodlandT]

as an American my fear with holding my boyfriends hand in public isn't being stared at. I can deal with that. my fear runs between being verbally harassed to being beaten even to being killed. it's unfortunate

[@tuulitaika8836]

I'm pansexual but I get mistaken for a lesbian all the time ! Just because I have short hair and sometimes like to dress as a boy does not mean I only love girls !

[@el3733]

Same !

[@Lowrider_bassethounds]

what do u expect people cant read what u are or like they only judge u from the way you dress and well when people think of lesbiens they see a buch and tomboy . most people dont even know what pan is . what else do u expect?

[@RandomNirvanaSXE]

Pansexual is bisexual. All you do is confuse people for absolutely no reason.

[@honeytree5419]

Ralphie Wiggum No, pansexual is not the same as bisexual. People who are pansexual love all genders (transgender, gender fluid, etcetera) While people who are bisexual love both male and female.

[@CovertAgent7]

My boyfriend and I have been mistaken as siblings for our entire relationship (over 6 years).

[@noahahn4773]

I laughed at the siblings part because whenever I see two girls together, I automatically think, "GAY!!!!!!" and feel so happy that a gay couple will go out in public without fear or shame, and then I realize that the girls are either sisters or friends :(

[@Jay-O_Carlow]

why hate on these people??? i dont get it!! :/ ,,,i really dont! ,,at the end of the day we are all human and NO ONE has the right to judge no one has that right,we all can make our own choices and to anyone that abuses people that are diff need to look at there self and to anyone who does judge people,,it screams massive amounts of information about them and how they were brought up and how uneducated they are imo

[@StudioUAC]

+JAY O except when a person is religious, then they are the spawn of all evil in this world~~~~~~~~~~~~~

[@Jay-O_Carlow]

StudioUAC not all,,but yea defo i agree to a percentage,,,like its the cause of nearly every single war and so on so i do agree with you,,but not everyone,,people can be religious and loving

[@StudioUAC]

why can't the world just agree that no one is right & we're all assholes

[@anonymoussecret912]

First off, not all religious people hate LGBTs with a burning passion. We just have nut jobs. Secondly, Revolutonary War, Civil War, Mexican American, Cold War (sort of counts), Korean War, Vietnam, World War 1, all have absolutely nothing to do with religion. I've been on both sides at different times of my life, and it really irritates me when people don't bother to check their facts before attacking organized religion.

[@anonymoussecret912]

+StudioUAC Sorry, forgot to tag. Didn't want to write that over again.

[@kaitlynbarnacle92]

It's great that now I can be totally out in public and school.

[@turby9401]

I live in America and it is IMPOSSIBLE to go anywhere holding hands without everyone staring at you and making a big deal about it. I acutely remember one of my first dates in which my girlfriend and I went to the movies and this group of teenagers behind us were loudly exclaiming "Oh my god look! Awwwww, lesbians!" after I put my arm around her. They then, with the FLASH ON, took a photo of us! It was absolutely revolting the way they were acting despite it not being "homophobic". TL/DR: Straight people, stop acting like gay couples are there for your amusement. We're gays, not puppies.