Struggling to Balance Family Life & Fixing Our Cabin

[@KalleFlodin]

Nothing makes me happier and feel more meaningful than creating memories like this as a family ❤

[@Saevitia0815]

@KalleFlodin For real you dont own an ushanka in that area dafuq? Buy one imediatelly, that hippy whoolhat wont keep you warm when you need it the most. Just buy one with real fur not crappy syntetic shit. Thank me later. Im commuting all year and after i jumped over my shadow/resentiments im loving that damn piece of cloth. edit: ok ok i did it again i should watch the full video before commenting. xD so you own one already. 🙃

[@bethshepherd8975]

Hi Kalle... I'm a 66 year old woman with 2 grown kids and never comment on people's shares, especially when the topic is so tender, but listening to you share your missing of Christine, my throat and chest ached. I felt heartsick for you both. In my experience, putting your partner first is the best way to assure happy, well adjusted children. If your heart is aching from missing Christine, they will feel it and in some way compensate for your unmet longings. They are tiny antenna, so sensitive and receptive of unexpress or unmet longings. They will take on these emotions and make them their own. It will not promote peace and well being for any of you. I admire your desire to give August your best but honestly, Christine and you are the ones who need each others best ...then August will experience the overflow of tenderness and warmth between his Mama and Daddy. Sending you so much love and desire for your best life ...all of you.

[@royalicing8603]

Wise words!

[@lauraquigley6403]

Absolutely agree!

[@mildredmorine745]

100% right have to get your priorities straight, what is most important no 1.

[@laurafeistner4681]

Yes! Parent's relationship must come first. It is the best gift you can give August as he develops and grows. Everything Beth said is true!! Any psychologist will agree.

[@las174]

this is a very thoughtful observation

[@dennishollinghurst7220]

Hi Kalle, I live in Scotland and I am a retired Police Dog Handler (K9). This is a tip for dealing with the dogs casting hair. In Scotland we have a thing called a Chamois Leather that is used for cleaning glass and such things but it is one of the best things for dealing with casting dogs. If you have the same thing in Sweden all you have to do is wet the chamois leather, squeeze the excess water from it and then give the dogs a thorough massage with the chamois leather but always do it outside as the amount of loose hair coming from the dogs will be unbelievable. I used this technique on my rough coated German Shepherd Dogs to great effect and the dogs love the rough massage. I hope this helps.

[@KalleFlodin]

Interesting! I'll try it out for sure, thank you for letting me know 😊

[@natuerlichgluecklich]

Dear Kalle, I hope your ears feel better soon and that you don't suffer any permanent damage. Thank you for sharing your emotions. I could sympathize with you very well. All the best to you and your family

[@marydonofrio8116]

I'm so sorry to hear about your ears. Well wishes to you. Good job on the renovations, and thank you for sharing your feelings on everything you are feeling pressure on. You are not alone.

[@margaretfraser9610]

Kalle you are a good soul! Remember that. Have faith in yourself and I hope Christine appreciates you and your efforts to be there for everyone.

[@KalleFlodin]

She really does 🥰

[@VonL1963]

What a lovely idea to put your hand prints on the fireplace, Kalle. Thank you for another great video. 😊

[@andreaparksfiske121]

having a child does change your relationship in ways you didnt even imagine. im so glad you talked with christine about this as it sounds like she might have been feeling similar emotions. remember to make time for just the two of you. when he sleeps, or playing by himself for a few minutes. my husband will "steal" little moments with me and dont you know, i love it! having a commited relationship takes work, but it is worthwhile! august will see how much you love each other and it will shape the kind of man he will become. ❤

[@jacquietremain5743]

I can't believe August has grown so much and so beautiful. No family runs perfectly balanced all the time. I was 22 had 3 girls under 3 my husband at work of course. No car no other family no friends. We all survived believe it or not. I'll be 72 in a fortnight. You all doing fine.❤❤❤❤

[@BettyKoehler-zg5sv]

Adding your handprints to your fireplace is so sweet! What a nice forever memory! Kudos to fixing your frozen pipe! A good habit to get into when the temps drop is to leave your below sink doors open, so the heat in the house can warm that area. Kalle, you are such a sensitive sweet soul, and it is understandable that you get overwhelmed. Please don’t be so hard on yourself. Christine is your perfect partner, and loves you dearly. She wanted to know what you were upset about so she could help you feel better…..the same you would do for her. Spending time with August at this stage of his little life is time you will never regret….or get back. Raising children is the hardest most rewarding job you will ever have. Christine surely misses your time together, too, so maybe you can “schedule” a time you can be together….just the two of you. It doesn’t need to be for hours, just some time together that you can look forward to. Love from Pennsylvania 💕🌷🐻. P.S. The living room and kitchen fireplaces look beautiful!

[@Jo-Ry68]

There is so much beauty in this video! Success over those pipes! The fireplace and stove updates!! The new print!!! How big and beautiful your son is growing and the love and compassion shown by and to you and your gf from each other. I would say you are “winning at life” and one hard working and fortunate man. Congrats and continued success and wonders!!

[@anniewalden9697]

Stunning transformation of the fireplace and stove. Really grate!

[@SDJ8893]

Once a week date night for you and your girlfriend where without distraction, you are together alone. It can be a time to share thoughts, create a together memory, make a meal or simply sit by the fire in each others arms. I love the result but I love the sharing of the struggle/journey even more. Thank you.

[@laurafeistner4681]

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[@karenleighfischer8564]

I love this video. Placing your handprints on the fireplace will be something you can and will look on in the future with such memories. We have done this with our children, leaving a memory everywhere we have lived. And don’t worry about feeling overwhelmed and feeling frustrated. Everyone faces this as they go thru parenthood. Whether it be when you are a new parent, to raising teenagers, to adult children. It is a sign of how much you love Christine and August. You are doing an amazing job, as is Christine. Just as you learned, during the rough days. If you can still come together, talk, and support each other, you will both grow even stronger as a couple and parents. Always remember, never go to sleep without saying “I love you”. And each morning is always fresh, with no mistakes in it. A clean slate. Keep doing what you both are doing, you got this. Thank you for all the videos, the inspiration, and the sharing of your beautiful family.

[@MedinaJones-j1t]

Kalle, you’re doing an awesome job!! I’m so amazed at how you handle each challenge that comes along!! Be encouraged!! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful family!!🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍

[@Shelty6]

It’s a huge adjustment adding a child to a relationship. It’s good that you and Christina could talk about it. It is normal to feel these feelings. Hang in there.

[@KalleFlodin]

Talking about truly is the key 😊

[@keithwatson7701]

Hi Kalie... I am a father of 3 wonderful girls. I understand your struggle dealing with being a dad, a provider, a boyfriend, etc. All I can say is try to be present in the moment and enjoy it. You and your girlfriend need to make time for eachother as well without your child. Time will fly and pass you by so try to live in and enjoy each moment regardless of the external pressures you have.

[@MedinaJones-j1t]

Dear Kalle-. I’m shedding happy tears when watching the into to this video!! It’s so beautiful that you, Christine& August put your handprints in the fireplace cement!! I know how challenging it is trying to deal with fixing the cabin in harsh weather!! I hope things work out well for you guys soon!! Please take care of yourselves and keep safe &warm!! Sending lots of love & prayers, from the US!!(Illinois)🙏🙏🙏😍😍😍

[@gratefulprepsnj]

You have a lot on your plate brother. It’s ok to feel overwhelmed sometimes. Great to have a good partner-that is everything. Glad you were able to fix your frozen pipe. Well done 👍

[@KalleFlodin]

Thank you or saying that ❤

[@dorisgr-rg4833]

Cabin is beautiful !!!! Hope you doing well again ! All the best for the family !!!❤🫂

[@cds65]

You are an example of how to live and enjoy life . ✨✨✨in family together

[@cds65]

🧑🏼🧔🏼👶🏼building emotions 🌎🤍👶🏼🧔🏼🧑🏼🌍🌠💫

[@mydreamofhome]

August's hand in the wet plaster is the sweetest memory.

[@KalleFlodin]

It sure is 🥰 I keep looking over at the fireplace several times a day just to look at it 🙈

[@mydreamofhome]

@@KalleFlodin I love your videos an following your progress and your family!

[@MaddyVillaItaly]

You’re a wonderful family Kalle 💖 I wish you all the best 🤗

[@KalleFlodin]

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[@QuesttoFIRE]

34:55 Listen, I don’t know a lot of Swedish yet, but I do know what jävla means, sir!😂😂

[@michellemilliman9180]

Hi Kalle, I absolutely loved this video! I love how honest and real you are. Don't be so hard on yourself. Easier said than done, I know. You're an Amazing person!! You have a heart of gold and it shines in everything you do. I will definitely be buying one of your prints. Take care of those ears. I've been living in the mountains off grid for over 10 yrs. I make stupid mistakes all the time. If it makes you feel any better, my whole outhouse caught on fire. Because of my stupidity. Put warm ashes too close to it. Can't tell you how lucky I was that it didn't start the forest on fire or my cabin. Thank you for all you do!! Much love to you, Christine and sweet August ❤

[@vanessavanderkramer6588]

Hi Kalle, I understand how you’re feeling and my heart goes out to you. Christine is lovely and brings a new vibe to the cabin which comes through even on videos. Little August is so beautiful! How blessed you and Christine are to be his parents. The work you have done on the cabin looks wonderful. It’s so cosy and a real home! It’s a beautiful place to raise a child! ❤

[@nilstenbrink1511]

Hi Kalle, congrats to 300K subscribers, well deserved, & thanks for providing High Quality Videos & Content. All the best for you & your familiy. Greets from Germany.

[@annmccoy6992]

You are a good guy. Christine is a good lady. The worst think we can do with those in our lives & especially with those we love, is to be silent, shut doors & remain resentful. You did good & so did Christine. Listen, these are stressful times. Most of us have heavy loads. Keep “doing” & “keep sharing!” Peace.

[@katesnow7]

remember Kalle, you have a lot going on. at once. you'll get it all done. you'll work it all out. just like the sink. it got done. the most important thing is your family and animals. you are very blessed. my thoughts and prayers are with you.

[@denizirisozbey1760]

Thank you, for being Kalle. God bless you all!

[@emilymcclellan8988]

Beautiful life Kalle. It's so challenging to balance family life... thank you for being so real and sharing your heart!

[@AngiePeladeau]

Kalle sometimes we are required to be so many things in this one beautiful life we forget that they are link into one another. Your work here on youtube, your prints, your renovations, all of those parts of you are ways you are a wonderful father and boyfriend.

[@sue1703]

You are doing such a great job trying to juggle everything. You are only one person and can only do so much. Taking time for yourself & time with Christine is important for your well being. Give yourself some 'GRACE''. Take care!💜

[@anniewalden9697]

I always wondered how you would cope with frozen pipes in areas that get snow, and especially out in the forest or remote areas.Thank you for showing us.It is a good thing to share emotions - there is a bit of this sweeping the world - good that you shared your emotion with Christine.We are in such great change in our world and on the planet. You are a most honorable man-and very courageous to share these aspects of the Human condition. We all go through it in different ways.Very refreshing to share with another- very inspiring. Thank You!

[@ericabellew8809]

As a new parent as well I can totally empathize with your feelings. Our daughter is almost 2 and we still struggle finding balance. I’m due with our next daughter in a month and we know all too well how challenging it can be. I imagine juggling two kids will be even more challenging. We’re so thankful for our growing family, but it’s so important to be honest about the challenges and tough feelings as well. I really miss my partner too. We just keep telling each other we know we’re on the same team and there’s a huge bond in that even if we feel like we’re passing ships in the night for this season.

[@christinemurphy7204]

I like you heart to heart talks. It’s nice to hear someone’s real thoughts. Today so many people are not so real. It’s good!!

[@aileenjackson1706]

Your not alone, we all have hard times, they will come and go.

[@marygee3981]

🎉hope your ear feels much better now. Boxers use arnica. I always keep it for anything sore. You can get it in a tincture and dilute it with water in a small spray bottle. Also in a cream. Looks very nice inside your cabin. You did so much work.🎉😊

[@mjmomo541]

Maybe a random comment, but I love the choice of music for this video!

[@KalleFlodin]

Not random at all, I spend HOURS choosing music for each video, so this made me really happy 🥰 Thank you ❤

[@tbohm31]

Well done Kalle for your perseverence🎉

[@erin535]

You're a good man Kalle and doing the best you can, please try not to be so hard on yourself.

[@Patricia-Wafoes]

What a beautiful video again. There was a lot to see. Love the renovations of your house, very cozy! Much love and inspiration.

[@YouTubeUser.Joy2024]

You, guys, are so lucky got that other house. You would have not made it without it. ❤ Be extremely grateful. True humility !!!

[@mer2635]

Your feelings are "normal" / common. Du ar inte ensam. Sometimes I just had to cry while I was getting things done... balancing work, spending time with my kids and their homework while cooking dinner at the same time; and the trying to keep up the household chores. Yes, I cried many times in the shower but I knew I had no choice but go through with the "motions" of getting done what needed to get done. In all of this, I had to remember not to take out my frustration on my kids. I had find a place to put all my anxieties and worries aside and to put on a strong, calm and reassurance for my kids. I get it!. Slighlty different situations but similar struggle to balance everything. Communications with Christine and you supporting each other will get you though these times. I had no one. You have each other. Always keep true the relationship you have.

[@kathiwright4849]

overwhelm is real as we juggle life, even under the trees and the aurora and magic of the woods. the stoves look fresh and lovely ❤

[@lindajones16]

The house looks so nice Right know you have a lot on your mind Soon it will be done and Christine and the baby will be able to move back in please take care of your ears frost bite is not a good thing Blessings

[@sharonstone-bh1zp]

I don't understand why the pipes are not insulated. Is this something you will be doing? Best wishes from Mexico. Please remember there is no need to be perfect, only good. Great job on the painting, the kitchen and living room look brighter. The photography is amazing. Congratulations on 300K!

[@labnurse1]

Looks so much better. Well done

[@lindapearson8137]

I made a mistake putting obviously to warm of oil in my ear and it started bleeding! I so appreciated the nurse’s help and encouraging words on the other end of the phone line!

[@lauralee83]

Very "MacGyver" of you, Kalle!! 👏 Patience and positivity win. ❤

[@NatureGirl1932]

Your fireplace and wood over/stove look so fresh and clean! So pretty! And I hope your ears are okay.

[@Shiryone]

From the plumbing situation, to working through emotions, to frostbite, none of these things are learned in a classroom. Critical thinking life skills are learned by living life and wanting to learn and grow. And you are doing very well. Always remember that we can't be on top of our game at all of the hats we wear 100% of the time. I've read that rubbing snow on frostbite is actually the best way to begin the thaw and healing. I hope you are better. The fireplace and stove look great, and the new photos are amazing.

[@sparkle6093]

Your videos are beautiful ❤️ Nothing more important than family.

[@KalleFlodin]

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[@sparkle6093]

Suppressing feelings is not healthy. Keep communicating. You have achieved so much in what is really a small amount of time. Deep breathe regularly and keep saying - this too will pass. One day at a time. You are only human. Don't let negativity take hold. Don't beat yourself up. Practice daily gratitude for all that is so good in your life. You are doing the best you can. You are doing better than so many people. No regrets, just experiences and lessons to learn. Perfection is subjective. ❤️❤️❤️

[@maricormier121]

You are a good dad and boyfriend. You have so many responsibilities...of course you are stressed. You are not complaining just expressing your feelings. There is a great saying in AA One Day at a Time.

[@miamolin]

Congratulation Kalle for the 300t. ❤❤❤

[@frankpaquet295]

The baby is so cute! He's growing a lot. Love your cabin and your hand prints! Great idea. (from Sandi)

[@kebhMI]

Kale, I think every new parent who is a caring person feels like you. It's such a huge change to have August who is completely dependent on you and Christine... You are not alone and thank goodness you have a caring partner.

[@Secular-Serenity]

You, Christine and most every other parent. It’s all normal, son. It’s blissful being a parent and the hardest thing you’ll ever do. You’ll be fine. Keep sharing feelings and concerns, talk it out and concentrate on your gratitudes.

[@Infinitepossibilitiesat56plus]

Congrats on 300,000! 🎉

[@KalleFlodin]

Thank you 🥰❤

[@georgiaturner8210]

What patience and determination!

[@MagdalenaTabor-s5i]

Kalle, try to remember that while August is this young it’s only temporary, then you will have more time with Christine again. I have a funny situation and similar just now. We have a four year old husky and six cats, six chickens also so it’s a lot of work but as we have no children they are considered to be our precious family. Well, our husky Dakota is too rough to play with the cats and he gets frustrated when he sees them playing with one another and he can’t join in. We decided to get another husky, a puppy just nine weeks old. We have had her for exactly one week and we are exhausted! She requires so much care and attention it’s almost like having a child so we have to take turns babysitting in order to get things done or have a little peace in between. So yes, I understand completely. You have a lot on your plate and are naturally overwhelmed. It’s good to talk things out….one day, hopefully soon, everything will fall into place and become easier. By the way, your house is looking wonderful, and I love the handprints! 🌲❤️🌲

[@reneeupdike2220]

So glad you hit the 300,000 subscribers! You earned this!

[@JeannineKilbride]

All throughout your life you will be learning from your mistakes. Don't be so hard on yourself.

[@Secular-Serenity]

Love the fireplace.

[@megantorri1711]

Great improvement that you have done to the cabin!❤

[@TeresaHayes-tk7fc]

You are the Master of your Universe! Way to go with the plumbing situation! Have you been leaving your cabinet doors open as I mentioned before? You can also run the water as a slow drip to prevent freezing in the pipes 😊. Being a new parent is totally overwhelming…you CANT be all things to all people and still be taking care of yourself. Totally understandable, and so good you and Kristine are able to communicate! Sometimes that’s all it takes. And you do miss your partner! We’ve all been there… and you both will figure it out as you go. The fireplace and stove look GREAT!

[@christinemcsunshine]

Frost bite is horrible I have permanent damage to some of my fingertips from it. It was cold but not as cold as it is there.

[@JulieCrawford-l8r]

Beautiful fireplace and stove and your print!❤

[@ajress]

Those gorgeous dogs are such a blessing to you!

[@kristagassib4702]

Kalle take care of those ears that sounds so painful. 😢Thank you for sharing the hard stuff with us, the human struggle we all share. You always teach me something, this time it was Kristina- be a better listener to my partner. ❤sending your family love 💕

[@KathleenFlesher]

Yes you are not alone babies are hard work but soon he will be much more of a partner in your life ❤️

[@KalleFlodin]

That's true 🥰

[@wheresrobbie]

Super nice renovations. I would have use antifreeze similar to the car fluid to shift the pipe ice or alcohol but either may be contentious !!haha. Love to you all and see you soon x

[@alisoncarey9546]

As a psychotherapists I can tell you that how your feeling missing your partner is completely normal and not one bit selfish. You have shown such bravery in being so open. I'm sure many many people will relate to you. Go gentle with yourself. Remember you matter too

[@billba]

God bless your family ❤!!!

[@sem1354]

Finaly a plumbing Video with Kalle ! .... You need a proper Drainage Pipe, ... 😂

[@juliakent2560]

The more kids you have the busier it gets lol and you adapt lol its good to not be so selfish 😀 and thats hard. Life is about these tiny people and its so wonderful...

[@lutzdreyer2473]

Hej from Florida!

[@KalleFlodin]

Hej from Sweden 😉❤

[@MichelleKach]

⭐️🫶💛😊🙂✝️😘 yep balance family. Keep pushing ahead. We’re all human. You’re doing great 👍 😘🙂💛👍🏠🥰🥰🥰

[@oldwillowtree173]

❤❤❤Beautiful!

[@lindapearson8137]

I have the name August in my Swedish ancestry! He is a beautiful baby! Thanks for sharing him with us!

[@jennyjonander1767]

I loved seeing your work with the nighttime bonfire photo 👍 How are your ears doing? Maybe call your healthcentral if you still have pain!

[@ElementsByJasmine]

The relationship comes first, but I understand it can be difficult with a baby. Try to schedule a date night at least once/month or best case - once/week. Maybe you know someone you can trust as a babysitter for a couple of hours. ❤ Things fall into place when you prioritize the relationship ✨️

[@Deb-wp9bp]

oh my gosh, you are too hard on yourself, you are such a good man, father, partner, and dog dad. you need to give yourself some grace, you can only do what you can do. everything will never be done, there is never enough time or money, set your priority's and just do what you can when you can. Worring will not make things better. Be kind to yourself. I really enjoy your videos, you make me smile! Thank you. And things will get better, just give it some time, you will get your partner back, and Augest will be so happy he has you for a dad!

[@karem9605]

Take care Kalle, having children changes life !, and Kristine could finish leaving you.

[@yokomalight2393]

Vackert filmat, vad använder du för utrustning? Ett bra tips är att ta tid för 15-20 minuters meditation. Mindfulness hjälper att rensa tnkar o hitta nytt fokus!🙏💜💙💖💚☀️

[@Kty4419]

I’m not able to have children but I just want you to know kalle it doesn’t sound selfish at all what you said about missing Christine and can only try and understand what you mean but can see how having a little one would change the dynamic, even though they’re your beautiful babies💛it’s very brave t speak about and sending big hugs to you and Christine and august and your beautiful dogs too💛✨💛

[@bernardopros1736]

300k subscribers🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@KalleFlodin]

Yay 🎉❤

[@kebhMI]

The drone about of the snow covered road with forest on each side...is that a possible print? I don't see it on your site, but it is stunning.

[@ilzitek2419]

Isn’t the pipe gonna freeze again? Did you insulate it? Or got the warming rod through it? I loved what you did with the stoves. ❤️

[@VinceMorin]

Hi there, from 🇨🇦

[@KalleFlodin]

Hello! 😊

[@bethshepherd8975]

Forgot to mention… the first year, BABY IS CENTER STAGE. It just is, it needs to be, but after that things can shift.

[@malveenbiddle1356]

That sounds horrific. You were lucky to have kept your ears. Your cabin is fantastic. Perhaps things might be easier when the bathroom is installed for it must be challenging with a baby. Also, it must be hard work heating the place.

[@sparkle6093]

Very well done sorting out your pipes. Is there no way to insulate them against freezing?

[@melissasinclair9303]

When I was 14 I walked to my school to a basketball game. I was a cheerleader, so I was going to perform. And, being 14, I wanted to be cute and wearing a hat to mess up my feathered short hair was NOT cute (this was 1984). The issue was, this was northern Iowa and the windchill was -75 F.(-59c) it was bitter cold with a STRONG wind and I had no hat and I was wearing dangling metal earrings. It was a short walk to the school, but I was out bare-headed probably 15-20 minutes. It took longer to try to brace myself with the wind on the icy sidewalks. When I got to school, my ears were frozen. I couldn't move the lobes and then the BURNING sensation began and my ears got red and the thaw was PAINFUL. I didn't have it as bad as you have had it because my ears didn't peal or swell (that I'm aware of ), but to this day, over 40 years later, my ears are sensitive to the cold. It can be 50F (10C) degrees outside and I will need to wear a hat or ear muff to protect my ears. For both of us, it was stupidity! I hope you don't have long-lasting effects from the incident, but I'll be surprised if you don' have some cold sensitivity going forward.

[@linalindholm5623]

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[@nicoletapopescu7724]

😮No isolation for that plastic?? You will always have this problem in the winter

[@amjadkhan5295x]

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[@KalleFlodin]

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[@julienelson8162]

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[@cds65]

Very ellegant ...appearance has your Home