WHY DON'T GIRLS BLOCK GUYS WHEN YOU ASK THEM TO?!?

[@pablopanesso1057]

Sage just has been saying whatever the fuck comes to his mind the last few pods and it’s honestly hilarious

[@madi9748]

Right Sage is so funny for what

[@shanr1701]

Devin looked STRESSED during that first topic 😂😂😂 thinking about getting in trouble with his girlfriend lmao

[@victorialuo9383]

Devin saying he doesn't wanna say anything cus he's in a relationship and doesn't wanna disrespect her was soooooo cute

[@kaylavollenhoven9650]

It's the bare minimum ma'am 😭

[@alexandra-st3rd]

@@kaylavollenhoven9650 i was just boutta say

[@rollingwithmoore]

@@kaylavollenhoven9650 when isn't it the bare minimum? I'm seriously asking because I do not know. I feel like everything we gentlemen do is the bare minimum? So when is it not the bare minimum?

[@manahil8746]

@@rollingwithmoore you think not disclosing someone’s sexual life is not the bare minimum? If you were a so called “gentlemen” you wouldn’t even need to ask the damn question.

[@rollingwithmoore]

@@manahil8746 well, fucking exscuse me for not fucking knowing! I really want to know

[@nataly-ct8gh]

Having a racial preference is fine but thinking people outside of that race are unattractive might be problematic. It becomes colorism if you put down others because they have dark skin, for example only dating asians that have light skin but not if they are darker, dating black people but only if they have lighter skin, and saying those with darker skin are somehow less than the other specifically because of their skin, same applies for the latin community and middle easterns, really almost every racial group. Personally, I think dating only one race is a bit weird outside of the compatible cultural aspects.

[@kaif.7766]

you worded this SO WELL, thank you!!

[@shilohhbanda]

yes !!

[@skefilrosinelli9341]

I mean for me I can find people who are black hot but me personally ain’t sexually attracted or attracted in anyway to black people

[@iris-jm1vt]

@@skefilrosinelli9341 Can you please explain that because that makes no sense. You haven’t met every black person in the world so how have you come to that conclusion? and if you find them hot is that not sexual attraction?

[@rayray41234]

completely agree

[@autobotzrollout4192]

Sage is so real I like how he has no filter and is very genuine with his thoughts. Its really cool to get a male perspective on things and he’s not afraid or embarrassed to speak his mind. We needs more Sages in the world..

[@user-bh2sw9fs1m]

I love Monday’s now because of you guys

[@paulamayy]

literally same. makes my week start off a little better

[@Glitchonmars]

ong

[@dayanna7x587]

32:41 - 33:17 , i love how everyone just takes care of devin, its so wholesome and sweet.

[@aesthetically7248]

What happen to him tho

[@neauxel]

sage has been letting hella loose lately i love him

[@diorfn]

topic y'all can talk about next episode: which one is worse or more painful, a one sided breakup or a mutual breakup where it ends on good terms and why?

[@hey_.088]

YES THIS IS SO Good

[@genahxoxo_]

THIS

[@hannahabebe9622]

this is such a good one

[@sofiajuan5181]

OMG.

[@samc1517]

Devins so loyal he couldn’t watch sage demonstrate that position with his fingers 😂😂

[@elizabethabijones4201]

being colorist is saying you wouldn’t date a darker skin latina and you’d rather date a lighter skin latina you wouldn’t date someone bc of their skin color

[@kamiyanicole]

exactly ! when she said it’s just ppl taking it too far i was like huh 👀 😭

[@shilohhbanda]

exactly

[@francesdumont3269]

right!!! I side eyed a little cause they didn't try to actually understand

[@aw350]

@@kamiyanicole noo fr that rubbed me the wrong way and i was thinking like ppl who rlly don’t go through colorism don’t rlly seem to understand how much ur affects your life not just in the dating aspect but a lot of other aspects. like i’m a darkskin black woman and the topic of preference and race with dating is so weird to me like why does complexion and color become such a deal when finding someone attractive?? or features as well??

[@kamiyanicole]

@@aw350 exactly. i feel like its a conversation that shouldve stayed within our community lowkey 😭 or just between ppl who experience it. its sad but as black woman we can just tell when someone would never date a black woman , idk any other race who has said they can detect the same thing . & i mean off of first contact w someone i can tell . but ure right skin color rlly isnt a “preference” like ppl say bc its not something u can change on command yk

[@joellem9402]

32:50 - 33:07 made my heart melt omg also when devin got the fidget spinner from christine ily guys sm

[@miamoop]

IM FUCKING CRYING WHEN SAGE WAS TOUCHING THE TABLE LIKE THAT AT 9 MIN

[@leomontes4446]

Fr and at 18:06 his face 😂

[@mar4001]

I low key miss Cynthia 😭 but also I LOVE YOU GUYS I BARELY FOUND YALL A FEW MONTHS AGO AND IVE ALREADY WATCHED MOST OF UR OLD VIDEOS AND NOW IM ADDICTED!!!

[@oliviawalls1687]

is she leaving for good?

[@mar4001]

@@oliviawalls1687 idk lol but I think she’s just been busy probably

[@user-qc6ms6ev4g]

OMG SAME I MISS CYNTHIA

[@mar4001]

@@user-qc6ms6ev4g LITERALLYYYYY 😭😭😭

[@queene315]

At 1:17 i agree with christina, having a preference is only bad when you have the preference only bc they are a specific race or color.. and not bc you just like them bc thats what you’re attracted to. The ppl that want you will have you.

[@aarijean5905]

yeah and a lot of people put people down that don’t match their preference and it’s fucked up u know?

[@queene315]

@@aarijean5905 i completely agree, I’m black too so i get not being the first choice, i think thats why none of the people on the podcast knew what colorism was. It’s bc they had never been in a community where they would experience it

[@user-oq3kd1fk5d]

@@queene315 exactly ppl think preference is saying who you WONT date Instead of who u would.

[@queene315]

@@user-oq3kd1fk5d thats the best way its ever been explained omg

[@aw350]

@@queene315 EXACTLY

[@bearugamas]

No Cynthia and NO MARU today?!?!😭😭😭

[@fiagamboa]

sadnesssss

[@rollingwithmoore]

Sad vibes

[@elijahlopez3583]

Obviously not idiot

[@americaespinosa3794]

I love how they started looking for something Devin can fidget on.

[@Savana.h]

As a black woman MY definition of colorism is kinda the same as Christine ,like if we take the case of black women , colorism applies if you're like :''yeah I prefer light skins girls cause the dark skins are uglier/less pretty". so, it's called preference. But when you decide to compare or not date someone because of some shit like color ,and that the only reason for you to like them or not is by their color or race ,that becomes colorism. (And personally I haven't seen it in like other races except black people . Correct me if I'm wrong🥰) Btw LOVEEEE your vids guys ✨

[@nirelm9531]

Nope you ain’t wrong girl only seen that within the black community

[@meilataie6650]

Colorism happens with south East Asians too.

[@nirelm9531]

@@meilataie6650 oh thanks for letting me know never knew that

[@tylerwaltner1823]

Yeah colorism still applies between Indians and Northern Indians shits actually pretty bad

[@pablopanesso1057]

Colorism is also really prevalent in Latin America. My great grandfather was black so my grandma is a little darker than the rest of her family. She was always treated very differently because of that. Just goes back to our days as a Spanish colony I guess…people can sometimes forget South America had African slaves just like North America did.

[@noraliliana.hdz01]

Nick: “where’s my gf at?“ me literally waiting for him to notice me: 🧍‍♀️

[@token8339]

laughing more at these podcasts than my own friends

[@yuliaemma268]

😭😭😭😭

[@drxppy6365]

I’ve been watching this channel grow for so long. And it’s so cool to see it grow and expand into something even better. New segments and new guests are going to be so fun to see. I’m so excited for the future of this channel. Keep it up!

[@jaellin1436]

Sage has never been THIS funny

[@branndoncervantes2531]

You guys are genuinely my comfort.

[@leslicisneros2482]

You guys became apart of my daily routine I either rewatch videos or catch up 😭

[@jascrm1440]

when it’s not monday i rewatch yt videos or tiktok videos🙏🏼

[@leslicisneros2482]

@@jascrm1440 OH MEEE BRO I BE DOING THAT

[@fishbonejones]

Having a racial preference isn't inherently bad by itself if it's isolated, but the problem is pretty much any reason you prefer a race can lead to racism, or is rooted in racism. If you find a specific race more physically attractive for instance, and the implication is you find other races less attractive, then you literally have a racial aesthetic hierarchy. You are subconsciously going to treat people of that race better, and even with Christine's example, more of her friends are likely East Asian, and she probably treats East Asian people better on average compared to other races. It is normal to prefer your own race due to how beauty standards form, but we statistically treat people we find more attractive better, and most times people's racial preferences align with the ethnicities of their friends/people they respect because it is almost impossible to abstract racial preferences from how we view race as race exists outside of just dating.

[@pablopanesso1057]

It’s so unusual seeing a door behind them

[@angelinqiu]

Literally so proud of how far everyone has come, from the old car vlogs to now introducing a new segment and new guests. Fr the best podcast out there

[@donnabulaoro6651]

this was a really great podcast once again, yall know how to do it EVERY SINGLE TIME!!! I love you guys

[@jadengalloway6003]

okay but there’s a difference between wanting to date someone of the same cultural background and being like “i only date white girls” “i don’t like black girls” bc what could be your reason for dismissing a whole entire race… other than their race itself or the colour of their skin…??

[@orianag4779]

Girls emotionally detached during the relationship, not to protect the guys it’s more because you are hurt so much during the relationship that it doesn’t hurt anymore when you finally breakup. That’s why when it’s done you get over it faster

[@shantalherrejon4060]

You guys are the ideal friend group

[@papichulo9824]

Is it just me or have you realized that Cynthia hasn’t been on the past few podcasts?? I wonder why

[@MyPetLynx]

Legit. So wish my friend group was more like this

[@shantalherrejon4060]

@@papichulo9824 nah fr I’ve noticed that too and they haven’t even mentioned it

[@aidansullivan3154]

real.

[@noraliliana.hdz01]

always a good day when they post 😌

[@aarijean5905]

Ahhhhhh i love the new room. you should turn the LEDS on for the pod but keep the lights. it’ll make it more vibey

[@dianna9621]

“I used to eat Rolly polly’s when I was in kindergarten…. Why you looking at me like that” 😭😭😭

[@chaeyyyy.]

it makes me so euphoric each time they post, it makes my day better :D

[@marianapradilla716]

I love this podcast so much, it brings me so much serotonin 🫶🏽

[@carlotorres6930]

I swear it’s not possible y’all be talking bout the exact shit I’m goin through, really appreciate the free therapy lessons 🙏

[@666Isolated]

I enjoy each & every second of these podcasts. I only wish that I had a platform like this that has a decent amount of listeners, only to show & tell my past experiences to let others know that their similar issues to mine, theyre not alone and or singled out at all

[@Deteki]

I've got over my first ex just by listening to this podcast and when I discovered you guys. I felt like I shared a lot of similar connections with you guys. It feels like there's people who's been my shoes before I have been. Thank you. You guys kill every podcast you guys have.

[@noemitapia440]

They way they all take care of each other makes my day every time 🙃

[@karlaarroyo7318]

There’s times where our partners go on to tell us idk where I would be without you, you’re my reason to live, I don’t think I’ll live if we were to ever break up, etc. Like the fear of them actually doing something to themselves is why people stay stuck in the relationship bc it’s actually scary.

[@Earth2Tiffiny]

FINALLY I swear Nick listens to me 😂 I said get a discord, they made a discord. I said find a way you can ask questions live, he did. I'm stoked 🤗

[@anaismontoya7]

Christine is currently my fave guest on yalls podcast

[@joaquinhernandez8299]

Liking the different vibes and is what makes this podcast chill n fun

[@emilymarques4311]

“What was that guy doing?” Devin - “crack” LMAOOO

[@loverboi9208]

Light was so tired about to go into work and said urg as long as I get a good podcast I can wake up look at my phone and BOOM THANK U SO MUCH LIGIT JJST WOKE ME TF UP SO HYPED TO LISTEN

[@maybelline127]

“SAYJ-UH!!” i was literally sat on the toilet trying to hold in my laughter

[@monse.garciaaa]

Theirs colorism when you find it more attractive to date a lighter more white passing POC in that case because POC come in different colors heights weight and facial features, etc. (Ex. Liking lighter skin latinas over afro-latinas). But on what Cristine said, it bad when you only like them because they are a specific race/ethnicity rather than the connection between you two, then I would see that as fetishizing over a specific group of women/man of color. You can like people and it just so happens they are a specific group but don’t be like “ I only date …”, that specifically is fetishizing them when you say that.

[@syedhasan507]

This episode was kinda better and different than the regular ones

[@missmaam61]

Devin saying strawberry like that is way too funny😂 1:03:45

[@freshjas]

in my experience, when i haven’t blocked a guy that kept talking to me is because i either a) didn’t want to be rude or b) i liked the attention. it’s horrible to say but i used to base a lot of my self worth on how many guys liked me, and it felt reassuring that there were still others out there that wanted me even if i didn’t want them back. terrible, but that’s my experience 😅 not anymore tho stay safe

[@raes9391]

About the colorism and racism comments when it comes to dating, I think it’s crucial that when asking those questions, you should try to dissect why it is that you only find white and/or lighter POC women physically attractive rather than darker skin women. Our physical attraction is not an independent choice, it’s based on influential social constructs, like white supremacy, which are so heavily implemented in society, that ultimately effect the people we are attracted to. A majority of the media we consume and the social norms that we inherently adopt in society (especially in western countries) primarily exhibits white and lighter skin women and men as the beauty standard. Therefore, many heterosexual men and women say that they prefer or are more attracted to white and/or lighter skin people because we have internalized these social constructs, which excludes darker skin people. From personal experience, when I began to understand why I thought only white men were physically attractive, I realized that it is because of my internalized colorism and racism that I had subconsciously learned over the years that had formed this bias in my head. Retrospectively, it seems odd to me now that I used to be not attracted to an entire race of people. Every race is incredibly diverse physically, therefore negating an entire group of people solely because of physical traits that have been stereotypical deemed as “unattractive”, just doesn’t feel right to me and highlights the pervasiveness of racism and colorism in western societies. There can be other reasons an individual will chose to exclusively date a certain type of person, like for cultural reasons. Overall though, when it comes to having a “racial preference”, it is important for everyone to understand within themselves why they have a preference. Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk lmao :)

[@nirelm9531]

Could have explained it better 👏🏾

[@oceandelver]

This is 100% accurate! It important to analyze why u like certain things instead of just saying I like it

[@kiddykatkilla]

it upset me how surface level they took it but most people think this way so I’m not surprised. Ppl view it as something “normal” or “just a preference” but when you look deeper it’s always so telling why you have those certain preferences. I personally do not have any racial or skin tone dating preferences for that reason because 9/10 it’s usually rooted in racism/colorism/texturism etc.

[@thaliaayangla7492]

You ate

[@nirelm9531]

@@kiddykatkilla I mean they didn’t know about it so they couldn’t really speak on it and know how serious it can be

[@crystalallen9575]

Rewatching this podcast devin was space out fr bro🤣🤣🤣 but we love unmedicated devin

[@dominikgarcia6174]

These podcast over the months has made me learn so much mentally

[@laylalocklear8654]

i’m so happy every time they post , makes my day

[@mayari8746]

i’m so glad y’all opened up with that topic… i had three old friends gang up on me because i said i prefer dating asians and they dropped me and called me racist. been dealing with that internal struggle for a while

[@theslowpokie]

The reason why I complain about a guy texting me is partly wanting to see if he gets jealous and partly a shittest of seeing how controlling the guy is. If he tells me to block without listening to me, I see brown flags (not quite red flags but something to watch if it turns into a red flag).

[@myewzek2913]

I recommend reading the short story “Cat Person” (Kristen Roupenian) if you want a better idea of why women don’t block people most of the time. To summarize it without much nuance: they’re taught that their worth comes from how much others (especially men) desire them, so they’re conditioned to just take it. That’s not always going to be why, but a lot of the time women give men far too many chances for that reason. Even Christine mentioned it; she said a woman won’t block a man because if she does he’s going to call her a bitch. If you think about it, she’d never hear him call her a bitch because she blocked him. But the idea that he thinks she’s a bitch is enough to put her off blocking him. So she’d rather remain desirable to this man she doesn’t desire, because being desired is something women are taught gives them value.

[@shilohhbanda]

addressing the race thing - people like to say that’s a preference but many people say their preference WHILE disrespecting/speaking down on other races to uplift their preference and that’s when it becomes racist/colorist. also i think if you wouldn’t date someone solely bc of their race which is something they can’t change that’s a lil iffy to me but that may just b me - dating based on race just has a lot of disrespect, stereotypes and colorism tied to it and it’s hard to detach one from the other

[@lyfewithmj]

sage messing with the whole in the beginning of made me chuckle

[@tqm_beyonce]

always gonna be my favorite podcast omg🫶

[@gizhaocaranza]

always excited for mondays but miss cynthia 😓

[@katherinevargas1759]

I miss Maru already

[@rebekahrbkh]

Y’all gonna have devin check his girl’s block list 😂 sweetea should definitely be on the podcast

[@haisies]

I don’t think finding a certain race attractive is racist or colorist. But it’s a thin line because I think it’s racist or colorist once you stop being open to other races or skin tones because you find them unattractive. Of course we all have our preference but if you would never give any other race/color a chance, I think that’s when it’s wrong.

[@sond4rz]

y’all’s videos always be making me laugh

[@midzy3607]

when ppl bring up preference alot of them back it up by talking down on another race.

[@chelseadinh9367]

i think if a guy gets friend-zoned i feel like max he should try again one more time to get clarification. bc i feel like there are people out there who friend zone out of panic and dont actually mean it. i feel like if it happens again then you should probably stop. AND IT WAS SO CUTE THAT ITS THE 3 GUYS AND CHRISTINE FOR THE FIRST TIME.

[@gh0uls_x770]

I love this podcast so much !

[@Yamiie]

Honestly I’d love to see Devs GF. I’d be cool to see a little more of what he’s about.

[@obvi_itscecec5081]

This last two podcast have been funny af.. more than usual idk why. I have literally every ex blocked n it’s not cause there’s some meaning to it… it’s literally just once they out of my life then they are literally out! a bit of Pettiness so they can never look me up later on in life and see what I’m doing. N they always just wonder but can’t ever get the answer.. or at least that was my mind set back then when I blocked them.

[@SunnyDeez899]

brightens up my day everytime they post

[@semicolonparenthesis]

the way no one really knew what colorism was made me laugh so hard. i’ll come teach y’all don’t worry

[@ash1936]

you guys honestly make me look forward to mondays so much bc you guys are so funny and bring up so many good points

[@sleepyheadp4350]

I love their podcasts omg

[@chelseadinh9367]

NEW STUDIOOOO literally had such a tiring day i needed this

[@anierensellan-naidoo3742]

Ah dude I'm so happy, new episodes make me look forward to the new week

[@donnabulaoro6651]

nick is so cute, respectfully LMFAO

[@ppcheese6124]

my opinion on the colorism thing is, its okay to have a racial preference. certain people are just more attracted to the facial features of different races so its not bad to say youre mostly attracted to latina women or black women but when you decide that you like a race so much thats the only thing you look for in a partner or you say youd never date a certain race because theyre not what you like, i think thats when it becomes colorism or racist

[@emanshahona1031]

They inspired me to start a podcast I love u guys so much 💗

[@jasminecitlalli]

9:17 Bring back the fidget toys cause Sage was twirling the hole in the table for like 5 minutes trynna focus and listen 😆

[@scarlethunter9361]

The sturniolo triplets would be so cooler to see on here

[@thaliaayangla7492]

1:17 the reason its seen as colorism is because you find lighter skin/white women more attractive and thats not something youre just born with you find ppl attractive based on your environment(who you grew up around, what media your exposed to, etc.) But thats not to say anyones bad for having preference its more of a social issue because most of all the content we consume will have white women or light skin women shown more and in a better light. In my opinon its on coporations to start using more diversity in marketing and bigger roles in films and stuff.

[@landynroyal3632]

I was looking forward to this all day

[@lira5076]

I would love to see the northstar boys on the podcast! I think you guys senses of humor would play really well off each other and i think they would have some interesting perspectives on things

[@shreyasdatt7077]

Nick you gotta bring back Sean, Luke, Austin and the rest of the old gang for a podcast I miss them 😪

[@laylaamn7407]

yeahhh cynthia too shes never on the podcasts anymore:((

[@raekwonmalik]

Bynthia 💀💀

[@daphhv7141]

Girls detach when they’re in a bad situation and it’s like that saying where the more you forgive someone the less you love them because they keep hurting you over and over again and then when the relationship is finally over it doesn’t hurt as bad because you’ve already put up with so much. I don’t think it has any like intention to it it just happens

[@Jennifer-lz6tv]

You guys made my day I just got my top teeth braces and I’m in pain like I want to cry ❤️

[@stevietrujillo9356]

Devin playing with a fidget and instantly being more focused big relate

[@michellleana]

mmm i usually agree with Christina but I definitely don't agree with her on it being preference instead of colorism. If your preference or attraction (or lack there of) is driven through the color of their skin then it definitely becomes problematic. However i think theres traits about other people that may attract you to another person for many reasons tho.

[@serenitygoodman4841]

I think one of the reasons I agree with her is because different races tend to be raised differently and have different customs and most people are attracted to someone with similar ways as them or like different customs to what they were raised with even though you can be a certain color without having those customs it does play a roll in who they are as a person which would affect how attractive someone is

[@michellleana]

@@serenitygoodman4841 i think at that point you’re attracted to the cultural similarity that you and your partner share. similarity can breed attraction. you’re attracted to the similarity (customs, traditions) you both have, not because of the color of their skin.

[@marissajovel3331]

theres two different ways the topic can go tho. what christine was saying was correct bc preferring to date someone of ur same culture is not colorism/racism at all. if someone were to not date a certain race bc of the color of their skin thats when it becomes racist. christine prefers asians bc they were raised w same w the same culture/values thats not being racist for wanting to have a partner w the same way of thinking.

[@loveme101504]

I love Mondays and so does my boyfriend because I be asking him the same question you guys ask

[@mariazitlatl9620]

43:56 sage going through it fr poor bb😭

[@jasmingutierrezz]

I miss Sean, Austin, Carey, Kyle, Luke,Wyatt, Owen

[@andrikflores825]

The ogs

[@jayash2957]

What happened to those guys?

[@bereniceflores6703]

Is Devin okay?? :( I’ve watched almost every podcast for years and I swear he has never been this quiet. Hopefully all is good

[@yoitsno834]

he was boring in this podcast

[@gencobbina3]

@@yoitsno834stfu

[@meep3061]

i think it was bc he didn’t wanna disrespect his gf in anyway with the topics they were talking abt

[@tamyagriffin7617]

I can’t wait for the new segment

[@theeLonelyRedPanda]

you only keep someone unblocked and in your dms bc somehow/someway they make you feel or they do/trigger something in you that makes you wanna keep them around.

[@edajalyakcm]

YOOO NEW SETUP LOOKS 🔥🔥

[@lhea4925]

Yooo yall needa bring saharrooo onto this podcast. She’s from torontoooo Canada. Her tik tok content is mainly about relationships and other things about friendships, and she’s mad chill and open to other perspectives too. Thatd actually be a fire collab, she’s so funny

[@opticsugma1182]

Always look forward to these podcasts