Can MEN AND WOMEN be JUST FRIENDS?! Ft. Rurusama | GET IT OUT

[@overkillsingapore]

For this episode of Get It Out, it’s going to be a *heart-to-heart* conversation, featuring the one and only *Rurusama!* 🎀 From first love to dealing with exes and everything in between. We’re talking red flags, sexy moments, and even those tricky *daddy issues!* 🫦💦✨ Also, comment down below who else you want us to bring in and what should we talk about? Get It Out is also available on Spotify: bit.ly/GETITOUTSPOTIFY Full stories are here: bit.ly/FullStoriesEp5 *GET IT OUT of your chest!* Submit ANY STORIES you have here! : bit.ly/GetItOutForm Also, we are planning our next episode and it’s about *Housing in Singapore!* 🤔 Whether you're trying to figure out how to buy your first home or dealing with rental headaches, we want to hear your real-life housing dilemmas! *Send them here to be part of our show!* : bit.ly/GetItOut-HousingInSG Timestamps 0:00 Sneak Peek 0:11 Introduction 1:07 Why don’t guys want to commit these days?! 5:04 ANXIETY during the first date 7:12 Guys just want to have S**! 10:20 Moving on after a Break Up ... 15:20 How to be SEXY around guys? 18:31 I’m so ANNOYED around my BOYFRIEND!! 21:09 Age is JUST A NUMBER! 23:17 How to spot RED FLAGS?! 27:19 Going back to YOUR EX 30:15 I have Daddy Issues?! 33:00 Breaking up after BTO 36:37 Quick Fire Questions with Rurusama! 38:14 Wrap-Up! For more Ryan's unglams: kzbin.info/door/N4KjsqbovLvPiAnyp64mIQjoin fewcents.me/overkillsg fewcents.me/ryanxgo

[@CharleneYcy]

I just broke up with my bf like 4 weeks ago and have been contemplating to get back to him because the pain is too unbearable and I feel that I still love him a lot. Glad that I watched this episode. A lot of red flags that you guys have mentioned actually happened to me 😢 I think I knew all of those were red flags, I just chose to ignore it until I cannot take it anymore 😢Thanks for stopping me from eating back the chewing gum that I’ve spitted out before

[@overkillsingapore]

I’m happy for you :)

[@steventay5834]

@@CharleneYcy If the man is "bad", you must leave him lah. I hope my daughter will find a good man but is very difficult. Is ok if she remains single

[@danltm]

The podcast that is natural like this is the most drawing for people to watch. It is like ppl watch good friends chat out of the heart.. this is like that.. kudos! Daily ketchup is like that too

[@nickstrands]

I am guilty of getting distracted by the trivia on the screen behind you. The hokkien mee story cracked me up :D

[@zhekai95]

Ben is killing it this ep

[@overkillsingapore]

Hitting us with his wisdom💡📘

[@TheAwesomeFace]

I'm impressed by Ben's emotional maturity and capability to empathise without being overbearing. This alone makes him a good catch I hope that he always keeps this confidence! Jiayou Ben 😊

[@ValarieTay]

Can move the TV a bit to the right please? HAhahaahahaha! Maybe can do an episode on pick up lines! That was a huge reaction. Love the episode, as always!

[@iamelijahvawgora]

yessss pls

[@zahnngweetao9980]

My Man Ben coming in with the knowledge bro. Hope y'all continue this style of format for the show. Doesn't have to be ruru, but any female voice❤ Also, is ben okay? Mans rage was real in the beginning sia😂

[@gleamfang3]

first time watching your videos and new subscriber! Freaking amazing chemistry, organic and very authentic personalities on screen. Gives me "smosh" feels in terms of the friendship and I appreciate that a lot now. That said, the siam diu question early on and the immediate same answer from Ruru was fantastic comedy!

[@mandychan7399]

yess!! we need office drama themed for the next episode please!! & LOL I DIED at the 70 years old logging off HAHAHAHAAHH

[@WayneLLC]

Ben jitao keeps flashing his intellect 😂 Great exchanges all round, please continue this series!

[@mextrinc]

freaking love this cast

[@XuanKai365]

Haha watched it to the end and had to replay so many of the funny moments with ben and the gang. Thanks for the fun video guys!

[@N4tur4lX]

timestamp pls!

[@elaineclaire7063]

You know the ghosted question, well from a guy who i knew 10 years older than me, apparently some people dont express it out through words of affirmations, or reach out but in their heart they care, anyway im not a relationship expert either but it does sound like situationship - and i been there before because 3 years covid got us into the radio silence, sometimes some guys are empathetic so they are willing to communicate the issues out, but learn to forgive and maybe things will pan out, sometimes these situations lets you discover who you meant to be and i appreciate him for letting me to be who i am, without forcing him into the relationship, if someone truly cares for you, they will come back effortlessly, thats what i learnt. But love the insights especially ben's experiences on dating apps, most of the time the guys dont show up for meetups for me when it comes to dating, best to meet people through communities and meetups. 🖤

[@ichig0213]

aww that maplestory slime plushie is cute😍

[@EIJIHS]

RURU ROCKS !!! love how she control the 3 host lol ~

[@overkillsingapore]

🤘🏼🤘🏼

[@strawhatduck3198]

Random qn, where you guys get the maplestory slime plushie? Looks like perfect sofa decor 🤩🤩

[@zacklee22]

Ryan how are you ☺️ and I am Zack from Malaysia and I really like the video 📹

[@MsLilac88]

Hello, I always feel intrigued by your amazing videos, hope you guys are doing fine. 😊 I enjoy watching all your food series. 👍

[@khloelai5527]

More episodes pls!!!!

[@kuraphlau03]

Yes Men and Women can be friends each other

[@ToudouRenka]

About the anxiety part i agree, which is why i didn't approach ben irl to say "hi"

[@cieranwee2443]

I was wondering when the next ep is gonna be out man.. how dare yall wait so long 😡😡❤❤❤

[@overkillsingapore]

sorry for the wait 🙇🏻‍♀

[@sleepyhead6468]

14:26 "But that's a man problem". That is true but it shows you how much empathy women generally have for uniquely men's issues. If a woman were to describe a uniquely woman's issue such as being disadvantaged at work for pregnancy, no man would say "well that's women's problem". Are men actually kinder human beings than women in the modern day?

[@jhjanice8918]

How is this episode so funny again 😂😂😂

[@yapchunwee5617]

27:22 for me no cause like what ruru said it ended for a reason unless that reason for our breakup in the first place is settled and provided we still like and love each other I don't think even if we patch back it will last long at all

[@Youtiao87]

That's why I told my friends it's not the age gap that matters, it's when that ten year age gap happens for example. Imagine you're ten and going out with a newborn 😅😂

[@ihearyou235]

Ryan and Ben like brothers sia HAHAHA

[@1234567rickrock]

i never like dating app because what appear for me is either domestic helper or fake account

[@magicayu]

Ruru-sama said listening to Babymetal? yay! "^^"

[@aaronpoh7271]

Giving this a like because of ruru ❤

[@jojoEben2120]

The accent is madd🔥😂

[@steventay5834]

Yes. Perfectly fine to be friends. Why not?

[@aeyage]

One of them might catch feelings one way or another

[@jman2413]

i've just been friend zoned, guess she feels we can be friend but actual fact its hard..

[@exploringapis4495]

She looks damn different without tiktok filters… like normal person liao .

[@mango0nmeth26]

34:30 genuinely curious and not trying to nitpick, but is it pronounced as 'dee-vorce' or 'die-vorce'? (I keep hearing Singaporeans pronounce it as 'die-vorce').

[@G2H_HellBringer]

dee

[@ambievert]

weird question but legit curious but where did yall get the shark plush that ben was hugging in the video HAHHAHA ITS DAMN CUTE SIA edit: i believe hobbies are true, i met my bf through discord through a common interest ^^

[@sharkenwonderswhy]

Ya siaa i wanna get 1 for myself 😂😂😂

[@Dantheman8222]

IKEA has a variation

[@LUVC4514]

CAN YOU GUYS BE ON APPLE PODCAST PLEASEEEE 😅

[@PolkaTea]

ask say not hungry then later say hungry. Cannot be always buy extra or have to share portion

[@ashlynmok758]

where is the shark plushie from!

[@yeh_den]

When you try to be sexy and you become the not sexy one. Hope you people know what i meant 😅😂

[@lemon2524]

Nice video

[@faithkityee4436]

27:29 Don't be like a dog.. it goes back to it's vomit.. so just leave your ex behind and move on 😂😂

[@edamame5540]

Btw Ryan, your hair looks TOTALLY FINE ok! Dont go and listen to that Ben

[@hinatanation]

wopeeeee it's ruru!

[@Aaari5]

rurusama come back !!!

[@XiethXander]

They invite the wrong guess for sexy topics 😅😅😅

[@yenfong2564]

No lah, he not red flag bro. He literally protecting her privacy leh...

[@edamame5540]

I think u guys should change the sofa so that u all can lean and be more comfortable so that it doesnt strain your back. The spinal cord is bery important hor...

[@7dina7]

put subtitles pls, when ya'll speak mandarin, the auto English generated subtitles come out rubbish / blank..

[@overkillsingapore]

We have our own subs inside! Don’t use the auto one haha

[@Fire_dragon23]

Invite Qian erz to your shows talk about getai

[@jakelok8059]

What's her real name

[@bakajelly2698]

its confirmed nigel likes ah lian type of girls hmmm

[@Jo3W3st]

I can be friends with a ugly woman but not a attractive woman even if she is average I'd eventually find qualities I like and fall for them. It happens a lot to me and I'm average but I think I'm have a great personality

[@szlszlszl]

Rurururu

[@braq9775]

BRUH CENSOR THE FEET 😩😩😩😩

[@hatchegg80]

this girl is sick in the head

[@ericneo3780]

Imagine if it's Xiaoqian here instead of ruru

[@darrenpereira2190]

Try getting xiaxue to the show. 👍

[@heyitscl7143]

wishing I could open a podcast with overkill one day 🥲🫵🏻❤️

[@YY-os4eu]

21:35 career-centric? Eh… you what.. lawyer or doctor or banker? Got so shiong meh your job

[@faunleong2037]

she does investments and other side hustles/businesses as well.. 😂 dont assume so quickly next time.

[@cr8815]

legs

[@cornflake_cat]

first

[@Nanitheduck]

Onichan

[@barneyelmo]

Third

[@XenoicWyce]

Let's admit this. Guys think using their bottom part, everything else comes after that. He need to get that part settled first before committing.

[@OJLJ_]

Girls also can have their “needs” but…if a lock can be open by a lot of keys the lock isn’t that good right? But if a key open many locks it’s a master key tho..

[@basicsam]

what is this 1875? a woman is a person not a lock. A sharpener can sharpen thousands of pencils and still work, a pencil can only be sharpened so many times before it's useless just as stupid and totally unrelated to sex