Having kinky hair is one interesting journey🙂. God gave us hair that help us build patience👀🙌. Thanks for sharing your routine 🙂
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
So true! And of course ❤️❤️🤗
@e.dandfamily6734 жыл бұрын
Very true 😂
@myamusicality4 жыл бұрын
Our hair is like magic!✨
@ayomibh2 жыл бұрын
Patience 🤣
@ayomibh2 жыл бұрын
Patience 🤣
@DefineMorena4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I didn't realise my hair could get properly defined until last year when I actually looked in the mirror while washing it.
@MyeshaB4 жыл бұрын
I've been natural for over 15 years and it's only in the last 7 years did I realize I have a curl/coil pattern. I think not looking in the mirror also came in to play. Also, 10 years ago there were not many type 4 naturals wearing their curl pattern out.
@renelethug2414 жыл бұрын
I saw my curl pattern for the first time a month ago😂😂 ive been natural almost all my life and im 21
@sonatashinome46724 жыл бұрын
Same, and I remember the time I had left in gel and curling activator in my hair, when it came to washing it in hot/warm water it *defined* my curls. Looking back I should’ve have known I was low porosity. I need to try the LCO method in defining my hair and see what happens
@MyeshaB4 жыл бұрын
@@sonatashinome4672 it's a lovely realization, the very first time is when I did a warm coconut milk w bentonite clay hair mask about 7 years ago. The curls/coils did not stay when dry, but I remember in that moment I was on to something.
@7lawaneeena4 жыл бұрын
@@MyeshaB do u feel like coconut milk is a good moisturizing deep conditioner ?
@ElegantPaws014 жыл бұрын
Succinct version - use products that perform for you 1. Prepoo with oil of choice cover with plastic to reinforce warmth 2. Wet hair applies shampoo wash 3. Deep condition use plastic bag again after 30 minutes rinse 4. Use smoothie of choice 4.
@Ducky1904 жыл бұрын
watching this while preepooing with a hot oil treatment😜👌in the beginning natural hair can seem like a huge task but after some time and plenty of patience it will just be another part of selfcare. I treat wash day as spa day. Girl I preepoo, do a sugar scrub, manicure and pedicure. It's only one day out of the week so I take my time and enjoy my self and make it all about me. That's what my wash days mean to me 😊 I use design regis olive oil masque, texture id deep moisture treatment masque, and head and shoulders the royal oils masque for deep conditoners. All are affordable for me and get the job done. Every once in a while I will try something new but hey of it works it works. Also the melanin haircare line. My hair soaks it up and loves the ingredients. Love it. Iove heavy products as well. I too have fine coily kinky hair. Thick smoothies, creams and butters my hair loves. Garnier has this amazing curl and treat smoothie and hair butter my hair loves coconut anything sooo I love those two products as well.
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
Thats absolutely beautiful, self care at its finest and you did that lol sugar scrub and all ❤️❤️
@Ducky1904 жыл бұрын
@@cockyretrospect4085 Girl every week. Just one day that all I need honey. Skin glowing, nails on point and hair poppin lol i keep it real simple.😆👌❤
@TashaxMack4 жыл бұрын
This is a great idea. I used to do those two separately because washing my hair drains me lol. But combining them would be better
@Ducky1904 жыл бұрын
@@TashaxMack I do it all. Sunday is my day. I praise the lord on my own time and than I pamper myself for the rest of the day. Sometimes I include my man but for the most part I kick him out just so I can have a little time to me😆✌👌
@dejanaidrummond4 жыл бұрын
This is what I do on wash day as well! 👏🏽👏🏽 Yes sis
@heyitsdani2024 жыл бұрын
Whoever is reading this Jesus Christ loves you 💛💛
@maplesyrup60524 жыл бұрын
Yes sis spread that gospel!!
@justshanie1014 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the reminder😊
@soleshajoseph4 жыл бұрын
Amen, Sad To Ruin The 200, But Oh Well. 👍201.
@victoriakabeya46594 жыл бұрын
Solesha Joseph are u serious 😭😭😭😂
@dotk36234 жыл бұрын
yes he does😌😌 thank youu❤️❤️❤️
@TashaxMack4 жыл бұрын
I long for for today my twists drop like yours. Getting my regimen together 🙏🏾
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
All power to you on your hair journey love! ❤️
@blessingashanti70394 жыл бұрын
Amen.
@simonejackson3094 жыл бұрын
tip for anyone with thinning edges : try not to lay your edges everyday (that was my problem). and keep them oiled RELIGIOUSLY every night. 👍🏾
@ladidodi89124 жыл бұрын
Yes! Ive been damping my edges with water or aloe vera juices then massaging growth oil or castor oil on it before wrapping my hair with a silk wrap.
@mommymj95294 жыл бұрын
I remember before I had kids and I worked, I would spend a whole day on my hair😞😞 The things that we miss. I also miss listening to my ratchet music.
@preciousmatlapeng94974 жыл бұрын
😁🤭
@ladidodi89124 жыл бұрын
For real! I can't even enjoy blastjng my music whike washibg my hair because of the lyrics😕. Kids be blocking all the fun😣
@mommymj95294 жыл бұрын
@@ladidodi8912 Thank you for understanding. People always ask me whats so different about my life now since I have kids (I had first baby at 39) and my answer is always the same....everyday is Monday and I miss my music. Now I can add.....so tired of Blues Clues and Bubble Guppies!!!!!!
@ladidodi89124 жыл бұрын
@@mommymj9529 Girrrrl Listen...😩. They don't even know. Especially when you are a parent who is on top of what your child sees and hears. My kids are 10,11 and 13 so the cartoons were Dora and Bubba Guppies over and over and over again back then. I want to blast my rachet music so bad but I've resorted to putting my Bluetooth headphones on instead. 😂😂😂 They hate having to call out to me so many times before I answer 😂😂😂. #Mommylife
@mommymj95294 жыл бұрын
@@ladidodi8912 I can't wait till I can put on headphones. Mine are 3, 19 months and 5 months. So you know what I am going through right now. Its almost midnight here in Atlanta and I am listening to Cardi b please me really, really low because I have to listen out if someone loses a pacifier and they wake up the whole house. I am also getting caught up on Fatal Attraction because this is the only time I can look at my shows.
@Steph_M_L4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, Shea Moisture did change the formula of the Curl Enhancing Smoothie which broke my heart. I have a new love though...The Doux Bonita Afro Balm! I loooove it! It’s a nice light non greasy cream that provides the right amount of moisture and leaves my hair feeling so soft! ❤️❤️❤️
@jordgubbe91874 жыл бұрын
Probably why it doesn't work for me :(
@ChamStar6254 жыл бұрын
I used to shell out that 12 dollars for their jbco leave in but yes they've changed their formula I am no longer a customer...
@jordgubbe91874 жыл бұрын
@@ChamStar625 Yup
@creativer14 жыл бұрын
Everytime I see videos like this, it always motivates me to do better and that my hair could possibly grow this long, thanks for the video!
@HisNameIsUnique4 жыл бұрын
this was amazing to watch. i love how gentle you are with your hair too.
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you! You have a gorgeous head of hair yourself!
@HisNameIsUnique4 жыл бұрын
@@cockyretrospect4085 oh snap 😳. i didn't know you saw some of videos 😂 thank you 🙂❤️
@iheartmcflii4 жыл бұрын
Your hair is so healthy !! I love to see it, look at how it bounces every time she rubs her hands through it
@aquafina65444 жыл бұрын
Try Africa pride prepoo? Its a game changer. It will melt your tangles like butter on hot toast. My hair used to tangle hella crazy back in the day and my strands were thick. But as I've gotten older, I have fine strands and it doesn't tangle as much bcus i tend to keep it in twists and i use aloe vera juice instead of water and it keeps my cuticles down. I have a suggestion for you: try to detangle with a conditioner or after you dc or TRY the African pride prepoo? Its a game changer bcus you just slather it on dry hair and your tangles melt. ITS EXTREMELY affordable and your tresses will SING as the tangles slide on out.
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
I've tried it! I do like it, but I tend to gravitate towards a conditioner to detangle. I didn't mention in the video but I did detangle with a conditioner, I just prefer to part my hair dry and then add product. But the african pride pre poo is definitely a great option!
@lbu95424 жыл бұрын
Wow I never heard of this product. Thanks for sharing!
@twill10074 жыл бұрын
Yeeessss to the AP Pre poo, smells Great too
@AmandaD334 жыл бұрын
Where is it located for purchase? Walmart? Target? Beauty supply? I never seen it
@IttyBittyPiglet4 жыл бұрын
I use the African pride prepoo too.I add a little olive oil to it.
@aniyaedwards89964 жыл бұрын
Shea Moisture’s Curl Enhancing Smoothie is LIFE on my 4c hair! Been using it for years. My hair loved the old formula and still loves the newly changed formula. Both formulas feels exactly the same on my hair, except the old one was a little more thicker, oilier and the nostalgic smell was stronger. Now, the same smell is more mild, less oily and a tiny bit looser. But, other than that it still works. (Along with water and raw shea butter). It smells amazing, leaves hair soft, keeps it moisturized for days and helps me retain length. Thanks, SM!
@biabia91814 жыл бұрын
Our texture looks similar. I can’t imagine dealing with my hair when it’s this long 😩 I better get used to short hair lol
@healwithmusic934 жыл бұрын
Me toooo!
@rachelm.31734 жыл бұрын
I'm early! I still love the Shea Moisture curl enhancing smoothie. I recently just did a second big chop, but when my hair was longer I used it in place of gel to put my hair back or up in puffs.
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
Ahh glad it still works for you! ❤️Looks like its a keeper
@curlynella10114 жыл бұрын
My hair never gets that tangled. Better for me in the shower and untangled in like 2 minutes or 3 depending on the style. Also I wash weekly. Not boasting, just know it can be different for type 4s💯
@quietstormaps4 жыл бұрын
With being as careful as you are with detangling, do you ever accidently break a hair or two during the process? I ask because my hair tangles easily and I cringe when I snap a strand with being really careful.
@harryskittyz4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that happens all the time with my hair... it's pretty inevitable. If your hair is similar to hers, I would keep it stretched as much as possible.
@Tay-lu3nx4 жыл бұрын
Your hair is so beautiful!! Almost as beautiful as you :)
@mommymj95294 жыл бұрын
That was sweet😊😊
@vastya.32554 жыл бұрын
i use hair grease and it works amazing for my moisture retention, definition, and length retention, it minimizes my single strand knots and detangling is way easier :) i have fine dense 4c hair with some 4b. high porosity, it works the same for my low porosity sister and mother with coarse strands!
@ciciselfcare79164 жыл бұрын
I should try this my hair is 4c, super thick, coarse and dense!
@vastya.32554 жыл бұрын
Cici selfcare yea definitely try it out, it really changed my natural hair life for me!
@Some1sAuntie4 жыл бұрын
I have fine curly hair bc I’m going through early menopause and it gets super tangled. One thing I’ve recently learned is if I use disposable gloves it helps with snagging and breakage. Even when I shampoo.
@moomar63794 жыл бұрын
I’m looking at tips for long hair so this helps a lot , that’s queen love you and your hair 😉✌️
@terrikasaunders16764 жыл бұрын
Mielle Organics new rice water mask is AWESOME! I absolutely LOVE it 😍
@ciciselfcare79164 жыл бұрын
I must try!
@LivingInTheShade4 жыл бұрын
I am loving those curls. Happy to see someone do Bantu knots properly.
@cheyennehelberg54984 жыл бұрын
Perfect to watch when I let my curls dry on wash day😂❤
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
Glad I can help the time pass lol! ❤️❤️
@deb6ie3 жыл бұрын
your hair in the beginning of the video is exactly my hair type. Since we have similar hair types, in sure my hair will grow to your length one day!! Btw I'm very young so if I follow your hair routines for few years um probs gonna get supa long hair like you!!!! ❤❤❤
@Adeola_Busuyi4 жыл бұрын
Just saw this right on wash day💕
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
We're in sync 🤗
@444taysta4 жыл бұрын
Same she just reads my mind
@laurenkirby53904 жыл бұрын
I love coconut oil but I never put it on my scalp because it makes it itch so so bad. I do however use it on the length of my hair. It makes my hair so soft and easier to detangle.
@annn64334 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤ my wash day's coming up so this is great
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
awesome, hope it helps love ❤️🤗
@marsbarsinthestars32264 жыл бұрын
Do you do a hot oil treatment every wash or every few weeks. I wanna start doing them but dunno how often i should? Does it take place of a deep conditioner?
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
I do them every few weeks really. I have dry scalp so they really help with that. I should do them more often but yea, do them really as you see fit. I wouldn't say they take the place of deep conditioning at all though, but you can apply a deep conditioner first then add oil to your scalp and strands if you want to combine the two, works alright for me that way!
@ileanasantamaria23644 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh AUBREY ORGANICS! Thanks for this, wonderful step-by-step instructional!
@oliviabulanda97154 жыл бұрын
Thanks for all the tips especially to play calming music. 😍
@Shinebright_renee4 жыл бұрын
This video Definitely gave me life 😅. Beautiful hair, and thank you so much for sharing this with is!
@shannonarmstrong63644 жыл бұрын
Gorgeous head of hair
@lucyjack65263 жыл бұрын
How many inches is your hair.. I love it
@leila87014 жыл бұрын
Gorgeous hair!!! 😍❤
@dpierre76252 жыл бұрын
Question for you. I would like to use rice water and conditioner as a prepoo to detangle my hair. What are your thoughts about that combo?
@callmeswag92424 жыл бұрын
For cheap good deep conditioners you should try the africas best hair mayonaise ($3.97) for a protein treatment and the aussie miracle moist/7 in 1 miracle (2.97) for moisture. I've tried both and they worked really well for me🙂
@maplesyrup60524 жыл бұрын
Can i use hair mayo every time i wash (i wash once a week)? I dont want to have a protein overload
@callmeswag92424 жыл бұрын
@@maplesyrup6052 use it once every 2 weeks
@maplesyrup60524 жыл бұрын
@@callmeswag9242 thanksssss
@HLN3274 жыл бұрын
this was a very great and easy video to watch, very informative!! thank you :)
@yani26684 жыл бұрын
How did you grow your edges back? I’m currently struggling with thinning edges
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
So sometimes the damage can be undone, but sometimes it can't. I wen't to a dermatologist and she let me know my follicles weren't damaged so the hair would eventually grow back. She gave me a steroid injection once but I hate needles and couldn't get myself to keep going back for them. So I tried rogaine for a month soon after that, which did help in conjunction with applying stimulating oils like vitamin e, rosemary, and peppermint. I only apply oils now but will definitely try to keep up with the follicle cream. Like I mentioned, my hair on the right is still thinner than the other side but all that really helped!
@yani26684 жыл бұрын
CockyRetrospect thank you. I’ll start by visiting a dermatologist office
@_jadaxoxo4 жыл бұрын
CockyRetrospect Which rogaine did you use & can you apply it to areas where there is no hair loss or does it only work if you have hair loss?
@carmencitadavis37514 жыл бұрын
Did you ever use eggs and mayonnaise to condition your hair before you wash it
@TaneakaeTillman4 жыл бұрын
Awesome routine ☺
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
Thank you! 🤗💕
@rheadsparks6594 жыл бұрын
Queen your hair and you are georgeous!!!
@lilyeichelis83464 жыл бұрын
it is so amazing how you went through them mental side of things. i used to get so frustrated and fake through my hair so hard, hair care is self care and i was just ripping my hair out.
@flaviaandrew54473 жыл бұрын
Her hair is definitely not like mine😂😂😂😂 i better get the hell out of here before i start comparing 😂😂😂. Love your voice girl so detailed.
@Benezia4 жыл бұрын
Wow your hair is so beautiful God bless you
@afouri4 жыл бұрын
What porosity & curl type do you have girl? 🥺😍
@hidamis.ofelix9224 жыл бұрын
Your hair is so long. God bless that hairrrr
@chinazoucheaga48254 жыл бұрын
Is it okay to deep condition with organics hair mayonnaise once a week?
@mich19344 жыл бұрын
Any recommendations for defining 4c hair?
@carmencitadavis37514 жыл бұрын
Why don't you use a tangle teezer brushwhen you detangle and wash your hair with some good conditioner and good moisturizer that gives you some good slip
@BeanChick-nh7uh4 жыл бұрын
Ooo yes black girl long hair ❤
@johronlee61184 жыл бұрын
How long have you’ve been growing your hair?
@tmcurly4 жыл бұрын
You can still get Aubrey Organics GPB. The company was sold but still exists. I buy mine from iHerb
@drejaa54664 жыл бұрын
How’s long does it take you to grow your hair this long?
@princessgabby84714 жыл бұрын
what type hair do you have?
@ladyofspa4 жыл бұрын
Girl!!!!! Beautiful & Thick thick thick may I suggest and save your arms. Sea Moss juice to detangle your hair. Will melt tangles away 😊
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
Thank you and yes! I've heard great things about sea moss, will definitely look into it ❤️
@ladyofspa4 жыл бұрын
let me know here your results it makes my hair like silk... But be careful blend with plenty water.
@XxMercuriiXx4 жыл бұрын
A B You blend the actual sea moss and make it into a juice?
@ladyofspa4 жыл бұрын
@@XxMercuriiXx yes.you can rinse sea moss several times, then soak overnight..that water will thicken can put that in a jar for your hair. Or in blender add sea moss and fresh water after overnight soak. Blend really fine and silky put in glass with lid keep in fridge and use for two 3 weeks only. Can detangle hair whenever you need. I use as leave in conditioner.
@XxMercuriiXx4 жыл бұрын
A B nice! definitely going to try
@mserased4 жыл бұрын
Do you use the same method to oil your scalp
@tarshanewson4 жыл бұрын
Hair Goals Just Beautiful ❤️
@moefrmdao52594 жыл бұрын
Idk every time I use coconut oil anything my hair feels dry asf
@Philtabit494 жыл бұрын
Me too. I don't use it alone anymore.. I mix it with avocado oil and add to my conditioner
@yesshetalks4 жыл бұрын
How do you keep your hair moisturized/hydrated between washes. I deep condition every time I wash my hair and my feels moisturized for a couple days but by the time it’s time to wash ( I wash once a week) it’s dry. And I’m noticing breakage on some of my strands. Like, other than deep conditioning and wearing a satin scarf at night what else is there to do???
@chanela.77864 жыл бұрын
If u have breakage u might wanna use a protein treatment (aphogee is really good) and then follow up with a moisturizing deep conditioner
@yesshetalks4 жыл бұрын
Chanel A. I’ve done that too and it’s helped in the past but recently, it hasn’t been doing much except making my hair dry (like there’s too much protein).
@grizeldam71334 жыл бұрын
How about having a moisturizing regimen between the week? I spray my hair with water, apply a leave in conditioner then seal with a buttercream. I skip the conditioner if I’m not wearing my hair loose though. 🤷
@carmencitadavis37514 жыл бұрын
I also use a cream of nature coconut milk hair products
@tallissajohns21154 жыл бұрын
It looks like 4b/4c. Finally🤸🏾♀️😂
@Aqua-ud4wi4 жыл бұрын
I wish I could copy and paste that on my head 😒😔😂
@myriamkanga85184 жыл бұрын
But what about people like me with kinky, no growing and not full at all. How to style it? How to feel secure and love it.
@VS-dh5yw4 жыл бұрын
That ish 🥰 is beautiful ✊🏿🙏🏾🙌🏿
@giselle16714 жыл бұрын
If u got your ends use HAIR CUTTING secures becuase the fabric or random give u split ends cuz it’s not meant for hair so ya
@ChroniclesofMuah4 жыл бұрын
Do u regularly dust?
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
Yes I do!
@u.a19524 жыл бұрын
You have such beautiful hair.
@honiandnae244 жыл бұрын
You have very beautiful hair 💕
@annushkamehta37564 жыл бұрын
Watching this while letting my deep conditioner soak in :)
@MatjiKatjivena4514 жыл бұрын
How did u grow your hair so long 😱 👀
@symphonyb96554 жыл бұрын
Thats what i was thinking
@symphonyb96554 жыл бұрын
But u know the shrinkage is REAL
@nayarafidelis87704 жыл бұрын
Olá amo seu trabalho 😘😍💜
@laylanijones37604 жыл бұрын
try using aloe vera as a prepoo i promise you it’ll be the best slip you’ll ever get.
@coilycurls79834 жыл бұрын
I notice as a naturally high porosity girl that glycerin causes webbing in my hair when it's high in the ingredients list
@jes48914 жыл бұрын
I have high porosity hair also. I have massive webbing when I use a product with glycerin or any other humectant that is high on the list of ingredients.
@brwnhilarybanks99534 жыл бұрын
My hair only gets tangled when i need a trim badly or i go past my wash days. Your hair looks like it needs a fresh trim though.
@aquafina65444 жыл бұрын
Plus if she detangled after dc or with a conditioner and not dry would be a game changer
@Hayat-vl8xw4 жыл бұрын
@@aquafina6544 In the description box she says that she forgot to mention that she detangled with conditioner.
@ramenman33734 жыл бұрын
So is coconut oil supposed to be thin or is that just dollar tree oil. 😅
@ginny5394 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@MatjiKatjivena4514 жыл бұрын
Was your hair this long in high school? 🤔
@jaeray53284 жыл бұрын
Please do a rod set
@stacycharles54144 жыл бұрын
I wish I had nice long hair
@chrissy-x4 жыл бұрын
you can! ❤️
@rochellewilkins46874 жыл бұрын
Whoa no srinkage... dope routine
@reinadecorazones32044 жыл бұрын
So I'm not the only one who thinks that about aphogee?
@goodchristiangirl32494 жыл бұрын
First❤️
@MiVidaBellisima4 жыл бұрын
Refined oils are going to have less nutrients than unrefined 🙂
@reggie_ulon4 жыл бұрын
on a hair journey! relaxed chick. african
@CallmeLavette4 жыл бұрын
can you give the girls a cornrow tutorial? 😗
@Nobcfr..4 жыл бұрын
U should straighten it!
@cockyretrospect40854 жыл бұрын
lol! Uhm I've never straightened my hair myself actually 😳maybe one day
@Honeyfaced14 жыл бұрын
CockyRetrospect Your hair is very beautiful just as God made it.
@kerianal94564 жыл бұрын
She doesn’t need to straighten it 🤦🏽♀️ jeez if u wanna see hair that length straightened then grow out your own hair and straighten it💁🏽... I like her hair in its natural state way prettier and is blessing my youtube timeline💁🏽❤️
@jasmines.28294 жыл бұрын
Noooo! Her hair is beautiful perfection, no straightening, that just seems too basic to do to all this loveliness
@Nobcfr..4 жыл бұрын
Keriana Lewis girl if u don’t calm down and go somewhere, I’m just suggesting a style I think would look nice on her cuz obvi she’s never done it, nobody said straighten it bc it doesn’t look good natural... I think her hair is beautiful too❤️. I just have a thing where if I see someone with long natural hair I wanna see what it looks like straightened at some point. Idk it came across as u were irritated from me asking this but do u see her getting irritated? No so why r u, ain’t even ur hair 🙄 so “jeez” u. Btw I am growing my hair out and I will gladly straighten my hair through the process.