exactly, my dad doesnt like me to play and i had to disobey him and go to play. he always says to read and not play soccer until i joined the school team just to piss him off. one night i drove him to one of my games and he saw me play, he praised me but he doesnt want me to keep playing. all my neighbors that have played with me tell him i have talent and that was when he stopped hassling me over not playing. there is little he can do now, i have my own car to take me everywhere