5 Deeper Habits Men Find Wildly Attractive | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

[@matboggs]

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[@susanallene5553]

I love Insight of the day, by Bob Proctor! I've received his emails for decades! My dad went to a Bob Proctor event at lake Tahoe 40+ years ago and got to meet him. He's one of the best! I think a lot of you and your mother by being associated with him ❤ You rock my world in your own right, however, and I watch everything you put out there😊 I'm learning so very much from you! Very well done sir!! ❤🎉❤🎉

[@jennaayoub5236]

I have one of your programs...Cracking the Man Code....I love your videos and have been following you since before the pandemic. I also love your mom Mary Morrissey...shes an incredible inspiration....heard her story and got me through some tough times and it confirmed some things and helped me to keep dreaming...attended Dreambuilder Live a few years ago and it helped me to realize my vision and goals for the coming few years and possibly more.

[@seowlengli]

Pp⁹9⁹⁹⁹9

[@amberdavis9044]

1. Emotional Strength 2. Purposeful Vulnerability 3. Create mystery and intrigue 4. Expressing desire, not neediness 5. Growth mindset

[@cynthiakk5966]

For me, 1, it is his intelligence and wisdom to give suggestions. 2, His empathy to show active listening skills when you are vulnerable. 3, His non judgemental, humble and tolerate attitude. 4, His sense of humour to take challenge and see bright side of hardship life.

[@sreddy914]

Perfect . And with some basic discipline

[@ssiegreen5292]

The one things that always impresses me when I listen to you Mat, is your calm masculinity. You come across as cool, calm and collected - but also warm, friendly, kind and approachable. You are a great example for what to look for in a future partner - it can be difficult to discern that, if you do not see it modeled in actuality or have an actual person/roll model that you can compare to. Some coaches - you can tell they put on a show during their videos - you - I believe - are genuinely you. Thank you for your videos!

[@matboggs]

I appreciate you seeing me for who I am ❤️

[@esraarageh4141]

You're absolutely right ❤

[@hiannahgus574]

I very much agree with you.

[@secretshaman189]

Qualities I love: Humor, integrity, courage and compassion.

[@AdaraBalabusta]

Integrity is extremely important, agreed. ♥

[@von-marieoliva4827]

Your mom was friends with Bob Proctor - now I know you have been inspired by such important people in your circle!! I see why you’re so great!

[@matboggs]

Thank you ❤

[@jennaayoub5236]

thats amazing...

[@hiannahgus574]

His mother, Mary Manin Morrisey, is an amazing woman in her own right. She’s such a strong, resilient, motivational, and inspiring woman! Mat was blessed to have been born into such a family.

[@empressenergy2218]

Wait Mat is Mary Morrisays son? 😊 aweee good to know im with Bob proctor and i also signed thru her institution she is so awesome

[@kristelwalton3141]

I love an emotionally controlled man who is passionate about the things he loves in life

[@jeanholtz579]

I appreciate truthfulness fidelity honesty cleanliness in a man.

[@Jan-qv8ku]

Absolute fidelity and loyalty.

[@jeanettebrooks1963]

This is definitely deep talk. You’re giving away all our secrets! AND it sounds like the old fashioned American that we used to naturally be.

[@RoseDawsonworld]

For me sensitivity and vulnerability are a must in a man

[@viatalkshealth]

I love how you talk in one of your videos you talk about knowing it is him or somebody better, because our love comes from source energy, that us a good one too - and that as a foundational belief keeps us in ourselves first as well.

[@Mywatercrystaltv]

Yep, no more superficial tips! Not sustainable if that's not who you are. Thx 4 the summaries at the end of your vids. It makes the content stick.

[@daneitajones8974]

I'm a 62 yr old single woman. I discovered your You tube clips a couple of weeks ago. These have been so great. I'm learning so much....thank you Matt. Your 'nice girl' clips had me going, 'OMG....that's me. That's what I do". And I've never felt seen and heard. My 'nice girl' training has led to a life of attracting the wrong men. Your clips, on so many aspects of how to have a successful loving relationship is rewiring me at a time when life, and some other healing practices, led to opening of the door to your clips. Thankyou. This is all so exciting.

[@SuPyaeLaWun-rb8zh]

What you are saying is the same as what I am now💛 and I am proud of myself.Thank you so so much🙏🙏🙏

[@beadgirl8]

Intelligence, humor, capable listener, dedicated planner(not lazy- big pet peeve), emotional awareness of others and himself, loyalty to family and friends

[@Ascendingsol]

Fantastic post!❤🎉

[@anne-mariewalsh6308]

Thanks for showing "older" folks! I think there are lot of new blossoming relationships after divorce in mid-life!

[@marthatowler3057]

I’ve heard your mom’s story. I had been subscribed to your emails for a while. When I realized YOU were her baby I couldn’t believe it!

[@danmaromila4942]

Thank you very much for sharing ! I am strong now !

[@Litthrudarkness]

Not walking miles ahead of a woman, closeness, inquisitive nature, generosity- ability to listen

[@hiannahgus574]

Walking a distance apart from a person is often a trait of autism due to problems with social skills and proprioception. Autism is a spectrum disorder and most adults are undiagnosed.

[@LJK9]

​@@hiannahgus574 It's also a trait of grandiosity and narcissism.

[@lynclayton2077]

Matt, you have helped me find a new love of my life. Thank you for the steps in helping me find a good and loyal man...I can't thank you enough

[@noelg.5713]

I miss Bob! So glad I got to meet him and have a personal gift from him =)

[@pamelabennett5672]

Thank you! Sounds like good advise!

[@matboggs]

Glad it was helpful!

[@maryanneville4397]

i love a man who is full of surprises in a positive and roman way

[@ALLWORLDqweruiopasbjtyklmnzxdf]

Amazing❤🎉

[@belle108jc]

Qualities in a man are: emotional intelligence, financial savvy and generosity, compassion for humankind, animals, and plants, devoted commitment, consistent communication, and loving kindness.

[@breathingtree75]

Emotional intelligence! More specifically reflecting on observations he has made of his own behavior and how that could be improved. God that is attractive in a man!

[@arlenetubbs1146]

I find a man very attractive when he’s self-confident,not one that’s cocky.

[@themaggattack]

I just got ghosted- Again. This list reminds me of what I know I did wrong- Again. It's so hard for people with affective disorders and mood disorders to give and recieve healthy, sustainable love. I'm trying so hard to do better. I'm trying not to give up hope that I could find inner peace and stability, and that I could still meet someone new-someone right- and I could act right the next time, even though I messed it up again this time.

[@julieberg5951]

Matt, can you make video about get out of the friend zone, when I meet a guy I like to be in relationship with they always say you are nice girl but I just want to be friends then go out with girls who break there heart and I just a shoulder to cry on

[@hiannahgus574]

With all due respect, if the attraction is not there on their part, they will not want to move you into the dating from the friend zone . You will meet your guy who will be attracted to you. Trust in the process.

[@julieberg5951]

@@hiannahgus574 well that is just it every single guy I met just wants to be just friends no one is attracted to me

[@jennhawkins5356]

This is awesome! Apparently, I’ve grown over the years and have learned these things through my experiences and maturity in Christ (this was encouraging and affirming for me!). I think the things that I really value in a man are: His wisdom. Wisdom protects. It guards the relationship. When you have a man who has wisdom and you submit to him and his wisdom, that wisdom will act as a protective covering for you as his woman. It’ll protect him, it’ll protect you, and it’ll protect your children. I didn’t know how much I valued this until I met a man who saved the day for his family AND mine due to his rock-solid wisdom in God. I can also really admire a man who is hardworking yet present for his family. A man who you can see invests in the lives of those he loves.

[@annmoore8696]

Thank you for Sharing! 😊

[@AdaraBalabusta]

Are you married? I ask because it's one thing when submission to one's husband is an abstract concept and quite another when it's something one is obliged to do 24/7. No husband is wise all the time; both of mine made plenty of mistakes (although they were intelligent and educated). ♥

[@MsLilac88]

Mat, your relationship advice is very beneficial for my marriage. 😊 Thanks so much for sharing these relationship tips. 👍

[@cathy3878]

#1 would be an openness, a willingness to grove and build something with me. That was really tough to find because when men get out of their comfort zone, a steely stubbornness can set in. That leaves no where to go for me. Some men can get over that challenge if they are left alone to mull over it but many go into denial by pushing it aside hoping I wont push it further.

[@heathergrahame9647]

I enjoy being independent - to use your words "fill my own cup". But the more independent I become, the less desire and interest I have in a relationship with a man. Like, what's the point? I'm an introvert, so I enjoy my own company. And, in my relationship experience, men are really needy and become a drain on me.

[@themaggattack]

Relatable. In my past relationships, either men have been a drain on me or (I hate to admit) I've been a drain on them. I haven't (yet) been able to strike a balance where we both just bring eachother good energy. Maybe one day I'll have a good, sustainable relationship... if I keep doing the work. 🙏

[@feenixflame2601]

Thankyou I needed to hear this today ❤

[@lorraineglazar4353]

I always notice if a man has paid attention to what I have said in a previous conversation!

[@susanedwards5158]

I appreciate a strong man, who is Humble, A Christian man, I have him

[@carecafetips]

🙏Consistency and loyalty in men

[@rea.villegas]

All the things you said, we also look that from men

[@remarkable937]

Your mom is such a strong woman 🥰

[@JudithRicciardi]

It’s attractive to me when the man tuff with everybody around me but he is only gentle with me.

[@nicolecrystal6765]

Oh great you're in the family I knew there was something off about you right away

[@marie-sophiedromer4321]

What is the family?

[@wardahfadhel8171]

God bless your mom

[@nadianawaz1108]

Never want that variety in a man, just care ,attention and efforts towards me are enough.Actually we don't have that variety mindset. !

[@MyAGGirls]

How many women can pass the audition?

[@smilez4us]

Exactly. It's neurotic for a woman to have extreme highs and then also goes and quite mental no matter how exciting it may seem at times. It's out of control. The environment is very overbearing and harmful to children, and on the family system, and it's hard to know who is the child and who is the adult.

[@themaggattack]

Yes. Same with men. It applies to any parent.

[@AdaraBalabusta]

Well, as an involuntary single parent of five due to being widowed twice, my emotional strength is spent! I *am* needy! 🤣♥

[@Hansje-Loo]

But you can still laugh at your self 💪🏼😅❣️

[@hortensejones4050]

Yes! Navigating widowhood has made me involuntarily very needy. Embarrassing but true

[@andrearowe4815]

Hope you can find a support group for widows in your area.😊

[@jenifermayben9144]

I'm also a widow. I became a widow in my 30s, raising mine, his and our children. It can cause feelings of neediness & abandonment issues. Therapy does work to learn to overcome these feelings of inadequacy.

[@shaybee6893]

Your mom sounds great, I see where you get it.

[@DarlitaStephens]

I have these mindsets. The only thing that I concede that I am still working on is the white-hot hatred and anger that is now in my heart. The first 75% will go away when I leave US soil for good and the second will go away during my dinner meeting with the SM. After that, I will be emotionally void of negative emotions.

[@AdaraBalabusta]

May you be healed and happy. ♥

[@DarlitaStephens]

@@AdaraBalabusta Thank you. I really appreciate that.

[@meilingflesa8140]

I find it extremely attractive when my husband wants to spend time with me

[@karinesavard2016]

Actually men like the lazy bliss of nothingness so they do NOT want an ambitious woman AT ALL! And women want a loving husband, not a career freak either. So getting priorities straight is key in any relationship. Let your expectations be known and when too high, move over to a more low maintenance partner who is less needy.

[@themaggattack]

"The lazy bliss of nothingness" 🤣 Gotta admit, that sounds kinda nice! Wish I could have some of that!

[@wandastewart1553]

Why do you ALWAYS push sex before marriage

[@The14painting]

I would LOVE to follow your Mother!!!

[@tidamccarthy9312]

A man who can express his needs from the very beginning. Like, tell me straight why he approached me, is it because he is sexually attracting or having a crush. It is very normal to me if a man fancy a woman from her appearance. I never heard any man has no dirty mind when they fancy someone. Be honest at the beginning, so I know how to treat him. Keep it simple.

[@Risingphoenixx66]

I,m atracked to men who can fight, if it,s boxing, Kickboxing, whatever Because it makes me feel safe. And that,s what i want besides respect, empathy, care,passion, vulnerability. The downside to these men is the lack of mental stimulation because they,re not on my level of intelligence, that,s complicated🤔

[@Njvghvvnn]

My man if a UFC legend and one of the smartest I’ve known. You can find both but real men don’t act macho and over protective they only show that side if necessary so I’ve never seen it nor has any man who argued with him or looked at me wrong because he’s in control and mature and not a fighter in life just in profession and sport. You need to look for good guys not macho guys. He’s the biggest empath I’ve known

[@lisapitts2011]

I prefer purposeful vulnerability,Wisdom, Intellect, Passion,thoughtfulness,empathy,consideration,Patientce,fidelity,sence of humour his real infectionous wide smile respectful🌹🌺🌷🌼

[@LauraJulander]

Yes Matt Boggs I'm súre you already know that I pick up when I watched this video last night you qere invited me to the Freemason lodge to learn the degrees. You would have to stop by to pick my booty up and bring me to the facility that you hold your membership ŵith.